Let's Talk; Confidence & Haters

[AutumnAnomaly]

@aloola1991 you're so right. Feeling good about who you are inside is just as important as how u look outside probably more. If you just feel good about the way you look outside and you don't have your own personality other people would label you as being "fake".

[makkausakit]

Bitch. Quit yappin and make me a sandwitch

[waddupskiiskii]

I have these tips in my head but thanx, helps to hear from other people

[aloola1991]

no offense but this wasn't good advice :p, for your confidence to change according to how you look is fake confidence, by knowing your self value & worth you can wake-up from bed look horrible but still feeling confident & amazing, to say "feeling confident to me is looking my best" is not the best advice, what are you guna tell those who are born deformed? They can't have confident?

[iceprincezze]

i am exactly the same way about the skinnyness.. get so much hate from it and theres nothing i can do !

[tiddliwinksmustache]

i love your hair

[supercreativename]

but from personal experience, family and even close friends don't necessarily have your best interest in mind. sometimes THEY want to bring you down

[2davivadiva]

Asians tend to have very judgmental families...

[signupsigma]

are you korean?

[KoreaRwkz]

Why do you think you don't look good sometimes? (as you've mentioned)

You are VERY pretty. I clicked on this video because I saw the thumbnail and I thought, "Holy shit, what a babe!". But I also clicked on this video because I was looking up videos of low self-esteem because I have serious low self-esteem issues. Also, that was an enlightening speech you gave, I'm anti-social so I don't have the chance to realise that many people share the same pessimistic thoughts and problems as me.

[ilovepizzaforever07]

u r cute! i love your style



[angelifyification]

People who don't eat to become skinny don't look as healthy as she does. They look pale and sick in the faces. It's very easy to tell, as I was once anorexic and so was my sister.

[MrDanielTynan]

If you were REALLY confident as you claim to be, then you would not have so much makeup hiding your real looks.

[MissNekaBabyyy]

@MrDanielTynan just because she wears makeup doesn't mean she doesn't have confidence. I'm sure she loves herself just as much without it.

[LovelyBeauty21]

@MrDanielTynan Some people don't wear makeup to hide their imperfections. It can also be represented as a work of art or just a way to express her passion for makeup. Even the most confident people wants to hide a small minority of their imperfections.

[lilrockemo11]

@MrDanielTynan meanie girls wear make up because its lik a finishing touch

[missprincessdiiana]

how tall are you?

[angelifyification]

@missprincessdiiana Is being short taking your confidence away ,too? I hate being short too? I have no confidence because of it. Vivian's almost 5'2... how tall are you? I'm a little under five feet :( short people stick together? :)

[CocoLili04]

your so cute just discovered your channel! you're so right in this video I totally agree with you! have a nice day beautiful!

[xMYSATiSFASHiONx]

Where did you get that shirt?! I love it lol

[froggiejumper]

Exactly! I have lots of confidence when I wear outfits I like

[hotmonkeylove691]

I get hate for being thin too! it's so annoying. >.<

[LittleCiaraCat]

@hotmonkeylove691 me too :|

[flopez375]

Great advice!!

[NavneetPeace]

they so your fat i do snap snap snap wateve girl !!! yup i ignore so it gets to them awwwwww ur not doin anythin bad and it drives them crazy .... its like a win win things but a lose lose for them .... i think..

[jbhallom1]

all the people that was talking is haters

[jbhallom1]

love you'r self for u

[jbhallom1]

u r right tell them haters when they say ' you're fat' say, ' at least my man like it '.

[jellyperales]

its very challenging to become confident when your the exact opposite but it is so possible ;) hope, love, and positvity are key when building up your inner confidence..

[Universal237]

Great video and you are really pretty!

[ClassicJamie]

Looks Attract but Personality Keeps <3

[thepinkjellybeans]

I love your hair, but when you force all your bangs to one side, it falls down constantly. So,you should part it better! Only problem!

Overall, <3 the videoooo!

[AnnaKurusis]

bitch, what you talking about? you're fat! :P haha just kidding. you look normal weight, I don't think you're too skinny.

[ka0tix33404]

i am the same i am most confident when i think i look good(:

[BrunomarsFan176]

Haha i came from tejb to

[husbo123]

If i had to make a choice, i'd rather pick a girl without make up and fashion clothes than a girl with make up and fashion clothes to have dinner with, as long as you are not disgusting or nasty, you're fine to me. I just think trying to be like everyone else who is ''hip'' is like being weak, but you can get strong, but you have to do it by yourself, not following any guides like this on youtube, everyone can be mentally strong, you just have to know yourself and be as you want.

