African Women vs. African-American Women: Who is Better?

[die4ethio]

the photo you choose of African woman says more about your point . .. this topic is . You cant hate the root of a tree .

[BeautyHealthZoneBlog]

Brice, I think you have general issues with women. I have watched your other videos and you are contradicting yourself. Well, you did say you are in your twenties, so you have time to mature and grow up.

Good luck with your quest to find "THE ONE"....LOL

[ogamike]

It's funny how the word 'Africa" is used as if it were a country. For Heaven's sake it is a freaking continent . It drives me nuts when I hear people say I am going to Africa. Where in Africa are you going gaadamit ?? If you are travelling to Japan, I don't hear em saying I'm going to Asia . Or if you are going to London, you wouldn't tell me I'm going to Europe. It seems like people are either ashamed or ignorant when it comes to Africa.

[AllGirlsWannaHaveFun]

im african and i do understand what you mean

the only reason why most africans worship other men is to leave africa

[strawberri46254]

@HealthIsInPlease south africa is owned by englad. Who are you to make the assumption that African's aren't civilized, I bet anything you haven't been there.

[superstarYK]

@strawberri46254 point of correction, SOUTH AFRICA WAS A DUTCH COLONY, dumbass!!! go read your history b4 you start speaking...

[strawberri46254]

Damn, you are ignorant. African-American women only want you if you live that thug lifestyle, and African women only want you if you can bring them to America, they want citizenship. Why the hell would anyone want to live here, and stop stereotyping. Asshole.

[doctorw2]

all women are basicly the same all men are basicly the same period.

[Jabbaro123]

Knowone is better because both of them are African so whats the point?

[dukeroe]

man that is true thank you broutha 

[radiodiary1]

**THAT IS VERY TRUE**

[1tymthing]

Have you even been to Africa?

BTW not all Africans look like that.. Moroccans, egyptians, cape verdians, etc

& Don't think Africans are as poor as the media portrays.. they can afford to go to USA, Europe, etc

[Rockstafeller]

he's clearly talking about Subsaharan Africa, so i dont know why you mention Arabs

[1tymthing]

alright then, Angolans! btw Cape Verde is in west africa.

[1tymthing]

You're wrong! African women are different to African american. It depends on the man's behaviour. If the guy is not a pushover & sticks to his principles, most African women (95%) will respect it. However, with AA women, the percentage is by far lower. Why? Because in Africa its shameful to sleep around before marriage, family is very important, divorce is shameful. African women take this seriously. AA women have freedom to do what they want. Being a baby mama doesnt bring shame to a family.

[blcherki]

I'm aa and I have standards. I'm not a baby's mama though. You shouldn't categorize all AA in one when it comes to morals and family values. You should just speak for yourself and what you know to be fact. Apparently, you know nothing about AA women

[1tymthing]

@blcherki.. I'm just saying 'in general'. It doesn't apply to all AA women.

& what I DO know about AA women is that they live in a society of mixed cultures, hence no requirement to behave in a certain

[MUURCHOTI]

The Mindsets are.

[Ehisa20]

lol! SO FUNNY....so right! women are women...hahaha!

[Nuclearlovebomb]

He is telling the truth in the video.

All women want something from you, if they dont get it. They will get it from some one else behind your back anyway they can.

Once a woman has control over you, she will leave you and look for a Higher order male.

Alpha male is what all women want.

They want a nuckle dragger to breed with deep down.

Her life does not belong to you in her mind, her purpose is to have the strongest offspring.

Act Like a Man, not like an LA bytch boy.

[Misscocolabelle]

Did you have a bad experience with women or something?

[2007ICAN]

Very Very well put! I have dated Africans and African American females. Women are women. Some African woman are quality while others are big whores and the same applies to AA females.

[internationalcaliber]

African women and african-american women are not the same son. Not even an inch near. Most African girls or women are with white men/boys because they have money. Its the sacrifice they have to go through. African Women are stronger than African American women.

[Superseadragon]

You just contradicted yourself. "Most African girls or women are with white men/boys because they have money". That's a sign of a whore, not a strong woman. All women are the same.

[labellecongolaise]

women are just women you might end up with a good one or a bad it's just your luck

[jadapoo1]

African men complain all the time about being left by African women once they bring them to the U.S. Some of them leave the man at the airport!!! Women are not bad per say. This individual seems to think al women are gold diggers of sorts. Untrue. ALL of humanity, MEN AND WOMEN can have an ulterior motive. But what he said about women of one race not being better than any other women is true.

[jupeverte2]

Ignorance!!!!!!!!!!

