That same thing happened to me when I was 9 but it was my first piercing and my mom flipped out in my dad...and their married! Lol Smh I just think it's a mom thing. They try to find reasons to be mad Smh.
YOU SHOULDVE TOLD HER FIRST BUT SADLY IF IT WERE VISE VERSE SHE WOULDNT TOLD YOU SMH.... I HAVE A SON AND I GO THOUGH THAT ALOT , ITS LIKE THE FATHER CANT DO ANYTHING WITHOUT THE APPROVAL OF THE MOTHER WHICH IS OK BUT THEY DONT RESPECT YOUR AUTHORITY SMH NO MORE KINDS BY IGNORANT FEMALES FOR ME LOL MY NEW BOO IS PERFECT BUT WE DONT HAVE ANY KIDS YET .... LOOK THE BLOG JD
HAHAHA.....my daughter has just turned 12.....i had her ears pierced when she was younger....this piercing would be her second.......so two in both ears...
It was exactly how you said it....Im waiting to hear from her father lol
I understand what everyone is saying but I agree with dcwright, her mom would not have called JD if it was reversed she would have just made the decision herself. Its crazy but its also life.
Its not a small situation its huge because yeah its just a piercing to you but to her mom its probably a health concern a boy liking her concern or whatever concern really. just like it took 2 ppl to make her it takes 2 ppl to raise her. consult each other about your daughter.
Wow welcome to the teenage years! By the way I still think that you are a good father, we need to see more of this in today's society not just see and hear about the bad or dead beats one shout out to all the good Father's out there keep up the good work.
kinda sucks that you got in trouble, but it is a lesson learned. Before making any decision regarding your child you must communicate with the other parent.
I think she played you between each other. She probably knew her mother did not want her to have that earring. Welcome to the teenage years! This was a lesson learned to have better communication with the mother and you all make decisions together.
I would not have tripped about an earring..... as a mother of a child that trusts the father of their child..... we should trust the decision that a father makes even when it's not discussed before hand.... and what I mean by that is this; something as minor as a an earring in the ear doesn't need to be discussed. It's not a life changing, life altering decision.
continued.................Something like getting a tattoo, buying a car, getting his or her first apartment.... his or her first night club outting.... his or her first date with the opposite sex.........etc.... these R things that should be discussed before hand between both parents...... things that can have a life changing result...... Just the opinion of a mother with 3 daughter's.... 17, 15, and 13....
With a mother it just communication that all I have 12yo son that go to his father every holiday, every summer and some weekends and I want to know everything going on no matter how big or small I dont care I want to know.
before you a father you are a parent since this beatiful girl wouldn't have been here without both parents. That is something nowadays in the "devorce age" people forget. lack of right communication is the problem. Talk to eachother even if it seems useless. talking is better than arguing!!! so my opinion you should have spoken with her mother before. and that is not to get permission to be able to be a father but to respect your status as a reasonable father and the mother of your lil girl. if
you shouldn't get in trouble "for being a father" but if the mother expects you to let her know about everything that goes on then it is your duty to do that. that is just the type of person she is and you got to respect it.
I am a father and I think the reason she got pissed was because you did it without giving her the choice of saying yes or no. It could be as simple as she asked her mom and her mom said no so she turned around and asked you. I am sure kids who's parents aren't together do shit like that all the time. I am with my sons' mother and they still try it on us.
I went thru a similar situation with my daughter.. i didnt want my daughter to get her hair permed, me and her mother agreed but then her grandmother had a say so in it and they made the decision to get it done i was mad as hell.. how you gonna agree with me and let your mother make the decision even when i said no.so now i feel like i shouldnt say anything about any decision made for my daughter. actually this was more of a question then answer how can i deal with this????
@BENNGIIE Well it already done but grandma should’ve just stayed out of it I think if U did get mad after it all u had every right put your foot down now or else grandma going to be calling all the shots in the future.
No difference if single or married communication is key. Just know that God knows ur heart and that u love ur baby. And in the end u just wanted to make her happy, but just talk about it next time that's all;-)
Parenting is team work, or at least it should be. You represent one half of the team. I guess the question I pose to you is, does Shania's mother call you to discuss or get your opinion on parental type decisions? If not then I completely understand why you feel the way you do, however, if she does make an effort to involve you, then yes, I can see why she reacted the way she did. Regardless, JD, you are a great Dad, and your relationship with your daughter is special one.
