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  • yes men ARE monsters, they run the courts, they ARE monsters .. no justice no peace

  • Go and see the Video right here on U-tube Titled " Why do Good Girls like bad boys" then come back here and you will see this under a whole new light !

  • DV is not a womens problem. Both genders are afflited by it.

  • Its all fine and dandy that this video defends women, but what about men? Women are not the only ones targeted by domestic violence, we need to let everyone know both genders are at risk.

  • Women lie about this all of the time. For every women that gets abused there are twenty that lie about it.

  • Nice sexist ad. Fuck your condescending disclaimer.

  • i bet theres a lot of confused musilum men watching this wondering what the big deal is,, stupid backaward cunts

  • @bazzamataz72 ok this is a old comment I know. But what is musilum? I google it a found mausoleum or moslem? perhaps it was a typo?

  • @Kenshiroit meant to be muslim im a lazy speller

  • @bazzamataz72 ah ok...I was wondering if it was some kind of slang. English is not my native language.

  • @Kenshiroit haha its ok mate just bad spelling

  • BREAK THE CYCLE AND END THE NIGHTMARE. Why do women stay and call it love? On a personal level, I had to ask “why did I stay?” I want my own experience to help even ONE other person to break the cycle of abuse and end the nightmare. Please be that person! Click on link. Love, Sarah Go to Amazon.com for my book HONEYMOON AND HELL: A Memoir of Abuse ($5.99)

  • @hpufo making one grammar mistake doesn't make someone a retard...

  • whats the song called?

  • I was abused by a guardian as a teen. Once I turned 17 I thought I was hot shit and too big to be hit anymore so I fought back, injured my abuser, and got taken out of the situation by my aunt. It was then that I discovered an incredible deep-seated anger, I will never be abused again. And I never have been. Unfortunately now I struggle with hate and the desire to do terrible harm to others. Abusers will fuck you up more than you can imagine.

  • old people and teenagers are half the problem of DV violence just like women and men are.

  • How about not tolerated by ANY ONE male or female young or old?

  • @hpufo Your gay then im supposing

  • watch the short film on my youtube page called Love its about domestic violence. As my 2nd year uni film project on relationships. x

  • please visit following wesbite..documentthesilence.wo­rdpress

  • i couldnt even imagine beating my wife. if you beat your wife and you read this you need help. you aint a man if you do that.

  • when did i say men are useless? you cant have a species without both male and female retard. men are not better than girls, and girls are not better than men.

  • As a battered man and child abuser at the hands of women, the sexism of this video deeply sickens and offends me. You claim that DV affects EVERYONE, yet there was not a single mention of MALE VICTIMS or ABUSIVE WOMEN in the video. How can you claim that it hurts everyone when you fail to recognise roughly half of all victims and abusers?

  • i feel bad for those woman and so im i so i should be careful

  • you have no fucking clue how this can affect people... this is no joke! were u ever beaten down, raped, and told you cant talk to your friends or your family EVERY FUCKING DAY OF THE WEEK? you are pathetic! i hate low life scum like you, and you deserved to be raped in prison just for poking fun at domestic abuse.

    be called someones little punk in prison, would you like that?! abusing p.o.s. you will get yours, and when that day comes i will be the one laughing at you! FUCK YOU!!!

  • No one can make me shut up :P LOL kiss my forehead :P

  • I AM SO FED UP WITH THESE ONE SIDED VIDEOS. I am a male victim of domestic violence myself and I know for a fact (after doing the research) that men are more often the victims. The only difference is that they are not open about it. That is something that needs to change if we are ever to end the domestic violence problems in society. If women often hit first, there will always be a man who would want to hit back! No one wants to be treated unfairly so please address the real issues.

  • You're right, not to mention that women usually deserve it when they get their asses kicked. Its usually a case of disobedience, cheating or unladylike behavior which warrants a good ass kicking. The Holy Bible endorces corrective discipline for women, and so do I. My wife gets out of line, and I break her face, and she knows that! That's why our marriage will stand the test of time. Cause I wont let some sorry cunt ruin my life. I'd rather break her fucking face, and I've done it before!!

