I'm 16, going on 17, and I just have a bad habit of liking guys. I'm gay and I am okay with it but I sometimes like guys too much. I just feel terrible that guys never like me back. For instance, I was talking to the guy I like through MSN and I felt that he was ignoring me and it made me feel really anxious and just saddened. I like the guy but we have been friends for a year and don't want to ruin that. It's a crush and I'm prone to them. how do I fix that?
I have a question and in this video, I believe your going to give a good answer!..... I have bin studying like mad,for math and French!! And over check it more than ever... I just don't understand why I get bad marks.... Im starting to hate my life, even more each day ...(Your most likely the only one that possibly answer me... I'm very shy around people so I don't like talking about it in person.. I get upset.)
I'm 13 and I think I'm in love. Okay well there's this guy I really liked him for a while and couldn't get him out of my mind all I did was think about him well now it's a year later and I haven't seen him in a while and just the other day I ran into him the other day and all those feeling started up again and I can't get him out of my mind plzzz help anybody I'm gunna go crazy
@rox14229 sigh... so young and so inexperienced. Don't worry. It doesnt matter much when you are 13. But the best you can do is try to go talk to him, or perhaps, add him on facebook. I think he will be flattered in any way... except if he is gay.
@LeviathanTank I am all about people comming to terms with their looks. However, I feel like you should not be saying that you're ugly. Yes, I realize I do not know your life style choice, but if all else fails at least you should be able to think about yourself as at least good looking enough to find a "soul mate" or whatever you would like to call it.
To Whom This May Apply: Are you feeling depressed about yourself? Well, I have something that may help you out. Everyday, when you wake up, sit on your bed and spend at least 5-10 minutes thinking POSITIVE about yourself. Think of happy things, things that make you smile. I tried this and it worked for me. There were rumors going on about me that weren't true. There are still some, but I now know that if they're fake, I don't need to worry about it. I hope it works for you!
Hey guys, if you need imediate advice, email AskCalli@yahoo.com they helped me really fast and they had great advice. Thought I might premote them because they helped me so much. ;)
I am 11 Years and 4 months old and am in love with a girl (im a boy) and i THINK she might like me back but i am to nervous to ask her out. PLEASE HELP!!!
Dear Buck part 2, I'm trying not to like this guy because he has/had the hots for my friend (she's really pretty)- and he likes girls A LOT. She doesn't see him that way and I'm TRYING not to see him that way, but he keeps popping up in my mind. I am convinced I am ugly to him. Even though he is weird, he's a good person- very religious and nice- yet I have very low self esteem. The only thing we share in common is that we share the same faith. ~KokoroComplex
Dear Buck part 1- I can't put it in one comment T_T, I am a female and 18. I am half black and half Korean and I have gotten some compliments on my looks, but I think I am ugly. On some days, I'll look in the mirror, I think "damn, I look good," but when I'm around any people or the moment the camera comes up, I turn fugly >_<.
@Gia i'm 12 going on 13 and have asperger's (i think i spelled it wrong) too. don't let them affect you. they just want someone to pick on and for some reason chose you. i've been bullied because of how i look (i have pink and blonde hair). so i know how you feel.
Hi, my name is Jenna. I really need someones help. So i'm 13. Me and some guy named Joe liked each other for a while now, a couple months ago he told me that he missed me, and he loved me, and he wanted to talk to me more. Just a couple weeks ago i heard from my best friend Anthony that Joe likes my friend Diana. The other day at lunch my friend Monica started talking to him, now they send hearts back and forth to one another. I honestly don't know wut to do. THUMBS UP PLZ.
Hi, my name is Jenna. I really need someones help. So i'm 13. Me and some guy named Joe liked each other for a while now, a couple months ago he told me that he missed me, and he loved me, and he wanted to talk to me more. Just a couple weeks ago i heard from my best friend Anthony that Joe likes my friend Diana. The other day at lunch my friend Monica started talking to him, now they send hearts back and forth to one another. I honestly don't know wut to do. THUMBS UP PLZ.
@XxJustyTaylor4everXx I'm your same age, I'm a guy, and I know SO MANY GIRLS that do that kind of stuff, but what I always tell my friends that this happens to (I help alot of girls wiht this(well atleast try) :-/) is to let it go. there are a few things you need to remember:
1) your still young! go with the flow!
2) It can ALWAYS be worse!
3) He might have thought you just wanted to be friends.
4) maybe he's a bottled-up sex freak and your friend is a slut.
Hi. My name is Lauren. I have a question that I can't figure out on my own. My boyfriend and my best girlfriend are both running for president at my school. They're both pressuring me as to who I should vote for. What should I do!?!?!?!? Thanks and I love the show, Buck!
@lianneinthebigworld (1/2) As a Victim's Advocate here in my city, I can tell you that you've already taken the FIRST step to getting your confidence back- you got OUT of that unhealthy relationship! Stop blaming yourself for what happened. I know this is easier said that done, just remember that you're a human. We all make mistakes, it happens. You get back up and move forward, which is what you're doing.
I am 13 and i always wanted to be a writer. any time i have free time i read or write. One time i told my friends that i really had a passion for that but they just laughed. i have many "free read" books and notebooks in my locker. they make faces when they see me and my locker. i wrote a 173 page book -i made a copy- and i showed them how good i could write. she took it home and threw it in the trashcan. she was my bff, but now i don't know what to do. -Leah
dear buck. im 21 i broke up with my ex boyfriend who i lived with for 4 years last august 2010 he is now married with his bitch, ive had a couple of boyfriends after we broke up but upto now i still think about him, i still dream about him i call it nightmares, it makes me miserable and i cant focus,im anxious about something good to happen to my life and just be contented,i love my current bf though,i just feel like a loser, i need advice.. thank u
My name is katy and im going into grade 7 at a really spoiled at bratty school! i have a lot of friends that i love very much but there are a few girls that i dont know about. They always want to know my secrets yet they dont tell me anything and these few girls never invite me to there sleepovers and the mall. This has happend to me before at my old school but i still dont know what to do. also they call me fat and ugly as a "joke" and i have NO self confidence
@ilysm2113 i know this is hard but you could try and invite yourself to these or you could arrange a sleepover if it doesnt there not your true friends and do remember your only fat and ugly if you believe it yourself and if its putting you that down with your weight just asking your mum for healthier foods around the house and this helps alot just look at yourself in your mirror and focus on everything good about yourself and not the bad and this really does help to boost your self confidence
I'm 14 years old and I'm in a pickle... I have a group of really good friends (or so I thought) that I always hang out with. About a week ago, they all confronted me, and told me I was a freak. That I was loud, obnoxious, embarrassing, and weird. And I can admit, I am very different... But they told me that if I didn't change who I was they would ALL ditch me. I don't want to change who I am, but at the same time, I don't want to lose all of my friends. Any advice? xx
@EmmaJaneIntensity Honestly, you should just ditch them. If they want you to change who you are then they're not true friends. Don't worry you could always find new one's ;)
@EmmaJaneIntensity, im just as strange as you, if not more, i have a weird group of friends, most of them are rejects and what people call weird, but if they dont like you for you then find some more friends who support you and love you, haha. im 13 so, ya same thing as ur going thru. so this sounds cheasy, but believe in you. you sound awesome. :) awesome person, dont change. :) <3
HEY GIA. my name is gia too!! but anyywayyy.. michael (i hope i spelled that right ....probably not...whatever) is totally right that is exactly what i would say !!!:]
@ohatcheesoftball32 personally i dislike people like you who think they have an amazing voice... However i will offer my advice. You should make some videos of yourself singing and put em on youtube(if you think your so good a good camera is a small investment of what can be your future) if that fails to work enter the x factor or american idle
WOW you have a wonderful apartment!!! i would love to see it haha, when i'm grown up and got a lot of money (which i hope that will happen haha) i want to have a apartment like that!
im 14 years old and first off i would like to say what a good thing your doing your a great person and i have so much respect for you. Life has been good lateley and i recentley realized i have feelings for my best friend and i thought that she felt the same way but one of her friends talked to her for me "wich i never do im just really nervous" and she told her that she loved me LIKE A BROTHER and i cant get over her. i would really appreciate some advice.
@39jagan i am also 14 and i just had my friend do the exact same thing, got the same answer too..... but we just need to put them behind us...... i mean obvs stay close friends with her and hopefully soon she will change your mind... also i know this didnt really help and im sorry.
p.s. how long have you liked her for? and how long you guys been best friends?
I'm in love with my best friend. We were dating for almost 9 months and then she decides she doesnt like me anymore. She told me that she though she was going straight.(I'm bi)She said that she wanted to try being single for a little bit . She then goes out with my other friend of the opposite gender. I felt like crap watching them be all lovey dovey and she yelled at me for it. I lost the one I love and I'm scared of losing my best friend. I don't think i can keep living like this.
I'm in love with this boy who is 6 years older than me. BEFORE JUDGEMENT, my parents are 9 years apart and I was raised to know age is just a number.
My problem is, he has anger issues. Yesterday, he got upset when I said hi, and told me I was annoying, which he said he'd never do. I was hurt, but I left him alone. Later he called me an asshole.
I unfriended him, but now I think I made the wrong choice. HELP?
@futurekellyclarkson PUT HIM OUT OF YOUR MIND. don't even THINK about wasting time over someone who gets upset over something so little, and certainly not someone who calls you names.
and you made the right move by unfriending him. best of luck in finding a nice guy, and DFTBA!
