no the shit aint fair so we gotta show our daughters and grandaughters a better way get the education ,college,good job,home , then here comes mama wit a baby carriage doin her self we the backbone and then if you want that man you choose him let him earn the right all up in your world #!!!!!!!!!!!!
attention the time as come to started requesting fantasia new single "collard greens and cornbread" on your local radio station and buy it on itune to support
How about a song for all the young ladies who kept it on lock??? Oh . . . maybe CeCe Winans should do that one. ANYWAY . . . Fantasia can sing and I do give props to single mothers and single fathers. That's a hard road . . .your choice . . , but a hard road.
@fiestymike Well, if the widows, divorcees, etc . . . had kept it on lock, THEY wouldn't have 2.5 kids either . . . heehee! They put themselves in that position . . . divorcees made a choice to marry a no-good person and who says the person who died was REALLY all that - the widow may actually be GLAD that they're gone . . . heehee! Take some time to ask some divorcees . . . they were probably singing "to the left, to the left" . . . HAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!
Tasia, you keep it real all day every day. i'm not a baby mama but claim your jam. this is my anthem!! keep the hits coming. you noticed Hollywood came out with their 'Baby Mama' movie after this song........hmmm. always imitated, never duplicated. Queen of the Nile you are, shining bright in all your glory Fantasia!!!
FIRST, TASIA SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN A GRAMMY FOR THIS SONG; SECOND, IM NOT A MOTHER BUT THIS SONG WELL ME UP EVERYTIME; THIRD, SHE IS SINGING THE TRUTH!; FOURTH, TASIA IS THE BEST FEMALE VOCALIST IN THE GAME TODAY; HANDS DOWN!!
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Let me tell ya'll something, Tasia is one BAD artist baby. She leaves it all on the stage. Nobody can bring the energy and vocal skills like she does! She one of the few artist I WILL go out and spend my money on. Half of this crap that are on the airwaves now isnt worth buying...I see why people steal music now. But FANTASIA...I will spend my money on!
@LADYT281 thank you for your comment im a single dad youngest just turned 18 nd we try so hard to do the right thing i had extra kids in my house i was the neighborhood daddy
@nateynate2200 I take my hat off to a man that is a single parent cause yall get what us women go through just to make sure your child has everything that they need. Doing everything by yourself is not easy and it's up to us to make sure that they go the right way and grow up to be strong people. So I love single parent men and women cause I feel yall, cause I'm one too.
all fans please go and request fantasia new single "bittersweet" your local radio stations so we can make this joint one lets do it fans cause i know we can
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She is not just speaking on her experience!! She is speaking for every young and old baby mama out there!!! I am glad someone finally put it into words,,,,
hell yeahhhhhhhhh to all the single mommas.....and i must add too ..there are some solo daddys too..so big ups to them too......and i i agree with below comment......:)
True ignorance is not taking responsibility. Modern science has given us many inexpensive family planning options. If we get pregnant we needn't stay pregnant. If I were to get pregnant I couldn't raise a child without public assistance so I don't have any business being careless. Ladies--protect yourself until you can afford to raise a child alone!
Being a single mother is the hardest job in the world to do and I am extremely happy that someone finally put it to words. Two of the last three presidents were products of single mothers and both were Rhode scholars; the one president who had both parents barely made the grade (3rd to last in his class).
For those of you who do not understand the song, don't make light of it or show how ignorant you can be.
To those of you who do identify--keep your head up, I see you.
is there any singer under the age 35 that can do what tasia do whenever she step on the stage she is a eefin beast when you put that mic in her hands!!!
It must be the sign of a TRUE artist/talent when you can sing about anything with such Passion and Truth!! This girl FEELS her music and for some strange reason I'm always in tears when I watch her perform.. I love her Gift of song!!
Fantasia, I haven't heard about you getting a grammy yet, but God knows you are one of the most talented out there. You deserve a grammy or two!! And we know it, and we recognize you, and we love you and are praying for you. God bless you. And God bless you for 'Baby Mama'.
