No one is probably gonna read this, Im just gonna write it any way because i feel at least one person will, i'm a rapper. i know theres a million people that think they can flow But I'm different promise that.. if u give me a chance ill show u I would love nothing more than to have a decent following on youtube from people if anyone who reads this could press the "THUMBS UP" other people will see it just a simple button press could make my dream come true THANX
FUCK all 66 of you bitches who dislike this video. Because he's talking about you lazy ass useless heffas. Get up, ge tout and get your own, Stop looking for a man to do it for you.
@brighttalon61 lol he's not actually saying negative things. He's asking "what if" he did say those things. The point of the song is saying he doesn't do those things to try and change her. So why does she want to do it to try and change him. It makes perfect sense.
Ruben acts like an as*hole at the end of the video when he points out the door (basically says get your a** outta here) to his lady, and then brushes himself off, like she was nothin' but a piece of sh*t..... A-R-R-0-G-A-N-T-!!!!!.... I'D WANNA CHANGE HIM TOO - LOL!
@uucanthandlethetruth not at all listen to the lyrics.... hes saying what if we bagged on women like you females bag on US men.... just saying.....you females would pop a gasket.....
i really luv dis song and i think he need to make some new songs and turn into a real superstar and quit letting fantasia and kelly clarkston get all the credit. jennifer hudson can sing but she dont count. she aint win american idol but she actually can really sing. he won 2003 american idol and i want to hear more of his songs. cuz dis teddy bear voice can actually put me to sleep
What if your man sat around all day and didn't do shit, hated your friends, didn't like your family. But yet youstill loved his ass? Why couldn't I try to change him. Its not the same as the color of my nail polish or how I cook my eggs.
since Pres. Obama is so outraged over "faux" homophobia in [the] Black community & Black churches, why does he so ardently seek and assume their electoral support on every opportunity ? Since it outrages him so, perhaps in order to allow him to maintain his character & integrity, the "Black Community" should offer it's objectionable, homophobic support to a more reasonable and balanced candidate come 2012- just a very short time from now ! Is there any other group he snubs more than Blacks ??
since Pres. Obama is so outraged over "faux" homophobia in [the] Black community & Black churches, why does he so ardently seek and assume their electoral support on every opportunity ? Since it outrages him so, perhaps in order to allow him to maintain his character & integrity, the "Black Community" should offer it's anti-war, homophobic support to a more reasonable and balanced candidate come 2012- just a very short time from now ! Is there any other group he snubs more than Blacks ??
Ruben and Mandisa ... What can you say - just the best. Not forgetting of course our own Stan-the-man Walker who won Australian Idol. He's just fantastic ! Of course we breed great singers in new Zealand haha.
@ResponseToVideos He has songs and actually made a 2 albums, one published in 06 and another in 09, they really didn't do to well but he's still out there
OMG hess so fuuken meaan brro ; hes gangster az thaa meanesst voice eveer ' haha thadd partt when he saays [ koz we both knau you aint kute in the morningg ] ha so truuee everyboddy looks fuked in tha morning ; RUBEN kome to NEW ZEALAND ' we wont change you
WHY YHU WANNA CHANGE ME YHU USE TO LIKE THOSE BIG OL TEDDY BEARS N YHU USE TO LET ME GET IT N-E-WHERE NOW BABY IT CRAZY TELL ME WHY YHU WANNA CHANGE WHY BABY TELL ME WHY BUT YHU KNO I STILL YHU DOE
WHY YHU WANNA CHANGE ME(YHU USE TO LIKE THOSE BIG OL TEDDY BEARS N YHU USE TO LET ME GET IT N-E-WHERE) NOW BABY IT CRAZY TELL ME WHY YHU WANNA CHANGE WHY BABY TELL ME WHY BUT YHU KNO I STILL YHU DOE..........
WHY YHU WANNA CHANGE ME(YHU USE TO LIKE THOSE BIG OL TEDDY BEARS N YHU USE TO LET ME GET IT N-E-WHERE NOW BABY IT CRAZY TELL ME WHY YHU WANNA CHANGE) WHY BABY TELL ME WHY(BUT YHU KNO I STILL YHU DOE..........
