Child Psychology - Wildest Colts Make the Best Horses, ADHD

[lucasferrier]

I would just like to thank Dr Breeding for all the helpfull videos, I have watched alot of them so far and you can learn more real psychology from him right here for free on youtube than spending 150 per hour from some drug dealer M.D. Lucas Ferrier

[vanhalen901]

This guy must have been a great father.

[ekorre33]

Do you really understand the tragedy of living with adhd? I wouldn't whish it on my worst enemy! No amount of of counceling, kbt, group therapy, self-help, diet, exercise etc. has alleviated my symptoms. I feel as though you disregard my group of afflicted people who have tried absolutely everything, but to no avail. So what is wrong with, as a last resort to turn to medication? I'm a interested in your reply! Signed a suffering soul

[Mokas22]

I have adhd 33, my mom has adhd 63, my sister has adhd 27, but no one have ever tried medications yet, My mom is an architect, she also has a second BA, now she is retired but she used to make a great income, my sister dropped school but now she owns a business, I have a great marriage and 2 college degrees. yes our cars & homes are always cluttered & we are loosing our keys 24/7 but who cares? its not the end of the world. embrace the positive side of adhd, life is too short and precious!

[ekorre33]

I started taking meds today for the very first time. It has taken this long, I've tried to get help for a long time, but finally I get to try the meds. Concerta (methylphenidate). I don't know if they will work but at least I get to give them a try. I'm happy that you have a great marriage, mine failed and it's very hard for me to establish relationships. I guess people with add/adhd suffer the symptoms in varying degrees and some are better able to cope than me. I've had a really tough time!

[TJComer02]

The problem is not you, it's the millions of other children "claiming" to have add/adhd. Instead of trying to help people like you, what people do is use it as an excuse so they don't have to work hard. You on the other hand, obviously have something you're struggling with, right? Isn't it an insult for 20% of society claiming they're afflicted with something so they don't have to be responsible?

[Reghedable]

@ekorre33

You know, it's things like what you just said that give us a bad name.

Yes, it's been a struggle, I've been drugged on a dozen different medications and I've dealt with nightmarish school situations... But all in all, my ADHD has given me a gift veiled in the fog, a sixth sense of sorts when it comes to people and an extremely quick mind.

Value your unique gifts, because I guarantee you that there are worse situations out there.

[ekorre33]

@Reghedable Of cours there are people who have been dealt a worse hand, who suffer much more with greater odds stacked against them. However, it is very annoying with the antipsychiatry movement who think councelling, diet and exercise are the solution to all problems. They are wrong, and when one is going through a difficult period it is very easy to get annoyed with those people and their idiotic preachings. As far as giving a bad name, I don't know what the hell you mean by that?

[Reghedable]

@ekorre33

Load yourself up on drugs if you'd like, mate.

But, coming from someone who has gone through tons of meds to no avail, it's ultimately a waste of time. You need to learn to master yourself, and no amount of drugs will do that for you.

And as for the bad name thing, you make it sound as if ADD/ADHD is some sort of disease.

It's a difference, that's for sure, but a detriment? Not really. Just a different way of thinking.

[ekorre33]

@Reghedable I've just started loading up on drugs actually:) And so far so good, no complaints! I'm a bit confounded by those who seem to enjoy their adhd? Makes no sense to me, I like who I am but I would prefer not to have certain difficulties. It has taken so much time and energy - a real struggle. I think one's view of adhd probably depends on the severity and one's ability to cope.

[Revelation6v8]

Dr. Breeding is correct. People I meet do not like how I am raising my children. Home cooked meals, no fast food, no added sugar or salt. My kids are 6 years old and have never had a soda we only eat cake and ice cream at parties.

We odd also because my wife quite her carreer to stay at home with our children. We eat all of meals together at the table. We have one TV which we keep off 99% of the time.

We do not have video games or a computer for my children.

And I do have a Ph.D. from top Un

[jasonthemong]

dont you think your children will see that their friends have all the 'cool' things they dont and will begin to rebel as they grow into their teens?

[Babyhowdy233]

And by the way, I've literally lost count over the years just HOW MANY folks I've met who had exactly the same experiences as myself growing up. Like myself, their parents refused to give them drugs to "control" their bahavior and like myself they grew up to have lives AT LEAST as happy and successful as their "normal" siblings. Educators and so-called "mainstream" doctors NEED to read this man's book!

[Babyhowdy233]

I agree! Out of four kids, I was the one who "worried" my father with my "hyperactivity" and poor grades. He worried that I was THE child who wouldn't "Make it in the world". Now at 53 I'm the ONLY one of his kids who has a home, financial and emotional security. ALL my siblings are plagued with serious emotional and financial problems and just want you to give them money.

My dad refused to let the doctors give me ritalin. Instead, he encouraged me to be physically active every day.

[Rotulette]

Do you know that John Breeding is a member of of a Scientology front organization, the CCHR?

This is not an inoffensive cult, scientology kills, inform yourself Please!

[suirvale]

i read somewhere that americans invent 200 new diseases every year. i just wonder if i never heard of disease will i have less chance of getting,.i use think i had al the diseaes and use take them tablets its so funny not lookign back,.,.

