Good Man

[SoLady1]

Love your videos! 

[313youngp87]

How do you know when a woman is feeling a man?

[5959512]

@RECONIIIZE holy shit are you serious?!?! it's like a rare bird lol jk I'm actually a nice guy too, just bored messing around on youtube lol

[5959512]

@RECONIIIZE I am a man......thats how I know they don't exist. If you knew how guys talked about girls behind their back you would be sick. Every girl I've ever met thought i was the sweetest guy. It's all because nice guys(like myself) know how to get in your pants by telling you what you want to hear. There are no good men just good actors.

[5959512]

there are no good men, just good actors

[Moviesmoveme]

The happiness is just radiating from your eyes, and that was what made this video beautiful!!

Thank you.

[cricketsmomma]

Shay you are every woman inspiration. I have been rewatching your videos for about a year and a half now. as I went on my dates the men came and went There was this one who I couldn`t read. We have been going on dates now for 5 months. I have followed every single rule..And know what he told me the other day.I am happy getting to know you and not whats under your cloths. he is still here and waiting for when I am ready. I still havent kissed him nore have we been intimate. Thank you! xox

[MasuseDeMojo]

You make a lot of good sense. I can only pray that most brothers and sisters will listen. you talk about things I have known for many years! Thank you!!

[SexyladyMylissa]

Loved the kiss at the end! <3

[chorizapeke]

To good to be true.

[05Godschild]

All of your videos are GREAT! This one was AWESOME! Thanks sooo much for sharing your wisdom....and my God bless you and your marraige!!!

[chunkystylecookie]

That kiss was beautiful at the end... everything you said was the truth and Im glad that you found true love :)

[Minordd3]

tjking31,

Your hopes and wishes don't matter. The Lord has all control. But if saying that negative statement made u feel good. Then I'm so sorry for you. You obviously are lonely and live a sad life. :(

Many blessings Shay!!!!!!

[missenamina]

This is so encouraging! I'm waiting for my book to arrive!

[sugathickchick]

what a man, what a man, what a man, what a mighty good man!!!!

[Texas903G]

aww look at that so beautiful and encouraging because shay there are a lot of single parent women and men who just want to be loved and give love in return.

[BlackLadyDiana]

Awe|That was too cute at the end|

[ARDENCY06]

Wow Shay! this was very encouraging. thank you.

[yourdreamgirl87]

this is beautiful. your an inspiration.

[dimebeats]

SHAY LOOK GOOD. OK BAK TO THE TOPIC.

[zee2011]

i have been watching ur videos 4 a while now .. its just 2day that i saw this. im only 20 years, last ni8 i told my friend that i gave up after going through alot of crab. but 2day at 7am i watched this video and u gave me hope! :) thank u so much.

is your book available in Asia yet?

[lovein30days]

Thanks sweetie! The book is available to anyone around the world at 30daylove ...look on my page for the details!

With Love

Shay Your Date Diva

[cilwaycofe]

@lovein30days You know something.It feels like I can't give up on finding that special someone.I pray & hope that I'll find her.

[jadeisback]

you go girl...he got any brothers or friends? lol

[justcrystalle]

THAT WAS SOOO BEAUTIFUL. i'm over here cheesin; so happy for you.

[MissCharityRose]

Wow you really are speaking the truth here...! A man who can submit to God will submit to making a relationship work. A good man is something to cherish especially God fearing. We need more chivalrous men! Wo=w 6:30! Great vid

[nishanorth]

i'm blushing for you & your boo boo right now! your vids are the truth. wish you the best in everything to come! p.s.

i cried on the daddy daughter vid you did. i felt that one deep. you alright with me shay. you've been where i'm coming from. heart ya.

[BaldButWigged]

i've been ready for love for a long time [years], so why is it that i get the bullcrap end of the stick? you say to be available. hell, maybe i'm too available. maybe i'm just set in my ways already at 23. lol.

anywho..congrats on your happiness shay. for real for real. the water is beautiful, btw.

[jawesome28]

I dnt know if there is a good woman for me, i feel I have to settle. Maybe my confidence is shot, I dnt know. the type of girl I want doesnt seem to be attracted to me. At least thats how I feel, and I do a lot to help my girl but it doesnt seem worth it sometimes. Im gentleman but the asshole in me comes out a lot and I get consumed off bad stuff she has done and i know its not fair. Maybe Im hurt from her past actions. Im not sure, I havent cheated and I try not to lie but it seems so hard.

[JeffrenceDT]

@jawesome28

Don't worry about finding "a good woman" because 50-60% of marriages end in divorce anyway. Just so you know women file 80% of all divorces. Funny how they always yell at us about not wanting to marry them and 'stringing them around' while they are the ones filing divorce settlements.

The best advice I can give you is to find peace within yourself and in the ones around you.

[lovein30days]

Dude, What is with you? I say that with much love. You are always leaving negative comments about women and relationships. Its almost as if you have given up on true love.

