So that guy was insinuating that honesty is overrated and lying in good? The Devil exists (not saying its HIM, but Satan's influence is apparent), folks. Look no further. What happened to values? Honesty is good. Lying is bad. If you lie, you'll always get found out in the end. It might take time but eventually it will happen. The truth always prevails one way or another. Oh and yes, that's RIGHT. Have lots of pre marriage sex. Happiness is a dime a dozen. For pity's sake.
Rebecca - you go girl! But let's face it - these men do not have the ability to grasp what you are saying because they do not have the spirit of the Living God in them. They cannot comprehend unless God allows them to. And Living a life for Christ is the most exciting life a human being can live!!\
Ok, these guys are supposed to be "open-minded" liberals, and they scoff at Rebecca because she's a woman and young? How closed-minded and overly cynical can you be?!
@starofradiance Exactly. How can people think it's unrealistic to abstain from sex but not unrealistic to deprive themselves of calories for the sake of appearances? It's one of the lamest excuses for a lack of self-control!
@marsz17 Hahaha I agree with you completely. You know, I'm a registered Republican (although I first registered Democrat) but not because I pledge allegiance to the Republican Party or any particular politician. My first allegiance is to God and if any political agenda goes against His, then they don't have my vote. I think Rebecca has a lot of wisdom because of her devotion to God and I feel bad for the other guys mocking each other (Sean included).
I love Rebecca but i dont understand why she always have to revolve everything around "THE GUY" Im probably sure when she writes in her books she is giving more details on her thoughts but its not about the guys and she needs to say that on T.V. Im 22 year old woman and still a virgin but im not waiting for my husband. If I had that mentality i wouldnt be a virgin. Im a virgin because im being faithful to God.
@NDionneG005 Obeying him is important to me. Ignoring my flesh is my way of showing god that I care about his commands. I could care less about what my future husband thinks of me. And yes i have a VERY high sex drive. But life is about at LEAST TRYING to kill the flesh, not to feed it. I refuse to give in.
Thank you Rebecca for shining light in the midst of men who are full of darkness. Thank you for your awesomeness and for being such a wonderful role model! The man in the middle is dark and miserable and needs to open his heart. Very disturbing listening to the 2 on the left.
I commented before I got all the way to the end. What is wrong with matrimonial sex?? I didn't have sex until I was married and neither did my husband. It's ridiculous (IMO) to compare women to cars that you need to test drive before "buying." What a disrespectful statement.
@GMLFire Very true! However, he made himself sound like a pig. You'd think by the time you reach his age, you'd be able to make a point WITHOUT making yourself sound like a pompous jerk. He couldn't reply to her in a decent tone or with one decent comment the whole time. He didn't have to agree, but he could have treated her with an ounce of respect like any other human being.
I loved all of her seemingly little, actually huge, zings she says throughout the discussion. I have looked up to her since I was in my teens. I'm 26 now & still admire & respect her so much.
The ones who look foolish IS NOT Sean or Rebecca. The other two are so deceived by the lies of this Babylonian culture..."I am and there is none besides me".
@kellywells11 Keep it up! I'm not a virgin anymore, sadly. I'm 16, I lost my vcard when I was 14. I regret it so much! Dont listen 2 people who tell u it's impossible 2 wait n that you'll eventually give it up 2 someone b4 u get married. It's a total lie. And definitely don't do it 2 try and get sum1 2 love u. I did it 4 that reason n I regret it. You're doing wonderfully and u are a powerful rolemodel for the young ppl of 2day! God bless u and keep u throughout ur journey!
@girlwithamission95 Thanks. :) I'm sorry about your situation but as Rebecca said on her 'ALive in Florida' concert, if you haven't waited, you can still ask God to forgive and He will. There's always your future husband out there somewhere too. :)
Thank you Rebecca! I'm sure that was hard to stand up to those men, and you were amazing! I was cheering you on, and I really thank you for standing your ground. There are some of us left who believe exactly what you believe and want to wait for the person that God has for us! Thank you for being our voice, I pray for you so much to stay strong, and to do what God wants you to do! Again thank you so much!
My wife and I waited till we got marred but it still didn't mean that it was good particularly. However I can now see that it's really not worth getting hung up about and ruining your life over either. Waiting doesn't guarantee it will be good but it also isn't such a big deal anyway.
Purity was mocked and ridiculed and Rebecca did FANTASTIC! Jay Thomas was vicious towards her and she stood her ground! It makes me extra proud to be pure! Way to go Rebecca!!! Rebecca is the perfect example that a person can be modern, gorgeous, intelligent AND pure.
