Lakita Garth: Sexual Purity in the Real World

[MrBornagainEd]

Awesome Video! I love it because it so true!

[Ms90sforever]

if anyone doesn't like what she is saying why are you watching the video.

[Bhouncer]

delayed self gratification? Why should you deny yourself normal sexual human desires. Lakita does nothing to empower young girls or women..she just feeds them distorted propagandist subjective non reality based bullshit, that their whole self worth lies in sex. WRONG. She targets teen girls because they are at a vulnerable developmental stage in their lives. She projects her lies and inexperience onto others and calls it 'truth'...

[Bhouncer]

Lakita never said sex was bad shes not that stupid..however she subtly conveys sex outside marriage is wrong..sex outside marriage is associated with toxic guilt and shame. Fear of the unknown also associated with rejection of the self as well as a defense mechanism. ..I mean how are you going to know how to please you SO if the only sexual experience in your life is on your wedding night? Fact is you won't know.

[misscamara12]

So true what she said. Three things needed for any type of success in life are

1.self-control

2.self-discipline

3. delayed gratification (there is no easy way out)

I will definitey use this advice not only when it comes to sex, but my education as well.

[misscamara12]

I like this woman. Her husband must be lucky to have had a pretty lady like her save herself for him. I wish more young girls, especially young black girls would follow her example.

[OGOTENKSO]

Lakita Garth is annoying bitch. She is just closed minded and refuses to learn about what other people have to say.

[Evenflowist314]

Damn she gained weight... Must not be having enough sex

[missmetee]

@Evenflowist314 Have you ever heard of happy weight?  A lotta times when people are in a happy relationship they gain weight

[Evenflowist314]

@missmetee

Well that's kinda dumb, she really must not be having enough sex.

[Wadupbeyotch1]

I want to punch her in the stomach repeatedly until her bowels evacuate spontaneously

[RollerDisc88]

I'm a liberal who likes her

[guydecervens]

She's not 'gorgeous', she Michelle Obams Ugly, and boy that is UGLY!

[danaspoint]

I am blessed to have known Lakita since she first gave her life to Jesus....and I am so amazed and proud of all that she has done in her life...including her abstinence ministry and stand for purity!

[melohdrama7]

I don't get why atheist feel like chrisitan people are so self-righteous and try to twist every word that come out their mouth to mean something way different from what was intended. And also why do people talk about how natural sex is when in Genesis the bible says that after God created humans he realized how innately evil man was. It's in a nature to kill, steal, have sex and everything else, but we are now civilized so we're supposed to be practicin self-control as civilized ppl so I thought

[slipknotlegion]

@melohdrama7 I think it's because there are many a "christian" that are really nothing more than annoying people with a "Holier than thou" attitude. Now I'm not saying EVERY Chrsitian is like this, not at all, but its usually not too hard to find a few bad apples in any group that can make you sour to the entirety of the group itself. As far as human nature, yes we have many things in our nature that are very negative but we also have many good things in our nature too. I think we all have both

[melohdrama7]

As I can see a lot of mentally ill people on this video. Nobody makes you watch anything. There are millions of videos on here for you to be mad at yourself for watching this or mad at her for teaching sexual responsibility and morality. I never understand why people think somebody is lecturing them when they are not forced to sit here and watch the video. A lot of white people are gonna automatically think a black person that's opinionated or have morals is ignorant, that part is so predictable

[Singingmyheartout3]

@23codyy23 um yeah...right sure...because she saved her self...that makes her a whore...maybe you should look up what that word means...

[Danthemanlyman7]

@NeoB166IR

Plus I cant imagine what it is you would want that she would refuse. If you two really love each other, what is it that she isn't willing to do to make you happy? I'd it some unorthodox sexual practice? If so, maybe you've been watching too much porn and need to stop trying to get girls to act like what you see in a perverted video.

