@stotan88 I haven't shown it yet to my class but i think me and my friend did a good job. I think I'll put it up when I'm done. Wish me luck! Everyone has been given B's so far, I want an A. hehe
These are both really powerful and get the message across well. Good job! These should be on TV, they are much better than the abuse PSA's I've seen, and it's really something people should know about.
BREAK THE CYCLE AND END THE NIGHTMARE. Why do women stay and call it love? Why did I stay for as long as I did? I want to share my own experience to help even ONE other person to break the cycle of abuse and end the nightmare. Please be that person! Love, Sarah
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This is good. Speaking as a victim of domestic and child abuse myself, these are spot on. Most videos people make about the subject are usually inaccurate, and always only focus on part of the problem. These videos show more to it. These would be really good on tv to raise awareness, or for an advert for a charity that helps victims.
"speaking as a victim" do you really have to qualify a comment with that statement? Or do you like to perpetuate the victimization over and over again within yourself and others for attention? I've experienced DV, alcoholism and drug addiction, but I don't start every statement: "speaking as a victim/addict/alcoholic survivor......" because it just empowers the abuser, the sickness and plays the little victim violin for the pity party for one...
@psychoJIMstunts Actually, I included that because there are a lot of people out there who would challenge certain comments unless it's by someone who has been through it themselves. When making comments on the subject before, but without including that, people have always said "What makes you know about it, I bet you don't know nothing about it", whereas if I actually include that fact, they don't say it.
@psychoJIMstunts And I'm not after sympathy in making this comment. Not at all. Quite the opposite actually. If I was after sympathy, I wouldn't be mentioning it online. I would be telling the people I know. If I was after sympathy, I would've told loads of people about it, but I haven't. Almost noone I know knows about it.
And I don't perpetuate the victimisation, again quite the opposite. And again, if I was trying to do this I would be telling everyone about it all the time, but I don't.
I really like the 2nd one-- so many children do experience that, and a commercial like that could help increase public awareness of this serious issue
Wow that was really good work. I was crying when watching the first one. The second one was interesting too, because it shows that even listening to their parents fighting can traumatise children, almost like an indirect abuse.
Thank you for doing a video about this. I was verbally and physically abused until I was 19, and moved out (I'm 28 now). I am still a victim. I have spent years trying to repair my self esteem. I still can't speak to my mother. I truly hate her for what she did. And for the verbal abuse she continues to do. I am trying to learn to get past it, and let it go, but it is very hard. Your video made me cry, but also reminded me that I am not alone. Thank you!
wow I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. I couldn't even begin to imagine the hardship you went through and are still going through. I'm glad the video I made was able to make an impact enough; it was my intention to let people know how terrible domestic abuse can be and open their eyes to something that is often swept under the rug.
I hope that you too can get past it. My friend, who was also abused, suggested counselling. Not because there is something wrong with us, but because we have deep seated anger and emotional issues, and need to let them go. It's hard to do on your own. The anger festers, and the self esteem issues may get better, but not really. Professionals are better equipped to help us let go and move on, in a healthy, effective way. I'll be setting up sessions soon, just so I can let go. I hope you do too.
They don't usually need to. As my boyfriend says, I'm a woman, so I often tell way too much about myself! hahah! I do get people giving their opinion about me, but then again, I usually ask. I'm pretty outgoing and friendly with people, so I don't really mind. The abuse took it's toll more on my self-esteem. I have a very hard time accepting compliments, or believing that I'm pretty. I used to think I was ugly, and I used to cry a lot, because of my mom. I'm better, but still need work.
Oh, I see. So when you are told something good about yourself, you don't want to believe it. and You obviously received that mentality from your mom. Well believe it or not, I think that's sort of a good thing. It's not good that you think you're ugly, but that you don't listen to people's opinions.
