For those who can't/don't want to get married, there is no marital, therefore no premarital so for them, hump away. Practice makes perfect is silly cause if you're married, time is your friend and it'll get not only better but more specific to each other. Women have handed over huge leverage for coaxing marriage by sleeping around. You know the old saying; why you buy some cows when so many girls sleep around? I won't marry but I do think intimacy suffers if you have 25 partners between you.
hmmm if there was some way to fast forward to the one, give them ur V-card, come back, become a freaking sex goddess, and then when u get to them ur amazing at pleasure....damn...I need a time machine....e.e
to a lot of people, some of this girl's thoughts may seem to hold no weight, and sexual compatibility my seem ridiculous, I however married someone that i am not sexually compatible with. It can be devastating. I am the one suffering in our relationship. although I love my husband and will not divorce him, I feel very lonely all the time, and I recognize that this is not emotionally or even physically healthy. I have to masturbate and fantasize to keep it together!
I like the idea of only having sex with my future husband(or wife) but Ialso think it's slightly impractical. I'll bet that at some point in my life, before I get married, I'll meet someone I want to share that experience with even if I know we won't get married and I don't think I should be ashamed for that
For most people, marriage is saying "I am going to fuck you alone for the rest of my life," so sexual compatibility is a MASSIVE part of a successful marriage. If you waiting until marriage and are with someone sexually compatible, you got lucky. Some people say abstinence is the only 100% definite way of not getting an STD/pregnant. To them I say, not crossing roads is the only 100% definite way of not being hit by a car. To live is to play the odds. You only get one shot.
Westernisation, Vulgarization, Sexualization of society must Stop! ...... Yes girls should marry as soon as they reach puberty. Not to whore around before marriage.
Thumbs up for Timely marriages. Why to go against Nature?
Thumbs down for Whoring around and not marrying, spreading corruption in the society.
you can follow your religion and wait or it can just be an opinion. im waiting for marriage because its what i believe nt my religion.
theres nothing wrong with having it b4 marriage either? sex is not bad bcuz without it we wouldnt be here. i just think of it as a sacred thing and i think its a respectful way to show your love. So plz dont hate on ppl who want to wait or ppl who havent waited? like really? why does it matter? its what you want!
Honestly, whether you're christian or not, your libido often does and should determine when and how often you have sex. I've met girls who can wait seemingly forever without orgasm and girls who thought a week was too long. I lost my virginity at 12 with a girl I met in church, and I've been in steady sexual relationships since.
I agree with John Steinbeck about the asexual girls being sociopaths. There's something oddly cultish and inhuman about them.
@iHAVE1j "I agree with Joh Steinbeck about the asexual girls being sicopaths. There's something oddly cultish and inhuman about them."
I'm an asexual girl. I also happen to think you're insane.
"I lost my virginity at age 12 with a girl I met in church."
Seriously. I may be asexual, but I am an older sister of a twelve-year-old boy, so the following argument is relative. What the fuck? You should have been losing TEETH at age 12. Not VIRGINITY.
Well, the fact that you can describe yourself as an asexual human with sexual organs does scare me. It's as though you're either ignoring the facts, repressing what is natural, or are lacking something innately human. The latter two of these fall into common traits of the sociopath, and the former probably isn't possible. Did you mean to say you're "waiting?" Being asexual is somewhat different..
@iHAVE1j Being asexual means that I do not WANT sex. Celibate means "I have a sex drive but I choose not to engage in it." Get your facts right. In order to be a sociopath, you need to have antisocial tendencies and a lack of conscience. I have neither. I have a lot of very close friends and people who are dear to me, and I like talking to them. AND you know what the best way to get me to do something I don't want to do is? Guilt. What does that tell you?
To be frank, I don't have the time or energy after work to get into my personal philosophy behind this topic, esp. on youtube, and you have no reason to give me credibility anyway. I will say your libido is definitely integral to your personality (according to all or most psychoanalyst), and if you don't believe me, just read Freud, Jung, Kant, or the whole pantheon of other credible sources..
There are a few things you have to admit if you wish to seriously argue this.
The libido is innate and has its place in our limbic system, outside of the conscious brain. Telling an innate tendency "never" or losing the tendency altogether is no different than losing other tendencies in the limbic system, detracting from what is human about us. Negotiating and manipulating one's natural tendencies is a red flag for ASPD as described by the APA. That's all I have to say. ; )
Christain teen youths and young adults I know that living in USA is like living in Modern Babylon But you as Christain should be an example of Christ. Grow as a believe in Christ by having the fear of the Lord in you heart.
@lacigreen you don't need a bacher let degree to be good a sex it just takes practice. I have heard of many women catch HIV although they used a condom. It is best to do it God's way and wait untill marrage. You will have no regrets. You also should had added that people how wait until marrage are less likely to divorce.
my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is. it hard too find the right girl :(
HELL IS REAL!!! God will judge man by His Law. If we have lied, stolen, hated someone,looked with lust, had sex outside of marriage, used profanity, etc., we are guilty and in danger of eternal punishment in hell when we die. However, God made a way out. Christ came from heaven to take our punishment on Himself and die on a cross.Three days later He rose from the dead and now commands us to turn from sin and trust in Him. See my video titled“Solemn Warning: 5 Types of People Headed for Hell"
Have you seen god? Have you seen hell? Have you seen heaven? How do you know the bible is real. Its a 3,000 year old book, written in hebrew, written by a bunch of people that we dont know of. And a god sacrifising himself to himself? Isnt that a bit absurd, considering he could change the laws he created? And why do you worship a god that sends people to hell? Seriously dude, get out of here
Respond to this video... And, our God doesn't send people to hell, people send themselves by not living the life God has called them to live. Ask a christian, get educated before you make assumptions. Hey, ask me, I'll answer every question you have, I'm serious.
You don't think I'm educated? I'm sorry but YOUR not educated. I guarantee you don't know half of the things your God does in your bible. And I'm sending myself to hell?
Chritains - Jesus and Yaweah- Don't believe they are both Gods, you go to hell
Jews- Yaweah- He is the only God and if you believe jesus is also another God, you go to Hell
Muslims- Allah- If you don't believe he's the God and jesus is a profit, you go to hell
I still have a chance of going to hell and so do U
@BriannasPlanet No calm down there, once again, you are getting defensive. No need to get all hyped up here. I'm saying that before you make assumptions about something you haven't taken the time to learn about, ask someone about it first.
Respond to this video... Haha, first of all, Yaweah is Jesus. There are many names for Jesus. I don't believe Jesus is another God. Jesus was sent here to earth in the image of God, as a man. Jesus is the son of God. Yes, you are right, you do have a chance of going to hell, but I am saved. I have received Jesus Christ as my lord and Savior. I am not blemish free, trust me. You can to, if you want. He just wants to have a relationship with you. Thanks for listening to me though, and responding
And i think its a total joke when people say yaweah and jesus are one god. Yaweah was one of the most evil cntroling God of the old testiment and jesus was a loving person here on.earth. Not one of them are a like to each other, thats why hes the SON, not the 2nd yaweah. Plus what im i saving myself from? Hell? So dont belive in any of this, im doomed for hell all because of the original sin of adam eve. Im not going t scare myself into beliving this. But you sure can...
@BriannasPlanet Okay, joke about it all you want. But to christians, it's very important so don't make fun of it. If you have a problem with it, just keep it to yourself instead of starting a whole viral uproar.
Im joking about it? Sorry honey but this is what it what has happened in YOUR bible. Im not making stuff up. And you're going on peoples videos saying "HELL IS REAL" is not keeping it to yourself etheir. It just proves that you have a messed up evil god who likes sending people to hell if they dont worship him, or does what he says.
