Don't take her advice. If he purposely ignores you and then messages you three weeks later, then ignore him and don't give him a second chance. It's just rude as a human being to ignore you and then get back to you whenever he feels like. He had no consideration of your feelings. If he doesn't have that common courtesy, then that's just a little hint of the future. He's not worth getting to know.
If you get too clingy or you do something that puts a guy off sure he will push away for a bit and think things over. A guy will also disappear if he is busy at work or has some stuff going on with his extended family or pals. There is no definitive answer. You might as well use the magic 8 ball if you want to divine why we do something. If you really want to know try asking directly. Many of us get bored with women beating around the bush.
i love how women think they know the reason why men do things, fact is they don't even know what they really want in a relationship themselves. I personally think the guy shes on about just decided he wasn't into the girl so didn't talk to her and then after the 3 weeks realised he didn't have any other options so decided he'd text her.
@enyi1 That's what I was thinking. However, women tend to be more observant than men, therefore, we CAN be good body language/action-readers. I don't agree with her analysis, though. Nor would I suggest the girl receiving the advice to respond to the guy.
@ImaginarYxGoddesS I do agree that women can be better at reading signals (though they are also more likely to read to deeply into some things). Though I cant understand why women always say men are commitment phobic, this may be slightly off topic but it is something that has never made sense to me. As shown by the top comment - in most cases men initiate relationships and women end them. I this has also been the case in my history. So why are men pinned as being commitment phobic?! its absurd!
LOVE LOVE IT, that tart that wrote in, got a taste of her own medicine, it's ok for a woman to blow cold on a man, but woe betide the bloke doing it to you women.
this girl sent me a wink on a sex site, I said wow you have a nice face, she said do you have msn or something, I gave her my msn, after a while she didnt add me, I sent a message saying you didnt o ok, cya, she blocked me and reported me for abuse
Get real! lol They are not men just little boys that dont know how to deal with their emotions. And yes Im a man that's married for 15 years. Most not all men dont know how to express themselves.
Furthermore, he you said he was "active" on a dating website. Many ppl call this "spreading the seed". In other words, trying to meet as many girls as possible in the hope that one that he is interested in will be interested back. Ofc motives vary from person to person (some just want sex others want a relationship). But the fact that he broke it off, then got back in contact suggests that all he really wants is sex.I dont think a guy which really likes you would leave such things down to chance
Alright this is in response to that email, since I think that Hot Alpha Female, is in this particular instance a bit wrong. I'm a guy first of all, and a normal one at that. So I'd say that if a guy wanted you to be his gf then he wouldn't have broken off contact at all, UNLESS there were complicated circumstances (e.g. you already had a bf). But this guy has broken off contact for 3 weeks. He is either interested therefore in being friends, or getting laid (most likely the latter). Harsh I know
she is needy, he is not. he is not really interested but keeping his options open. She is more into him than he is into her. She has to step it up or nothing will happen.
how to have sex with a nice girl before she asks millions of questions and grills u to death. where is the fun?? if I'm having fun, I want to spend more time more consistently. But that is over time not over 2-3 weeks. How about get some hobbies girls. Entertain yourself and be interesting.
A lot of men like personal space and privacy, don't take it too personally. Most men will be happier with you it you don't smother them. We're generally pretty easy.
LOL I want to be a father! I actually fantacize about having a loving wife and child. But let's face it. Getting into marriage is like a death sentence these days. It's like a warzone except guys go in with a bb gun and a spork and Uncle Sam gave them access to a nuclear bomb on command and a rpg. We cant work around the fact that we could be signing up for eternal love or financial damnation. Maybe you don't like hearin it but you women have become too powerful and power comes with corruption
Exactly. I think men realize that by marrying a woman she can then "sieze" his "assets" and then divorce him and take off with them. The legalities of marriage are deeply unfair. That's one of the reasons I'll probably never marry. I don't want someone else having legal access to my property, money, or body.
Nearly all men dream of multible women, in fact the mean who thinks more about more women get to spread his gens more and so on, so men are kinda bred to like several women ^^ mb that's why he is checking out a dating site at the same time. Tho sometimes we can just be really obsessed with one girl.
"Men withdrawl because they don't want to be fathers"
Sorta - Men WANT to be fathers/dads but they FEAR being a parent/financially raising a child. Get the difference? Thats why they will knock up some younger/insecure chick, wait till its born, and then go out and seek a multi-year prision sentence.
"many men want to be fathers when they know they are ready. but they fear and resent how women can decide *for them* when they become fathers without their consent (because it's what the woman; it's her plan)"
Usually the counter to this observation is that if men have sex then they consent to parenthood as "it takes two to tango". Yet that's an obfuscation of the issue by confusing sex with reproduction and the various points when a woman can abort etc.
women don't know what they want, they get what they want and still want more.. it's a fucking run around.. they have a vagina and they think they own the world..
men dont like commitment becaus eits like cutting our nuts of and giving them to just 1 women. the women may have it great with that arrangment but its shit for the guy. women gets her secured mated to nuture her and her offspring but the guy is handicaped in the fact he is unable to spread hes seeed. NOT culture/ society, nature mother nature. despit what the femnazis say
I have a great question sir! Does a man hurt as much in no contact even if he is the one that chose it or is it only the other person that hurt(the woman).
