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  • I have a hard time trying to convince myself that I am beautiful. I am so hard on myself all the time. Sometimes I have a hard time looking at myself in the mirror. People tell me I am beautiful but have a hard time seeing what they see.

  • My nose is big and I feel like it ruins my face, I hate it.

  • @SapphireCountryJewel Make your imperfection into something you embrace ;) Itll take a while but youll eventually get there. I hated lots of things on myself until i realised i would look so weird if i didnt have them :) And maybe its just you who sees it like that and others just think your face is lovely how it is :P

  • I have a bump in my nose Too and one minute ago i hate it, but now thx to u i love it :D

  • R u conadian?

  • Love ur videos!!!

  • there is lot to things you can work on !! and there is much more to say !! you can do lot of exercises to change your personality and be perfect(yes)this is possible , there is a positive thoughts and feeling and they create your future .

    and life and you have to find them

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  • very good ! and useful !! this girl knows what she is telling

    thank you babe

    lot of love to you !! you are in my hear

  • mor inför at :damianandfuture@yahoo.com

  • yes attitude have to be positive all the time , and you have to work on your confident , it is very important

    everything is in your mind and you need to know more then just in this video . it is hot to think positive , how to understand your situation , fears and anxiety and know how to overcome them and also how to achieve goals and challenge yourself . but i advise you to find right book with all info , this video is only 10 procreant of success if you want to get really positive in life

  • What happens if you hate everything about yourself ?

  • It's hard to be positive, when you realize, you've been kidding yourself all the time. Back to square one...

  • It took me almost 4 years to not be so annoying im still kinda but that's one of the things that I can fix that you mentioned even when I was annoying my friends still loved me!!(:

  • Its hard to be confident when your fat and ugly.

  • @Alisonmariesnow honey - i've been fat and ugly and hated myself, but i promise you, you can change the way you feel! Be your own best friend. You deserve your own love and affection, start by telling yourself you're beautiful, even if at first you don't believe it. Go for walks or do any physical activity you enjoy, it will make you feel sooo much better about yourself. Just do it! Because you are worth it, and you're special! good luck honey.

  • Comes from someone who is skinny and beautiful.

  • what if all my good sides were the things that girls disguest??Girls hate smart.

  • @langzean that's not true! it's not about looks or about being smart. It's about being positive. Everyone likes people who bring a little brightness and warmth. Start by liking yourself. And if you're smart too - that's even better!

  • @sunnyday1981D : Thank you..

  • Awesome vid!

  • well beauty really is in the eye of the beholder because I think RachhLoves isnt thaaaaat pretty in my eyes but that doesnt mean I dont like her because I think her attitude is amazing and her inner beauty is what impresses me :D

  • i loveeeee your eyes, could you like mae an tutorial about that hehe?

  • I thik its true

  • How about if you're bald?

  • I love what you do babe!! We ALL need to concentrate on our CORE and developing our CORE and asking ourselves....what do I want out of LIVE!!!

  • I agree :) I believe the only ugly people in this world are the bad people that do no good. Staying yourself is the best option: Boys like girls on how they look, Men like women on themselves. If you aren't yourself then you won't find the right special someone!

  • I have been feeling seriously down on myself lately. I am going to keep faith in god and change my attitude though. Thanks for the video... it helped me quite a bit.

  • how do u grow ur hair so long ???

  • You are just great and wonderful person! I really believe that what you say has the right power to influence people... You are one of those people that we need to make us open our eyes! I definitely thing you are a person who has know how!!! Thumbs up!

  • i don't think religion has something to do with self-esteem. LOL

  • @pidigrimerde sorta does.

  • @Thiggyhiggy no it don't. anyway apart from the religion part.. i liked the video.. it helps thanks!

  • @pidigrimerde what about those girls who dont show their hair, and get stared at

    that causes low self-esteem , they think their not like evryone, and their different from everyone.

  • @Thiggyhiggy hidding hair is a choice. you don't HAVE to. and i'm sure that the girls who hide their hair are pretty happy to do it because they do it for their religion.

  • @pidigrimerde personally i don't look at them differently

  • @pidigrimerde true,

  • I LOVE THIS VIDEO I'VE BEEN TRYING TO GET SELF-ESTEEM BUT YOU JUST OPEN MY HEART AND GAVE ME INSPIRATION TO IT. I ALWAYS LOOK AT THIS TO REMIND MYSELF THANK YOU SO MUCH

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  • I truly hate it when people talk about "it's easy to be confident when you look like a model" That's complete bs. There are tons of "hot" girls who do not have confidence. I believe I am pretty but I look nothing like RachhLoves. And I am happy with that. I like how I look. There might be some things on myself that I don't necessarily care for but I focus on this that I love. Most of you who aren't confident..it's not your looks that are the problem it's your attitude that is your problem.

