This song makes me think of my ex. We loved each other more than anything else in the world. No matter what happened we went though it together. Everytime we tried to make it work it never could; he always hurt me. So he's better a a memory than as my man
I would believe... it's about a true friends love and soulmate that is forbidden to love... and how one has found them both standing at that crossroads of life... and has to go on in life alone, until the other finds him like he had found her many years ago... now only the SANDS OF TIME will bring them back together... BETTER AS A MEMORY... then as a first kiss... goodbye.
my ex always use to say this was his song to me i listen to it all the time an it reminds me of him an it gets me upset all the time just cuz it makes me think of him and our past to much i thought he was the one we had everything all planned out for the next 15 years of our life :'(
Listenin to to this song, after two years, still burns, and makes me cry. My ex sang this to me after we broke up. I love it, but it hurts to listen to it..
this song used to make me sad....because the words are so true and i didnt want to believe it was me. I now know it is me and i am better as a memory than as her man. Just wanna apologize to my ex wife for all the hell i put her through
i cry when i here this song, it remind how much i miss my late husband, he was 26 when he died, we were together 13years and marred almost four years when he died..we had are hard times but he will always be a memory to myself and to are boys.. i see him more every day in my boys....
i have told my ex the same thing and i really want to be wit her but her and her bf r doing really well but i broke up wit her cause it was better for her
So much of this song fits. It was forbidden love from the start, He tried to warn
me not to get too close, but we couldn't seem to be stoped. Better as a memory Yes, but so very hard to let go of. I only hope the memories of us are as treasured to him as they are to me. Moving on but I shall never forget you My Sharkman.
This song touches my heart as these were the exact word that I said to the woman I loved ........... rather still love but noone really gets it, its sad really that I let true love by but am happy in the consolation that she really has a life that she deserves may it be without me. Guess the hardest thing to do is to tell the person that you are in love with that you do not love them anymore.
I have a hard time trying to have my ex as just a memory. He is/was the ONE true love of my life...I don't know why I let him go but he seems happier and makes me miserable because I want to be happy beside him.
day after day i went without hearing this song,not i feel 10 times better after letting him go... he is definantly better as a memory,than as my man (:
this song is beautiful and as sooooooo much heart to it. i dont care if he didnt write the song, but he sings it soooooo well. it makes me cry to listen to the song. i think they should use it in new moon
......my friends sis showed me this song b/c of a inssue with a guy i was with....all i can say i dont care who wrote the song......it deff. can make someone feel alot better about a guy.........
Yo conoci la musica de Kenny, por causalidad hace mucho tiempo y ahora muchos de mis amigos la han incluido dentro de sus albums favoritos, Kenny Chesney Music plus rest in playa del carmen and coronitas is the best
Simmuh down, buckaroo...I didn't malign K.C.'s singing ability. I merely interjected a FACT into this thread, for the benefit of those who were laboring under the misconception that he wrote this song.
Kenny Chesney said on Ellen that the song was about his marriage & divorce w/ Renee Zellweger and how life goes on and all. He seems like a real stand up honest guy. He never bashed her or tried to throw a pity party. Anyway, this new CD is awesome and this song ROCKS, so Thanks 08111986 for the video 5 Stars for sure ;)
i found the one who i knew was the one. but ive been without her for two months now and my life is hell. she was my everything and now its all gone. i need her back. im not better as a memory. i cant stand being apart from her.
this song so describes all those girls you like but just cant have i know it does for me id rather be there to help then help bring down and sometimes i just feel i am that way i distract people from bringing out all that they are
I have a former (I've just gotten to old to say ex-)boyfriend. I thought we would be married with kids, in Edison, Georgia by now. But we both went our separate ways. I am very happy with my life and I hope he is too. This song was practically written for us, I thought that about the Garth Brooks' song-"Unanswered Prayers" now I think this one just speaks more truths about young love. I will always treasure the relationship we had-but he is better as a memory.