@TheStrawbeery Exactly. Even more sad is how little the singer profits. Statistics show singers only get 10% of the profit they create, and most record labels recieve upwards of 30%. Music needs revolutionized.
17Jesus knew their thoughts and said to them: "Any kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and a house divided against itself will fall. 18If Satan is divided against himself, how can his kingdom stand? I say this because you claim that I drive out demons by Beelzebub. 19Now if I drive out demons by Beelzebub, by whom do your followers drive them out? So then, they will be your judges. 20But if I drive out demons by the finger of God, then the kingdom of God has come to you.
i lost my fiancee bcs i was a stupid man she is pregnant with are child i love her to death my first mother of my child left me and i still know nothing of my first child i dont want it to happen again i said some terrible things but i love you Dorris i mean it this time add me juggalojesse@yahoo.commyspace now for yahoo and facebook pimp_man_jesse@yahoo.com i want to know how i can try and make things right
i love both Clay and Ruben!!!! Ruben is great though has an amazing voice!! They will be touring together this summer starting July. Listen in to 105.3 WDAS PHL today to listen in to Ruben live. Check their website for more info...
Rubben Studdard should of had a lot more success
phillip3567 4 months ago
he is underrated smh
tezmoni 5 months ago
THIS IS ONE OF MY FAV SONGS
sunshine84c 5 months ago
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ModernDayBeast 5 months ago
I love Ruben's dimples!
TheJuneladybug 5 months ago
Hands up,
la9777 5 months ago
i like song
gangsterboss4 5 months ago
my mom friend luv dis songs dis 4 thumbs
tyrah514 5 months ago
Clay Aiken's better... :P
VeronicaCookieXoXo 6 months ago
i like this song..he sing realy good..:)
JACKALYN45 6 months ago
it don't matter if u change for 'em or not...They don't know how 2 b happy.
bey2019 6 months ago
love it
87kodak 6 months ago
the fattest vegan i know
mackles 6 months ago
Where is u Rube i miss u <3
BreeBree5772 6 months ago
@BreeBree5772 He just featured in a song with KeKe Wyatt called Saturday Love, you can look that music video up if you want to see him! ;-)
JoshJW11 6 months ago
right!!! Love is blind...you have to love whoever you are with flaws and alls!!
sdw3485 6 months ago
FUCK all 66 of you bitches who dislike this video. Because he's talking about you lazy ass useless heffas. Get up, ge tout and get your own, Stop looking for a man to do it for you.
shawnboy36 7 months ago 2
i dnt get it. so he's saying all these negative things about a female, and doesn't want to be changed. wat the hell.
brighttalon61 7 months ago
@brighttalon61 lol he's not actually saying negative things. He's asking "what if" he did say those things. The point of the song is saying he doesn't do those things to try and change her. So why does she want to do it to try and change him. It makes perfect sense.
zingalom 6 months ago 3
@zingalom ohhh.......thnks 4 the clarity
brighttalon61 6 months ago
Ruben Studdard is overweight
watchmyshoes22 7 months ago
The Underdogs are the sickest producers..
dynhamik 7 months ago
This song need more radio play!
RainJayGee 7 months ago
i love this song
246sweetcheeks 7 months ago
Ruben acts like an as*hole at the end of the video when he points out the door (basically says get your a** outta here) to his lady, and then brushes himself off, like she was nothin' but a piece of sh*t..... A-R-R-0-G-A-N-T-!!!!!.... I'D WANNA CHANGE HIM TOO - LOL!
uucanthandlethetruth 8 months ago
@uucanthandlethetruth not at all listen to the lyrics.... hes saying what if we bagged on women like you females bag on US men.... just saying.....you females would pop a gasket.....
kavio013 7 months ago
How could you not like this, WTF?