This was a great debate you had Rebecca, and wether they except it or not, they are not able to deny they truth of purity and moral values. Deep down I believe both these gentlmen would love to have a moral pure role model in there kids life only to know they are not able to provide it themselves because they don't know the Lord Jesus. Especially when there kids are developing the conciquences of imorality in there lives. Preach it sister.
I was a virgin until I got married at 21. I made the "True Love Waits" commitment to God, myself, those I date, my future mate and my future cnildren to stay pure until mar
Yay Rebecca! Thanks for standing up for us! You did great!! We love you!
EnginSengin 3 days ago
So that guy was insinuating that honesty is overrated and lying in good? The Devil exists (not saying its HIM, but Satan's influence is apparent), folks. Look no further. What happened to values? Honesty is good. Lying is bad. If you lie, you'll always get found out in the end. It might take time but eventually it will happen. The truth always prevails one way or another. Oh and yes, that's RIGHT. Have lots of pre marriage sex. Happiness is a dime a dozen. For pity's sake.
Kaagh178 2 weeks ago
Rebecca has more wisdom in her pinky than Jay Thomas will ever possess in his entire grown up life, just saying
rsweeney8561 3 weeks ago
Rebecca - you go girl! But let's face it - these men do not have the ability to grasp what you are saying because they do not have the spirit of the Living God in them. They cannot comprehend unless God allows them to. And Living a life for Christ is the most exciting life a human being can live!!\
rsweeney8561 3 weeks ago
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Lizzeeyful 3 weeks ago
Ok, these guys are supposed to be "open-minded" liberals, and they scoff at Rebecca because she's a woman and young? How closed-minded and overly cynical can you be?!
GeorgiaGRITS27 1 month ago 2
RSJ is absolutely gorgeous.
Calbenmike 1 month ago 2
Purity is often scorned as unrealistic, even by people in the church. She stands as proof positive that they are wrong.
starofradiance 1 month ago 2
@starofradiance Exactly. How can people think it's unrealistic to abstain from sex but not unrealistic to deprive themselves of calories for the sake of appearances? It's one of the lamest excuses for a lack of self-control!
rubyred0039 1 month ago
Both of the common taters to the right of RSJ expressed points of view that reflect the moral degeneration of our country.
renohuskerdu 1 month ago
I meant those two "men" on her right hand, which is the left of our screen. Just sayin...
renohuskerdu 1 month ago
seriously, is there any discussion program left where they let people finish their sentence? rebecca did great by the way (:
marsz17 1 month ago
@marsz17 Hahaha I agree with you completely. You know, I'm a registered Republican (although I first registered Democrat) but not because I pledge allegiance to the Republican Party or any particular politician. My first allegiance is to God and if any political agenda goes against His, then they don't have my vote. I think Rebecca has a lot of wisdom because of her devotion to God and I feel bad for the other guys mocking each other (Sean included).
impasse0124 1 month ago
yeh rebecca st james
dionstrezlecki 1 month ago
I love Rebecca but i dont understand why she always have to revolve everything around "THE GUY" Im probably sure when she writes in her books she is giving more details on her thoughts but its not about the guys and she needs to say that on T.V. Im 22 year old woman and still a virgin but im not waiting for my husband. If I had that mentality i wouldnt be a virgin. Im a virgin because im being faithful to God.
NDionneG005 1 month ago
@NDionneG005 Obeying him is important to me. Ignoring my flesh is my way of showing god that I care about his commands. I could care less about what my future husband thinks of me. And yes i have a VERY high sex drive. But life is about at LEAST TRYING to kill the flesh, not to feed it. I refuse to give in.
NDionneG005 1 month ago
Thank you Rebecca for shining light in the midst of men who are full of darkness. Thank you for your awesomeness and for being such a wonderful role model! The man in the middle is dark and miserable and needs to open his heart. Very disturbing listening to the 2 on the left.
MKOkamakana 2 months ago 2
RSJ inspired me on 'Transform' back in 2000 to wait, and I wait...10 years until my wedding day in 2010. She continues to inspire here in 2011...
dmusiclove 2 months ago
Go Rebecca!! She is an amazing woman of God!
TanyaSaduskiLondon 2 months ago 2
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WilmarWhiteWorm 2 months ago
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WilmarWhiteWorm 2 months ago
I commented before I got all the way to the end. What is wrong with matrimonial sex?? I didn't have sex until I was married and neither did my husband. It's ridiculous (IMO) to compare women to cars that you need to test drive before "buying." What a disrespectful statement.
lisa227382 2 months ago 5
@lisa227382 consider the source--a middle-aged loser trying to sell his radio show.