  • That's a really good advice

    How old are you?

  • That's easy fr you to say.. your so pretty. I'm a sixth grader and i'm pretty fat for my age... just my thighs tho...

  • I'm from The Bahamas and I think you're awesome! You're really helping people and your video was inspiring. Don't ever stop being you because God put you this earth to encourage people. You are beautiful but it's your attitude and your love for people and God that makes you virtuous. Keep rockin!

  • F U C K Y O U !!!! Someone like you can easily talk about being beautiful! I have a huge waist, a round face, scoliosis and major breakouts.

  • the awkward moment when I can find like a hundred negative things about myself, and she complains about a little bump on her nose that no one notices:(

  • @ltpt96 The first step of improving yourlife is being positive. The mind is the most powerful thing in the world if you think your ugly and fat that's what you will be! Your not ugly not fat your beautiful (handsome if your a guy like me (: ) and curvey! Nothing wrong with curves, rachh is a good role model! Follow her i have been for awhile!

  • @ltpt96 thats the thing about us judging ourselves, most of us judge ourself much harder than others. just like u feel her nose hump is unnoticeable ( which i feel too) other people will not notice the negative things in you as much too

  • I´d love to have somebody say that who also has a fucking moon face!

  • lol

  • you're confident because you're beautiful...

  • well that´s easy for you to say. I´ve always been told that I´m ugly so it´s kinda hard for me to like myself

  • I'm not a girl, But its funny how a girl such as yourself can say that. your so pretty and alot of people don't look like you, so they cant just feel Confident. But good advice anyways :)

  • Awesome video, you seem like a really nice person and you're very pretty :)

  • I absoultly love your attitude and the way you go about things, it makes you sooo much more of a beautiful person then you already are. :)

  • hey rach love youy ur amazin ghappy for u an dchris i dont need this video because i m only 11 but thanks anyway

  • it's funny that people only makes videos of how to be confident when they are at the best of their life

  • anyone else tear up

  • Amen GOD is everything and we can do all things through CHRIST who strangthens us. :)

    GOD BLESS :)

  • @Gellys101 stupid.

  • there is nothing with Beauty, it is a goal,,,,

  • Hi there. What is your job, just curious? Most people don't love their jobs.

  • why does she wear makeup than =(

  • @MelodiaSeira b/c it makes us feel pretty and put together(:

  • @Kayleighgirl14

    Yea, but if your so confident, you wouldn't need it to feel pretty. Right?

  • @MelodiaSeira I guess so but mabe the make up is what makes her feel confident? I persoally dont wear makeup only mascara(: bc i like my skin i only have a few blemishes on my chin that i dont care about(: or i cover them up with concellear

  • @Kayleighgirl14

    me too, put I only wear lip gloss. But i gotta say foundation defiantly makes me sparkle xD

  • @MelodiaSeira (: can i add you as a friend?

  • @Kayleighgirl14

    sure =)

  • No matter what my mood sad or happy I always always sing and listen to music because there is a song for everything and I'm good at singing so if I'm feeling down I sing 2 remind myself that I'm still good at a lot of things

  • Opened my eyes so much. Thank you(:

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  • Very good advice. :)

  • thank you:)

  • you kinda look like anne hathaway :)

  • @duckersforever not.a.bit

  • You are one of my role models. (I have two.) :):)

  • Thank you so much for this video! You a big inspiration for me! :) <3

  • You're officially my true insparation(:

  • I wish you were my sister or bff.. :(

  • what religion were u before u converted?

  • You inspire me. :-)

  • You are so sweet and genuine!

  • Your awesome, i love your advice. I already feel beautiful ;) xx

    

  • I don't know how to be more social with the "group"? I thinl they r nice persons, but real loud so that makes me look quiet and i really not quiet , but i just can't to be myself at school! :(

    wish i was ur friend ur kind! I'll try to be confident tomorrow at school, thanks! But can u tell me how to be more social with the group? xo

  • c`mon guys this is life! so be it!

  • what i hate about my self is that i have loads of moles and i am so skinny like a twig and i have giant eyes

  • @theanimallover0013 I think that giant eyes on anyone looks beatiful!!

  • amazing video! this is realt talk, i love these kinds of videos!:) you are beautiful, and i love your eyes(: thanks for the great advice<3

  • Thank you! This is just what I needed today :) <3

  • Girls, if you want to be beautiful just follow these simple steps:

    1. Don't ever be seen using a push lawn mower.

    2. Don't cheer if a fight breaks out. Just cry or call the police (or ambulance).

    3. Never, under any circumstances should you talk about football. If I have to hear one more woman say "roll tide," I will off myself ASAP.

    4. Don't smoke, learn to cook and never say the words "stank," "hella," or "fo' real."

    That's all there is to it!!

  • @iHAVE1j hahahhaha. you can't be serious.

