Cheaters in Love? - Penislogue - Cheaters can't LOVE

[Jijawboy]

Amen Brother

[prettylissa10]

@Aconnectiontv, I am feeling you on this. When I was young & dmb , I possibly though a man could love me and cheat. But guess what, I was dead wrong and everything you said in this video is true...like you said you cheated cuz u wanted something MORE!!! Yo, recycle that s***

[VantisDoroHall]

I don't think cheating is a good thing to do, but a good relationship is based on much more than sex. When the love in a relationship is based on whether or not you cheat, you have a very weak relationship. My recommendation is that you not have a serious relationship until you have grown beyond that stage.

[1stlevite]

I have to disagree with you Wes.. Men don't cheat because they want to leave, they cheat because they want to stay. When men get ready to leave, they leave

[alexyguy]

u r completely right, if yur cheating or are with multiple people, it's because you are unfurfilled. once you find that person that is doing everything you need then u stay put, but the minute u stray, something is missing

[WaterBearer2008]

Love considers another's feelings. Temptation is normal for humans BUT to love someone means to not give in. Heck, in my opinion one shouldn't be interested in another is their in love with someone so I agree with you totally.

[SherryZAnn]

I think that if you slip up once you could be weak, but still in love, but stupid, and naiive (like, if you're in high school, and you do it cuz you are afraid of being tied down, or you got cold feet before marriage-well, you shouldnt be gettin married...) If it's once, its a slip up. Twice, its a mistress, and then I agree with you, you are just being selfish and dishonest with yourself and the one you claim to love.

[Dancekiwi]

soooo true! Some people just cant handle the truth. Nice lips btw.. lol

[tobohagen]

ha

your gay!

[Colombiankingz]

lol  @ 5:56

[andre3astar]

love u:X

[teddy6742]

I AGREE!!

[amberkimly]

in my opiinion ive been with someone for two years and i fell in love and we had a miscarriage but besides that i fell out of love with him so i aggree if u reallly in love u dont look no further...........at the last two months i found someone new and he did too so i agree....if it doesnt fufill u, u move on .............u on point fam!!!!!!

[sexydnatl]

Sorry man. Have to disagree with you. I think you confused two separate issues. Someone who cheated and someone looking to cheat. I do believe that you can be 'IN Love" with someone and end up cheating on them. Just don't try and excuse what happened. If you cheat, just accept that you did it and learn from it. But the other one looking to cheat, that person is lying to themselves. There are many other places you can go to find friendship. You wouldn't like it if your partner had one.

[96wil]

I totally disagree, you can be in love and slip up and cheat. I've cheated and have been married for 2 years dated for 5years. Im not proud of it but it happened. It was a jump off, and I was in the WRONG. It was a moment of weakness and I just wanted the nutt nothing more, and I absolutely LOVE and ADORE the one Im with. And would never leave under ANY circumstances! real talk! Now if its habitual then I think there is a deeper problem that needs to be addressed.

[ohhsada]

i cheated before. it was because the relationship was shit. i came to realize i didnt love him.

[bscottlove2]

Cheating is an excuse for people that dont wanna be by themselves. N are comfortable with what they have. Its more comfortable to with someone then to be alone. I'd rather be alone than to constantly cheat on my loved one.

[TheTelesha]

love doesnt make you run somewhere else! issues make you run somewhre else! whether theyre issues you have with self or relationships. love makes you stay regARDLESS. its not the healthy way...but its true. i believe people cheat because they dont want to leave that love. its very selfish & greedy but its true. Some people cheat for the attention of someone else. They want to feel like they still got it. the person you with say you still do cause they love you. without love things are easier.

[Bluevid588]

call me crazy but i don't think cheating on someone means that not in love with me i think it means the person doesn't respect his or her partner ......and this is coming from someone that has been cheated on...i believe that my ex was in and still is in love with me but he didn't respect me, our relationship, our comment so i had to let that go.....but im with on that web site theres no need for it....its down right disrespectful!! great video wes love the actv fam

[TheTelesha]

i agree in exact words@ bluevid

[bdt1619]

I agree, if you are truly in love with a person, cheating never even crosses your mind.

