if i ever found out someone did that to my kids....i wud kill the person responsible in the most horrible way and leave him dead on the streets....no parents desirves go to thru that kinda pain
if you really want to locate someone, leave those posters at a boozecan=speakeasy. and the legal bars and pool halls. if you can afford it, hiring a proven private eye wouldnt hurt. with him, the cops, and the dudes in the bars lookin around, you might find the one you seek.
predators are hunters of the weak and careless. when women are out alone they must have the alert eyes of a marine on patrol! you are a target! let the enemy know they gonna lose theyr fuckin balls if they touch you!!
If you notice I never said forget... but at this point one has to "let it go"... Carl's family does'nt know where she is and Becky's mother has gone to the point of digging up other peoples graves to see if her daughter in under them.... And what medical problems she had: gastric bypass surgery?
And yes I have experienced not the loss, but the same situation; a cousin who eventually left the "love of her life" after he smashed her face not once but three times... eventually like Beckys mother said you get 'sick and tired' of dealing with it and seeing her go back to the same situation ...
Maybe its time for the family to have a burial/memorial w/o the body and let her go...
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This story was featured on 20/20 recently as well... and its time for the mother to just let it go... if carl did it he's dead [and so is becky as well] They will probably never find her body [and yes that sucks] but harrasing Carl's family who had nothing to do with Carl's murder of Becky is just wrong and just extends the pain of this tragedy infinitum
And Becky's mother seems to be a bit of a media whore about this tragedy, notice how she's in shape now between this and the 20/20 interview
She's not "in shape" now. She had a severe medical problem, required surgeries, and everything that she has gone through has affected her weight as well. And to those who knew and loved Becky, it is impossible to forget that she is now completely 100% gone from our lives. How are you supposed to forget something like that? Obviously you have never experienced what it's like to lose a loved one to something other than a natural, expected death. For your sake, I hope you never learn.
Ofcourse you can't let go if you do not know what exactly happened or where she is. I am also suspicious of the boyfriend. It would not have been the first time a boyfriend did something to his girlfriend. The problem is that he is dead and can't ever tell something anymore. I think the chances will be slim to find her know and that will be eating. I wish strength.
@antigone414 I agree with you. I don't have children and am very laid back but I do not know what I'd do if my child just came up missing. Unfortunately there are a lot of "Carls" out there and that is the sad part of this story.
if i ever found out someone did that to my kids....i wud kill the person responsible in the most horrible way and leave him dead on the streets....no parents desirves go to thru that kinda pain
moliekilla 11 months ago
Her father actually seemed a little cold. Check him out...
0oAndAnotherOneo0 1 year ago
very sad story! wheres the bf carl? my bet is he most likely killed her.
as for shutuphooker stop being disrespectful to her MUM! the poor lady cannot let it go, it is her child for damn sake!
NatashaWatters 1 year ago
@NatashaWatters Carl killed himself a couple of years ago, and denied it til the end, so we may never find out. :(
antigone414 1 year ago
@NatashaWatters guess now she ain't gonna be struttin' dat ass....
NosyMcGee 1 year ago
This is so sad. I was just watching the story on Tyra i hope she finds something. Anything so her daughter can R.I.P
CartomartaKenDoll 1 year ago
if you really want to locate someone, leave those posters at a boozecan=speakeasy. and the legal bars and pool halls. if you can afford it, hiring a proven private eye wouldnt hurt. with him, the cops, and the dudes in the bars lookin around, you might find the one you seek.
acerb45666555 2 years ago
predators are hunters of the weak and careless. when women are out alone they must have the alert eyes of a marine on patrol! you are a target! let the enemy know they gonna lose theyr fuckin balls if they touch you!!
acerb45666555 2 years ago
If you notice I never said forget... but at this point one has to "let it go"... Carl's family does'nt know where she is and Becky's mother has gone to the point of digging up other peoples graves to see if her daughter in under them.... And what medical problems she had: gastric bypass surgery?
ShutUpH00ker 3 years ago
And yes I have experienced not the loss, but the same situation; a cousin who eventually left the "love of her life" after he smashed her face not once but three times... eventually like Beckys mother said you get 'sick and tired' of dealing with it and seeing her go back to the same situation ...
Maybe its time for the family to have a burial/memorial w/o the body and let her go...
ShutUpH00ker 3 years ago
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This story was featured on 20/20 recently as well... and its time for the mother to just let it go... if carl did it he's dead [and so is becky as well] They will probably never find her body [and yes that sucks] but harrasing Carl's family who had nothing to do with Carl's murder of Becky is just wrong and just extends the pain of this tragedy infinitum
And Becky's mother seems to be a bit of a media whore about this tragedy, notice how she's in shape now between this and the 20/20 interview
ShutUpH00ker 3 years ago
She's not "in shape" now. She had a severe medical problem, required surgeries, and everything that she has gone through has affected her weight as well. And to those who knew and loved Becky, it is impossible to forget that she is now completely 100% gone from our lives. How are you supposed to forget something like that? Obviously you have never experienced what it's like to lose a loved one to something other than a natural, expected death. For your sake, I hope you never learn.
antigone414 3 years ago 8
Ofcourse you can't let go if you do not know what exactly happened or where she is. I am also suspicious of the boyfriend. It would not have been the first time a boyfriend did something to his girlfriend. The problem is that he is dead and can't ever tell something anymore. I think the chances will be slim to find her know and that will be eating. I wish strength.
Shahla33 2 years ago
@antigone414 I agree with you. I don't have children and am very laid back but I do not know what I'd do if my child just came up missing. Unfortunately there are a lot of "Carls" out there and that is the sad part of this story.
ekocentric 1 year ago
To: antigone414
Good clip. It makes you wonder if more can be done to help in this extremely important effort.
By posting this clip, YOU are surely helping!
1Axeman1 3 years ago
thats so sad...
Osaka13 4 years ago