Fantasia i most say you are the wolds greatest when i sit at my computer and watch u sing it make me cry believe always in God because without him we r nothing peace.
Fantasia's voice is truly a gift from God! This performance is a grammy winning moment. Fantasia's voice truly touches your soul way down deep. I hope the music industry recognize her huge talent. This girl deserves a Grammy!
Fantasia's voice is a gift from God! This performance touches your soul deep down inside........this is a grammy winning performance, I hope one day the music industry really recognizes her talent. She desrerves a Grammy!
that' s a good song but ther are a lot of fathers out there that are the back bone of there house hold. In this day and time we have alot of fathers doing the momie and daddy things and the mother is on drugs or just don't give a flip.
I hope she can still sing like this 10 years from now, but she really can "PUT IT DOWN"! She's on that gospel entertainer vocalist level....vocally, THAT'S pretty high standards!
Going through divorce, Maryland Child Support and Social Services suck. Governor O'Malley should be fired for what he has done to the system. Maryland Baby Mama's Unite, LOL.
That's allright...'cause I betcha she be takin' her "big ass lips" right to the bank cashin' them "big ass checks" that can straight buy your broke ass.
i commented once b4 but i got to do it again i f-ing love this woman she tour dat song up!!! she sang dat song wit so much feeling i almost cryed da 1st time i seen it and i dont even have any kids!! lol gettum tasia keep it up momma
damn this sh*it ain't fair, whoever wrote this song and to fantasia for SANGING it-Thx! You inspire me as a single mum. And yes I was married BEFORE I got pregnant and went to college and was all grown-it's hard girl!
I love this song, but it only reminds me that for every single mama there is a dead beat dad or two. So hate on the ones who left not the ones who stay and care for the children.
thank you fantasia for such a beautiful song! i wish you all the good things life can bring you, youmake me feel like im not alone i love you for that! god bless you xxx
Fantasia, you're as real as they come. I admire you for being bold enough to sing this song. You know your stuff. When I really listened to this song, it struck such a deep chord within me. I mean it's hard to keep from crying and just thanking God that mom was there when nobody else was...
Damn dis is my first tine seein herperform this. I just knew it from her CD, but dat waz hott she kilt it as usual!
"I know u get that support check in the mail. You open it and u like, what the hell? This aint even half of daycare, sayin to yoself this SHIT AINT FAIR!"
Powerful Women and very beautiful tune. I pray that she will stay positive and keep doing her thing, NO DOUBT the best voice in music today. Outstanding!
And even if they do get married what about if he still walks awya and does nto pay child support some men are taking care of other womens children after walking out on their wives and children if a woman is abandoned by divorce she is still a baby mama.
The badge of honor is for the woman or young lady actually gave birth and did not have an abortion and knew she and her child woul dface ridicule and insult from people like you and even though the guy walked awya the woman stayed in the mix.The women should be honored not the man,it takes two.
Even though I agree with what you said,both of you are a little wrong, if you listen to the line she says "nowadays, it's like a badge of honor to be a baby mama" she isnt saying it is, shes saying people don't realize how hard it is to go at it alone...nothin but respect for single moms.
Thank you chynasmom. anyone who doesn't understand what this song is about really did NOT listen to the lyrics. It is a song of empowerment. It says you may be down, abused and stigmatized but DO NOT despair. keep your head up. Fantasia is the next patti labelle performance wise. she is just fabulous
That's right chynasmom there are a lot of single mothers millions in fact and some in the church and she is also talking about the stigma society has placed on t hem and encouraging them not endorsing it!!!!If you are even divorced you then become a baby mama(single mama).
this is just my opinion...i don't think she's glorifying single motherhood. she is talking about once the kids are already HERE. we all make mistakes, and once those mistakes are made you have to pick yourself up and do the best you can for you and your child. THAT is what she talking about. she is saying your situation is not the most optimal and things look bleek...BUT YOU CAN DO IT!!!!
