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  • Dr. Paul you are a legend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Omg I Do That With My Crush I Am VERY Shy I Can't Talk With Him Because I Feel He Won't Like Me :\

  • @MegGoesRawrX3 don't worry about it. Just talk to him and try to think that you don't like him. This sounds crazy, but it works. I don't mean be mean just think of something that'll make it easier to talk. Be really nice and do not over do it or he'll think your desperate. hope that helped

  • @AtAtaylor Thanks :D I'll Try Too! Thanks For The Help! :)

  • fake smile at the end destoyed the whole video!!if you dont feel like smiling- dont!!

  • thats help

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  • Ya, a shy girl will give a more ambiguous type of eye contact – but it could mean that she’s just noticing you. She likely likes you if you catch her taking a peak at you. But to actually find out if she’s really-really interested – watch for the “smile.” Once you start taking to her say something that should get a smile. If she doesn’t then you know the truth. If she’s responsive then try to get more smiles. I'm amazed this isn't mentioned in any video. Opening line: “Hi! - What’s your name?”

  • ha this guy looks like a pimp

  • Does he ever take a sip out of that beverage?

  • Guys,

    It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.

    Here's what you need to do:

    Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com

    Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program

    Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist

    Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.

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  • @lawshorizon now that's a true statement....

  • "May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."

    If that was possible I'd be the only man on the planet by now.

  • This guy is a boss

  • This guy is genius

  • Haha, most of this is true...not really the eye contact thing because I do that with every guy not just the ones I like...but you nailed it with having the guy coming down to her level!

  • Lol

  • Shy tips

  • Dr. Paul, I am that shy girl. I try not to be. I'm so glad you posted this video. It's so true...I often think to myself..."I feel sorry for the guys who don't notice me, I'm a really wicked fun person, I'm fairly smart too, if only they had what it takes to gain my trust, they would be so richly rewarded!" ....Now thanks to your video girls like me won't have to be so lonely sometimes because you gave the guys some tools on how best to approach our kind. Thanx ever so much Dr. Paul  ~~Sadie

  • Very helpful advice at the end, thank you very much. I discoverd how similar arrogance and shyness appear sometimes and automatically I assumed she would be arrogant. Now I know not just what to look for but also how to deal with the different signals.

  • You are a freaking genius keep rolling out the videos

  • There was this Spanish test a while ago. I went to the room where we had to meet up I noticed this shy but good looking girl standing near me. I was talking to this dude of her class while she suddenly turned her face towards me (she had her back towards me at first) and asked for a pen. could this mean she wanted to build up a conversation but was too shy? I asked her some basic things but her replies were rather short.

    Thanks in advance for a reply : - )

  • A while ago I had to make this Spanish test. I was talking to this dude and noticed this good looking girl who I had seen before standing with her back before me. So Im talking to this dude while she suddenly turns her face towards me and asks for a pen. I said sure, then asked her some regular questions but she was rather shy. Could it be that she wanted to start a conversation but was too shy? She smiled several times though but yeah

  • OMG IM ASIAN AND THAT IS SOO TRUE LOL (about how shys girl look down, away ect to let them know we would love to communicate with him >.< )

  • lol my friend's juz 14 and he watches it isn't it abit too early ??? and he watches how to flirt wif girls then I was like dude WTF man ?!

  • look em my friend told me that a girl likes me its achely 4 girls that like me any way i just like one of them any tips? i quite like her

  • HE IS THE MOST INTERESTING MAN IN THE WORLD

  • @fatbrat09 No the guy from Dos Equis is......

  • The eye thing is very true if she does it rudiculous amount of times in one minute

  • i do that, i'm a boy <.<

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  • well...its good advice none of it applies to me, the right woman for me is a woman who wont care if i look stupid trying to ask them if thayd like to go for coffee/drink from my experience if a girl flat out-right denies you for whatever reason 70% of the time its because she doesntlikt you but the other 30% is because shes worried bout slef image (what her friends will think) but everyons experience is different though i guess

  • Guys,

    It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.

    Here's what you need to do:

    Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com

    Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program

    Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist

    Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.

  • Damn, this guy has some serious bling !

  • Dude has champagne next to him and a martini in his hand. He rules.