@BriannasPlanet First of all, don't call me honey. I'm older than you. Second, I never said God sends people to hell, EvangelizeYourWorld said that, which is how you and I got here in the first place. Third, why are you so disrespectful? Don't you have any value for yourself rather than putting other people down? I don't have a messed up God, and if you say that again, I will personally report you. You are harassing me and going against my freedom of religion.
Respond to this video... I never said people would go to hell for not worshiping Him. Once again, your making uneducated assumptions about the God that I serve. It's a choice. Being a christian is not a religion, it's a relationship. I'm not attacking you, so why are you attacking me?
But on your top comment you just said God will send you to hell and then you listed all these things you have to to do to go to hell. Your pretty much attacking everyone by saying were bad people by doing the things we want to do. And its not a uneducated statement. Its says it in your bible. And Christianity is not a religion? Give me a break. Obviously you don't know the definition of "religion" if you think believing in a god is not a religion.
@BriannasPlanet To the world, Christianity is just some form of religion. Once you become a christian, you build a relationship with god through prayer. You receive his word from church, and you build upon that by studying His word in the bible, and pray. I can't explain to you how fulfilling and amazing the relationship is, but you can inbox me if you would like me to go deeper, because I only have a limited word usage under comments. God will never send anyone to hell, okay? There is no list.
We all know lacigreen had premarital sex for her need to explain premarital relations. WHO GIVES A SHIT! Uuuggh this twat feels she has to explain everything as if she has all the answers. Need we remind you, its all just your perspective. Now go let the homeboys bust a train on you while you pump out part 2 of this video....
Honey, you need to understand that sometimes, a lot of choices hurt people... esp. about sex. I know all sorts of people who came from different backgrounds, asians, budhist, hinduist, to roman catholic, european you get me... and they all chose to have sex before marriage and I guarantee you-- Every. single. one of them regretted the choice that they made. They all tell me how they wish they had lived a cleaner and healthier life. And also... having sex to trust each other?? That is BALONEY!!!!
@Freedomfoe07 i dont regret my decision to have sex haha. sex definitely makes relationships much more intimate and therefore harder to leave if you decide to do so, but there are so many aspects of relationships which can contribute to creating more difficulty in leaving or moving on, such as talking to that person every day, becoming friends with their family, etc. you have to decide what your own boundaries are in every action you take, not just in sex alone. sex has nothing to do with purity
you (the chick posting) obviously don't know anything about humanity. there are Buddhist monks and all kinds of people that don't have sex and seem to have better, more organized and more disciplined lives than all the sexually saturated people around the world. so, since u are pretty much illiterate and uneducated, why don't u at least use google and search stuff up! and by the way, married people overall do live more fulfilling and happier lives overall. life is not only about sex
Its perplexing how almost everything thats considered a sin are things that make people happy. Religion seems to force people to lead dull, boring and wastefull lives. If there is a god, I highly doubt he would want you to waste 70% of your life repressing yourself, sitting in churches and rejecting the luxuries he created for humans to enjoy. IF anything, it's insulting to god. He created such complex creatures and it's spat back in his face by them just sitting around being miserable.
@sasuke101 OMG totally WTF! Wth was goin through his damn head? O wait I got an answer o shit. Anyways virgin believe celibacy. Gonna wait for the one I love enough to marry. You feel me bitches hell ya.
"If you think you're going to be a masterful lover the first time you have sex, you are much mistaken." - I think you miss the point. If you've never had sex, how the hell are you going to know that your partner is or isnt a masterful lover? Thats the beauty of celibacy, for all you know, your partner could be shagging like a pornstar.
bitchez r lyk a chocalate bar if you marry 1 ur stuck with it, woulnt you want to try a snicker bar or a twix instead of kit kat for the rest of your life?
dont get married, learn from me im wiliwonka! life 2short have an afair
Hey! Im a guy in Australia and im 18 years old. I have a Girl and we have been together for 2.5 years. My girl was a virgin when we started dating and 1 year in we finally had sex. 2 years into the relationship we found out that God made sex, he also made women for men and that we should wait till marriage to have sex and not give into the temptation of LUST. So now we have decided together to wait for the beneficial future with GOD. And hey the relationship is going better now without it. Peace
@SimperSolvo Actually we are animals, highly evolved animals, but still animals (although after what happened in London last month im not so sure about the 'evolved' part)
When I was in 8th grade, my teacher told the class:
"Guys shouldn't masturbate because if they do so, they waste sperm and THAT is like killing millions of babies which is a sin." One of my female friends asked her "How about girls? I mean we don't have sperm" The teacher thought about it and the said this: "Is also sin because you are been selfish by not sharing that pleasure."
I think that you dont have to wait untill you get married because who know how long that will take =) but i dont think that teenagers in high school (or younger) arent responible enough to deal with the commitment of the risks of sex (STD and pregnancy). i think after your done with high school and you have left to get a job or go to collage/university you start having to make your own decisions and you start thinking things through better.
Lacie, I don't like your ignorant, adolescent opinion. To build onto that, you ARE a useful idiot. My guess is you WILL go far in this topsy-turvy world before crashing to the irreversible TRUTH that most people face in the end; that all of your nonsensical shallow beliefs and "studies" were empty attempts at justifying the lifestyle of an animal with a self-control problem.
You're snarky attempt at smearing the sensible way to life easily fell short with your ugly personality.
@McSvorsk first of all its the highest level of commitment between a couple . Second of all , its the only valid relationship government would recognise to approve rights to couple and benefits. Theres no law regarding gf/bf relationship that government takes into account .
@ajazaad it is the highest level of committment between a couple, but something exists that overrides that - it's not human nature to sleep with the same person your whole life.
we grow up seeing 'mums and dads' but without any concept of sex or the importance of it in our growth into man and woman-hood.
..first off..laci is a shallow atheists,, ok.. and btw laci,, God is not some "religion" ..biggest myth ever.. technology has nothing to do with sex outside of marriage.. why are we listening to this shallow clueless new ager..laci is an atheists and doesn't get it
@moviebuff383 how does technology have nothing to do with sex go to adam and eve dot com and see if there is no technology and god is a religion give me some once of "god" out side of a book that people write
if god has said that sex before marriage is sin, then thats what it is....and if its a law given by god then its objective, and if it is objective then our subjetive thoughts on it doesnt make it right......
@0legacyking0 not a problem man i was a virgin when i was 17 then went on holiday met this nice girl and then i wasn't and really sex for the first time means nothing its not even the best that you'll ever have :P
People are also dumb and impatient and don't want to wait for marriage. They won't die if they wait and they act like they will. It's also really stupid when people say and think that sex is a need when it's not because a need is something you must have in order to live like food and water. Although some people are just afraid of commitment too. I know that divorce rates are high and stuff as well, but that doesn't mean it's never going to work out if you get married either.
WHORE! basically what you people are saying "just because we dont have the bloody will powed to be moral people and restrain from doing lascivious things then by default thats ok" its like drug addicts saying, oh its my body, so let me do what i want with it....sure you can do whatever you want with it, but doesnt mean its righ-by any deffenition. Your a casuist! using unsound arguments to justify something simply isnt justifiable!
I HAVE AN IDEA!!! How about this? let people have thier own views!!! if they want to have sex as a teen IDGAF!!! even if your a parent you have to accept that your teen is thier own person and they will do what they want regardless you were the same most likely most dont wanna admit that though ;). And people it'd be LOVELY if you'd stop trying to change people to your veiws by saying other people's veiws are wrong educate yourself find yoru own opionion and be true to YOURSELF.
@ABL6506 I'm kinda confused on why you replied to me when I wasn't even talking to you. You obviously didn't read what I was saying because you missed my point entirely. I'm not a parent, but I can say that just because teens want to have sex doesn't mean that's the right thing. They still need parental guidance until they are old enough to make mature decisions. Also, how was I saying anyone's views were wrong? I was trying to clarify a contradiction. So back off please.
