"The Fastest Way To Build Self-Confidence"

[ANDREASMAVROS]

what is the` problem of seeking others poeples advice and aproval..since when this was a bad thing in life...bussiness leaders wory about what their clients are thinking...we all need the aproval of those around of us to one degree or another...glients..teamates..f­amily members..and yes we`all build confidence when we gain others`aproval...human..very human..

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[MADOG1011]

i dont know wat u saidusing big words...soo ima go

[KiriouSs]

this girl really cheered me up^

[Someguyfrom1973]

press 2 over and over again to get the full jerk off effect

[Someguyfrom1973]

watch her hands. She jerks off rodents to increase her confidence

[cycoman702]

Umm yea no that's not the way say I'm going to fuck you that's how you get shit done

[cycoman702]

Go direct

[CrispyCarlosA]

Suck a fat dick !

[MsDeelz]

Come visit my site for instant compliment videos :) videos targeted at complimenting how fabulous you are :) The key to gaining confidence starts with speaking positively to yourself, or accepting positive compliments

[anonymouse1969]

this lady is badass

[mistywillow4]

That didn't tell me anything I didn't already know. Confidently speaking bullshit does not make it useful. Thanks for nothing

[MrSunshineSOS]

Oral book reports suck... And this didn't help at all

[pwrsys]

ILLUMINATI SYMBOL!!! 0:30

[ihereticz]

@pwrsys LOL that's just a triangle diagram..just because it's a triangle doesn't mean it's illuminati symbolism. :/

[pwrsys]

@ihereticz i know that XD i only trolled

[H0MEBREAD]

@pwrsys you need an eye dude otherwise its just a triangle

[ihereticz]

@pwrsys hahah ;)

[tobitguren]

:D swell!

[chibraxial]

I'm confident that I won't give you any of my money.

[MrJaffa2015]

I think winning the Lottery would help.

[6158002]

Go direct.............. yes thanks for the sharing nice video

[sab628]

good

[Hamza2436]

im sick nad tird of thes fucking  videos .

[hardassteel]

The best way to build confidence is to not be a fucking pussy. 

[hazlitt1]

Far too many contrived gestures. She is like a manic Italian, a windmill. Really irritating as you feel she is doing a 'number' on you to impress.

[pixipower08]

Really like her presentation and energy. Expect to add this video to my current website which is self confident-related.

[TVkeyse]

it seems everyone has a lack of confidence lol

[Papua1993]

she is the psychiatrist from two and a half men, is not she?

[jfyvneld]

@Papua1993 nope

[FotbollBROR]

hehehe

[WhiteMoonLights]

she is annoying,terrible dress too,shit

[Videodrome97]

i'de do her

[SelfImprovementClips]

Totally agree with you on the points that you have highlighted in this particular video. Short, crisp, precise and straight to the point. Have given this video my thumbs up and will share it with my readers in my self-improvement blog. Thanks! :)

Cheers

Alex Quinn

[jsharps1000]

the real way to get confident is go out and buy a new outfit then go talk to someone that is lower than your normal standards you'll have hella confidence then.

[Someguyfrom1973]

she gives Mickey Mouse handjobs

[eMJayRecordz]

Everybody has confidence.... on YouTube comments section.

[TheMitchellWhite]

FAKE AND GAY

[zgnulnori]

i used this video and i asked this woman out on a date which she refused i was totally wrong the girl didnt like me in fact she got a restraining order on me i thought she was paying hard to get so i used bold strategic thinking and confidence but turns out the woman never liked me i was just making an ass out of myself THANX LADY

[tjlinnard]

This is true, yet a little pitchy and salesy. I have found that nearly every thing out there that has to do with confidence and finding a better self image is spawned from Dr. William Wolcotts book, Psycho-Cybernetics. Its all about understand that a neg. self image is a false one. You have to look inside of yourself and find the root cause or causes of this falicy, truly realize it is false and then set out to correct it. What she speaks of is directly from this concept. best book ever.

[miranda1charm7]

intro looks like that soap opera my grandma watches.."Days of Our Lives." LOLOL she uses a LOT of hand motions...c;

[BeautyByKellie]

she reminds me of charlie sheen :L

[assimali1994]

Go Direct! 

