way. Love is important! Having children brought up by parents that love each other is very very important. I DON"T believe you would allow your child to stay in a marriage where they were actually experiencing emotional abuse! Emotional abuse is a real thing! It's not just something we women made up so we can blame other people for our unhappiness!
. So I could have children with this man and my children could see their mother cry all the time? A man that had no interest in being married at all in any way shape or form. Should I have just rotted my life away with this person? A man that didn't want to give me a divorce because he didn't want the embarrassment of being divorced. Some people aren't WELL and those of us who are have the right to a normal frum life! A wife has a right to have a husband who loves her (yes, in the Torah normal)
Really only those two reasons? I disagree, I was married to a person that actually was (no exaggeration) mentally ill. And he just knew how to Shichuch date very well. When I married this person and got to know him and his family it hit me I had walked into a nightmare. So let me ask you, at the ripe old age of 24 should I have stayed married to this person
I respect his opinion on many subjects...but not this. His ideas of marriage seem warped to me...even in an orthodox context there is romantic love....in some way he also states this, but then later on negates it
Another great video! From what I've seen "frum-frum" marriages seem to have a lower divorce rate, maybe because of pressures from within or because they have a lower expectation about romantic love and can focus on being a family unit. I do note a higher rate of divorce in "furm-BT (repentant)" marriages and when one partner in a secular marriage turns orthodox, then forget about it . Game over. How many BTs do you know who got their secular partner to become a BT too?
@TheJewWrangler .Nothing wrong in his clouths , big boy! The wrong is in you!
arual1969 9 months ago
!00 % Ronnen has right! ,,REST IN PEACE < SWEET PEARL SMILE!
arual1969 9 months ago
way. Love is important! Having children brought up by parents that love each other is very very important. I DON"T believe you would allow your child to stay in a marriage where they were actually experiencing emotional abuse! Emotional abuse is a real thing! It's not just something we women made up so we can blame other people for our unhappiness!
felix2694 1 year ago
. So I could have children with this man and my children could see their mother cry all the time? A man that had no interest in being married at all in any way shape or form. Should I have just rotted my life away with this person? A man that didn't want to give me a divorce because he didn't want the embarrassment of being divorced. Some people aren't WELL and those of us who are have the right to a normal frum life! A wife has a right to have a husband who loves her (yes, in the Torah normal)
felix2694 1 year ago
Really only those two reasons? I disagree, I was married to a person that actually was (no exaggeration) mentally ill. And he just knew how to Shichuch date very well. When I married this person and got to know him and his family it hit me I had walked into a nightmare. So let me ask you, at the ripe old age of 24 should I have stayed married to this person
felix2694 1 year ago
I respect his opinion on many subjects...but not this. His ideas of marriage seem warped to me...even in an orthodox context there is romantic love....in some way he also states this, but then later on negates it
joshuaeben 2 years ago
Another great video! From what I've seen "frum-frum" marriages seem to have a lower divorce rate, maybe because of pressures from within or because they have a lower expectation about romantic love and can focus on being a family unit. I do note a higher rate of divorce in "furm-BT (repentant)" marriages and when one partner in a secular marriage turns orthodox, then forget about it . Game over. How many BTs do you know who got their secular partner to become a BT too?
codej0 3 years ago
Thank you for this video, you are totally right.
ScuzzylilAmeriWhore 3 years ago