You should have asked her. I know when I was spending time with my dad he would let me do anything I wanted. The same thing happened to me when I was a teenager but my dad spoke to my mum first and realised she already said no! lol. Plus I was only 14, when I was 14 and a 1/2 I was on to the next thing.
Thanks for being a good father involved in your daughters life. I know you shouldn't have to be thanked cause that's what's you're supposed to do but in today's world .....
It took 2 to make the child, 2 are involved with raising the child and a lot of times 2 have to come together in making decisions for the child but not all the time. I guess you could treat this like if she wanted her hair cut off bald would you had taken her to the barber shop without talking to the mother first?
I raise my two girls everyday but before I was their mom used two always through plans off just because we had 50/50 split, but I got tired of that and took full custody simply because she was trying to disrupt me and what I thought was right just because she had a court order. Well like I said I fixed her ass and got full so yes I got in trouble but it was more to piss me off than about saying I am the mom check with me.
Hahahaha my dad allowed us to do so much more stuff my mom wouldn't just because we were in his care for the weekend. Lol watch Booty Call, drink, we even broke curfew with him!!! Got back home and got a whooping we'll never forget.
It's not about which parent is in control. You're both her parents and have equal say in what goes on in your daughter's life. Not telling the mother about the ear ring before hand probably made her feel like her opinion didn't matter. Let's say your daughter started dating now and her mother gave her permission to. Would you be okay with that? Or would you wonder why you were never asked how you felt about it? Parents just want to be considered when it comes to kids decisions. Big or small.
I'm a product of divorce so here's the skippy lol... the mom (usually) feels that she's more responsible than the father if she has primary custody. Even though parenting should be equal the mother feels she holds more weight and nothing should be done without her knowledge or consent. Kudos for you being active in everything she's doing but my mother would have had a BF if my father did the same thing regardless of how well he took care of me. It might not be right but that's just how it is.
JD you're her parent but not her only parent, so therefore everything you do for your child has to be discussed with all parties. I bet your daughter knew she wasn't suppose to get that piercing. Remember the episode on "Everybody Hates Chris" when Drew used mom against dad and Tonya used dad against mom. Kids know who will allow them to do certain things and they play the game til it's over. Your daughter know you want to spend quality time with her and she's taking advantage.
There should have been a conversation first. Both of you are parents, but you should decide things TOGETHER. If an agreement can't be reached, well...that's up to discretion, but there definitely should have been a conversation first.
@majama0521 ...i dont think thats right or fair. soo whats the purpose of a father if the mother can do whatever she wants with the child no questions asked but when it comes to the father he gets the 3rd degree... if thats the case then jd might as well be an absentee father if he cant make a fatherly decision when it comes to his daughter
her mother is just overreacting...like most women do...they just need that drama in their lifes...she got and earring...and now?!...she is alive...she is healthy...she talks to her parents about her life and things she wants to do...what more do u want? i see none mistake in her or your action...well a tattoo would be a thing i would talk about with her mother too...but a small hole in her ear? really? c'mon...this is just not worth the drama ;)
According to my wife you were wrong and you should have known better. I say you are a parent and have just as much seniority as moms so do what you feel.
Ayo, what was the reason why she could not get the ear ring? Was it just cause you did not talk with her mother or that her mother had already told her she could not get one and she just asked you without giving you the background? If it is the latter than you should be in trouble because of you guys not being together. I am married and it is a little different than not being when it comes to the parenting of the kids. Always verify first my g, lol! will save you that headache
To each their own. I think where she got the ear ring was fine. If it was like a tongue ring or through the lip or nose or something then yeah you probably should have said something...but I mean, being a father myself...I would probably have done the same thing...like you said it wasnt a tattoo or anything like that...I dunno...I can see why she would get mad, and I dont think its a girl issue...theirs probably just as many men with earrings as there are women......
lesson learn JD I use to play both parents against each other. when my mom said no i couldn't do something i would go right to my dad and he always said yes. That's the perks of being a Daddy's girl/only child
I think you should have discussed it with her mother first and made the decision together, especially since she's a girl and it's a girly issue. But I know you didn't because you wanted to be the one to take her and be the "cool parent" or you didn't want to give her mom the chance to say NO. And I think your daughter didn't ask her mom for a reason. (With her wise ass).