[husbo123]

Accepting yourself isn't the same thing as dressing up and wearing make up. Accepting yourself is accepting who you REALLY are, not who you are TRYING to be. Instead of putting on that mascara to make you feel confident, look at yourself in the mirror and think or say to yourself that even if you are not the ''hottest girl in the world'' you are still a human. And no human can be perfect, just try your best, look how you want to look and you have to be some selfish sometimes, it is the best.

[miandautie]

I never dress to impress anyone else, I dress to make myself feel nice, I think that's how it should be. & About haters, I always watch what I write on the computer b/c people can always take it out of context and read things in what you write that you were not trying to say, and stuff really hurts, it's hard not to let it affect you. But this was a very good video, thank you, I will remember the things you said :)

[TheButterfly2907]

aww you are so cutee <3

[RadiantxBluexRose]

aww, i like you:) this pep talk actually really helped me. thank you<3

[o3darkbabycutie]

you`re a very good speaker (Y) :)

[BebeIsaa]

your very pretty:) even with ur freckles you look cute

[NOBODYNOSE1]

she is quite the bobblehead

[DaKeisterReaper]

you are gorgeous

[dontforgetlew]

I believe we have the same hair cut. :) except my bangs are a lot shorter

[dontforgetlew]

I believe we have the same hair cut. :)



[TheShale187]

thats why I love bodybuilding. so I can look my best XD

[TheShale187]

glass half full

[MegaTara1991]

i love your freckles ^^

[ChristineAt16]

one tip also girls is not to compare yourself to others! just be the best YOU can be. Comparing yourself to others will only make you feel and look even worse.

[calvin065]

lol women are funny

[DjYommy]

@calvin065 hahahahahahahahahaha

[129LANA0heart0]

@calvin065 its true.

[NoSc0peMassacre]

Lol tejbz brought me here lol XD

[jjeokam]

I was watching tejbz and clicked this on acedent... Im a dude and didnt know youtube has vids like thiss...

[daTorsPelaRen]

@jjeokam hahahha same here:)

[6ledzeppelin]

@jjeokam i came from tejbz too

[GhostsNSt00f]

@jjeokam Yep I came from tejbz too haha

[NewsComment1]

@jjeokam What lots of vids of teens going through pubertry, and NOT keeping PRIVATE.

[CloudsofEuphoria]

also! if you really want to get some curves you should really research eating a lot of protein and working out! i know you're already skinny but working out can really shape you & change your life. try giving protein shakes a try for breakfast and working out :)! you have a great personality btw!

[CloudsofEuphoria]

thank you for this, really.

thank you :)

[pcTIFFANYJOAN]

if i may ask, what color is the bottom of your hair cause it looks like a brown ish color. and i like it(:

[Eight1Eighty2]

Vaseline on dresser

[MultiRee123]

you look like heart (ThatsHeart)

<3

[Dioselinakills03]

i love your sweater/shirtt (;

[ZeroTheHero17]

i wanna see you naked

[zydnaay]

I LOOOVEE your shirt! Please reply and tell me where'd you get it! I'm not gonna lie mostly half of this video I was looking at your shirt 8/ lol

[BrokenDarkFire]

I think one of the key things of confidence is feeling free to be who you are. All my life pre-high school, I felt like a freak because I was so different from everyone. Then I got into a school where everyone was different, and it was just really... what's the word?... EMPOWERING! Ha ha, there we go. My brain today... lulz. Anyway, just my two-cents. -BDF

p.s. Love your shirt, btw.

[ratm239]

I hate my clothes, my hair, my acne, my teeth, my braces, my height, my voice, my laugh, my lack of friends, my body shape, and every aspect of myself :)

[keiraLuvn]

Where did you get your shirt!? It's amazing! Haha

[Jamezzz2k11]

Do you have a boyfriend

[joeshmoethe3rd]

omg thank you so much for this, i've been having a lot of issues dealing with how naturally skinny i am, and this helped my confidence a lot knowing someone else has the same problem. my friends are constantly comparing themselves to me and i always feel horrible about it, but i can't help it, i was born this way. it's so hard to look at magazines where every woman is shaped like a victorias secret model when you're shaped like a stick. thank you for helping my confidence in myself! :)

[kayseaann]

I LOVE your shirt. Where did you get it from?

[momee04]

superb!

[stillxhomesick]

id tap it

[thealicepeng]

Great video! Haha my family is really judgmental too, Asian thing maybe? lol. Your personality and confidence make you more beautiful :).