I am sorry Laci , but I have to respond to your blog. Just because you are sexually compatible does not mean you are meant to get married to the other person. You made a comment that if you are sexually compatible with a man he will not cheat on you. Bullshit!!!! Why don't you tell that to the millions of women who married someone they were "sexually compatible" with and then the husband screws every girl in town.
@movierocks silly person, she never said that "he will not cheat" she said that they "may be more prone to cheat" thus the statement never limited to one side...
@movierocks All she said was that sexual compatibility makes one's less prone to cheat, not that sexual compatibility = perfect marriage. It's not black and white like that. The point Laci was making is that it's good to know whether you're compatible with someone before getting married, as it is an important factor, but it's not THE most important. Obviously you've got something on your mind that's filtering what you see and hear because the conclusions you've drawn from the video are way off.
Uhhh.... How many different ways can sex be said? Fuckin' doinkin' bangin' skronkin' humpin' screwin' bumpin' slammin' .... Any other one worders? Can we move on to the multi word ones now?
There's about a million. My favorite is "Knocking Boots"
@needles1987 I know a lot of people that have waited until marriage. If they don't know what sex is like with someone else, they can't compare it to anything. So who is to know what sex is good or not in that case? If anything waiting is very responsible. Sex is over-rated in our society. It is the icing on the cake. The cake is the marriage. There are so many other factors to check into to know someone is right for you. Saying that abstinence is irresponsible just seems very contradicting.
@hislilpanda89 abstinence is irresponsible because curious teens will be curious teens and if they are told sex is bad dont do it till your married they are less likely to be educated on how to have safe sex, what to do if they get pregnant, ect. so then they go do it anyway and then its an issue. Technically abstinence should be the safest option, but in todays world, being educated on it and educating the teens is the safest option.
@amicizia369 Just because you practice abstinence does NOT mean you are uneducated about sex. That statement is completely untrue. If people are told sex is bad, their perception of sex is automatically skewed. They need to be taught that it is meant to be shared with someone you love. And the safest sex IS during marriage. If pregnancy happens, you are married! So you were responsible and prevented any irresponsible consequences from happening. Education + abstinence can, and does go together.
honestly hun, i live in alabama, and since i started high school i see more pregnant girls under the age of 18 on a daily basis than i ever have before. being sex positive is great and everything if that's what floats your boat, but right now we ought to focus more on CONTROLLING sex and teen pregnancy than promoting it. we need to regulate the earth's population, and quick, before we run out of resources to sustain us, which is happening much faster than we realize.
@0ogly1 I think it's easier to get STDs from it because the opening is smaller, causing small tears in the skin easier, causing more easy access for bacteria. not sure if that's the only reason, but I think it's a big one.
Yeah if you're an idiot who doesn't have enough sense to find the compatible person before hastily getting married. This is not typical of people who decide to wait, but rather people that fuck for fun.
You know... because that is the PURPOSE of waiting. To find the right person first. Not have sex sooner.
It is a valid theory/opinion because there are people who decide to wait and then when they find someone who they'd like to have sex with and make them feel "butterflies" in their stomach then they'll get married soon, and sometimes they realize that this person wasn't right for them,
Don't get all mad and shit just because I made a VERY valid opinion, and it is not just an opinion, it is a fact.
Sources? Anything to validate what you say here may be true?
You say 'people', but just because one or two people you may know in real life that were not compatible, doesn't make a conclusive case. Show me these facts, 'dude'.
There is more to a relationship than sex. If you get married to have sex sooner, you deserve what you get. If you think you need test runs, you're even more of an idiot. What makes you think one cannot get better with a single partner?
@Skynamo there are a couple of people i know, but i'm SURE (OMG, YES i SAID SURE :O) that these types of cases happen, maybe not very often, but they happen.
Now, i'm sorry Skynamo but I just don't feel like arguing with some random person on the internet because I gave an opinion.
To Mazdaspeedmx512lbs - Your persistent use of the term "closed-minded" on other peoples' beliefs only leads me to believe that you, yourself, are closed-minded. I was, at one point, an extremely religious individual. Since then, I have fallen away from the faith, and I have had sex. It's what I choose to do.
To Triplequeen - While I agree with you more than Mazdaetc., I'm going to say that you lost the argument when you resorted to ad hominem.
@ChristanPaige for most people, yes but, there is a small portion of our society that actually has no sex drive and a referred to as asexual . I only found out about this relatively recently.
@ChristanPaige Actually sex itself is not a need. And for a Christian you should know a human should never be inslaved by their personal desires nor body parts.
Sex changes your relationship, so I think it's better to have it before marriage. Otherwise you could end up unhappy in marriage and unable to get out.
@triplequeen Using is the opposite of loving. Lust is a internal weakness. If your going to have sex with a person & if the sex is not what you selfishly lustfully want & you are going to leave that person it means you used that person & never loved them to begin with & do not know what marriage & chastity is & should not be planning on getting married to that person to begin with. Looks like you are just out to use a person to fulfill your selfish lustful fantasies & not interested in love
Okay, not only is most of your comment completely unrelated to what I said, and you are spamming this video with your incessant comments, but you are also trying to insult me through things I didn't say. It's possible to be in love with someone outside of marriage too - sometimes people are not allowed to get married. Your argument is religious-based, and not everyone follows your religion.
Before you start being judgemental, learn a little more about other people.
No, YOU are. You seem to think marriage is a Christian concept, when it's not at all. A concept stemming from religion, arguably, but it has very little to do with you and your beliefs. If you were right, then sex before marriage would be illegal and no one would have pre-maritial sex. It's not: therefore you are wrong.
@triplequeen You are clueless to what chastity is & marriage If you want to be ignorant I aint twisting your arm or forcing anything on you that is your false prideful assumption If you think lust is the right way to go A person will be much happier loving & being loved than using & being used If you want to end up miserable close minded & ignorant of chastity & marriage keep listening to quacks like Laci Green & the like If you want to open your mind & truly understand love Chastity DOT com
What makes you think that your opinion is any better than mine or Laci's?
It's possible to love outside of marriage. If you're not in love, then there's no point in getting married. I know exactly what chastity and marriage are: it doesn't change my views. You can have an amazing relationship without being married, the same way you can without sex. And by the way, I've visited that website and it's nothing special. Stop trying to plug it: it makes you look pathetic.
@triplequeen You are filled with pride & only think you know what chastity is. If you do not want to understand chastity do not go to chastity DOT com or to any of the links they have to other sites & video go right on ahead & be totally close minded following only what the world says. Laci is not radical she is just a follower like the rest Now chastity is radical I chose Chastity DOT com because theology of the body would be way way over your head or stuff on Christopher West DOT com website
You can't tell me that I don't know what chastity is: you don't even know me. I've been to that website in the past, when I researched chastity: I came to my own conclusion, and you have no right to judge my views. Your views are no better than mine, so you can get off your pedestal now. Chastity is not 'radical' - it's an old trick used to confine and control people. People like you are all the same: close-minded, judgemental, and most of all, stupid.
@triplequeen Every statement you make seems to show your ignorance of chastity & marriage Licentious sex is an old old truck & conformity to the culture chastity is totally radical Im not judging you im challenging your conformist thinking & you are just getting all bent out of place cause chastity is too radical for your conformist thinking People like you are all the same closeminded judge mental and ignorant by choice Licentiousness is used to confine and control people chastity sets you free
I was given this topic for a communication class back in college. The professor was a retired minister. I equated premarital sex as such; when most people buy a car they want to test drive to make sure they like the car. On the average people will keep their cara for 4 years before trading it in.The same applied to sex before marriage, although marriage lasts longer before the need to trade in.