[thehararean]

not every african woman wants to come to america and woman are different depending on historical facts, where you were raised, religion, how you see other races, media and propaganda,education, taboos. islamic cultured man will be looking for a different kinda woman than a christinity cultured man,so if the brother prefers african woman thats his choice to meet his different needs and so if an african sister falls for him its maybe she loves him and wouldnt care about coming to amerikka

[justinC504]

this dude dont kn0w shit

[AnnitaBabyLee]

Like you said it "women are women"

Oh and men are men, same way it goes with us women.

The video suck manball.

[savannahblk]

LMMFAOOOO!! African women are better than african american women and they stay away from brothers in america cuz we gangsters. U AFRICAN MUTHA FUKKAS need to do a reality check, the most famous women and men of or color is from america; not AFRICA. lmaooo, black women in america got the same qualities the african women have. so how da fucc they better; they cant even cook american dishes; so that shiet applys to u suckaz in africa. America dwarfs the whole continent of africa for women rights.

[kesomox]

wow you just made a whole bunch of random ignorant comments

[guilaruntawa]

african women generally steer clear of african american guys anyways...black american guys are considered to be gangsters or whatever

[SLADODET]

That's right guilaruntawa!I know this from experience because I've had a Ghanian as well Kenyan girlfriend(Im white by the way!).Most african women perfer to be with white men in the United States than with the "Bruthhaz"because the vast majority of afro-american men dont know jack shit about africa nor do many of them even give the slightest rat's ass about what is going on in the mother continent!I spent three years in Senegal and speak both fluent french as well as wolof.

[BlackTruthStillHurts]

If you're white then you probably know that black American men have as easy a time getting a white woman as a white man.

And I'm BLACK. White women look at a white man as a way to allow them to be a housewife watching TV all day.

When they look at a black man they see a MAN. Someone who's assertive and focused.

You don't know anything about African women or African people, except for your braindead fantasies. Stop going by Stormfront, or at least lay off the crackpipe.

[SLADODET]

I bet your ass has never touched or visited the african continent?What the hell do you know that I dont know?Oh btw,you will never hear the word "nigger"coming out of my mouth,why?Because the three years I spent in africa opened up my eyes in a way that I would have never experienced if living in the United States.All human civilization comes from the african continent!In other words,I came from you and that does not bother me in the least!Im more african than you could be in a thousand years!

[SLADODET]

There was one more thing that I wanted to add!Dont think for one moment that you are going to have an instant bonding with a Nigerian,Angolan,Zambian or Togolese national due to your skin tone,it doesnt work like that!In june of 2003 I was visiting Accra(capital of the west african nation of Ghana,I thought I would let u know since as I stated before most african-americans are quite ignorant about africa!)there was a man I meet who livied in Baltimore for 6 years and was very racist of afro-amer

[mfreeman7821]

Hell it 's probably easier for us to get WW than a WM.

[lillie20]

NAAH MATE!!! Im an african girl and I would not even let a white man Kiss me!

[SLADODET]

To each his own!You're from the UK?Im just commenting on how race relations in my country are just awful!We have a president of color but there is still deep hatred between black and white and vice-versa.I never felt this when I was in africa,as a matter of fact I often asked people there if they hated me because Im white because I definitely get this feeling from black people in my own country.BlackTruthStillHurts thinks I visit Stormfront well he's sadly mistaken!

[lillie20]

That because there is no racial divide in Africa (for the most part) Everyone is black. I just dont believe that black people in the west can afford to mix their blood, there will soon be more bi-racial people in the west than there are black, and those that will be black will be recent migrants from Africa.

[blcherki]

It's just for the money I suppose because you could never compare to an african or african american king Never. real talk!

[MapleLeaf05]

sounds like this guy has had a lot of trouble with women in his past.

[CrystalKlear15]

you are such a dick wad ! you are sooo ignorant ! i just saw your lightskin darskin video and you are a imbicile.

[APerfectDayElise]

I lol'd. Are you the leader of the No M'am club?

[gallantman44]

African women are more polite and lade-like.

[Woman87]

What type of sexist banter is this?

If different women want different things how in the hell are we the same?

The values of the scope of women differ.

Youtube should put restrictions in place. Any idiot shouldnt just get up and make a video.

Makes me mad.

[MrsThatcher74]

Did I read right - " African women are more polite and lady like"...You've never met a Nigerian then.

LOL

[Avanaih]

HAHA ,I agree Nigerian LOl. I agree with him about African womem cause I am African an i know us.

