@amnah10000 So happy to hear that, I love having new readers! Oh, it's just the extra liner before I got a lighting kit, haha. Once I got the proper lighting, I didn't need the extra makeup. But thank you for your kind words. Hopefully I can improve the internal looks inshallah!
@paleface8 I'm not understanding how not taking a name means you're not serving your husband. Or how keeping your dad's name means you're serving your dad?
@paleface8 Only part of it. As a man's reward in Islam is in being good to his wife. But the name has nothing to do with goodness. If that were the case then a man would have to take on some identity of his wife. Part of my right is in keeping my name. Maybe your comment wasn't clear? Please clarify.
I'm not gonna take my hubby's name. I'm my own person, I come from my own family, and he from his. And my babies are getting hyphenated names lol. Not that I care about lineage at ALL but I feel like hey, it's both of our kids and I'm prob gonna do most of the work (especially labor pains?!) so the kid gets both. Or I know a family where the girls took the mom's last name and the boys took the dad's last name, and they keep doing that with every generation. Hm maybe I'll do that, idk.
@TangySweet14 Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Your babies are going to have long names! Have you thought about giving your last name as your child's middle name or do you plan on hyphenating?
@sliceofl No prob, I love your vids. Mashallah, you're great!
I've heard of ppl giving their maiden name as the middle name, but I feel like it's not the same. I might do the thing where the girls get my last name and the boys can have their dad's name. If I don't have any girls, the boys'll get nice, long, hyphenated names =)
In Latin America we keep both our last names, even now that I studying in the us I plan to keep my last name allways it'spart of who I am I carry part of my moms and dads family with me and I want also my children to carry a part of me
Im a christian and i think if a woman doesnt take her husband's last name, thats shes married as far as men and society goes but that God doesnt recognize it. There is a good and bad thing to this. If your married , your still commiting sin of fornication. And if you got divorced , there is no punishment for divorcement seeing that your union wasnt recognized by God. This could be a way of escape for alot of you- its not your fault the woman wont commit fully!
@paleface8 Interesting, I didn't know in christianity that it wasn't recognized by God if you didn't take your hubby's name.
Also could you clarify the last sentence? I didn't understand what you meant about it being an escape, or what that had to do with the woman not committing..? Thanks!
@TangySweet14 there is alot in the bible thats not in the bible , lol , I mean that depending on the level of wisdom you have recieved from God to understand his word and creation. It doesnt mean someone else is smarter , just hasnt recieved from God yet. The church is the bride of Christ and can only recieve his name and leave our former life behind. WE are sealed in the forehead by the name of God and his alone. God's children are heavily punished by God(not by man) for divorce.
@TangySweet14 If our Lord will not recieve a bride that does not recieve him fully and forsake all for him. God will not except marriages that women carry their old names, even as middle names. No man can serve two masters or woman foor that matter. You either carry your husbands name or your fathers, who will you serve? This is insanity to the world but so is all knowledge!!
@paleface8 Wow I've never heard any of this before, my christian friends aren't very religious. I did know that many years ago divorce was looked down upon due to religion, but I didn't know it was so severe. In Islam it's only very disliked by God. And there has to be a VERY good reason for the divorce, meaning it's a last resort. So a husband is a wife's master in Christianity? Btw Are u part of a certain school in Christianity (baptist, lutheran, presbyterian,etc?) Or are you just christian?
@TangySweet14 Im just a christian but my interpretation from the bible differs from any organized sect. I think most preachers lack the wisdom and the knowledge of the bible and the reason is that deep down inside they are afraid to ask for the truth because they are scared that God is not real and their questions will fall to the ground. But a child knows their father's voice and will hear him and fear the voice of another!
@paleface8 Hm yea, I've heard a lot of ppl, especially today's younger generations, are finding it harder and harder to take preachers seriously for various reasons. Well it's good that you took initiative to look for God on your own!
@TangySweet14 God protects women because he made them lesser than man(in his law, not his creation).God is the head of man and man is the head of woman. But if a man treats his wife badly then God will allow him to be treated badly, so that the man can learn and change! If he over burdens her than God will allow him to be over burdened himself.But if he treats her right , then God will allow himself to be treated right in his life.