While this performance is very good musically, i abhor the lyrics as they seem to glorify the one-parent stereotype. A wonderful talent such as hers might be better served praising discretion in choosing partners as well as safe sex practices, (condoms are freely available at clinics and schools almost everywhere)
If one chooses a life partner carefully before having a child in the first place, there are generally fewer obstacles to overcome
She's my idol. And the Best AI thus far. And she's going places never hit before, because she's not scared to take on what comes here way, and she never holds back, whats in, thats why she's blessed till dis day. I love this lady...I Hope to be where she's at someday.
I love fantasias voice. she is soulful and she can sing love it! i cant till the new album. it has been said that she is currently in the studio working on her album.
I got love for all My BAby Mama's...
bigdeneen 3 weeks ago in playlist John Legend
For some reason I just had to hear our anthem tonight..no time to locate the cd ... Just sang it to me gurl LOL
iamkarenhill 1 month ago
100% PASSION
teeahtate 1 month ago
THIS IS MY SONG!!!! IT'S A STRUGGLE FOR SINGLE MOTHERS!!!!
leonak30 4 months ago 2
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Keep your legs closed!
jobhunt11 5 months ago
and here she is again about to be a baby mama. smh
knobylob 6 months ago 2
fantasia good song , cause mother's are fathers too. To all the single mother's out there Happy Fathers to you too.
terrana2 7 months ago
if your in arkansas on july 9 dont miss fantasia live at the robinson center in Little Rock,AR
rashard418 7 months ago
no the shit aint fair so we gotta show our daughters and grandaughters a better way get the education ,college,good job,home , then here comes mama wit a baby carriage doin her self we the backbone and then if you want that man you choose him let him earn the right all up in your world #!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I LOVE TASIA SO MUCH!!! SHE BE DOING HER THANG!!!
LORESE828 7 months ago
I LOVE TASIA SO MUCH!!! SHE BE DOING HER THANG!!!
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tall11011 6 months ago
I do to and she has the most inspirational voice I have ever heard. She is the one who inspired me to become a motivational and spirited song writer.
tall11011 6 months ago
Heeeeyyyy!!!!! Happy Mother's Day to all the B-A-B-Y M-A-M-A's!!!! Saluting all mother's period.
nickivsmith 8 months ago 2
We love you girl!!
MsNJohnson 8 months ago
attention the time as come to started requesting fantasia new single "collard greens and cornbread" on your local radio station and buy it on itune to support
rashard418 9 months ago 7
Damn she laid it down,.... wow best redention of this song i have heard...
WashingtonKevin 9 months ago
How about a song for all the young ladies who kept it on lock??? Oh . . . maybe CeCe Winans should do that one. ANYWAY . . . Fantasia can sing and I do give props to single mothers and single fathers. That's a hard road . . .your choice . . , but a hard road.
jobhunt11 9 months ago
@jobhunt11
Widows, divorcee's or those who just get left with 2.5 kids and the dog, have a choice? Don't make assumptions....
fiestymike 9 months ago
@fiestymike Well, if the widows, divorcees, etc . . . had kept it on lock, THEY wouldn't have 2.5 kids either . . . heehee! They put themselves in that position . . . divorcees made a choice to marry a no-good person and who says the person who died was REALLY all that - the widow may actually be GLAD that they're gone . . . heehee! Take some time to ask some divorcees . . . they were probably singing "to the left, to the left" . . . HAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!
jobhunt11 9 months ago
Tasia, you keep it real all day every day. i'm not a baby mama but claim your jam. this is my anthem!! keep the hits coming. you noticed Hollywood came out with their 'Baby Mama' movie after this song........hmmm. always imitated, never duplicated. Queen of the Nile you are, shining bright in all your glory Fantasia!!!
electromagnetician 10 months ago
FIRST, TASIA SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN A GRAMMY FOR THIS SONG; SECOND, IM NOT A MOTHER BUT THIS SONG WELL ME UP EVERYTIME; THIRD, SHE IS SINGING THE TRUTH!; FOURTH, TASIA IS THE BEST FEMALE VOCALIST IN THE GAME TODAY; HANDS DOWN!!