  • a male victim of domestic violence? what kind of pussy are you? slap that bitches face off

  • hell yeah. my wife fucked up my knuckles once (her teeth prints were imbetted in them for a week), so i broke out the old louisville bat and she hasnt stepped out of line since

  • Thats the way you do it, pal. Let these sluts know who's boss and you'll live a life of merriment, I guarantee you. I got a running start once and kicked my wife right in the pussy! WITH MY WORK BOOTS ON!!! Dropped the hag right in her tracks! LOL

  • hahaha. steel toe right to the pussy. BLAM. be careful not to damage the puss though, thats all that bitches are really good for

  • Not true, some of them can give head too, and the good thing is that they give even better head after you knock their fucking teeth down their throat.

  • good point. gums on the dick feel good. thats why i fuck my wifes mom

  • Then you did the same thing :)

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  • Stop feminist lie.

    Stop manipulator videos.

    Stop feminism violence.

    Stop focussing in masculine violence.

  • i guess woman are not violent or abusive, and violent... i guess when woman have attacked me physically _without_ physical provocation it was my imagination. i guess equal right do not include the rights to "remain silent..." & "right to an attorney..", if u r going to label something "domestic Violence" then u should make sure it includes unbiased material... otherwise it's just anti-male discriminatory PROPOGANDA. if u want to be anti-male don't disguise it just be open and honest.

  • You're wasting your time trying to convince these feminists. Truth is, If women were bigger than men they'd kick OUR asses. Average bitch NEEDS her ass kicked now and then or she'll surely get out of hand.. I've been married 20 years and I get no shit from my wife cause she knows I'll break her ass in half before I allow her to be the man in the relationship. Call it dom. violence if U wish, but I call it constructive discipline. Screw these asshole women. They ARE the evidence I'm right

  • I can't believe I let myself be abused by my ex "boyfriend" (he wasn't even anything CLOSE to that)... I'm so mad at myself!! When will the anger pass??

  • men are not monsters, but those who abuse women, are!

    I always resolved my problems with women peacefully and I was always succecefully... NO NEED TO VIOLENCE!!

  • Disgustingly biased against men - as always.

    Videos like this do not help stop domestic violence. They promote it. They have a product - domestic violence - which they are so desparately trying to tell you is all because of men - and they are selling it, selling it, selling it!

    All they do is portray men as monsters.

    It's sad that they are trying to brain-wash people with this anti-male garbage.

    Just plain sad.

  • Who the fuck are you talking about?

  • I am talking about women who extort money from men by braking marriage. It looks like your mother is one. You are 14 year old learn to clean your ass hole first.

  • TOUGH LOVE LOL!!!

  • .42 seconds.. Are they photos from the OJ Simpson case?

  • Sexist nonsense - please sue gender neutral language.

  • Police and social worker are the killer of marridge. they will never stitch.

  • I understand men don't have to put up with abuse either, BUT, a woman's strenght is not the same as a man's. A man punches a woman in the face, and he can knock her unconscious, while a man gets punched by a woman, and nothing rarely happens. I know, I AM A DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SURVIVOR. Once I punched my ex in the mouth, and he didn't die!!! Nicole.

  • Nicole, i swear i have seen studies that say men would hit with hands, yes, but women prefer using objects or stabbing weapons, like knives, bats, clubs, and the such, to be honest i would rather knuckle to the face then a knife to the chest. Also depends on the strength of the women, i know a good load of lass's who would batter a bloke up easily.

  • Well I have to agree with you on that one, I do know a hand full of women who have stabbed their man, or yes, use any weapon, but still NO ONE should abuse anyone. Thanx for your response:) Nicole*

  • nicole i too am a female survivor of abuse and i ask you to contact me

  • All Men and Women out there, Get the Facts.

    If you are a Man you are in TROUBLE.

    See the Equal Justice Foundation web site.

    YOU WILL CHANGE YOUR MIND.