When a husband and wife make love, they're expressing their wedding vows with their bodies: "I give myself totally to you." When a couple sleeps together before marriage, they're expressing a lie with their bodies because they do not totally belong to each other, even if marriage is right around the corner.
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs Marriage might not be more than a word. To some it means absolutely nothing more than the legal papers. It doesn't need to change the relationship in any way. getting married to someone without having sex first to me seems like a huge gamble, because I do enjoy sex and want that aspect to work as well.
The only reason to make me get married is my fiance who wants it, and with more happiness comes more sex. Win-win, everyone happy and sexing away.
@Daealis I think this is the problem people who know nothing about marriage & chastity & what they are giving advice to others about marriage & chastity To some it means absolutely nothing more than the legal papers or a word because they know nothing about it Lust is a internal weakness chastity is a internal strength chastity means your strong & can say no lust means your enslaved to it & can not say no & it controls you Men who lust are a dime a dozen nothing to offer just use women
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs Marriage is whatever you feel it is. To me it's just a cultural habit, I'd be just fine without the whole church part. To others it is the holy fucking grail of commitment, the end of freedom. I don't need arbitruary constraints on my sex life. I see sex as what it is, just another urge in humans. If you wish to live without endulging in the pleasures of it then fine, whatever rocks your boat.
But don't pretend to have the all around answer for the rest of humanity.
@Daealis Freedom is not doing whatever you want to do that is called licentiousness If people felt street lines lights signs guardrails & laws were arbitrary constraints & thought that doing whatever they wanted would make them more free they would never be able to make it across a city. Street lines lights signs guardrails & laws free us to make it across a city Lust does not free you lust enslaves you Chastity frees you
@Daealis You are the one who is enslaved to lust & that is not freedom it is enslavement you can not say no. Understanding chastity & marriage & doing it frees a person If you wish to live without being able to control lustful urges but have them enslave you Do not falsely assume nobody has answers just because you are ignorant of answers
@Daealis To say marriage is whatever you feel it is is called subjectivism People often use subjectivism when they are ignorant of what they are talking about & falsely assume everybody else is just as ignorant as they are Do not falsely assume nobody has answers just because you are ignorant of answers I have read listened & watched a lot more than you at chastity . com
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs Yeah, you have read a lot of the other side, how much do you know about the side that doesn't want to wait? Just the health benefits of masturbation alone, let alone sex, are a good enough justification for it to me. Why not follow the suggestion of Laci that nobody should tell you how or when to express your sexuality, but rather decide for yourself? All the information is out there, but don't settle for one site if you want to read. Read the facts, not an opinionated site.
@Daealis I know enough to know lust is a weakness & rather than admit to yourself you have a weakness your trying to rationalize & justify your weakness If you can not say no to masturbation & licentious sex it means you are enslaved The world is backwards sin is enslavement & weakness while virtue is freedom & strength
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs How many people do you see masturbating in public on a daily basis? The reality is that in teens, majority masturbates on a somewhat regular basis. But they don't do it all the time, despite the stress-relief and the good feeling that it results in(if you are not indoctrinated with the notion that wanking is somehow bad). Why do they restrain in such manner? Because they have a brain.
You are saying that freedom is denying yourself sex. And I have the world backwards...
@Daealis Again your trying to rationalize & justify your weakness Freedom is not to do whatever you want that is called licentiousness Your saying freedom is being enslaving yourself to sex. If everybody felt traffic laws were arbitrary constraints & thought that doing whatever they wanted would make them more free nobody would never be able to make it across a city. In a community traffic laws free us to make it across a city. Marriage sets us free to love lust enslaves us to using others.
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs In a community the traffic laws constrict our freedoms to drive insanely if we so please, to enable safe traffic for everyone. These laws regulate freedoms to ensure an enviroment where no one is discriminated or brought to harm by others(at least without consequences).
"Marriage sets us free to love". I'm free to love outside marriage. Lust between two consenting individuals entangles them in a sweaty night of fornication. When done properly, it's safe and fun.
@Daealis If you have sex outside marriage it is not love but using which is the opposite of love which means you are not free to love outside marriage but are using others outside marriage. Licentiousness is not freedom doing whatever you want is not freedom just like driving totally ignoring traffic laws is not freedom but self destructive. I read the Q & A at chastity DOT com to answer your questions.
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs If there is no love outside marriage, how the hell do marriages happen? By cold logic and reason, as a mutually set agreement to pool wealth together or something? Emotions have nothing to do with it?
Using is the opposite of love... I don't know what you have been smoking, but your arguments are getting more ridiculous by the second. I didn't read my answers from a Q&A, I actually can think for myself. And any Q&A that hints to what you're saying isn't propably that good.
@Daealis Using is the opposite of loving thats a fact Love is self giving the opposite is using Love is not a emotion Think of a child A child is the love between a husband & wife. You give your flesh & blood, time, intellect, emotions, the works of your hands, everything you are The child is the common union between the husband & wife. Common union is where we get the word community & where communities come from You shouldn't call chosing to remain ignorant about chastity thinking for yourself
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs Go die. Go fucking die. You're a waste of space, you waste resources that others could use, you provide no value, therefore you'd be more use dead than alive.
@CSIArab Chastity & abstinence are two different things If you do not understand what chastity is you do not understand what marriage is God created sexual pleasure Satan is a creature & can not create so he can only twist what God created. Sex within chastity takes love to a whole other level while lust is a poor sad counterfeit through Satan & the fallen nature of man that unfortunately so many people get lied into thinking is better Sin is self destruction lust make a person less of a person
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs Ok, I see were you are coming from. But trying to force feed you religion, or jut beliefs in general, down someones throat is not the way to deal with something. I feel that if someone is confronting you about your opinions (and that is what religion is) you need to just keep it to yourself. If man was ment to worship God, they will do it on there own. As the Bible says, all will bow to the word of God on Judgement day. It'll happen all in good time, Don't force it.
@CSIArab You are the one force feeding your immoral religious beliefs down someone's throat. People like you are such hippocrates when it is YOU who is telling me to keep it to myself being a forceful bully. It is not my opinion truth is just truth.
Lol, I love the "*or 10*" in the corner at 1:16
eleventhousandfour 4 days ago
I don't ever plan on getting married, seriously, I don't think ANY guy is worth marrying.
EvlynArrow 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from lacigreen
For those who can't/don't want to get married, there is no marital, therefore no premarital so for them, hump away. Practice makes perfect is silly cause if you're married, time is your friend and it'll get not only better but more specific to each other. Women have handed over huge leverage for coaxing marriage by sleeping around. You know the old saying; why you buy some cows when so many girls sleep around? I won't marry but I do think intimacy suffers if you have 25 partners between you.
neatomosque 2 weeks ago
hmmm if there was some way to fast forward to the one, give them ur V-card, come back, become a freaking sex goddess, and then when u get to them ur amazing at pleasure....damn...I need a time machine....e.e
LovelyxxxLily 2 weeks ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
to a lot of people, some of this girl's thoughts may seem to hold no weight, and sexual compatibility my seem ridiculous, I however married someone that i am not sexually compatible with. It can be devastating. I am the one suffering in our relationship. although I love my husband and will not divorce him, I feel very lonely all the time, and I recognize that this is not emotionally or even physically healthy. I have to masturbate and fantasize to keep it together!
Fenikkusuuk 3 weeks ago
I like the idea of only having sex with my future husband(or wife) but Ialso think it's slightly impractical. I'll bet that at some point in my life, before I get married, I'll meet someone I want to share that experience with even if I know we won't get married and I don't think I should be ashamed for that
isingfashion 3 weeks ago
For most people, marriage is saying "I am going to fuck you alone for the rest of my life," so sexual compatibility is a MASSIVE part of a successful marriage. If you waiting until marriage and are with someone sexually compatible, you got lucky. Some people say abstinence is the only 100% definite way of not getting an STD/pregnant. To them I say, not crossing roads is the only 100% definite way of not being hit by a car. To live is to play the odds. You only get one shot.