[dripsta23]

@ mrcassanova lol I read his comment as well I have to say they are some clever ideas

[dripsta23]

sounds like being direct is more like over confident which has similar success effects cause its still not a mutual emotion

[MrCassanova08]

@333earthfire Lol whats the reason behind your list, I am intrigued at reading what you wrote.

[SuperKenneth100]

Damn ,Thank you! I love you!

[carlorowe]

This video is really short yet details a huge amount on how to build confidence. If your very busy daily and need just a simple guide to build your confidence, this is it!

[mohamedali2003]

@ferrybeer, that is why you get confused in life.......

[vanadium3]

Go Direct!!!!!!

[ChateauSiran1986]

this is the only truth I ever heard from a psychologist: I do exactly everystep she expained of inderect; ALL of them, I learned doing it about 2 weeks ago from my self, without knowing videos like these existed.

[northernireland0000]

THT WAS THE BIGGEST LOAD OF SHITE

[xenariz]

@northernireland0000 lol your so right IS THIS INDIRECT BEHAVIOUR???

[Selfimprovementips]

Very informative video and I love the way you demonstrated the way to build confidence with the pyramids. Its spot on, I look forward to more info.

[cassidapax]

Hey I know you! You're Deputy Trudy from Reno 911!

[boteugur]

my english is not good. i cant understand. Can somebody write what woman saysor is there video with subtitle

[DebraGanoTV]

Hi Sharon Melnick. Like the video. Very interesting and informative. Keep it up. :)

[Sw1tchBladeMalone]

They should title this "HOW TO SPEAK UP IN A BOARD ROOM MEETING" - because this had nothing to do with any aspect of my life.

[xXAllyShadowXx]

um... ya lost me lol

[RhakarkX]

god the fact that she's very smart, confident, AND beautiful gives me a boner

[richtawee2007]

a really good video.

Thank you very much.

[kingedvard24]

fucking annoying sound when that crappy diagram shows up!

[Nixom1334]

The way I make myself feel more comfortable is: I ask myself "Am I ridiculously Amazing and Awesome?"

then I think about one of those Geiko commercials Like "does a woodchuck chuck wood?" and then the little scene after. then I laugh my ass off and forget about it

[TheMobileMotivator]

This is a very interesting video. It takes a different perspective on self-confidence that others don't. Nice work!

[Josevalentim1]

Really helpful.

[MrNinecrimes]

When Im unconfident or somethung I go a place where I'm alone and act like Ben Roethlisberger and then i feel all strong. Well there might have been some quite awkward encounter on the restroom but i tell you it works for me...

[SuperLongestusername]

Laughter is the key.

[SuperGauss100]

does this actually work for anyone?im trying to get over my shyness 

[danceforlife143]

....GO DIRECTTT

[startvideonow]

all true with an exception...it's not in a short time, it takes some time. but i agree with everyting

[WillFiordalisi]

well said!

[kyladennise]

helpful. thanks... :/

[StayOutta237]

Pantsuit.

[SideburnsRule841]

she's so old school haha.

i love it.

[daddytatanka]

Sharon you rock!

[LaContessaPoetessa]

I like the video it's very practical and informative. She has GREAT energy and the diagram was very helpful. Definitely, I am going to use it in the working world when I teach langauages.

As for all the other stupid comments (stebiu), why can't you just be nice? Is it perhaps you are lacking in confidence and self esteem yourself that you have to stoop so low and put others down?

I really don't understand why people put energy into putting others down when they don't really merit it.

[WillFiordalisi]

@LaContessaPoetessa well said

[freshencounter]

Nice video; great messaging!

[AwesomenessVidStudio]

She looks like Michael J Fox

[uncleleo1million]

Good video!

However, after reading some of the negative comments here, it kind of freaks you out how many scary people there are in this world. Too bad we could not separate the bad apples and ship them off to their own separate part of the planet.

[pan1974100]

ooo hooo, self confidence. I love this video.

[JamesNintendoNord]

her fucking body language and this vid fucking sucks!!

[kewlbakshi]

Now I have become MORE UNCONFIDENT

[vvz1234]

i didnt get shit of whats the direct way.

[Modelcola]

I dont get shit of what she is sayn

[FlattedSeventh]

different directions? team? vision? what? i still don't know how to do it.

