@pinegrove33 Excellent reply to a stupid question. This person is probably either a femofascist, mangina, PUA, or p*ssy beggar.... keep up the good work and thanks for the advice once again.
Having read what many cheating women wrote about their nice safe husbands on a social message board a couple years ago, I have concluded what I long suspected that many modern western women loath their nice homely husbands and hold them in the lowest esteem. They desire aggressive men with fit and endowed physiques that will treat them as objects. They feel no guilt. They actually feel vindictive towards their boring husbands and are merely biting their time.
A nice helpful man who kills himself at work to afford what she wants and does his best to make his wife and kids happy is viewed a a suffocating unsexy bore, resented and eventually loathed with vengeance that culminates in his ruin in a bitter divorce and custody battle. Though by every objective standard she was the poor spouse who broke all her marital vows and tortured her husband, western courts rewards her and the husband is punished.
How can Western men be so foolish and naïve as to marry in a society that engineers the worst sorts of wives while giving them the legal power to destroy their husbands' lives! At her whim, her husband is out of the house and her lover moves in to sleep in his bed under the same roof as his kids (if even they are really his offspring). He is left financially destitute and he is made a stranger to his kids. Sane men would run from that. I do not get it!
@ibmsony101 And yet, if the guy won't do something that "woman" (i'm sorry, can`t call a woman someone like that) wants, he is seen as a bad spouse and deserves to be abandoned for someone much better... silly world.
The "Highly Snesitive Person syndrom" seems to affect everybody nowadays!
I tend to think American women, just have such a sense of entitlement that there is no real thought of 'Do it yourself'. On one hand we have groups of women that want everything cause 'they deserve it' on the other hand groups of women Demand everything cause 'It Should Be theirs'. But it is totally fine to take a mans child and everything he worked for.
Women seek most to be conquered by men. Which is why they typically vote democrat. I know how hard it is in our politically correct society to tell a woman to shut up and follow.
As we all know the woman's rights movement is all about blurring the line between your authority and the absolute force of the federal government.
Even as such, she tests you. She sides with democrats because she is too fucking stupid to elicit an argument of her beliefs.
this is the part where i get to laugh and mock you for posting something as devolved as that.
theres nothing i could say that could possibly indict you, or your opinion, more than what you yourself have said.
thanks for doing my job for me. you thought i was arguing with you? nah, i was speaking to the people that might read these posts. you were just a means to an end. who do you think they will find the most reasonable?
the term "affair" always seems to romanticize what is more often than not just some hormones doing what hormones do. rarely does fucking around rise to the very literary description "affair".
and thats the problem with most people. they would rather just have their own baseless unresearched opinion and get offended and be sarcastic when they come up ignorant. heres an idea: do your own research, and then tell me WHY im wrong based on something other than your own wounded pride. or, if during your research you confirm what ive said, you can then go and give facts to others that dont want to hear it and get their panties in a wad when they're wrong.
lol, didnt know you were beyond reproach. i actually agree with everything you said in this last post. but women have a pecking order, a heirarchy, amongst themselves as well...females within that circle that they defer to...generally along lines of physical attractiveness and vanity. the "popularity" contest, if you will. its meant as no offense to disagree over something. i just thought you migt be interested that females have a "pecking order" as well.
sorry friend, thats just dead wrong. your error is twofold: by alpha female i do not mean females that compete for alpha status with males, but rather with other females. all mammals are, to some degree, hierarchical within their sex...primates more than any. it is true that the male ends up dominating to some degree. but the female does as well...but much of the female alpha status has to do with the the degree that she "attaches" herself to the most dominant alpha male. symbiosis.
i like a little skank or tramp if my bitch dont put out..haha.maybe not a skank.i like that sound smack smack..got to do what a mans got to do smack me some ass..some of theses bitches need some smack betray me bitch smack smack
@akshunyob That's why Thai women and farang men work so well together. Western men have been battered by feminisim, and Thai women have been battered (literally very many) by self centered philandering Thai men. If you're ever in Isaan, look me up.
@akshunyob That's the curse of western feminism. Anyone who questions the dogma is shouted down and marginalized. I had my first Asian girlfriend when I was in college (a Japanese gal who changed my life), ever since American women seem strident, bossy, and just unhappy with themselves. Thai women can be neurotic too, but I've found the further you get away from Bangkok and the tourist destinations, the less of it you see.
Word for word, you nail it...right on target. Listen...we're not women haters....but many of them, could easily turn us that way....so the way I see it, (and have experienced it many times) is that, many females have a hidden self-destruct button built in....problem is, that we dont see it, till it explodes all over us...then we get the majority of the blame for detonating them ! Truly a "mind f**k !
Word for word, you nail it...right on target. Listen...we're not women haters....but many of them, could easily turn us that way....so the way I see it, (and have experienced it many times) is that, many females have a hidden self-destruct button built in....problem is, that we dont see it, till it explodes all over us...then we get the majority of the blame for detonating them ! Truly a "mind f**k !
i love your channel and comments i always get a good laugh but hey i just cant get enough of you ..your awesome i adore the way you speak out on things ..you are awesome in my book.Hey ( maybe i can learn something here if i decide i need to get married oops want to )if i wanted to be a bad woman or wife your information could be useful ..haha new strategy for being a skank wife haha
@countrywishes I thank you young lady. Hey, just don't decide to be a bad woman please. We'd all appreciate as many stable legitimate ones as is possible! Our gratitude in advance, lol.
