(joking of course) but , why ask the question? cause you can't trust what they respond right? ok, seriously now, trust is important in any relationship, and yes that includes friendships. Trust however I believe must be earned, not just given.
why trust? if you have sombody who you "know" you can truley trust without fail, and its been earned beyond a shadow of a doubt. Then it can save you a TON of stress in some situations. Very few people have my trust, but thats because very few people want to prove themselves and earn it...
I am too trusting maybe. I trust my hubby completely. I trust my friends, my church family. I've been hurt many times and finding that trust with the person that hurt me has to be earned again but it happens over time.
Well I just look at poeple as humans first and as being that they will satisfy their needs not knowing they are hurting other and sometimes knowing it too...so I can not get past the human thing.
M y dearm I have been seriously hurt in my life so many times that now I should not be able to open the front door, but life goes on hurting us and we must remain chin up and best foot forward. ♥
Last night I promised myself that I would stop cussing so much......SHIT....as soon as I woke up, I was cuss'in like a god damn matha fuck'in sailor and then I ate a donut, another thing I promised myself I would not do .......see, I can't trust myself!
i have a hard time with trust, too. i have been burned a few times which it makes it even harder. sometimes, i think that i miss out on things by not being more trusting.
I don't trust ANYONE either...least of all my mother!! LOL
I have one sweet sweet friend who I would trust if I had it in me, but I do believe that people hurt each other without meaning to, so I don't put my heart in anyone's hands anymore.
Yeah im for sure not very trusting of others. Have had a lot of problems in the past. I guess that is a bad thing to hold on too but yeah I for sure understand.
I tend to trust most people until they prove that I can't trust them! Yep...I get "smacked" around a lot...but...it appears to be in my nature. I'm cautious at times, but trusting. :-)
Who do I trust? My husband, my boys, one of my nieces, one of my friends, and my next door neighbor.
For me, there are several levels of trust...and I can honestly say that I'd trust each of those people on all of my layers of trust. It feels really good to be able to say this. (I have 4 living siblings that I wouldn't say this about...)
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trussy06 2 years ago
i tend to be trusting.
buglady58 2 years ago
Trust has many levels.
I only trust a very few people when it comes to absolute trust. My wife, my brother, my father.
Other levels of trust include lots of people, I just don't expect more from someone than I think they can come through on.
Usually when someone breaks my trust, after the initial anger, I then turn the anger on myself for not knowing better.
Don't put 10 pounds into a 5 pound bag... it's not the bags fault for not having enough integrity. :)
bowlingballout 2 years ago
(joking of course) but , why ask the question? cause you can't trust what they respond right? ok, seriously now, trust is important in any relationship, and yes that includes friendships. Trust however I believe must be earned, not just given.
MasterTiarnan 2 years ago
why trust? if you have sombody who you "know" you can truley trust without fail, and its been earned beyond a shadow of a doubt. Then it can save you a TON of stress in some situations. Very few people have my trust, but thats because very few people want to prove themselves and earn it...
MasterTiarnan 2 years ago
I trust everyone until they show me that I can't!
mysteryglo 2 years ago
That's what I say ......
mrsbowlingballout 2 years ago
Hi Grace... Yeah watch who you trust... quality of friends is best...like you! hehe hugs my friend
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
You are my dear friend...... thank you :-)
mrsbowlingballout 2 years ago
THIS IS VIDEO IS SO TRUE 2 ME!!!!!!! EMY GOD You HIT THE POINT!!!!!!
BridgetteLang 2 years ago
WEll I asked why should I trust anyone and no one has said why I should. I feel better just trusting in myself and having my guard up ...
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
I am too trusting maybe. I trust my hubby completely. I trust my friends, my church family. I've been hurt many times and finding that trust with the person that hurt me has to be earned again but it happens over time.
Jinxie228 2 years ago
Well I just look at poeple as humans first and as being that they will satisfy their needs not knowing they are hurting other and sometimes knowing it too...so I can not get past the human thing.
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
How can you love someone and not trust them A contradiction in terms. ♥
EmCSpiteri 2 years ago
Well I guess I have been hurt so much that I feel I can love as much as I do without having to trust anyone. I guess that is as good as I can do.
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
M y dearm I have been seriously hurt in my life so many times that now I should not be able to open the front door, but life goes on hurting us and we must remain chin up and best foot forward. ♥
EmCSpiteri 2 years ago
I can't trust myself sometimes, therefore, I would be a fool to trust others.
Example: If you have a secret and you tell someone, you have broken your own trust, therefore, it is no longer a secret.
shhhhhhh...I trust you want tell anyone this.
MISSBEBEBLUE 2 years ago
yeah I have been to where I did not trust myself before but learned to change that...and yeah I won't tell...hehe
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
without question, you are a better person than I.
Last night I promised myself that I would stop cussing so much......SHIT....as soon as I woke up, I was cuss'in like a god damn matha fuck'in sailor and then I ate a donut, another thing I promised myself I would not do .......see, I can't trust myself!
MISSBEBEBLUE 2 years ago
i have a hard time with trust, too. i have been burned a few times which it makes it even harder. sometimes, i think that i miss out on things by not being more trusting.
much love and hugs. :)
PuffyCatTail 2 years ago
Yeah it is something I do need to work on I guess.
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
I trust people in stages, I dont think anyone will ever get all of me.
1DRock37167 2 years ago
yeah stages are good I like that...
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
I don't trust ANYONE either...least of all my mother!! LOL
I have one sweet sweet friend who I would trust if I had it in me, but I do believe that people hurt each other without meaning to, so I don't put my heart in anyone's hands anymore.
jabbabird 2 years ago
Well it is good to trust SOMEONE...right
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
The older I get, the less trusting I am. Not sure why that is.
Bikermom69 2 years ago
Because we have lived and learned...
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
I found myself hurt over n over again in the past 4 being so trusting. I don't blame ya...don't trust anyone!
a few time's I found...I couldn't even trust my mom.
Shhhhhh, I didnt say that. lol!
Hugs, Irene
IreneK43 2 years ago
Yeah im for sure not very trusting of others. Have had a lot of problems in the past. I guess that is a bad thing to hold on too but yeah I for sure understand.
christopherinsc1981 2 years ago
Well it is good not to always be worring about people...
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
As I get older I am less trusting...
Dlorezzz 2 years ago
yeah that is me too
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
I am bad about trusting people, I do it to easy. Until they do me wrong I trust people.
Texasred63 2 years ago
Well be careful trusting others
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
That is what happen in MS, I trusted the wrong people!!
Texasred63 2 years ago
Exactly. I tend to be too trusting, and before I know it, my business is out.
robertpina99 2 years ago
See what I mean....you know~
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
I tend to trust most people until they prove that I can't trust them! Yep...I get "smacked" around a lot...but...it appears to be in my nature. I'm cautious at times, but trusting. :-)
GreatGig1 2 years ago
I use to trust to much
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
I trust everyone (maybe not you, but everyone else)
Perroquet51 2 years ago
Your silly....
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
Ha
:D
bowlingballout 2 years ago
Who do I trust? My husband, my boys, one of my nieces, one of my friends, and my next door neighbor.
For me, there are several levels of trust...and I can honestly say that I'd trust each of those people on all of my layers of trust. It feels really good to be able to say this. (I have 4 living siblings that I wouldn't say this about...)
Sandi
IWalk4tnt 2 years ago
Sandi~ it is good to know people can trust others. I wish I had that. lucky you my dear
DawndeeDALLAS 2 years ago
Well heck Dawn....the house 3 doors down is for sale...I'll share all these folks with you!
IWalk4tnt 2 years ago