As soon as the video began, as you started talking about the piercing, I knew that it was going to go downhill fast. The first thing I thought was ooh-ohh, he's in trouble.
Unfortunately, when the father makes decisions regarding his child, he has to get prior approval from the mother. On the flip side, "mom" can do what she pleases.
JD I am a huge fan of your frist of all and I think you are an awsome father, my dad was not the type of dad that cared really about family however he gave my mother that upmost respect when it came to doing for us, if it was something that we as children wanted he always talked it over with my mother and that I will always respect him for that. I am sorry to say if she was my little girl I would be mad at you too I probably wouldnt zap on you but I would let you know I was upset too, nice vid.
Mr. Dupri, I know you're daughter.She is my friend. We go to the same school! TBH I'm so serious!
princess287love 1 week ago
I'll never get in trouble for being a father unless I'm a lil bitch who would take that shit.
I don't take that shit I do what the fuck I want when i want with mine
Amrekaten 1 month ago
That same thing happened to me when I was 9 but it was my first piercing and my mom flipped out in my dad...and their married! Lol Smh I just think it's a mom thing. They try to find reasons to be mad Smh.
stubabyd23 1 month ago
YOU SHOULDVE TOLD HER FIRST BUT SADLY IF IT WERE VISE VERSE SHE WOULDNT TOLD YOU SMH.... I HAVE A SON AND I GO THOUGH THAT ALOT , ITS LIKE THE FATHER CANT DO ANYTHING WITHOUT THE APPROVAL OF THE MOTHER WHICH IS OK BUT THEY DONT RESPECT YOUR AUTHORITY SMH NO MORE KINDS BY IGNORANT FEMALES FOR ME LOL MY NEW BOO IS PERFECT BUT WE DONT HAVE ANY KIDS YET .... LOOK THE BLOG JD
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theoutsideas 2 months ago
Life of a daddy unlessbits cloths maybeveven xloths EVERYTHING has to to some
wut oked by momma a damn shame but hey lol
arkeemet 2 months ago
HAHAHA.....my daughter has just turned 12.....i had her ears pierced when she was younger....this piercing would be her second.......so two in both ears...
It was exactly how you said it....Im waiting to hear from her father lol
curryfish76 2 months ago
I understand what everyone is saying but I agree with dcwright, her mom would not have called JD if it was reversed she would have just made the decision herself. Its crazy but its also life.
eddie486us 2 months ago
Its not a small situation its huge because yeah its just a piercing to you but to her mom its probably a health concern a boy liking her concern or whatever concern really. just like it took 2 ppl to make her it takes 2 ppl to raise her. consult each other about your daughter.
BaldButWigged 2 months ago
Wow welcome to the teenage years! By the way I still think that you are a good father, we need to see more of this in today's society not just see and hear about the bad or dead beats one shout out to all the good Father's out there keep up the good work.
jamacia1luv 2 months ago
So did she get to keep it or did you have to remove it?
fgrfgfg 2 months ago
kinda sucks that you got in trouble, but it is a lesson learned. Before making any decision regarding your child you must communicate with the other parent.
ntenzsoulz 2 months ago
I LOVE this side of JD! It's great to see men stepping up to truly father their children.The stories are hilarious too!
keilababy 2 months ago
I think she played you between each other. She probably knew her mother did not want her to have that earring. Welcome to the teenage years! This was a lesson learned to have better communication with the mother and you all make decisions together.
msneechie 2 months ago
Anything that has to do with the kid's hair, body.....get a confirmation from mommy. And the next time ask her did she ask her mother FIRST.
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msneechie 2 months ago
I would not have tripped about an earring..... as a mother of a child that trusts the father of their child..... we should trust the decision that a father makes even when it's not discussed before hand.... and what I mean by that is this; something as minor as a an earring in the ear doesn't need to be discussed. It's not a life changing, life altering decision.
lovie2000 2 months ago
continued.................Something like getting a tattoo, buying a car, getting his or her first apartment.... his or her first night club outting.... his or her first date with the opposite sex.........etc.... these R things that should be discussed before hand between both parents...... things that can have a life changing result...... Just the opinion of a mother with 3 daughter's.... 17, 15, and 13....
lovie2000 2 months ago
With a mother it just communication that all I have 12yo son that go to his father every holiday, every summer and some weekends and I want to know everything going on no matter how big or small I dont care I want to know.