@akshunyob Yeah I heard the PL was a catholic country mostly, however I also heard that the filipinas are quite loyal to thier husbands/boyfriends and make good partners.
I find that females in general are detestable to be around. Viewed from a distance they are pretty but that changes once you hear what they have to say. (shills and other ass clowns, this doesn't mean all women)
The legal issues women bring with them should make any man shudder as his very life is in danger by the whims of a creature that runs on hormones and emotions based on hormones. To have no fear of these vile creatures should indicate to you that full decks are not present.
@pinegrove33 yes, He is. the longer I live, the more life teaches to agree with Him. I used to argue, but it'd always turn out it His words were right.
and you, dear Bernard... you must hear it often, but I have to speak for myself: in this world of madness and wishful thinking your work brings so much fresh air. I watch every video you make and not once did I waste a second doing it.
@akshunyob Yes, I would like to learn more of a country where men have property rights and rights within the family. Just someplace where men have the right to be a father and to be a part of the family. Do you know any more places for me to look into?
@Red0660 My buddy loves Brazil and Thailand....of course, he's rich. He told me, "no big deal, just bring 10 K." I was like ten grand? Um, i'm a bit short.
Marriage in a contract of mutual self restraint. Too many women are disconnected from the reality that life is fleeting, that decadence comes at the cost of others' suffering, and that self control is what separates us from animals.
It's easy to take others' wives or betray a husband, but true happiness isn't bought at a cheap price.
@masaruX3 "Marriage in a contract of mutual self restraint" Not exactly, all the reciprocal obligations have been thrown in the garbage by women. They passed laws which give them rights not only to a man's children but to his property and the fruits of his labor.
Honor...which is derived from morality and morality from a higher form of reasoning which allows for an understanding of the world outside the subjective self and respective interests. This is very challenging for women.
@Red0660 I'm talking about marriage in the sense of the ideal. It's hard to hold women accountable because of human nature, but accountability—taking responsibility for oneself—is the ultimate source of morality.
As an aside, the Buddhist scriptures and the Jataka tales are fairly straightforward about the nature of women, but you'll never hear about that from the liberal converts. Apparently even religion can be rewritten if it's too "sexist," and the reality of human nature ignored.
@kev95 I'm sure there are. I'm just saying they're probably fewer in number. Japanese women, unlike American women, are more than willing to do their part in a relationship.
lol Bernard, can I get some backup on this. You seem like a reasonable fellow, read all the post then please respond. I have said nothing confused, and made a valid point.
pretorious, no one is arguing the idea that western women get over on many a man, and men need to be very careful. All I responded to was a guy who said avoid all women. To me and most, that sounds crazy and is not realistic, more power to you if that's the way you want to go, but it's not for me or 99% of men.
If you're the backdoor man you have to bare in mind that your conquest may do the same to you later;having got what they wanted they may find they didn't want it afterall later...and you know the saying "you cannot unmake an omelette" springs to mind..
If you susspect your wife is a bit of a runaround though you may want to consider her absence as an early liberation;i don't believe the worth of keeping wishy washy marrital POW's..
bernard, this video speakes extremely true in my situation, my being the single guy in the situation. i can say from first hand experience this is all pretty close to the pin...
"be the guy shes cheating with, not the guy shes cheating on"
this also makes getting rid of her easy once she become insufferable. as an added bonus you can always clue the in the poor guy shes duped in an annonymous way once you are done with her.
theres no reason getting laid and seeing justice done cant coexist.
Most men lack the prerequisite suave and initiative to be the other man. It is definitely better in practical and self-interest terms to be the other man though morally dubious. Most men are lower ranking males who are content that the good graces of superficial monogamy have allowed them access to females which would normally be herded in the harems of the alpha or higher ranking males. Females acting on their internal drives subvert the façade of monogamy.
im not sure i completely agree with that analysis. because just as with males, females too can be see to be "alpha" or "beta", if not even more so than males. whereas the alpha male may have his pick of the females, there will always be legions of beta females that he simply couldnt give a damn about, and that will have to "settle" for their beta male counterparts. the wise alpha will not even waste his time with some so-called alpha females, and has no interest in betas.
@ibmsony101 Don't elevate the backdoor man with artificial praise by assigning him qualities such as "suave and initiative" that "most men lack." They are not a special breed. They are morally bankrupt cretins. Just like the women they pursue. I would suggest that men who do NOT mess with married women are the ones to be revered. Facilitating a cheating wife is easy. It is not a quality. It is deplorable. And it certainly is no more Alpha than scoring a fat chick.
Humans are merely a smarter great ape. When it comes to mating and sexuality, we are only superficially different than our genetic cousins swinging from branches. Humans are a hierarchical and highly stratified specie. Morality and faithful monogamy are artifacts of civilization and not innate to the human condition. With the social devolution and destruction, western women have reverted to sexually coveting the big bad monkey while taking bananas from the nice kind one.
Morality not withstanding, straying women seek out what they are programmed to view as a superior genetic package which include males with physical and/ or social traits that easily get women into bed. Google the “sexy son hypothesis.” The world is not fair nor is it moral. You can only impose moral behavior on yourself. The behavior of women can not be understood apart from evolutionary urges developed in the distant primeval past.