@HPGleek013 I'm no expert, but there is actually a mental condition that causes people to pull their hair out. If you've ever seen "My Life on the D-List", Kathy's manager Tom (I think that's his name) pulls his hair (usually his eyebrows or eye lashes) out when he's stressed. It's called Trichotillomania, but if you're really concerned, you need to talk to your doctor.
i'm 15 & over the year i worked my butt off to lose 54lbs & got highlights. the issue is that my body has changed but my mind hasnt caught up yet. I've been told that i'm pretty but my mind is still in that dark place and refuses to let me accept it. Now i have boys flirting with me and people telling me that they're jealous of my looks. I dont want to be arrogant, i just want some help with getting my mind to catch up & gaining the confidence to go with it
Dear Buck, Heyy, I am 13 and, I have been in 2 talent shows at my school, and one won and got 2nd in the other, and I sing, and I have gotten to the point where I'm fed up just sitting here with this amazing voice. But my real question is, how do I get someone to discover me! I will do anything!
i stayed with my boyfriend who lives in a different state for about a week and a half. my boyfriend has diabetes and hasn't been doing very well. while i was there, him and his mom got in a fight and she said that it was my fault that his diabetes is acting up. it seems like she liked me better before i was dating her son, but i really want her to like me now.
what do i do to show her that i'm right for her son, and that i want to help him with his diabetes?
This goes out to people who cut themselves, I don't understand how people say cutting helps them release emotional pain when all that cutting is doin. Is Harming ur self. And makes u feel pain.. So some one explain how does it feel to cut..
@Steph199612 i used to self-harm, and i can honestly say, it helps in the moment. the physical pain makes you forget about the emotional pain that you're already feeling.. it's kinda' like alcohol, or weed.. in the moment, you don't remember anything else that's wrong, but once the "high" of it is over, nothing's really changed.
The whole thing about cutting is the control. You cant control how other people feel about you or treat you, but you can control the scars on your arms.
@HPGleek013 Its actually a diesease called Trichotillomania . Google That diesease and choose kids health i would ahve attached a link but it wouldnt let me
Read up and confort ur mom or father. As it not ur fault.
Dear Buck, I cut myself sometimes. I want to stop but I feel like I need help. Everyone thinks of me as a happy bubbly person and they dont notice when im hurting inside. When I do it feels like I'm letting some of my emotional pain out. My family put me down a lot, and I'm embarressed to tell anyone about what I'm doing. Please give this thumbs up because I know this an issue that a lot of people have. Thanks.
@YelenaRoX i don't know if your lying cuz you said give me thumbs up but if your not i'm sorry and this what you should do STOP CUTING YOUR SELF! tell somebody tell your friend or your mom or anybody cuting your self does noting for you
@alexistheawsome1 im not lying i want thumbs up so buck will see the comment. I cant tell my mum because she would go crazy if she knew. The only friend I could tell also cuts. But thanks for helping :)
@YelenaRoX okay you and your friend should stop cuting your selfs it not helping you or her/him and you mum might go crazy but any mom would go crazy about it you should tell your mom or dad you can't cut your self it not helping you what so ever sorry if i'm not helping
I'm 14 and have a close group of friends. They are cool but for a while they've been saying I'm a lesbian. Not that theres anything wrong with being one, but it does upset me, as its obvious they're trying to annoy me so they can seem cool. Most of the time they are me best friends but then they start writing it on walls and telling everyone I know. I tried talking to them calmly like you suggest in your video's but they just ignore me. Is there any way I can get them to stop?
@Frazzle48 I'm not sure what to say, but when i had short hair people often called me a lesbian. If you've tried talking to them, it's proboly time to slowly move away from them. Maybe try asking out a guy? i'm really not sure, but I hope this helps. : )
I'm 14 and have a group of close friends. They are awesome but for a while they've been saying I'm a lesbian. Not that theres anything wrong with being lesbian, but It does upset me, as its obvious they're trying to annoy me so they can seem cool. Most of the time they are my best friends but then they start writing it on walls and tell everyone I know. I tried talking to them calmly, like you suggested in your videos but they ignore me. Is there any way I can get them to stop?
@Frazzle48 get new friends trust me your wasting your time with them. you might not think so now but when you get into highchool you'll see how they really arnt your friends. Same shit happened to me -_-
I recently found out my boyfriend would be moving to America (we currently live in England) after we finish High School for a gap year, we have been together for over a year now. I don't know if or how this could work out. Please help, can you see a solution for us?
dear buck, Last week I found out my best friend has cancer. 5 days ago my friend died of abuse. Last month my 4 year old cousin was diagnosed with diabetes. And lastly I just found out my best friend in the whole world is in the hospital and could die next week. I know this sounds made up but it's not. I'm only 13 and im not good with death or bad news. I have started to get depressed and cut and I don't know what to do to help me get threw this. Also I have been thinking about suicide.(plz thu
@SuperBVBArmy please, look on the upside of your friends death. they're in a better place. your cousin will be fine, as long as their parents are careful. your best friend has you, be there for them. even if they do die, stay by their side til the end. try to stop cutting yourself, and by all means, do NOT commit suicide, it'll only make everyone in your life who loves you hurt. talk to your parents, try to get help
I'm hated on 2 sites cuz of ONE girl i hated her first but i never talkd about her or anything and she talks about me to EVERY ONE and she join the same site i am and she made my life an living hell and she made ppl on the another site hate me even more
and she keep telling ppl im, a bitch and ppl hate me cuz of it and abuch of ppl won't stop being mean to be cuz of it and now i lost all my friends cuz of her what do i do? thanks
@alexistheawsome1 you should talk to her in a regular manner and say "y r u sayin stuff about me?i never did anything to u."try to cooperate and sort things out.she might be going through some rough stuff at home.if i doesn't work out then then block her out on the sites so she wont be able to research you or comment about you.i hope everything works out.
Not really all the people in my class are all outgoing like you said I usually am too but since I came to secondary school alone I got more and more quiet.
I'm so sorry that you had to move after you had settled in.
i have a really big problem. I think that i'm pregnant (since i had to get my period two weeks ago and i still don't have it) i did use protection last time, and i have no idea what to do now. I'm really afraid that i AM pregnant. Please help me, i don't dare it to talk with anyone about it.
Dear Buck, I cut myself sometimes. I want to stop but I feel like I need help. Everyone thinks of me as a happy bubbly person and they dont notice when im hurting inside. When I do it feels like I'm letting some of my emotional pain out. My family put me down a lot, and I'm embarressed to tell anyone about what I'm doing. Please give this thumbs up because I know this an issue that a lot of people have. Thanks.
@YelenaRoX If you're really suicidal, this may also help- regardless of your beliefs (and I don't mean in a religious context) watch?v=nGceaonO0Rk and the suicide hotline (which she also mentions).
It's scary knowing how many young people are suicidal. Please don't. Do whatever you can to get over it! I'm 17, can't stand my body, completely alone, besides family. Sometimes I want to break down and STOP, just stop, and never leave the house again.
But I have to. There's hope somewhere in me, don't know where the hell it came from, but I'm not some weak little shy girl anymore. My mom attempted suicide, and what I felt following the ambulance to the ER? I will *never* do that to her.
To Vanessa: Currently I'm 14, being this age is what makes crazy. The hormones are crazy, but just know you're not alone(: Love yourself because you're awesome(: People create labels, don't indulge them by applying those labels(:
Dear buck am 15 and I feel like my parents ignore my feelings and just don't care sometimes I have cut myself and write my feelings down in book. I don't want to cut but it helps and that makes me sad I feel like till this feeling that my parents don't care is over it's is my only option. I just need another options.
dear buck, when i was in primary school i was friends with everyone in my class i had a close group of friends too but 2 years ago i went to secondary school my mom sent me to one that none of my friends went to and i protested but could do nothing. all of my old friends made new friends and barely talk to me anymore. i didnt make any new friends and i still havent. my mom says i still could if i tried but i know its hopeless now. please help i dont kno what to do from rachel in ireland ps i<3u
Same thing happened to me. I'm a loner, very shy, so it takes me forever to connect with people and make friends. They were usually the really loud, outgoing people who weren't exactly popular, but not unpopular either. Is there anyone like that at your school? Do you have at least one person to talk to in each class?
I'm extremely quiet, so it's pretty amazing I even managed to make acquaintances. Once I started to open up, I felt a lot better :)
@UhhhhHey123 Have u tried being open and happy walking around school? Walk around with confidence, shoot a smile at people u see and seem friendly :) Walk around n try to get to know some people! How did u meet ur last friends? Try the same thing. If that doesn't work, join some local school or community clubs that u could make friends in along the way. :)
Dear Buck, i don't have a personal facebook account, and i don't want one, but my friends keep on posting embarrasing photos of me on there without my permission and it feels like it's every day that someone says, "hey check out this photo of you..." and they refuse to take it off. u know flagging does nothing.
@kristy1097 That's the exact thing that happens to me! I hate it too and It is very rude to not take the pics off. If it gets really bad you should go to the parents. I know that you think you'll be a tattle tale or whatever but if they are refusing to take them off, get different friends, it's rude.
Dear Buck or anyone c: I'm a very nice girl, whose very kind. Even though everyone seems to like me, No one really accepted me as a "good friend" in middle school. I'm a little quiet and a little shy but I get along with people well! I just came from a Catholic Middle school that only had 100 Students, Now I'm about to go to a public High School. Can You, Buck, or anyone please give me advice on how to make friends easier or any tips about not being nervous for the first day?
@zomgdinosuar I think a lot of people will be kind of nervous going to high school but i think you should be yourself also SMILE :) people will notice you and this will also portray the nice person you are.You could also join any after school that you are interested in which will help you meet people and you will also have something in common with them. I'm sure you will find friend who like you for who you are :) Good luck at your new school and all the best :D xx
The best thing you can do to make friends at a new school is to reach out to others and just be friendly. You can't wait for other people to come and talk to you because it may not happen as quickly as you'd like. Another thing you should definitely consider is joining in on extra curricular activities like sports and clubs. It's really a great way to make new friends who have similar interests to you!