I'd say listen, but listen with attitude of skepticism. Anything anyone says to you shouldn't phase you in the least. Good or bad. Just take it as a suggestion, and move on.
yeah, abuse casts a shadow the length of a life time, i donno how far that is myself seeing as im only 13 but i was abused aswell, verbally and physically at home, then in foster care i was sexually abused and neglected. but one thing they ALL did was throw pepper at me...im allergic. they all used that as my punishment so i tryed to behave
xxrockerpersonxx I'm sorry to hear about what you are going through. Just remember, you aren't alone. And you mean the world to somebody! Never believe the lies they tell you. They do that to make themselves feel better. You are important, and you are loved! You are a beautiful person, and nothing they can say or do to you can change that! They are unhappy, so they take it out on you. Don't let them bring you down. Don't let them take your happiness away from you! **HUGS**
@xxrockerpersonxx What they did to you was and is extremely cruel. Remember that none of this is your fault! You're stronger than your abusers will ever know, and NOBODY should ever throw pepper at you whether you're allergic to it or not! Abuse is NOT cool and the ones who endure or who have endured the abuse are 100% NOT TO BLAME!
the 2nd one doesn't quite indicate domestic abuse, just the parents arguing in the background. if you had added the sound of the father beating the mother, it would've been better.
haven't you heard of 'shades of gray'? just because you argue doesn't mean you're engaging in domestic violence. i felt the 2nd clip didn't protray enough verbal abuse in the dialogue. these psa messages have to hit hard to be effective.
Yeah I agree. I wasn't too happy with the sound in the 1st one, but I've learned a lot since last year so I'm sure with my projects this coming year in school I will be able to make things a lot better than they were :)
my friend is being abused by his dad and idk what to do he wont let me tell anyone. i have also been abused but i am out of it now. i really really wanna help my frined. what should i do??
WOW! The second PSA really hit home! I am 38 now, but seeing that totally took me back to when I was 10!!!! It really affected me. Great job at catching the essence of how it felt! I totally regressed back to when I was little. Both commercials were great, but the second one.....WOW!
These are really good. As someone who has experienced the two types of abuse you have shown, I can honestly say you captured the true horror that it can be. BTW your actors were great.
As someone who lived through abuse (and ran away when I was 16), I can say that your first PSA is correct. Sadly, one of the horrendous effects of child abuse is that it takes years of therapy to overcome (and some never do). Keep up the good work! Hopefully, awareness of this "hidden" epidemic will increase and fewer kids will have to go through abuse.
i am so sorry to hear that *hug*. I am glad there is truth in these PSAs and that it might help make more people aware of the true horrors of household abuse.
Unlike a lot of parents who argue like that, day or night, my parents would stop and explan the problem if I were just around a corner or sitting on the steps listening to them. Knowing that lots of people (grown-up children of abusive parents) deal or have dealt with much worse verbal abuse like this, more than I have, I am one who is against all abuse towards children, especially domestic abuse, sexual abuse, and all other violent abuse parents or any adult uses towards children.
they're cool, esp the second one looks quiet professional, and i like the idea... i'm about to create a PSA for a class at UNI and i'm here tryiing to snatch some ideas : )))) good job though x
I think that some channels should start airing that second one right now, and pay you a good sum for the use. Seriously, I think that's air time worthy. You have great creative talent!
Excellent job! The "lullaby" one really captures the breakdown of the family dynamic and its movement away from the nurturing and comforting place it should be.
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Mark10Fischer 8 months ago
Those are really good. I'm doing a PSA project in english at the moment so ive been watching some.
Twifan12 9 months ago
@Twifan12 thanks! good luck with your project!
stotan88 9 months ago
@stotan88 I haven't shown it yet to my class but i think me and my friend did a good job. I think I'll put it up when I'm done. Wish me luck! Everyone has been given B's so far, I want an A. hehe
Twifan12 9 months ago
You seem like such a nice guy. And well done too. :)
TheFlicka28 9 months ago
These are both really powerful and get the message across well. Good job! These should be on TV, they are much better than the abuse PSA's I've seen, and it's really something people should know about.
njishottlikeatamale 1 year ago
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BREAK THE CYCLE AND END THE NIGHTMARE. Why do women stay and call it love? Why did I stay for as long as I did? I want to share my own experience to help even ONE other person to break the cycle of abuse and end the nightmare. Please be that person! Love, Sarah
Go to Amazon.com for my book HONEYMOON AND HELL: A Memoir of Abuse ($5.99)
MsSarah729 1 year ago
the second one in particular was very well done, thought provoking and beautiful as usual dan :)
redhot654 1 year ago
great job! I still hide tho
lovstormyweather 1 year ago
u should do that for a living............great work 9/10
bigz501 1 year ago
I liked in the first one how some of the people speaking didn't look directly at the camera. It felt more honest that way.
The second was great. I think if the fighting sounds louder in the second, it would of really impacted the viewer even more.
Great job. There should be more videos like this creating awareness!