I agree with you on moral grounds. However, I was not attempting to evolute infidelity from a moral standpoint. I think this matter is entirely settled. I was merely stating the obvious: men who have certain social and/or physical qualities have easy access to the chambers of married women who find such men more desirable than their husbands. Whores though we may judge them, such behavior is all too increasingly common as to render marriage a bitter pill to swallow.
@Torgo1969 So what are you saying, even though I like the idea of being married, I probably won't but what you saying is crazy talk. "Stay, stay away from women", unless you’re gay. I’m not attacking you, I'm asking, how do you plan to stay away from women? You can logically say, I’m not gonna endure a relationship, but how do you say, “I’m not going to want a piece of that”?
@marcef100m Maybe in my case being 41 helps a bit (as opposed to being in my 20s), as well as aversion therapy gained by sharing experiences with fellow MGTOWs online. Keeping the phrase "predator posing as a house pet" in mind helps to keep one on an even keel and preserves one's awareness of what barbarossaaaa calls "insidious chameleons". A monthly muscle massage helps with my "need for contact", and keeping the prostate well-drained and my mind occupied with my career help as well.
@Torgo1969 41's a fine age my fellow over the hill Michigander. Well, i guess you're a New Yorker still at heart. "predator posing as a house pet" is pretty funny indeed.
@pinegrove33 Well, to quote Dylan, "Feel like a fighting rooster, feel better than I ever felt". BTW, "predator posing as a house pet" is from Fight Club, not a perfect movie/book but definitely resonant and keeps one from sinking into the Snevie Swamp. "Losing all hope" may be freedom, but so is "having nothing to prove to oneself or others." At my age I'm pretty much there.
Also, I give much respect to men who can walk the line between sneviedom and assholedom. Sincere congrats!
@Torgo1969 I'm 39 & stand 100% behind all of my post. I don't believe I'm speaking for just myself. Within several post responding 2 my response, this whole thing has misconstrued. My original response was/is that I did not think it was reasonable to think that more than a very few men would be willing to"go their own way" I also don't think that sentiment does MRM much good. Punishing self hardly seems like a strategy ending in victory. For every guy who says nope, there will be 100 in line.
@marcef100m Fair enough. With all respect, you may very well be correct re the rarity of men able to GTOW. I submit that it is made much more difficult by public hints of possibly being gay, or "bitter" like Rudov endures. I've had quite enough of that from the cunts I work with, and I don't think the MRM benefits from that crap, and certainly not from men.
I've used the techniques I listed to good benefit and haven't endured a betrayal in the last 2 years. Also, Chase Silver, not Pussy!
@marcef100m My main concern was with Bern's dichotomy between married and single women. Any woman seeking to impress a man and vice versa (as opposed to just being impressive and desirable in oneself) is not to be trusted, for if this effort needs to be made then by definition it is unnatural and unsustainable. And the mask will come off someday.
If you've endured the multi-year deceptions and horrific 180 degree flip-flops some men have endured, and you still have hope, then I salute you!
@marcef100m Are you American? Not that it matters, but I'm trying to figure out what you are saying. It's disconcerting to think that there are young men who think they HAVE to knuckle under to women to get laid. Once I realized that was counter productive, a whole world of freedom and independence opened up for me. And I got laid much more, and actually enjoyed it instead of being made to feel guility or beholden to the grantor of the goodies.
@pretorious700 Yes, I'm American, but just so you know, in many European countries it's worse. As far as "knuckle under", I agree 100%. If u go back & read my 5 or 6 post, I think anyone will see, I by no stretch encourage men to pussy beg or get walked on. I actually champion men that are doing the MGTOW thing but think very few will & I know I won't. Saying "I'm MGTOW", then jumping on first thing that flirts, hurts cause. Want the MRM to be honest, not just hot air, like most feminism.
@marcef100m Let me hazard a guess. Your a young dude still full of jizm and would hump the crack of dawn if you could ? Maybe once you have had your nads extracted via your wallet by one of the many bunny boilers on the prowl, you will change your views somewhat?
@marcef100m Eventually, the big head regains control and puts the little head in it's appropriate perspective. Unfortunately, you are doomed to several decades of southern rule, young fella.
@pretorious700 lol, I'm probably older then you. Simply stating a fact does not have anything to do with how I live my life. I'm honest, r u? Have fun living a life of celibacy, to me that sounds sad and kind of pathetic. In reality it sounds more like hyperably and big talk. As just stated, I still even have hopes of being married but, BECAUSE of my honest perspective, am not to this point. I'm 100% an MRA but that does not mean there are no women marrying, let alone having sex with.
@pretorious700 How am I confused, I'm being honest. Maybe you don't ever have sex, but do you really believe anybody else posting on here does not? Read again, lol, you’re acting like I’m crazy because I find the idea that a man will spend entire life not getting any, to be far from the reality of what 99.99% men are willing to do. I’m all for being careful, but you're avoiding the biological realities of a million yrs of evolution.
@marcef100m "I’m all for being careful, but you're avoiding the biological realities of a million yrs of evolution." Yes the State and women know this very well. Thus we find ourselves as men in such a deplorable condition of tyranny. BUT there are men like me are able to look past my biological inclinations and act by the free will my logical reasoning and intrepid spirit has afforded me. Men who get on their knees to women or the State lack honor and dignity. No longer men but slaves.