[Danthemanlyman7]

@NeoB166IR

Ok. To answer your first question. Chances are, both people won't be very good at sex the first time. If you had paid attention to what I said in the comment that you responded to, you would see that I said, " that's what the honeymoon is for." As with anything, you can practice to get better. You have the rest of the marriage to get better at sex. If she doesn't want to do something that you want her to do, then why force her? Why make someone do something they don't want to if you

[Danthemanlyman7]

@NeoB166IR

[Danthemanlyman7]

Be smart, don't end up as sloppy seconds.

[NeoB166IR]

@Danthemanlyman7 so my point is that before u marry someone u should have sex with him or her to see if it works between u two.. cause not everyone who is a nice woman and love me and i love her is good at fucking... and sex is an important thing in a relationship or marriage... and yes u can work out a lot oif things together that is true but what if i want something really bad and she wont do it for me... ? cause like she doesnt want it?

[Danthemanlyman7]

As a 20 yr old virgin, I'd rather marry a virgin than someone who's not. Sure neither of us will know what the hell we're doing at first but that's what a honeymoon is for. Plus you've got the rest of your life with that person to learn. Someone who has undisciplined sex with several people is like a chocolate bar that's had several slobbery bites taken out of it. Or more accurately put: has been rubbed down in several peoples pants. I think I'll take the clean unrapped bar, thanks.

[NeoB166IR]

@Danthemanlyman7 hello, just one question, what if the guy or girl sucks at sex... u know like doesnt bring happiness to u... it happend to me and we tried different things but in overal we just stopped fuckin cause it was boring with her and it ended our relationship... sex is a very powerful motivater in marriage too or in a relationship so I found a girl now who is way better and we love to have sex... so if u married u have to divorce lot of money and papering...

[giannaluva65]

lol, i saw her on politically incorrect, she's pretty freakin ignorant, but i respect her for her choice to abstaine

[MakingHimKnown7]

"Being ignorant is not so much a shame, as being unwilling to learn" ~Benjamin Franklin

The only ones who are narrow-minded are the ones who refuse to believe the facts just so they can do whatever they want

[MakingHimKnown7]

Wow. I think its sad how some people watch this and then make rude and ignorant comments after they just heard the facts of what pre-marital sex does to most people. If you want to live your life running around giving yourself to anyone you can find who will give you 15 minutes of pleasure and then ditch you, go for it. Just don't act shocked when you find yourself with an STD or a baby you didn't want. Its nobodies fault but your own. Don't put down those who try to save you a little heartache

[guttermoth]

Let's see...do I want to spend eternity with Lakita Garth and people like her? NO,I definitely do not. Although I agree with some of her morals,I don't agree with being so condescending.

[Guitarscreech06]

If her decision/life brought her happiness - FINE, but don't go pushing YOUR view of reality on everyone else!

Geez

[mrsrachealbaker]

Shit I'm 24 and happy to be a virgin. All my female friends have had multiple abortions. fuck that i'm happy! i'm clean and i have nothing to worry about! :)

[BraveWarriorClimx]

I rather marry a virgin than a Chick who has been around the block..I respect ladies not Bitches and girls these are giving it up very easily damn even 12 teenagers these days have had more buddies than adults thats sad. Most men want a descent lady and thats a fact.

[asdf8637]

Thanks Lakita! I think its asinine that no one is pressuring Hollywood to start reflecting these values in the media. In general, Hollywood is manipulative and constantly telling us what to think. Every single leading character in every show or movie that is not rated G has or suggests sex outside marriage with zero consequences at all. Hollywood says everyone does it, nothing will happen, and you can think for yourself, so you can sex if you want. Justified, minimized,--- manipulized!

[dare751]

she should be shot in the face...

[Remfan89]

why the fuck did i just watched this?

[atom57]

None of you are even coming up with a real argument against chastity. It has nothing to do with religion, religions preach it, but thats beside the point. Yes, sex is natural, but what separates humans from animals is that we are able to rely on our logic and reasoning, not on instinct. Scientifically there is no safe sex, so its not worth it to ruin your life by getting an STD, or having a baby without a proper home environment, that is a detriment to society, whether you think so or not.