    Please Men do this for yourselves while you still can.

  • So true, please check out my video about my experience with domestic violence. Only 5% of women leave their abuser the first time they are abused, I am one of them. But it is not always women getting abused, it can go both ways.

  • Nobody male or female should ever stay in an abusive relationship,it's not worth losing your life!!!

  • The picture at 3:41 is of Rachel McAdams from the 2004 movie The Notebook with her ex boyfriend Ryan Gosling!!!

  • Men: Be careful of the women you date! They are master manipulators!If you have a woman that's disrespecting you often, leave her! Let her be some other mans problem! Never hit a woman!

  • Right on brother man, no one else could've said it better. I really hope other men take what you are saying seriously, because I'm really starting to get tired of hearing about assholes beating up their women, even though there's a lot of women who beat up there men and it's never reported, but you are 10 trillon percent correct.

  • I agree that cases of men being abused aren't publicised enough but I don't understand how you could get tired of hearing about women being abused. One case isn't more important or more serious than the last, both should be given the same amount of attention, man or woman.

  • I really don't feel like digging up to see the comment were I allegdly said that I'm tired of hearing about women being abused, but if I did say that in a previous comment I'm sort of saying that when they start advertising that men are abused a lot too then I wouldn't mind hearing about women being hit a lot, because a lot of times they really make it seem like guys are a bunch of assholes, especially with pricks like Maury and Lifetime and 9 times out of 10 the women provoked it.

  • scotty

    Please check out the Equal Justice Foundation Web Site. You are correct in what you say!!!

  • anyone can say what they WOULD do in a domestic violence situation but they cant place there opinions upon the people that is or has gone through it its hard for a woman to let go of a man they love no matter how many times they hit or yell or control you women love so HARD and we always think it'll never happen again or it'll get better but unless he gets professional help it wont. So ladies please wake up now or have the situation become FATAL later. female age:14

  • @mememe963 tl;dr: they deserve it: non-fucked up ladies with self-respect tend to make the right choise of their significant half. Saddest part about domestic violence is that usually victims live long enough to pass down their (and the manbeast's) genes.

  • il faut crever ces fils de putes.kill these sun of bitches

  • One of our band members suffered domestic violence at the hands of there partner, bare in mind our band consists of 4 boys and a girl so whichever band member it was does it make it better or worse? Nope, any man or woman suffering should try and find the strength to get out of the relationship, especially if there is kids involved which there was in this relationship. Any man who hits a woman is disgusting & any woman who hits a man is equally as bad

  • OK, I agree women need to learn how to physically defend themselves, but having an abusive family member my self, I know that escalating things can lead to the death of one of you...it's not just about hitting, it's about someone who cannot control themselves in passion. So, fighting back isn't always wisest, but leaving certainly is.

  • gta4 made me do it

  • last thing, a nice guy doesn't need to be hit either. it's a shame that Tyler Durden did let Marla into Fight Club. How man of thes case are out of a mutual respect and freak desire for primal agression?

  • people who are violent in general, who would get violent with a sister/ brother friend or brother or lover is a different issue than the one way male intiatied female self defend mentality in society. - A MISOGYNIST can find non violent ways to opress.

  • common quote" woman stop crying and hit back"

    males have dominated society and use violence agaist women to controlt them and or the mere sake of hating the gender. our culture praises male agression masculinity in genreral. So we have women who act masculine conciously and subcounciously.

    you can't have it both ways, tell her to hit back then complain.

  • Good warning video. Hope women of all ages see this and don't let it happen to them, but avoid such men like the plague.

  • Okay, the video was okay, but, seriously, what site did you copy and paste those answers from?? Could've worded it yourself at least! Way to make women that have gone through this feel like a number rather then a person. Way to show them you REALLY care!

  • violence does hurt everyone, it hurts my fist when it meets with your face. Seriously, how stupid of a comment. ''violence hurts everyone'', no shit shirlock! Let me guess, you went to some upscale school and got your masters so you could come up with statements as profound as that one. I bet your folks are proud....