I have chosen now to go into no contact because I am in love with him and need to heal from being ignored. I am not interested in getting back into anything again right now its just too painful. I would have rather him say bitch leave me alone than ignore me.
loved the advice. I messed up and hurt a man who said he loved me for years but was too afraid to tell me. After that he will not take my calls or return my texts and not even sure if he reads my emails so I gave up. It has been about a month.
@Everyone: How about taking time to learn the laws of attraction and the way men & women have been mentally wired to operate and play the mating game rather than spending all your time complaining about it? Yes, there was once a time I used to "not get it" and complain about the unfairness, but then I decided to DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, and it was during this learning process (I'm still currently in) that I discovered that nothing at all is unfair, it's just that I needed to learn the skill. THINK
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god damn, this is exactly what is wrong with women, they listen to garbage like this, dont play games. Why all the games, you are fucking things up and will lose a good guy, or atleast one with a brain.
lOOK AT THE SHIT WOMEN PUT US THROUGH WE GET MARRIED WE CAN BE ON CHILD SUPPORT WE CAN LOSE MONEY END UP IN JAIL WOMEN ARE SNEAKY FUCK THAT I AINT GETTING MARRIED I AINT SIGNING MY LIFE TO NO BODY
@OniNoFro Just bc a man initiates contact/relationship with a woman doesn't mean he won't get cold feet and back out of the relationship before it progresses. That is where the "commitment phobe" label comes from as well. And I can think of many relationships that were terminated by women bc the man wasn't ready for the "next step" (marriage, etc)
Generally men initiate everything at significant steps. If we give an answer you don't like, or leave when presented with an ultimatum/false dilemma it because we fear commitment. It often means we take it seriously (which isn't to say women don't or can't) and want to make the best decisions we can for ourselves impacting our lives.
Pushing marriage (a contract which doesn't benefit us) shows a need to control. If pushed/forced, it clearly shows your agenda and we know it.
@OniNoFro I disagree to an extent. Personally I've never given a man an "ultimatum" and know many other women who have haven't either. There just comes a time when you've been dating awhile and one person is looking for the relatioship to progress. That does not neccessarily mean you come out with an "ultimatum" and or "push" as you call it (although I'm sure many do). Many of us simply lose interest bc the relationship isn't going anywhere and walk away.
Then perhaps in your and your friends' cases it may be true but speaking as a man, knowing & talking with other men, looking at studies & journals about social dynamics, you are the exception/minority as far as most of the above mentioned men are concerned.
Should that be the case, the issue then is having different relationship expectations/goals/schedules. Which means a lack of communication between men and women about what they want.
Concurrent to the issue of reasonable communication, why does it need to "progress"? Is something wrong? What is this progress?
According to what timetable or schedule (which does imply some agenda or goal other than focusing on being in the relationship).
Rather consider "who has the idea of what progress is?" because that's how it comes across. Men like relationships with more energy allocated to it than the management or "growth" of it. See the difference?
@OniNoFro So...you're saying relationships should remain stagnant then?? LOL. And yes, maybe I am a minority in this case. Either way, it doesn't mean ALL men have fear of commitment BUT there are many that do. Especially, in the US (which is where I live...not sure as to where you're at). But thank you for "picking my brain", I always like to hear differences of opinions =)
[sarcasm]Yes that's what I'm saying[/end sarcasm]; what a wonderful and purposeful fallacy applied...
What I'm saying is if a relationship is strong/good/mutually respectful and meaningful, what is the mutually beneficial point of "taking it to the next level"? If two people are happy together and everything is good, what "progress" can be made?
Marriage, now, exists as nothing more than a civil union; a contract of incorporation. This contract typically puts men at risk.
because of the family and divorce court system's predisposition to siding with the woman. Especially with the advent of "No fault" divorce (not a new thing but that's when the issue became very obvious). So in the most minor of cases if a woman changes her mind and determines the man she's with isn't her best fit, he can be left holding the bag. Men now are acutely aware of this and so we take the "progress" of incorporation, the contract, very seriously.
Men initiate approximately 80% of relationships; including marriages.
Women end relationships about 75% of the time; including marriages.
Now consider, last time I checked, the divorce rate is hovering around 50 to 60% where about 75% (I'll grant a margin of +/-15%) of those are initiated by women in a "No Fault" environment where courts often side with the woman, even if she had an affair...
No. We, generally speaking, do not fear commitment. We understand and respect it. We also understand how there are many, a clear majority and not necessarily you but a majority nonetheless, who would potentially abuse us and so we, reasonably, manage the risks we are exposed to.
Those men who fear commitment are fewer than those who respect it and fewer still than the women who don't.
Also, you have yet to state one benefit to men for "taking the next step"? What is it?
@OniNoFro Ok, you're clearly just an idiot looking for an argument. I was being light-hearted and even said "thank you for picking my brain" (that was my polite way of ending the conversation). But you didn't get it. Instead, you're still throwing out snotty replies basically implying how everyone is wrong but you. Nobody gives a fuck, this is Youtube!!! I have "yet to state" anything more, bc I have a life and it's not to argue with people I don't know online. LOL. Goodbye.