Dear buck. im 12 and my dad died about a month ago and now my mum fights and is very deprest i have tried killing my self and righting letters in my arm. and smoking and getting drunk. please buck tell me what to do. at the moment i have no one i wish u could help me coz i watch your show al ot and you seem to have a magic touch to help people like me in need i love your show and hope to hear from you soon.. love chris xox
DB,i have been depressed twice before during the winter and i think they were legit depressions.i was doing research recently on depression and found SAD and i had most of the symptoms.i'm afraid i'm going to be depressed again this winter and don't wanna go through it all again. during the depressions i cut, had major social withdrawals, and didn't eat much. i'm 14 and don't know if i should tell my parents ... they didn't know i was depressed. PLEASE help!
@MichexxStylez i think you should tell your parents because parents can help you get through it and get you a therapist or something. why do you get depressed in the winter ?
@MichexxStylez I've had a friend who had SAD syndrome and he got a specific light that would give him the vitamins he needed to fight it. By my understanding, SAD is caused by not getting the vitamins from the sun that are needed (since we are inside so much during the winter and the sun isn't up as much). Maybe this could be an option for you? They're expensive but it could be totally worth it for you! Hope that helps! :)
@MichexxStylez I had Social Anxiety Disorder... I'm also always here if you want to talk about it because I do lots of things for awarness of anxiety disorders & such.. Good luck ♥ ~ Amber
I think I have the same thing. I'm 17. Every school year starts amazingly in Sept.: good grades, I'm more social, feeling good. Then near winter, it derails. Something usually triggers it, could be anything. But either way...something effs my brain up, and it's happened for 4 years. I've repeated 9th grade twice because I couldn't get through it.
I have social anxiety and depression, but now I wonder: seasonal affective disorder? Maybe.
@MichexxStylez depression sucks so bad. i know what you mean, my first extreme depression was when i was 11 O.O i almost felt like killing myself. but then i watched The Office, and felt better
@MichexxStylez You may have seasonal depression. It usually occures durring a specific season or time. Best thing you can do is get professional help.
@MichexxStylez hi there! i have a friend who goes through the same thing as you do. But you know you're depressed, and you know you don't want to be. That's good! I think you should tell your parents. They can get you medication, or if you dont want it at least help you somehow. Besides telling your parents you should surround yourself with close friends who can help you to feel better, to make you laugh and be there for you getting you to eat and helping you to not cut. Feel better <3
@MichexxStylez If ur too afraid to tell ur parent's, try going to some friends before it flairs up again. Tell them what happened and ask them for help. Let them know that u need it and you need their support to b able to tell ur parents. But b4 winter comes, it'd probably be best if u DID tell ur parents because I'm sure no one wants anything tragic to happen to you (i know i don't :) ) so try talking to a friend or trusted adult if ur cool with any.
I have just began reconnecting with an old male friend of mine. We were practically best friends when we were about 10 but then we stopped talking. We're now both in our teens and now that we're hanging out again we find that we're attracted to each other. I admitted to finding him attractive but at the same time I feel dating might ruin our friendship again. He continues to make moves on me, but im not sure if i should risk it. What should I do? Love, A huge fan
Dear Buck, I've recently found out about a talent search, which some of my favorite artists are promoting. I love to sing, and always liked writing poems and lyrics because words come easily to me. I don't know if I should try out though because I don't think my voice is very good, I can't play any instruments, and my look isn't exactly 'star' quality. Should I even audition or not?
Dear Buck (or anyone), My brother is a senior in high school and terribly, terribly shy. He is also a very talented artist and has shown interest an art college a few hours away from home. I know he doesn't like school at the moment and acts like doesn't want to leave home, but I'm sure this would be good for him. How can I get him motivated to look into this more? Do you have any tips on being less shy? -Hanna
Hey guys, I totally love Buck, and I'm not hating, but I know that he gets a lot of emails, and he can't answer them all, so that is why I have opened my channel to anyone who feels they need immediate advice, just send me a message, and I will post a video of my advice :).
I'm 11 turning 12 and I think I'm ready to wear make up. I know how to put it on and wat looks good on me so I know I won't look like a clown. It's not because my best friend wears make up it's because I really enjoy it (wearing make up). I just don't know how to ask my mom if I can be allowed to wear it. Please help :), Frankki
@fc7777fc i think you should start small with they make up with mascara , lipstick , eyeliner. but dont go to heavy on the eyeliner . i think your mom would agree a little of lip stick and mascara . just dont do eye shadows , foundation and all that heavy stuff cuz i think she will say no to that cuz if you say hey mom can i wear makeup she will think all the heavy stuff , so just start small thats how i did it . soo this are just some of my tips for you .
First of all you need to ask your Mum. If she says no don't worry. I didn't start wearing makeup till I was 13 and when your older it wont matter. If she says yes you should: wear only mascara and lipgloss by day /and if you're pale some blusher but very little) and if you like go out at night or something like that you should wear some mascara a bit of eyeliner and some liploss. Good luck xoxo
Last year I found one of my cousins on facebook. He lives an hour away, so I invited him to the carnival with me, he brought his friend Tucker with him. I got his number and now we text everyday. He has only had two girlfriends before and he doesnt know when you flirting and what not. I wanna show him I like him, but I dont wanna just be like " I LIKE YOU NOW DATE ME, (as you would say) BITCH!" He's so cute and I think he likes me, but i dont know.
dear buck, there was a boy named danny cox who lived in my town who was paralized last year from a diving accident. he was only 19. recently he was in a car accident and he died. he was the only one in the car, and a lot of people thing it was sucide. i had only talked to him for a couple times, but for some reason his death is making me super depressed, and itspretty much all i think about. please tell me good ways to get over it. thanks. rip danny cox
Dear buck, i recently set my girl friend up with a nice guy, and they hit it off. But he often texts me in a slightly flirty tone. I respond in one word answers(which makes me feel like a jerk) and i dont want to hurt my friends feelings by telling her, because she likes him a lot. To top it off, the guy i like and have been txting has a girlfriend he never talks about. Xo help me buck! Ps this is the third guy whose affections i have turned down. Am i ungrateful?
Dear Buck, Im 16 and from just outside of Los Angeles, California. For as long as I can remember, all I have ever wanted is to go to New York. My father has been and so has my brother on his 8th grade school trip (on mine, it was the first time in 20 years that they took New York out, only to add it back the next year). Its the only thing I dream of but my parents are getting sick of my constant asking to go. I dont know what to do, I get so emotional just thinking about it. What do I do?
I think I might be depressed. I was always very close to my grandfather ( my papa). A couple years ago there was fighting in the family, and he basically abandoned us, choosing his company over his family. No one knows my feelings, and it seems I'm the only one hurt by this. I think I've been on and off depressed for almost 2 years, and I really need some advise and someone to tell me it's gonna be ok, but I'm not ready to talk to my family.
My name is Shelby and I'm 15 and going into grade 11. I'm having some troubles at home, and I think I might be depressed. I'v had these feelings in one shape or form on and off for about 1 1/2 years, but no one knows about it. The main reason this started was an argument that has been going on for a while between my grandfather and the rest of my family. No one even explained to me what this argument was about or why, but in fall 2009 our family just kind of fell apart. All the info
Dear Buck or anyone, There is these girls in my class and I hate them they are the RUDEST people I know me and my friends that are in my class also feel the same way. We have told my teacher and she seems just to be on there sides.And one of the girls has threatened to punch one of are special classmates because he wouldn't move from the window when he was there first. Plz help I can't stand another year with them. Love Demetra
Hi my name is Ashley.I was in the hospital on Monday because I was having stomach pains.I'm 14 and I learned that I have a problem with my "lady parts.
I was informed that because of this problem that I will never be able to have children.I know at 14 I shouldn't be thinking about having kids but this depresses me very much because I wanted to have kids when I got older but now I know it's impossible.What should I do to help get over this?I have no one to talk to plz help!Thanks.
dear buck or anyone else, i am a 14 year old girl turning 15 and i'm going into a new school and ill be a freshman, i don't know a lot of people there besides this one girl who my family doesn't approve of because she's had 20 ex boyfriends (she's 15) and i like her but my family feels like she will rub off on me or i'll be labeled easy like her, but she is an awesome girl and i don't want to stop being her friend what should i do? thank you -rylie (please thumbs up so buck see's this)
@missanonymous57 Just be yourself, be friendly, and smile a lot. Show that you're confident. Join clubs or try out for sports if that's your thing. You'll be fine hun. :) And as for the girl, you're parents can't choose who you hang out with. As for her rubbing off on you, you get to choose what you do. Don't worry :)
dear buck im a 13year old boy from norway im gay and my life is really complicated right now. recently i've met a boy on fb, who i have found a really good tone with, we love each other and would love to meet etc. but just yesterday a new boy have been contacting me (11) saying im cute and stuff. he asked me if i found him cute, and i replied, yes. no he thinks that i love him and keeps asking me if i would ever cheat on him.. i dont know what to do because hes so young (dont wanna be with him
i'm 14 years old,i love fan girling over stupid things,Disney or harry potter related. but at times i dont feel like my mother supports me.She laughs and snickers at the little things i do.Like the other week i got back from AC Moore to pick up stuff for a doll that im making. she always laughs at me and tells me how dumb i am for spending money on "crap" i dont need.i keep telling her to let me do my own thing. she still laughs and it really hurts.