  • Women suck as people? Tell that to your mother.

  • The bitch tired to kill me.

    Talk abaout female violence...

    Women start 70% of arguments in the home.

  • watch?v=Oy-SZad1GIU

    Mothers for Justice

  • Whats this tune again ?

    Its Ms. Dynamite tune aint it ?

  • I love this song... Hes in prison now.. Yes!!

  • You said you were I nice guy. Pshaw! I have some great advice for you so listen carefully. Go into a dark room by yourself, and FUCK YOURSELF!!!

  • You know, you will never resolve your problems if you keep blaming men. First thing you should do is fix your lousy taste in men. It will only carry over into lousy taste in women. Lets face it you have poor judgement issues compounded by a big mouth.

  • im gonna fuck ya ya white pussy wifebust beating mothafucka. im gonna beat ya up so yaw bitch momma aint gonna recognize her mothafuckin whitetrash cuntface son mothafucka. all youz white mothafuckaz whoz goin on about niggaz bein wifebeaters fuck u n fuck ya mommas. wez niggaz got mo respect for our ladiez than youz whitetrash bitchass coward mothafuckaz. howd u like a 10 inch dick up your mothafucka. fuck all yall white male wifebeater pussyboyz. get on the streets fucka il fuck u till u die.

  • Oh I get it. This is a pissing contest right? Ok hows this one... "I will fuck you up so bad you will wish your mother never met your father." Now go back to your room play some guitar hero and suck down some Mountain Dew. Dismissed

  • suck on yaw momma's twat u cunt. btw do u know who yaw momma or is she a local slut at sum truck driver diner?

  • Aha the inevitable mama jokes... dullard

  • Im not going to kick your ass. Im going to kick your mothers ass then your sisters ass then your boyfriends ass because you were dumb enough to run your mouth at me... DAAAAAAWG.

  • Well I wouldnt exactly call them men.

  • i personally am against domestic violence. sadly every religion advocates, endorse, justify, and maybe even glorify this entire behavior. espicially those who read the quran or bible. it praises the males as superior, and women as just breeding slaves, if u will.

  • Don't forget about abusive wives.

  • Anybody in an abusive relationship should leave immediately!!!

  • To be fair, it's not that easy.

  • domestic violence is a crime. I wish the police in my country would have done something about it when I called for help.

  • What did you fuckin do wrong?

  • Anyone who allows themselves to be a victim is an idiot. When i've gotten my @ss kicked for being in the wrong neighborhood i learned my lesson and i never returned to that same spot. No one ever talks about how men are victimized. OR how even if your wife cheats on you and leaves you you'll still end up paying spousal support to keep her and her new man fed and sheltered. OR no one will talk about how many woman donlt admit to men that they aren't the real father of their children.

  • `All I see is healthy young women who are more than capable of looking after themselves!`

    What a fucking ridiculous comment. Try telling some of the women who have been beaten almost to death that they could have `looked after themselves` you stupid idiot.

  • Where are the elderly or child or disabled or male victims of female perpetrators. All I see is healthy young women who are more than capable of looking after themselves!

  • Here's a good one: Under the Violence Against Women's Act foreign immigrant women who marry American men can file abuse charges against unsuspecting American men without their husbands cooperation or knowledge. In other words the accused American man isn'teven allowed to defend himself. This is a scam. Immigrant women get a free green card in exhange for filing false abuse charges and the American citizen sponsor gets a Federal file for life.

  • 3:05 scared the living crap outta me

  • You are a retard.

  • no he said neither men or women have the right to treat each other equally

  • This video is such shut, no men are depicted in here

  • NO men are depicted in the video because no man wants to admit that he is being abused or raped.

  • exactly, it is more difficult for the man to seek help

  • Mostly because of the response they will recieve. A friend of mine is a cop whose wife abuses him constantly at home. He tried telling his friends and they laughed because they thought it was a joke, I mean he stands at around 6"6 and muscle bound so how can a man like that get beat by a woman who is less than 5"6? It's responses like that, that discourages abused men from seeking help.