@OniNoFro You are indeed quite the loser, just as I had suspected. Ladies and gentlemen, OniNoFro has about 9 videos he regularly comments on and most of which are about...(surprise) relationships! LOL!! Let us all pray the he develops more constructive things to do with his time...Ahhh, I love it when I'm right! LOL!! Thank you sir! And goodnight (takes a bow)
@annemarie012002 The main reason why a woman would terminate a relationship..lets say a marriage for instance..is due to the no fault divorces, Knowing well that they can shaft their man for alimony. Thats why I see marriage as nothing but a trap that I will never fall for..ever.
There's no point in attempting to have a dialogue with her. Once it goes poorly, she attempts to engage in shaming and Ad Hominem tactics. This is because she has nothing to say which would add credibility to her stance. It's a shame because far too often, it's tactics like hers which also cause men to withdraw from the women they are with.
Either way, a rational man doesn't worry so much about girls with entitlement issues.
@OniNoFro Eh, it wouldn't be the 1st time that happened. They usually use the ol' "You're gonna die alone" line. When in all actuality, its the women who worry about such things.
@OniNoFro i agree women keep themselves single on their own...they need to relax not every guy just wants sex. alot of the women i know think every guy who talks to them is attracted to them and their very wrong...
It's sad but often the case and because of their fear of rejection, or making a mistake, some women put the blame/responsibility on men's shoulders. Because in the 21st century, where men and women are equal, men still bear the greater burden of adulthood.
Not entirely true. It's cost benefit analysis done on an intuitive level.
If we are not confident our potential partner is actually in it for the long haul, we will not stick around to have our assets seized, our reputations destroyed, and our social ties (friends/family/work) lessened. This data is collected through passive observation of behaviour (or lack thereof) and informs our decisions.
Exactly. I think men realize that by marrying a woman she can then "sieze" his "assets" and then divorce him and take off with them. The legalities of marriage are deeply unfair. That's one of the reasons I'll probably never marry. I don't want someone else having legal access to my property, money, or body.
@CanadiaNecro1 Women push men into withdraw because they make them think they want them to be a father before they really are or without asking them if they want children. And I don't see anything wrong with men wanting to marry but not have children. As a guy, I don't want a woman to choose me just because she thinks I will be a good future father. I want her to choose me because of me myself and I.
some do go out. Get blown out. That sucks. I got blown out a lot. What sucks more is when you get the number, but girl doesn't answer. Makes you feel like shit. No wonder most people give up. It's like going to work that you hate, without even getting paid for it.
LincolnOnTheWeb-What the fuck?? Did that decidedly ''teenage'' question she answered sound like it came from the mouth of a Dried-up Thirty something?! Cunt.
Whats with the anger anyway? Prick. And no, im not, i'm the right side of 25 thank-you. My guess is you're a receding,''used up'' limp-cocked 40yrd. who couldn't even pull a pint. xx :)
I would agree, withdraw isn't really the right way to put this video...I thought you were talking about the withdrawl method but thanks i learned something new...
These used up, run down, left over, damaged goods in their 30s, have wasted their youth and their beauty on bad boys, getting dick rammed, licking and sucking off their dicks and balls. Now these old cunts with their saggy dried up breasts and their date raped, multiple std infested, loose, worn out pussy, are seeking a good man to settle down with and they cant find any. Then they are bitching that there are no good men.
It isn't racist if it's true---there are white women in the US that say this all the time. Maybe your reaction is an extension of your own denial and bigotry. Affirmative Action favors white women. They have reproductive power over men.. They have hiring preferences, the media practically worshiping them at the expense of women minorities, and engage in hypergamy while mocking many working class men.
BTW, your slagging of Lincoln sounds rather angry. Perhaps you have your own issues.
Plus, more money and funding is for women health care than men that are gender specific. While men are living longer, white women still edge out them out. They are attending college and have support greater than most men. Suicide and depression are important issues for men, and yet US white women have more options for that and DV/abuse than men. I can even name examples where a white woman actor replaced a minority women although the role called for it.
Also, did you know that one of the prime tenets of the KKK was the protection and preserve the "virtue" of white women above all else? It seems American white women feminists believe the same thing.
"No contact" rule? I would think if you break up with someone you wouldn't need any extra incentive to avoid contact with him/her.
The thing about women wanting to know why a guy broke up with them is so annoying. If someone breaks up with you, the reason is that they don't like spending time with you. This applies EVERY TIME. What are you hoping to hear? "Oh, I just couldn't stand looking at your fat butt anymore." I don't think that would make you feel better.
i'm sorry that u find it annoying but we neeeeeeeeeeed to know...it's genetic.
we're always trying to better ourselves....and if it's over, we want to walk away with learning a lesson and a little more about ourselves...
we'll obsess about it....and if u have a crazy ex. you really need to tell her what happened! 90% of the time she'll leave u alone afterwards (i think).
The problem is that women want constant feedback. Even if a man breaks up with them they want to know why. It doesn't matter why. Let it go. BTW, there isn't a "no contact" rule in the cosmic code. Frankly, it sounds made up.
guys don't know about that "rule" I had no idea (=\ till now :P . and we don't see what's wrong with taking a break or not replying immediately lol. Also we don't really make it known whether or not we are serious dating or just hanging out any time with a girl is great to us. we are just immature and uneducated in some ways, but we mean no harm :D . your videos help me a lot as well thanks :D
I respect your opinion but that really is a red flag. He is basically not into her and just wants to play the field no string attached.
greenbutterfly101 3 months ago
omg your so wrong!
spiceymeatballz 3 months ago
Great video!