GUARDIANtrooper 8 months ago
bre is gorgeous!!!
dykeandlykeit 8 months ago
Why cant we have Rnb like this anymore?
iiFawkHaterz 8 months ago 2
hi there thank is a nice song and music Thank you Tonia Sebbe
vm3954 8 months ago
i really luv dis song and i think he need to make some new songs and turn into a real superstar and quit letting fantasia and kelly clarkston get all the credit. jennifer hudson can sing but she dont count. she aint win american idol but she actually can really sing. he won 2003 american idol and i want to hear more of his songs. cuz dis teddy bear voice can actually put me to sleep
DaQuandra1991 8 months ago
produced by R&B SANGER TANK aka the general of rnb :-)
MYAJ17 8 months ago
62 people need to be changed:)....foreal..how could you not love this song??
asexyy15 8 months ago
is that bri from america's next top model?
MsKandiz 9 months ago
@MsKandiz
yup
BronXbeautyMUA 9 months ago
is he a gospel singer or r&b singer cuz im a little confused. Nice song tho...
kiaratheprincess22 9 months ago
What if your man sat around all day and didn't do shit, hated your friends, didn't like your family. But yet youstill loved his ass? Why couldn't I try to change him. Its not the same as the color of my nail polish or how I cook my eggs.
DizzyDizDiz 9 months ago
I LIKE this song! Why you going to try to change somebody when you loved everything about them?
jobhunt11 9 months ago
62 hating ppl
lilboosiestraped187 9 months ago
since Pres. Obama is so outraged over "faux" homophobia in [the] Black community & Black churches, why does he so ardently seek and assume their electoral support on every opportunity ? Since it outrages him so, perhaps in order to allow him to maintain his character & integrity, the "Black Community" should offer it's objectionable, homophobic support to a more reasonable and balanced candidate come 2012- just a very short time from now ! Is there any other group he snubs more than Blacks ??
shieldsff 9 months ago
RUBEN GET BACK INTO CHURCH FORGET THE FAME!
Treo36 9 months ago
@Treo36
Yes brother. Jesus first. Nothing can be better than that.
coolmamac 9 months ago
no white guys? what? haha
jos28cobra 10 months ago
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TheGoteatee 10 months ago
is that bre frm america's next top model..as his gf....
kimjade103 10 months ago
@kimjade103 yeah
jeritta89 9 months ago
:27 he looks just like rick ross lol
icecold444455555 10 months ago
i think the chorus got a great hook, but the verse really needed a writer or something....
sxdarknessxs 10 months ago
i love dis
ravenelltequilla 10 months ago
I miss him !
Kawasakiebabe09 10 months ago
wow!
blessingdrag 11 months ago
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shieldsff 11 months ago
Ruben is the best...Where'd you go???
ImaMixedChick 11 months ago
WHERE YOU AT RUBEN????
whitneybrewton 11 months ago
@whitneybrewton apparently he got dropped from his label , as well as Clay Aiken and Taylor Hicks.....
sxdarknessxs 10 months ago
Ruben and Mandisa ... What can you say - just the best. Not forgetting of course our own Stan-the-man Walker who won Australian Idol. He's just fantastic ! Of course we breed great singers in new Zealand haha.
thiskiwigal 11 months ago
this song lets me bit my lip! darn! i love it!! ;)
jollad1614 11 months ago
GOTTA LOVE THIS SONG <3 & RUBEN
BaByCaKeS4554 11 months ago
Its Rick Ross' Good twin xD
dethcrypt 11 months ago 3
what happned to hinm .?
OfficialChristi 11 months ago
iWish We Had This Music Agian :( Smh ..
AndUuKnowThisMann 1 year ago
100%
abalibasoga 1 year ago
i really think he was the best from all the american idol show now that show is such a cliche'
GuttaBoyzGeneral 1 year ago 2
this gentle man his music is authentic.
abalibasoga 1 year ago 3
@abalibasoga I hear ya his music is the best
themankiller8585 1 year ago
UNDERRATED..
MrMetthias 1 year ago 12
written by tank ( r&b singer)
asfarasino 1 year ago
I loved this song
TruDancer92 1 year ago
RUBEN IS SUCH A GOOD SINGER
helpcome1 1 year ago
iMiss RUBEN! :'(
kaND3Girl 1 year ago
dis was a very gudd song for his comeback
TheNicole333333 1 year ago
rubbeen iss succh a goood singer ,, i wonder wat happend ta him cz i lovee his songss hee need ta b makn more
Mead2155 1 year ago
59 ppl need to change!!!