  • you are great, thanks for making me feel better I actually went in the mirror and did what you say...time to head out and enjoy the weather!!!!

  • omg i love you lol lIM A SEXY BITCH

  • i want u to be my sister

  • Thanks so much for this, I'll try to keep up my best at being positive and confident, you really helped, and you have a great smile!! =D

  • I'm a young man...and...I absolutely think some girls should see this video! I'll definitely share it! You are awesome! 10/10 for what your doing in this video!

  • what religion r u?

  • Thank you. 

  • Sexy

  • 'hey my beautiful girls' *subscribes*

  • @creameggxx hahaa so truee x

  • Comunication is about 55% voice tone, rithm and intensity, 40% body language and 5% the logic and actual words you say.

    So, communication isn't 90% body language.

    Love your video though. <3

  • i burned them at my house caught fire

  • you inspire me :) thanks a lot ! 

  • darren criss has a bump too!! and he's the hottest person alive!! :)

  • It's easy to be confident when you're born into this world looking like a super model. But thanks, Rachel! This video really helps!

  • @WhySoSerious930 and with that easy come confidence, achiving everything in life.like being pretty looking like a super model, you'll be ANYTHING and you'll get there easily.. i really hate it. but what can you do? born ugly is the worst thing that can happen, imo. i am ugly, no doubt about that. it's like everything you achieve in life is based on how you look. you can be a total bitch and still have everything- if you're pretty of course. And dont ask why i think this way, been through enough

  • I love watching your videos! you are such a beautiful person, thanks so much for all of your advice. keep it up!

  • Your this video had all the problems that i was facing. Thanks alot. Love you for this !

  • Thank you sooo much for this video. (subscribed) such a positive message. I honestly need to learn how to surround myself with positive people.

  • Hi RachhLoves. Like your message. keep it up :)

  • omg i have a bumb too lol some ppl say u have a bumb but i just answer them that its for great ppl really it is!!

  • easy for you to say you dont get called ugly all the time by the oppsite sex

  • hi anyone practice of speaking in english with me add me on my skype id"sajjadhellokhankhan"

  • Good video but seriously that is easy for you too say cause you aren't over weight or ugly or anything.imagine if you were then try doing all that confidence stuff.but if you are a girl like you who just has a bump on her nose or something then I think this is a good video for you.

  • My Problem is I'm not the skinniest but I'm not the biggest but all of my friends are super skinny and pretty and I'm jealous of them and they all have boyfriends and there happy positive and confident and they can buy what they want but I can't ! Plz help me!!

  • are you wearing colored contacts... your eyes are really pretty

  • Thank you!This really helped me alot i was down in a black hole and now i am at the top of the mountain again.Hope you make more videos like this<3

  • Thanks for this video your a good person for posting something like this out there for people to see. I am going to school for cosmo which I already dont have much confidence in myself and working with ppl requires some confidence and its always nice to hear some positive words.. I try very hard to stay optimistic but sometimes its like the bad just takes you over completely so im trying to get out of old habits and become a better person and better yet be myself and feel happy.

  • this made me cry thank you so much

  • You Helped Me Alot You Are One Great Gift That God Sent :) New Subb

  • you don't deserve all these negative comments.. its like you said in the video..some people need to learn NOT to focus on the negative things in their lives. its a great video and u are a very positive and beautiful girl!

  • Your beautiful*!

  • thank u soooooo much ..... this will help me alot :)

  • You remind me of Anne Hathaway!

  • @MovieMation I don't know.. I'm trying to figure that one myself. It seems silly to put on a fake smile but does it make you feel better when you do?

  • dude. i LOVE you! thank you :) this helped me a lot

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  • Also looking in the mirror and smiling at yourself.

  • @andreaxxfarrellyxoxo : how are you shy? Like you literally can't communicate shy? But I guess just remember that everyones the same. It's like talking to someone and then later you can be friends or something. All I'm saying is there's no reason to be shy, talk to someone and say things your like shy to say:P I sound sooo deeepp

  • aww i love this this is such a feel good video

  • Did you ever fake a smile somedays when you were feeling bad knowing with a positive attitude you would turn out happy? Like someone repeating over and over again that they like a certain food that they really don't but they learned to like it?

  • @raeballet are you saying fake smiles are good or bad?

  • I'm sorry rachel, i know you are just trying to help,

    but it's easy being positive with a life like yours . im not saying i know everything about you, but from what u tell and show you seem way more fortunate then most ppl.

    you are also pretty, and it's not easy being confident when you are not pretty, no matter how you tell yourself those positive things...

  • @rachhloves thank you so much I have been negative my whole childhood and got bullied when I was little but you just picked me up and i was crying before i seen this and it really cheered me up i liked subscribed favourited and shared because its not good to feel all bad about yourself, its not good for your self esteem and can knock you down a peg or two I want people to think they are beautiful and a year ago i had poofy hair fat belly and a tomboy style But thats changed Thank you rachhloves!