[twistedazo]

I don't know I think of this from the aspect of the "person that was cheated on" and a "cheater" on one hand i do agree with you that if you are with me and truly there it will not happen.However sometimes with us all being "human" things will happen. Everyone won't be perfect. Now if we are speaking of continuous on going cheat with different people. THEN HELL NAH YOU AINT IN LOVE. you just a person holding a spot for the right one.

[Chokolitbry]

My only comment is that u r sooo right Wes. You went in!!! I don't get that dumb shit either, but u know ppl have an excuse for everything. That's the sad part. But, they r what they r....excuses..

[tennislover08]

Damn WES this is a crazy good video!!!! loving the seriousness of this one

[KENNYBOO504]

And as far as the web site thing I agree cause if you have a good relationship that is your friend. I just wanted to share something my friends man told her. He said, "Bitch you don't need no other friends I'm your friend, matter fact Im all you need I'm your fucking oxygen bitch." Now thats deep. Lol Love your vids. Especially as Wes himself I agree with TBaby Show

[KENNYBOO504]

I agree but there is never a need to cheat if you love and respect someone before it gets to that point you will let that person go before hurting them. You have to commit to engaging in the sex act to go through with it. If you love someone your love will not allow you to do it. Its just nasty and dumb.

[babyboi1002]

I disagree....a website is a website....it's the person. Not everyone uses that site the same.

[unavien]

1)Cheating is very rarely about sex. Its a symptom of a deeper or perhaps a less obvious issue that currently exists. I think that if people were half as serious about relationships than they were about finances and/or businesses - more relationships would work & there would be a lot more honesty & loyalty. (2) I have a question about the website thing: If the website is where you met this individual, do you have the right to shut that part of their life down?

[dieric1b]

Wes i mean n disrespect u know i love this channel but really u really dont hae to instroduce yourself we all know who u are my mom dont watch youtube and she knows who yu are i adopt that connection over he house when ever im ove thee

[JonathanGardnerTV]

Your niece is sooo pretty omg aw! =D

[MedlynMartin]

In some countries some men have more than one wife and thats ok because its honest and they know thats the system. I imagine that if the men are gay they may also have a set number of partners. i dont know how that works. I think some people feel they can have multiple secret partners while pledging to one. As i said before if there is no honesty there cant be any love.

[MedlynMartin]

Lol you are a good friend to have because you tell the truth. Respect and honesty is critical to love. Cheating is when you cant say what you are doing because you know the other person wont be happy. if a person has to lie that aint no love.

[MedlynMartin]

This is so true but i think that many people dont understand what love really is. To begin with many people lack self love. when people dont know how to love its hard for them to understand certain things. They are just functioning at an animalistic level and they cant see beyond their basic needs. some people are just in relationship due to circumstances. sometimes they both know they dont feel complete but they keep going.

[darealestn09]

LOL...wes...i wouldn't cheat on you. :-). whoever would is a FOOL...or are rihanna-level crazy.

[TBabyShow]

Wes i'm so glad that you're doing more videos of just you being Wesley, cuz you are so damn gorgeous boy.

[StylezStayfresh]

hers a topic till i can get my camera back 2gether..can u trust life long friends that have already fucked?

[StylezStayfresh]

i dis agree..Lust is a hell of a thing, and the worldst most strongest person can't avoid that...you can be In love with some dosen't mean that u wont fuck up, BUT! IF U FUCK UP MULTIPLE TIMES THEN UR RIGHT! That person hasn't found there soulmate. ppl ty so hard to find there soulmate that they don't give there self time to "shop" for "true love"...u get what i'm say'n?

[MakeLoveNoBabiez]

TeLLeM weS!......is it me? or does he look and sound sexy angry!

[keyvs1]

omg i was talking bout that very same thing on my vid.....too bad it takes soooooo long to edit :( but anywho ull c wat im talking bout in a few days

[shawnclub7]

lol loving this! finally! a wes video that is funny, serious, not mona or twan but pure wes!

[ACONNECTIONTV]

@shawnclub7 i have been giving that lately we are episode number 18 shawn. Thanks for the love though, i appreciate it much love back at cha

[youngsirgt]

damn Wes who burned yo azz...while what u said does hold truth...u sound bitter as hell!!!!

[ACONNECTIONTV]

@youngsirgt naw i was mad at my friend for thinking that cheating was okay, it had nothing to do with me.

[islandboy082]

good message!

[cynmille2000]

I agree with you 1000000 percent

[HumpyDumpyScrumpyx]

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