Ben1607 4 months ago
Well , I am a guy, this lady knows plenty about women, but she has no clue what she is talking about with men.
I agree with enyi1. He liked here so so. Thought maybe he could do better, couldn't land a better catch so went back to her.
She is sex - Until something better comes along - That is all.
bloodystarcthulhu 4 months ago 8
dumbest asian ever? u decide
ownzjo0 4 months ago 6
@ownzjo0 or just a dumb bitch alt together
jetlox 4 months ago
@ownzjo0
why do you have to be so racist and before you say you arent please read your comment
lavvy2585 2 months ago
Don't take her advice. If he purposely ignores you and then messages you three weeks later, then ignore him and don't give him a second chance. It's just rude as a human being to ignore you and then get back to you whenever he feels like. He had no consideration of your feelings. If he doesn't have that common courtesy, then that's just a little hint of the future. He's not worth getting to know.
ImaginarYxGoddesS 4 months ago 3
@ImaginarYxGoddesS
well this is the best comment so far and so true
lavvy2585 2 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
hey jennelli shut the fuck up, u know little
warrior4just 5 months ago
Know what I realized?
Women don't need to be giving advice on men. Period. Especially in so feminized a society that the west has become.
StraightOuttaDC 6 months ago
bla bla bla
eirikmurito 6 months ago
BOOTY CALL!! HELLO!
bantoneil 6 months ago
If you get too clingy or you do something that puts a guy off sure he will push away for a bit and think things over. A guy will also disappear if he is busy at work or has some stuff going on with his extended family or pals. There is no definitive answer. You might as well use the magic 8 ball if you want to divine why we do something. If you really want to know try asking directly. Many of us get bored with women beating around the bush.
vikingkeith 8 months ago 2
Withdraw? Who are you?
KeusFrench 8 months ago
haha, oh my sides. you're serious, aren't you? hahahahaha. oh boy.
cge0r 9 months ago
they withdraw because women love money... oh i thought it was about CASH lol
bbpatrol 9 months ago
Na.... the reason why guys withdraw is because you did something wrong, that they where put off by....
YV07111985 9 months ago
If the guy would give constant attention and didnt ignore the girl, she would get bored of him
dreamerstays 9 months ago
i love how women think they know the reason why men do things, fact is they don't even know what they really want in a relationship themselves. I personally think the guy shes on about just decided he wasn't into the girl so didn't talk to her and then after the 3 weeks realised he didn't have any other options so decided he'd text her.
enyi1 9 months ago 16
@enyi1 That's what I was thinking. However, women tend to be more observant than men, therefore, we CAN be good body language/action-readers. I don't agree with her analysis, though. Nor would I suggest the girl receiving the advice to respond to the guy.
ImaginarYxGoddesS 4 months ago
@ImaginarYxGoddesS I do agree that women can be better at reading signals (though they are also more likely to read to deeply into some things). Though I cant understand why women always say men are commitment phobic, this may be slightly off topic but it is something that has never made sense to me. As shown by the top comment - in most cases men initiate relationships and women end them. I this has also been the case in my history. So why are men pinned as being commitment phobic?! its absurd!
enyi1 4 months ago
@enyi1 that is straight up ugly I sure hope noone ever does that to me
lavvy2585 2 months ago
Girls should ask guys why thier boyfriend in not responding, we will get to know in a jiffy and wont even tell him that you asked.
nabeelmerchant 9 months ago
men need to have sex with lots of women... its simple
btw why is she so "confident"... what has this girl achieved in life?
babyturtlefilms 9 months ago
Girls do the same thing. It works both ways
begood20000 10 months ago
i wish this was an actually subject in school... i would take it :)
Darkfatez117 10 months ago
I withdraw my penis before I explode because I don't want to be a papa.
siliconsurf 10 months ago
LOVE LOVE IT, that tart that wrote in, got a taste of her own medicine, it's ok for a woman to blow cold on a man, but woe betide the bloke doing it to you women.
not very nice is it ladies?
Rob23 10 months ago
@Rob23 I know girls do it all the time but you have to not let it get to you.
begood20000 10 months ago
She is adorable!
duckdongable 11 months ago
I hate it when they pull back! Confusing!
duckdongable 11 months ago
lol you wish you were a hot alpha female
youcarz 11 months ago
She probably smothered him. My guess is he spent the three weeks seeing what else is out there, hence the dating site. DON''T SMOTHER US!
DrumChanel 11 months ago
Booty Call test !!!
mba2ceo 1 year ago
this girl sent me a wink on a sex site, I said wow you have a nice face, she said do you have msn or something, I gave her my msn, after a while she didnt add me, I sent a message saying you didnt o ok, cya, she blocked me and reported me for abuse
juan89taken 1 year ago
why do women want guys to be committed? not saying its bad or not bad
juan89taken 1 year ago
that guy seems annoying,
juan89taken 1 year ago
this girl wants 2 b pregnant?