CodePink1908 11 months ago
Damnnnnnnnnnnnn Tasia know she be killin' em!
Tash851 1 year ago
Bless u sing girl
sassizee17 1 year ago
awww u could tell she wasnt expecting that standing ovation but she definitely deserved it
deeznutsyum 1 year ago
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rashard418 1 year ago
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You are just a baby mama. You hoes will never be wives. I swear for every 1 sensible blk woman there are 100 uneducated loud-mouth ghetto blk women.
Whats next? Being proud about having nice weaves & nails paid for by your welfare check.
chiefs816kc 1 year ago
she is the truth
jacquelle222 1 year ago
Let me tell ya'll something, Tasia is one BAD artist baby. She leaves it all on the stage. Nobody can bring the energy and vocal skills like she does! She one of the few artist I WILL go out and spend my money on. Half of this crap that are on the airwaves now isnt worth buying...I see why people steal music now. But FANTASIA...I will spend my money on!
Blakmajik78 1 year ago 5
Fantasia just sings from her heart.
AllegraWill96 1 year ago
I love this song and I do not even have children!!! To all the single mama's and daddy's doing right, cheers to you!!!!!!!!!!!!
essence174 1 year ago 6
fantasia new album "back to me" out in stores now
rashard418 1 year ago
Go head gurl...
BrownDiva29 1 year ago
she will be on gma this morning and behind the music tonight
rashard418 1 year ago
SHE KNW SHE A FOOL U BETTER GON GIRL
msjluv87 1 year ago
YOU BETTER SING THAT SHIT TASIA, THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THIS SONG, CAUSE SOME PEOPLE DON'T GET HOW HARD IT IS TO BE A SINGLE MOTHER OR FATHER.
LADYT281 1 year ago
@LADYT281 thank you for your comment im a single dad youngest just turned 18 nd we try so hard to do the right thing i had extra kids in my house i was the neighborhood daddy
nateynate2200 1 year ago
@nateynate2200 I take my hat off to a man that is a single parent cause yall get what us women go through just to make sure your child has everything that they need. Doing everything by yourself is not easy and it's up to us to make sure that they go the right way and grow up to be strong people. So I love single parent men and women cause I feel yall, cause I'm one too.
LADYT281 1 year ago
all fans please go and request fantasia new single "bittersweet" your local radio stations so we can make this joint one lets do it fans cause i know we can
rashard418 1 year ago
Woot!!! Da wuman is dread!
wildcatuniquerose 1 year ago
I luv this song. so many ppl dont realize how much baby mama do it by themselves.
lilmamamf 1 year ago
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kadian360 1 year ago
best soul ever!
awayandgone 1 year ago
You better sing!!
CharacterCorner 1 year ago
this chick is truly underrated by the industry. there is no comparison to anyone EVER! she went to church right there!
uncoverbrother 1 year ago
don t miss fantasia on the mo'nique show tonight
rashard418 1 year ago
(I belierve fantasia is an very influence Songer]
berbob12 1 year ago
(I belierve fantasia is an very influence Songer]
berbob12 1 year ago
this is the bet song when ur on the floor in fact the whole album is sooo inspiarin
chi2008 1 year ago
She is not just speaking on her experience!! She is speaking for every young and old baby mama out there!!! I am glad someone finally put it into words,,,,
WeBelongTogetha4eva 1 year ago
beautifull!!!
wilfred05 1 year ago 3
beautifulll job..