Signed
virgin, 17
maroofasr 3 weeks ago
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Westernisation, Vulgarization, Sexualization of society must Stop! ...... Yes girls should marry as soon as they reach puberty. Not to whore around before marriage.
Thumbs up for Timely marriages. Why to go against Nature?
Thumbs down for Whoring around and not marrying, spreading corruption in the society.
abikani 1 month ago
I wanna wait... I'm just not sure I can
bananagram87 1 month ago
Fishnets are SEXXXXXY!!!
zacthebold 1 month ago
How could someone with religious dogma hanging over their life explore their sexuality?
iLike2scream7 2 months ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
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Am i the only one here because a hot chick is talking about sex
TheChunlilover 2 months ago
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TheChunlilover 2 months ago
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I think you would get a kick out of my video for new "prescription strength Abstinence". Check it out if you get a chance!
HedgesPictures 2 months ago
I don't feel the need to wait until I get married (if I get married at all) but I do want the first time I have sex to be with someone I love
ThePockyMonster 3 months ago
It doesnt matter eally?
you can follow your religion and wait or it can just be an opinion. im waiting for marriage because its what i believe nt my religion.
theres nothing wrong with having it b4 marriage either? sex is not bad bcuz without it we wouldnt be here. i just think of it as a sacred thing and i think its a respectful way to show your love. So plz dont hate on ppl who want to wait or ppl who havent waited? like really? why does it matter? its what you want!
MackenzieHeart101 3 months ago
Honestly, whether you're christian or not, your libido often does and should determine when and how often you have sex. I've met girls who can wait seemingly forever without orgasm and girls who thought a week was too long. I lost my virginity at 12 with a girl I met in church, and I've been in steady sexual relationships since.
I agree with John Steinbeck about the asexual girls being sociopaths. There's something oddly cultish and inhuman about them.
iHAVE1j 3 months ago
@iHAVE1j "I agree with Joh Steinbeck about the asexual girls being sicopaths. There's something oddly cultish and inhuman about them."
I'm an asexual girl. I also happen to think you're insane.
"I lost my virginity at age 12 with a girl I met in church."
Seriously. I may be asexual, but I am an older sister of a twelve-year-old boy, so the following argument is relative. What the fuck? You should have been losing TEETH at age 12. Not VIRGINITY.
NaomiLawlietJr 1 month ago
@NaomiLawlietJr
Well, the fact that you can describe yourself as an asexual human with sexual organs does scare me. It's as though you're either ignoring the facts, repressing what is natural, or are lacking something innately human. The latter two of these fall into common traits of the sociopath, and the former probably isn't possible. Did you mean to say you're "waiting?" Being asexual is somewhat different..
iHAVE1j 1 month ago
@iHAVE1j Being asexual means that I do not WANT sex. Celibate means "I have a sex drive but I choose not to engage in it." Get your facts right. In order to be a sociopath, you need to have antisocial tendencies and a lack of conscience. I have neither. I have a lot of very close friends and people who are dear to me, and I like talking to them. AND you know what the best way to get me to do something I don't want to do is? Guilt. What does that tell you?
NaomiLawlietJr 1 month ago
@NaomiLawlietJr
To be frank, I don't have the time or energy after work to get into my personal philosophy behind this topic, esp. on youtube, and you have no reason to give me credibility anyway. I will say your libido is definitely integral to your personality (according to all or most psychoanalyst), and if you don't believe me, just read Freud, Jung, Kant, or the whole pantheon of other credible sources..
iHAVE1j 1 month ago
@NaomiLawlietJr
There are a few things you have to admit if you wish to seriously argue this.
The libido is innate and has its place in our limbic system, outside of the conscious brain. Telling an innate tendency "never" or losing the tendency altogether is no different than losing other tendencies in the limbic system, detracting from what is human about us. Negotiating and manipulating one's natural tendencies is a red flag for ASPD as described by the APA. That's all I have to say. ; )
iHAVE1j 1 month ago
So, to break from the arguements in the comments, my GOD, you are so freaking beautiful(:
mypasswordistaco 3 months ago
@mypasswordistaco what do you mean by "my GOD."
JillieStarBean 3 months ago
@JillieStarBean -________- I mean she's extremely beautiful, I refuse to argue with you.
mypasswordistaco 3 months ago
@mypasswordistaco Oh no, I don't want to argue either. I was just curious.
JillieStarBean 3 months ago
i just want your pussy and to see you naked!
ydna681 3 months ago
Christain teen youths and young adults I know that living in USA is like living in Modern Babylon But you as Christain should be an example of Christ. Grow as a believe in Christ by having the fear of the Lord in you heart.
ddamos00 4 months ago
@lacigreen you don't need a bacher let degree to be good a sex it just takes practice. I have heard of many women catch HIV although they used a condom. It is best to do it God's way and wait untill marrage. You will have no regrets. You also should had added that people how wait until marrage are less likely to divorce.
ddamos00 4 months ago
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my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is. it hard too find the right girl :(
eric0100 4 months ago
HELL IS REAL!!! God will judge man by His Law. If we have lied, stolen, hated someone,looked with lust, had sex outside of marriage, used profanity, etc., we are guilty and in danger of eternal punishment in hell when we die. However, God made a way out. Christ came from heaven to take our punishment on Himself and die on a cross.Three days later He rose from the dead and now commands us to turn from sin and trust in Him. See my video titled“Solemn Warning: 5 Types of People Headed for Hell"
EvangelizeYourWorld 4 months ago
@EvangelizeYourWorld
Have you seen god? Have you seen hell? Have you seen heaven? How do you know the bible is real. Its a 3,000 year old book, written in hebrew, written by a bunch of people that we dont know of. And a god sacrifising himself to himself? Isnt that a bit absurd, considering he could change the laws he created? And why do you worship a god that sends people to hell? Seriously dude, get out of here
BriannasPlanet 4 months ago
@BriannasPlanet If you took the time to actually learn about the word of God, and how real it is, you would understand.
JillieStarBean 3 months ago in playlist More videos from lacigreen
Respond to this video... And, our God doesn't send people to hell, people send themselves by not living the life God has called them to live. Ask a christian, get educated before you make assumptions. Hey, ask me, I'll answer every question you have, I'm serious.
JillieStarBean 3 months ago in playlist More videos from lacigreen
@JillieStarBean
You don't think I'm educated? I'm sorry but YOUR not educated. I guarantee you don't know half of the things your God does in your bible. And I'm sending myself to hell?
Chritains - Jesus and Yaweah- Don't believe they are both Gods, you go to hell
Jews- Yaweah- He is the only God and if you believe jesus is also another God, you go to Hell
Muslims- Allah- If you don't believe he's the God and jesus is a profit, you go to hell
I still have a chance of going to hell and so do U
BriannasPlanet 3 months ago
@BriannasPlanet No calm down there, once again, you are getting defensive. No need to get all hyped up here. I'm saying that before you make assumptions about something you haven't taken the time to learn about, ask someone about it first.
JillieStarBean 3 months ago
Respond to this video... Haha, first of all, Yaweah is Jesus. There are many names for Jesus. I don't believe Jesus is another God. Jesus was sent here to earth in the image of God, as a man. Jesus is the son of God. Yes, you are right, you do have a chance of going to hell, but I am saved. I have received Jesus Christ as my lord and Savior. I am not blemish free, trust me. You can to, if you want. He just wants to have a relationship with you. Thanks for listening to me though, and responding
JillieStarBean 3 months ago
@JillieStarBean
And i think its a total joke when people say yaweah and jesus are one god. Yaweah was one of the most evil cntroling God of the old testiment and jesus was a loving person here on.earth. Not one of them are a like to each other, thats why hes the SON, not the 2nd yaweah. Plus what im i saving myself from? Hell? So dont belive in any of this, im doomed for hell all because of the original sin of adam eve. Im not going t scare myself into beliving this. But you sure can...