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CHRISSTOREY1 2 months ago
before you a father you are a parent since this beatiful girl wouldn't have been here without both parents. That is something nowadays in the "devorce age" people forget. lack of right communication is the problem. Talk to eachother even if it seems useless. talking is better than arguing!!! so my opinion you should have spoken with her mother before. and that is not to get permission to be able to be a father but to respect your status as a reasonable father and the mother of your lil girl. if
allucanbeat 2 months ago
you shouldn't get in trouble "for being a father" but if the mother expects you to let her know about everything that goes on then it is your duty to do that. that is just the type of person she is and you got to respect it.
sumobesus 2 months ago
I agree with DJkevwest, this might have been a set up. Lol! The earring is cute, but she got you. :)
Won't be the last time...
mschris014 2 months ago
I am a father and I think the reason she got pissed was because you did it without giving her the choice of saying yes or no. It could be as simple as she asked her mom and her mom said no so she turned around and asked you. I am sure kids who's parents aren't together do shit like that all the time. I am with my sons' mother and they still try it on us.
DJKevWest 2 months ago
I went thru a similar situation with my daughter.. i didnt want my daughter to get her hair permed, me and her mother agreed but then her grandmother had a say so in it and they made the decision to get it done i was mad as hell.. how you gonna agree with me and let your mother make the decision even when i said no.so now i feel like i shouldnt say anything about any decision made for my daughter. actually this was more of a question then answer how can i deal with this????
BENNGIIE 2 months ago
@BENNGIIE Well it already done but grandma should’ve just stayed out of it I think if U did get mad after it all u had every right put your foot down now or else grandma going to be calling all the shots in the future.
luvmyWOOGIE 2 months ago
No difference if single or married communication is key. Just know that God knows ur heart and that u love ur baby. And in the end u just wanted to make her happy, but just talk about it next time that's all;-)
raynefall04 2 months ago
Parenting is team work, or at least it should be. You represent one half of the team. I guess the question I pose to you is, does Shania's mother call you to discuss or get your opinion on parental type decisions? If not then I completely understand why you feel the way you do, however, if she does make an effort to involve you, then yes, I can see why she reacted the way she did. Regardless, JD, you are a great Dad, and your relationship with your daughter is special one.
HauteTadi 2 months ago
You should have asked her. I know when I was spending time with my dad he would let me do anything I wanted. The same thing happened to me when I was a teenager but my dad spoke to my mum first and realised she already said no! lol. Plus I was only 14, when I was 14 and a 1/2 I was on to the next thing.
Oh well, I guess now you know!
SupremePrincess 2 months ago
Great Video
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Thanks for being a good father involved in your daughters life. I know you shouldn't have to be thanked cause that's what's you're supposed to do but in today's world .....
It took 2 to make the child, 2 are involved with raising the child and a lot of times 2 have to come together in making decisions for the child but not all the time. I guess you could treat this like if she wanted her hair cut off bald would you had taken her to the barber shop without talking to the mother first?
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I raise my two girls everyday but before I was their mom used two always through plans off just because we had 50/50 split, but I got tired of that and took full custody simply because she was trying to disrupt me and what I thought was right just because she had a court order. Well like I said I fixed her ass and got full so yes I got in trouble but it was more to piss me off than about saying I am the mom check with me.
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Hahahaha my dad allowed us to do so much more stuff my mom wouldn't just because we were in his care for the weekend. Lol watch Booty Call, drink, we even broke curfew with him!!! Got back home and got a whooping we'll never forget.
misundastood88 2 months ago
This sounds like a Dads Get No Luv episode!
MrAlHardyTV 2 months ago
u should have at least talked to he mom first because she probably allready said no about it
shonuffLA 2 months ago
It's not about which parent is in control. You're both her parents and have equal say in what goes on in your daughter's life. Not telling the mother about the ear ring before hand probably made her feel like her opinion didn't matter. Let's say your daughter started dating now and her mother gave her permission to. Would you be okay with that? Or would you wonder why you were never asked how you felt about it? Parents just want to be considered when it comes to kids decisions. Big or small.