RomZruleTeHworld 1 year ago
asian chicks are hot
MANJUICEIFY 1 year ago
@MANJUICEIFY they always have chubby faces and little boys bodies
Monthagny 1 year ago
Get real! lol They are not men just little boys that dont know how to deal with their emotions. And yes Im a man that's married for 15 years. Most not all men dont know how to express themselves.
Fujisuka 1 year ago
Furthermore, he you said he was "active" on a dating website. Many ppl call this "spreading the seed". In other words, trying to meet as many girls as possible in the hope that one that he is interested in will be interested back. Ofc motives vary from person to person (some just want sex others want a relationship). But the fact that he broke it off, then got back in contact suggests that all he really wants is sex.I dont think a guy which really likes you would leave such things down to chance
TwoDaystoAlaska 1 year ago
Alright this is in response to that email, since I think that Hot Alpha Female, is in this particular instance a bit wrong. I'm a guy first of all, and a normal one at that. So I'd say that if a guy wanted you to be his gf then he wouldn't have broken off contact at all, UNLESS there were complicated circumstances (e.g. you already had a bf). But this guy has broken off contact for 3 weeks. He is either interested therefore in being friends, or getting laid (most likely the latter). Harsh I know
TwoDaystoAlaska 1 year ago
I withdraw because women nag too much. Every conversation has to involve something i'm doing wrong. I get bored and go play video games instead.
klined 1 year ago 2
she is needy, he is not. he is not really interested but keeping his options open. She is more into him than he is into her. She has to step it up or nothing will happen.
jagajg 1 year ago
Three things guys hate from women: stuck up attitude, goldiggers and complexity. I wish women were the same :D
royalsteven 1 year ago
how to have sex with a nice girl before she asks millions of questions and grills u to death. where is the fun?? if I'm having fun, I want to spend more time more consistently. But that is over time not over 2-3 weeks. How about get some hobbies girls. Entertain yourself and be interesting.
888Kharami 1 year ago
A lot of men like personal space and privacy, don't take it too personally. Most men will be happier with you it you don't smother them. We're generally pretty easy.
HGeneAnthony 1 year ago 4
LOL I want to be a father! I actually fantacize about having a loving wife and child. But let's face it. Getting into marriage is like a death sentence these days. It's like a warzone except guys go in with a bb gun and a spork and Uncle Sam gave them access to a nuclear bomb on command and a rpg. We cant work around the fact that we could be signing up for eternal love or financial damnation. Maybe you don't like hearin it but you women have become too powerful and power comes with corruption
GeneralSnapjaw 1 year ago 3
Exactly. I think men realize that by marrying a woman she can then "sieze" his "assets" and then divorce him and take off with them. The legalities of marriage are deeply unfair. That's one of the reasons I'll probably never marry. I don't want someone else having legal access to my property, money, or body.
- CanadiaNecro1 jan 2010
torrid426 1 year ago 8
@torrid426
yeah he was responding to me... basically reiterating what i had already said...
OniNoFro 1 year ago
when does the hot alpha woman show up?
Zac6230 1 year ago 3
dating website are for pussys man up folks and face the harsh reality =]
davidnorena1 1 year ago
Nearly all men dream of multible women, in fact the mean who thinks more about more women get to spread his gens more and so on, so men are kinda bred to like several women ^^ mb that's why he is checking out a dating site at the same time. Tho sometimes we can just be really obsessed with one girl.
UnitTheWorld 1 year ago
"Men withdrawl because they don't want to be fathers"
Sorta - Men WANT to be fathers/dads but they FEAR being a parent/financially raising a child. Get the difference? Thats why they will knock up some younger/insecure chick, wait till its born, and then go out and seek a multi-year prision sentence.
billydumont 1 year ago
@billydumont many men dont want to be fathers
Zac6230 1 year ago
@billydumont
perhaps more accurately:
"many men want to be fathers when they know they are ready. but they fear and resent how women can decide *for them* when they become fathers without their consent (because it's what the woman; it's her plan)"
Usually the counter to this observation is that if men have sex then they consent to parenthood as "it takes two to tango". Yet that's an obfuscation of the issue by confusing sex with reproduction and the various points when a woman can abort etc.
OniNoFro 1 year ago
women don't know what they want, they get what they want and still want more.. it's a fucking run around.. they have a vagina and they think they own the world..
MrPrideEvans 1 year ago
damn it you remind me of my ex!
PatRibsey 1 year ago
Women lie too much!!!!!
hater172 1 year ago 3
men dont like commitment becaus eits like cutting our nuts of and giving them to just 1 women. the women may have it great with that arrangment but its shit for the guy. women gets her secured mated to nuture her and her offspring but the guy is handicaped in the fact he is unable to spread hes seeed. NOT culture/ society, nature mother nature. despit what the femnazis say
ghazghkull2001 1 year ago
I have a great question sir! Does a man hurt as much in no contact even if he is the one that chose it or is it only the other person that hurt(the woman).
lavvy2585 1 year ago
second part
I have chosen now to go into no contact because I am in love with him and need to heal from being ignored. I am not interested in getting back into anything again right now its just too painful. I would have rather him say bitch leave me alone than ignore me.
lavvy2585 1 year ago 2
loved the advice. I messed up and hurt a man who said he loved me for years but was too afraid to tell me. After that he will not take my calls or return my texts and not even sure if he reads my emails so I gave up. It has been about a month.
lavvy2585 1 year ago
I thoght this was great! All of you haters can go f*ck yourself
tashha1500 1 year ago
lol, you can tell that this bitch is a huge whore
takadi 1 year ago
@takadi bigtime
Zac6230 1 year ago
let me see more of your body while you talk... most of it is interesting, but when you start rambling, give us the body to take us through.