@Red0660 so what's your point, my only point was and still is, that most men are not going to be willing not have sex with women and men who say they are going to do this are either lying or don't get sex from women anyway. It does the cause of men little good to make outlandish claims such as this.
As far as get on knees, that is your dialogue, it has nothing to do with me. I'm guessing I have walked away from more tang on principal, then any of the guys arguing with my TRUTHFUL statement.
@marcef100m Yes, without a woman's body life is not as sweet. I wholly agree. Dealing with them is inevitable. I believe the MGTOW guys but know that i can't do it.
@marcef100m Nah, you know some relationships turn out well and are mutually beneficial. Just be careful. In my own case, I honestly screwed myself. I knew better but committed. Oh well, i was 24. I'm not going my own way either.
@Torgo1969 Missed it totally but i did record the Montreal DRW game on Friday and will record the Kings game on Monday night. If i see the wings three times in a month it's a great month.
Married women are not a bad option in all cases. In fact many a young man living in polygamous societies where older wealthier men hoard young women and young man's lack of status and resources denies them socially sanctioned sexual access. Married women are often the only option for sexual access. I do not consider that even infidelity when young girls are married off by their families to old rich geezers who cannot satisfy them.
However, this is not the case for women in the West. They marry freely and they can divorce on a whim. It is often women who cagoule or even coerce men into marriage. Sadly, it seems that the majority Western women are over-privileged wretches acting on emotions, greed, selfishness and their base instincts.
There is no such thing as a "soulmate"...this is just more romance novel bullshit women cling to. If you're lucky you may find someone you can trust and doesn't drive you crazy.
There is such a thing as a life-long loving and devoted marriage. It is very rare, but it does happen. Such relationships are never sex-centered and both the couple tend to be “nice” and moral. In the Western world marriage is mostly based on sexual attraction on part of both partners or other selfish considerations on part of the woman. In such a culture woe to a man who marries.
what the fucks this guy on about!?
420marrijane420 10 months ago
@420marrijane420 smoke less dope and your comprehension will improve.
pinegrove33 10 months ago 4
@pinegrove33 Excellent reply to a stupid question. This person is probably either a femofascist, mangina, PUA, or p*ssy beggar.... keep up the good work and thanks for the advice once again.
llgreenmega 10 months ago
SPOT ON! Heard and went through the EXACT same crap from my skank wife who filed for a separation!
RoyalMagicFUN 1 year ago
Having read what many cheating women wrote about their nice safe husbands on a social message board a couple years ago, I have concluded what I long suspected that many modern western women loath their nice homely husbands and hold them in the lowest esteem. They desire aggressive men with fit and endowed physiques that will treat them as objects. They feel no guilt. They actually feel vindictive towards their boring husbands and are merely biting their time.
ibmsony101 1 year ago
A nice helpful man who kills himself at work to afford what she wants and does his best to make his wife and kids happy is viewed a a suffocating unsexy bore, resented and eventually loathed with vengeance that culminates in his ruin in a bitter divorce and custody battle. Though by every objective standard she was the poor spouse who broke all her marital vows and tortured her husband, western courts rewards her and the husband is punished.
ibmsony101 1 year ago
How can Western men be so foolish and naïve as to marry in a society that engineers the worst sorts of wives while giving them the legal power to destroy their husbands' lives! At her whim, her husband is out of the house and her lover moves in to sleep in his bed under the same roof as his kids (if even they are really his offspring). He is left financially destitute and he is made a stranger to his kids. Sane men would run from that. I do not get it!
ibmsony101 1 year ago 3
@ibmsony101 And yet, if the guy won't do something that "woman" (i'm sorry, can`t call a woman someone like that) wants, he is seen as a bad spouse and deserves to be abandoned for someone much better... silly world.
The "Highly Snesitive Person syndrom" seems to affect everybody nowadays!
makidtrej 8 months ago
this one as awesome !
Zac6230 1 year ago
I tend to think American women, just have such a sense of entitlement that there is no real thought of 'Do it yourself'. On one hand we have groups of women that want everything cause 'they deserve it' on the other hand groups of women Demand everything cause 'It Should Be theirs'. But it is totally fine to take a mans child and everything he worked for.
GrundySolomon 1 year ago 3
Dear Chapins. Spelling be damned.
Women seek most to be conquered by men. Which is why they typically vote democrat. I know how hard it is in our politically correct society to tell a woman to shut up and follow.
As we all know the woman's rights movement is all about blurring the line between your authority and the absolute force of the federal government.
Even as such, she tests you. She sides with democrats because she is too fucking stupid to elicit an argument of her beliefs.
BallsInYourJawsBitch 1 year ago
@akshunyob
lol, if ur shaggin my mom, i feel sorry for ya.
you need to be getting paid cash for pimpin son! dont sell yourself short for a cookie!
knowthingman 1 year ago
@akshunyob
mkay...give yourself a ribbon and a cookie then, i guess....
knowthingman 1 year ago
I thought I smelled something "fishy" going on within this article. LOL
Good stuff, Bernard!!!