LeBlancCeline 1 year ago
If the girl could listen to the 2nd lullaby as if it were a rap song, then all would be good.
TofH 1 year ago
This is good. Speaking as a victim of domestic and child abuse myself, these are spot on. Most videos people make about the subject are usually inaccurate, and always only focus on part of the problem. These videos show more to it. These would be really good on tv to raise awareness, or for an advert for a charity that helps victims.
HarleyHarlsHerbert 1 year ago
@HarleyHarlsHerbert Thank you for the kind words! I am sorry to hear you had to experience this sort of thing first hand. All the best to you :)
stotan88 1 year ago
@HarleyHarlsHerbert
"speaking as a victim" do you really have to qualify a comment with that statement? Or do you like to perpetuate the victimization over and over again within yourself and others for attention? I've experienced DV, alcoholism and drug addiction, but I don't start every statement: "speaking as a victim/addict/alcoholic survivor......" because it just empowers the abuser, the sickness and plays the little victim violin for the pity party for one...
psychoJIMstunts 1 year ago
@psychoJIMstunts Actually, I included that because there are a lot of people out there who would challenge certain comments unless it's by someone who has been through it themselves. When making comments on the subject before, but without including that, people have always said "What makes you know about it, I bet you don't know nothing about it", whereas if I actually include that fact, they don't say it.
HarleyHarlsHerbert 1 year ago
@psychoJIMstunts And I'm not after sympathy in making this comment. Not at all. Quite the opposite actually. If I was after sympathy, I wouldn't be mentioning it online. I would be telling the people I know. If I was after sympathy, I would've told loads of people about it, but I haven't. Almost noone I know knows about it.
And I don't perpetuate the victimisation, again quite the opposite. And again, if I was trying to do this I would be telling everyone about it all the time, but I don't.
HarleyHarlsHerbert 1 year ago
PSA's were okay, but horrible white guy in the beggining
daturkeyvaginamelonz 1 year ago
The leading predictor/determiner of DV injuries to women is women who physically attack first/repeatedly.
To ignore these undeniable facts is to not care at all about women's safety.
More mothers abuse and murder their children than fathers do @ 2:1 ratio (DHHS, CDC, DoJ...)
The CDC BIG DV study showed women usually being the sole partener abuser (at higher than their child abuse rate) - 71%
Search: Dr. Martin Fiebert domestic violence
KNOW THE TRUTH ON DV !
addvoc8 1 year ago
These are very well done! Thank you for posting
chard16507 1 year ago
@chard16507 no problem, thank you for watching :)
stotan88 1 year ago
I really like the 2nd one-- so many children do experience that, and a commercial like that could help increase public awareness of this serious issue
weteachers2 2 years ago
You did a wonderful job on these.
VavieDugan 2 years ago
ya, the second one is way better. comparing the abuse to a lullaby really hits home the pont.
synchronium24 2 years ago
Wow that was really good work. I was crying when watching the first one. The second one was interesting too, because it shows that even listening to their parents fighting can traumatise children, almost like an indirect abuse.
JeanySullivan 2 years ago
Thank you for doing a video about this. I was verbally and physically abused until I was 19, and moved out (I'm 28 now). I am still a victim. I have spent years trying to repair my self esteem. I still can't speak to my mother. I truly hate her for what she did. And for the verbal abuse she continues to do. I am trying to learn to get past it, and let it go, but it is very hard. Your video made me cry, but also reminded me that I am not alone. Thank you!
Ravent69 2 years ago 4
wow I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. I couldn't even begin to imagine the hardship you went through and are still going through. I'm glad the video I made was able to make an impact enough; it was my intention to let people know how terrible domestic abuse can be and open their eyes to something that is often swept under the rug.
All the best :)
Dan..
stotan88 2 years ago
Same here man, only maybe not to the extent of your case, I always struggle with my self-esteem.
dzpisx 2 years ago
I hope that you too can get past it. My friend, who was also abused, suggested counselling. Not because there is something wrong with us, but because we have deep seated anger and emotional issues, and need to let them go. It's hard to do on your own. The anger festers, and the self esteem issues may get better, but not really. Professionals are better equipped to help us let go and move on, in a healthy, effective way. I'll be setting up sessions soon, just so I can let go. I hope you do too.
Ravent69 2 years ago
Hey thanks man! Do you know how hard it is to find honestly nice people in this world? At least I found one.
Well you just have to know that what you do isn't up to other people, including your mother. Do things for the better of yourself.