BriannasPlanet 3 months ago
@BriannasPlanet Okay, joke about it all you want. But to christians, it's very important so don't make fun of it. If you have a problem with it, just keep it to yourself instead of starting a whole viral uproar.
JillieStarBean 3 months ago
@JillieStarBean
Im joking about it? Sorry honey but this is what it what has happened in YOUR bible. Im not making stuff up. And you're going on peoples videos saying "HELL IS REAL" is not keeping it to yourself etheir. It just proves that you have a messed up evil god who likes sending people to hell if they dont worship him, or does what he says.
BriannasPlanet 3 months ago
@BriannasPlanet First of all, don't call me honey. I'm older than you. Second, I never said God sends people to hell, EvangelizeYourWorld said that, which is how you and I got here in the first place. Third, why are you so disrespectful? Don't you have any value for yourself rather than putting other people down? I don't have a messed up God, and if you say that again, I will personally report you. You are harassing me and going against my freedom of religion.
JillieStarBean 3 months ago
Respond to this video... I never said people would go to hell for not worshiping Him. Once again, your making uneducated assumptions about the God that I serve. It's a choice. Being a christian is not a religion, it's a relationship. I'm not attacking you, so why are you attacking me?
JillieStarBean 3 months ago
@JillieStarBean
But on your top comment you just said God will send you to hell and then you listed all these things you have to to do to go to hell. Your pretty much attacking everyone by saying were bad people by doing the things we want to do. And its not a uneducated statement. Its says it in your bible. And Christianity is not a religion? Give me a break. Obviously you don't know the definition of "religion" if you think believing in a god is not a religion.
BriannasPlanet 3 months ago
@BriannasPlanet To the world, Christianity is just some form of religion. Once you become a christian, you build a relationship with god through prayer. You receive his word from church, and you build upon that by studying His word in the bible, and pray. I can't explain to you how fulfilling and amazing the relationship is, but you can inbox me if you would like me to go deeper, because I only have a limited word usage under comments. God will never send anyone to hell, okay? There is no list.
JillieStarBean 3 months ago
We all know lacigreen had premarital sex for her need to explain premarital relations. WHO GIVES A SHIT! Uuuggh this twat feels she has to explain everything as if she has all the answers. Need we remind you, its all just your perspective. Now go let the homeboys bust a train on you while you pump out part 2 of this video....
HANGER187 4 months ago
religion poisons everything
starwave1967 4 months ago
Honey, you need to understand that sometimes, a lot of choices hurt people... esp. about sex. I know all sorts of people who came from different backgrounds, asians, budhist, hinduist, to roman catholic, european you get me... and they all chose to have sex before marriage and I guarantee you-- Every. single. one of them regretted the choice that they made. They all tell me how they wish they had lived a cleaner and healthier life. And also... having sex to trust each other?? That is BALONEY!!!!
Freedomfoe07 4 months ago
@Freedomfoe07 i didn't! i love sex!
brianna914 4 months ago
@Freedomfoe07 i dont regret my decision to have sex haha. sex definitely makes relationships much more intimate and therefore harder to leave if you decide to do so, but there are so many aspects of relationships which can contribute to creating more difficulty in leaving or moving on, such as talking to that person every day, becoming friends with their family, etc. you have to decide what your own boundaries are in every action you take, not just in sex alone. sex has nothing to do with purity
laGuerisseuse 4 months ago
you (the chick posting) obviously don't know anything about humanity. there are Buddhist monks and all kinds of people that don't have sex and seem to have better, more organized and more disciplined lives than all the sexually saturated people around the world. so, since u are pretty much illiterate and uneducated, why don't u at least use google and search stuff up! and by the way, married people overall do live more fulfilling and happier lives overall. life is not only about sex
livisda 4 months ago
Im not taking a dig at this Laci by the way, just how i see it.
JustLinkStudios 4 months ago
Its perplexing how almost everything thats considered a sin are things that make people happy. Religion seems to force people to lead dull, boring and wastefull lives. If there is a god, I highly doubt he would want you to waste 70% of your life repressing yourself, sitting in churches and rejecting the luxuries he created for humans to enjoy. IF anything, it's insulting to god. He created such complex creatures and it's spat back in his face by them just sitting around being miserable.
JustLinkStudios 4 months ago
@JustLinkStudios so true
mrmonstercock10 4 months ago
@sasuke101 OMG totally WTF! Wth was goin through his damn head? O wait I got an answer o shit. Anyways virgin believe celibacy. Gonna wait for the one I love enough to marry. You feel me bitches hell ya.
Maddy8359 5 months ago
"If you think you're going to be a masterful lover the first time you have sex, you are much mistaken." - I think you miss the point. If you've never had sex, how the hell are you going to know that your partner is or isnt a masterful lover? Thats the beauty of celibacy, for all you know, your partner could be shagging like a pornstar.
Fortunoway 5 months ago 2
bitchez r lyk a chocalate bar if you marry 1 ur stuck with it, woulnt you want to try a snicker bar or a twix instead of kit kat for the rest of your life?
dont get married, learn from me im wiliwonka! life 2short have an afair
MrXxCrAzExX 5 months ago
Hey! Im a guy in Australia and im 18 years old. I have a Girl and we have been together for 2.5 years. My girl was a virgin when we started dating and 1 year in we finally had sex. 2 years into the relationship we found out that God made sex, he also made women for men and that we should wait till marriage to have sex and not give into the temptation of LUST. So now we have decided together to wait for the beneficial future with GOD. And hey the relationship is going better now without it. Peace
TheAfricanSoul 6 months ago 4
don't want someone having sex before marriage.
buy them world of warcraft
nailo1 6 months ago 29
@nailo1
LOL!
TheAfricanSoul 6 months ago 2
I'm 17 and i'm waiting till marriage
JBHeadPhones 7 months ago 13
@JBHeadPhones
AWESOME! im 18 and i am too! ill pray for you :)
TheAfricanSoul 6 months ago 2
strange premarital sex doesn't mean that u planed to get married or ever get married
vanhala1 7 months ago
we have the ability to transcend such a barbaric existence.animals don't marry. animals don't wait. we are not animals.
SimperSolvo 7 months ago
@SimperSolvo Actually we are animals, highly evolved animals, but still animals (although after what happened in London last month im not so sure about the 'evolved' part)
cliniclown 5 months ago
Hahahaha "or ten"
thebeejudy 7 months ago
i told my bf that i wanted to wait. he asked me to marry him xD were both 16... wtf!
sasuke1on1 7 months ago
When I was in 8th grade, my teacher told the class:
"Guys shouldn't masturbate because if they do so, they waste sperm and THAT is like killing millions of babies which is a sin." One of my female friends asked her "How about girls? I mean we don't have sperm" The teacher thought about it and the said this: "Is also sin because you are been selfish by not sharing that pleasure."
I was in a catholic school. ; )
beltres94 7 months ago 4
I think that you dont have to wait untill you get married because who know how long that will take =) but i dont think that teenagers in high school (or younger) arent responible enough to deal with the commitment of the risks of sex (STD and pregnancy). i think after your done with high school and you have left to get a job or go to collage/university you start having to make your own decisions and you start thinking things through better.
nanaimogirl22 8 months ago
Lacie, I don't like your ignorant, adolescent opinion. To build onto that, you ARE a useful idiot. My guess is you WILL go far in this topsy-turvy world before crashing to the irreversible TRUTH that most people face in the end; that all of your nonsensical shallow beliefs and "studies" were empty attempts at justifying the lifestyle of an animal with a self-control problem.
