Disabilities and The Ladies

[UltraDOG17]

i have been dogged & ran out by women,

cause i told i got an disablity :(

im not an monster, im an decent guy once u get 2 know me.

plus im tired of these american women dogging crap outta me of my disablity.

[MJAngelLove]

You're cute!!

I have mild CP. It dosen't hender my walking. You can only tell by how I play piano or type I do both 1 handed useing my right hand. The only other way you can tell is how I work my guide dog. Yes I said guide dog I'm also legaly blind

[paigedesmonie]

Ya I totally know what you mean. Hey how did end up having all the knowledge you have about girls and disabilities?? Do you just sit around at your computer and research all day or what? Haha

[Pinkcrusader]

@paigedesmonie LOL no I just have a disability and I like the ladies. It's all useful real life experience.

[paigedesmonie]

hi Pinkcrusader.. im 15 and i have cp it sucks ..im a girl and its hard to meet a nice guy who will except my disability : / your really goodlooking :)

[Pinkcrusader]

@paigedesmonie Why thank you. Yeah at 15 the level of maturity gets in the way sometimes. But it's no a permanent set back. Besides immature people are no fun anyway

[Kelebeka]

Thanks for helping, man!

[badottum]

YEAAAAHHHHH!!!! Best part is at 4:28!!! I FRIGGIN LOVE YOU!!!

[rosbram]

youre puppy is cute... i like this video.. u have courage! :) thanks alot...

[inwiththewind99]

Why would there be a problem with you dating women? You're good looking, nice, and insightful.

[saktaw18]

love this video. Great job. Very informative & educational. You sure are a cutie.:):)

Salie

[Pinkcrusader]

Why thank you Salie!!

[saktaw18]

You are very welcome

[fulcrum100]

Hi there , Pinkcrusader. good post, this. you state in the first minute that you're quadriplegic.I looked up Quadriplegia, tho, and it is : all four limbs paralysis. But, i see you gesturing with ease and strenght with your arms.

[Pinkcrusader]

My hands are paralyzed. So I have paralysis of all 4 limbs.

[jellydog105]

is that a mirror in the background or your bed?

[Pinkcrusader]

Mirror

[NikkiBell08]

This was very lovely and well said advice for Caretaker. Well said, I'm sure you helped him a bit. You are correct, it's all about believing in yourself. I think if you believe in yourself, and are willing to be open, you'll find happiness.

And on a total random note: was that a dog or a cat on the bed? It's going to bother me for ages.

[dchsdl]

Does anyone really want an equal though? I think that's why we put people on pedestals...

[Lollysharlene]

hey my name is sharlene and i have spastic cp if people react bad and tease me for my cp i just walk away

[butterfli2205]

You are so right! I think confidence is sexy and you portrayed that very well! Amen to all that you said! :)

[MargotVellocet]

Wise words. I liked the part about how everyone's on the same level.

[alexsuucha]

I think that confidence is key... if you aren't confident in yourself people wont be either and wont wanna go out with you. I have found that there are REEAAALLLY ugly guys out there... and because of their fun personality and how confident they are... they don't have any trouble finding a woman.

..and the opposite applies... I have met some VERY attractive men, and because they do not that confidence, it totally turned me off.

Anyway.. that is from a girl's perspective

Alexis

[Pinkcrusader]

I knew I was right. I'm awesome! Thanks for the insight Alexis!

[weedsflower]

After watching Caretaker's video and yours I had to pause... I think you are correct in that... women are just as apprehensive approaching men as they are approaching us.

[weedsflower]

Putting yourself out there, approaching someone you find attractive, can be scary for anyone. We wear our "hang-ups" on our sleeves and we (meaning me) assume that a disability, or crooked teeth, or brown hair, or in my case, a chunky butt might make us unattractive. Truth be told, that one thing is just a small part of the whole picture of what makes us "us", and if you focus more on

[weedsflower]

wearing your best smile and keeping a positive out look you might surprise yourself. Nothing is sexier than confidence and kindness. Have I made an ass of myself yet? I'm always running off at the mouth....

[ktcorey]

You said that girls ask you different questions and in another video you said that we could ask you anything, you don't mind, so i am taking advantage of this opening, forgive me for being nonchalant thoough...please...

how did you break your neck? how old were you? I'm interested in the details, but I'm a new viewer so if this is all addressed in a different video, feel free to just show me where to look :-)

[Pinkcrusader]

I did make a video of this it's call October 25th 1998 Sucks. That's when I broke my neck. I was 16.

[eekhoorngodintje]

you are very smart. you got this head on. and yeah I think women like to be approached , it makes us feel like ladies rather than being the one to approach a guy. I'm old fashioned in that sense, maybe thats why i think so, also i feel like for girls we like to be approached because it makes us feel good about ourselves, like we are wanted rather than putting ourselves on the line. not that guys dont like that feeling, but girls tend to be more sensitive to that

[Pinkcrusader]

I don't really think girls are more sensitive about it. Our society has just taught us that it's the guys job to approach the woman. There a lot of guys that are terrified and never approach women. And they are the ones the ladies say they want to date too. The nice guy.