  • my girl friend used to be very very shy around me, i did notice how she looked away from me, it just took forever to realize haha. and when i realized it i asked her out, that was almost a year ago, im the happyest guy alive because of her, she make me want to be a better person for her, i love her i honestly and truly do, this guy is RTE!!!! she is the best thing that has EVER happend to me

  • ur AWESOME!!!

  • hey !long time i have not r see a gentleman us yourself .

    you are a live saver for me .

    tanks ...keep your good will .

    love you .

    sam.

  • What if you know the girl and your good friends with her would she act any diffrent

  • this is guy is very accurate. us shy girls do communicate with our eyes.

  • I'm a shy girl and when I flirt with a guy, I just give them a cute smile and then look down very fast haha (:

  • I'm a shy girl :(

  • It took me a minute to realize this wasn't Hugh Hefner..

  • Ugh how do you approach a shy girl you never see in high school. She does like you because youve seen her do the eye thing exactly how the dr. sayed?

  • lol 1:54

  • Im looking into this girl and when he said the shy girls are usually intelligent I was like :O, this girl is like in Honors Calculus...But I dont really notice the eye thing...maybe I wasnt really looking.....

  • @youzz33

    honors calculus? as in high school? lol

  • @sugarpluuuuuuuum well I was just using it as an example, perfect A's in all honor courses....not everyone could pull that off...

  • ok what if the guy is also extremely shy and cant aproach the girl? is it impossible then?

  • @pacloro The guy can casually initiate a short comment or question at first. Be very patient and think about making her feel comfortable if you really like her. She will appreciate it, esp. if she likes you!

  • How do you approach to older women? Cause, they seem to be more mature and understanding then women at my age when I talk to them. Women at my age seem to be dumb as a door bell or so obnoxious as if they knows it all. When I talk to older woman, it so easy to talk to them like talking to your mother. But, they don't think that I am interested in them. Show me how anyone...

  • he said how 2 times X]

  • im a girl and this is so true lol :O but hes making it sound like a study hahaha

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  • @nognilk thats probably cause shes not interested?

  • @nognilk I have this girl at school and she does that after I try to act lovey around her and her friends not long before. Basically, if she gives you the shy girl look like that guy said in the video, then she runs away it's PROBABALLY because she is embarrased when you say that you love her.

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  • you are awesome

  • duuude why u in a bath robe bro

    

  • This is Barney Stinson in 20 years. check it.

  • Theres only one Macho Man Dr. Paul oooooooooooh yeeeeeeaaaaaah

  • This guy is incredible.

  • That's funny..I do that with my eyes. Look at him, look down then to the side then back at him! Haha but sadly most guys don't want to take the time to get to a quiet person!

  • @alexandruthegreat95 bullshit, it's the other way round. Girls don't like shy guys. never.

  • @alexandruthegreat95 Alex we just don't know,it is all about body language. so i'm gonna ask u this since u are a woman,there is this very shy chick i know she does this i'm walking into the apt building she's walking out,she see's me here eyes widen like saucers and she immediatly looks straight ahead,without makin any eye contact whatsover,we walk past each other,however i stop and turn around and stand by the building entrance and look at her walk away,she then suddenly as she go to part 2.

  • @myleftnutts name's alyssa :) what do you mean "she then suddenly as she go to part 2"?

  • @alexandruthegreat95 ( part2) walking away turns she her head around to see me watching her,when she makes eye contact with me,she turns away,she hates me right???.

  • @myleftnutts uh....NO she does not hate you! Like me, she probably doesn't have the guts to be this first to initiate a conversation. So you be the one to talk to her first.. and if she avoids eye contact, but you catch her staring/looking at you...she almost definitely likes you!

  • @myleftnutts Alyssa i ran out of yahoo letters so i was forced to put it in a part2 to finish it. thanks for the shy female input,only problem is,is that i'm shy as hell to,however i know it's my job as the guy,so i'll eventually have to talk to her,she gives off a vibe that she's very un-approachable and then she does that,that suggests to me,that she is very complicated.

  • @niblur25 ...lol well you can't base your opinion on how one shy girl turned out!

  • old school playa .... keep on playin

  • Playboy right there.

    

  • Why the hell is having champagne IN THE WRONG GLASS? That's more like a martini glass.

  • lol, may your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow:D i like tht :P

  • I wish all men understand this code!