  • you're awesome! way to make my day way better

  • the hardest part in life for me is probably that i dont know exactly who i am! ive changed dramatically over the last few years.....that means my thoughts, style, personality, appearance, and self confidence has completely changed! i wish i had myself put together but i dont. the main part that makes me sad is that im in it alone..... my best friend is going to this nicer school and im left behind at the same crappy school with the same fake people! ughhh i wish i had a friend now :///

  • I use to have this friend thar wined all the time and had sooooooooooo much drama even when things were fine so now I have my best friend from years move back here I feel sooo much better,

    I think my nose is to big so I made that my best feature and now I luv it,

  • your nose is perfect. mine points down

  • well i just want to say you're awesome. Actually i just created this youtube account so i could tell you that haha. whether you realize it or not, you're making a difference in peoples' days, including mine. though i appear confident bc i love to laugh and smile, you gave me the idea of actually feeling it! I especially like the end of your video :) i'm catholic too and people need to know how much prayer works! btw congrats to you and your fiance!

  • but i am not sure about how i should think of good things in my life.I havent actualy had a real friend since 2nd grade,my dad is neglectivly (Or however you spell it) abusive,i have a bad school,i have bad grades,my mom sometimes hits me and when i cry she only tells me how her parents use to hit her so hard her chin or cheeks break,and lifes only getting worse.What should i do?

  • @emi7cimpyay Don't take that crap. Honestly u need to get away from that kinda environment. Its hard when the people that are supposed to love you are the ones that are hurting u the most. But the best thing to do is to keep fighting. I used to go through that as a kid too. I guess i still do, but now i actually stand up for myself. Some days it'll feel like ur all alone, but trust me look around,and u'll find atleast one person standing there with their arms out. I promise (:

  • @XXCUTlEXX07 well that oe kid from second grade moved to poland,and he calls me everyday to support me,i have actual money now,im thinking about ditching everyone...Thanks though,your comment made me smile :)

  • @XXCUTlEXX07 you....are not the best phycic :P At school,its basically...my pain is the way they fit in.When they beat me up or somthing,They are the 'popular' kids.and i cant leave,im only ten.and i already got yelled at with...'curses' by my romanian class teacher.Bit by my brothers dog....The person your talking about is in Poland,im in Chicago...Any other advise you got?You do have wide advise...just one thing keeps me going... 'others that hurt me make me stand up on my own,and stronger.':(

  • @XXCUTlEXX07 your comment made me smile/frown...Thats just it.the only way i go on is by advise from people i dont know.Doctors dont even care about me.when i was little my parents almost starved me and the doctors didnt help.Then once i cut myself on the arm with a knife,did the doctors help?No.I had to survive and heal on my own because of advise from youtubers and video game people.yet thank you for writing somthing sweet.:)

  • my brother watched this =D lol

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  • thanks(:

  • when this video barely even got started, the little pop up came up about sharing and liking, and i teared up when i read "i want every girl to know they are beautiful." .____.

  • good video

  • Pronunciate? You mean pronounce and anunciate? HAHA :)

  • Thank you so much u made me feel better I have a very low selfsteem N it's not bcuz I'm big is bcuz I'm skinny sometimes I don't even feel like goin out cuz I think people gone say stuff about me i feel like i dont love myself n I always think I'm dum i just think everything is wrong with me:( I really need help I would love to talk to u in person u made me cry when I saw ur video thanx a lot girl

  • You are right, when you act confident people dont see the negative things about you, I mean, I didn't even notice your Huge bump on your nose :D

    Great vid btw, i feel more confident now :)

  • Thank you!! I feel so much better (: great tips!! they really work

  • I was feeling not good today, but now after watching u i felt so much better!!

    Thaanks :D

  • i will try this i need it

  • This video is something that should be shared. The loss of self confidence in society today is a part of the reason why some have such a perception of how bad things are. Because how can you feel and see opportunity if you feel you dont deserve it. You are all beautiful and deserve the very best in every aspect of your lives.

    Try doing something different each day and find what works for you and you never know what may happen and where you might wind up. Love yourself Daily and others will too!

  • thankyouuu!!!

    i walk around smiling all the time now, hahaha, but it makes everyone else feel great too(:

  • ok gosh.

  • This stuff ain't gonna work for me

    I'm tooo depressed.

  • @toretsblaby Then eat healthier and exercise.

  • @toretsblaby same /:

  • It was so great to come across this video! You literally have inspired thousands of people. Thank you so much for sharing your positive message! From one positive person to another, keep spreading the love =)

    -PositiveImactMagazine

  • Really good video!! You are so right about being surrounded by positive people and needing to try new things.

  • you're awesome.. thank you <3