Grazie "Ragazzo/Uomo Bello" (Beautiful Boy/Man) for making this wonderful contribution to a "Campaign" or project if you will, that is so dear to my heart! I know "Bello" that it will continue to resonate with so many! You've made Bobby Griffiths' (Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend "Blaine" here most grateful to, and f**king proud of you! You "Canucks"rock "Bello"!
Just one question: How do you know when you're ok with yourself and you can finally accept it and don't feel guilty? (Ok that was like 3 questions in one)
Question two: How is it that I feel that I wanna be with a guy SO BAD yet I feel some sort of guilt like I'm doing something that I shouldn't be doing? (Nothing to do with religion, just stuff with myself)
VERY RARELY are children socialized to accept gays. It's changing as more parents are gay/lesbian, and more straight parents have G/L family and friends.
Gender roles are INGRAINED from childhood. If you're curious, it's OK.
Be okay with, accepting of, and patient with yourself AS you are, WHERE you are, HOW you look, HOW you love, and with WHAT you have. Let self-acceptance be Zen: current with who you are and what you know about yourself. Be kind and friendly to yourself.
i only just watched this video on the it gets better project site, and i can honesly say that it made me all emotional.
i myself am straight but i can kinda relate to your story through my friends.
i've had a few guy friends who have come out as gay and i've seen and heard first hand by them what kind of emotions they go through when considering to reveal this part of themselves.as you said, being a teenager is hard enough
thank you for your inspiring view on the topic. :)
Leviticus 18:22 Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it [is] abomination.
Romans 1: 26 For this cause YHVH gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
If you are struggling with the sins of homosexuality, adultry, masturbation, porn, abortion, etc., PLEASE, turn to Christ for healing. Christ loves you and will forgive you. Christ will save you for God desires that none should perish. Christ is the only hope.
An ugly, obese, talentless pig who sings like a cat being ripped through a fanbelt and wears his Christianity on his sleeve while trolling around on Youtube spewing hate, unable to use proper grammar or punctuation, calls me a sick twisted cunt and I'm supposed to lose sleep over this? Did I miss something?
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@bcfilmguy i've lost over 50 pounds them video's are all old i've been working out and even when i was fat i was still more handsome then you you sissy boy.. and i don't suck cock like you sissy..
@jasonmildward34 Congratulations on losing the weight. All you need now is an education, the slightest shred of talent and personality and you're all set. Good luck with that.
@jasonmildward34 you need to step out of the 18th century. I actually just realized that I was bisexual and now that I know I am...I can remember instances from when I was 3 and 4 that was very homosexual in context. Now, at 3 or 4 years old you cant say "I'm going to be gay" because a majority of children that age have no idea what gay even means. You may have some homosexual issues that you need to settle before you can pass any sort of judgement on anyone else. Maybe you are gay yourself.
It gets better wheny ou abandon homosexuality! It is sick and deviant to teach it to children, to force it on children, to encourage or support children to do it! It will get better when you find friends and people who will support and help you to resist this sick propaganda! Just say no to Homosexualism!
terrific video man! you are all beautiful for sharing your story! If i had a camera i would be right with you all!.. I attempted suicide at 18 cause i was gay and these videos and sentiments would DEFINITELY have prevented that.. I was lucky to have a great friend who saved me from dying!
This kind of issue could be easily Avoided if people were accepting. I'm christian and my church accepts gays and doesn't think being gay is a sin because it isn't. This is a serious issue and all some people do is hate and THAT is what is morally wrong. Whether you agree with homosexuality or not is one thing but people don't need to aggressively push this ideas on others.
What will happen to you when you die? Have you ever told lies, stolen, used God's name in vain, or looked at someone with lust? If yes, then you are a lying, theiving, blasphemous, adulterer at heart. When you die & stand before God you'll be guilty of breaking His law. The bible says you'll end up in Hell! But God sent God his Son Jesus to die for your sins, & He rose from the dead on the third day. If you'll believe the Gospel(Jesus died for your sins & was resurrected) you'll be saved!
FUCK YOU HOMO!!! FUCK HOMOS!!!!!!!!FUCK[NOT LITTERALY COUSE YOU MIGHT LIKE:))))] FAGGOTS !!!!!SATAN WILL FUCK ALL OF YOU IN HELL,YOU STUPID LIVING BEINGS,HAVE NO FUCKING BRAIN,YOU ARE SO STUPID THAT YOU CANNOT REALIZE WHAT YOU SEE,YOU HAVE A DICK U ARE MAN,PUSSY-WOMAN,SO WHAT A FUCK IS YOUR PROBLEM?I WOULD LOCK ALL HOMO MEN ON A ISLAND TO SEE HOW YOU MOTHER FUCKERS WILL MAKE BABIES !