I love this song so much. It really hit home. I kept thinking that my wife would be better off without me. wasnt always a great husband to her and i almost did loose her. we are working on our marriage but i still sometimes think i would be better as a memory to her. it sucks to think that about yourself. i love my wife and would give my life for her. thank you kenny for this song....it really says what im thinking alot of the time!!
i was just in a long distance relationship, and after i heard this song, i decided it wasnt going to well, i had my doubts bu, this was too far, wecouldnt see each other. shes really mad at me now and im tryin my best to help her forgive me, i was allshe had and i let her go, im an a-hole and i know, i feel terrible, and i cant indo this....:(
I know what you mean. Sometimes we have to do what we have to do. You would have not been good for her if you couldn't give 100%. Time shows us things about our lives and about other people. I pray both your hearts will heal. It's time for you to let go and move on. You can't help her forgive you. She has to do that on her own. Peace.
thank you so much, i thought i could change what ive done, but your right, i need to mpve on, thank you so much for the support, time doesnt alway heal everything, but i think it may just heal this....thank you....
this song is so true and the video is perfect i was in a very unstable relationship for the past two and half years and wasn till recently i found the perfect guy was my bes friend who actually has been there for me in the middle of the night when im cryin or fussin bout someone else
powerful song. i was a bartender for 18 years, this song speaks of my life back then, i am paying the price now, many special women have been in my life, and i didnt pay attention. i was "built to fade" back then,
I thought I Remember was the song,OUCH this was my AL-B I hope he can rest in peace I think of him everyday and miss so much I forget the drama and pain that ended our love I hurt missing him need to get over it but love wont let me I did find new love and have moved on but alone time I remeber just cant pretend my whole world was flipped upside down and death dosent mean they are gone forever better as a memory, (needed to vent)
I wanted to be what she wanted, I tried I fought hard. I changed. But in the end I was never what she needed. she knew and so did I. we let it go and she moved on, I cant, but I know its right. I know I am better a memory than her man......... wow what a great song and awesome video, great work. will some people be alone forever?
Song always brings a tear to my eye... i had a relationship fail, and its like my end of the story... and video made it more vivid... great job on it though
awesome work....lov it..i hope to keep seeing your creative side again an again....excellent work.......again thnxx for upload....an awesome song.....
sent the link of this vid to my ex,we still love eachother but im with someone new and were in love n are engaged, but sometimes we are just better as a memory, n even though ima guy i love kenny's music
Listen--unless you met him before he got married, you've never had it all. You are settling for crumbs when you deserve the whole pie, so does he, so does his wife. You are all missing out. Someone needs to find the strength to walk away. Life is too short for such misery. A true union from God is a blessing, not a curse.
Beautiful song, so many people can relate to this song, Thanks Kenny for your music it touches so many peoples heart all over this world, love ya your number one fan Johnny.
anthony, you were honest to a fault, you saw me leaning!! you are better as a memory, but I miss you so much sometimes!!! Thanks Kenny for this awesome song, you are the best!!!!!
why do people wait till late in life to try to fulfill there dreams? when it would of been easier when they first met. I seen an old friend and he told me he loved me, well guess what i love him to now were are just dreamin' so if you really love someone don't wait till it is to late life is so short.
i say the same thing, never sit in the back and wait and wait even though i do it as well but you have to fight it. throw it out there trust me you will want to know if the love with work or not, i rather her say get the hell away from me then me never knowing.. i did that shit in school and now with nothing... dont sit in the back
CAN YOU HELP ME THE MAN OF MY LIFE IS SO DEVOUT CATHOLIC...HE WILL NOT GET PAST THE OLD FASHION COMMANDEMENTS HE'S IN A 31 YEAR MARRIAGE. loves me heart and soul...but is pulled because of his devout ways. He truly loves me....please help me survive. Help me to become strong. Thank you Glory
This song makes me think of my ex. We loved each other more than anything else in the world. No matter what happened we went though it together. Everytime we tried to make it work it never could; he always hurt me. So he's better a a memory than as my man
rhodescrazy 4 months ago
I would believe... it's about a true friends love and soulmate that is forbidden to love... and how one has found them both standing at that crossroads of life... and has to go on in life alone, until the other finds him like he had found her many years ago... now only the SANDS OF TIME will bring them back together... BETTER AS A MEMORY... then as a first kiss... goodbye.
cloverlanebandits 5 months ago
I've been with my baby daddy for 10 yrs, and its ending, sucks but this song puts it all into words....