Im starting college in about a week and I have to drive my friend cause she's 18 and doesn't have her license. She's had her permit for 3 years and has rarely gone to practice driving. She tells me she hates driving a lot and only does it because she has to. It's not even like she's bad at driving, Ive heard nothing but praise from her mother. How do I help my friend become more confident with her driving so she can be more independent instead of relying on me or her mother? ~Meredith
dear Buck. Well, i am like the "perfect girl" , the most of guys like me, the girls tell me that im so pretty, and they wanna be like me,my dad like's music so i sing and play the piano,for my mom i read a lot.,i'm always the 1st place in everything (cooking, acting,draw,almost every subject) but now i just fell alone, eny of my "friends" answer my calls and the other day i try to kill my self whit drugs but i just wake up and in my arm was the world "alone" i don't now wath to do for be happy ?
Dear Buck or anyone, Im Summer I'm 14 . My best friend Savannah who I've know for 3 years. She recently began smoking and making other bad chocies. I don't know how to react. I told my self that I wouldn't hang out with people like that no matter what the cost but I know the real her under all the fake-ness. I don't want to just stop talking to her cuz she is one of my best friends but I also don't want that influence around me. Please help I don't know what to do.
Buck please help me!!!! I was diagnosed with epilepsy when I was 8 and am now 20. I have tried almost all the medicines there are & have a vns implant. It was working for the first 10 months but now my seizures are increasing. I know you aren't a doctor, but what can I do to take my mind off of all this stress & sadness & frustration I am dealing with?!?! Love, Jena Please like this status so buck sees it pleaseeeeee!!!
Buck please help me!!!! I was diagnosed with epilepsy when I was 8 and am now 20. I have tried almost all the medicines there are & have a vns implant. It was working for the first 10 months but now my seizures are increasing. I know you aren't a doctor, but what can I do to take my mind off of all this stress & sadness & frustration I am dealing with?!?! Love, Jena Please like this status so buck sees it pleaseeeeee!!!
Buck please help me!!!! I was diagnosed with epilepsy when I was 8 and am now 20. I have tried almost all the medicines there are & have a vns implant. It was working for the first 10 months but now my seizures are increasing. I know you aren't a doctor, but what can I do to take my mind off of all this stress & sadness & frustration I am dealing with?!?! Love, Jena Please like this status so buck sees it pleaseeeeee!!!
Buck please help me!!!! I was diagnosed with epilepsy when I was 8 and am now 20. I have tried almost all the medicines there are & have a vns implant. It was working for the first 10 months but now my seizures are increasing. I know you aren't a doctor, but what can I do to take my mind off of all this stress & sadness & frustration I am dealing with?!?! Love, Jena Please like this status so buck sees it pleaseeeeee!!!
Dear Buck: My name is Jenny and I am 18 years old. This morning I found out that my grandpa passed during the night.. he has been in the hospital for over a month with cancer. Although his death did not come as a shock, I'm not sure how to feel - if anything I am confused. I have been so lucky in my life and this is the first death that I have ever encountered. So my question is how have you dealt with death?
@gilmoregal84 Hey Jenny! I know how you're feeling right now. I'm only 14, but I've been through that stuff. My Dad passed a way when I was 8, and for the first year even, I didn't feel anything but confused. I only cried at the hospital, and after that, nothing. Only 2 years after it happened did it start to hit me that he was dead and there was nothing i could do about it. You're going to have that "confused" feeling for a while, but the tears could come later. I'm sorry for your loss!
Dear Buck; I'm 24 years old and my grandpa passed away three months ago and I have been having a hard time getting over the loss of him in my life. He was like my father figure since my dad was not around much and he was the one that gave me my love of history and goal of becoming a teacher but now I a hard time even finding the love I once had for anything that reminds me of him. My family says this is normal but how does one know when they are still grieving or if they are truly lost? Amanda
Dear Buck I'm 14 years old and caught in a family fight,
My mum & my aunt(my mum's sister)are no longer talking, so my mum, dad & I were going to visit my gran for her birthday but my aunt was there and my mum refused to come in, so I started saying real calmly that she's my aunt I don't care if you two are no longer talking you cant stop me from seeing her, my mum then started screaming at me in the street & threatened to call social services about me
I was in a similar situation with my mom and her sister! They had gotten in a fight about something and it caused them not to speak for 6 months. My advice is to have an open talk with your mom. Make sure she's in a good mood beforehand, and do it at a café or something. Also, try not to go in seeming like you're attacking her, start off with "Mom, I know that this is hard for you, and I would really like to hear your side of the story." (to be continued in another post...)
Hopefully, your mom will realize that you're not against her and you can eventually breach the subject of talking with your aunt. That's what happened with me, anyway! I had an open, honest chat with my mom, and she ended up telling me that she wouldn't stop me from seeing/speaking with my aunt. Just hang on, I promise it'll get better! Best of luck to you!
DB, I sent you a message awhile ago about my parents who died and my sick dog that my parents got me before they left for Iraq. Addy is AMAZING NOW! I appreciate all the prayers and help he had to go through Kimo-therapy for about 8 months and now he is fine. There are still things that he can't do, but atleast I have him. Thank you EVERYONE. Please like this so that way I know Michael has seen it! Michael please read this so I know that you have seen my appretiation for everything!
Hey, to either Buck or anyone else.
I'm 16, going on 17, and I just have a bad habit of liking guys. I'm gay and I am okay with it but I sometimes like guys too much. I just feel terrible that guys never like me back. For instance, I was talking to the guy I like through MSN and I felt that he was ignoring me and it made me feel really anxious and just saddened. I like the guy but we have been friends for a year and don't want to ruin that. It's a crush and I'm prone to them. how do I fix that?
Justinisinthebuildin 4 hours ago
@Justinisinthebuildin he's probablynot gay
and if it werre me, i would nvr want to become gay cuz girls are sexy
YungMon0 4 hours ago
@YungMon0 Oh, I already know he's bisexual. He has told me that he is attracted to me before but that's not really the point.
Well, being gay isn't something you "become" but okay sure. If you like girls go ahead.
Justinisinthebuildin 3 hours ago
I have a question and in this video, I believe your going to give a good answer!..... I have bin studying like mad,for math and French!! And over check it more than ever... I just don't understand why I get bad marks.... Im starting to hate my life, even more each day ...(Your most likely the only one that possibly answer me... I'm very shy around people so I don't like talking about it in person.. I get upset.)
sciencelab141 1 week ago
@rox14229-Uhm, sweetheart, that isn't love. Sorry.... That's a crush at most.
kopcinovic 2 weeks ago
Dear buck or anybody,
I'm 13 and I think I'm in love. Okay well there's this guy I really liked him for a while and couldn't get him out of my mind all I did was think about him well now it's a year later and I haven't seen him in a while and just the other day I ran into him the other day and all those feeling started up again and I can't get him out of my mind plzzz help anybody I'm gunna go crazy
rox14229 3 weeks ago
@rox14229 sigh... so young and so inexperienced. Don't worry. It doesnt matter much when you are 13. But the best you can do is try to go talk to him, or perhaps, add him on facebook. I think he will be flattered in any way... except if he is gay.
AlkkuProductions 1 week ago
@rox14229 you're not in love.
Zahahahara 7 hours ago
there is your problem
fweboy 4 weeks ago
@LeviathanTank I am all about people comming to terms with their looks. However, I feel like you should not be saying that you're ugly. Yes, I realize I do not know your life style choice, but if all else fails at least you should be able to think about yourself as at least good looking enough to find a "soul mate" or whatever you would like to call it.
iseestars55107 1 month ago
@LeviathanTank ......cool story bro, tell it again
monk35wm 1 month ago
I just dont care a fuck
PuddingKanaal 1 month ago
YOU LOOK OLDER THERE IS NOOOOOOOOOOO WAY YOU ARE 14!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
purplegummybear160 2 months ago
@purplegummybear160 he's not 14, he's quoting from a question that he recieved
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To Whom This May Apply: Are you feeling depressed about yourself? Well, I have something that may help you out. Everyday, when you wake up, sit on your bed and spend at least 5-10 minutes thinking POSITIVE about yourself. Think of happy things, things that make you smile. I tried this and it worked for me. There were rumors going on about me that weren't true. There are still some, but I now know that if they're fake, I don't need to worry about it. I hope it works for you!
GOOD LUCK!
narnia0100 2 months ago
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Hey guys, if you need imediate advice, email AskCalli@yahoo.com they helped me really fast and they had great advice. Thought I might premote them because they helped me so much. ;)
MsHaleyWard 2 months ago
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Dear Buck, (or anyone)
I am 11 Years and 4 months old and am in love with a girl (im a boy) and i THINK she might like me back but i am to nervous to ask her out. PLEASE HELP!!!
MalliMosh 3 months ago
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MalliMosh 3 months ago
Part of Dear Buck part 1,
The only thing stopping me from getting an eating disorder is that I love food. But when I eat too much, I feel disgusting.
chibigrunt 4 months ago
So, sex makes you gain weight O_o...?
chibigrunt 4 months ago
@chibigrunt I think they were referencing taking birth control bcuz that makes alot of girls gain weight.
mrsouthwest303 3 months ago
@mrsouthwest303 Ah, OK.
chibigrunt 3 months ago
Dear Buck part 2, I'm trying not to like this guy because he has/had the hots for my friend (she's really pretty)- and he likes girls A LOT. She doesn't see him that way and I'm TRYING not to see him that way, but he keeps popping up in my mind. I am convinced I am ugly to him. Even though he is weird, he's a good person- very religious and nice- yet I have very low self esteem. The only thing we share in common is that we share the same faith. ~KokoroComplex
chibigrunt 4 months ago
Dear Buck part 1- I can't put it in one comment T_T, I am a female and 18. I am half black and half Korean and I have gotten some compliments on my looks, but I think I am ugly. On some days, I'll look in the mirror, I think "damn, I look good," but when I'm around any people or the moment the camera comes up, I turn fugly >_<.
chibigrunt 4 months ago
@chibigrunt Everybody has that!