SdotDenise 2 months ago 27
I'm a product of divorce so here's the skippy lol... the mom (usually) feels that she's more responsible than the father if she has primary custody. Even though parenting should be equal the mother feels she holds more weight and nothing should be done without her knowledge or consent. Kudos for you being active in everything she's doing but my mother would have had a BF if my father did the same thing regardless of how well he took care of me. It might not be right but that's just how it is.
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JD you're her parent but not her only parent, so therefore everything you do for your child has to be discussed with all parties. I bet your daughter knew she wasn't suppose to get that piercing. Remember the episode on "Everybody Hates Chris" when Drew used mom against dad and Tonya used dad against mom. Kids know who will allow them to do certain things and they play the game til it's over. Your daughter know you want to spend quality time with her and she's taking advantage.
k114eva 2 months ago
i feel u dawg! im a father of 5 wit 3 girls! trust me, i feel u!!
drewrama100 2 months ago
There should have been a conversation first. Both of you are parents, but you should decide things TOGETHER. If an agreement can't be reached, well...that's up to discretion, but there definitely should have been a conversation first.
MylahMylah 2 months ago
@majama0521 ...i dont think thats right or fair. soo whats the purpose of a father if the mother can do whatever she wants with the child no questions asked but when it comes to the father he gets the 3rd degree... if thats the case then jd might as well be an absentee father if he cant make a fatherly decision when it comes to his daughter
BLKSCENETAKEOVR 2 months ago
her mother is just overreacting...like most women do...they just need that drama in their lifes...she got and earring...and now?!...she is alive...she is healthy...she talks to her parents about her life and things she wants to do...what more do u want? i see none mistake in her or your action...well a tattoo would be a thing i would talk about with her mother too...but a small hole in her ear? really? c'mon...this is just not worth the drama ;)
KMillionTV 2 months ago
According to my wife you were wrong and you should have known better. I say you are a parent and have just as much seniority as moms so do what you feel.
JEDIFROMHOTH 2 months ago
If it was a boy i could understand but for a girl and its only her ear!? come on now!!
ooProduction 2 months ago
ME GUSTA ESTE PROGRAMA MUCHO SALUDOS A JD
PitoVH 2 months ago
cute!
jsamari 2 months ago
Ayo, what was the reason why she could not get the ear ring? Was it just cause you did not talk with her mother or that her mother had already told her she could not get one and she just asked you without giving you the background? If it is the latter than you should be in trouble because of you guys not being together. I am married and it is a little different than not being when it comes to the parenting of the kids. Always verify first my g, lol! will save you that headache
njtokc13 2 months ago
To each their own. I think where she got the ear ring was fine. If it was like a tongue ring or through the lip or nose or something then yeah you probably should have said something...but I mean, being a father myself...I would probably have done the same thing...like you said it wasnt a tattoo or anything like that...I dunno...I can see why she would get mad, and I dont think its a girl issue...theirs probably just as many men with earrings as there are women......
stofalus 2 months ago
lesson learn JD I use to play both parents against each other. when my mom said no i couldn't do something i would go right to my dad and he always said yes. That's the perks of being a Daddy's girl/only child
ikeelaexpress 2 months ago
I think you should have discussed it with her mother first and made the decision together, especially since she's a girl and it's a girly issue. But I know you didn't because you wanted to be the one to take her and be the "cool parent" or you didn't want to give her mom the chance to say NO. And I think your daughter didn't ask her mom for a reason. (With her wise ass).
AffMark 2 months ago
As soon as the video began, as you started talking about the piercing, I knew that it was going to go downhill fast. The first thing I thought was ooh-ohh, he's in trouble.
Unfortunately, when the father makes decisions regarding his child, he has to get prior approval from the mother. On the flip side, "mom" can do what she pleases.
That's just the way it is...
majama0521 2 months ago
JD I am a huge fan of your frist of all and I think you are an awsome father, my dad was not the type of dad that cared really about family however he gave my mother that upmost respect when it came to doing for us, if it was something that we as children wanted he always talked it over with my mother and that I will always respect him for that. I am sorry to say if she was my little girl I would be mad at you too I probably wouldnt zap on you but I would let you know I was upset too, nice vid.
sigmund30 2 months ago
i need to be doing some Videography and editing on this series! hit me up J.D. Kingsmen1@gmail.com @KingsmenMedia
k1ngsmen 2 months ago
yo first one to post on SO SO DEF VIDEO JD COMMENT ON MY RECORD
MilanaireTV 2 months ago