This poor kid killed himself because he DIDN'T want the world to know that he had commited an homosexual act. Now we all know, thanks to people like you. This is wrong even by your own standards. Right?? You are exploting this child for your own gain. Shame on you!!
I just got like really depressed while watching this video. I was thinking about all of the horrible things that homophobes will do to the gay community and it made me sad. I don't understand how people can treat others that way. I'm straight, and I believe that anyone should be able to be with whomever they wish, regardless of any and all circumstances.
I believe that as human beings we all have equal rights I am straight but i do have gay friends whom i love . if god doesn't judge them then who are we to do so! It is sad to know that these kids died because of other kids that don't know what they are doing! Think about things before you saying them.My prayers go out the family's who lost their children!
I believe that as human beings we all have equal rights I am straight but i do have gay friends whom i love . if god doesn't judge them then who are we to do so! It is sad to know that these kids died because of other kids that don't know what they are doing! Think about things before you saying them.My prayers go out the family's who lost their children!
I believe that as human beings we all have equal rights I am straight but i do have gay friends whom i love . if god doesn't judge them then who are we to do so! It is sad to know that these kids died because of other kids that don't know what they are doing! Think about things before you saying them.My prayers go out the family's who lost their children!
I believe that as human beings we all have equal rights I am straight but i do have gay friends whom i love . if god doesn't judge them then who are we to do so! It is sad to know that these kids died because of other kids that don't know what they are doing! Think about things before you saying them.My prayers go out the family's who lost their children!
Nothing wrong with coming from a Cookie Cutter or being one. Perhaps you've missed the point. Most homosexuals are birthed as a result of heterosexual activity. It's not that you failed in raising an individual as heterosexual, it's that a person you love is suppressing emotions with no where to turn! The hope here to make them feel okay with these emotions. It's not trying to convert anyone - but it does have to be THEIR choice for their LIFE.
@CapHillgwm Think his point was that he's Oreocremerocks and therefore he came form a cookie cutter. Still you're point is very true :) Thanks for the post.
FIRST OFF, I JUST WANT IT TO BE KNOWN THAT, I AM GAY (CLOSETED) AND THE REASON I HAVEN'T CAME OOUT TO ANYONE IS BECAUSE WHERE I'M FROM (BAHAMAS) MANY PEOPLE ARE CLOSE MINDED TOWARDS HOMOSEXUALITY AND OTHER STUFF THAT MAKES US ALL DIFFERENT. I THINK SOME OF MY FAMILY MEMBERS KNOW BUT KEEP IT A SECRET. I'M SO GLAD THAT THERE ARE PROGRAMS LIKE THE "IT GETS BETTER PROJECT" TO HELP OTHERS IN MY SITUATION, BUT I REALLY WISH THAT WE HAD A PROGRAM LIKE THIS HERE.
@platinumrubies85 I hope you find a way to be happy as gay. I know the Caribbean can be tough... I wonder if you can save up and come to the U.S. or Canada or Europe... I know that's kinda arrogant, though. It's hard to leave where you're from, and it's hard to change things where you are, too. Maybe there's an online group for people like you or a place to go. You're right; people all over the world need more help or as much help as those of us in the U.S. or Canada. Good luck. <3
great video, it is very cool. You have it together. It is so honest and live. You are here to help people. You are so good at helping, it is your calling. I will be the first to donate to your foundation. Your vid is really touching.
ya! ya! and dakshajackson- his balls and his education= no difference. fuck you ya little kkk white trash. get yer head outta that jiant condom and notice im f$@king your mom and killing your first born child. imma rape your wife and burn down your house to. Prepare for step
Hey !!!! What is wrong about coming from a Cookie Cutter! Where would I be now without them? I mean my youtube name would just be Cremerocks! and that just sounds weird!!