Some people more than others.
Just remind yourself: You are beautiful in YOUR own way!
"girls" in magazines and models are photoshopped and all that .
Don't compare yourself to others, you are on this earth to be YOU!
So be yourself and love yourself!
Positive thoughts <3
yippieyayoyo 4 months ago
@Gia i'm 12 going on 13 and have asperger's (i think i spelled it wrong) too. don't let them affect you. they just want someone to pick on and for some reason chose you. i've been bullied because of how i look (i have pink and blonde hair). so i know how you feel.
Msluvpomz 5 months ago
Buck, you are amazing for trying to help so many people! (:
riversandra101 5 months ago
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Dear buck or anyone,
Hi, my name is Jenna. I really need someones help. So i'm 13. Me and some guy named Joe liked each other for a while now, a couple months ago he told me that he missed me, and he loved me, and he wanted to talk to me more. Just a couple weeks ago i heard from my best friend Anthony that Joe likes my friend Diana. The other day at lunch my friend Monica started talking to him, now they send hearts back and forth to one another. I honestly don't know wut to do. THUMBS UP PLZ.
XxJustyTaylor4everXx 5 months ago
Dear buck or anyone,
Hi, my name is Jenna. I really need someones help. So i'm 13. Me and some guy named Joe liked each other for a while now, a couple months ago he told me that he missed me, and he loved me, and he wanted to talk to me more. Just a couple weeks ago i heard from my best friend Anthony that Joe likes my friend Diana. The other day at lunch my friend Monica started talking to him, now they send hearts back and forth to one another. I honestly don't know wut to do. THUMBS UP PLZ.
XxJustyTaylor4everXx 5 months ago
@XxJustyTaylor4everXx I'm your same age, I'm a guy, and I know SO MANY GIRLS that do that kind of stuff, but what I always tell my friends that this happens to (I help alot of girls wiht this(well atleast try) :-/) is to let it go. there are a few things you need to remember:
1) your still young! go with the flow!
2) It can ALWAYS be worse!
3) He might have thought you just wanted to be friends.
4) maybe he's a bottled-up sex freak and your friend is a slut.
hope I helped!!
smitty1ky 2 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone,
Hi. My name is Lauren. I have a question that I can't figure out on my own. My boyfriend and my best girlfriend are both running for president at my school. They're both pressuring me as to who I should vote for. What should I do!?!?!?!? Thanks and I love the show, Buck!
SpringFever1200 5 months ago
@lianneinthebigworld
AMaskedMistress 5 months ago
@lianneinthebigworld (1/2) As a Victim's Advocate here in my city, I can tell you that you've already taken the FIRST step to getting your confidence back- you got OUT of that unhealthy relationship! Stop blaming yourself for what happened. I know this is easier said that done, just remember that you're a human. We all make mistakes, it happens. You get back up and move forward, which is what you're doing.
AMaskedMistress 5 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone,
I am 13 and i always wanted to be a writer. any time i have free time i read or write. One time i told my friends that i really had a passion for that but they just laughed. i have many "free read" books and notebooks in my locker. they make faces when they see me and my locker. i wrote a 173 page book -i made a copy- and i showed them how good i could write. she took it home and threw it in the trashcan. she was my bff, but now i don't know what to do. -Leah
FuzzyBug1414 5 months ago
dear buck, Your appartment is awesome!!! I LOVE IT! your so cool and so nice. awesome advice. awesome....... SHA!
[my word is: awesome, im perty sure you have noticed :)]
randomperson889 5 months ago
dear buck. im 21 i broke up with my ex boyfriend who i lived with for 4 years last august 2010 he is now married with his bitch, ive had a couple of boyfriends after we broke up but upto now i still think about him, i still dream about him i call it nightmares, it makes me miserable and i cant focus,im anxious about something good to happen to my life and just be contented,i love my current bf though,i just feel like a loser, i need advice.. thank u
love
ross
MrManbabakal 5 months ago
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MrManbabakal 5 months ago
Dear Buck
My name is katy and im going into grade 7 at a really spoiled at bratty school! i have a lot of friends that i love very much but there are a few girls that i dont know about. They always want to know my secrets yet they dont tell me anything and these few girls never invite me to there sleepovers and the mall. This has happend to me before at my old school but i still dont know what to do. also they call me fat and ugly as a "joke" and i have NO self confidence
Please Help!!!
Katy <3
ilysm2113 5 months ago
@ilysm2113 i know this is hard but you could try and invite yourself to these or you could arrange a sleepover if it doesnt there not your true friends and do remember your only fat and ugly if you believe it yourself and if its putting you that down with your weight just asking your mum for healthier foods around the house and this helps alot just look at yourself in your mirror and focus on everything good about yourself and not the bad and this really does help to boost your self confidence
laurenisamazingx 5 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm 14 years old and I'm in a pickle... I have a group of really good friends (or so I thought) that I always hang out with. About a week ago, they all confronted me, and told me I was a freak. That I was loud, obnoxious, embarrassing, and weird. And I can admit, I am very different... But they told me that if I didn't change who I was they would ALL ditch me. I don't want to change who I am, but at the same time, I don't want to lose all of my friends. Any advice? xx
EmmaJaneIntensity 5 months ago
@EmmaJaneIntensity Honestly, you should just ditch them. If they want you to change who you are then they're not true friends. Don't worry you could always find new one's ;)
XxMelinaMarysexX 5 months ago
@EmmaJaneIntensity, im just as strange as you, if not more, i have a weird group of friends, most of them are rejects and what people call weird, but if they dont like you for you then find some more friends who support you and love you, haha. im 13 so, ya same thing as ur going thru. so this sounds cheasy, but believe in you. you sound awesome. :) awesome person, dont change. :) <3
randomperson889 5 months ago
HEY GIA. my name is gia too!! but anyywayyy.. michael (i hope i spelled that right ....probably not...whatever) is totally right that is exactly what i would say !!!:]
williamsgia 5 months ago
Dick Head
asadsprofile 5 months ago
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lol, why are all these people commenting 14 years old?
Reberi96 5 months ago
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justinbrox7782 6 months ago
@ohatcheesoftball32 personally i dislike people like you who think they have an amazing voice... However i will offer my advice. You should make some videos of yourself singing and put em on youtube(if you think your so good a good camera is a small investment of what can be your future) if that fails to work enter the x factor or american idle
TheWhizz123 6 months ago
WOW you have a wonderful apartment!!! i would love to see it haha, when i'm grown up and got a lot of money (which i hope that will happen haha) i want to have a apartment like that!
lina149 6 months ago
Dear Buck,
im 14 years old and first off i would like to say what a good thing your doing your a great person and i have so much respect for you. Life has been good lateley and i recentley realized i have feelings for my best friend and i thought that she felt the same way but one of her friends talked to her for me "wich i never do im just really nervous" and she told her that she loved me LIKE A BROTHER and i cant get over her. i would really appreciate some advice.
39jagan 6 months ago
@39jagan i am also 14 and i just had my friend do the exact same thing, got the same answer too..... but we just need to put them behind us...... i mean obvs stay close friends with her and hopefully soon she will change your mind... also i know this didnt really help and im sorry.
p.s. how long have you liked her for? and how long you guys been best friends?
KeslerisKickAss 6 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm in love with my best friend. We were dating for almost 9 months and then she decides she doesnt like me anymore. She told me that she though she was going straight.(I'm bi)She said that she wanted to try being single for a little bit . She then goes out with my other friend of the opposite gender. I felt like crap watching them be all lovey dovey and she yelled at me for it. I lost the one I love and I'm scared of losing my best friend. I don't think i can keep living like this.
afreakingzebra 6 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm in love with this boy who is 6 years older than me. BEFORE JUDGEMENT, my parents are 9 years apart and I was raised to know age is just a number.
My problem is, he has anger issues. Yesterday, he got upset when I said hi, and told me I was annoying, which he said he'd never do. I was hurt, but I left him alone. Later he called me an asshole.
I unfriended him, but now I think I made the wrong choice. HELP?
Love, Sarah <3
futurekellyclarkson 6 months ago
@futurekellyclarkson He sounds like a huge dick.
MakeOutWithMedusa 6 months ago
@futurekellyclarkson PUT HIM OUT OF YOUR MIND. don't even THINK about wasting time over someone who gets upset over something so little, and certainly not someone who calls you names.
and you made the right move by unfriending him. best of luck in finding a nice guy, and DFTBA!
mirosango14 6 months ago
@HPGleek013 I'm no expert, but there is actually a mental condition that causes people to pull their hair out. If you've ever seen "My Life on the D-List", Kathy's manager Tom (I think that's his name) pulls his hair (usually his eyebrows or eye lashes) out when he's stressed. It's called Trichotillomania, but if you're really concerned, you need to talk to your doctor.
SaturnMojo 6 months ago
dear buck, congrats on 50 episodes!
i'm 15 & over the year i worked my butt off to lose 54lbs & got highlights. the issue is that my body has changed but my mind hasnt caught up yet. I've been told that i'm pretty but my mind is still in that dark place and refuses to let me accept it. Now i have boys flirting with me and people telling me that they're jealous of my looks. I dont want to be arrogant, i just want some help with getting my mind to catch up & gaining the confidence to go with it
TheHeartNeverLies442 6 months ago
Dear Buck, Heyy, I am 13 and, I have been in 2 talent shows at my school, and one won and got 2nd in the other, and I sing, and I have gotten to the point where I'm fed up just sitting here with this amazing voice. But my real question is, how do I get someone to discover me! I will do anything!
ohatcheesoftball32 6 months ago
im that pretty fun girl that people wanna spend time with....
i wish :( lol
crashingwaves09 6 months ago
dear buck or anyone,
i stayed with my boyfriend who lives in a different state for about a week and a half. my boyfriend has diabetes and hasn't been doing very well. while i was there, him and his mom got in a fight and she said that it was my fault that his diabetes is acting up. it seems like she liked me better before i was dating her son, but i really want her to like me now.
what do i do to show her that i'm right for her son, and that i want to help him with his diabetes?
thank you!
rubyyoo1 6 months ago
This goes out to people who cut themselves, I don't understand how people say cutting helps them release emotional pain when all that cutting is doin. Is Harming ur self. And makes u feel pain.. So some one explain how does it feel to cut..