I have one question, do people frequently give their opinions about you?
dzpisx 2 years ago
They don't usually need to. As my boyfriend says, I'm a woman, so I often tell way too much about myself! hahah! I do get people giving their opinion about me, but then again, I usually ask. I'm pretty outgoing and friendly with people, so I don't really mind. The abuse took it's toll more on my self-esteem. I have a very hard time accepting compliments, or believing that I'm pretty. I used to think I was ugly, and I used to cry a lot, because of my mom. I'm better, but still need work.
Ravent69 2 years ago
Oh, I see. So when you are told something good about yourself, you don't want to believe it. and You obviously received that mentality from your mom. Well believe it or not, I think that's sort of a good thing. It's not good that you think you're ugly, but that you don't listen to people's opinions.
I'd say listen, but listen with attitude of skepticism. Anything anyone says to you shouldn't phase you in the least. Good or bad. Just take it as a suggestion, and move on.
-Respect.
dzpisx 2 years ago
yeah, abuse casts a shadow the length of a life time, i donno how far that is myself seeing as im only 13 but i was abused aswell, verbally and physically at home, then in foster care i was sexually abused and neglected. but one thing they ALL did was throw pepper at me...im allergic. they all used that as my punishment so i tryed to behave
xxrockerpersonxx 2 years ago
xxrockerpersonxx I'm sorry to hear about what you are going through. Just remember, you aren't alone. And you mean the world to somebody! Never believe the lies they tell you. They do that to make themselves feel better. You are important, and you are loved! You are a beautiful person, and nothing they can say or do to you can change that! They are unhappy, so they take it out on you. Don't let them bring you down. Don't let them take your happiness away from you! **HUGS**
Ravent69 2 years ago
@xxrockerpersonxx What they did to you was and is extremely cruel. Remember that none of this is your fault! You're stronger than your abusers will ever know, and NOBODY should ever throw pepper at you whether you're allergic to it or not! Abuse is NOT cool and the ones who endure or who have endured the abuse are 100% NOT TO BLAME!
radavis76 1 year ago
@radavis76 [donnie smashes a pound of finely ground pepper into the faker's open herpes sores...]
donniedarko66999 1 year ago
we have a winner
to bad all the feminists would never allow women yelling at men on TV
EarthsBirthRight 2 years ago
very well put together, good job!
PeeshawYO 2 years ago
the 2nd one doesn't quite indicate domestic abuse, just the parents arguing in the background. if you had added the sound of the father beating the mother, it would've been better.
endlsswing 2 years ago
Arguing is domestic violence. Haven't you heard of verbal abuse
Gilch30 2 years ago
haven't you heard of 'shades of gray'? just because you argue doesn't mean you're engaging in domestic violence. i felt the 2nd clip didn't protray enough verbal abuse in the dialogue. these psa messages have to hit hard to be effective.
endlsswing 2 years ago
Well that brings back memories....
angelicawalker123 2 years ago
Aw, these are sad. :( Thanks for choosing this serious topic. It isn't covered enough, so I'm glad to know that somebody is covering the subject.
violettay 2 years ago
Well Done! really makes the point
it would be nice if you re-do the sound quality & re-post
meow1964 2 years ago
Yeah I agree. I wasn't too happy with the sound in the 1st one, but I've learned a lot since last year so I'm sure with my projects this coming year in school I will be able to make things a lot better than they were :)
Thanks for the comment!
stotan88 2 years ago
my friend is being abused by his dad and idk what to do he wont let me tell anyone. i have also been abused but i am out of it now. i really really wanna help my frined. what should i do??
coolash6 2 years ago
tell!!!
EricEvansAKADaMan 2 years ago
WOW! The second PSA really hit home! I am 38 now, but seeing that totally took me back to when I was 10!!!! It really affected me. Great job at catching the essence of how it felt! I totally regressed back to when I was little. Both commercials were great, but the second one.....WOW!
hoganskid 2 years ago
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE MUSIC VIDEO PROMO ...if you allow him ....***female rapper***
LEMOY121 2 years ago
These are really good. As someone who has experienced the two types of abuse you have shown, I can honestly say you captured the true horror that it can be. BTW your actors were great.
nmgnzlz91 2 years ago
thank you!! and i am sorry to hear you had to go through something like that. best wishes :)
stotan88 2 years ago
Good work! Let's keep the word out there! It's the only way to stop the violence!