@paleface8 Ohh ok. I can kinda see how women were oppressed by men in the olden times in Europe if they didn't pay attention to the last bit you mentioned. In Islam men and women are equal before God, but they are different. Each has their own rights over the other and their own responsibilities, but it always leads to balance and peace in the home and therefore society. And both have to answer to God for their actions and choices.
@TangySweet14 But it was the sin of Eve that put her in this bondage to man, if it were not for that , who know what the relationship might have been like? My point is that God protects women and children from misuse and abuse(in his family).Just because i was born a christian , doesnt make me a son of God. God's seed is spread through out the world and was born in all religions. God's child must have his name and blood, you will recognize the voice of your Father and believe him!
@paleface8 remember that God made Adam in his image, but when got took eve out of Adam, that changed Adam. Adam by himself is no more in the image of God, but now Adam and Eve make the image of God. Marriage is the image of God and that whty God hates divorce.
@paleface8 Yea I've heard about this, is it called "original sin"? In Islam we don't accept that every woman on earth is to be held responsible for Eve's (and Adams!) decision. Everyone is accountable for their own actions and choices to God on the Day of Judgement. Although Satan approached Eve first, both chose to take a bite of the forbidden fruit. Adam and Eve were still innocent in heaven, she couldn't have tempted him. satan just fooled them both as satan does to man every day..
@TangySweet14 what i meant being a way of escape is that Satan punishes man for sin to full extent of the law and has destroyed many mens lives through the word of God. Satan wants to destroy men that marry rebelious women who didnt recieve her husbands name and when men divorce , there life is over because God wont bless his chosen with another wife if it breaks his laws. But knowing the law can free a man from this bondage and God is wiser than satan, and provides a way of escape for his seed.
@paleface8 Thanks for your thoughts. I don't agree with this at all and I don't think many of my Christian friends would either. Are you a particular denomination that observes this? God is all-knowing so in His knowledge he knows 2 people are married and therefore NOT committing sin even if a woman does not take her husband's name.
I did & didn't .. lol Legally I didnt change my last name but I changed my last name on the social networking sites ... it makes him feel better hahaha ...
so if i understand this correctly, in muslim society the children are named after their mothers...? ...in other words the fathers lose the name because their children have the name of their mother...? if so, how is that different from our western society - one of the paretns lose the name for their kids...? ...or do the get both - which after a few centuries and a few generations a kid has about 10000 names...
Religion may sound pointless to many, however the question here is not whether Rima won because she deserve to win but rather was selected for the very fact that she is (as she claimed to be) a Muslim for all the wrong reasons. There is an all out war out there against Islam and Muslims in the US and almost anywhere else.
@thegoldstar5 Hmm, not allowed, or not recommended? I've never equated changing your name with something that is haram, forbidden, i.e. "not allowed." I'm going to look into this. As far as I've learned, it's recommended for a woman to keep her name, but not - not allowed. Thanks for your thoughts, I'm going to find out more!
@sliceofl It's not allowed because there's nothing in the Sunnah to indicate that one should do it. The wives of the Prophet salAllahu alaihi wasallam kept their father's name even if he was a kafir. It's an innovation and a custom of the non muslims. Anyway I sent you the links for the fatwa in sha Allah it will clear it up. :)
Interesting, I had no clue that women could keep their name in Islam. So when a married couple has children, how do you determind which parent's last name they will carry?...hmm tomorrow I will talk to the Sheik after Jummah..by the way i'm a revert brother but i'm still a student.
I would never take my husband's name, just cause i get married it doesn't make me a different person. Just like I don't think it's necessary to change your name just cause you change religion, as many people do.
You have to remember that in the west, most of western women grow up with a molesting father who gives them all the molesting experience, so getting married to their husbands they are being transferred to another sexual partner of whom they shall take their last name since they become their product. And of course it goes on and on where they will have their own daughter and it continues. So its their culture. GOOD LUCK :D
I disagree. A women should take her husbands name if she get married to him. It is an outward sign of you union and also shows your willingness to become one with him. Isn't that the point of getting married - becoming one?