Steph199612 6 months ago
@Steph199612 i used to self-harm, and i can honestly say, it helps in the moment. the physical pain makes you forget about the emotional pain that you're already feeling.. it's kinda' like alcohol, or weed.. in the moment, you don't remember anything else that's wrong, but once the "high" of it is over, nothing's really changed.
rubyyoo1 6 months ago
@Steph199612
The whole thing about cutting is the control. You cant control how other people feel about you or treat you, but you can control the scars on your arms.
randomlyfresh23 6 months ago
@HPGleek013 Its actually a diesease called Trichotillomania . Google That diesease and choose kids health i would ahve attached a link but it wouldnt let me
Read up and confort ur mom or father. As it not ur fault.
Love Jossie 13 yrs old Recovering
JonesGal14 6 months ago
@petpet She should know better. I would just say I'm going to wear what I want and she needn't be so rude.
mert828 6 months ago
im that pretty girl that everybody loves :) lol
THEnarwhal1234 6 months ago
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Dear Buck, I cut myself sometimes. I want to stop but I feel like I need help. Everyone thinks of me as a happy bubbly person and they dont notice when im hurting inside. When I do it feels like I'm letting some of my emotional pain out. My family put me down a lot, and I'm embarressed to tell anyone about what I'm doing. Please give this thumbs up because I know this an issue that a lot of people have. Thanks.
YelenaRoX 6 months ago
@YelenaRoX i don't know if your lying cuz you said give me thumbs up but if your not i'm sorry and this what you should do STOP CUTING YOUR SELF! tell somebody tell your friend or your mom or anybody cuting your self does noting for you
alexistheawsome1 6 months ago
@alexistheawsome1 im not lying i want thumbs up so buck will see the comment. I cant tell my mum because she would go crazy if she knew. The only friend I could tell also cuts. But thanks for helping :)
YelenaRoX 6 months ago
@YelenaRoX okay you and your friend should stop cuting your selfs it not helping you or her/him and you mum might go crazy but any mom would go crazy about it you should tell your mom or dad you can't cut your self it not helping you what so ever sorry if i'm not helping
alexistheawsome1 6 months ago
@alexistheawsome1 I really CANT tell my parents and cutting gets rid of some of my emotional pain :/
YelenaRoX 6 months ago
@YelenaRoX -sighs-okay
alexistheawsome1 6 months ago
DB or anyone;
I'm 14 and have a close group of friends. They are cool but for a while they've been saying I'm a lesbian. Not that theres anything wrong with being one, but it does upset me, as its obvious they're trying to annoy me so they can seem cool. Most of the time they are me best friends but then they start writing it on walls and telling everyone I know. I tried talking to them calmly like you suggest in your video's but they just ignore me. Is there any way I can get them to stop?
Frazzle48 6 months ago
@Frazzle48 I'm not sure what to say, but when i had short hair people often called me a lesbian. If you've tried talking to them, it's proboly time to slowly move away from them. Maybe try asking out a guy? i'm really not sure, but I hope this helps. : )
MsChimmtastic 6 months ago
@Frazzle48 they are NOT your friends if they where they won't do that to you
alexistheawsome1 6 months ago
DB or anyone
I'm 14 and have a group of close friends. They are awesome but for a while they've been saying I'm a lesbian. Not that theres anything wrong with being lesbian, but It does upset me, as its obvious they're trying to annoy me so they can seem cool. Most of the time they are my best friends but then they start writing it on walls and tell everyone I know. I tried talking to them calmly, like you suggested in your videos but they ignore me. Is there any way I can get them to stop?
Frazzle48 6 months ago
@Frazzle48 get new friends trust me your wasting your time with them. you might not think so now but when you get into highchool you'll see how they really arnt your friends. Same shit happened to me -_-
WPJonny 6 months ago
Dear Buck,
I recently found out my boyfriend would be moving to America (we currently live in England) after we finish High School for a gap year, we have been together for over a year now. I don't know if or how this could work out. Please help, can you see a solution for us?
HoldOutHope 6 months ago
@Theartofhearts hi high school is not scary and if you don't know anyone is a clean slate go on make new friends
mrsraddliffe 6 months ago
dear buck, Last week I found out my best friend has cancer. 5 days ago my friend died of abuse. Last month my 4 year old cousin was diagnosed with diabetes. And lastly I just found out my best friend in the whole world is in the hospital and could die next week. I know this sounds made up but it's not. I'm only 13 and im not good with death or bad news. I have started to get depressed and cut and I don't know what to do to help me get threw this. Also I have been thinking about suicide.(plz thu
SuperBVBArmy 6 months ago
@SuperBVBArmy please, look on the upside of your friends death. they're in a better place. your cousin will be fine, as long as their parents are careful. your best friend has you, be there for them. even if they do die, stay by their side til the end. try to stop cutting yourself, and by all means, do NOT commit suicide, it'll only make everyone in your life who loves you hurt. talk to your parents, try to get help
marshmellowsunite 6 months ago
dear buck
I'm hated on 2 sites cuz of ONE girl i hated her first but i never talkd about her or anything and she talks about me to EVERY ONE and she join the same site i am and she made my life an living hell and she made ppl on the another site hate me even more
and she keep telling ppl im, a bitch and ppl hate me cuz of it and abuch of ppl won't stop being mean to be cuz of it and now i lost all my friends cuz of her what do i do? thanks
alexistheawsome1 6 months ago
@alexistheawsome1 you should talk to her in a regular manner and say "y r u sayin stuff about me?i never did anything to u."try to cooperate and sort things out.she might be going through some rough stuff at home.if i doesn't work out then then block her out on the sites so she wont be able to research you or comment about you.i hope everything works out.
olympian00 6 months ago
@olympian00 i can't do that she a mod on the site and nobody has the balls to say anything to her but thanks for tryin to help :)
alexistheawsome1 6 months ago
@alexistheawsome1 sorry for saying balls i was just p off that all sorry
alexistheawsome1 6 months ago
@Kmacmuzikmafia27
Not really all the people in my class are all outgoing like you said I usually am too but since I came to secondary school alone I got more and more quiet.
I'm so sorry that you had to move after you had settled in.
UhhhhHey123 6 months ago
@Theartofhearts The key is not to be shy! (: xoxo
Theguitargirl97 6 months ago
Dear Buck,
i have a really big problem. I think that i'm pregnant (since i had to get my period two weeks ago and i still don't have it) i did use protection last time, and i have no idea what to do now. I'm really afraid that i AM pregnant. Please help me, i don't dare it to talk with anyone about it.
PLEASE HELP
tallagm 6 months ago
@tallagm take a test to know for sure. Stress can also pospone your period.
miezziej 6 months ago
Dear Buck, I cut myself sometimes. I want to stop but I feel like I need help. Everyone thinks of me as a happy bubbly person and they dont notice when im hurting inside. When I do it feels like I'm letting some of my emotional pain out. My family put me down a lot, and I'm embarressed to tell anyone about what I'm doing. Please give this thumbs up because I know this an issue that a lot of people have. Thanks.
YelenaRoX 6 months ago 15
@YelenaRoX suicide is not the answer. talk to me anytime! i love you! its alright! your beautiful!
Allypuppyluver 4 months ago
@YelenaRoX If you're really suicidal, this may also help- regardless of your beliefs (and I don't mean in a religious context) watch?v=nGceaonO0Rk and the suicide hotline (which she also mentions).
chibigrunt 4 months ago
One more thing: Georgie is the bomb ;)
kmacmuzikmafia27 6 months ago
It's scary knowing how many young people are suicidal. Please don't. Do whatever you can to get over it! I'm 17, can't stand my body, completely alone, besides family. Sometimes I want to break down and STOP, just stop, and never leave the house again.
But I have to. There's hope somewhere in me, don't know where the hell it came from, but I'm not some weak little shy girl anymore. My mom attempted suicide, and what I felt following the ambulance to the ER? I will *never* do that to her.
kmacmuzikmafia27 6 months ago 5
@kmacmuzikmafia27 hope your ok!
natalieharding1993 4 months ago
To Vanessa: Currently I'm 14, being this age is what makes crazy. The hormones are crazy, but just know you're not alone(: Love yourself because you're awesome(: People create labels, don't indulge them by applying those labels(:
k8LUVSshane 6 months ago
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kenmarinofan 6 months ago
Dear buck am 15 and I feel like my parents ignore my feelings and just don't care sometimes I have cut myself and write my feelings down in book. I don't want to cut but it helps and that makes me sad I feel like till this feeling that my parents don't care is over it's is my only option. I just need another options.
Dizzygirl564 6 months ago
dear buck, when i was in primary school i was friends with everyone in my class i had a close group of friends too but 2 years ago i went to secondary school my mom sent me to one that none of my friends went to and i protested but could do nothing. all of my old friends made new friends and barely talk to me anymore. i didnt make any new friends and i still havent. my mom says i still could if i tried but i know its hopeless now. please help i dont kno what to do from rachel in ireland ps i<3u
UhhhhHey123 6 months ago
@UhhhhHey123
Same thing happened to me. I'm a loner, very shy, so it takes me forever to connect with people and make friends. They were usually the really loud, outgoing people who weren't exactly popular, but not unpopular either. Is there anyone like that at your school? Do you have at least one person to talk to in each class?