  • thank u

  • Did tht wit this gurl who was interested she turned out to be clingy gud bye shy gurl helloooo popular

  • He's a Pimp haha

  • This guy is a boss.

  • Just asking "how are you?", showing care and attention is a good idea.

  • @faithster411 Of course, us men r ment 2 read your minds!

  • Hahahahaha.....

  • lol that's soooo trueeeeee

  • I'm onto a shy girl called Alice but she's cute and does look at me a bit and apparently DOES like me. Any suggestions cuz I'm to shy to speak to her.

  • @faithster411 I do.

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  • How does the awkward "look down look back" way of communicating indicate that a girl really wants to talk to you? I do that with everyone new that I meet, purely because it feels too intense staring relentlessly into someone's eyes while you talk to them, and looking away all the time is just rude and aloof - it's just trying to get a balance, not flirting.

  • Im shy when i meet guys,, but cute and clever :)

  • Lol awesome motto at the end

  • what if. theres a shy girl who likes me but doesnt want a relationship. WHY would that be the case?

  • Take note guys, it's actually true, I'm a shy girl, and I do that with my eyes. It's not me being stuck up, I truly am shy, and would rather have the guy start the conversation.

  • And she would very quickly look away however this only happens once or twice. So back to the "touching" she didn't seem to mind it though she was leaning slyghtly torwards me. (this is my first time with a girl so I loved it) not to sound like a pervert, my point is does she like me? Or am I just getting excited because I touched a cute girl I've never met (I'm such a perv) any advice would be wonderful!

  • Can someone PLEASE HELP me!

    So I'm in a class and this really cute girl sits next to me (there was not a lot of seats) and almost the whole time she was looking away from me (it's a class for homeschoolers so every one there was REALLY shy) and at first I thought she hated me for some reason and then I got really calm and happy-ish and realized her arm was pressed against mine. So it's a disection class and she had to look in front of her and every here and there I would catch her looking at me

  • im not sure i can take him seriously the way he is sitting.... ^^

  • after "open ended question" he said "how" twice.

  • @faithster411 I love shy girls they are very cute x PS guys dont pick on subtle hints because they dont operate on those levels.

  • Omg! im gonna get one of those bathrobes, they are sooo wicked awesome

  • Question: are you saying that if a shy girl holds eye contact then shes not interested?

  • @gothicking999 Answer: if she's not interested, she most likely won't make any eye contact whatsoever. i'm shy and that's what i do. NO eye contact.

  • my perfect one is in europe somewhere i just know it from heart

  • @faithster411 95 % of the time we don;t,it took alot of time for me to figure this out.

  • thanks doc

  • 100K viewer :D

  • does anyone have a clue of wat he said?

  • Who hurt you, Dr. Paul? Who hurt you?

    Someone, you've made that much clear... :(

  • how come so many here discount? i'm totally smart and have high self esteem...and do EXACTLY like he says with my eyes nd so mNy men think i don't think highly of myself and its ssoooo frustrating

  • fantasty of today be reality of tomorrow ^.^ you sound like one of those ------

  • omg this is actually EXACTLY how i act around guys! i'm sooo shy

  • I love how he is trying to make up what hes gonna say next every 30 seconds

  • @Lucentia3: I don't think humans ever had animal instinct. Since we always define ourselves as the only animals that have a "conscience", I assume we need another way to just know when we like someone. It is such a complex process that it has to be this way. Now the media could have screwed us all up into thinking that girls have to be passive and the boy has to always make the first move. No idea. The lioness as well as the lion brings home food and they both take caregiving roles.

  • @arviagent13 actually, I thought male lions were more like pimps and the females went out and did all the hunting, but then the alpha male usually gets to eat first. And, yeah, the media has screwed us up thinking girls have to be passive. I'm a shy person, yet if I like someone I will just be straight forward about it and then I find that guys get intimidated by this. Then I've known hot girls that aren't shy about anything else that can like someone forever and not say anything!

  • @Lucentia3: Yeah. You said it. I expect girls to be straightforward as I would be if I liked someone. If a girl is shy, there is probably little to no chance I'll talk to her being that I would be expected to leave her alone. My thing is..screw the media and find the girl who goes with her natural gut. There are a few out there, but a girl with confidence is worth more than one who is "too shy" or too influenced by the media to say anything.