You're snarky attempt at smearing the sensible way to life easily fell short with your ugly personality.
Find God.
Skynamo 8 months ago
@Skynamo
id wanna get into a discuss, but there is NO connection between marriage and sex -.-
and why do people get married? theyr not gonna love each other no more after they get married then before...
McSvorsk 8 months ago
@McSvorsk first of all its the highest level of commitment between a couple . Second of all , its the only valid relationship government would recognise to approve rights to couple and benefits. Theres no law regarding gf/bf relationship that government takes into account .
ajazaad 7 months ago
@ajazaad it is the highest level of committment between a couple, but something exists that overrides that - it's not human nature to sleep with the same person your whole life.
we grow up seeing 'mums and dads' but without any concept of sex or the importance of it in our growth into man and woman-hood.
badintentions2 6 months ago
..first off..laci is a shallow atheists,, ok.. and btw laci,, God is not some "religion" ..biggest myth ever.. technology has nothing to do with sex outside of marriage.. why are we listening to this shallow clueless new ager..laci is an atheists and doesn't get it
moviebuff383 8 months ago
@moviebuff383 how does technology have nothing to do with sex go to adam and eve dot com and see if there is no technology and god is a religion give me some once of "god" out side of a book that people write
guildofshades 8 months ago
..God does say to wait until marriage
moviebuff383 8 months ago
It's not premarital sex if one don't plan on getting married! xD
Fleursdelily 8 months ago 56
I like your open minded view on this ting.
People should be more open minded.
Lainey37 9 months ago
if god has said that sex before marriage is sin, then thats what it is....and if its a law given by god then its objective, and if it is objective then our subjetive thoughts on it doesnt make it right......
theden 9 months ago
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RAIDERS7009 9 months ago
I'm 17 and still a virgin.. God help me.
0legacyking0 10 months ago
@0legacyking0 not a problem man i was a virgin when i was 17 then went on holiday met this nice girl and then i wasn't and really sex for the first time means nothing its not even the best that you'll ever have :P
thijsld 9 months ago
People are also dumb and impatient and don't want to wait for marriage. They won't die if they wait and they act like they will. It's also really stupid when people say and think that sex is a need when it's not because a need is something you must have in order to live like food and water. Although some people are just afraid of commitment too. I know that divorce rates are high and stuff as well, but that doesn't mean it's never going to work out if you get married either.
jinxy070 10 months ago 2
WHORE! basically what you people are saying "just because we dont have the bloody will powed to be moral people and restrain from doing lascivious things then by default thats ok" its like drug addicts saying, oh its my body, so let me do what i want with it....sure you can do whatever you want with it, but doesnt mean its righ-by any deffenition. Your a casuist! using unsound arguments to justify something simply isnt justifiable!
DjCovenant 10 months ago 2
Oops. That was supposed to be one* or one's spouse*
rephilia 10 months ago
I HAVE AN IDEA!!! How about this? let people have thier own views!!! if they want to have sex as a teen IDGAF!!! even if your a parent you have to accept that your teen is thier own person and they will do what they want regardless you were the same most likely most dont wanna admit that though ;). And people it'd be LOVELY if you'd stop trying to change people to your veiws by saying other people's veiws are wrong educate yourself find yoru own opionion and be true to YOURSELF.
Peace
ABL6506 10 months ago
@ABL6506 I'm kinda confused on why you replied to me when I wasn't even talking to you. You obviously didn't read what I was saying because you missed my point entirely. I'm not a parent, but I can say that just because teens want to have sex doesn't mean that's the right thing. They still need parental guidance until they are old enough to make mature decisions. Also, how was I saying anyone's views were wrong? I was trying to clarify a contradiction. So back off please.
hislilpanda89 10 months ago 2
i personally wish to stay abstinent. not for any religious reasons, just because i want the first time 2 b special.
DesertBloodRose457 10 months ago 3
sex is a powerful WANT but its not a NEED believe it or not you will not die if you dont have sex even if you feel that you will.
serioushamster 10 months ago 3
Anal sex is riskier because the colon absorbs things easier and faster than other body parts.
Serenifly84 1 year ago
I am sorry Laci , but I have to respond to your blog. Just because you are sexually compatible does not mean you are meant to get married to the other person. You made a comment that if you are sexually compatible with a man he will not cheat on you. Bullshit!!!! Why don't you tell that to the millions of women who married someone they were "sexually compatible" with and then the husband screws every girl in town.
movierocks 1 year ago 3
@movierocks silly person, she never said that "he will not cheat" she said that they "may be more prone to cheat" thus the statement never limited to one side...
ar4ijs 11 months ago
@movierocks That wasn't the point of her video. Emotional compatibility is another topic entirely.
hislilpanda89 11 months ago
@movierocks you sound like uve been cheated on. hope u castrated the bastard
rktguy 10 months ago
@movierocks All she said was that sexual compatibility makes one's less prone to cheat, not that sexual compatibility = perfect marriage. It's not black and white like that. The point Laci was making is that it's good to know whether you're compatible with someone before getting married, as it is an important factor, but it's not THE most important. Obviously you've got something on your mind that's filtering what you see and hear because the conclusions you've drawn from the video are way off.
rephilia 10 months ago 3
@movierocks she did not say that they will not cheat on their woman. But if u have a good sex life it IS less likely
narxhin4ever 10 months ago
Uhhh.... How many different ways can sex be said? Fuckin' doinkin' bangin' skronkin' humpin' screwin' bumpin' slammin' .... Any other one worders? Can we move on to the multi word ones now?
There's about a million. My favorite is "Knocking Boots"
Cliffsofburton 1 year ago
I think waiting until marriage is irresponsible.
needles1987 1 year ago
@needles1987 How is that irresponsible?
hislilpanda89 11 months ago
@hislilpanda89 You got to know if they're the one for you before you marry them.
needles1987 11 months ago
@needles1987 I know a lot of people that have waited until marriage. If they don't know what sex is like with someone else, they can't compare it to anything. So who is to know what sex is good or not in that case? If anything waiting is very responsible. Sex is over-rated in our society. It is the icing on the cake. The cake is the marriage. There are so many other factors to check into to know someone is right for you. Saying that abstinence is irresponsible just seems very contradicting.
hislilpanda89 11 months ago 2
@hislilpanda89 abstinence is irresponsible because curious teens will be curious teens and if they are told sex is bad dont do it till your married they are less likely to be educated on how to have safe sex, what to do if they get pregnant, ect. so then they go do it anyway and then its an issue. Technically abstinence should be the safest option, but in todays world, being educated on it and educating the teens is the safest option.
amicizia369 11 months ago
@amicizia369 Just because you practice abstinence does NOT mean you are uneducated about sex. That statement is completely untrue. If people are told sex is bad, their perception of sex is automatically skewed. They need to be taught that it is meant to be shared with someone you love. And the safest sex IS during marriage. If pregnancy happens, you are married! So you were responsible and prevented any irresponsible consequences from happening. Education + abstinence can, and does go together.
hislilpanda89 10 months ago 2
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ABL6506 10 months ago
honestly hun, i live in alabama, and since i started high school i see more pregnant girls under the age of 18 on a daily basis than i ever have before. being sex positive is great and everything if that's what floats your boat, but right now we ought to focus more on CONTROLLING sex and teen pregnancy than promoting it. we need to regulate the earth's population, and quick, before we run out of resources to sustain us, which is happening much faster than we realize.
evilnaughtybritches 1 year ago
@uniqueeverlasting. Who says im a Christian? It's my name, not my collaboration of beliefs you bigot.