Seriously tho,message was spot on! When my Aunt came out she went thru you those same arguements in her head with how our very southern family was going to react. She decided to do it after a Holiday dinner. Everyone was laughing having fun, she stood up and just said it "Im Gay." Everyone looked up and most said " We know" and went right back to laughing, playing cards, etc. I wish I could share her face at that moment. You see the worry and pain melt away, her new smiles are priceless
Thanks for the honesty and passion that you speak with. You sound like a guy who knows where he is going and what he wants from life. Kids need the model you provide.
THANK YOU for releasing a video that's truly candid and honest yet delivered with gentleness. i've been quite disappointed with the number of It Gets Better submission that are altogether too abrasive and self-involved. yours spoke from the right place, and i'm certain that it'll help any youth who give it a watch. again, thanks. :)
Thank you for posting this. It is relieving to come out of the closet, even if only to yourself, so long as you stop trying to make yourself something that you're not.
Thanks for posting this, was drawn to another BCer and was not disappointed. Agreed with everything you said. Feeling quite inspired to create my own video now!
thanks for this. one thing I disagree with is that it's relieving to come out. I came out to my family about being a different religion, and I can't imagine how they would have reacted to me being gay. for some people, who know their family won't be supportive, it's probably better not to come out until they get older and have their own income.
@tereitz08 I think it depends on your situation. If it's going to put you in a position of danger or further pain, then maybe the person wants to wait. But the thing is once you're out there's nothing to hide anymore. You feel like you're being truthful to yourself and all of the wondering and worrying is over. All I mean is that people can surprise you if they truly love you, regardless of how they feel about gay people. But it has to be each person's choice as to when they come out.
A wonderful, thoughtful video. I thought your comments on projecting thoughts and hurtful words onto your loved ones within your own head was particularly insightful.
I'm sure this will help many struggling kids/adults.
@bcfilmguy
Ciao Bello!
Grazie "Ragazzo/Uomo Bello" (Beautiful Boy/Man) for making this wonderful contribution to a "Campaign" or project if you will, that is so dear to my heart! I know "Bello" that it will continue to resonate with so many! You've made Bobby Griffiths' (Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend "Blaine" here most grateful to, and f**king proud of you! You "Canucks"rock "Bello"!
Con L'Amore e Molti Baci! (Love n' Kisses Babe)
Blaine
blainebill39 6 months ago
what's wrong with the audio?
1996squareenix 7 months ago
@1996squareenix Hmmm. Playing fine here. What's wrong?
bcfilmguy 7 months ago
I live in Vancouver too!
TheBobnz 7 months ago
awesome vid dude, so glad i stumbled upon it, thanks.
spincrazy88 9 months ago
OMG haha i love your video's haha :)
CrazedLe 10 months ago
thank you for sharing this
htarceno 1 year ago 3
bcfilmguy: Would you like a full body massage? You are thoroughly charming and attractive. ;-)
CanTake8 1 year ago
bcfilmguy: Would you like a full body massage? ;-)
CanTake8 1 year ago
thanks.
Mattyb88ful 1 year ago
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gay is people too.
swufestone1990 1 year ago
beautiful. thank u!
theycalledmestephen 1 year ago
Just one question: How do you know when you're ok with yourself and you can finally accept it and don't feel guilty? (Ok that was like 3 questions in one)
Question two: How is it that I feel that I wanna be with a guy SO BAD yet I feel some sort of guilt like I'm doing something that I shouldn't be doing? (Nothing to do with religion, just stuff with myself)
preppyboy9016 1 year ago
@preppyboy9016:
VERY RARELY are children socialized to accept gays. It's changing as more parents are gay/lesbian, and more straight parents have G/L family and friends.
Gender roles are INGRAINED from childhood. If you're curious, it's OK.
Be okay with, accepting of, and patient with yourself AS you are, WHERE you are, HOW you look, HOW you love, and with WHAT you have. Let self-acceptance be Zen: current with who you are and what you know about yourself. Be kind and friendly to yourself.
CanTake8 1 year ago
i only just watched this video on the it gets better project site, and i can honesly say that it made me all emotional.
i myself am straight but i can kinda relate to your story through my friends.
i've had a few guy friends who have come out as gay and i've seen and heard first hand by them what kind of emotions they go through when considering to reveal this part of themselves.as you said, being a teenager is hard enough
thank you for your inspiring view on the topic. :)
J3ssy0Jay 1 year ago
i just wanted to make a comment that wasn't fighting. gay people are just people and i support people :)
11Kray 1 year ago
I'm just fucking confused.