[johns375]

a majority of teens may be virgins out of high school... wonder how that changes during college...?

Oh... and BYU has the highest pregnancy rate in the country, its what happens when you bottle up kids, give them no ability to think for themselves, and then release them to be on their own.

[forthesakeoffuck]

The very reason of married life is SEX. And if sex is one of the major reason (as we alll know) of marriage then why is sex dangerous then. I mean, giving out an optimistic thought is OK, but spilling out a so-called optimistic thought wrapped in irrationality absurdity and stupidity is surely crazy

[forthesakeoffuck]

Most of all history proves that sex is one the FEW things that will make you feel better. Well, secondly, as far as the depression is concerned, that's so irrational to say that sex causes depression in teenagers lol, beacuse without having sex teenagers are still stuck up in obsession of NOT Having sex.

[queenschamp]

I remember she came to my school when I was in 6th grade to talk that bullshit to us. This was back in 1996. As soon as I was old enough to get some p*ssy that's all I was thinking about. It's fucking human nature to have sex!!!! And condoms DO work!!!!!!!! She's a fucking liar!!!

[jkjl234]

this woman is one of the biggest assholes i have ever hear speak

[PerennialLucidity]

racist

[GFMx1]

anyone wants to add in support.

Any ignorant opponents want to TRY to deny human nature. C'mon I'm open to discussion.

[GFMx1]

Chastity = wasted life and living pedophilia, incest via unsustainable repression

not to mention women who have wasted their lives when young, marry young and become depressed and alcoholic, because they didn't enjoy and "pluck" their youth by enjoying sex when young. (Carpe Diem= Pluck the day Latin. written by Ancient Romans who were SMARTER THAN idiot CHRISTIANS and the Christian view who actually believe in Chastity. You are only young once and should enjoy life by enjoying consensual sex.

[andy171171]

i just had pre-maritial sex on hour ago oooops my bad...........

[zombieman12345678999]

well what a quincedence

[is0r]

Here's the bottom line: it's entirely possible for a responsible individual to enjoy the wonders of sex without catching a fatal disease or spawning uncontrollably. People who spread venerial disease or procreate at random are morons - the problem there is stupidity not sex. Those of use who like to base our decisions on information rather than innuendo and scare-tactics can understand this.

[Pat2656]

Yes, but what makes sex "wonderful"? Is it technique and new bodies, or intimacy and commitment?

[xstamdecay]

And smthng else, when you disagree with someone on y/t plz don t post in capital letters. This doen t make you seem right, just dump... For the love of sex, ppl, for the love of sex!!!

[is0r]

Surperessing your sexuality is bad for your mental health. Look at fundamentalist christians and muslims.

[simone56]

Oh and having a baby out of wedlock when the father doesn't have to stick around... and getting an STD is sooooo liberating and freeing. You are deceived.

[is0r]

If you seriously believe that those things are inherent in being comfortable with your sexuality, then you're a moron.

[GFMarshallx]

People love sex. It's free, it's fun and its not illegal (within reasonable limits)

All that matters is CONSENT! What 2 or more consenting adults do in private together is NO BIG DEAL.

(BTW...Are you a guy or a girl?)

Especially for guys. I'm a guy so I will educate you on this. Guys sexuality can seperate from character. It's a biological need! If guys are promiscuous it doesn't mean we're bad people. Its more complex with girls. (Biologically).

[GFMarshallx]

Modern society matures later because it is actually enlightened! Unlike Biblical times, and even places like the U.S. Bible belt. No Science, innovation, just those pathetic pathetic segments in Tennessee who actually ignorantly renounced evolution in the Scopes trial because they believe too much in an obsolete book (using the Bible for today is like using an Commodore 64 to work a Windows Vista OBSOLETE!). P.S. not all Bible belters are like this so don't all take offense.

Please Reply.