TFLWarriors 1 year ago
Another informative series of Infernos bro! Looking forward to the conclusion.
justinjbutler 1 year ago
@akshunyob
HAHHAHAAHH...
this is the part where i get to laugh and mock you for posting something as devolved as that.
theres nothing i could say that could possibly indict you, or your opinion, more than what you yourself have said.
thanks for doing my job for me. you thought i was arguing with you? nah, i was speaking to the people that might read these posts. you were just a means to an end. who do you think they will find the most reasonable?
again, thanks. :)
knowthingman 1 year ago
the term "affair" always seems to romanticize what is more often than not just some hormones doing what hormones do. rarely does fucking around rise to the very literary description "affair".
pretorious700 1 year ago
@akshunyob
and thats the problem with most people. they would rather just have their own baseless unresearched opinion and get offended and be sarcastic when they come up ignorant. heres an idea: do your own research, and then tell me WHY im wrong based on something other than your own wounded pride. or, if during your research you confirm what ive said, you can then go and give facts to others that dont want to hear it and get their panties in a wad when they're wrong.
knowthingman 1 year ago
Has anybody find this surprisingly verbatim with The proverbs of Solomon (Proverbs 7, exactly)?!
SealTooGreat 1 year ago
@akshunyob
lol, didnt know you were beyond reproach. i actually agree with everything you said in this last post. but women have a pecking order, a heirarchy, amongst themselves as well...females within that circle that they defer to...generally along lines of physical attractiveness and vanity. the "popularity" contest, if you will. its meant as no offense to disagree over something. i just thought you migt be interested that females have a "pecking order" as well.
knowthingman 1 year ago
If a married woman will cheat WITH you, eventually.... she will cheat ON you.
TMOTS
themanonthestreet 1 year ago 13
@themanonthestreet Couldn't have said it better myself. Quite right.
pinegrove33 1 year ago 5
@akshunyob
sorry friend, thats just dead wrong. your error is twofold: by alpha female i do not mean females that compete for alpha status with males, but rather with other females. all mammals are, to some degree, hierarchical within their sex...primates more than any. it is true that the male ends up dominating to some degree. but the female does as well...but much of the female alpha status has to do with the the degree that she "attaches" herself to the most dominant alpha male. symbiosis.
knowthingman 1 year ago
i like a little skank or tramp if my bitch dont put out..haha.maybe not a skank.i like that sound smack smack..got to do what a mans got to do smack me some ass..some of theses bitches need some smack betray me bitch smack smack
saywhatjoedirt 1 year ago
@akshunyob That's why Thai women and farang men work so well together. Western men have been battered by feminisim, and Thai women have been battered (literally very many) by self centered philandering Thai men. If you're ever in Isaan, look me up.
pretorious700 1 year ago
@akshunyob That's the curse of western feminism. Anyone who questions the dogma is shouted down and marginalized. I had my first Asian girlfriend when I was in college (a Japanese gal who changed my life), ever since American women seem strident, bossy, and just unhappy with themselves. Thai women can be neurotic too, but I've found the further you get away from Bangkok and the tourist destinations, the less of it you see.
pretorious700 1 year ago 2
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Word for word, you nail it...right on target. Listen...we're not women haters....but many of them, could easily turn us that way....so the way I see it, (and have experienced it many times) is that, many females have a hidden self-destruct button built in....problem is, that we dont see it, till it explodes all over us...then we get the majority of the blame for detonating them ! Truly a "mind f**k !
tuptaff 1 year ago
Word for word, you nail it...right on target. Listen...we're not women haters....but many of them, could easily turn us that way....so the way I see it, (and have experienced it many times) is that, many females have a hidden self-destruct button built in....problem is, that we dont see it, till it explodes all over us...then we get the majority of the blame for detonating them ! Truly a "mind f**k !
tuptaff 1 year ago
i love your channel and comments i always get a good laugh but hey i just cant get enough of you ..your awesome i adore the way you speak out on things ..you are awesome in my book.Hey ( maybe i can learn something here if i decide i need to get married oops want to )if i wanted to be a bad woman or wife your information could be useful ..haha new strategy for being a skank wife haha
countrywishes 1 year ago
@countrywishes I thank you young lady. Hey, just don't decide to be a bad woman please. We'd all appreciate as many stable legitimate ones as is possible! Our gratitude in advance, lol.
pinegrove33 1 year ago 5
@akshunyob Yeah I heard the PL was a catholic country mostly, however I also heard that the filipinas are quite loyal to thier husbands/boyfriends and make good partners.
kev95 1 year ago
@akshunyob Any idea if Panama's any good? I already wrote off PI because foreigners can't own guns there.
V3N0M1300 1 year ago
take no prisoners.lol
murbones 1 year ago
I find that females in general are detestable to be around. Viewed from a distance they are pretty but that changes once you hear what they have to say. (shills and other ass clowns, this doesn't mean all women)
The legal issues women bring with them should make any man shudder as his very life is in danger by the whims of a creature that runs on hormones and emotions based on hormones. To have no fear of these vile creatures should indicate to you that full decks are not present.
MrSuperJuden 1 year ago 9
@MrSuperJuden That's an excellent and painfully honest post. I appreciate it when people tell the truth and damn the consequences.
pretorious700 1 year ago 2
@pretorious700 Thank you
MrSuperJuden 1 year ago
@akshunyob What about the Philippines?
kev95 1 year ago
@akshunyob I'd love to see Thailand some day myself man. Good recommendation.
pinegrove33 1 year ago
@pinegrove33 Bern, once you experience Thai women, those American train wrecks will never look the same.
pretorious700 1 year ago
hilarious, love it.