Plushheaven 5 months ago
my ex always use to say this was his song to me i listen to it all the time an it reminds me of him an it gets me upset all the time just cuz it makes me think of him and our past to much i thought he was the one we had everything all planned out for the next 15 years of our life :'(
cassie3ism 5 months ago
Listenin to to this song, after two years, still burns, and makes me cry. My ex sang this to me after we broke up. I love it, but it hurts to listen to it..
cowboylady27 5 months ago
this song used to make me sad....because the words are so true and i didnt want to believe it was me. I now know it is me and i am better as a memory than as her man. Just wanna apologize to my ex wife for all the hell i put her through
1376Biggdaddy 5 months ago
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kylkel19 5 months ago
Love always ends up ending then your sad :/ wish that wouldnt happen
NickMarx1 6 months ago
....I'm going to go watch japanese porn now.
Jonwalker92 7 months ago
I was never, better as a memory
oneNonly1fullofsome 8 months ago
My true love is a forbidden true love. All I have are memories and never the true love I want.
mcv0214 8 months ago
i cry when i here this song, it remind how much i miss my late husband, he was 26 when he died, we were together 13years and marred almost four years when he died..we had are hard times but he will always be a memory to myself and to are boys.. i see him more every day in my boys....
sweettori100 8 months ago 2
This song kills me. How I felt when my ex and I broke up. Don't even know what to say. And how I feel now.
JamiesCryin1 10 months ago
every guy i've ever known has been better as a memory lol
MeredithOD 11 months ago 6
@MeredithOD change the type of guy you look for!
Seanmystaa 8 months ago
@Seanmystaa Good idea!!! hahaha
MeredithOD 8 months ago
RICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
cathypetitt4 11 months ago
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leppyrebel 11 months ago
the man who i first heard this song with only made this song so true.....
leppyrebel 11 months ago
Now this is an awesome video!!! You did a really good job!!!
Justinsmommy412 1 year ago
i have told my ex the same thing and i really want to be wit her but her and her bf r doing really well but i broke up wit her cause it was better for her
countryboy1579 1 year ago
I think of me and my crush, but he turned his back on me then he gong say u r like my little sister to me....
ThePhiledelphiaEagle 1 year ago
i luv this omg
cherelleislove 1 year ago
@1mojoone yu should be a preacher..
.lol
craigmackenzieful 1 year ago
@craigmackenzieful fuk u then
cherelleislove 1 year ago
im not american im not country boy, but i like USA, the country music, and kenny chesney he's the king !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TheCountryman25 1 year ago
So much of this song fits. It was forbidden love from the start, He tried to warn
me not to get too close, but we couldn't seem to be stoped. Better as a memory Yes, but so very hard to let go of. I only hope the memories of us are as treasured to him as they are to me. Moving on but I shall never forget you My Sharkman.
With Love, you Little Witch girl
Daisygonewild2 1 year ago
This song touches my heart as these were the exact word that I said to the woman I loved ........... rather still love but noone really gets it, its sad really that I let true love by but am happy in the consolation that she really has a life that she deserves may it be without me. Guess the hardest thing to do is to tell the person that you are in love with that you do not love them anymore.
ryanhard1 1 year ago
I have a hard time trying to have my ex as just a memory. He is/was the ONE true love of my life...I don't know why I let him go but he seems happier and makes me miserable because I want to be happy beside him.
ndargitz 2 years ago
day after day i went without hearing this song,not i feel 10 times better after letting him go... he is definantly better as a memory,than as my man (:
TheNameMayBeBrittany 2 years ago
this song is beautiful and as sooooooo much heart to it. i dont care if he didnt write the song, but he sings it soooooo well. it makes me cry to listen to the song. i think they should use it in new moon
gunnerbaby216 2 years ago 2
......my friends sis showed me this song b/c of a inssue with a guy i was with....all i can say i dont care who wrote the song......it deff. can make someone feel alot better about a guy.........
gabriellelemoine 2 years ago
Yo conoci la musica de Kenny, por causalidad hace mucho tiempo y ahora muchos de mis amigos la han incluido dentro de sus albums favoritos, Kenny Chesney Music plus rest in playa del carmen and coronitas is the best
Eduardo760805 2 years ago
Everytime i heard this song it would make me cry..... Nothing lasts forever but memories are never better than the real thing
sweetrluv91 2 years ago 4
this is awesome song
goldenlsufan 2 years ago
beautiful song
poger11 2 years ago 3
Not to burst anyone's bubble, but Kenny didn't write this song. Writing credit goes to Scooter Carusoe and Lady Goodman.