@nunacadey You can say that but the reality in a lot of the Islamic world is quite different. It is changing slowly but there is a long way to go. I sure hope they never let women drive in Saudi Arabia! If we could get women out from behind the wheel worldwide so many lives would be save and so much frustration avoided. Women have their skill and we love them for it but when you try to be something you're not thinking you are as intelligent as men that is wrong.and Muhammad (PBUH) would agree
@shoutatthesky huh? I was talking about family names, About driving, it has nothing to do with "trying" to be a man or something else other than a woman. A car wasnt invented only for men, And if you ask insurance companies they will tell you that WOMEN drive more safely than men with less accidents. The prophet phuh actually encourged females to aim high without imitating men. Put man ego aside..... Also dont forget that those intelligent men were raised by INTELLIGENT mothers !
@nunacadey Yes you are right. I shouldn't make judgements based on a few personal experiences but rather on the objective facts. I think as a man I become frustrated with women drivers b/c they are careful and I just want to drive fast. The Prophet PBUH did reveal pro-women statements giving legal rights in marriage, allowed women to divorce, and protected women's inheritance rights. As a man I have much to be thankful for that women such as my mother and sister have done for me. Salaam Aleikum.
I'm sorry but I think it's complete crap not to take the man's last name. A married couple having different last names is absolutely mind boggling to me.
its good to keep your own last name, it is actually against our religion to change your last name to his.. you are your fathers daughter, not your husbands.. i kept my last name and it doesnt mean that i don't love him any less :).. lots of people think its insulting to keep my last name. but i am proud to be my fathers daughter :)
In my country (Puerto Rico) the women keeps her BOTH last name (Here are two last names not one like the U.S.) but some womens just put her two last names and his spouse
For example, Diana Hernandez Perez de Vazquez (De Vazquez is like Vasquez's Women jaja)
And the children have the first last name from both parents, First Last Name for the dad and second last name from the mom
When I get married inchallah I will keep my own last name and add my husbands name, that way to keep my identity but also to be in sync with my husband and children...
I don't think i'll do it because there is too much paperwork lol. Not worth it, and like you said, my kids will have his last name, and I love his father's family so i'm happy that they get that.
I would never dream of taking my husbands last name and to be honest nor do I have any plans to get married. I am lucky to have a wonderful partner of 10 years who is a strong believer that a woman has the right to make decisions regarding her name/children/work ect. We have also discussed children and have decided that in this day and age it is too easy for fathers to leave/abandon their families and because of that any children will have my last name.
Interestingly, in America it's free for a woman to change her last name upon marriage, but for a man to change his last name upon marriage it's not free; my younger brother found that out when he was briefly engaged.
Me, I don't plan on changing my last name if I ever get married. As a couple others have mentioned, it's part of my identity, who I am. I'm quite attached to it. I could see attaching his name to it, but only if it was a short name. :P
I took my hubbys name because as a Bengali (well half..my dad is) girls don't.."inherit" their dads surname and nor did we (me, my sister, my cousins etc) get our mothers name..my surname was Sultana and it came from nowhere..I think thats soooo unfair so I'm more tha willing to have a name that means something and happy that my children regardless of their sex will also have the same surname as me :D :D :D
I kept my name... even though I wanted to change it because they say in Islam the woman should keep her fathers name, and if she changes it to her husbands then she should change it back to her fathers asap
it's been almost a year (will be in august) and i haven't even added on his name.. lol im too lazy. he wants me to change it 100%... i don't want to. i MAY add it.. but well see how life goes
I think I'll keep my name because my husband's name is not part of my lineage, i don't have any ancestral ties to his name, and i feel my surname is part of my identity/history.....so yea, i'll keep my name! ;]
Just discovered your page and I am totally in love with you :). Keep it up.
amnah10000 1 week ago
@amnah10000 Aw, thank you! Pop into my site too! sliceoflemon[dot]com.
sliceofl 4 days ago
@sliceofl I did and I love reading everything on there :). You're drop dead gorgeous mashAllah tabarakaAllah.
amnah10000 4 days ago
@amnah10000 So happy to hear that, I love having new readers! Oh, it's just the extra liner before I got a lighting kit, haha. Once I got the proper lighting, I didn't need the extra makeup. But thank you for your kind words. Hopefully I can improve the internal looks inshallah!
sliceofl 4 days ago
Woman's reward is in their husbands so why serve another man, even if it is your father?
paleface8 2 weeks ago
@paleface8 I'm not understanding how not taking a name means you're not serving your husband. Or how keeping your dad's name means you're serving your dad?