Taarable 1 year ago
Thanks for sharing your story.
melanievo1 1 year ago
@bcfilmguy
I've been having quite a time responding to posts regarding the Lifetime
movie "Prayers For Bobby"! Bobby Griffith and I dated for a couple of years before
he took his own life. I was completely illequiped, as a 19yr old boy ,to cope with
the unexpected death of one I had cared for deeply!
blainebill39 1 year ago
@bcfilmguy I feel it incumbent upon
myself, to insist on just how beautiful life can be, and what enriching experiences
can be had!
What's really encouraging my friend, is that many are now denouncing this
horrific phenomenon, not just queer folks like us!
Thank you for speaking up!
May G-D Bless You!
Blaine
blainebill39 1 year ago
Wonderful sweetie : )))
redbebek 1 year ago
Dude, what an awesome video! Thanks.
Yaarik 1 year ago
You are one cute canadian. You are going to make a man "better" in your life.
Gay Man From Dallas, Texas
txguy1980 1 year ago
Good post!
orlando104 1 year ago
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Repent Gays
Leviticus 18:22 Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it [is] abomination.
Romans 1: 26 For this cause YHVH gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
derekdb2 1 year ago
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If you are struggling with the sins of homosexuality, adultry, masturbation, porn, abortion, etc., PLEASE, turn to Christ for healing. Christ loves you and will forgive you. Christ will save you for God desires that none should perish. Christ is the only hope.
mrchiefofsinners 1 year ago
@mrchiefofsinners Thanks, I'm good.
bcfilmguy 1 year ago 8
@mrchiefofsinners no need were not sinning maybe u should pray for spreding animity
phoenixofblack 1 year ago
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To Boys sucking eather other off is Sick and Wrong NO ONE IS BORN GAY IT'S A Choice YOU SICK TWISTED CUNT..
jasonmildward34 1 year ago
@jasonmildward34 Let me make sure I've got this right...
An ugly, obese, talentless pig who sings like a cat being ripped through a fanbelt and wears his Christianity on his sleeve while trolling around on Youtube spewing hate, unable to use proper grammar or punctuation, calls me a sick twisted cunt and I'm supposed to lose sleep over this? Did I miss something?
bcfilmguy 1 year ago 5
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@bcfilmguy i've lost over 50 pounds them video's are all old i've been working out and even when i was fat i was still more handsome then you you sissy boy.. and i don't suck cock like you sissy..
jasonmildward34 1 year ago
@jasonmildward34 Congratulations on losing the weight. All you need now is an education, the slightest shred of talent and personality and you're all set. Good luck with that.
bcfilmguy 1 year ago 26
@jasonmildward34
"IT'S A Choice" ??
I believe you just outed yourself as bisexual, dumbass.
micronautp 1 year ago
@jasonmildward34 you need to step out of the 18th century. I actually just realized that I was bisexual and now that I know I am...I can remember instances from when I was 3 and 4 that was very homosexual in context. Now, at 3 or 4 years old you cant say "I'm going to be gay" because a majority of children that age have no idea what gay even means. You may have some homosexual issues that you need to settle before you can pass any sort of judgement on anyone else. Maybe you are gay yourself.
dragonchaser01 1 year ago
@jasonmildward34 So you're saying that you yourself are gay and that you're choosing to be straight?
No... That couldn't be. Sounds more like you're gay and in denial.
YouStoleMyTube 1 year ago
@YouStoleMyTube When your a sexy man like me everyone wants you so it's no wonder your hot for me lot's of homo sissy boys are atracted to me..
jasonmildward34 1 year ago
@jasonmildward34 No... I bet your ugly personality keeps normal, sane human beings far away from you...
YouStoleMyTube 1 year ago
@YouStoleMyTube Look i'm flatered that your atracted to me but i'm not going to sex with your anal.. sorry i'm not a homo..
jasonmildward34 1 year ago
@jasonmildward34 You're not homo? Then why are you obsessed with anal?