MsMikes1 2 years ago 2
don t miss her vh1 reality show "fantasia for real"that airs on vh1 every monday at 10pm est don t miss
rashard418 2 years ago
Get it gal.. ilove ur voice.. u can performe..
mrsbrazile 2 years ago
hell yeahhhhhhhhh to all the single mommas.....and i must add too ..there are some solo daddys too..so big ups to them too......and i i agree with below comment......:)
bubsi05 2 years ago 3
If you're already a single mom keep your chin up and don't be shy asking family to help babysit.
adriaticcoast 2 years ago
True ignorance is not taking responsibility. Modern science has given us many inexpensive family planning options. If we get pregnant we needn't stay pregnant. If I were to get pregnant I couldn't raise a child without public assistance so I don't have any business being careless. Ladies--protect yourself until you can afford to raise a child alone!
adriaticcoast 2 years ago
Being a single mother is the hardest job in the world to do and I am extremely happy that someone finally put it to words. Two of the last three presidents were products of single mothers and both were Rhode scholars; the one president who had both parents barely made the grade (3rd to last in his class).
For those of you who do not understand the song, don't make light of it or show how ignorant you can be.
To those of you who do identify--keep your head up, I see you.
redeemedxgod 2 years ago 3
all u ignorant ass u need to shut up.
the girl is jus singing abt her experience..
we all make mistakes...n we shouldnt let tht 1 mistake put us down...
SO IF U GET PREGGY AT A YOUNG AGE..U CAN STILL PUT URESELF BK TOGETHER..she is nt encouraging anything..
yonzilicious 2 years ago 2
Baby Mama? Really? How 'bout a song for girls who use birth control and work 2 jobs and own their own homes?
In all fairness anyway, Fantasia has a great voice and presence! Great earrings and dress too! Go get 'em!
adriaticcoast 2 years ago
shes speaking on HER experience
cushe83 2 years ago
FANTASIA I LOVE YOUUU!!!!!!!!
anaconda346 2 years ago
don t miss fantasia vh1 reality show "fantasia for real" that airs on vh1 janl11
rashard418 2 years ago 3
fantasia i luv u so much wen u cumin bac out
baybii4life 2 years ago
don t miss fantasia vh1 reality show "fantasia for real" that airs on vh1 jan11
rashard418 2 years ago
lol in the beginning are they saying babm mama? instead of baby
jerzkid87 2 years ago
Fantasia please come out with a new song soon!
TheTyreema 2 years ago
Church Of God In Christ
newwoman26 2 years ago
tasia u are truly a blessing we have sumthing in commom we both could sing and we both c.o.g.i.c.
upt3rd 2 years ago
This is why she won American Idol! Huge, huge talent and truly blessed with voice. Fantasia reminds me so much of Patti Labelle.
Coun1100 2 years ago 5
vocal register = present
Vocals= present
gift= present from God
true star = present 100%
fantasia your and excellent singer you go girl.
wendy121981 2 years ago 6
she is an awesome singer! :)
mariaclarkeee 2 years ago 2
A true Musical Beast!!!
TeTauntYen 2 years ago 3
is there any singer under the age 35 that can do what tasia do whenever she step on the stage she is a eefin beast when you put that mic in her hands!!!
jay5003 2 years ago 61
@jay5003 yes she is.. i agree. go head gurl..
BrownDiva29 1 year ago
fantasia is bless its nice to see her making it and not forgetting where she came from.
This songs has given me strength in being a single mom. thanks babes
keep it up
tweetybaby00 2 years ago 10
great jod
mookiegirlss 2 years ago 3
She keeps it real even now she is making dollars. Love that about her.
buttlikewat 2 years ago 4
she is such a great singer i beleive she feels every song she sings and thats BEAUTIFUL
thomasluvshante09 2 years ago 13
B-A-B-Y M-A-M-A gone fantasia with your bad self
InFam0usL3gend 2 years ago 41
It must be the sign of a TRUE artist/talent when you can sing about anything with such Passion and Truth!! This girl FEELS her music and for some strange reason I'm always in tears when I watch her perform.. I love her Gift of song!!