  • @xKeray a question that is who? what? where? when? how? or why?

  • And is "What are you?" still good?

  • okay, I'm gonna talk to her tomorrow. 

  • @1sea6 hey what happened?

  • @buffpnoy14 Nothing bro, I'm not sure what my comment was. But it goes something like :because I'm quite a shy guy, i wanted to know how shy girls express themselves. xD have a great day

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  • This guy is the Man...

  • I know a shy girl likes me alot because her friends have told but I'm shy myself so it's just really hard for to start a conversation

  • @booshaddict1990 Well, if her friends told you, you gotta get on the ball because its a pretty sure thing that she knows that you know how she feels and she is only gonna wait for a limited time.

    Its better to try and fail, than never try at all, which is an automatic fail.

    Sadly, many people fear success more than they fear failure. :/

  • reminds me of dos equis beer haha

  • Holy crap, she does like me!

  • ok if a girl takes your cell phone and writes on your own facebook and writes im in love with her does that mean its good and that shes interested and likes me? weve been flirting alot as well

  • It's like getting advice straight from a player. I mean...candles and red velvet? Is he teaching me or seducing me?

  • omg this guy is a genius he explained to me why i do that. and i think hes right. i never look directly in a guys face and i look down when they come and try and approach me and then i look back up and theyve lost interest . its like just when i get the confidence to look back up again and say hi their bored with me and move on to their next victim .

  • Omg i so agree with this dude as well... Am a girl and i think wat he says its so real !

  • i agree with this dude! i am a girl and i think this is very true. i think boys should follow this man's tips. (but come up with some unique thing yourself!)

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  • @friends4ever97 listen and learn!

    Dr Paul is the Champ!

  • @friends4ever97 because the older, the wiser duh!

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  • @NWReviews..im with u ont this one...creepy-looking guy.. Xp

  • I'm a shy girl, and this is SPOT ON. Love this guy.

  • @livefortheday Thanks for sharing. when I'm feeling shy, I can second-guess myself out of any kind of comment, so I'm glad you posted this.

  • this guy is a fail Hugh Hefner

  • STARWARS!

  • Ok - advise DIRECTLY from a shy girl.... if I "look at you and then look back down and then look away again" I am NOT "creating a space that you are invited into". In fact, I probably caught you looking at me first and now my sense of dread is exacerbating my shy mannerisms. And that half glance I keep giving you - I'm keeping my eye on you to make sure you don't get any closer!! So stay away!

  • @Lucentia3 I concur. I do it ALL the time unconciously and it's soooo annoying! Yes, sometimes we can't help but look at someone for more than a second and be caught staring and thats when we quickly look away to make sure we don't make that same fatal mistake with our eyes!! The "look away again" gesture is to indicate that "sorry I meant to look over this way, oops" NOTHING ELSE!! O.o I've had one too many cringe-worthy experiences... with using just my eyes.

  • @Lucentia3: wait. So what is the difference about what he said. If you look at the person, look down, and then look away? You dislike him. What is a half glance?

  • @arviagent13 there's really no difference between what either of us said - I guess youve just gotta use your own instincts to figure it out. I tend to keep taking quick glances at guys who are looking at me much the same way a gazelle would glace at a tiger if they were at the same watering hole. You know, kinda wary. From what other shy girls have commented on here some are giving a slightly 'come hither' look and then looking away. With us shy people the difference is probably very subtle.

  • @Lucentia3: Makes sense. Oh hey..maybe you can also help me out since you seem to know your stuff. Picture this scenario. If a girl (you) looks at someone while passing by you a.) turn your head completely and look away b.)face towards them but your pupils are looking somewhere else, c.) looking down d.) looking at your cell phone/ pulling out your cell phone? What would that mean? I have asked many of my friends that were girls but they could never give me a good answer since they befriended.

  • @arviagent13 it's hard to say... a: if I'm turning my head completely away (not looking at my own hands or something) then I probably hope you won't talk to me. Maybe I don't like you, or maybe I'm just busy or think I have spinach in my teeth. b: Oh, I'm trying to get up the nerve to look at you and I hope you're looking too! c: hmmm. Could go either way. I look down when I'm nervous.. so if I'm nervous cause I don't want you to approach me or I'm nervous cause I want to talk to you, I'd