CanTake8 1 year ago
why are those damn canadian guys always so hot ?
driverain2 1 year ago 19
@driverain2 Haha. I'll speak to the rest of the group and maybe we can figure it out. lol. Thanks :)
bcfilmguy 1 year ago 5
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It gets better wheny ou abandon homosexuality! It is sick and deviant to teach it to children, to force it on children, to encourage or support children to do it! It will get better when you find friends and people who will support and help you to resist this sick propaganda! Just say no to Homosexualism!
animefareast 1 year ago
You just might have saved a few lives with your vid. Your a good man BCfilmguy!
bobeaux 1 year ago
bcflim guy = better canadian flim guy
5hape5ter 1 year ago
@5hape5ter Haha. Thanks man. We'll see what the future brings :)
bcfilmguy 1 year ago
Thank You. I would not say the traditionalist are boring at least not all :)
shannonleec 1 year ago
Thanks for your story!
richtafel 1 year ago
You come across as masculine and sane, which is what the tormented need to see. You are a very handsome guy which will also inspire.
wynn904 1 year ago
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Fags should get bullied.
5iv3z 1 year ago
terrific video man! you are all beautiful for sharing your story! If i had a camera i would be right with you all!.. I attempted suicide at 18 cause i was gay and these videos and sentiments would DEFINITELY have prevented that.. I was lucky to have a great friend who saved me from dying!
PeggFan76 1 year ago 2
This kind of issue could be easily Avoided if people were accepting. I'm christian and my church accepts gays and doesn't think being gay is a sin because it isn't. This is a serious issue and all some people do is hate and THAT is what is morally wrong. Whether you agree with homosexuality or not is one thing but people don't need to aggressively push this ideas on others.
coinhuntr10 1 year ago 4
thank you
geelatty 1 year ago
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What will happen to you when you die? Have you ever told lies, stolen, used God's name in vain, or looked at someone with lust? If yes, then you are a lying, theiving, blasphemous, adulterer at heart. When you die & stand before God you'll be guilty of breaking His law. The bible says you'll end up in Hell! But God sent God his Son Jesus to die for your sins, & He rose from the dead on the third day. If you'll believe the Gospel(Jesus died for your sins & was resurrected) you'll be saved!
gramosjr7 1 year ago
@gramosjr7
Thank God I'm an atheist, so I don't have to deal with all those weird fairytales.
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FUCK YOU HOMO!!! FUCK HOMOS!!!!!!!!FUCK[NOT LITTERALY COUSE YOU MIGHT LIKE:))))] FAGGOTS !!!!!SATAN WILL FUCK ALL OF YOU IN HELL,YOU STUPID LIVING BEINGS,HAVE NO FUCKING BRAIN,YOU ARE SO STUPID THAT YOU CANNOT REALIZE WHAT YOU SEE,YOU HAVE A DICK U ARE MAN,PUSSY-WOMAN,SO WHAT A FUCK IS YOUR PROBLEM?I WOULD LOCK ALL HOMO MEN ON A ISLAND TO SEE HOW YOU MOTHER FUCKERS WILL MAKE BABIES !
MyMindIsEverything 1 year ago
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This poor kid killed himself because he DIDN'T want the world to know that he had commited an homosexual act. Now we all know, thanks to people like you. This is wrong even by your own standards. Right?? You are exploting this child for your own gain. Shame on you!!
inkblotangel 1 year ago
I just got like really depressed while watching this video. I was thinking about all of the horrible things that homophobes will do to the gay community and it made me sad. I don't understand how people can treat others that way. I'm straight, and I believe that anyone should be able to be with whomever they wish, regardless of any and all circumstances.
ParaTobEnce 1 year ago
you re a sweet guy, thank you so much :-)
cbba18 1 year ago
I believe that as human beings we all have equal rights I am straight but i do have gay friends whom i love . if god doesn't judge them then who are we to do so! It is sad to know that these kids died because of other kids that don't know what they are doing! Think about things before you saying them.My prayers go out the family's who lost their children!
marilovesmarcos 1 year ago
I believe that as human beings we all have equal rights I am straight but i do have gay friends whom i love . if god doesn't judge them then who are we to do so! It is sad to know that these kids died because of other kids that don't know what they are doing! Think about things before you saying them.My prayers go out the family's who lost their children!
marilovesmarcos 1 year ago
I believe that as human beings we all have equal rights I am straight but i do have gay friends whom i love . if god doesn't judge them then who are we to do so! It is sad to know that these kids died because of other kids that don't know what they are doing! Think about things before you saying them.My prayers go out the family's who lost their children!
marilovesmarcos 1 year ago
I believe that as human beings we all have equal rights I am straight but i do have gay friends whom i love . if god doesn't judge them then who are we to do so! It is sad to know that these kids died because of other kids that don't know what they are doing! Think about things before you saying them.My prayers go out the family's who lost their children!
marilovesmarcos 1 year ago
thanks for the clear reason and the calm encouragement
you make a good example and
you present great reasons for youth to not fear coming out.