LovinMeNaturally 2 years ago 16
fantasia is just brillant
18705894789 2 years ago 9
i love her sossoosososos much i love her forever foreever she is so amazing and so incredible what an orgasm it is to hear her sing everytime
AdamLambertSpears 2 years ago 7
great singer
shamonken 2 years ago 4
B-A-B-Y M-A-M-A Gone Tasia!
kimsteward 2 years ago 3
Fantasia, I haven't heard about you getting a grammy yet, but God knows you are one of the most talented out there. You deserve a grammy or two!! And we know it, and we recognize you, and we love you and are praying for you. God bless you. And God bless you for 'Baby Mama'.
Ruva212 2 years ago 7
she song da hell out that song....sing it Tasia
hartage1 2 years ago 4
BATON ROUGE LOVES THiS WOMEN..// SO MUCH
tashaluv34 2 years ago 4
Fantasia i most say you are the wolds greatest when i sit at my computer and watch u sing it make me cry believe always in God because without him we r nothing peace.
venom1334 2 years ago 3
I feel the same way!
mssoftbrn 2 years ago 2
Fantasia's voice is truly a gift from God! This performance is a grammy winning moment. Fantasia's voice truly touches your soul way down deep. I hope the music industry recognize her huge talent. This girl deserves a Grammy!
Coun1100 2 years ago 2
Fantasia's voice is a gift from God! This performance touches your soul deep down inside........this is a grammy winning performance, I hope one day the music industry really recognizes her talent. She desrerves a Grammy!
Coun1100 2 years ago
missouri loves u boo !
sizzlers08 2 years ago 2
Milwaukeeans definetly love Fantasia!!!!
Goonassnigga08 2 years ago
North Carolina loves you Fantasia! Represent
BeautifulVJ1 2 years ago 2
Chicagoans love Fantasia
Lgh45 2 years ago 2
you go girl... south carolina loves you,too
cupofcandy70 2 years ago 2
she is the bomb
18705894789 2 years ago 2
BALTIMORE loves this woman! She is the best - no since Aretha has even come close! She is as great!
Shiftyeyes516 2 years ago
that' s a good song but ther are a lot of fathers out there that are the back bone of there house hold. In this day and time we have alot of fathers doing the momie and daddy things and the mother is on drugs or just don't give a flip.
pigfeets7 2 years ago
YEA YEA YEA
WRITE A SONG ABOUT IT . . .
yeadime 2 years ago 2
Mississippians loves Fantasia.
BountifulY 2 years ago
i love her
Orlando22Billy 3 years ago 4
I hope she can still sing like this 10 years from now, but she really can "PUT IT DOWN"! She's on that gospel entertainer vocalist level....vocally, THAT'S pretty high standards!
motownbaby 3 years ago 2
colorado Loves fan tasia
UliM2139 3 years ago
her songs help me through so much.
<3
foreverhauntedxx 3 years ago 4
true songs with mad vocals.
mjt1206 3 years ago 4
Going through divorce, Maryland Child Support and Social Services suck. Governor O'Malley should be fired for what he has done to the system. Maryland Baby Mama's Unite, LOL.
LadyMiles08 3 years ago
North Carolina baby Mama here, Wake county Child Support and Social Services Suck Too. Reaching out to ya from down south....I feel ya!!!!!
ladyred307 3 years ago
So yall know if Maryland and NC sucks....Im from Chicago....THEY ARE THE WORST!!
MzMonique715 3 years ago
do how do WE fix it??
ladyred307 3 years ago
I guess we have to find another country to live in....
MzMonique715 3 years ago
move... lol i did honestly unless we get better ppl to represent our states it wont change
sexyblack8807 3 years ago
ima north caroilina baby mama 2 guilford county DSS sux major ass
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ladyred307 3 years ago
GREAT PERFORMANCE!
I LOVE TASIA AND THIS SONG IS SO TRUE!
she looks nice here too!
StrawBerryMuffin24 3 years ago 4
i love this song! :D :P :z :O
luvshim914 3 years ago
i play this constantly. it is definitely an anthem for single mothers such as myself struggling to keep my head up and be an example to my daughter.