RowdyRacer17 2 years ago
and? I guarantee nobody can sing it better than he can
cowboy891 2 years ago
Simmuh down, buckaroo...I didn't malign K.C.'s singing ability. I merely interjected a FACT into this thread, for the benefit of those who were laboring under the misconception that he wrote this song.
RowdyRacer17 2 years ago
SOMEONE FINALLY RECOGNIZE'S SONG WRITERS !!!!!!! :) AWESOME :) Thank You
Kevsgirl234 2 years ago
Oh great, now I'm listening to country songs! What;s up with that is what I'd like to know?
mundanejane550 2 years ago
:(
i cried
smj0607 2 years ago 3
To thy own self be true.
JamesTheTank 2 years ago
Beautiful, welcome to my favorites.
JamesTheTank 2 years ago 4
love this song
devonkae 2 years ago 3
That is a really good portrail of that song, the pictures are great
Thirdman09 2 years ago 5
i went thru this during the start of 2008.i wish i could have heard this song then....
tastyTel21 3 years ago 5
Sad but nice song by Kenny Chesney. *****
Thank you for sharing, bbudacious! :)
Maureen
Maureen712 3 years ago 4
This is me and my first love. Recently.
fuzzywuzzymauikitty 3 years ago 4
this song is my life right now. sad but true.
jstinnett75 3 years ago 3
love this song its mt favorite
christopherkng89 3 years ago 4
I love this song
but it reminds me so much of me that I can't help but cry when I hear it.
Bennieluv18 3 years ago 4
this is a good song
thebadboy6666 3 years ago 2
where did you find the pics? Thanks :)
SARAHH213 3 years ago
Kenny Chesney said on Ellen that the song was about his marriage & divorce w/ Renee Zellweger and how life goes on and all. He seems like a real stand up honest guy. He never bashed her or tried to throw a pity party. Anyway, this new CD is awesome and this song ROCKS, so Thanks 08111986 for the video 5 Stars for sure ;)
JBsBgstFan 3 years ago 3
in the 60/60 interview he said he wrote this as a letter to 3 girls hes known throughout life
CountyLT76 3 years ago 2
i found the one who i knew was the one. but ive been without her for two months now and my life is hell. she was my everything and now its all gone. i need her back. im not better as a memory. i cant stand being apart from her.
xtremeatvrider89 3 years ago
I know how you feel it sucks
41james2007 3 years ago
Aww... I hope it all works out.
fuzzywuzzymauikitty 3 years ago 3
this song so describes all those girls you like but just cant have i know it does for me id rather be there to help then help bring down and sometimes i just feel i am that way i distract people from bringing out all that they are
lschumach7 3 years ago
I have a former (I've just gotten to old to say ex-)boyfriend. I thought we would be married with kids, in Edison, Georgia by now. But we both went our separate ways. I am very happy with my life and I hope he is too. This song was practically written for us, I thought that about the Garth Brooks' song-"Unanswered Prayers" now I think this one just speaks more truths about young love. I will always treasure the relationship we had-but he is better as a memory.
jpeek1775 3 years ago 16
I love this song so much. It really hit home. I kept thinking that my wife would be better off without me. wasnt always a great husband to her and i almost did loose her. we are working on our marriage but i still sometimes think i would be better as a memory to her. it sucks to think that about yourself. i love my wife and would give my life for her. thank you kenny for this song....it really says what im thinking alot of the time!!
submancl 3 years ago 2
i was just in a long distance relationship, and after i heard this song, i decided it wasnt going to well, i had my doubts bu, this was too far, wecouldnt see each other. shes really mad at me now and im tryin my best to help her forgive me, i was allshe had and i let her go, im an a-hole and i know, i feel terrible, and i cant indo this....:(
surviver14 3 years ago
I know what you mean. Sometimes we have to do what we have to do. You would have not been good for her if you couldn't give 100%. Time shows us things about our lives and about other people. I pray both your hearts will heal. It's time for you to let go and move on. You can't help her forgive you. She has to do that on her own. Peace.
chickdafamdenise 3 years ago 2
thank you so much, i thought i could change what ive done, but your right, i need to mpve on, thank you so much for the support, time doesnt alway heal everything, but i think it may just heal this....thank you....
surviver14 3 years ago 2
I agree that this is the best Kenny has done so far...