[lillie20]

You west africans are agressive! East african women are very polite and lady like! Trust me. Ugandans especially. Kenyan men love to come to uganda to get wives becuase we treat are man like kings, and because we behave like ladies, they can't help but treat us like Queens!

[Avanaih]

O yeh we west Africans are agressive because we do not take mess from African men. You East Africans are still stuck in the Africa era were the women bisically worship the men. West African women do not stand for that non sense.

[lillie20]

Stand for what non-sesnse> Treating your man like you appreciate him>

[Avanaih]

nonsense is cheating, physical and emotional abuse.You know in Africa the men physically abuse their GF and wife and nothing is done about it . We west African women do not take that rubbish from African men.

[lillie20]

And who said that East African Women take that nonsense, lol. I promise you babe we dont take that either. All Im saying is that when we have a man we treat them really well, and indepedant of that we are less aggressive than the west Africans. Treating a man like you appreciate him doesn't make a woman weak or a pushover. That's why so many AA men are leaving BW, because of he aggression. Men want femininity, the same way we want masculine men. Simple. Its a shame whats happening to us!

[Avanaih]

What ever , keep fooling ur self that u east African women are lady like. I know tons of East African women and they are not easy. As the guy said women are women.

[daisylicious101]

leave bw alone, if you think african women are better. well that's fine that's your opinion. why do you feel you have to prove a point? everyone has their likes and dislikes. i don't know why everyone is spending so much time on trying to turn everyone against bw and yes it's obvious...any woman can be loud duh!! that is not a bw thing sorry. some ppl kill me thinking they are so much damn better. if that so you would have better things to do other than posting negative things about black women.

[jayr545]

neither, white gilrs are better LOL.

[MaDuke]

yup 'cause they're easy

[gmcmim]

I am happy someone with real logic has finally made a video that makes sense. i like your voice.

[239REPPIN]

LOL Stop treating women especially black women as one big package that includes every individual. For every one person that fits into your ignorant stereotypes, there are 5 others who are normal and would be completely offended at what you say continuously in your videos. You need to stop pretending that you know what is best for people.

One day when you grow up you will see that men and women are the same, we are all humans. Until then just keep speadin' the hate since I know you will! Thanks!

[ChristinaLaRosa18]

This is nonsense actually this beyond nonsense when people look at the obvious the uses stereotypes because its easy then actually making an effort to know the real facts.African Americans are not equally rich as white Americans not even 1/2 close. Its then easy to have the desire for wanting to search for financial stability wheither youre women or man.

[cain825]

TRUE, TRUE!

[Daric3000]

Please stop stereotyping/generalizing women. They are all individuals and they all want different things in a man. Just like men as individuals want different things in women.

[MesmerizedEys]

I think women just want a man who can help to support them raise a family with a good home. We don't want bums who are gonna constantly borrow money from us.

[SUpersaiyajinjerkbag]

This is one of those things I would and should agree with, but it also doesn't sound like you've traveled much.

I mean, I suppose it's only a SLIGHT variable...but still Lets face it; when you have a sexy latina wanting your green card and possibly your company, that just doesn't feel quite as bad as her wanting you for your job or status

[SUpersaiyajinjerkbag]

Also, superficially yet importantly, you didn't even bother addressing the topic of looks

Kind of strange considering your rant against fat women

[ZJEENR]

Should we want a welfare check

[EZserenity]

You speak very well, your words are the manifestation of passion and intelligence, i warn you tho, to choose your words carefully, the words: every, all, always and never, are ones we should try to avoid using, using them takes away from your validity. i struggled with this title, because there are several ways which it can be interpreted. i tend to read it as a sterotype towards women, although that may not be true. use your words to clairify wat it is exactly your trying to say.

[dnice5555567899]

of course women want a financial stable man. who is also well educated. but black women push the bar, they want you to basically take care of them for the rest of there lives. black women in general, are just gold digging stereotypes.

[SundiataKeita]

African women are different from black american women, i been to Windsor alot. Canadian black women are different then the women here.

But I have to agree with you that CASH RULES EVERYTHING AROUND ME, everybody in the world is chasing that ALMIGHTY DOLLAR. That is how the world is set up, people worship MONEY. It is all about the dollars.

[DarkLadyJade]

Thank you. THANK YOU!! It is about frickin' time someone posted a video like this! I'm so sick and tired of the bashing and glorifying of different groups of females. People need to be much more observant and realize that, like you said, "Women are women. Period". Dude, I can't tell you how glad I am glad to hear someone, and a GUY at that, say this. ^_^

[reignsupreme]

You're right about all women wanting something from a man but there is a difference. The difference is traditional values. Foreign women have it and western women don't!!!