ElectriKitten 1 year ago 49
@ElectriKitten 66 now, stupid bastards lol.
trecainet12 6 months ago
@ElectriKitten
JACKALYN45 6 months ago
omfg that bre from antm!
Staffer123 1 year ago
The "Underdogs" need to get back together! Them boys was sick.
m0kn33marc 1 year ago
Lighters's Up Waving From Side To Side
vsmooth1983 1 year ago
59 HATERS dislike this video.
mobst4r1 1 year ago
What happened to him ,no more songs?
ResponseToVideos 1 year ago
@ResponseToVideos He has songs and actually made a 2 albums, one published in 06 and another in 09, they really didn't do to well but he's still out there
CuredBlood 1 year ago
Love It @HarleyJennebelle Yur Stupiidd
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derekdb2 1 year ago
OMG hess so fuuken meaan brro ; hes gangster az thaa meanesst voice eveer ' haha thadd partt when he saays [ koz we both knau you aint kute in the morningg ] ha so truuee everyboddy looks fuked in tha morning ; RUBEN kome to NEW ZEALAND ' we wont change you
raeyaa 1 year ago
I love all your songs ruben i love you.
diquin2001 1 year ago
COME BACC OUT RUBEN!!
lilboosiestraped187 1 year ago
Teddy Bear:)
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WHY YHU WANNA CHANGE ME YHU USE TO LIKE THOSE BIG OL TEDDY BEARS N YHU USE TO LET ME GET IT N-E-WHERE NOW BABY IT CRAZY TELL ME WHY YHU WANNA CHANGE WHY BABY TELL ME WHY BUT YHU KNO I STILL YHU DOE
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WHY YHU WANNA CHANGE ME(YHU USE TO LIKE THOSE BIG OL TEDDY BEARS N YHU USE TO LET ME GET IT N-E-WHERE) NOW BABY IT CRAZY TELL ME WHY YHU WANNA CHANGE WHY BABY TELL ME WHY BUT YHU KNO I STILL YHU DOE..........
demarcusmoorer1 1 year ago
WHY YHU WANNA CHANGE ME(YHU USE TO LIKE THOSE BIG OL TEDDY BEARS N YHU USE TO LET ME GET IT N-E-WHERE NOW BABY IT CRAZY TELL ME WHY YHU WANNA CHANGE) WHY BABY TELL ME WHY(BUT YHU KNO I STILL YHU DOE..........
demarcusmoorer1 1 year ago
I can relate to this song. Never change cause someone have a problem with how u live and what not.
virgingirl26 1 year ago
daaayum Ruben got some hits! fuck watcha heard!
TLowgurl92 1 year ago
listen @ this nigga. Seen him in concert & the sound was on point!
LOVESMUSICQUEEN 1 year ago
this is one of my favorite video
playerism100 1 year ago
I like this video 1 of my favorite
playerism100 1 year ago
he is the male version of Mercedes on Glee
GHAYRIC 1 year ago
hands in the air - wave to the right - wave to the left
anitauknowme2 1 year ago 28
@anitauknowme2 lol u silly
HelloRob1 11 months ago
"cuz we know that chu aint cute in the mornin"....that made me Lol
0oSapphireFlameso0 1 year ago 2
Gone Boi....
tammeasha 1 year ago
I still love the big velvet teddy bear!
pssywagn1325 1 year ago 2
my wife love this song
winslo75 1 year ago
hahaha the end. damn right
sweetpea41292 1 year ago
I'd love to see him do more songs like this. Such a big teddy bear and what a pretty voice!
TrustedPhayte 1 year ago
@TrustedPhayte yeah but what the hell happen to hip it's like disapeared off the face of this earth
TheStrawbeery 1 year ago
@TheStrawbeery Yeah, good music is hard to come by now in every genre.