MensRifleAssociation 1 year ago
Bernard ...you crack me up ...did you feel a bit better after 1:04 ?... hehe.
Find themselves? ...I could never understand what they mean by .. 'looking for myself' ... Where did they go ... are they lost?
mala265 1 year ago
@mala265 I did. That's called the anti-Mala move in these parts---ie. you'd never do it to a Mala----our friend and role model.
pinegrove33 1 year ago
ora et labora, indeed.
weselefigara 1 year ago
@weselefigara Christ is King!
pinegrove33 1 year ago
@pinegrove33 yes, He is. the longer I live, the more life teaches to agree with Him. I used to argue, but it'd always turn out it His words were right.
and you, dear Bernard... you must hear it often, but I have to speak for myself: in this world of madness and wishful thinking your work brings so much fresh air. I watch every video you make and not once did I waste a second doing it.
hearty greetings from Poland - take care ;)
weselefigara 1 year ago
@akshunyob Yes, I would like to learn more of a country where men have property rights and rights within the family. Just someplace where men have the right to be a father and to be a part of the family. Do you know any more places for me to look into?
Red0660 1 year ago
@Red0660 My buddy loves Brazil and Thailand....of course, he's rich. He told me, "no big deal, just bring 10 K." I was like ten grand? Um, i'm a bit short.
pinegrove33 1 year ago
Marriage in a contract of mutual self restraint. Too many women are disconnected from the reality that life is fleeting, that decadence comes at the cost of others' suffering, and that self control is what separates us from animals.
It's easy to take others' wives or betray a husband, but true happiness isn't bought at a cheap price.
masaruX3 1 year ago 13
@masaruX3 excellent
888Kharami 1 year ago
@masaruX3 "Marriage in a contract of mutual self restraint" Not exactly, all the reciprocal obligations have been thrown in the garbage by women. They passed laws which give them rights not only to a man's children but to his property and the fruits of his labor.
Honor...which is derived from morality and morality from a higher form of reasoning which allows for an understanding of the world outside the subjective self and respective interests. This is very challenging for women.
Red0660 1 year ago
@Red0660 I'm talking about marriage in the sense of the ideal. It's hard to hold women accountable because of human nature, but accountability—taking responsibility for oneself—is the ultimate source of morality.
As an aside, the Buddhist scriptures and the Jataka tales are fairly straightforward about the nature of women, but you'll never hear about that from the liberal converts. Apparently even religion can be rewritten if it's too "sexist," and the reality of human nature ignored.
masaruX3 1 year ago
Now I remember why I've decided to look for a wife in Japan.
loqutor 1 year ago 4
@loqutor You think there's no cheaters in Japan?
kev95 1 year ago
@kev95 I'm sure there are. I'm just saying they're probably fewer in number. Japanese women, unlike American women, are more than willing to do their part in a relationship.
loqutor 1 year ago
@loqutor True enough.
kev95 1 year ago
lol Bernard, can I get some backup on this. You seem like a reasonable fellow, read all the post then please respond. I have said nothing confused, and made a valid point.
pretorious, no one is arguing the idea that western women get over on many a man, and men need to be very careful. All I responded to was a guy who said avoid all women. To me and most, that sounds crazy and is not realistic, more power to you if that's the way you want to go, but it's not for me or 99% of men.
marcef100m 1 year ago
I have 2 words for American men that should shrink your pecker like a spider on a hot stove-janene garofalo.
Off topic, but it just jumped into my head.
pretorious700 1 year ago
If you're the backdoor man you have to bare in mind that your conquest may do the same to you later;having got what they wanted they may find they didn't want it afterall later...and you know the saying "you cannot unmake an omelette" springs to mind..
If you susspect your wife is a bit of a runaround though you may want to consider her absence as an early liberation;i don't believe the worth of keeping wishy washy marrital POW's..
EDWARDBASTARDHITLER 1 year ago
@EDWARDBASTARDHITLER Yep, my rule: "IF SHE CHEATS ON HIM SHE'LL CHEAT ON YOU!" period.
pinegrove33 1 year ago
General!
;-)
J0ker4u 1 year ago
@J0ker4u At ease!
pinegrove33 1 year ago
bernard, this video speakes extremely true in my situation, my being the single guy in the situation. i can say from first hand experience this is all pretty close to the pin...
pyr0li4m 1 year ago 4
@pyr0li4m Good! Yeah, we've all experienced a lot of this junk first hand.
pinegrove33 1 year ago
4th law of dealing with women:
"be the guy shes cheating with, not the guy shes cheating on"
this also makes getting rid of her easy once she become insufferable. as an added bonus you can always clue the in the poor guy shes duped in an annonymous way once you are done with her.
theres no reason getting laid and seeing justice done cant coexist.
knowthingman 1 year ago 2
@knowthingman Well, that's true but i do always feel bad for the other guy. It's reflex at this point.
pinegrove33 1 year ago
Most men lack the prerequisite suave and initiative to be the other man. It is definitely better in practical and self-interest terms to be the other man though morally dubious. Most men are lower ranking males who are content that the good graces of superficial monogamy have allowed them access to females which would normally be herded in the harems of the alpha or higher ranking males. Females acting on their internal drives subvert the façade of monogamy.