[JRock005]

I'm a black man. and I like women with money and success.

[cubamex2020]

WHO IS THIS WHITE BOY.

[MSGINA2330]

excellent video !!! right on point

[equationoracle]

in the first 52 seconds i disagreed with you.

some of your truth has validity and i think its shoddy

IMPROVE YOUR TRUTH.

[hastious]

Hahahaha nigga African women are different I can tell by your voice and mentality you have never been anywhere but alabama. I've been to africa and they are different and btw most of them are too scared to leave africa!! They dont even care about moving to america. America has a very Fucked up Image overseas anyway nigga!!

[totalalisaagain]

of course african women will be different we are from different cultures.

Oh so i guess black men are just like white men, and just like asian men. OKAY I SEE YOUR STUPID LOGIC.

[hastious]

Wow so you do have a brain.

[da22ki]

try first then make comment. dont be talker be doer and hopefully you notice. something you never knew in africa its not common to hear divorce very rare never seen many been there for years and you dont hear about it. only widowers or non married. thats difference. in europe and america we have high divorce of 48% and more children have dad but differnt fathers wonder why????? bet you know it.

[isata88]

Brice Lamont, i support your belief. However, the difference of this: those places PresidentoftheBlack mentioned have folks that very family oriented. Those women stick by their men: sure they do want the same things as all women but they aren't as willing to destroy the family structure because of it. Those people come from backgrounds ashamed of divorce. You mentioned China, those women will rarely die than have a child without a marriage first... there is a difference!

[BriceLamont]

My point is this: from country to country, culture to culture, and tribe to tribe, what drives women is men who have money and are successful. Yes, you are right, these women do in fact tend to be more family oriented in daily life, but when it comes to dating it's a different story. I gave an extremely simple example in my previous post. Lets take an African woman who is family oriented and her family has strong cultural values. Do you think they would allow their daughter to date an African-

[ivaniakarinagabriel]

please dont say things about us that you dont know......i am african living in the usa for one year and i can tell you that i am really different from the "sistas". i think that African women have more values, we are not loud and we know how to treat men better than the "sistas"..Africans dont divorce a lot like americans do too. Why do you think i dont have freedom in Africa? Who told you that?? Africa is a continent and not a country like the USA, remember that.

[BriceLamont]

American male who: 1) has a baby out a wedlock 2) is a member of a gang 3) is an ex-crack dealer and 4) has been in and out of prison (as well os other undesirable traits)? Of course they wouldn't! But if this African-American male (50 cent, by the way) is worth $500 million, I'm sure they would put their differences aside. Get my point? Money, success and power are the keys to any woman. Thus, when it comes to DATING/MARRRIAGE, women are women.

[BriceLamont]

And just one last thing: if you think an African woman wouldn't destroy her family struture in order to be with a wealthy man, you are sadly mistaken (the African wife of Emeril, for example) And if you think an African woman would be ashamed to get divorced from a wealthy man, you are again mistaken. Especially if she had his kids, she would be set for life ( African ex-wife of Chris Rock, for example). Remember, when it comes to women, its 99.99% about the money.

[isata88]

Okay, 99% is about the money. True. But where in the world is a woman not trying up in marry up in society? Hell, even the parents stress it. The movies stress it. Hell, I would ban fairy tales because they stress it also. But without an traditional introduction (what's perfect?) by someone who knows you both, the chances of dealing with a lowbrow women are higher despite the country. Hell, I'm beginning to reconsider having my African mother INTRODUCE me to some fine young tenders in Gambia!

[PresidentOfTheBlack]

african women are no diffrent?? He has definitley never left the country before.

[BriceLamont]

Honestly, if you went to any African country dirt poor and broke with nothing to offer, you would have an extermely hard time finding a woman. Secondly, do you realize that when these American rap stars do shows in Africa, they come into contact with so many Afrcian groupies?! Millions of African women, country to country, are willing to give it up the first night to these thugged-out rap superstars. So how are they any different then Black women here?

[ivaniakarinagabriel]

oh my gosh you are so stupid, i am african and i would not date 50 cent for nothing..he is fucking ugly..oh my gosh....do you really think that African women act like that??? you are mistaken....if values dont exist in America it doesn mean that it doesnt exist in Africa.

[MsVirgoSLC]

Outside of culture, they are not. All women wants something. Different women women different things. Many women in foreign countries want to come over to the U.S. and that is often their main purpose when approaching a American man. Also, African American men especially outside of certain Muslim (there is still prejudice) faith are not accepted among the family as you would be considering that you are African. Unless, they are receiving something, how many African families would allow it?

