I know I don't love a gold digger. Lol. "Women want security". How about u get a job and take care of your damn self. Bring something to the table besides looks and a phat ass.
I was watching this when it was first posted. It was in my subscription book. My mom was in the room when I was watching and she was nodding along to everything you said. Because her husband left her for a 21 year old and he's losing all kinds of money and he never had that problem when he was with my mom.
Looks and money serve a similar function in a relationship - bait!!! We always tend to criticise women that go for money, but is it really that much worse than going for looks? It depends on the motivations of the woman. if the woman was raised with money, and is accustomed to a certain lifestyle, to me her interest in a man's money is understandable, and chances are she will be making a decent wage herself.
A gold digger, to me, is a social climber, not a woman of privilege. Avoid them.
You are an Armature Philosopher that really doesn’t research what you’re saying. However society pushes men to be these care givers that eventually will give money to women. This is a capsules society that practice having money is having power. Over 90% of relationships i.e. marriages end because of finical reason I’m sure you would not be doing this YOUTUB or your profession without money.
Our attractions are intrinsic and not intellectually driven.Deep down on a DNA level women are attracted to men who have status and power; men are attracted to women who look fertile and healthy. I think women understand the attractions come from a DNA level and the brothas don't. I think that's what's causing this air of misogynism because the brothas think women are being superficial when they choose men that can provide for them. I think some women are being unjustly being called golddiggers.
@Superfoot I wouldn't exactly say that. There's a difference between things that are a necessity and things that are wanted simply out of greed. Be careful not to confuse the two.
@Emmarose81 preach preach I believe it's time to stop dating broke as people say it's important to meet a guy with a plan who's willing to and is working towards his goals !! =)
Most guys that I know who actively seek out the "gold digger" do so for the easy access to sex. A brother on my job explained to me that he would rather pay a woman's car note, house note, light bill etc., and get the guaranteed sex with no strings attached rather than go through the dating process that may mean drama, missing football games, going places he doesn't want to etc. I personally have never met a guy that is in love with a gold digger though. Interesting topic.
before i met a guy i truly that i loved, if i ever had the option to date a guy with a decent job... i did..most of the time they were selfish assholes.
but now that i know what is truly important to me i don't think i will ever go back to looking for a guy with money purposely
Some folks are more emotionally self-sustaining than others. They can handle the dynamics of a GD relationship bc they don't need/prefer to be in a healthy romantic relationship. It's not for everyone. If a man falls for a gold digger or a woman unintentionally prostitutes herself, they are begging to be played. Men, just bc you see some big balling brotha rocking the lastest chick on his arm doesn't mean her type is for you. Every cent in a dime chick is actually worth $10K or more.
I wouldn't say all men love gold diggers, but many of us do mess with them.
Men like to have sex, and gold diggers tend to give it up quicker if they know or think you have money.
If a guy needs to have sex it's so much easier to clean your ride out, put on some fresh clothes, smell good, and carry yourself like you got it going on. We can spot the who's the easy pantie dropping gold digger from a mile away.
At the club, in the store, out on the street, and even in church.
@Mrbaltimore2001 I soooooo appreciate your honesty!! Sadly, the gold diggers don't even GET that THEY are actually the ones getting played! If they KNEW better, they would DO better.
I know I don't love a gold digger. Lol. "Women want security". How about u get a job and take care of your damn self. Bring something to the table besides looks and a phat ass.
RalphFee 6 months ago
I was watching this when it was first posted. It was in my subscription book. My mom was in the room when I was watching and she was nodding along to everything you said. Because her husband left her for a 21 year old and he's losing all kinds of money and he never had that problem when he was with my mom.
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Looks and money serve a similar function in a relationship - bait!!! We always tend to criticise women that go for money, but is it really that much worse than going for looks? It depends on the motivations of the woman. if the woman was raised with money, and is accustomed to a certain lifestyle, to me her interest in a man's money is understandable, and chances are she will be making a decent wage herself.
A gold digger, to me, is a social climber, not a woman of privilege. Avoid them.
lamentate07 1 year ago
You are an Armature Philosopher that really doesn’t research what you’re saying. However society pushes men to be these care givers that eventually will give money to women. This is a capsules society that practice having money is having power. Over 90% of relationships i.e. marriages end because of finical reason I’m sure you would not be doing this YOUTUB or your profession without money.
collinsmichael0355 1 year ago
what if your man is just cheap. What if he would rather spend his money on himself, his family (parents, sisters etc) and not you....?
Ginavaclose 1 year ago
str8 up
JadaQuan44 1 year ago
Our attractions are intrinsic and not intellectually driven.Deep down on a DNA level women are attracted to men who have status and power; men are attracted to women who look fertile and healthy. I think women understand the attractions come from a DNA level and the brothas don't. I think that's what's causing this air of misogynism because the brothas think women are being superficial when they choose men that can provide for them. I think some women are being unjustly being called golddiggers.
Superfoot 1 year ago
@Superfoot I wouldn't exactly say that. There's a difference between things that are a necessity and things that are wanted simply out of greed. Be careful not to confuse the two.
thuglifegreg24 1 year ago
Good video. I think Shay was fair in this video. She addressed both sides.
nmr20067 1 year ago
All I date is broke guys. I'm ready to upgrade.
Emmarose81 1 year ago
@Emmarose81 preach preach I believe it's time to stop dating broke as people say it's important to meet a guy with a plan who's willing to and is working towards his goals !! =)
Morrocanprincess 1 year ago
men who throw money at me are unattractive to me
shieva 1 year ago
Men who have a lot of money, are extremely horny, and old/ ugly love gold diggers.
ProphetGuardian 1 year ago 3
I used to be genuine and date men for who they really were.... NOT ANYMORE..
JHUTTOB 1 year ago
Most guys that I know who actively seek out the "gold digger" do so for the easy access to sex. A brother on my job explained to me that he would rather pay a woman's car note, house note, light bill etc., and get the guaranteed sex with no strings attached rather than go through the dating process that may mean drama, missing football games, going places he doesn't want to etc. I personally have never met a guy that is in love with a gold digger though. Interesting topic.
madefrom9 1 year ago
before i met a guy i truly that i loved, if i ever had the option to date a guy with a decent job... i did..most of the time they were selfish assholes.
but now that i know what is truly important to me i don't think i will ever go back to looking for a guy with money purposely
YouPastDue 1 year ago
We're learning the Diva secrets here.
Cliff1719 1 year ago
Some folks are more emotionally self-sustaining than others. They can handle the dynamics of a GD relationship bc they don't need/prefer to be in a healthy romantic relationship. It's not for everyone. If a man falls for a gold digger or a woman unintentionally prostitutes herself, they are begging to be played. Men, just bc you see some big balling brotha rocking the lastest chick on his arm doesn't mean her type is for you. Every cent in a dime chick is actually worth $10K or more.
WellDamn24 1 year ago
I wouldn't say all men love gold diggers, but many of us do mess with them.
Men like to have sex, and gold diggers tend to give it up quicker if they know or think you have money.
If a guy needs to have sex it's so much easier to clean your ride out, put on some fresh clothes, smell good, and carry yourself like you got it going on. We can spot the who's the easy pantie dropping gold digger from a mile away.
At the club, in the store, out on the street, and even in church.
Mrbaltimore2001 1 year ago
@Mrbaltimore2001 I soooooo appreciate your honesty!! Sadly, the gold diggers don't even GET that THEY are actually the ones getting played! If they KNEW better, they would DO better.
Hugs from Philly...
Inmypumps 1 year ago
Is this Judy Winslow?
dldowell1122 1 year ago