[FlattedSeventh]

different directions?  team? vision? what?

[Jessicasingzforever]

too much info, too little time.. i could not get all that

[SEDomination]

I love this video! Most of the people who had negative comments probably (a) felt bad about themselves (b) felt jealous of her confidence (c) are involved in personal training themselves and hence have a vested interest.

I liked the way the presenter described people who get confident by getting others to give it to them. Interesting.

I do agree with "evammg" though- I would've liked some more concrete steps myself...

[shridharnike]

stupid video....the instructor itself seems to be annoying....hate this fucking american bullshit...

[iHAVE1j]

Using confidence to guide your social life, even in the big social situations like meetings, interviews, etc. is a sham. Any intelligent person sees it as fake and self-serving. Often it's perceived as substituting a lack of knowledge with an overbearing personality the same way a people pleaser may laugh all the time. Realizing that people want you to explain yourself with clarity, depth and both loudly and slowly enough for them to understand is much better. Don't buy into this shit!

[Nupeteam]

She looks GAY!

[evammg]

Thanks for the video, but something very important is missing: how to change your behaviour into direct behaviour. You don't say anything about that!! And that's the point of the whole thing, people looking how to reach the direct way.. unsuccesfully!

[TheMegaman117]

i feel like im going to be a failure at my sports career down the road and i have no clue how to overcome that. im working hard but i feel like its not enough.

[middoo08]

thats just with careers bitch

[Fattboy26]

what a load of shit

[yadvir222]

Lolol

[JustinYoelSkaat]

what a whore! i want my 3:36 mins back!!!!!

[MalcomTV2]

she plays darts a lot.

[LeelooBrasil]

@MalcomTV2  XD damn dude u made me LOL at work

[TheInfliction]

@MalcomTV2 haha xD

[zbap]

@MalcomTV2, I read your comment before watching the video. I laughed so heartily I missed everything. :-)

[shhbzahmed9]

@MalcomTV2 lolz

[lolaxian]

@MalcomTV2 lmaoo

[rajivx3]

@MalcomTV2 : Loved ur comment... had a hearty laugh.. :)

[twin1027]

@MalcomTV2 LMMFAO

[misslorena90]

I need confidence so i can get friends.

[madisondh123]

GO DIRECT!!!! 

[grownupTv]

x.x i need confidence so i can get a job and move out of my perants house -.- they annoying specialy my dad -_-

[Darsyzero]

This is weird, but definetly true, thanks

[honabunna]

even though this is corny she is rightt

[HRWellness]

Direct Confidence is the way to go, Thanks for the reminder - a lot of indirect behaviors for confidence also stem from a lack of self love and who you really are. Great vid. HR

[DarinShaKur]

is this man or girl?!?!?

[AmeerAseer]

Her body language is very silly and stubid

[OdoubleTO]

the bitch is so artificial (and probably lesbian) but I definitely think she is right: one should not look to other people (whether family or friends) for approval, or false, short-lasting confidence. instead, focus on your endeavors and doing them well and you will naturally feel more confident in who you are because you are succeeding in being YOU.

[jazzisaac22]

in other words, don't worry so much about what people think about you... think of your goal and make sure that your every action and every way you react to things will get you closer to that goal

[1LTZ1]

Direct way my babe lesbian

[adamamida]

Yeah Real Deal! 'Member Go Direct! XD

[squirttle92]

She said the word "confident" six times within the first 20 seconds

[sonic200990]

@squirttle92 Brainwashing yourself is the best way to be confident.

[mynaturalelegance]

@sonic200990 lol

[faisalkfpm]

so: in short:

never care about what people might jadge you

[faisalkfpm]

thanks lady

[LegoMW2guns]

she would make a great flight attendant

[colormestupid798]

meh... I think I'll just hit the bottle instead.

[MsStarburstChic]

I'm sorry I didn't listen to a word she said can someone please sum it up for me?

[ListenSpeakBelieve]

@MsStarburstChic Go Direct!

[jacqueline3b]

@MsStarburstChic GO DIRECT.

[butterz2butterz2]

ok lets rob that bank chaps

[onlineinfocompany]

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[MDHousewife]

Awesome! Thank you.

[whyeff21]

i like her. theres some pretty convincng points she is saying. i need to stop holding back.