TheAmatul 1 year ago
thanks for the clear reason and the calm encouragement
you make a good example and
you present great reasons for youth to not fear coming out.
TheAmatul 1 year ago
Thank 'god' we live in Canada where it's a bit easier to be who you are than many places in the world. It's better to be who you are.
123benny4 1 year ago
Thank 'god' we live in Canada where it's a bit easier to be who you are than many places in the world.
123benny4 1 year ago
Thank you everyone for the overwhelmingly positive comments. I'm glad to see this project is getting a good response. Peace.
bcfilmguy 1 year ago 19
Nothing wrong with coming from a Cookie Cutter or being one. Perhaps you've missed the point. Most homosexuals are birthed as a result of heterosexual activity. It's not that you failed in raising an individual as heterosexual, it's that a person you love is suppressing emotions with no where to turn! The hope here to make them feel okay with these emotions. It's not trying to convert anyone - but it does have to be THEIR choice for their LIFE.
CapHillgwm 1 year ago
@CapHillgwm Think his point was that he's Oreocremerocks and therefore he came form a cookie cutter. Still you're point is very true :) Thanks for the post.
bcfilmguy 1 year ago
Oh no. He's fine.
daamqc 1 year ago
you are good!
lexington210 1 year ago
at least canadians and the canadian government have decided to validate same sex relationships and has same-sex marriage nationwide- go canada
hansendesigns 1 year ago
FIRST OFF, I JUST WANT IT TO BE KNOWN THAT, I AM GAY (CLOSETED) AND THE REASON I HAVEN'T CAME OOUT TO ANYONE IS BECAUSE WHERE I'M FROM (BAHAMAS) MANY PEOPLE ARE CLOSE MINDED TOWARDS HOMOSEXUALITY AND OTHER STUFF THAT MAKES US ALL DIFFERENT. I THINK SOME OF MY FAMILY MEMBERS KNOW BUT KEEP IT A SECRET. I'M SO GLAD THAT THERE ARE PROGRAMS LIKE THE "IT GETS BETTER PROJECT" TO HELP OTHERS IN MY SITUATION, BUT I REALLY WISH THAT WE HAD A PROGRAM LIKE THIS HERE.
platinumrubies85 1 year ago 3
@platinumrubies85 I hope you find a way to be happy as gay. I know the Caribbean can be tough... I wonder if you can save up and come to the U.S. or Canada or Europe... I know that's kinda arrogant, though. It's hard to leave where you're from, and it's hard to change things where you are, too. Maybe there's an online group for people like you or a place to go. You're right; people all over the world need more help or as much help as those of us in the U.S. or Canada. Good luck. <3
atlasfalcon 1 year ago
great video, it is very cool. You have it together. It is so honest and live. You are here to help people. You are so good at helping, it is your calling. I will be the first to donate to your foundation. Your vid is really touching.
scotzone 1 year ago
I'm 53 years old and my soon to be husband is 49. he has a retirement fund of 64 k, I have 22k in the bank. It get's better and better.
scotzone 1 year ago
"the thing that makes you different is the thing that makes you special" such a nice sentiment, and true. thanks!
invisblchzbrgr 1 year ago
Highschool is so fucking hard, and in my small city I have no friends, but I have boyfriend, so he keeps me alive!
dragonicelv 1 year ago
Too cute!
CarbonX21 1 year ago
IT WILL GET BETTER. And thanks to people like Dan, his family and people like this guy here... Support is out here. Were here for you guys....
freespirited2010 1 year ago
Nice contribution. I agree with queerDIYguy, you are really cute! Do you live in BC?
drumbunny 1 year ago
im no gay, but
they need the nobel peace prize. gays adopt, lessening the human population = less polution
ZZXdestruction 1 year ago
@dakshajackson
ya! ya! and dakshajackson- his balls and his education= no difference. fuck you ya little kkk white trash. get yer head outta that jiant condom and notice im f$@king your mom and killing your first born child. imma rape your wife and burn down your house to. Prepare for step
one *licks lips*
ZZXdestruction 1 year ago
@dakshajackson - less ignorance = better USA
Great video by the way, thanks for sharing. You summed things up well and hopefully someone out there will find this of use to them. :-D
universALLove2 1 year ago
I am in Vancouver too!
subarianEra 1 year ago
Awesome!