  • Are you implying that there are men who actually get raped by chicks, even hot looking one's, because in most cases men are phsyically stronger than females, now I'm not trying to be funny or anything, but how does the female physically over powere the male, unless she has a gun to his head.

  • this is a really good video. Domestic violence is a big problem for men and women. I'm doing a project on it in school and I was wondering what the name of this song is, I want to play it in my presentation this tuesday.

  • There are no shelter's or help for men, cops just laugh at them.

  • Men are not victims, they create the conditions necessary for cops to lock them up, all by themselves- I know a few cops who beat the living shit out of men who abuse women. Morons deserve it- LOL

  • Kdey "they create the conditions necessary for cops to lock them up, " Thats right. Everytime a male feminist buys into your feminist bullshit he creates the conditions where a female is a phone call away from having him removed from his home by his female abuser. No such privilege exists for male victims.

  • If women are equal then why do they hide behind preferential laws created just for them?

  • you honestly believe men cannot be victimized ?

  • Domestic Violence hurts me because I can believe these stupid bitches date and marry these assholes instead of a nice guy like me.

  • Usually girls don't know that the men are assholes until they get more "serious". I thought my boyfriend was a nice guy until i moved in with him, then he made me feel like I couldn't leave him or he would kill me....

  • What did you fuckin do wrong once you moved in?

  • you're an ass

  • No wonder you got smacked around. Thats what happens when you get lippy.

  • I think 99% of guys are assholes, that's why i turned lesbian. :) btw, fuck you!

  • HA. I bet you keep running your mouth like that that bitch will smack you around too.

  • hfl 2005 you little mothafucka im a nigger in the bronx if ya aint shut gonna shut yaw fuckin mouth if ya aint gonna learn ta respect woman im gonna fuck you in ya little ass and make ya suck me up mothafucka unnerstand? ya gotta learn ta RESPECT yaw woman

  • your a sexist cunt lol

  • I love your response!

  • damm...i thought this was gonna be a funny vid :s

  • right and NO men are abused

  • Love the song, who wrote it?

  • so you're basically saying suffering men are not allowed to exist?

    we can't solve the whole problem by attacking only half of it.

  • Lies, Lies, Lies.... So lets look at some basic facts for the benefit of the "sheep". Woman assault woman at higher rates than men FACT. Woman KILL more of their children than men (68%) FACT. Woman are 10 TIMES more likely to call the police than men for violence in the home. FACT

  • Name your sources.

  • There is a big difference between a man pushing a woman and vice-versa. A man can kill a woman by pushing her. Not so vice-versa. That's why violence toward women is so much more disgusting. Mature men, classy men, consider men who use violence against women - and women who use violence against children - pathetically cowardly.

  • the only way i could kill a woman by pushing her is if i pushed her down the stairs or on a conveniently-placed table.

    i've seen elderly women trip and fall flat on their face. they were shaken a bit but they weren't hurt.

    and i guarantee that falling when you don't expect it hurts a lot more.

  • you're weak enough to die from getting pushed? Darwin has a little theory about that sort of thing...

  • Right so wat you are saying is because women are weaken then men they have the right to assault them? Violence is wrong either way, gender bias goes both ways

  • "wat you are saying is because women are weaken then men they have the right to assault them?"

    **********

    Slavery is Freedom

    War is Peace

    and now for the feminist contribution...(drumroll)

    Weakness is Strength!

    1984 is here, it's just a few years late.

  • haha I made a good quote

  • I understand both sides of the opposing viewpoints to this topic, but does it really matter who the violent one is. The issue is that there is violence period. It shouldnt't matter who does it, what should matter is how we as a society go about it.

  • It doesn't matter who perpetrates DV. However, we created a system with players waiting for a woman to just feel violated. This feeling (often based on delusions)is than used as an excuse to get access to his money and make him pay for seeing his children. Facts don't matter in family courts, only money do.