TangySweet14 2 weeks ago
@paleface8 Only part of it. As a man's reward in Islam is in being good to his wife. But the name has nothing to do with goodness. If that were the case then a man would have to take on some identity of his wife. Part of my right is in keeping my name. Maybe your comment wasn't clear? Please clarify.
sliceofl 2 weeks ago
I'm not gonna take my hubby's name. I'm my own person, I come from my own family, and he from his. And my babies are getting hyphenated names lol. Not that I care about lineage at ALL but I feel like hey, it's both of our kids and I'm prob gonna do most of the work (especially labor pains?!) so the kid gets both. Or I know a family where the girls took the mom's last name and the boys took the dad's last name, and they keep doing that with every generation. Hm maybe I'll do that, idk.
TangySweet14 2 weeks ago
@TangySweet14 Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Your babies are going to have long names! Have you thought about giving your last name as your child's middle name or do you plan on hyphenating?
sliceofl 2 weeks ago
@sliceofl No prob, I love your vids. Mashallah, you're great!
I've heard of ppl giving their maiden name as the middle name, but I feel like it's not the same. I might do the thing where the girls get my last name and the boys can have their dad's name. If I don't have any girls, the boys'll get nice, long, hyphenated names =)
TangySweet14 2 weeks ago
In Latin America we keep both our last names, even now that I studying in the us I plan to keep my last name allways it'spart of who I am I carry part of my moms and dads family with me and I want also my children to carry a part of me
alemagui92 2 weeks ago
@alemagui92 Interesting to see how other cultures approach this! Thanks for your thoughts.
sliceofl 2 weeks ago
Im a christian and i think if a woman doesnt take her husband's last name, thats shes married as far as men and society goes but that God doesnt recognize it. There is a good and bad thing to this. If your married , your still commiting sin of fornication. And if you got divorced , there is no punishment for divorcement seeing that your union wasnt recognized by God. This could be a way of escape for alot of you- its not your fault the woman wont commit fully!
paleface8 2 weeks ago
@paleface8 Interesting, I didn't know in christianity that it wasn't recognized by God if you didn't take your hubby's name.
Also could you clarify the last sentence? I didn't understand what you meant about it being an escape, or what that had to do with the woman not committing..? Thanks!
TangySweet14 2 weeks ago
@TangySweet14 there is alot in the bible thats not in the bible , lol , I mean that depending on the level of wisdom you have recieved from God to understand his word and creation. It doesnt mean someone else is smarter , just hasnt recieved from God yet. The church is the bride of Christ and can only recieve his name and leave our former life behind. WE are sealed in the forehead by the name of God and his alone. God's children are heavily punished by God(not by man) for divorce.
paleface8 2 weeks ago
@TangySweet14 If our Lord will not recieve a bride that does not recieve him fully and forsake all for him. God will not except marriages that women carry their old names, even as middle names. No man can serve two masters or woman foor that matter. You either carry your husbands name or your fathers, who will you serve? This is insanity to the world but so is all knowledge!!
paleface8 2 weeks ago
@paleface8 Wow I've never heard any of this before, my christian friends aren't very religious. I did know that many years ago divorce was looked down upon due to religion, but I didn't know it was so severe. In Islam it's only very disliked by God. And there has to be a VERY good reason for the divorce, meaning it's a last resort. So a husband is a wife's master in Christianity? Btw Are u part of a certain school in Christianity (baptist, lutheran, presbyterian,etc?) Or are you just christian?
TangySweet14 2 weeks ago
@TangySweet14 Im just a christian but my interpretation from the bible differs from any organized sect. I think most preachers lack the wisdom and the knowledge of the bible and the reason is that deep down inside they are afraid to ask for the truth because they are scared that God is not real and their questions will fall to the ground. But a child knows their father's voice and will hear him and fear the voice of another!
paleface8 2 weeks ago
@paleface8 Hm yea, I've heard a lot of ppl, especially today's younger generations, are finding it harder and harder to take preachers seriously for various reasons. Well it's good that you took initiative to look for God on your own!