1234bixby 2 years ago
As someone who lived through abuse (and ran away when I was 16), I can say that your first PSA is correct. Sadly, one of the horrendous effects of child abuse is that it takes years of therapy to overcome (and some never do). Keep up the good work! Hopefully, awareness of this "hidden" epidemic will increase and fewer kids will have to go through abuse.
christensenlow 2 years ago
i am so sorry to hear that *hug*. I am glad there is truth in these PSAs and that it might help make more people aware of the true horrors of household abuse.
Thanks for the comment!
stotan88 2 years ago
Unlike a lot of parents who argue like that, day or night, my parents would stop and explan the problem if I were just around a corner or sitting on the steps listening to them. Knowing that lots of people (grown-up children of abusive parents) deal or have dealt with much worse verbal abuse like this, more than I have, I am one who is against all abuse towards children, especially domestic abuse, sexual abuse, and all other violent abuse parents or any adult uses towards children.
1985Nebraska 2 years ago
crap...
DansHavis 2 years ago
AW SNAP
Zeppelinemg 3 years ago
how cute r u ! ....
RoxyJade17 3 years ago
Wow, the seonc one really touches the heart. Wow. :) Awesome job!
PammieChan 3 years ago
Very good job well done keep up the good work.
alexisasay 3 years ago
These were really good. I am doing my senior project on Domestic Violence's Effects on Children. Thank you for these!
cchad139 3 years ago 5
they're cool, esp the second one looks quiet professional, and i like the idea... i'm about to create a PSA for a class at UNI and i'm here tryiing to snatch some ideas : )))) good job though x
osamaO4 3 years ago 3
thank you for the input! :) i appreciate it. good luck with your project as well!
stotan88 3 years ago
I liked them both =)
Especially the second one. Can totally relate
blackroseborn89 3 years ago 2
i thought these were both great but the second one especially
cyphersbird 3 years ago 2
Good job. The second one really touches your heart the most. They're both good at getting the message across.
megan5002 3 years ago
well done i really like it, i worked in child care and abuse was common
sophieingham 3 years ago 3
EXCELLENT WORK!!!!
ChouLian23 3 years ago 2
Excellent job!!
juleeyadee 3 years ago 2
wow..i think they were both awesome...the second one was better though :]] good job
sambabii 3 years ago 7
lulz that chick is wearing a mario shirt
omglolpoop 3 years ago
fake.
GeezizJooz 3 years ago
Nice color choice on the walls ya got there.
MithrilXSV 3 years ago 3
very nice, very classy portrayal in the second video...I love the quote about the lullaby..
crystalnjonathan 3 years ago
The first one's good, yeah, weird audio... but I really like the second one.
gnomeelder 3 years ago
i think that this was simply great!
lookafteru 3 years ago
I prefer the second one. Good Job.
chirio87 4 years ago
Good job.....you got a great future in this type of work(:
Keep up!
ArieRotshtein 4 years ago
Yeah dude it was great and it was a good topic to cover also
Daltonp3 4 years ago
wow...i loved the second one. It hit me real hard. So I think it did its' job. Good work dan!
kirbyboo 4 years ago
Woah! Great topic!
I really liked them both, the second was my favourite too. Great job! You got the message across.
MCRforever66 4 years ago
They're both great, I love the 2nd one.
NorthSouth89 4 years ago
Meaningful messages and a job well done.
yescandles 4 years ago
Both are very well done. Bravo.
kipesquire 4 years ago
Excellent work. They were both great. Keep up the great job!
GrandpaJim777 4 years ago
aw i loved both of them, they were really good!
DinoSteph87 4 years ago
I LOVED THEM BOTH
hottie52991 4 years ago
Great work, especially the 2nd one!
BansheeNC 4 years ago
Wow! Those were great! Awesome job, Dan!
EStandsForE 4 years ago
I think you did an excellent job!
=]
wreckofthedaylove 4 years ago
nice video, Dan.
awesomeman098 4 years ago
I think that some channels should start airing that second one right now, and pay you a good sum for the use. Seriously, I think that's air time worthy. You have great creative talent!
Aaroncast86 4 years ago
wow thanks aaron :) that really means a lot! i apprecaite the kind words!!
stotan88 4 years ago
Hard hitting
ArandomNutter 4 years ago
Excellent job! The "lullaby" one really captures the breakdown of the family dynamic and its movement away from the nurturing and comforting place it should be.
amcotigrr 4 years ago