[xstamdecay]

Sex is so libarating... thats why organised religion hates it so much... As for pregnancy and STDs use condoms... As long as depression, well lack of sex can cause it

[simone56]

Sex outside of its proper time is dangerous... it is like putting a gun in the hands of a 4 year old. Sex is good where God intended it... in marriage. Condoms are not 100% effective and you have bought into the lie... I can name two diseases (Herpes and Genital Warts) which can be transmitted with a condom ON.

The world says have all the sex you want... GOD SAYS WAIT FOR MR/MRS. RIGHT!

Whose report will you believe? Believe the report of the LORD!

[xstamdecay]

the only dangerous thing out there is the blind trust ppl are showing for a religion which was founded 2000 years ago and STILL for the standards of that time was out of date. Look this is my opinion on sex i m not trying to convince anyone by spreading fear and i expect noone to agree with me, that s the difference my friend i feel free to make up my mind whereas your whole life philosofy is based on a dogma much created by ppl who believed more in hate than love...

[GFMarshallx]

Raised Christian I know the whole speel. But I cordially invite you to explain to me with logic and without pontificating. The fastest way to get a young adult/single adult to do something is to tell him/her NOT to do it without good reason (Bible based and theocratic fear are TERRIBLE REASONS)

Also, is the Bible even relevant (it is 2000 YEARS old, contradicts itself and was written in a time before the glorious (no sarcasm) Enlightenment, modern civilization, medicine, and best of all SCIENCE!

[GFMarshallx]

Further more don't you think that it is the good that you don't do, rather than the not so good that you do that REALLY counts at the end? It's like a scale, make the good heavier and more substantial than the bad.

Remember, the Bible was ok for times when you married at 14 because you DIED at 30, that's assuming you were extremely lucky not to be killed by diseases that are either now extinct or relegated to the punchline of jokes.

The year is 2009...that's right 2009! Bible still relevant?

[rep5281]

F%~k sex!! I hate that s*]t!!

[impasse0124]

It's so awesome to see someone who practices what they preach. I respect those celebrities with purity rings but it's like I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop. They could still mess up but here's a woman who favored purity until marriage and really lived by that belief. God bless her for being so strong.

[talon20]

oh no sex! the biological means of reproduction. completely natural its the stupid christians pushing their life styles on children.

[Janvierireland]

Not no sex,just no sex without love,commitment and marriage

[dvega88]

Then don't watch! And make sure your kids don't watch if you think that practicing a safer life is sooo terrible..

[ernestosinh]

if she comes to my school i swear to go i will ahhhhhhhh. oh well i respect her XD  omg .. this is a huge business!!! talking and talking to people .. eh

[groovekiller]

So fucking annoying.

[brazeau2009]

yeah right, fucking annoying. American are so good lecturing people on personnal non political and useless issues like sex, purity, morality and religion. But they make war everywhere don't have any public health care system and let their poors starve loll. I don't need moral lessons from warfare states.Geez even Obama talks about Jesus in is political discoures wtf? You never see that in any western countries except USA. The state as to be lay, to accomodate people from all kind of religion.

[groovekiller]

I was talking about that woman being annoying, she's so arrogant and self righteous no humilty or modesty at all, a sign of a true fool.

[deadithink]

Why bother to listen to this shit. Listen to real stuff like Marilyn Manson and TOOL. They encourage people to be themselves instead of restricting their personal beliefs.

[mikeyman9]

i dont get it how can people say its better after marriage, they cant really because its not like they can compare it to doing it before it.=/

[NoSexOutsideMarriage]

premarital sex is a huge mistake. all normal men long for a virgin wife. think how much it will hurt the one u marry to know u'v already given sex to someone else b4, and to think of u and ur ex with each other. sex is such a powerful thing, and when two people have sex, they create an intimate bond with each other which can never be broken. if u marry a non-virgin, they can never be unique to u. it is like u r also marrying their ex, because their ex will always be intimately joined to them.

[johhny3rubs]

that's hilarious. read a book dumbass.