Willyboy933 1 year ago
@Everyone: How about taking time to learn the laws of attraction and the way men & women have been mentally wired to operate and play the mating game rather than spending all your time complaining about it? Yes, there was once a time I used to "not get it" and complain about the unfairness, but then I decided to DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, and it was during this learning process (I'm still currently in) that I discovered that nothing at all is unfair, it's just that I needed to learn the skill. THINK
DjKDM7000 2 years ago
this is garbage... really garbage...no sence
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NeoQuello 2 years ago
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SDhunter2020 2 years ago 3
By the way, how old are you?
challengeme99999 2 years ago
god damn, this is exactly what is wrong with women, they listen to garbage like this, dont play games. Why all the games, you are fucking things up and will lose a good guy, or atleast one with a brain.
sp33d40 2 years ago 4
wheres the HOT alpha female? i see a female who wears to much make up, and who talks more than she thinks
ghazghkull2001 2 years ago 3
lOOK AT THE SHIT WOMEN PUT US THROUGH WE GET MARRIED WE CAN BE ON CHILD SUPPORT WE CAN LOSE MONEY END UP IN JAIL WOMEN ARE SNEAKY FUCK THAT I AINT GETTING MARRIED I AINT SIGNING MY LIFE TO NO BODY
ANDREW26101 2 years ago
Are men really commitment-phobic?
Given the following (within my geographic culture sphere).
Approximately 80% of men initiate the contact/relationship with women.
Approximately 75% of relationships are terminated by women...
If you don't believe me, you can test this empirically. Observe bars, clubs, social clubs, and social circles. Record your results.
Not good enough? Ask your friends, family, coworkers, teachers, students, members of community. Record your results...
it's staggering...
OniNoFro 2 years ago 62
@OniNoFro Just bc a man initiates contact/relationship with a woman doesn't mean he won't get cold feet and back out of the relationship before it progresses. That is where the "commitment phobe" label comes from as well. And I can think of many relationships that were terminated by women bc the man wasn't ready for the "next step" (marriage, etc)
annemarie012002 1 year ago
@annemarie012002
Generally men initiate everything at significant steps. If we give an answer you don't like, or leave when presented with an ultimatum/false dilemma it because we fear commitment. It often means we take it seriously (which isn't to say women don't or can't) and want to make the best decisions we can for ourselves impacting our lives.
Pushing marriage (a contract which doesn't benefit us) shows a need to control. If pushed/forced, it clearly shows your agenda and we know it.
OniNoFro 1 year ago
@OniNoFro I disagree to an extent. Personally I've never given a man an "ultimatum" and know many other women who have haven't either. There just comes a time when you've been dating awhile and one person is looking for the relatioship to progress. That does not neccessarily mean you come out with an "ultimatum" and or "push" as you call it (although I'm sure many do). Many of us simply lose interest bc the relationship isn't going anywhere and walk away.
annemarie012002 1 year ago
@annemarie012002
Then perhaps in your and your friends' cases it may be true but speaking as a man, knowing & talking with other men, looking at studies & journals about social dynamics, you are the exception/minority as far as most of the above mentioned men are concerned.
Should that be the case, the issue then is having different relationship expectations/goals/schedules. Which means a lack of communication between men and women about what they want.
That doesn't make men commitment-phobes.
OniNoFro 1 year ago
@annemarie012002
Concurrent to the issue of reasonable communication, why does it need to "progress"? Is something wrong? What is this progress?
According to what timetable or schedule (which does imply some agenda or goal other than focusing on being in the relationship).
Rather consider "who has the idea of what progress is?" because that's how it comes across. Men like relationships with more energy allocated to it than the management or "growth" of it. See the difference?
OniNoFro 1 year ago
@OniNoFro So...you're saying relationships should remain stagnant then?? LOL. And yes, maybe I am a minority in this case. Either way, it doesn't mean ALL men have fear of commitment BUT there are many that do. Especially, in the US (which is where I live...not sure as to where you're at). But thank you for "picking my brain", I always like to hear differences of opinions =)
annemarie012002 1 year ago
@annemarie012002
[sarcasm]Yes that's what I'm saying[/end sarcasm]; what a wonderful and purposeful fallacy applied...
What I'm saying is if a relationship is strong/good/mutually respectful and meaningful, what is the mutually beneficial point of "taking it to the next level"? If two people are happy together and everything is good, what "progress" can be made?
Marriage, now, exists as nothing more than a civil union; a contract of incorporation. This contract typically puts men at risk.
OniNoFro 1 year ago
@annemarie012002
because of the family and divorce court system's predisposition to siding with the woman. Especially with the advent of "No fault" divorce (not a new thing but that's when the issue became very obvious). So in the most minor of cases if a woman changes her mind and determines the man she's with isn't her best fit, he can be left holding the bag. Men now are acutely aware of this and so we take the "progress" of incorporation, the contract, very seriously.
