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  • with great pain. please tell me what you think??

  • sometimes when it get too bad, i have to read the bible instead or post biblical verses on facebook. but the more deeper i pray, the more desperate my feelings for him become, my friends and some people told me to tell him, maybe it will help me make a closure to my feelings, but i;m putting this all to God, because He said I'm not alone and we put all our burdens and worries to Him, but I can seem to feel nor His reply at all, nothing is changing. I dont know what to do. and i'm writing this

  • because i'm human i dont even know whats gonna happen within 1 hours lets alone the future, i start prayin to God to give him a wife, who God himself think is suitable for him, who will support him built and help the work of God move on to a new level, who will love him and him love back, who both will put God first and their love for each other second. but sometimes it hurt so much, i practically think about him every day, and sometimes i scream to myself, like 'you know what, enough' sometimes

  • even mention i was beautiful, but him, nothing, we talked like to friend, but there is this intensity between us when we talk, sometimes we will just talk, starin at each other's eyes in a weird deepful kind of way but then again maybe it's just me. i dont know but many girls in my church fancy him and are praying to marry a guy like him *more specifically him*, so i kinda change my prayer, i'm not prayin for me to be his wife, which would be really amazin but i;'m prayin for God to do his will

  • in the church, i feel guilty and destracted, sometimes i dont even know what i;m sayin, i start babblin nonsense, and when some youth pastors are around, they stared at the two of us like we're weirdos. when we talked, it felt like we're connecting but maybe its just me, it makes me furstrated and down because all my life i never feel this...this...he is the only one who i can talk about anything without feeling embarrased, he talked to me as well, his brother likes me, talked to me on facebook

  • even when i;m prayin or standing or worshipping, even after church when i'm talking to people, i can feel his eyes on me, he stared deeper into my eyes and he'concentrate so much in me when i'm speaking to him, sometimes i feel embarrased by his stares and if i'm on the other side, talking to someone, i can even feel his eyes wondering on me, it's getting a bit stupid, before i used to get pissed, now i feel like my heart is going to burst and it doesnt help if i'm talkin to a brother in christ

  • knows my feelings, including my friends because i pinned for him to much it become so obvious, but the things is I cant hear God when it comes to this, I pray, cried my eyes out in desperation, but nothing, instead my feelings for him intensified and the worse thing is, me and the guy are now good friend, and my instinct telling me he likes me (but i cant trust my instinct because i'm not positive), why is that, because he does a lot of interpretation, and preachin, his eyes always glue to me,

  • the girl he fancy, he's thinking about her and he's observing her. well technically that was the moment my heart really dropped, and i start praying to God to answer me, but even in my dreams I cant see nothing nor hearing, sometimes when my heart feel too heavy, i feel so suffocating (and its my first time to feel this in love), i just dont pray about my desire anymore, i decide to spent my times prayin for others than letting my feelings for the guy cloud me, i just live it to God. my mum

  • so since then i start likin him so much, sometimes it hurt, i even start going to bible class because of him but then last year i had a revelation, not because of him but because of the way i was leading my life, in hypocrisy, so i totally converted myself, and give myself wholehearted to God, to serve him body mind and soul. I'm still approachin myself with my alliance with God. but this time my feelings for the guy are getting worse. especially since my pastor said that the guy already knows

  • the way the guy i try to date spoke, his personality, even though the one i was trying to date suited really well with my category of guy, yet he wasnt enough, it was not till later that i figured out that he wasn't him and i felt disgust and betray the first time i kissed the guy i was dating because it felt like i broken my vows of keepin myself clean till God chose a husband for me, and i was betraying the guy i fancy. so i broke it off, the second week, even the guy i was datin was surprised

  • graduated from cambridge university and that really spoke to me, because cambridge uni is a good university and i love it because guy there are so smart, him being of the first class student, i was impressed but i thought only of him as a friend, untill i start uni, as i was surrounded by friends who had boyfriend so i thought i could start dating but when i met a guy, the first thing i start doin was comparing his personality with that guy in my church, the one i fancy, comparing everything,

  • in the church and he is a sub-teacher in bible studies and take care more on the youth, we are good friends, before when i met him, he was the one who stared at me, so i did find a weird that was before i start liking him, but i was growing up and to be honest, he was sort of the type of guy I wouldnt dare fancy, because he didnt fit into 'my guy lists of dating' category, that was when i was still a 'christian' but i did follow some of God's law correctly, then in 2009, i learnt he was 

  • But I have a problem, I'm a 23 years old student and a christian, I dont believe in sex before marriages so I protect myself and run away from a sin of adulterer and fornication but the thing is I have crush on this guy in my church, He's everything. He was converted in 2008 completely, he's a good son of God, very polite, humble and smart, graduate, have a job and all that, my entire family like him, even the church like him, because of his humbleness he was even named as one of the elderly

  • This message needs to be heard!!!