GetOutNGetFit 1 year ago
Great video, thanks mate. It happens here in Oz too, and this project is a great response.
InfiniteAnth 1 year ago
Hey !!!! What is wrong about coming from a Cookie Cutter! Where would I be now without them? I mean my youtube name would just be Cremerocks! and that just sounds weird!!
Oreocremerocks 1 year ago
Seriously tho,message was spot on! When my Aunt came out she went thru you those same arguements in her head with how our very southern family was going to react. She decided to do it after a Holiday dinner. Everyone was laughing having fun, she stood up and just said it "Im Gay." Everyone looked up and most said " We know" and went right back to laughing, playing cards, etc. I wish I could share her face at that moment. You see the worry and pain melt away, her new smiles are priceless
Oreocremerocks 1 year ago
@Oreocremerocks Point taken.
bcfilmguy 1 year ago
@Oreocremerocks
CapHillgwm 1 year ago
you are great!!!
joejie552 1 year ago
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less gays=better USA!!!
dakshajackson 1 year ago
@dakshajackson
so uneducated!
joejie552 1 year ago 2
@dakshajackson fuck you.. how about LESS CLOSE MINDED PEOPLE? THE BETTER? HUH have you ever thought about that? get a fucking education..
subarianEra 1 year ago 3
@dakshajackson WHY!? are u watching a video on homosexuals? GET OUT OF HERE!
subarianEra 1 year ago 3
Thanks for sharing sexy!!
ChefKazzey 1 year ago
Thank you so much!!!!
justin25taylor 1 year ago
Thanks for the honesty and passion that you speak with. You sound like a guy who knows where he is going and what he wants from life. Kids need the model you provide.
herdfan1990 1 year ago
your my hero!
melanielina1994 1 year ago
Great vid i created one on my channel after seeing yours
josephga 1 year ago
Great job on the video, I could not have said it better myself.
jonsema 1 year ago
THANK YOU for releasing a video that's truly candid and honest yet delivered with gentleness. i've been quite disappointed with the number of It Gets Better submission that are altogether too abrasive and self-involved. yours spoke from the right place, and i'm certain that it'll help any youth who give it a watch. again, thanks. :)
switch1979 1 year ago
Thanks for sharin this with us fellow canadian :D
SakuraAvalonBleac25 1 year ago
Thank you so much for this thoughtful contribution. You're also really cute... are you single?
-- another Vancouverite ;)
queerDIYguy 1 year ago
@queerDIYguy Haha. Thanks for the support. Yeah, single.
bcfilmguy 1 year ago
@bcfilmguy Splendid. What's your type?
Hah, I think I'm a bit off-topic now.
queerDIYguy 1 year ago
Thank you for posting this. It is relieving to come out of the closet, even if only to yourself, so long as you stop trying to make yourself something that you're not.
mikerioshbg 1 year ago
Thanks for posting this, was drawn to another BCer and was not disappointed. Agreed with everything you said. Feeling quite inspired to create my own video now!
cakesalie1 1 year ago
It does get better. Please check out my video.
dennisreplogle 1 year ago
I'm shocked
jolynpasley 1 year ago
@jolynpasley You're shocked?
bcfilmguy 1 year ago
thanks for this. one thing I disagree with is that it's relieving to come out. I came out to my family about being a different religion, and I can't imagine how they would have reacted to me being gay. for some people, who know their family won't be supportive, it's probably better not to come out until they get older and have their own income.
tereitz08 1 year ago
@tereitz08 I think it depends on your situation. If it's going to put you in a position of danger or further pain, then maybe the person wants to wait. But the thing is once you're out there's nothing to hide anymore. You feel like you're being truthful to yourself and all of the wondering and worrying is over. All I mean is that people can surprise you if they truly love you, regardless of how they feel about gay people. But it has to be each person's choice as to when they come out.
bcfilmguy 1 year ago
Thank you for creating a video.
Every bit helps.
All the best, Terry
TheeTerryMiller 1 year ago 7
A wonderful, thoughtful video. I thought your comments on projecting thoughts and hurtful words onto your loved ones within your own head was particularly insightful.
I'm sure this will help many struggling kids/adults.
joyous1100 1 year ago 5
Thanks for posting this. I think it's an incredible project, and it's a wonderful thing that you put yourself out there to open up and participate.
filmstocker 1 year ago