  • amen

  • Domestic violence is perpetrated by women more often than men. Men are just ashamed to talk about it. Women are more likely to commit major physical abuse of their children than are men: 56.8 percent to 43.2 percent, mothers accounted for 86 percent of newborn deaths. I think we should start holding women to the same standards we hold for men. They get away with murder (she couldn't handle this anymore) while men go to jail for seeing their children outside of court specified time.

  • this bitch i really wanna use that pic were did u get it or did u make it

  • that vis a powerful video. What is the name of this song? i could really use it for my project. thanks for posting.

  • i am a victim of domestic violence for fives years now and we are now not togther but it is still going on i cant get away from him he follows me rings me threateing me, video is good.i have a court order on my husband and he is still not getting the picture. will i ever be free?

  • One thing you can do is move out of the state. Call on friends and family to help you in your escape plan. Also, some women get the medical alert necklaces so you can call 911 immediately when he comes near you.

  • Wow, thats very graphic.

  • Intimate partner violence is primarily a crime against women. Women account for 85 percent of the victims of intimate partner violence (588,490 total) and men account for approximately 15 percent of the victims (103,220 total).

    While women are less likely than men to be victims of violent crimes overall, women are five to eight times more likely than men to be victimized by an intimate partner.

  • xxx."men account for approximately 15 percent of the victims (103,220 total)." Assuming your 15% to be correct. Don't those more than 100,000 males deserve the same protection and justice as the female equivalent? Where is VAMA? End the apartheid, open the doors of the shelters to men and their children.

  • any serious study not conducted by feminists show otherwise.

    women are no better. if not worse. it would make sense that women are worse because NO ONE talks about violence by women.

    it's pretty easy to do bad stuff when people believe you can do no wrong.

  • Published research indicates that 25%-30% of all intimate violence is exclusively

    female on male. People hit and abuse family members because they can. In today's society,

    as reflected in TV, movies, law enforcement, courts, and feminist literature, women are

    openly given permission to hit men.

  • n Canada, Sommer (1994) Data were

    collected at two points in time over a two-year period from face-to-face interviews with 452

    females and 447 males. Of these, 39% of the women and 26% of the men committed acts of

    violence against their spouses at some time in their relationship. Sixteen percent of the

    women and 8% of the men defined those acts as severe in nature.

  • Who sings this song?

  • "Put Him Out" by Ms. Dynamite

  • again, yet another FEMINIST video about abuse, im sorry, what about the male victims? children victims of mothers abuse?

    I have to tell you now, I answer YES to many of those questions, only because its done by my mother its not counted, I seem to be treated like less of a person,

  • Children are abused, men are abused, and animals are abused. Still, let this video voice the seriousness of abuse against females. Plain and simple and leave it at that.

  • Children are abused, men are abused, and animals are abused. Still, let this video voice the seriousness of abuse against females.  Plain and simple and leave it at that.

  • REFERENCES EXAMINING ASSAULTS BY WOMEN ON THEIR SPOUSES OR MALE PARTNERS: Martin S. Fiebert Department of Psychology California State University, Long Beach. SUMMARY: This bibliography examines 174 scholarly investigations: 138 empirical studies and 36 reviews and/or analyses, which demonstrate that women are as physically aggressive, or more aggressive, than men in their relationships with their spouses or male partners. The aggregate sample size in the reviewed studies exceeds 163,800.

  • Where's the part about abused men?

  • Look, I understand that men are abused, but it is not common. You can argue that but the fact is that one out of four women are abused. Stereotypes, religion, and many other factors enable abuse to occur among females.  I feel bad for the men that are abused, but I think women should be able ot have a commerical without asking what about the men.

  • If mens groups were to put up hundreds of videos with pictures of men with facial injuries claiming they were DV victims we all know what the response would be. "The Pot calling the kettle black" and you ladies are no different. Welcome to equality. Btw if its 1 in 4 for women then its the same for men, read the stats.

  • Then that is gender bias. Violence goes both ways. So people say because men are stronger, women have the right to be violent ?

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