[denonbladedododo]

Anybody retarded should be given euthanasia. If assisted suicide isn't legal already it should be. But of course you should have basic rulse so not any murderer can make that claim.

[badm4ths]

Um, in case you didn't realise, PrinkCrusader doesn't have any form of mental disability. He has a physical disability and, as I have found out from speaking to him, has no wish to take advantage of euthanasia. Kind of an irreleveant comment.

[denonbladedododo]

I came here via a page with lots of retards but stand by everything I said. you sound kind of soso

[londonlady82]

Hi i think the advice you gave to caretaker was great. i am a lady with cp i think what you said aboutwomen is so true. i think caretake needs to be a litte more positive you are cute lol

[lovedre]

That melted my heart when you said " I think that the only lady you should put up on that pedestal is your lady. " That was so sweet!

[nicolio112]

lol i love how you said women are not scary. I think by simply knowing that you will never understand women completely, makes you understand women more than the average man does, unintentionally! lol! FYI- you have the most adorable wink. haha!

[Pinkcrusader]

Wait I understand women by not understanding the... I don't understand haha!

[nicolio112]

LOL! You're crazy but in a good way, hahah.

[spiritspins]

As a woman, thank you! You hit the nail on the head. ;)

[lio112]

great video, your right it is more about confidence. There are nasty ppl out there but yeah why would you want to talk to them. I agree on all the points :D

[Fashionistabella]

make anew vlog plz >.<.. i finished watching all urs and im bored :P

[Fashionistabella]

good to know >.<

i luv ur vlogs btw :D

[Pinkcrusader]

Thanks!  :-D

[Fashionistabella]

so chicks dont act all weird around u ?

[Pinkcrusader]

Not usually... most seem pretty at ease around me.

[stateofimpurity]

Im done watching your video.. but I just wanted to comment that you are (i think) wearing a Lacuna Coil.. Woohoo..lol Just thought I would add that now.. :)

[Pinkcrusader]

Yes that is a Lacuna Coil shirt.

[sackofpotatos]

other than being a skinny ass white kid confidence is key...no really it is.....i dunno since iv been outside high school i just stoped caring about stupid things...thus the idea about things are alot easyer to do if you dont think tomuch about them, me personally i just dont think ha ha but yes confedence works people you can do it!

good views bud

[sackofpotatos]

crap i dont mean being a skiny ass white helps...i am 1...and i was a bit selfconscious about it in high school peace yo

[Pinkcrusader]

Hey there are that ladies dig skinny and white. And it's because we're so freaking hansom.

Stay cool SOP!

[minime4444]

cool vid i like all of your vids

[caretaker1379]

Hey Tim, thanks so much for taking the time to make this video. I do realize that it's all in how I present myself and showing confidence in my own abilities. Plus I have to admit I'm a little shy in person and I'm getting better at not being shy :-) thanks again. Keep up the good work with those videos. Talk to you later.

~dan~

[Pinkcrusader]

No problemo my friend.

[zizabiz]

This is a terrific video and absolutely true....except for the pedistol thing... I think your mom should also get one ;) haha.

[Pinkcrusader]

Yeah but they get a Mom pedestal.

[zizabiz]

thanks for putting it that way. I was wondering how that worked. I was going to add on to my first comment that they shouldn't be as high, but then I thought, well that's not right either. You're right. Its just a completely different pedestol. ;) Anyway. Well done.

[ouREvilone]

Thats great advice. It is important to remember that we are all equal really like you said, dont put em on a pedastal. If someone rejects you, yes it may be humiliating at the time and some short time after but you can get over it. Not trying is more humiliating to the self I think so yeah, use confidence and showcase personality.

[Pinkcrusader]

Exactly if you never try it's bad for your personal self image I think.

[anemotionalweek]

I've made videos about this topic and said a lot of similar things...but mine is from the girl's point of view. :) Because of my stupid camera/computer, I haven't been able to post them, but hopefully I'll be able to soon, or I'll make a new response to show you how I feel.

[colie3035]

you are still getting the girls cause you have an awsome personality, and ur just a stud...lol

[Pinkcrusader]

I am devilishly hansom. ;)

[dafttool]

Plus, you're not afraid to embrace your inner monkey. :)

[Pinkcrusader]

You know it!  Chicka Chicka Whaaaat!

[colie3035]

hahahahhaha yess devilishly handsom is what you could say very handsome lol

[dafttool]

Cool of you to do this for that guy. Attitude is everything when approaching somebody new. You definitely know how to work the quirky cute guy angle (that's a compliment).

Besides freezing up before even saying hello, I think a big problem for guys meeting potential mates is coming on too strong. Think more of meeting a new friend than meeting a potential new bed mate. Acting desperate is a real turn off.

[Pinkcrusader]

I totally agree.

[chefmaris]

as always, very nice video :D

[Pinkcrusader]

Thanks Maris you are the coolest!