Josiedecember 3 years ago
Reminds me of my father. Sad
babcuteg38 3 years ago
This is such a beautiful song!
tigresfanrosie 3 years ago
this song is so true and the video is perfect i was in a very unstable relationship for the past two and half years and wasn till recently i found the perfect guy was my bes friend who actually has been there for me in the middle of the night when im cryin or fussin bout someone else
ebetschart0211 3 years ago
Lovely video! Perfect song!
roblaurich 3 years ago
This has to be the most moving song that kenny chesney has ever come out with
HaveYouSeenMyPants 3 years ago
powerful song. i was a bartender for 18 years, this song speaks of my life back then, i am paying the price now, many special women have been in my life, and i didnt pay attention. i was "built to fade" back then,
1stwaterdog 3 years ago 3
Don't think there is one yet. Could be wrong though.
xkollx 3 years ago
where is the actual vidio i cant find it what the hell it is pissing me off!!
sweet5yea 3 years ago
Such a beautiful video to this wonderful song.
jch35vt39h206 3 years ago
great song.
xkollx 3 years ago
Reminds me of my first love...
lucianluva 3 years ago
Great vid. Thanks for the lyrics!
jpeek1775 3 years ago
great vid, love the pics and the words.
really good job
2XTrouble 3 years ago
Kenny Chesney is NOT Dead! u ppl are nuts who thinks he is he's like 39 years old! Younger maybe!!! GEEZ PPL!! fuck ur R.I.P's he's Not Dead!
HorseSlaughterSux 3 years ago
this is a really awesome song! plus the pictures are beautiful! who ever made this video did an awesome job!
nicki8874599 3 years ago
i luv this song and the pics r awesome.
y is everyone talking like he's dead?
Akatsuki9Sasori 3 years ago
wow dumb shit Kenny Chesny is not dead!!! yea your smart....... no
sweet5yea 3 years ago
lol hes not dead who thought he was dead? hes doing concerts right now lol
bdashcates14 3 years ago
great job with the video! love the pics
DancerN650 3 years ago
smile
dieselman05 3 years ago
He is so much better as a memory, he will always be in my heart forever, as the good person I remember him as, move on always...love forever
Crazy4him0723 3 years ago
Has Kenny Chesney died ? How old was he ? What was wrong with him?
floepkebest 3 years ago
what??!! he's not dead!
DancerN650 3 years ago
Whoopsie =p
I thought there was somewhere a reaction "rip"...Or maybe it was from another vid, from Kenny Chesney. So I thought : "rest in peace' ; he died...
floepkebest 3 years ago
I thought I Remember was the song,OUCH this was my AL-B I hope he can rest in peace I think of him everyday and miss so much I forget the drama and pain that ended our love I hurt missing him need to get over it but love wont let me I did find new love and have moved on but alone time I remeber just cant pretend my whole world was flipped upside down and death dosent mean they are gone forever better as a memory, (needed to vent)
truleah 3 years ago
wow i love how i rlate contry music especialy this song so if youre reading this heres lookin at you kid
mo44bo 3 years ago
why is it that love will make you do some things that you wont usually do and stuff that you normally wont allow youreself to do
hawkman113 3 years ago
because love's like that.
stillmissheath 3 years ago
i trid to get him all year but it didnt work
but like the song says "Better as a memory"
i just want him to kno tht i will always love him
"I LOVE YOU JEFFERY DEWAYNE SMARTT JR."
hellyeahicp 3 years ago
I wanted to be what she wanted, I tried I fought hard. I changed. But in the end I was never what she needed. she knew and so did I. we let it go and she moved on, I cant, but I know its right. I know I am better a memory than her man......... wow what a great song and awesome video, great work. will some people be alone forever?