OniNoFro 1 year ago
@annemarie012002
So again considering what was said earlier:
Men initiate approximately 80% of relationships; including marriages.
Women end relationships about 75% of the time; including marriages.
Now consider, last time I checked, the divorce rate is hovering around 50 to 60% where about 75% (I'll grant a margin of +/-15%) of those are initiated by women in a "No Fault" environment where courts often side with the woman, even if she had an affair...
How is this progress?
OniNoFro 1 year ago
@annemarie012002
No. We, generally speaking, do not fear commitment. We understand and respect it. We also understand how there are many, a clear majority and not necessarily you but a majority nonetheless, who would potentially abuse us and so we, reasonably, manage the risks we are exposed to.
Those men who fear commitment are fewer than those who respect it and fewer still than the women who don't.
Also, you have yet to state one benefit to men for "taking the next step"? What is it?
OniNoFro 1 year ago
@OniNoFro Ok, you're clearly just an idiot looking for an argument. I was being light-hearted and even said "thank you for picking my brain" (that was my polite way of ending the conversation). But you didn't get it. Instead, you're still throwing out snotty replies basically implying how everyone is wrong but you. Nobody gives a fuck, this is Youtube!!! I have "yet to state" anything more, bc I have a life and it's not to argue with people I don't know online. LOL. Goodbye.
annemarie012002 1 year ago
@OniNoFro You are indeed quite the loser, just as I had suspected. Ladies and gentlemen, OniNoFro has about 9 videos he regularly comments on and most of which are about...(surprise) relationships! LOL!! Let us all pray the he develops more constructive things to do with his time...Ahhh, I love it when I'm right! LOL!! Thank you sir! And goodnight (takes a bow)
annemarie012002 1 year ago
@annemarie012002 The main reason why a woman would terminate a relationship..lets say a marriage for instance..is due to the no fault divorces, Knowing well that they can shaft their man for alimony. Thats why I see marriage as nothing but a trap that I will never fall for..ever.
DeadSleepers 1 year ago 3
@DeadSleepers
There's no point in attempting to have a dialogue with her. Once it goes poorly, she attempts to engage in shaming and Ad Hominem tactics. This is because she has nothing to say which would add credibility to her stance. It's a shame because far too often, it's tactics like hers which also cause men to withdraw from the women they are with.
Either way, a rational man doesn't worry so much about girls with entitlement issues.
OniNoFro 1 year ago
@OniNoFro Eh, it wouldn't be the 1st time that happened. They usually use the ol' "You're gonna die alone" line. When in all actuality, its the women who worry about such things.
DeadSleepers 1 year ago
@OniNoFro Sad but true.
DeadSleepers 1 year ago
@OniNoFro i agree women keep themselves single on their own...they need to relax not every guy just wants sex. alot of the women i know think every guy who talks to them is attracted to them and their very wrong...
legalman07 1 year ago 2
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@OniNoFro Bar relationships end as quick as they start .
crazyhorse1369 1 year ago
@OniNoFro lol women are too scared to ask guys out
60s70s80s90smusic 11 months ago
@60s70s80s90smusic
It's sad but often the case and because of their fear of rejection, or making a mistake, some women put the blame/responsibility on men's shoulders. Because in the 21st century, where men and women are equal, men still bear the greater burden of adulthood.
Yay equality ;)
OniNoFro 11 months ago
Men withdraw because they don't want to be fathers.
CanadiaNecro1 2 years ago 51
Not entirely true. It's cost benefit analysis done on an intuitive level.
If we are not confident our potential partner is actually in it for the long haul, we will not stick around to have our assets seized, our reputations destroyed, and our social ties (friends/family/work) lessened. This data is collected through passive observation of behaviour (or lack thereof) and informs our decisions.
OniNoFro 2 years ago 4
@OniNoFro
Exactly. I think men realize that by marrying a woman she can then "sieze" his "assets" and then divorce him and take off with them. The legalities of marriage are deeply unfair. That's one of the reasons I'll probably never marry. I don't want someone else having legal access to my property, money, or body.
CanadiaNecro1 2 years ago
@CanadiaNecro1 that's what i thought this was all about hahahahahaha...ha.
cantwhistleforshit 1 year ago
@CanadiaNecro1
BOOM!, Holy Words right there Dude..
Zoza15 1 year ago
@CanadiaNecro1 ha ha ha, i think it depends on the guy lol x
not all women want to have babies...lol x
MissChiza 1 year ago
@CanadiaNecro1 Women push men into withdraw because they make them think they want them to be a father before they really are or without asking them if they want children. And I don't see anything wrong with men wanting to marry but not have children. As a guy, I don't want a woman to choose me just because she thinks I will be a good future father. I want her to choose me because of me myself and I.
Grapes428 1 year ago
@Grapes428 That is not at all what I meant by "withdraw". Ever heard of the withdrawl method? never mind.
CanadiaNecro1 1 year ago
@CanadiaNecro1
no they withdraw because they're not ready to spend time and effort learning how to be with woman.