ibmsony101 1 year ago
@ibmsony101
im not sure i completely agree with that analysis. because just as with males, females too can be see to be "alpha" or "beta", if not even more so than males. whereas the alpha male may have his pick of the females, there will always be legions of beta females that he simply couldnt give a damn about, and that will have to "settle" for their beta male counterparts. the wise alpha will not even waste his time with some so-called alpha females, and has no interest in betas.
knowthingman 1 year ago
@knowthingman alpha and beta sound like fish
saywhatjoedirt 1 year ago
@ibmsony101 Don't elevate the backdoor man with artificial praise by assigning him qualities such as "suave and initiative" that "most men lack." They are not a special breed. They are morally bankrupt cretins. Just like the women they pursue. I would suggest that men who do NOT mess with married women are the ones to be revered. Facilitating a cheating wife is easy. It is not a quality. It is deplorable. And it certainly is no more Alpha than scoring a fat chick.
CJC1295DAC 1 year ago
Humans are merely a smarter great ape. When it comes to mating and sexuality, we are only superficially different than our genetic cousins swinging from branches. Humans are a hierarchical and highly stratified specie. Morality and faithful monogamy are artifacts of civilization and not innate to the human condition. With the social devolution and destruction, western women have reverted to sexually coveting the big bad monkey while taking bananas from the nice kind one.
ibmsony101 1 year ago
Morality not withstanding, straying women seek out what they are programmed to view as a superior genetic package which include males with physical and/ or social traits that easily get women into bed. Google the “sexy son hypothesis.” The world is not fair nor is it moral. You can only impose moral behavior on yourself. The behavior of women can not be understood apart from evolutionary urges developed in the distant primeval past.
ibmsony101 1 year ago
I agree with you on moral grounds. However, I was not attempting to evolute infidelity from a moral standpoint. I think this matter is entirely settled. I was merely stating the obvious: men who have certain social and/or physical qualities have easy access to the chambers of married women who find such men more desirable than their husbands. Whores though we may judge them, such behavior is all too increasingly common as to render marriage a bitter pill to swallow.
ibmsony101 1 year ago
"Don't let yourself be a chump." Yes.
"Stay away from married women entirely, the costs are too great." Again, yes, but why just married women?
Great work, Bern. Hope you can catch the Big Chill at the Big House on TV today!
Torgo1969 1 year ago
@Torgo1969 So what are you saying, even though I like the idea of being married, I probably won't but what you saying is crazy talk. "Stay, stay away from women", unless you’re gay. I’m not attacking you, I'm asking, how do you plan to stay away from women? You can logically say, I’m not gonna endure a relationship, but how do you say, “I’m not going to want a piece of that”?
marcef100m 1 year ago
@marcef100m Maybe in my case being 41 helps a bit (as opposed to being in my 20s), as well as aversion therapy gained by sharing experiences with fellow MGTOWs online. Keeping the phrase "predator posing as a house pet" in mind helps to keep one on an even keel and preserves one's awareness of what barbarossaaaa calls "insidious chameleons". A monthly muscle massage helps with my "need for contact", and keeping the prostate well-drained and my mind occupied with my career help as well.
Torgo1969 1 year ago 2
@Torgo1969 41's a fine age my fellow over the hill Michigander. Well, i guess you're a New Yorker still at heart. "predator posing as a house pet" is pretty funny indeed.
pinegrove33 1 year ago
@pinegrove33 Well, to quote Dylan, "Feel like a fighting rooster, feel better than I ever felt". BTW, "predator posing as a house pet" is from Fight Club, not a perfect movie/book but definitely resonant and keeps one from sinking into the Snevie Swamp. "Losing all hope" may be freedom, but so is "having nothing to prove to oneself or others." At my age I'm pretty much there.
Also, I give much respect to men who can walk the line between sneviedom and assholedom. Sincere congrats!
Torgo1969 1 year ago
@Torgo1969 I'm 39 & stand 100% behind all of my post. I don't believe I'm speaking for just myself. Within several post responding 2 my response, this whole thing has misconstrued. My original response was/is that I did not think it was reasonable to think that more than a very few men would be willing to"go their own way" I also don't think that sentiment does MRM much good. Punishing self hardly seems like a strategy ending in victory. For every guy who says nope, there will be 100 in line.
marcef100m 1 year ago
@marcef100m Fair enough. With all respect, you may very well be correct re the rarity of men able to GTOW. I submit that it is made much more difficult by public hints of possibly being gay, or "bitter" like Rudov endures. I've had quite enough of that from the cunts I work with, and I don't think the MRM benefits from that crap, and certainly not from men.
I've used the techniques I listed to good benefit and haven't endured a betrayal in the last 2 years. Also, Chase Silver, not Pussy!
Torgo1969 1 year ago
@marcef100m My main concern was with Bern's dichotomy between married and single women. Any woman seeking to impress a man and vice versa (as opposed to just being impressive and desirable in oneself) is not to be trusted, for if this effort needs to be made then by definition it is unnatural and unsustainable. And the mask will come off someday.
If you've endured the multi-year deceptions and horrific 180 degree flip-flops some men have endured, and you still have hope, then I salute you!