TangySweet14 2 weeks ago
@TangySweet14 God protects women because he made them lesser than man(in his law, not his creation).God is the head of man and man is the head of woman. But if a man treats his wife badly then God will allow him to be treated badly, so that the man can learn and change! If he over burdens her than God will allow him to be over burdened himself.But if he treats her right , then God will allow himself to be treated right in his life.
paleface8 2 weeks ago
@paleface8 Ohh ok. I can kinda see how women were oppressed by men in the olden times in Europe if they didn't pay attention to the last bit you mentioned. In Islam men and women are equal before God, but they are different. Each has their own rights over the other and their own responsibilities, but it always leads to balance and peace in the home and therefore society. And both have to answer to God for their actions and choices.
TangySweet14 2 weeks ago
@TangySweet14 But it was the sin of Eve that put her in this bondage to man, if it were not for that , who know what the relationship might have been like? My point is that God protects women and children from misuse and abuse(in his family).Just because i was born a christian , doesnt make me a son of God. God's seed is spread through out the world and was born in all religions. God's child must have his name and blood, you will recognize the voice of your Father and believe him!
paleface8 2 weeks ago
@paleface8 remember that God made Adam in his image, but when got took eve out of Adam, that changed Adam. Adam by himself is no more in the image of God, but now Adam and Eve make the image of God. Marriage is the image of God and that whty God hates divorce.
paleface8 2 weeks ago
@paleface8 Yea I've heard about this, is it called "original sin"? In Islam we don't accept that every woman on earth is to be held responsible for Eve's (and Adams!) decision. Everyone is accountable for their own actions and choices to God on the Day of Judgement. Although Satan approached Eve first, both chose to take a bite of the forbidden fruit. Adam and Eve were still innocent in heaven, she couldn't have tempted him. satan just fooled them both as satan does to man every day..
TangySweet14 2 weeks ago
@TangySweet14 what i meant being a way of escape is that Satan punishes man for sin to full extent of the law and has destroyed many mens lives through the word of God. Satan wants to destroy men that marry rebelious women who didnt recieve her husbands name and when men divorce , there life is over because God wont bless his chosen with another wife if it breaks his laws. But knowing the law can free a man from this bondage and God is wiser than satan, and provides a way of escape for his seed.
paleface8 2 weeks ago
@paleface8 Thanks for your thoughts. I don't agree with this at all and I don't think many of my Christian friends would either. Are you a particular denomination that observes this? God is all-knowing so in His knowledge he knows 2 people are married and therefore NOT committing sin even if a woman does not take her husband's name.
sliceofl 2 weeks ago
A child in Islam is always known by his father's name. Be it a girl or boy! Before or after marriage...it should remain the same.
arifalm 1 month ago
@arifalm Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I felt it was important to keep my name because as a journalist it's my byline, and also, it's who I am!
sliceofl 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@sliceofl I completely agree....it is your identity. Y change?
arifalm 1 month ago
I did & didn't .. lol Legally I didnt change my last name but I changed my last name on the social networking sites ... it makes him feel better hahaha ...
kaylakenny19 1 month ago
LOL at the earrings
187ALZ 1 month ago
coincidently, my hubby has the same surname as me! yay us hehe
shams1314 1 month ago in playlist More videos from sliceofl
Dude, i thought this girl was muslim the whole time i was watching just based on her cover.
JiruTiyya1 1 month ago
not married yet, but I definitely want to keep my own!
WaterMots 1 month ago
You are a very Beautifull Lady .But what's up with your big earing ?
azrausa 2 months ago
so if i understand this correctly, in muslim society the children are named after their mothers...? ...in other words the fathers lose the name because their children have the name of their mother...? if so, how is that different from our western society - one of the paretns lose the name for their kids...? ...or do the get both - which after a few centuries and a few generations a kid has about 10000 names...
TheYouwontgetit 2 months ago
in fact in Islam prophet mohamed said :"لعن الله من انتسب لغير أبيه "
سواء كان الاب القريب أو البعيد " the last name "
so it's forbid in Islam
m3d2 3 months ago
Religion may sound pointless to many, however the question here is not whether Rima won because she deserve to win but rather was selected for the very fact that she is (as she claimed to be) a Muslim for all the wrong reasons. There is an all out war out there against Islam and Muslims in the US and almost anywhere else.
ezzoff1 3 months ago
I dont plan on taking my husband's name. I read a fatwa about this and it said that it's not allowed...
thegoldstar5 3 months ago 4
@thegoldstar5 Hmm, not allowed, or not recommended? I've never equated changing your name with something that is haram, forbidden, i.e. "not allowed." I'm going to look into this. As far as I've learned, it's recommended for a woman to keep her name, but not - not allowed. Thanks for your thoughts, I'm going to find out more!