@jennelli17- it would be cool to have you as a wing lol)
TEHAStin 11 months ago
@TEHAStin its not that were not ready its just that were too lazy
Awesomenizzleness 11 months ago
@Awesomenizzleness
some do go out. Get blown out. That sucks. I got blown out a lot. What sucks more is when you get the number, but girl doesn't answer. Makes you feel like shit. No wonder most people give up. It's like going to work that you hate, without even getting paid for it.
TEHAStin 11 months ago
Jesus Fucking Christ. Like most females... this bitch THINKS. TOO. FUCKING. MUCH.
KillSwitch2 2 years ago
Better than never thinking at all. Like most men.
CanadiaNecro1 2 years ago
this was so good...i am going through the same thing. thank you so much i will take your advice!!
rosnjust 2 years ago
hey keep doing these videos this really helped me hugs to you
hisprincessbyday 2 years ago
LincolnOnTheWeb-What the fuck?? Did that decidedly ''teenage'' question she answered sound like it came from the mouth of a Dried-up Thirty something?! Cunt.
Whats with the anger anyway? Prick. And no, im not, i'm the right side of 25 thank-you. My guess is you're a receding,''used up'' limp-cocked 40yrd. who couldn't even pull a pint. xx :)
ethelshallow 2 years ago
I would agree, withdraw isn't really the right way to put this video...I thought you were talking about the withdrawl method but thanks i learned something new...
no contact rule
NightSent13 2 years ago
for "hot alpha female", she really isn't that hot....
Hudsucker94 2 years ago
I agree.
shakaloso83 2 years ago
Hudsucker94, you must be a shemale or somethin'. I nearly got stabbed in the chest by my cock when I leaned foward to take a closer look.
kahlschlag17 2 years ago
shes barely acceptable
Zac6230 2 years ago
These used up, run down, left over, damaged goods in their 30s, have wasted their youth and their beauty on bad boys, getting dick rammed, licking and sucking off their dicks and balls. Now these old cunts with their saggy dried up breasts and their date raped, multiple std infested, loose, worn out pussy, are seeking a good man to settle down with and they cant find any. Then they are bitching that there are no good men.
LincolnOnTheWeb 2 years ago 3
damn straight. cause they don't know they're place at all.
Hudsucker94 2 years ago 3
"Then they are bitching that there are no good men."
That's the sad truth, LOTW. Especially with many American white women in the US.
Wytchfinde 2 years ago 3
Racist
ethelshallow 2 years ago
It isn't racist if it's true---there are white women in the US that say this all the time. Maybe your reaction is an extension of your own denial and bigotry. Affirmative Action favors white women. They have reproductive power over men.. They have hiring preferences, the media practically worshiping them at the expense of women minorities, and engage in hypergamy while mocking many working class men.
BTW, your slagging of Lincoln sounds rather angry. Perhaps you have your own issues.
Wytchfinde 2 years ago
Plus, more money and funding is for women health care than men that are gender specific. While men are living longer, white women still edge out them out. They are attending college and have support greater than most men. Suicide and depression are important issues for men, and yet US white women have more options for that and DV/abuse than men. I can even name examples where a white woman actor replaced a minority women although the role called for it.
Wytchfinde 2 years ago
Also, did you know that one of the prime tenets of the KKK was the protection and preserve the "virtue" of white women above all else? It seems American white women feminists believe the same thing.
Interesting, huh?
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ethelshallow 2 years ago
amen pump and dump those sluts
Zac6230 2 years ago
good one, bro.
MrFeets4life 2 years ago
I am an Alfa Male and could care less about rejection because I'm in demand. It is what it is.
sonatadude 2 years ago
"No contact" rule? I would think if you break up with someone you wouldn't need any extra incentive to avoid contact with him/her.
The thing about women wanting to know why a guy broke up with them is so annoying. If someone breaks up with you, the reason is that they don't like spending time with you. This applies EVERY TIME. What are you hoping to hear? "Oh, I just couldn't stand looking at your fat butt anymore." I don't think that would make you feel better.
Sierra688 2 years ago 5
i'm sorry that u find it annoying but we neeeeeeeeeeed to know...it's genetic.
we're always trying to better ourselves....and if it's over, we want to walk away with learning a lesson and a little more about ourselves...
we'll obsess about it....and if u have a crazy ex. you really need to tell her what happened! 90% of the time she'll leave u alone afterwards (i think).
goal100to95to90 2 years ago
i agree. my ex explained it to me and i felt that it was really helpful information.
ncfwhitetigress 2 years ago
The problem is that women want constant feedback. Even if a man breaks up with them they want to know why. It doesn't matter why. Let it go. BTW, there isn't a "no contact" rule in the cosmic code. Frankly, it sounds made up.
radio187 3 years ago
guys don't know about that "rule" I had no idea (=\ till now :P . and we don't see what's wrong with taking a break or not replying immediately lol. Also we don't really make it known whether or not we are serious dating or just hanging out any time with a girl is great to us. we are just immature and uneducated in some ways, but we mean no harm :D . your videos help me a lot as well thanks :D
jraybay 3 years ago
He got l8... and now he goes... Bye bye... ZUAHHAHAHA deal with it!
maxkorsoer 3 years ago 2
He's not her guy.
xxShannonGreenxx 3 years ago