GMLFire 2 months ago 2
@GMLFire Very true! However, he made himself sound like a pig. You'd think by the time you reach his age, you'd be able to make a point WITHOUT making yourself sound like a pompous jerk. He couldn't reply to her in a decent tone or with one decent comment the whole time. He didn't have to agree, but he could have treated her with an ounce of respect like any other human being.
lisa227382 2 months ago 3
Man, that one guy was viscious. What a jerk!
lisa227382 2 months ago 2
I guess the idea of sin is completely out if sight. Hell is real and people will regret it to the teeth.
sgal88 2 months ago
I loved all of her seemingly little, actually huge, zings she says throughout the discussion. I have looked up to her since I was in my teens. I'm 26 now & still admire & respect her so much.
luvmusic85 2 months ago
The ones who look foolish IS NOT Sean or Rebecca. The other two are so deceived by the lies of this Babylonian culture..."I am and there is none besides me".
dmsneddon50 2 months ago
I'm so proud of Rebecca for standing her ground like she did. :) She's a role model to me to wait until I'm married & I'm only 17!! :)
kellywells11 2 months ago 2
@kellywells11 Keep it up! I'm not a virgin anymore, sadly. I'm 16, I lost my vcard when I was 14. I regret it so much! Dont listen 2 people who tell u it's impossible 2 wait n that you'll eventually give it up 2 someone b4 u get married. It's a total lie. And definitely don't do it 2 try and get sum1 2 love u. I did it 4 that reason n I regret it. You're doing wonderfully and u are a powerful rolemodel for the young ppl of 2day! God bless u and keep u throughout ur journey!
girlwithamission95 2 months ago
@girlwithamission95 Thanks. :) I'm sorry about your situation but as Rebecca said on her 'ALive in Florida' concert, if you haven't waited, you can still ask God to forgive and He will. There's always your future husband out there somewhere too. :)
kellywells11 2 months ago
eu sou a única Brasileira aki será???
TheRebecckah 2 months ago
i study psychology and it is scientifically proven that married people enjoy and have better sex even than those who cohabitate.
astrozier1 2 months ago 3
I cannot believe that he said that it will take 7-8 years for a guy to not want to sleep with a girl friend. Does that have any basis?
dariagurl 2 months ago
Takin' so much flack, and still standin' strong. God is smiling, Rebecca. ;]
anahufft 2 months ago 3
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AriaInTheSky 2 months ago
Thank you Rebecca! I'm sure that was hard to stand up to those men, and you were amazing! I was cheering you on, and I really thank you for standing your ground. There are some of us left who believe exactly what you believe and want to wait for the person that God has for us! Thank you for being our voice, I pray for you so much to stay strong, and to do what God wants you to do! Again thank you so much!
mwsjunior 2 months ago
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estheryun54 2 months ago
Thank you so much for making a great case for virginity! We aren't the freaks people want to make us out to be. You represent us well! :)
heyitsmejc 2 months ago 5
My wife and I waited till we got marred but it still didn't mean that it was good particularly. However I can now see that it's really not worth getting hung up about and ruining your life over either. Waiting doesn't guarantee it will be good but it also isn't such a big deal anyway.
philipappleyard 2 months ago
Jay Thomas was being such a complete jerk to Rebecca, yet she held her own wonderfully!
May God continue to bless Rebecca, her marriage, and her ministry!
Adamguy2003 2 months ago 5
Purity was mocked and ridiculed and Rebecca did FANTASTIC! Jay Thomas was vicious towards her and she stood her ground! It makes me extra proud to be pure! Way to go Rebecca!!! Rebecca is the perfect example that a person can be modern, gorgeous, intelligent AND pure.
KensyLynn 2 months ago 26
This was a great debate you had Rebecca, and wether they except it or not, they are not able to deny they truth of purity and moral values. Deep down I believe both these gentlmen would love to have a moral pure role model in there kids life only to know they are not able to provide it themselves because they don't know the Lord Jesus. Especially when there kids are developing the conciquences of imorality in there lives. Preach it sister.
MiniCaptainN 2 months ago 3
until marriage. It may not always be easy but it is possible. Purity is the way to go!
Jesusfan4life 2 months ago
I was a virgin until I got married at 21. I made the "True Love Waits" commitment to God, myself, those I date, my future mate and my future cnildren to stay pure until mar
Jesusfan4life 2 months ago 3
I saw this live...You did good, Rebecca!! You made a clear case...
seaside1991 2 months ago
good job Rebecca! God bless you!
cs10sami 2 months ago 2
I was a virgin until I was 31 when I married my wife, who also was a virgin. We still exist!
RockitD 2 months ago 21