sliceofl 3 months ago
@sliceofl It's not allowed because there's nothing in the Sunnah to indicate that one should do it. The wives of the Prophet salAllahu alaihi wasallam kept their father's name even if he was a kafir. It's an innovation and a custom of the non muslims. Anyway I sent you the links for the fatwa in sha Allah it will clear it up. :)
thegoldstar5 3 months ago
@thegoldstar5 It is allowed Ukhti. But it's actually Sunnah not to =)
ScoobzStah 3 months ago
@ScoobzStah I read the fatwa on Islamqa which said it's not allowed. Allahu 'alam.
If you want I can send you the link.. :)
thegoldstar5 3 months ago
@thegoldstar5 Go ahead sis =) or i'll just do research when i can
ScoobzStah 3 months ago
@thegoldstar5
hi salams, may i ask where did you read it from? can i know the website? thnks
P4k1S1sTa 6 days ago
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thegoldstar5 3 months ago
You're all going to die and be forgotten anyway. Relax.
MyChemicalBromance 3 months ago
Interesting, I had no clue that women could keep their name in Islam. So when a married couple has children, how do you determind which parent's last name they will carry?...hmm tomorrow I will talk to the Sheik after Jummah..by the way i'm a revert brother but i'm still a student.
LostAngel723 3 months ago
do u have to be of musslem decent to be islamish?
jackfantoe 4 months ago
@jackfantoe islamish?.....
cherish933 3 months ago
@cherish933 i belive its a releigon around the middle east yet was originally from kutucky
jackfantoe 3 months ago
But if your children are taking your husbands name, your name is still not gonna carry on, it would end with u anyway. Doh! It makes no difference!
turquoisebloom 4 months ago
u look sexy baby
from a punjaby origin muslim male:)
terajasoos 4 months ago
I would never take my husband's name, just cause i get married it doesn't make me a different person. Just like I don't think it's necessary to change your name just cause you change religion, as many people do.
Yaiyasmin 4 months ago
You have to remember that in the west, most of western women grow up with a molesting father who gives them all the molesting experience, so getting married to their husbands they are being transferred to another sexual partner of whom they shall take their last name since they become their product. And of course it goes on and on where they will have their own daughter and it continues. So its their culture. GOOD LUCK :D
KharaMkhara 4 months ago
I disagree. A women should take her husbands name if she get married to him. It is an outward sign of you union and also shows your willingness to become one with him. Isn't that the point of getting married - becoming one?
shoutatthesky 4 months ago
@shoutatthesky Sure you can be one with him without taking his surname. Why cant he take yours?
Thats where islam comes in, A woman isnt owned by a man but rather God owns her....
nunacadey 4 months ago
@nunacadey You can say that but the reality in a lot of the Islamic world is quite different. It is changing slowly but there is a long way to go. I sure hope they never let women drive in Saudi Arabia! If we could get women out from behind the wheel worldwide so many lives would be save and so much frustration avoided. Women have their skill and we love them for it but when you try to be something you're not thinking you are as intelligent as men that is wrong.and Muhammad (PBUH) would agree
shoutatthesky 4 months ago
@shoutatthesky huh? I was talking about family names, About driving, it has nothing to do with "trying" to be a man or something else other than a woman. A car wasnt invented only for men, And if you ask insurance companies they will tell you that WOMEN drive more safely than men with less accidents. The prophet phuh actually encourged females to aim high without imitating men. Put man ego aside..... Also dont forget that those intelligent men were raised by INTELLIGENT mothers !
nunacadey 4 months ago
@nunacadey Yes you are right. I shouldn't make judgements based on a few personal experiences but rather on the objective facts. I think as a man I become frustrated with women drivers b/c they are careful and I just want to drive fast. The Prophet PBUH did reveal pro-women statements giving legal rights in marriage, allowed women to divorce, and protected women's inheritance rights. As a man I have much to be thankful for that women such as my mother and sister have done for me. Salaam Aleikum.
shoutatthesky 4 months ago
@shoutatthesky wa aleikum salaam , sorry if I sounded rude.
nunacadey 3 months ago
i just saw one of the other videos and you mentioned your married your married so i wanted say sorry for my silly comment.
rickylovebaby 5 months ago
are you single? coz am ready to mingle
rickylovebaby 5 months ago
why u wearing earing that hang out like those african's ear?
iraqiboy 5 months ago
I will take my husband's name :)
sabbosnia 5 months ago
Did u finish 10 pounds of make up a day?!!!