[dycarbon1]

She is overacting. Doesn't look the least bit natural.

[cimore]

i tryed this and i got fired from work..

[sasukeXI]

Go Direct!

[SwissProsperity]

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[ThePankar95]

has anyone heard of the book Unstoppable Confidence by Kent Sayre?

Pls does anyone know if its a scam or not?

[i90east]

@cameron244333

Damn it lmao... now I can't focus on this video. What was it about again?

[FarmGiraffe]

The secret to self-confidence is positive and correct thinking. When you realize that bullies are unloved and neglected, and that it's the good people who are loved and accepted in society, everything will change and bullies won't be able to hurt you with their actions anymore.

[dancerguy007]

So true ... I agree to her point when she says that when others try to influence your decissions or your work think about what you want and boil down all the directions to one main result that you want and target that. This way nothing can harm you achievement. I actually liked her way she represent it...with nice and energetic gestures that interpret her explains. I liked when she smiles at time when its needed..

[deuceownzu]

OR MAYBE WE CAN GO OVER TO MAMBY-PAMBY LAND WHERE WE CAN FIND SOME SELF-CONFIDENCE FOR YOU, YA JACK WAGON!

[TehNickIsNoob]

@deuceownzu AGREED!

[War4Gore]

I'm 14 and I didn't understand this. I let my friends walk all over me because I'm not confident, can anyone help?

[TehNickIsNoob]

@War4Gore I am the same way. I have no friends now. It is honestly better to have few or no friends rather than ones that walk over you. When time comes you will make friends that are worth having.

[toArendtEsquire]

I'M STRONG. SO I CAN OVERCOME MY LOW-CONFIDENCE !

[veryscorp]

She is acting too much; looks more like overacting. self confidence simply means BEING AT EASE AND COMFORT WITH YOUR OWN SELF in all the situation by managing the difficulties through proper thoughts. you dont have to be loud and some1 else. Its all being you & keep urself cool. Do your best & leave into the God rest.

[ImogenPain]

im 20 year old guy, i was 19 years totally unconvident, never had girlfriend never had done what i thought etc. few months ago i started with a workout 4 times a week, its special workout, now i have so much convidence when i go in a building i get every girl i want. sports is the perfect solution!

[cikie100]

cool

[26436320]

nice ,short and very direct

[AngelClaw40]

Is she a lesb?

[waqasaps]

@AngelClaw40 why you think so

[AngelClaw40]

@waqasaps dunno, just askin...

[waqasaps]

@AngelClaw40 not a good question

[Nanofierce16]

Thank you, very helpful. :)

[LovePigSqueals]

i dont get it :|

[FreeSpiritSatan]

Nice video Sharon

[pghpreacher]

Great advice

[joe700700]

somehow i find this video really funny....LOL!

[NewSocialSystems]

Basically this concept is called internal vs external validation. The fastest way to building your confidence is based on internal principals not external. If you base your confidence on your own value that is the best way to something lasting.

Just seems a bit market and corny.

[emilyxdaniels]

She does gesture a lot but you know what... she's right.

[atif2win]

@emilyxdaniels, agreed

[poweroftheatom]

good advice

[stebiu]

i bet she became unconfident after uploading this video and reading the comments.

[BAMFSniperDave]

@stebiu That's the thing about self-confidence. It's not giving a shit about what others think about you!

[Seedofwinter]

@stebiu I find your comment funny, but I think it's off base.

[kawkaw14]

I am so unsure of myself but honoustly, this doesn't do shit ...

[peeaches]

shes a bullshit artist



[Tyannalyn]

@peeaches No.

[johncenawf]

yeah.... she plays darts..... bulls eye

[batista777]

Most of these people who are so "confident" would crumble the moment something doesn't go according to plan.

[drumdude46]

Kills me how after a minute or so of this, it became clear to me (once again) that this is another "Corporate Power" Mind-Tweak, designed solely to "get one up off his or her Ass, and.........Produce for the COMPANY! Lol! god. we as humans really cornered ourselves with all this, "Gotta Be Succesful! Powerful in the modern World! Make Lots of Money, by manipulating EVERY ANGLE and FACET, under my control, so......I can go out and "Control Others" ( however subtle) and..WIN!!