  • I have been single for 23 years, and I wrote a song "Single in the hood" and its an esteem boost for you Christian Single ladies. Please subscribe to my channel..because the more "new" subscribers I get the more chances of me winning and if I win I get to win some gigs on TV.....God is good.

  • It's possible, because my parents never dated (they were pin-pals before they met), and they have been happily married for 34 years! They prayed and waited on God for each other, which is something that even most single Christian people are not willing to do (especially the waiting part) in this day in age. Yeah, dating seems like the ideal, but even this won't guarantee that you will find mr. or mrs. right. I think the bottom line is patience and not trying to rush a relationship.

  • I believe in prayer but you are not marketing yourself in the proper way to get a man. First of all, this is the 21st century. No man is ready to marry you when you first meet them. Just date the person first see what happens.

  • YOU CAN PRAY TILL THE COWS COME HOME,YOU WILL NEVER GET A MAN LIKE THAT..GOD DOES NOT HAVE A DATING SERVICE.HE DOES NOT EVEN CARE FOR ALL THE WAR AND CRAP THATS GOING ON IN THEIS CRAZY WORLD THAT WE LIVE IN,SO HIS IS GOING TO FIND YOU A MAN,,,GIRL YOU BETTER GET A LIFE CUZ ITS NOT HAPPENING..GET REAL...HAVE A DARWIN DAY

  • This was some good advice, although I have not seen the books. Chaste company keeping is necessary to be able to discern, otherwise, one is lead by disordered passions from the wounds of concupiscence. No passionate kissing! That is ordered for the marital act, which is, in turn, ordered for marriage. Audio Sancto (dot) org >> then go to "The 10 Commandments" and the sermon on Dating: the 6th and 9th Commandments / 1more suggestion: strive to grow in virtue, especially where you are weakest

  • naneedj.info I am very easygoing

  • Hi Lisa thank you so much .Discernment is the most important thing indeed.It is a free gift so we should ask for it and we shall receive.God bless you ..

  • i'm a single Christian male! i think it's very important to first give you heart to God! seek a man that love God just as much as you do! if you find someone you like, why not try to be his friend, being his friend, you would know if he is truely a man of God. the Bible tells us everything we need to know in this life! how to be a good wife or husband. i'm on youtube to give ear, i'm willing to talk also. i want to love a person's mind. i can keep on going, but this is a women's tube. God bless

  • @jamjr1972 AMEN TO THAT BROTHER!!! THAT'S SO VERY IMPORTANT.

  • @jamjr1972 Are you trying to let us know you are single. Just kidding!! I love to hear a man speak the word and how we as single believers must be. Be encouraged. I am single and I am waiting.

  • @elijah6262002 Because of fear of Fornication and Adultery; God have answered my prayer. I'm married now, All praises to The Most High, and Glory to my King Jesus Christ! Good things come to those who wait, but if you see a woman that is there for you in all your struggles....look at her!!!

  • "Since God knows quite a bit more than me-I place the situation in His hands. I've been single for so long that I'm actually very good at it. So when God gets ready for me to "jump the broom" it'll happen and if not...."

  • @winnslaw ...you will get married in heaven =D. Either way we will be a bride so get ready for your groom (whether its here or in heaven). Until the God is our husband Isaiah 54:5. Take ir ONE DAY AT A TIME. God bless

  • @jazzydeli So true!

  • There was article headline saying along the lines that being single as infectious as the flu.

    It's true, too many fussy selfish people out there today, includes me, sad eh.

  • @RadioTrunews Women are more picky than men like between ages 18-25. Men are more picky than women between ages 26-33. In these hard times people are expecting a little extra when it comes to dating someone. Too many unrealistic expectations these days. Too many people rush to get married when they are too young and end up getting divorced in 5 years. I know a lot of people who aren't even 30, have been divorced already, and don't want to get married again. People need to be more patient.

  • great video

  • Hi Lisa, just dropping by to leave an encouraging word. I have a video that will hopefully encourage single christians also. Take care and stop by and view the video. Stay encouraged and keep the videos coming!

  • Way to go! Another great video.

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