[NoSexOutsideMarriage]

idiot

[jamierourketen]

for goodness sake it's just an orifice!

[butt3rfly429]

i don't long for a virgin wife, i want a good lay

[mercyhurstchic]

AMEN!!!!!

[GFMarshallx]

I cordially invite you to read my response to a similarly minded commenter closer to the front of comments page. My name is GFMarshall and I replied just a few minutes before this message and to PLEASE REPLY. I wanna see you .

P.S. (I'm a disillusioned Christian who is a REALIST and PRAGMATIST and PRACTICAL man, who admire modern society and the pagan Roman for the achievement in thoughts and pragmatism about HUMAN DESIRES.)

[GFMarshallx]

sorry I wanna see you try to debunk the truths I am brave enough to explicitly put out there.

[BlackWomanU]

Furthermore Im not wasting my body on some man who hasnt even committed to me fully. A real man doesnt want a woman who has been passed around and I didnt want a husband that had been passed around either. Its about self worth. One of the first things she said is that sex was good so stop lying to suit yourselves.

[Aknara]

Lying? no. It's called personal beliefs. The woman is a menace she's no better than a bible basher.

I don't think other people are dirty or slutty if they have been with another. Who is anyone to judge that of another?

Sex is about breeding and nature not about being pure or virginal for your new hubby to deflower (*shudders * hate that term)

People were Fucking long before god was invented :3

[BlackWomanU]

Those who said she is saying sex is dirty and bad are liars. One of her first comments was that sex is great so that would make them liars. I didnt hear her call anyone anything negative so yet another lie to suit yourself. I didnt say anything about being virginal for your hubby. I was celibate for 5 years before I met my hubby so how could it be for him? I did it for myself so that I could be satisfied with the MAN not some cheap sex trick that anyone with a body can learn. Waay too shallow.

[Aknara]

Her whole message is.. Sex is good IF you're married. If you aren't then it's wrong. If she tried to preach that crap to my kids I'd pull them out of the school and find one that won't let them hear one sided opinionated crap like that.

[BlackWomanU]

If you wait for marriage to have sex how will you know its bad? Thats the point. If you have a wonderful husband that adores you you will wind up undervaluing him because you are hanging onto a few bedroom tricks that some loser not fit for a husband pulled on you. If you love your husband/wife learning what pleases them is half the fun. God Bless

[MzBettyboo10]

i just saw her in olando floria she is good

[bahramf]

This is retarded and shouldn't be allowed on tv.

[themasterbakerrr]

The idea that abstaining from sex makes you a "purer" person is demented. The idea that a woman's virginity is the most important thing about her, like the ultimate gift she can give someone, is sick. Abstinence-pushers seem more obsessed with sex than anyone.

[Voltajavi]

Nicely said theres an old proverb that goes like this "Does who push their morality on you, have a problem pushing it on them selfs

[aspiringactress8806]

I absolutely love this woman. She is such an inspiriation to me. I am now 20 years old and am still a virgin and waiting until God blesses me with the right man that I believe and have faith that he will send.

[Voltajavi]

Faith: Not accepting reality, Good luck!

[hisboo911]

faith: knowing an alternate reality and being strong enough to stand by your beliefs in a secular world. good luck!

[brazeau2009]

american make me sick

[KimontheWeb]

Way to go Lakita! I'm 30 and still a virgin and my platform is abstinence until marriage as well. You are so correct in that your biggest sermon is your lifestyle. Way to go, and congrats on marrying "Mr. Right" :)

[brazeau2009]

you are 30 and still a virgin? geez I pitty you lol

[TitanGorilla]

dang i accidentally rated this video a 1 star I didn't intend to do that...

[drpapa26]

Lakita Garth - can you hear me there, all the way back in the fucking 50s? "Abstinence activist"???! Give me a break. When did sex become a bad thing??

She's reminds me of a female version of Jerry Falwell and scares the crap out of me. She is loud and dumb and should not be taken seriously.