I'm extremely quiet, so it's pretty amazing I even managed to make acquaintances. Once I started to open up, I felt a lot better :)
And then we moved. FML.
kmacmuzikmafia27 6 months ago
@UhhhhHey123 Have u tried being open and happy walking around school? Walk around with confidence, shoot a smile at people u see and seem friendly :) Walk around n try to get to know some people! How did u meet ur last friends? Try the same thing. If that doesn't work, join some local school or community clubs that u could make friends in along the way. :)
KaityT97 6 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone, I have had thoughts of suicied and being dead. I have know idea why. Please can you help me get rid of these thoughs?
Makani001 6 months ago
Dear Buck, i don't have a personal facebook account, and i don't want one, but my friends keep on posting embarrasing photos of me on there without my permission and it feels like it's every day that someone says, "hey check out this photo of you..." and they refuse to take it off. u know flagging does nothing.
kristy1097 6 months ago
@kristy1097 That's the exact thing that happens to me! I hate it too and It is very rude to not take the pics off. If it gets really bad you should go to the parents. I know that you think you'll be a tattle tale or whatever but if they are refusing to take them off, get different friends, it's rude.
thatonerockerchic 6 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone c: I'm a very nice girl, whose very kind. Even though everyone seems to like me, No one really accepted me as a "good friend" in middle school. I'm a little quiet and a little shy but I get along with people well! I just came from a Catholic Middle school that only had 100 Students, Now I'm about to go to a public High School. Can You, Buck, or anyone please give me advice on how to make friends easier or any tips about not being nervous for the first day?
Love Marlena
zomgdinosuar 6 months ago
@zomgdinosuar I think a lot of people will be kind of nervous going to high school but i think you should be yourself also SMILE :) people will notice you and this will also portray the nice person you are.You could also join any after school that you are interested in which will help you meet people and you will also have something in common with them. I'm sure you will find friend who like you for who you are :) Good luck at your new school and all the best :D xx
XXawesomeosaurusXX 6 months ago
@zomgdinosuar
Hey Marlena!
The best thing you can do to make friends at a new school is to reach out to others and just be friendly. You can't wait for other people to come and talk to you because it may not happen as quickly as you'd like. Another thing you should definitely consider is joining in on extra curricular activities like sports and clubs. It's really a great way to make new friends who have similar interests to you!
Best of luck!
blakeisno1 6 months ago
Dear buck. im 12 and my dad died about a month ago and now my mum fights and is very deprest i have tried killing my self and righting letters in my arm. and smoking and getting drunk. please buck tell me what to do. at the moment i have no one i wish u could help me coz i watch your show al ot and you seem to have a magic touch to help people like me in need i love your show and hope to hear from you soon.. love chris xox
venturesarered 6 months ago
DB,i have been depressed twice before during the winter and i think they were legit depressions.i was doing research recently on depression and found SAD and i had most of the symptoms.i'm afraid i'm going to be depressed again this winter and don't wanna go through it all again. during the depressions i cut, had major social withdrawals, and didn't eat much. i'm 14 and don't know if i should tell my parents ... they didn't know i was depressed. PLEASE help!
& thumbs up so he can see pleaseeeee
MichexxStylez 6 months ago 56
@MichexxStylez i think you should tell your parents because parents can help you get through it and get you a therapist or something. why do you get depressed in the winter ?
snookieboo69 6 months ago
@MichexxStylez I've had a friend who had SAD syndrome and he got a specific light that would give him the vitamins he needed to fight it. By my understanding, SAD is caused by not getting the vitamins from the sun that are needed (since we are inside so much during the winter and the sun isn't up as much). Maybe this could be an option for you? They're expensive but it could be totally worth it for you! Hope that helps! :)
scrttn 6 months ago
@MichexxStylez I had Social Anxiety Disorder... I'm also always here if you want to talk about it because I do lots of things for awarness of anxiety disorders & such.. Good luck ♥ ~ Amber
iiTzAmberMarie 6 months ago
@MichexxStylez
I think I have the same thing. I'm 17. Every school year starts amazingly in Sept.: good grades, I'm more social, feeling good. Then near winter, it derails. Something usually triggers it, could be anything. But either way...something effs my brain up, and it's happened for 4 years. I've repeated 9th grade twice because I couldn't get through it.
I have social anxiety and depression, but now I wonder: seasonal affective disorder? Maybe.
kmacmuzikmafia27 6 months ago
@MichexxStylez depression sucks so bad. i know what you mean, my first extreme depression was when i was 11 O.O i almost felt like killing myself. but then i watched The Office, and felt better
duckcluck123 6 months ago
@MichexxStylez You may have seasonal depression. It usually occures durring a specific season or time. Best thing you can do is get professional help.
eo2525 6 months ago
@MichexxStylez tell your parents, and seek medical attention. depression's a horrible thing to have, my mom has it. good luck
marshmellowsunite 6 months ago
@MichexxStylez hi there! i have a friend who goes through the same thing as you do. But you know you're depressed, and you know you don't want to be. That's good! I think you should tell your parents. They can get you medication, or if you dont want it at least help you somehow. Besides telling your parents you should surround yourself with close friends who can help you to feel better, to make you laugh and be there for you getting you to eat and helping you to not cut. Feel better <3
minibubblesxox 6 months ago
@MichexxStylez If ur too afraid to tell ur parent's, try going to some friends before it flairs up again. Tell them what happened and ask them for help. Let them know that u need it and you need their support to b able to tell ur parents. But b4 winter comes, it'd probably be best if u DID tell ur parents because I'm sure no one wants anything tragic to happen to you (i know i don't :) ) so try talking to a friend or trusted adult if ur cool with any.
KaityT97 6 months ago
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cheerflyerjillian 5 months ago
@MichexxStylez Winter depression is surprisingly common
LunaAumento 4 months ago
@KHproduvtionsYO u shud definitely audition because if u don't u will always wonder wud I hav gotten it
fc7777fc 6 months ago
@monchiblonchi when u say don't go heavy on the eyeliner wat do u consider heavy
fc7777fc 6 months ago
Dear Buck,
I have just began reconnecting with an old male friend of mine. We were practically best friends when we were about 10 but then we stopped talking. We're now both in our teens and now that we're hanging out again we find that we're attracted to each other. I admitted to finding him attractive but at the same time I feel dating might ruin our friendship again. He continues to make moves on me, but im not sure if i should risk it. What should I do? Love, A huge fan
ThePaintedBlue 6 months ago
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the0turtle0is0carl 6 months ago
Dear Buck, I've recently found out about a talent search, which some of my favorite artists are promoting. I love to sing, and always liked writing poems and lyrics because words come easily to me. I don't know if I should try out though because I don't think my voice is very good, I can't play any instruments, and my look isn't exactly 'star' quality. Should I even audition or not?
-HKC
KHproductionsYO 6 months ago
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KHproductionsYO 6 months ago
Dear Buck (or anyone), My brother is a senior in high school and terribly, terribly shy. He is also a very talented artist and has shown interest an art college a few hours away from home. I know he doesn't like school at the moment and acts like doesn't want to leave home, but I'm sure this would be good for him. How can I get him motivated to look into this more? Do you have any tips on being less shy? -Hanna
jasperhalefan138 6 months ago 3
@theplanetofme can u plzzzzz answer my question below
fc7777fc 6 months ago
Hey guys, I totally love Buck, and I'm not hating, but I know that he gets a lot of emails, and he can't answer them all, so that is why I have opened my channel to anyone who feels they need immediate advice, just send me a message, and I will post a video of my advice :).
theplanetofme 6 months ago
Dear Buck or Anyone,
I'm 11 turning 12 and I think I'm ready to wear make up. I know how to put it on and wat looks good on me so I know I won't look like a clown. It's not because my best friend wears make up it's because I really enjoy it (wearing make up). I just don't know how to ask my mom if I can be allowed to wear it. Please help :), Frankki
fc7777fc 6 months ago
@fc7777fc i think you should start small with they make up with mascara , lipstick , eyeliner. but dont go to heavy on the eyeliner . i think your mom would agree a little of lip stick and mascara . just dont do eye shadows , foundation and all that heavy stuff cuz i think she will say no to that cuz if you say hey mom can i wear makeup she will think all the heavy stuff , so just start small thats how i did it . soo this are just some of my tips for you .
monchiblonchi 6 months ago
@fc7777fc Heyy! (:
First of all you need to ask your Mum. If she says no don't worry. I didn't start wearing makeup till I was 13 and when your older it wont matter. If she says yes you should: wear only mascara and lipgloss by day /and if you're pale some blusher but very little) and if you like go out at night or something like that you should wear some mascara a bit of eyeliner and some liploss. Good luck xoxo
Theguitargirl97 6 months ago
Dear Buck,
Last year I found one of my cousins on facebook. He lives an hour away, so I invited him to the carnival with me, he brought his friend Tucker with him. I got his number and now we text everyday. He has only had two girlfriends before and he doesnt know when you flirting and what not. I wanna show him I like him, but I dont wanna just be like " I LIKE YOU NOW DATE ME, (as you would say) BITCH!" He's so cute and I think he likes me, but i dont know.
HELP!!!
avery7100 6 months ago
@avery7100 Ask him if he'd like to go get a pizza or see a movie, it's more casual than dinner and all that xoxo
Theguitargirl97 6 months ago
dear buck, there was a boy named danny cox who lived in my town who was paralized last year from a diving accident. he was only 19. recently he was in a car accident and he died. he was the only one in the car, and a lot of people thing it was sucide. i had only talked to him for a couple times, but for some reason his death is making me super depressed, and itspretty much all i think about. please tell me good ways to get over it. thanks. rip danny cox
woodstockroxify 6 months ago
Dear buck, i recently set my girl friend up with a nice guy, and they hit it off. But he often texts me in a slightly flirty tone. I respond in one word answers(which makes me feel like a jerk) and i dont want to hurt my friends feelings by telling her, because she likes him a lot. To top it off, the guy i like and have been txting has a girlfriend he never talks about. Xo help me buck! Ps this is the third guy whose affections i have turned down. Am i ungrateful?