Love ya Girl, keep it up!
redeemedxgod 3 years ago
a damn good performance love it
IvoryIL 3 years ago 3
regardless of where she's at, it's her song and she's feeling it. that's what i like about her--she's real where ever she is.
politicaldebauchery 3 years ago 4
Lol! She forgot where she was at. (2:58)
ChurchBoy631 3 years ago
she is a true powerhouse
bathx 3 years ago
DAMN!
(that's all I can say)
- 6 year Baby Mama Veteran
finebodi23 3 years ago
my gurl tore that ish up
songre35 3 years ago
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big ass lips
bklynking15 3 years ago
Maybe. Like she said, her lips are big but her talent is bigger. But you know that.
alittlesickducksucks 3 years ago 3
That's allright...'cause I betcha she be takin' her "big ass lips" right to the bank cashin' them "big ass checks" that can straight buy your broke ass.
Khrys32 3 years ago 10
My gurl Tasia sang her heart out!!!
amychic88 3 years ago
i'm sad.
youraperson 3 years ago
i commented once b4 but i got to do it again i f-ing love this woman she tour dat song up!!! she sang dat song wit so much feeling i almost cryed da 1st time i seen it and i dont even have any kids!! lol gettum tasia keep it up momma
mainey18 3 years ago 3
I got love for you to girl
fankisha 3 years ago
Fantasia ripped this shit especially from 3:40 to about 4:24. Cant
nairdasekalb78 3 years ago 3
love fantasia
cashmoney37ok 3 years ago
she definately killed!!!!!!
jumpcc 3 years ago 2
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female chris tucker
mexicanpowerputo 3 years ago
damn this sh*it ain't fair, whoever wrote this song and to fantasia for SANGING it-Thx! You inspire me as a single mum. And yes I was married BEFORE I got pregnant and went to college and was all grown-it's hard girl!
YummyMinx 3 years ago
lishen
lemons82 3 years ago
SHE ROCKED IT OUT !!!!!!
adaben7 3 years ago 2
gon head tasia...love you!!!jumpin around in a dress...lol
joviez20 3 years ago 2
i love this song
it just asong that the world need cuz must of people dont no the fathers
zidani22 3 years ago
fantasia sums it up all the baby mamas dont worry bout the men that hit it and quit it they dont know what they lost fuc them
jamesdavis76 3 years ago 2
I love this song, but it only reminds me that for every single mama there is a dead beat dad or two. So hate on the ones who left not the ones who stay and care for the children.
rlr33 3 years ago
she was born to perform...just awesome.
Lgh45 3 years ago
i love this song...this is just what i'm going through and what i'm feeling. and YES, i know we will make it!! luv ya fantasia!
0motema0 3 years ago
thank you fantasia for such a beautiful song! i wish you all the good things life can bring you, youmake me feel like im not alone i love you for that! god bless you xxx
0798804 3 years ago
this is my girl i love some fantasia~1 no homo lol!
Leshababy09 3 years ago 3
My mom raised me. I'm proud of her for that.
Much respect to single moms. Keep it real.
Fantasia, you're as real as they come. I admire you for being bold enough to sing this song. You know your stuff. When I really listened to this song, it struck such a deep chord within me. I mean it's hard to keep from crying and just thanking God that mom was there when nobody else was...
SirReginald1 3 years ago 4
the music was too slow
elmadison 3 years ago
my fav!!! she can BLOW YALL! 1 of the best if not the best n the game
ba8504 3 years ago 4
i love fantasia she sounds like aretha franklin
jamesdavis76 3 years ago 4
awesome what else can I say? Just awesome
Twonon2009 3 years ago 3
This is a good performance I'm performing this for my mother next friday
IvoryIL 3 years ago
Damn dis is my first tine seein herperform this. I just knew it from her CD, but dat waz hott she kilt it as usual!
"I know u get that support check in the mail. You open it and u like, what the hell? This aint even half of daycare, sayin to yoself this SHIT AINT FAIR!"