[MannaMan77]

sex before marriage is a bad thing. Jesus will reveal to you all things if you seek him. You'll be glad you did!

[Aknara]

So is getting married to a guy that SUCKS in bed. Sex is a large part of most peoples relationships and if it's bad then the relationship wont work. WOO roll on divorce xD

[MannaMan77]

Wooow! So do you think a man waiting for marriage must be terrible in bed? Look...I don't say this to my defense. But when I was having promiscious sex (Before being BORN AGAIN THROUGH JESUS CHRIST) I NEEEEVER had any sexual complaints...until I was having sex so much that women started to feel like a whore because I had lost all emotion from having continuous sex partners (will continue comment)

[MannaMan77]

In other words, I was numb from too many sex partners. I knew I was on my way to hell if I didn't change my life. God says marriage is honorable and the bed is UNDEFILED.

[Aknara]

Congrats your wonderful in the sack, I'm saying that I'd rather be intimate with the person I am going to spend the rest of my life with instead of ending up in a relationship with no sexual chemistry and not being able to share such a connection with my husband.

Society makes sex out to be dirty and wrong. It isn't, it never has been. It's the basic core of what drives us to find a partner in the first place.

[hisboo911]

if you have no connection (or chemistry) w/ your potential hubby other than a sexual connection, why marry him?

[Voltajavi]

Muhammad will reveal all to you, if you seek him- sounds crazy now put Jesus ....there you got crackpot

[BlackWomanU]

If you wait for marriage to have sex how will you know its bad? Thats the point. If you have a wonderful husband that adores you you will wind up undervaluing him because you are hanging onto a few bedroom tricks that some loser not fit for a husband pulled on you. If you love your husband/wife learning what pleases them is half the fun. God Bless

[hisboo911]

i concur.

[cantbefooled]

Will AIDS say Gotcha?

Another thing is some people who have AIDS spread it on purpose. I heard on a radio show one woman said she had "Full Blown AIDS" and she was very angry at "all men" because men INFECTED her. Now she's mad as hell and decided she would return the favor and try to INFECT as many guys as possible before she croaks. She smiles at a guy, he smiles back then she suggests sex and he's so surprised and happy to hear it that he takes the bait. He doesnt know its a trick - AIDS!

[cantbefooled]

Taking lessons from porn people again?

Now children, listen to Jason's speech to teens about sex and you will be mature as he is. After hearing him - do you think he would ever look at even one sleaze pic, video or site?

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1. click Listen/Public school/Real audio

2. email to all friends

3. you will no longer be a "secret admirer of porn"

4. you can thank me later,

[cantbefooled]

Child support

Find out how much your child support payment will be every week Google Child Support. Click on "AllLaw Child Support Calculator". Then click your state and figure out how much - YOU WILL PAY! The more babies you make, the more money they TAKE. I just calculated 220.00 per week for a few kids. Imagine if your check was short 200.00 this Friday would you be happy? See the sex advertisements never tells you - YOU WILL PAY, do they? They only say do it, do it or get some, get some.

[cantbefooled]

Caught in bed with his wife, its scary?

Guys the culture says "sleep around, sleep around" - "do it, do it, do it" right? Question, do they ever show you any negative consequence (or consequence-s plural more than one) that could happen to you? Of course not its bad for business if you sell playboy mags. Guys, did they ever tell you what could happen if a man catches you, in bed, with his wife? Scary right? WHAT would you do if a mad man caught you - in bed with his wife?

It's a setup!

[cantbefooled]

Who will be the mother of my future kids?

I'm a black male and abstinence has been working for me for almost 15 years thanks to - club ac com. The reason why is because I DON'T want an " air head " to be mother of my kids. NO AIR HEADED girl will receive the royal seed to create my heirs. Abstinence will ensure that doesn't happen. This is another angle hardly talked about or taught. (No bozo gets to bare my first born baby). So wont I pay child support, only the lovely wife. Got it, cool.

[hisboo911]

you are a smart man.