hfcbeattie 3 years ago 4
no, becuz she made u into something u weren't. Some ppl are never happy with what they have. U sound like a great person to me....
stillmissheath 3 years ago
Song always brings a tear to my eye... i had a relationship fail, and its like my end of the story... and video made it more vivid... great job on it though
imcrazyforwar 3 years ago 3
awesome work....lov it..i hope to keep seeing your creative side again an again....excellent work.......again thnxx for upload....an awesome song.....
phatflaco 3 years ago 5
i love this song!!
good job on the video!!!!!!!!!
very creative
babyjoe890 3 years ago 4
Love the song & did a wonderful job at the video.
juleandnitro 3 years ago
sent the link of this vid to my ex,we still love eachother but im with someone new and were in love n are engaged, but sometimes we are just better as a memory, n even though ima guy i love kenny's music
northernrebel1992 3 years ago
This video is AMAZING.
By far, the best i've seen for this song.
I signed up for You Tube just so I could comment. haha
You're awesome!
Lovekenny22 3 years ago 2
Please help me....I love the man of life..??? How can wwe get it all back??????
gjmama 3 years ago
Listen--unless you met him before he got married, you've never had it all. You are settling for crumbs when you deserve the whole pie, so does he, so does his wife. You are all missing out. Someone needs to find the strength to walk away. Life is too short for such misery. A true union from God is a blessing, not a curse.
beantou 3 years ago
I love this song and sometimes it is better when they are just a memory. I love kenny's music.
taterbug2125 3 years ago
Beautiful song, so many people can relate to this song, Thanks Kenny for your music it touches so many peoples heart all over this world, love ya your number one fan Johnny.
TearsDropsMN 3 years ago
anthony, you were honest to a fault, you saw me leaning!! you are better as a memory, but I miss you so much sometimes!!! Thanks Kenny for this awesome song, you are the best!!!!!
tracylmccormick 3 years ago 4
I agree, this is one my favorite song that Kenny has ever sang
chenko245 3 years ago
one of kennys best songs
coryrt12 3 years ago 5
why do people wait till late in life to try to fulfill there dreams? when it would of been easier when they first met. I seen an old friend and he told me he loved me, well guess what i love him to now were are just dreamin' so if you really love someone don't wait till it is to late life is so short.
oshun32sea 3 years ago 10
It would be great if only the people who see your comment, try to learn from it! You are so much right...
08111986 3 years ago 3
i say the same thing, never sit in the back and wait and wait even though i do it as well but you have to fight it. throw it out there trust me you will want to know if the love with work or not, i rather her say get the hell away from me then me never knowing.. i did that shit in school and now with nothing... dont sit in the back
Eddie92777 3 years ago
CAN YOU HELP ME THE MAN OF MY LIFE IS SO DEVOUT CATHOLIC...HE WILL NOT GET PAST THE OLD FASHION COMMANDEMENTS HE'S IN A 31 YEAR MARRIAGE. loves me heart and soul...but is pulled because of his devout ways. He truly loves me....please help me survive. Help me to become strong. Thank you Glory
gjmama 3 years ago
@oshun32sea you are so right, ive been experiencing the same thing lately
mike8175862 1 year ago
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Iceblueshoulder 1 year ago
@oshun32sea @oshun32sea
Its never as easy as you seem to think it is.
Im in love with this women, But there is nothing i can do.
And she loves me.
But there are things that stand between us.
Just have to wait for the right time,
Dreams are what drive us forward, If we all get out dreams than whats left to fight for?
Iceblueshoulder 1 year ago
Life is too short.
tldrnkh2o2 1 year ago
Life is too short.
tldrnkh2o2 1 year ago
@oshun32sea you can only do that so many times before you give up tho.
blacksmithindude 1 year ago 2
So beautifully depressing...I can relate to this song...in a way.
BitingGrizzlies 3 years ago 6
I love this song! the lyrics are so amazing...and i love love those quotes at the end of this video! great job dude!
pinkstarburst09 3 years ago 5
great....just perfect....
koua1987 3 years ago 4
Heard this song for the first time tonight and loved it immediately.
bbashful 3 years ago 4
cool hits my soft spot
hard2catchme 4 years ago
The visuals are definetly in step with the song.............
wanderer42460 4 years ago 4