[phfrankh]

Yes! spontaneity (:-)

[cherold606]

thanks

[noonsplace]

the more I watch John Breeding, the more I admire him...

[86504]

this video was good

I NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO yd

[GushaKajiri]

Seen a video or two with this guy in it and he is okay... for a psych :P

Serious man good work! Def getting the book!

[nivto2]

YOU Sir, are one of the best horses around.

PLEASE if you can put up a video regarding people without children but who suffer from this wotld that does not fit with our nature.

* I am 27 and have been taking anti-depressant for a year. I feel like the Western world does not "fit" me.

I don't know what to do...

[AmbientEmbrace]

interesting and very calming, thank you

[sloopy312]

I have often voiced this viewpoint when some ask me, "How can you stand that kid?", when I worked with my street and gang kids. I learned many wonderful things and some unbelievable stories that fly in the face of those who want to dismiss our gang youth. blaine

[onegodus]

the corrupt criminal governments are supporting gangs. it is done in secret but when you look at what the government does about gangs you see how the government does everything to make sure gangs flourish.

divide and conquer is the main reason.

[cemetarymama]

i wish this information was given to anyone who ever conceives. so many people see having children as a side note in thier lives instead of seeing it as a dedication.thankyou for putting this out there!

[GnosticNinja]

Thats the smartest little diddy I've ever heard on responsible parenting. A better world begins at home. Keep em' coming sir! :~)

[c16467]

Bravo!!

[aadweddings]

Dr. Breeding you make this channel. One of top videos yet. very good job

[saturateu]

YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY :)

[miketheday]

Outstanding!

Why is it so hard for so many people to see this? It's basically common sense and logic. I have always gone a little heartbroken when I heard or saw any parents put their kids on any of these mind altering drugs. I'm 50 and saw the oncoming of these ADHD, etc., drugs. I was and am horrified to see their usage with hardly a second thot. Let your kids be kids! You owe it to them to get un-plugged and spend the time with them! They learn by your example. 5***** and saved! Peace :)

[onegodus]

it is all about profit with the drugs. pharmaceuticals and drug trade both legal and illegal is the number one profit maker in the world. wake up and stop the fascist criminals who infested our world and stop the real mentally ill from destroying us and the world.

[ancestralblue]

Exactly correct. Life is a body-mind experience. Body and mind function best when allowed to be active and moving at leisure. It sets a template for comtemplation where the mind journeys and sorts out issues, plus benefitting the physical organism as a whole in a non stressful way. It often puts wonder back into the experience. You make all good points!

[idealpoo]

Very good!

[nameofthepen]

Sir, I salute you. I just listened to 10:46 minutes of sanity in a world gone mad. My deepest respect and admiration.

But surely you have been drummed out of the professional circles by now for these "heretical" viewpoints? ;-)

[miketheday]

Excellent send Nom! Thanks!

I heart this channel :)

[quarknimble]

oh, and if you act agressive at all, they will change the diagnosis from ADHD to childhood bipolar.

this will induce a bipolar swing - your kid will go from looking like an anorexic drug addict to a big obese jellyroll when one is switched to ANTIPSYCHOTICS.

if you cant give em a heart attack, try going for diabetes!

[quarknimble]

almost all of my teachers since kindergarten have complained to if my parents that im ADD and need to be medicated.

adderall, ritalin, coke, meth, speed---

these help you study and get good grades like a machine. if i would have been on it, i would have gotten perfect grades and ONE HELL OF A TOLERANCE. good luck coming off the speed.

[quarknimble]

why bother?

just pump some amphetamines or cocaine-like compounds into your child!

its not a drug addiction if its for "ADHD"!

[psychetruth]

"its not a drug addiction if its for "ADHD"!"

Just because a drug is prescribed for something doesn't mean you can't get addicted to it? Many people are given pain medications for pain, they are highly addictive however and people develop physical and psychological addictions to them. Same w/ anxiety medications, amphetamines, etc.

Why bother to be a good parent? Just give them drugs.

[ZeroSky]

Ehh I really hope they were being sarcastic, but I guess it's better to jump on them anyway. I just can't imagine anyone that actually has that perspective.

[hollytoo]

Great, practical advice. Something the world needs more of.

[mountain19]

same as wayne dyer said we are spiritual beings having a human experience. this man speaks common sense something that is greatly missing. we all love our structure.

[tommybarresi]

Wonderful message sir----if only my father saw things that way. He always looked at me with disgust and resentment. Don't worry though, I turned out OK!

[prettyposeur]

I'm so glad my parents didn't take the advice of my 2nd grade teacher. They knew I wasn't "slow" (as she said) and they sought a second opinion. They were then informed I was of normal intelligence, but that I had simply never learned to read. A lot of parents are quick to take the opinion of educators (even when they're not looking at the child in question through eyes of delight). I was lucky, I caught up and now am in my fourth year of university studying psychology, and earning straight A's.

[KarenEng]

Awesome....very interesting! :)))

[f417h]

THANK YOU

[goatgirl08]

This is amazing advice. Thanks! =)