Torgo1969 1 year ago
@marcef100m Are you American? Not that it matters, but I'm trying to figure out what you are saying. It's disconcerting to think that there are young men who think they HAVE to knuckle under to women to get laid. Once I realized that was counter productive, a whole world of freedom and independence opened up for me. And I got laid much more, and actually enjoyed it instead of being made to feel guility or beholden to the grantor of the goodies.
pretorious700 1 year ago
@pretorious700 Yes, I'm American, but just so you know, in many European countries it's worse. As far as "knuckle under", I agree 100%. If u go back & read my 5 or 6 post, I think anyone will see, I by no stretch encourage men to pussy beg or get walked on. I actually champion men that are doing the MGTOW thing but think very few will & I know I won't. Saying "I'm MGTOW", then jumping on first thing that flirts, hurts cause. Want the MRM to be honest, not just hot air, like most feminism.
marcef100m 1 year ago
@marcef100m fair enough....good luck, you're gonna need it.
pretorious700 1 year ago
@marcef100m Let me hazard a guess. Your a young dude still full of jizm and would hump the crack of dawn if you could ? Maybe once you have had your nads extracted via your wallet by one of the many bunny boilers on the prowl, you will change your views somewhat?
bettyswolloks2 1 year ago 2
@bettyswolloks2 first re-read what I said, then read my reply to pretorious above.
marcef100m 1 year ago
@bettyswolloks2 I bet the lad will!
pinegrove33 1 year ago
@marcef100m Eventually, the big head regains control and puts the little head in it's appropriate perspective. Unfortunately, you are doomed to several decades of southern rule, young fella.
pretorious700 1 year ago
@pretorious700 lol, I'm probably older then you. Simply stating a fact does not have anything to do with how I live my life. I'm honest, r u? Have fun living a life of celibacy, to me that sounds sad and kind of pathetic. In reality it sounds more like hyperably and big talk. As just stated, I still even have hopes of being married but, BECAUSE of my honest perspective, am not to this point. I'm 100% an MRA but that does not mean there are no women marrying, let alone having sex with.
marcef100m 1 year ago
@marcef100m that would be "hyperbole" and your thought process sounds about as confused as your spelling.
And believe me, you are not older than me.
pretorious700 1 year ago
@pretorious700 How am I confused, I'm being honest. Maybe you don't ever have sex, but do you really believe anybody else posting on here does not? Read again, lol, you’re acting like I’m crazy because I find the idea that a man will spend entire life not getting any, to be far from the reality of what 99.99% men are willing to do. I’m all for being careful, but you're avoiding the biological realities of a million yrs of evolution.
marcef100m 1 year ago 3
@marcef100m "I’m all for being careful, but you're avoiding the biological realities of a million yrs of evolution." Yes the State and women know this very well. Thus we find ourselves as men in such a deplorable condition of tyranny. BUT there are men like me are able to look past my biological inclinations and act by the free will my logical reasoning and intrepid spirit has afforded me. Men who get on their knees to women or the State lack honor and dignity. No longer men but slaves.
Red0660 1 year ago
@Red0660 so what's your point, my only point was and still is, that most men are not going to be willing not have sex with women and men who say they are going to do this are either lying or don't get sex from women anyway. It does the cause of men little good to make outlandish claims such as this.
As far as get on knees, that is your dialogue, it has nothing to do with me. I'm guessing I have walked away from more tang on principal, then any of the guys arguing with my TRUTHFUL statement.
marcef100m 1 year ago
@marcef100m Yes, without a woman's body life is not as sweet. I wholly agree. Dealing with them is inevitable. I believe the MGTOW guys but know that i can't do it.
pinegrove33 1 year ago
@pretorious700 Yeah, it took me until about 32 to wake up.
pinegrove33 1 year ago
@marcef100m Nah, you know some relationships turn out well and are mutually beneficial. Just be careful. In my own case, I honestly screwed myself. I knew better but committed. Oh well, i was 24. I'm not going my own way either.
pinegrove33 1 year ago
@Torgo1969 Missed it totally but i did record the Montreal DRW game on Friday and will record the Kings game on Monday night. If i see the wings three times in a month it's a great month.
pinegrove33 1 year ago
Married women are not a bad option in all cases. In fact many a young man living in polygamous societies where older wealthier men hoard young women and young man's lack of status and resources denies them socially sanctioned sexual access. Married women are often the only option for sexual access. I do not consider that even infidelity when young girls are married off by their families to old rich geezers who cannot satisfy them.
ibmsony101 1 year ago
However, this is not the case for women in the West. They marry freely and they can divorce on a whim. It is often women who cagoule or even coerce men into marriage. Sadly, it seems that the majority Western women are over-privileged wretches acting on emotions, greed, selfishness and their base instincts.
ibmsony101 1 year ago
This is why I won't get married!
crypter27 1 year ago 6
There is no such thing as a "soulmate"...this is just more romance novel bullshit women cling to. If you're lucky you may find someone you can trust and doesn't drive you crazy.
pretorious700 1 year ago 12
@pretorious700 Excellent. Thats it in a nutshell. Well said.
bettyswolloks2 1 year ago
@pretorious700 I question the whole concept myself.
pinegrove33 1 year ago
There is such a thing as a life-long loving and devoted marriage. It is very rare, but it does happen. Such relationships are never sex-centered and both the couple tend to be “nice” and moral. In the Western world marriage is mostly based on sexual attraction on part of both partners or other selfish considerations on part of the woman. In such a culture woe to a man who marries.
ibmsony101 1 year ago 2