You know, it takes courage to love and give your heart to one person. Any coward can cut himself off and be cold but a warrior of the light takes his chance and is a better person as a result.

SYDD

[jawesome28]

Im doin that appreciate the advice

[JeffrenceDT]

No prob, I just have to be realistic with you guys. Some of you guys think that if you follow the Dr. Filth guidelines on how to keep your woman happy that it will all end happily ever after. Sometimes you need to protect yourself. I don't see how this is any different than Shay helping her divas stay away from 'dont wanters'. I just try to help guys stay away from bad women because no one else seems to want to call women out on their bad behavior the way they want to label men thugs etc. =/

[TempestWytch]

@JeffrenceDT

Those stats aren't looking to good for men. But dude you should know that no one cares when men are hurt in society. And if they bring up legitimate points no one wants to hear them, the only solution they give them is to find a good women.

[sp1c3y69]

this video made me cry...weird as it may sound...lol!

[cfG21]

Talk to me shay why is it that i see these women that will pass by a good man with education, culture and a job for someone who she doesn't belong to?

It's good to see you happy shay. i really mean it.

[lovein30days]

Not enough women know what a good man looks like. This is why I am here and bring these videos. Hopefully good men and women everywhere will find true, healthy love with this information.

SYDD

[ahaviaij]

I love it! I'm so happy for you! Thank you for telling the truth in love!

[nolanj23]

LMAO!!! YOU FUNNY!

You a real COCO BUTTA sista-won't get that hair wet for SHHHH!!!

cAUGHT the "body shot" tryna be slick...keep up the good work!

Oh yeah, Make sure you're rubbing your man feet 2 :)

[CYaya88]

Thanks for this,

You've encouraged me not to look back anymore. I made the right decision, its not about crying and being upset over someone who is too 'busy' to know or care. I'm waiting on God and in the mean time sorting my life out and becoming a better person. Thank you soo much! xxxx

[eyerize]

Congrats Shay, I know you will have a very blessed family! I am so happy for you!

[PrincessENC]

I'm happy for you, your vids are very inspirational.

[SuthernGyrl]

Thank you for the motivation from one single mom to another.

[RunRoseRun]

So happy for you Shay. God bless!!!

[Adrienne79]

A man who loves the Lord more than self. and submits himself to the Lord. Will know how to love you.

[Adrienne79]

Thanks Shay! I needed this. Really.

[LadyFlameSniper]

CONGRATS!!!!!!! WHOOOO. That kiss was steamy. lol

[leedime]

Yo you look so happy :)

I remember I said that I have no job and I still didn't get my BA at 24. Well I get it this semester and I'm being hired in July as an officer. I'm almost ready to find my Diva :) and be a good man to her if she's right. THAT LAST PART IN THE VIDEO WAS TOTALLY PLANNED LOL.

[lovein30days]

Lol...lol...lmao...No it really wasn't! He came out of no where...lol I was in the water and he was back on the blanket:)

SYDD

[leedime]

Alright, I can see it in your face that you didn't know. I believe you. :)

[lovein30days]

Oh, by the way...Congrats!!!! You have a lot of great things coming into your life. Be thankful and now go and find your queen:)

SYDD

[MI88YRISSAPOOH]

aww dat was cute

[MI88YRISSAPOOH]

it looks lik u wanna cry of happiness ma! congrats on finding him.pray to god and thank him!

[hugandkissme33]

finally we see him!

[SheSingsLovely]

girl...you're brave for standing in that water with your camera!

[livinmybestlife]

is that your boo filming you? why would you say if your watching this if he is right there...lol

[TiffanySouthall]

I think shay is holding the camera. Right?

[livinmybestlife]

are you guys married? this is a great vid!

[misstp90]

AMEN i liked this video, and im glad ur in a good relationship!!

[blacktigerwu]

Most females don't want that kinda man

[chicbella84]

i hope i find this good man for me...i just have to wait i want to find happiness one day

[beijosparavoce]

love the ending ! Just when I was wondering if this "man of my dreams" actually exists, he pops into the frame. Nice.

[spunkkymunkky]

i agree

[iguillo]

Wow, made me want to take a vacation in Clearwater!

:-))

[Crunkadelic]

GET A ROOM!!!!

[kirz778]

Sounds like you're currently in a good situation. I think Will Smith and Jada Pinkett should write books on relationships. Will Smith should write one for men and Jada could write one for the women. They successfully have made their relationship work in the face of all the pressures, negativity, etc. I heard Will Smith say in interviews that divorce is not an option .....I think he should elaborate on that.

[tuaprincessa]

you are helping me so much.. whenever i feel weak and like i should call or answer my cheating ex phone calls i just remember your advice. I know i will find someone worthy. thank you for helping me through this horrible breakup.

[mstyana]

I'm from Jacksonville and I went to clearwater last year. I love that place...

[fee20luv]

wow. this is beautiful. the beach nice view. and thanks for this vid. love it

[TheGoddessNetworks]

FIRST!!

Have fun sis!