[GFMarshallx]

I cordially invite you to read my response to a similarly minded commenter closer to the front of comments page. My name is GFMarshall and I replied just a few minutes before this message to another person.

[GFMarshallx]

P.S. (I'm a disillusioned Christian who is a REALIST and PRAGMATIST and PRACTICAL man, who admire modern society and the pagan Roman for the achievement in thoughts and pragmatism about HUMAN DESIRES.)

[KingKedzie1713]

i do not believe lakita on never kissing till she got married. if it was me i would have broken up with her.

[x10HI]

She is hilarious, I saw her in Hawaii. She's beautiful, she kinda reminds me of Jordin Sparks from a certain angle.

[mrssalina]

Is she pregnant or just really pigging out on the food?

She is really putting on the pounds!

[blakelewisfan1]

she came & spoke at my school yesterday & she is sooo funny! i <3 her! she's like my new favorite person! & she's really cool so i don't think everyone should judge her just b/c she promotes abstinence...which, btw, prevents STDs from being spread & premarital pregnancy! <3 you lakita!!!

[keb7259]

if you guys heard this girl talk in person, like i did today, you wouldnt say these horrible things.

yes, im experienced but this girl is truely amazing.

[sifrog]

Amrican culture is world culture?! Thats one stupid narrow minded bison of a woman.

[brazeau2009]

Yeah that's the american way! lol They lecture you about personnal choice like sex then make war and bomb where ever they can make cash!

[rryanrreed]

I am not religious, I was never sexually molested and I am not ashamed of myself. I simply don't think sex is that great. I actually think there are more cons than pros when it comes to sex. I just don't like it :D

People yes I have experimented and I know my feelings on this. I am 23 years old. This is just how I feel about it... Sex is not cool/fun.

[bizzare3]

She has more sex than all of us combined, she sucks dick en take in in the A, so drop dead bi@tch...

[Salvatrucho213]

Lakita is really a religious nut case. What kind of person would abstain from having sex? It really isn't natural. Continence is not natural and to accept a bunch of Jewish fairy tales as fact is just as stupid.

[XugaXuga88]

ok first of all, I am a 19 year old virgin who plans on waiting until marriage. I WANT to have sex I have a HIGH sex drive. On my honeymoon sex is all I will be doing 24 hours a day. Just because you are waiting until marriage, doesn't mean you dont like sex, it just means that you would rather do it in a safe, and Godly enviornment.

[Salvatrucho213]

Just do it. Really who is keeping track of whether you have sex or not? Its natural and it really is unnatural to not have sex because some old Jews 5,000 years ago said not to. Just do it!

[bizzare3]

I have you'd never get married, your vision will change...

[XugaXuga88]

Marriage is about so much more than sexual intercourse. So is life in general. If you're living to have sex, your missing out on a lot of things in life.

[rryanrreed]

I agree!

[XugaXuga88]

Marriage is about so much more than sexual intercourse. So is life in general. If you're living to have sex, your missing out on a lot of things in life.

[Psycstar]

Lakita darling, your naked truth is also known as Repression. Self-exploration necessarily involves sexuality because guess what, the self has genitals! You do not love sex, you are a control freak with a lousy sex life who wants to ruin sex for everybody else.

[GFMarshallx]

Beautifully said

[ppiolhaa]

what happens if u do wait till marriage to hav sex, and then ur sexual connection with ur husband/wife "sucks"?! o.O

[Salvatrucho213]

Thats why you need to experiment now. Because as a married couple people will have a lot of temptation and it is just stupid not to try out the waters before getting married.

[Salvatrucho213]

Thats why you need to experiment now. Because as a married couple people will have a lot of temptation and it is just stupid not to try out the waters before getting married.

[DestinyMarkov]

Well, you wouldn't know the difference if you both were virgins when you were married. =P

[lilpixiedust33]

Lakita was the speaker at a church retreat I was at and she totall changed my life.

Love you girl!

[Bexiecaramel]

you go girl :D