That shit is real talk Tasia!
Scrap35218 3 years ago 4
lol she said this "here" ain't fair
jshanlin 3 years ago
naw buddy on da album she here, but on there she said shit...
Scrap35218 3 years ago
no she said this shit aint fair.
maurisheldon 3 years ago 2
y she so hood...lol...i love it
edwar360 3 years ago
Powerful Women and very beautiful tune. I pray that she will stay positive and keep doing her thing, NO DOUBT the best voice in music today. Outstanding!
Shiftyeyes516 3 years ago 3
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excuse me she is with jamie foxx
akatevin 3 years ago
And even if they do get married what about if he still walks awya and does nto pay child support some men are taking care of other womens children after walking out on their wives and children if a woman is abandoned by divorce she is still a baby mama.
truthb777 3 years ago 3
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Badge of honor??? Some loser knocks you up and doesn't think enough of you to make you his wife and you call that a badge of honor??
BricktownBubba 3 years ago
The badge of honor is for the woman or young lady actually gave birth and did not have an abortion and knew she and her child woul dface ridicule and insult from people like you and even though the guy walked awya the woman stayed in the mix.The women should be honored not the man,it takes two.
truthb777 3 years ago 8
Even though I agree with what you said,both of you are a little wrong, if you listen to the line she says "nowadays, it's like a badge of honor to be a baby mama" she isnt saying it is, shes saying people don't realize how hard it is to go at it alone...nothin but respect for single moms.
nctexas1976 3 years ago 3
i love this video any video from her ilove u fantaisa
sorrysosloppy31 3 years ago 3
Thank you chynasmom. anyone who doesn't understand what this song is about really did NOT listen to the lyrics. It is a song of empowerment. It says you may be down, abused and stigmatized but DO NOT despair. keep your head up. Fantasia is the next patti labelle performance wise. she is just fabulous
khamikins 3 years ago 4
fantasia's all the way "POWERHOUSE"
MOP THE FLOOR ON Em MOMMA........
bossnmeround 3 years ago 2
That's right chynasmom there are a lot of single mothers millions in fact and some in the church and she is also talking about the stigma society has placed on t hem and encouraging them not endorsing it!!!!If you are even divorced you then become a baby mama(single mama).
truthb777 3 years ago 5
this is just my opinion...i don't think she's glorifying single motherhood. she is talking about once the kids are already HERE. we all make mistakes, and once those mistakes are made you have to pick yourself up and do the best you can for you and your child. THAT is what she talking about. she is saying your situation is not the most optimal and things look bleek...BUT YOU CAN DO IT!!!!
chynasmom 3 years ago 5
Damn she makes anything sound Bomb !!
UliM2139 3 years ago 2
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While this performance is very good musically, i abhor the lyrics as they seem to glorify the one-parent stereotype. A wonderful talent such as hers might be better served praising discretion in choosing partners as well as safe sex practices, (condoms are freely available at clinics and schools almost everywhere)
If one chooses a life partner carefully before having a child in the first place, there are generally fewer obstacles to overcome
I'm just saying...
whammit2727 3 years ago
She's my idol. And the Best AI thus far. And she's going places never hit before, because she's not scared to take on what comes here way, and she never holds back, whats in, thats why she's blessed till dis day. I love this lady...I Hope to be where she's at someday.
datboifromdaburg 3 years ago 3
I love fantasias voice. she is soulful and she can sing love it! i cant till the new album. it has been said that she is currently in the studio working on her album.
Tiye20 3 years ago 2
home gurl tore it up! a like this song and I'm a dude, a straight one.
jmitch1010 3 years ago 4
look at my baby!!!!!
mavfan911 3 years ago 2
awesome talented====Fantasia
mjt1206 4 years ago 3
fantasia i love this baby mama song because am a single parent of three and by hearing this song this made me stonger
sexxykim32 4 years ago 3
aman
Voluptuous77 3 years ago