TrustedPhayte 1 year ago
@TrustedPhayte so sad it's a shame all the politics that foes on behind the music industry
TheStrawbeery 1 year ago
@TheStrawbeery Exactly. Even more sad is how little the singer profits. Statistics show singers only get 10% of the profit they create, and most record labels recieve upwards of 30%. Music needs revolutionized.
TrustedPhayte 1 year ago
@TrustedPhayte wow daam your right revolutionize big time
TheStrawbeery 1 year ago
I looooooooooooove this song!
StormyNoMore 1 year ago
I miss this kind of R &B.
StormyNoMore 1 year ago 2
This song brought back a 90's feel.
StormyNoMore 1 year ago
Dang he can sing!
4336188 1 year ago 2
hey me u and jennifer hudsoin birthday is september the 12 of course yall is older than me
grigsbyprincess 1 year ago
always loved this shit...i saw him at wingate field in brooklyn a few summers ago & dude was great. did a few luther jams plus his own joints
ICANDIGUOUT 1 year ago
OMG I LOVE THIS SONG ITS SO AMAZZIN
24lprincess 1 year ago
how old is he
huniy2cv 1 year ago
@huniy2cv 31
decewilla 1 year ago
Luke 11
17Jesus knew their thoughts and said to them: "Any kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and a house divided against itself will fall. 18If Satan is divided against himself, how can his kingdom stand? I say this because you claim that I drive out demons by Beelzebub. 19Now if I drive out demons by Beelzebub, by whom do your followers drive them out? So then, they will be your judges. 20But if I drive out demons by the finger of God, then the kingdom of God has come to you.
PreachersOfChrist 1 year ago
I never heard of this song he made wow this is a first !
blessedbaby12 1 year ago
Tell her Ruben, this songs says so much and speaks the truth !!!!!
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i lost my fiancee bcs i was a stupid man she is pregnant with are child i love her to death my first mother of my child left me and i still know nothing of my first child i dont want it to happen again i said some terrible things but i love you Dorris i mean it this time add me juggalojesse@yahoo.commyspace now for yahoo and facebook pimp_man_jesse@yahoo.com i want to know how i can try and make things right
juggalojesse715 1 year ago
This one gives a whole new meaning to Real talk! Preach on Ruben!!! This one never gets old!
TongueFu72 1 year ago
lovee diss sngg soo mchh
meeh2cute4uy 1 year ago
Hey, hey, hey! It's taco.
Ex101 1 year ago
Damn, I Been There. This Shit Go So HARD!!! HE seriously needs to come back with some more heat!!!!
KennyIISan 1 year ago
ALABAMA STAND UP! 334 all day.
FredrickUniversity 1 year ago
I dedicate this to MY BIG BROTHER...BRIAN EDWARDS!!-Victor M.
TheVXXXXX 1 year ago
@TheVXXXXX I also dedicate this to MY BIG BROTHER...CHRIS EDWARDS!!- Victor M.
TheVXXXXX 1 year ago
love it!!!
jazzyj462 1 year ago
Ruben you did your thing.I love you,come back real soon.I can listen to you day and night.I wouldn't change a thing about you.
clyburnscup 1 year ago
i love it
Latrice9494 1 year ago
song be hittin goood job my dude
hotblk100 1 year ago
Ruben is an amazing singer!!!!! hell wit' any1 who disagrees!
ikonwwhatadonis 1 year ago
MY BIG SEXY TEDDY BEAR!!!!
ESKIMOOO6969 1 year ago
0:25 Rick Ross? lol
playmaker4015 1 year ago
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playmaker4015 1 year ago
Dhats My Gurl Bre Frum AntM I Luv Her !!! I Luv Dhiss Sung Dha Meaning
VeVeBabiiLuvCakez 1 year ago
one of my fav song, i love u ruben
loveharding04 1 year ago
yes found it! and i love the "oh girl" part!