[TUNCAY8989]

ccacacac

[randomfriendlyguy]

Of course pretty girls get my attention, but i only ask out the ones with a good personality.

[MakeupwithCaroline1]

I love your videos!!!! 

[xaishiteru099x]

great vid!

[sparkelicious788]

Love your jewelry holders where you get it?

[fyiandtmi]

When you look good you feel good. Ignore what you hate and look for what you love. Play up your best attributes and downplay those you don't. If there is something you absolutely hate that is changeable you can change it but know :

that there is only 1 you and you should love and accept yourself as is! :)

[serokserokserokserok]

i tap that

[xxAlicexxhnp]

You are such a nice and genuine person and your boyfriend is so funny.

[saugei]

You are very pretty in my opinion. Thank you for the video, I have gained more insight. One thing I would like to mention is not everybody has parents or siblings who tells things to mean the best. Some parents or siblings may have snarly remarks meant to only be upsetting. So, keep an open mind to close ones opinions, but also reflect on yourself to really see if their words would apply. I really liked this video a lot!

[ILoveNarnia1119]

I like how real you r cuz other gurus just say things about personality nd yes u should think about the outside too because if u feel good on the outside u r most likely to feel good on the inside..

[MichaelaGap]

I would like to see video "What's in my purse" :))

[OneStepInTime]

How are you so skinny:(?x

[PeaceUdo]

Also agree about the haters. Ever since I did youtube, its like... at first it makes you feel insecure but after a while you're just like "ok, means nothing..." also, its interesting to keep in mind that celebs and youtubers you love have the exact. same. haters. Then it transfers to real life. haters in real life really just slide off lol. Now, if a hater says what they think of me, I say "Well, that's good for you" or "that's your problem" because it is THEIR problem. Not mine.

[PeaceUdo]

Agree so much with not comparing yourself to others. Not just in looks, but in everything else.

[thatgirlrae]

great video. well said.

[ezza123123]

great advice xx you look really pretty

[ezza123123]

great advice xx

[appelbob7]

that was like spot on, in my thoughts :) great work xx

[ediththirtyseven]

thank you vivian! this is so true!

[gymrat720]

Haha brush your teeth!

[XPRESSproductionz]

This was really nice! I actually hate my body, although I'm actually working to become fit though. I'm really glad you acknowledged looks, because looks SO matter. And as for the family thing- I agree. Your immediate family matter, your family as in cousins and uncles...don't take them too harsh.

[CottonCandrea]

Cute video. Its true that you really must love yourself (with AND without makeup!! Its addicting). Ask your friends why they like you- you may be surprised with the nice things they say. I would also suggest taking up new hobbies that build confidence. MARTIAL ARTS! :) Then at least you know you can kick ass. Wake up every morning and say "I'm exceptional" - and believe it.

[AnitaakaMaya]

Definitly you are totally right! <3 Thanks! =^_^=

[BeckyLurvesYou]

Well of course you have confidence...you're gorgeous...

[123fashionobsessed]

i love you for this ur gorg<333

[iemsally]

Thank you so muchhhhhhh! Keeping it real and not saying what people wanna hear. I feel so much better when I dress nicely (:

[xMizzChAwNsEyx]

14 minutes, worth the wait. <3

[REEADYSETGO]

:) thanks so much for this video.

[figurette]

loving the shirt

[snowangelfromheaven9]

i like how you keep things real instead of saying things you don't really mean. (:

[001Helena]

great video!

Can you do an early spring clothing fashion haul?

[cassandraa143]

omigosh thank youu for this video !!!!

[sweetme231]

loved what u said! I really liked what you said about people staring. I have a twin and people tend to do a double-take when we r walking side by side, it used to really bother us, we felt like we were being watched b/c we were freaks lol but after some time we came to brush it off and treat as no big deal.

[dreamALLyouWANT]

girl, i do not think you are too skinny, you're a good size. and i know what you mean by, when everyone's looking at you, you think they are seeing your flaws, i feel like that too like, all the time! and i think your really pretty so yeaah =)

[Lipstickchick126]

haha, brush your teeth... :)

[computers435]

@euleexlove hahah she does!

[2009melynda]

Are you doing anything to make you hair grow faster. If so what are your tips?

[uberaudioexperience]

If people are staring at you it is probably because your are pretty hot looking. If people are staring at me, I am looking down and checking to see if my fly is open. Haha. On the serious side, when I start to nit pick my looks I think about the people I have seen , on tv or in person, that have been burned or have missing or deformed features, and then my wrinkles or moles or noise size is nothing to what these people are living with. I just give thanks that I am healthy.