Pinkbug14 6 months ago
Dear Buck, Im 16 and from just outside of Los Angeles, California. For as long as I can remember, all I have ever wanted is to go to New York. My father has been and so has my brother on his 8th grade school trip (on mine, it was the first time in 20 years that they took New York out, only to add it back the next year). Its the only thing I dream of but my parents are getting sick of my constant asking to go. I dont know what to do, I get so emotional just thinking about it. What do I do?
Katie
GLINDAnELPHABA 6 months ago
Btw my name is Shelby p.
XXXXSandOOOOS 6 months ago
Dear buck,
I think I might be depressed. I was always very close to my grandfather ( my papa). A couple years ago there was fighting in the family, and he basically abandoned us, choosing his company over his family. No one knows my feelings, and it seems I'm the only one hurt by this. I think I've been on and off depressed for almost 2 years, and I really need some advise and someone to tell me it's gonna be ok, but I'm not ready to talk to my family.
Ps. I also sent u an email w/ more detail
XXXXSandOOOOS 6 months ago
Oops guess it was too long! I'll make a sorter version :P
XXXXSandOOOOS 6 months ago
Oops! My comment was too long, guess they cut it off :P. I'll make a shorter version :P
XXXXSandOOOOS 6 months ago
Dear Buck,
My name is Shelby and I'm 15 and going into grade 11. I'm having some troubles at home, and I think I might be depressed. I'v had these feelings in one shape or form on and off for about 1 1/2 years, but no one knows about it. The main reason this started was an argument that has been going on for a while between my grandfather and the rest of my family. No one even explained to me what this argument was about or why, but in fall 2009 our family just kind of fell apart. All the info
XXXXSandOOOOS 6 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone, There is these girls in my class and I hate them they are the RUDEST people I know me and my friends that are in my class also feel the same way. We have told my teacher and she seems just to be on there sides.And one of the girls has threatened to punch one of are special classmates because he wouldn't move from the window when he was there first. Plz help I can't stand another year with them. Love Demetra
iliketolaugh21 6 months ago
Dear Buck,
Hi my name is Ashley.I was in the hospital on Monday because I was having stomach pains.I'm 14 and I learned that I have a problem with my "lady parts.
I was informed that because of this problem that I will never be able to have children.I know at 14 I shouldn't be thinking about having kids but this depresses me very much because I wanted to have kids when I got older but now I know it's impossible.What should I do to help get over this?I have no one to talk to plz help!Thanks.
XXXtinkerbelle13XXX 6 months ago 2
dear buck or anyone else, i am a 14 year old girl turning 15 and i'm going into a new school and ill be a freshman, i don't know a lot of people there besides this one girl who my family doesn't approve of because she's had 20 ex boyfriends (she's 15) and i like her but my family feels like she will rub off on me or i'll be labeled easy like her, but she is an awesome girl and i don't want to stop being her friend what should i do? thank you -rylie (please thumbs up so buck see's this)
missanonymous57 6 months ago 2
@missanonymous57 Just be yourself, be friendly, and smile a lot. Show that you're confident. Join clubs or try out for sports if that's your thing. You'll be fine hun. :) And as for the girl, you're parents can't choose who you hang out with. As for her rubbing off on you, you get to choose what you do. Don't worry :)
14Mailin 6 months ago
dear buck im a 13year old boy from norway im gay and my life is really complicated right now. recently i've met a boy on fb, who i have found a really good tone with, we love each other and would love to meet etc. but just yesterday a new boy have been contacting me (11) saying im cute and stuff. he asked me if i found him cute, and i replied, yes. no he thinks that i love him and keeps asking me if i would ever cheat on him.. i dont know what to do because hes so young (dont wanna be with him
coolgeek75 6 months ago 2
Dear Buck or anyone,
i'm 14 years old,i love fan girling over stupid things,Disney or harry potter related. but at times i dont feel like my mother supports me.She laughs and snickers at the little things i do.Like the other week i got back from AC Moore to pick up stuff for a doll that im making. she always laughs at me and tells me how dumb i am for spending money on "crap" i dont need.i keep telling her to let me do my own thing. she still laughs and it really hurts.
what do i do?
-stephanie
hellokittysmileyface 6 months ago
Dear Buck,
Im starting college in about a week and I have to drive my friend cause she's 18 and doesn't have her license. She's had her permit for 3 years and has rarely gone to practice driving. She tells me she hates driving a lot and only does it because she has to. It's not even like she's bad at driving, Ive heard nothing but praise from her mother. How do I help my friend become more confident with her driving so she can be more independent instead of relying on me or her mother? ~Meredith
animefans49 6 months ago
dear Buck. Well, i am like the "perfect girl" , the most of guys like me, the girls tell me that im so pretty, and they wanna be like me,my dad like's music so i sing and play the piano,for my mom i read a lot.,i'm always the 1st place in everything (cooking, acting,draw,almost every subject) but now i just fell alone, eny of my "friends" answer my calls and the other day i try to kill my self whit drugs but i just wake up and in my arm was the world "alone" i don't now wath to do for be happy ?
damgedroses 6 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone, Im Summer I'm 14 . My best friend Savannah who I've know for 3 years. She recently began smoking and making other bad chocies. I don't know how to react. I told my self that I wouldn't hang out with people like that no matter what the cost but I know the real her under all the fake-ness. I don't want to just stop talking to her cuz she is one of my best friends but I also don't want that influence around me. Please help I don't know what to do.
TheStalkerNinja 6 months ago
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misscallitoff 6 months ago
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misscallitoff 6 months ago
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Buck please help me!!!! I was diagnosed with epilepsy when I was 8 and am now 20. I have tried almost all the medicines there are & have a vns implant. It was working for the first 10 months but now my seizures are increasing. I know you aren't a doctor, but what can I do to take my mind off of all this stress & sadness & frustration I am dealing with?!?! Love, Jena Please like this status so buck sees it pleaseeeeee!!!
misscallitoff 6 months ago
Buck please help me!!!! I was diagnosed with epilepsy when I was 8 and am now 20. I have tried almost all the medicines there are & have a vns implant. It was working for the first 10 months but now my seizures are increasing. I know you aren't a doctor, but what can I do to take my mind off of all this stress & sadness & frustration I am dealing with?!?! Love, Jena Please like this status so buck sees it pleaseeeeee!!!
misscallitoff 6 months ago
Dear Buck: My name is Jenny and I am 18 years old. This morning I found out that my grandpa passed during the night.. he has been in the hospital for over a month with cancer. Although his death did not come as a shock, I'm not sure how to feel - if anything I am confused. I have been so lucky in my life and this is the first death that I have ever encountered. So my question is how have you dealt with death?
gilmoregal84 6 months ago
@gilmoregal84 Hey Jenny! I know how you're feeling right now. I'm only 14, but I've been through that stuff. My Dad passed a way when I was 8, and for the first year even, I didn't feel anything but confused. I only cried at the hospital, and after that, nothing. Only 2 years after it happened did it start to hit me that he was dead and there was nothing i could do about it. You're going to have that "confused" feeling for a while, but the tears could come later. I'm sorry for your loss!
shadowblade145 6 months ago
Dear Buck; I'm 24 years old and my grandpa passed away three months ago and I have been having a hard time getting over the loss of him in my life. He was like my father figure since my dad was not around much and he was the one that gave me my love of history and goal of becoming a teacher but now I a hard time even finding the love I once had for anything that reminds me of him. My family says this is normal but how does one know when they are still grieving or if they are truly lost? Amanda
BriyerRose 6 months ago
Dear Buck I'm 14 years old and caught in a family fight,
My mum & my aunt(my mum's sister)are no longer talking, so my mum, dad & I were going to visit my gran for her birthday but my aunt was there and my mum refused to come in, so I started saying real calmly that she's my aunt I don't care if you two are no longer talking you cant stop me from seeing her, my mum then started screaming at me in the street & threatened to call social services about me
what do I do?
Love and Hugs
Jillian x
TheRandomdancer101 6 months ago 2
@TheRandomdancer101
I was in a similar situation with my mom and her sister! They had gotten in a fight about something and it caused them not to speak for 6 months. My advice is to have an open talk with your mom. Make sure she's in a good mood beforehand, and do it at a café or something. Also, try not to go in seeming like you're attacking her, start off with "Mom, I know that this is hard for you, and I would really like to hear your side of the story." (to be continued in another post...)
zizzie558 6 months ago
@TheRandomdancer101
Hopefully, your mom will realize that you're not against her and you can eventually breach the subject of talking with your aunt. That's what happened with me, anyway! I had an open, honest chat with my mom, and she ended up telling me that she wouldn't stop me from seeing/speaking with my aunt. Just hang on, I promise it'll get better! Best of luck to you!
zizzie558 6 months ago
DB, I sent you a message awhile ago about my parents who died and my sick dog that my parents got me before they left for Iraq. Addy is AMAZING NOW! I appreciate all the prayers and help he had to go through Kimo-therapy for about 8 months and now he is fine. There are still things that he can't do, but atleast I have him. Thank you EVERYONE. Please like this so that way I know Michael has seen it! Michael please read this so I know that you have seen my appretiation for everything!
~Chasity
PrestonTheCrow 6 months ago 101
@PrestonTheCrow Glad everything is going fine <3
14Mailin 6 months ago