SevenTailedWolf72 1 year ago
i don't know that it was supposed to make me laugh as hard as i did, but some of the lyrics were HILARIOUS!!!! :-)
shazzzzee 1 year ago
Luv iit xDDDD
SugarBee09 1 year ago
I like this song after I saw the writer's video they were having so much fun writing this and were so excited...have you seen that video? on the8
jodeemareegreen2 1 year ago
this is so true
nubiangoddess75 1 year ago
l love this song
25803 1 year ago
BORING!!!!!!!!!!!!
puffyrocks 1 year ago
Sang it hun. luv him
dr3ama1 1 year ago
i love that he just kicks her out at the end...hella funny
Lhunandir1873 1 year ago
Rick Ross is Ruben's daddy.
Alphamale69 1 year ago
I liked him better as a Gospel Artist
MrJagfootball63 1 year ago
WATCH BABY IDOL!!! Flogo
DachshundLover33 1 year ago
Could you re-upload this video so that the video and audio are together?
459triple3 1 year ago
@459triple3 you funny
ngonb4 1 year ago
love this song
madame1xyz 1 year ago
This is real talk!
TongueFu72 1 year ago 2
man Ruben is AMAZING! I love him so much! he is a great singer && i hope he makes more music...
Averyqueen789 1 year ago
yessss for bre
rudeboy1022 1 year ago
his voice and tyreses voice sound similar. .plus this vid looks very similar to tyreses vid "ONE"
dAnCinToNy87 1 year ago 2
@dAnCinToNy87 Was thinking the same thing!
Zjay23 1 year ago
i love this song ruben has soul in voice
Mrwheelchairwill 1 year ago
Oh it's the granola bar/red bull girl from ANTM.
MsLadybird99 1 year ago
0:27 0:29
Rick Ross lmao
i didnt even no he started singing i just thought he won American idol then poof
smoke576 1 year ago
THE NEW LUTHER
1djuan 1 year ago
@1djuan : Deff. He is The NEW LUTHER VANDROSS
howwe456 1 year ago
i love both Clay and Ruben!!!! Ruben is great though has an amazing voice!! They will be touring together this summer starting July. Listen in to 105.3 WDAS PHL today to listen in to Ruben live. Check their website for more info...
FAMUZ1988 1 year ago
is that girl bre from america's next top model?
jubybfin 1 year ago
@jubybfin yeah she izx.!*
talkytalky1142 1 year ago
@talkytalky1142 ok i thought so. she is a beautiful young lady.. i wanted her to win..
jubybfin 1 year ago
@jubybfin . im sorrii budd i dnt knw wadd yhu talkin bouud !
talkytalky1142 1 year ago
@jubybfin . oh yeah ! iknw wad yhu talkin boudd !
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Ruben!!! My sister tells me your gonna be coming to philly march 16th to do an interview and performance at wdas-fm radio station.
Can't wait big boy! Seriously I love his music. His voice is beautiful and he sings with such soul.
gossipgirl19003 1 year ago
Hey Ruben,
Saw you on the Wendy Williams show, glad to hear of your healthy turn around and that you are not only Vegetarian but mostly Vegan.
You are in great company, thanks for being a good rolemodel and standing against Animal Abuses and sick factory farms meat (dot) org videos.
VeganMotorcyclePilot 1 year ago 2
Something is just not the same with Ruben now... Saw him on Wendy's show today... SMH
BiGMiKELOVER 1 year ago
this song is the boomb
carlhunter42 1 year ago 30
i love this song its an awesome chill song lol another real good one is My Story by Sean Mcgee check it out
feliciaNnick 1 year ago 3
he was man enough to kick her out off his crib.lol cuz she was a lozer thinkin that she could change a winner.:)
jjgreedyify 1 year ago 2
haha i love Ruben <3 Clay is talented but I like Ruben more <3 <3 <3
hitori808 1 year ago 6
i like it
cassandrabadie 1 year ago
to kahrooch why are you watching Ruben if you wished Clay should've won? Go type in Clay then leave this for the real Ruben fans...........
eightoneeightthree 1 year ago 3
everyone thats won american idol has soldout. thats all part of the deal
ZocktheBumtickler 1 year ago
@ZocktheBumtickler sold out to whom?
cassandrabadie 1 year ago