[xAyuka]

Your hair looks great; And I love the new shuurtt. :)

[11mady]

loving myself starts from not abusing your stomach, that means not stuffing everything in there. not taking offences from haters. clothes help alot!! friends help.backbone friends help

[xoTigerxo1]

I relate to you sooo much on the skinny ness. I was born with a high metabolism, i get called anorexic, Bulmic everything in school. thats one of the reasons why im not confident. :l

[lizzysayshai]

im not confident in my self at all, i try to fix it but never really works ):

especially around guys ohmygod haha

[iheartmakeup2]

thank you this video really helped me <3

[ItsKristinatime]

im pretty confident...but i have this ugly nose..people say its not that noticable ...boys dont really notice it too.. but im so self-conscious about it...i guess its all in my head .i have to change it and stop thinking about it

[jessiranha]

i wanna be confident and beautiful from the inside..=/

[gmtubatute]

i think ur a good motivational speaker viv :D keep it up! xx

[leilyhaddad]

"Brush your teeth" LOL Christian.

[7722summertime7]

Nice video, very uplifting!

[joyfulperson3]

goooood tip. can u do a make up tutorial btw. heh its so pretttyy.

[TheMissAlly]

I try and try to get confident but it never works :( the thing I hate about myself is my thighs and my arms :(

[katrineehj]

@TheMissAlly if yor tights and arms is the only yhing you have to complain about, then dont let i destroy your self image! :Dit could be worse.

[TheMissAlly]

@katrineehj Yeah I guess your right . but im trying to love me for me

[lilpackerfreak]

@TheMissAlly you just threw everything she said out the window! don't point out things u dont like about yourself!

[PeaceUdo]

@TheMissAlly Fake it til you make it, honey!! Just fake it. Just pretend like you are confident. Eventually, it'll seep in. :)

[TheMissAlly]

@PeaceUdo Ok thanks :D

[john1900Lahme12]

@TheMissAlly man be happy ur fat just say 100% of me is muscles it works for my cockey friend!

[TheMissAlly]

@john1900Lahme12  Im not fat I just hate what I said I hated

[john1900Lahme12]

@TheMissAlly im joking :D

[TheMissAlly]

@john1900Lahme12 Ok :D

[john1900Lahme12]

@john1900Lahme12 no im not

[narutohinatatakarra]

@TheMissAlly Keep trying mabby run every other day I try to and i'm not to confident but I tell myself i'm pretty haha listen to bruno mars just the way you are! :)

[TheMissAlly]

@narutohinatatakarra Thanks so much

[annamariebeauty]

@TheMissAlly Please don't take offense to this because I mean none at all but if you hate something that you could change then just do something to change it. Do exercises for your thighs and arms and make them a certain way. By actually doing something about it it will almost make you doubly confident when you reach your goal because you put in so much hard work to get to where you wanted to be. Just a suggestion. I'm not saying I'm perfect but I work to change whatever I can that I don't like.

[TheMissAlly]

@annamariebeauty Ok I lost 16lbs since this video ;)

[zeebs19]

this is good advice!

[2009MiSsB]

real good advice :) love your top

[babylindaaa]

Hey vivian, alot of awesome advice! love your videos as always.

[FatPigCypris]

You are soo hawt, I wanna bang you!

[Bunomous]

@FatPigCypris you are like twice her age

[MrMarycontraire]

@FatPigCypris LOL im pretty sure the feeling isnt mutual, FAT PIG CYPRIS.

[JessicuhAguilar]

I needed this. Thank you so much! :)

[sweetsusy6]

Great Video! I did a video just like this...

We all should love ourselves and the way we look! It makes us the way we are, now if we have bad habits we can change that too and just be good people like you! SO haters stop hating its not good for anyone!

[keuneun3862]

great video !! I just like you <3

[yvetteluu]

I wish I had a friend like you in person. Like, f'realsss~

[TiasVanity]

great video! Your hair is soo pretty!!!!

[swedishfishxoxo]

this is a really inspiring video! thanks so much for doing this :)

[electricgummie]

where is your shirt from

[TheMissAlly]

@electricgummie forever 21

[valentine211]

what did u use for your eye shadow?

[halffacesally]

thanks for the video. you're a great role model!

[juicyjulia1996]

You're so pretty!!! You're outfit is adorabubble! <3

[sukisho100]

when i saw that shirt in your haul it didn't look cute (no offense) but it looks SO GOOD on!! :)

[juevang]

You are so pretty! :) I'm loving the hair.

[simplymariaig]

omg thanks for doing this viD. LUV U!!!