13moredays 6 months ago
go and get a real job, bitch!
Ahmet1445 6 months ago
I'm sorry but I think it's complete crap not to take the man's last name. A married couple having different last names is absolutely mind boggling to me.
macdaddy654456 7 months ago
I Hyphened my last name!
HannahMichele1987 7 months ago
its good to keep your own last name, it is actually against our religion to change your last name to his.. you are your fathers daughter, not your husbands.. i kept my last name and it doesnt mean that i don't love him any less :).. lots of people think its insulting to keep my last name. but i am proud to be my fathers daughter :)
good video :)
900yusra 8 months ago
I kept my family naaame for 2 reasos
1 its part of who i am my identity
2 my family name is waaaaay cooler and kinda of unique :p
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julesjuliaify 1 year ago
In my country (Puerto Rico) the women keeps her BOTH last name (Here are two last names not one like the U.S.) but some womens just put her two last names and his spouse
For example, Diana Hernandez Perez de Vazquez (De Vazquez is like Vasquez's Women jaja)
And the children have the first last name from both parents, First Last Name for the dad and second last name from the mom
diana0195 1 year ago
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MissAichaa 1 year ago
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jessicaloralleya 1 year ago
Ur meant to take afta the husband its the women right to preserve her name
2010MujahidBoxing 1 year ago
When I get married inchallah I will keep my own last name and add my husbands name, that way to keep my identity but also to be in sync with my husband and children...
ZeheraFela 1 year ago
I don't think i'll do it because there is too much paperwork lol. Not worth it, and like you said, my kids will have his last name, and I love his father's family so i'm happy that they get that.
rekomstop4eva 1 year ago
I would never dream of taking my husbands last name and to be honest nor do I have any plans to get married. I am lucky to have a wonderful partner of 10 years who is a strong believer that a woman has the right to make decisions regarding her name/children/work ect. We have also discussed children and have decided that in this day and age it is too easy for fathers to leave/abandon their families and because of that any children will have my last name.
decemberstone 1 year ago
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socha2005 1 year ago
No didnt take my husband's name, cant even conceive of it! If I write my name with his last name, it doesnt even look like ME
shope2468 1 year ago
Interestingly, in America it's free for a woman to change her last name upon marriage, but for a man to change his last name upon marriage it's not free; my younger brother found that out when he was briefly engaged.
Me, I don't plan on changing my last name if I ever get married. As a couple others have mentioned, it's part of my identity, who I am. I'm quite attached to it. I could see attaching his name to it, but only if it was a short name. :P
LarissaFae 1 year ago
I took my hubbys name because as a Bengali (well half..my dad is) girls don't.."inherit" their dads surname and nor did we (me, my sister, my cousins etc) get our mothers name..my surname was Sultana and it came from nowhere..I think thats soooo unfair so I'm more tha willing to have a name that means something and happy that my children regardless of their sex will also have the same surname as me :D :D :D
SadiMarhooni 1 year ago
I kept my maiden name and it was a decision I made long before I got married.
nafisaakabor 1 year ago
I kept my surname - it's a deep part of my identity, I feel. But I kept his name as a middle name, to keep both sides happy ;o)
Amenakin 1 year ago
I kept my name... even though I wanted to change it because they say in Islam the woman should keep her fathers name, and if she changes it to her husbands then she should change it back to her fathers asap
tootie513 1 year ago
it's been almost a year (will be in august) and i haven't even added on his name.. lol im too lazy. he wants me to change it 100%... i don't want to. i MAY add it.. but well see how life goes
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p0853967 1 year ago
I think I'll keep my name because my husband's name is not part of my lineage, i don't have any ancestral ties to his name, and i feel my surname is part of my identity/history.....so yea, i'll keep my name! ;]
CatMingDu 1 year ago
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CatMingDu 1 year ago
Yup, me too
(Add his name to mine)
Riz86 1 year ago
i think i will add his name to mines :) example Sally Johnson- Price my name isnt sally by the way lol
disneydiva21 1 year ago