[MsVirgoSLC]

Tell these black men how many African families will accept a African American man unless they are receiving some sort of residual? It is more acceptable for African man to choose a female outside of his group than it is for the female. Many females simply would have to denounce their own family when getting involved with a man of another culture unless, they are already living in the U.S.A.

[DarkOneSunOne]

I agree with this.

[MsVirgoSLC]

If you are a outsider and you are looking to go into Africa for a wife, the first thing the family is going to look for is what you can give them.

[eastwood2414]

I think you missed the hell out of his point. Everybody know women are women, BUT the values and culture is TOTALLY different.

[BriceLamont]

No, I think you missed the point. He is comparing women of different cultures with regards to dating.

[BriceLamont]

So basically what you are saying is that a guy like 50 cent couldn't go to Africa and damn near get any woman he wants. Because of their different cultures and beliefs, they would reject 50 cent. Is this what are you're saying?

[eastwood2414]

Not what I'm saying. I'm pretty sure people who say "If you go to another country you will find a better women" really mean that the culture and the values that the women have in regards to family is totally different than your average american blk women. So, you dont have to be 50cent to get a women abroad. You can be a regular guy and "possibly" meet the women of your dreams. In no way am I saying blk women in the U.S. arent good enough, because there are alot of good women in the U.S.

[missteek08]

thank you!!!!!

[MsVirgoSLC]

Don't get me wrong, this is not all African women but a good portion.

[NinjaZ1001]

I disagree. Have you ever been outside the U.S.?

I've been all over South America, Central America, and the Carribean. I'm from the carribean myself. Women in my family and women all over are way different than AABW.

I would NEVER marry an AABW because our values are incompatible.

[MsVirgoSLC]

I do find truth in what he says. When you have an American going over to foreign countries, the idea of coming to America makes that person very appealing. The idea of getting something from that person whether it be money or stability and sometimes more opportunity, makes many attracted to a specific person. Many foreign women are simply loyal to their men (within their culture) unless, they see additional benefits they didn't have before.

[BriceLamont]

Yes, I have been outside of the U.S. And I've also dated many women from other countries. Many people act as though genetics dictate the way African-american women act when in fact for the most part, people's behavior are formed from the culture in which they come. If you marry a foreign women and bring over to the U.S, believe me, with time she will conform to this society. She will eventually become a different woman from the one you once knew.

[NinjaZ1001]

I don't think anyone is arguing that genetics plays a part. And yes, people change over time, especially when moving to a new environment, no one is arguing this either.

From what I've seen, and the people I've known, it seems that women abroad are less self absorbed and have a family oriented mindset.

For brothas like myself, we want to marry women that are family focused and NOT "independent". Otherwise, whats the point in getting married?

[DarcSeth237]

Gotta disagree a little. I was in the Air Force and have friends all over the planet G.I. and civilian and theirs definitely a difference in behavior of women compared to ABW, i.e. culture, economic, morals. I think BW of the old in America was revered by the world for their struggle. Not any more. Majority of sistas have lost their way and are pushing away their men.

[BriceLamont]

And the majority of foreign women will lose their way as well once in the U.S. Now if you marry a foreign woman and you two begin a new life inside of her native country, then thats a different story, but bring her to the U.S and you'll discover that in America WOMEN are WOMEN

[ivaniakarinagabriel]

so many black men told me that they would prefer to be with me than with a "sista" ...i am african, i live here in the usa but my values didnt change, i am still the same person...i've heard a lot of white folks telling me that african women act better than the "sistas"...i will never act like a "sista" even if i stay in this country for a100 years...i know black men that only date white women but when they found me they were willing to date with me but i didnt want.

[gmcmim]

one could argue that african men act better than a lot of the brothas. I think it is just different places and different ways of acting. i know sistas who would date an african man over a brotha from america. i mean do white women from europe act like whites from america? different folks same strokes. it's like what this man said they express it differently.

[MsVirgoSLC]

Lol... That is true. My point exactly...

[LetusbFree]

not true, african women are more intune with their humanity. thats what makes the difference :)

[MsVirgoSLC]

I disagree because the ones who I have came across are not. Many are simply in tune with where they feel they fit in the society in which they live in. I have been disrespected by some Africa women however, when they see a white woman they are smiling in their face. Many are in tune with the role they feel they have to play to survive...

[LetusbFree]

i respect your opinion coz u looking @ it from a different perspective. yes its true some women just want to come to the US to live a better life. however, i really dont hate on african women i think they are cool.