ChristanPaige 1 year ago
@ChristanPaige Stop fighting geeze >>
EvilxXxNightmare 1 year ago
wait... whats wrong with unprotected anal sex?
0ogly1 1 year ago
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@0ogly1 You can get Aids.
RunSushiRun 1 year ago
@0ogly1 I think it's easier to get STDs from it because the opening is smaller, causing small tears in the skin easier, causing more easy access for bacteria. not sure if that's the only reason, but I think it's a big one.
IndigoDelirium 1 year ago
@0ogly1 HIV is more likely with anal sex, also more STDs
ohemgeeitsmerry 1 year ago
I think that sex before marriage puts pressure on some people to get married soon, so they can have sex soon
RunSushiRun 1 year ago 44
@RunSushiRun
Yeah if you're an idiot who doesn't have enough sense to find the compatible person before hastily getting married. This is not typical of people who decide to wait, but rather people that fuck for fun.
You know... because that is the PURPOSE of waiting. To find the right person first. Not have sex sooner.
Consider your 'theory/opinion' refuted.
Skynamo 8 months ago
@Skynamo Dude, first of all CHILLAX
It is a valid theory/opinion because there are people who decide to wait and then when they find someone who they'd like to have sex with and make them feel "butterflies" in their stomach then they'll get married soon, and sometimes they realize that this person wasn't right for them,
Don't get all mad and shit just because I made a VERY valid opinion, and it is not just an opinion, it is a fact.
RunSushiRun 8 months ago
@RunSushiRun
Sources? Anything to validate what you say here may be true?
You say 'people', but just because one or two people you may know in real life that were not compatible, doesn't make a conclusive case. Show me these facts, 'dude'.
There is more to a relationship than sex. If you get married to have sex sooner, you deserve what you get. If you think you need test runs, you're even more of an idiot. What makes you think one cannot get better with a single partner?
Skynamo 8 months ago
@Skynamo there are a couple of people i know, but i'm SURE (OMG, YES i SAID SURE :O) that these types of cases happen, maybe not very often, but they happen.
Now, i'm sorry Skynamo but I just don't feel like arguing with some random person on the internet because I gave an opinion.
So, bye
Blessings :*
RunSushiRun 8 months ago
Bleh, I'll continue keep my self clean intill the big night after the wedding. =)
EvilxXxNightmare 1 year ago
@EvilxXxNightmare Me too, I am so proud I am a virgin. You are considered special. :)
And you stand above the crowd.
UniqueEverlasting 1 year ago
@UniqueEverlasting Haha yeah I know. xD
EvilxXxNightmare 1 year ago
To Mazdaspeedmx512lbs - Your persistent use of the term "closed-minded" on other peoples' beliefs only leads me to believe that you, yourself, are closed-minded. I was, at one point, an extremely religious individual. Since then, I have fallen away from the faith, and I have had sex. It's what I choose to do.
To Triplequeen - While I agree with you more than Mazdaetc., I'm going to say that you lost the argument when you resorted to ad hominem.
Share the love people; There's no need to hate.
NubMaster09 1 year ago
@NubMaster09 I'm sorry - it's hard not to get angry when a stranger judges you over the internet.
triplequeen 7 months ago
Sex is a want not a need? Then you've never done it. Sex is a human necessity. We can't not have it, it's in our programming.
ChristanPaige 1 year ago
@ChristanPaige for most people, yes but, there is a small portion of our society that actually has no sex drive and a referred to as asexual . I only found out about this relatively recently.
uaenruotel 1 year ago
@ChristanPaige Actually sex itself is not a need. And for a Christian you should know a human should never be inslaved by their personal desires nor body parts.
UniqueEverlasting 1 year ago
Sex is not a NEED it is a WANT!
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kasunikaanjana 1 year ago
Sex changes your relationship, so I think it's better to have it before marriage. Otherwise you could end up unhappy in marriage and unable to get out.
triplequeen 1 year ago
@triplequeen Using is the opposite of loving. Lust is a internal weakness. If your going to have sex with a person & if the sex is not what you selfishly lustfully want & you are going to leave that person it means you used that person & never loved them to begin with & do not know what marriage & chastity is & should not be planning on getting married to that person to begin with. Looks like you are just out to use a person to fulfill your selfish lustful fantasies & not interested in love
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs
Okay, not only is most of your comment completely unrelated to what I said, and you are spamming this video with your incessant comments, but you are also trying to insult me through things I didn't say. It's possible to be in love with someone outside of marriage too - sometimes people are not allowed to get married. Your argument is religious-based, and not everyone follows your religion.
Before you start being judgemental, learn a little more about other people.
triplequeen 1 year ago
@triplequeen You are ignorant of what marriage is.
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs
No, YOU are. You seem to think marriage is a Christian concept, when it's not at all. A concept stemming from religion, arguably, but it has very little to do with you and your beliefs. If you were right, then sex before marriage would be illegal and no one would have pre-maritial sex. It's not: therefore you are wrong.
triplequeen 1 year ago
@triplequeen You are clueless to what chastity is & marriage If you want to be ignorant I aint twisting your arm or forcing anything on you that is your false prideful assumption If you think lust is the right way to go A person will be much happier loving & being loved than using & being used If you want to end up miserable close minded & ignorant of chastity & marriage keep listening to quacks like Laci Green & the like If you want to open your mind & truly understand love Chastity DOT com
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs
What makes you think that your opinion is any better than mine or Laci's?
It's possible to love outside of marriage. If you're not in love, then there's no point in getting married. I know exactly what chastity and marriage are: it doesn't change my views. You can have an amazing relationship without being married, the same way you can without sex. And by the way, I've visited that website and it's nothing special. Stop trying to plug it: it makes you look pathetic.
triplequeen 1 year ago
@triplequeen You are filled with pride & only think you know what chastity is. If you do not want to understand chastity do not go to chastity DOT com or to any of the links they have to other sites & video go right on ahead & be totally close minded following only what the world says. Laci is not radical she is just a follower like the rest Now chastity is radical I chose Chastity DOT com because theology of the body would be way way over your head or stuff on Christopher West DOT com website
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs
You can't tell me that I don't know what chastity is: you don't even know me. I've been to that website in the past, when I researched chastity: I came to my own conclusion, and you have no right to judge my views. Your views are no better than mine, so you can get off your pedestal now. Chastity is not 'radical' - it's an old trick used to confine and control people. People like you are all the same: close-minded, judgemental, and most of all, stupid.
triplequeen 1 year ago
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@triplequeen Every statement you make seems to show your ignorance of chastity & marriage Licentious sex is an old old truck & conformity to the culture chastity is totally radical Im not judging you im challenging your conformist thinking & you are just getting all bent out of place cause chastity is too radical for your conformist thinking People like you are all the same closeminded judge mental and ignorant by choice Licentiousness is used to confine and control people chastity sets you free
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
I had my first time when I was 14, and I must say it brought me and the guy closer. We are now engaged=]
ForeverSunny3 1 year ago
I was given this topic for a communication class back in college. The professor was a retired minister. I equated premarital sex as such; when most people buy a car they want to test drive to make sure they like the car. On the average people will keep their cara for 4 years before trading it in.The same applied to sex before marriage, although marriage lasts longer before the need to trade in.
DamnAllSoulsDeparted 1 year ago
How cud u w8 til' ur married? That cud be years after sex is actually legal 4u!!!
TheEwanquadreble9 1 year ago
Sex after marriage is like life after death.
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keedesamees 1 year ago
When a husband and wife make love, they're expressing their wedding vows with their bodies: "I give myself totally to you." When a couple sleeps together before marriage, they're expressing a lie with their bodies because they do not totally belong to each other, even if marriage is right around the corner.
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs ooorrrrrr to some people sex is just sex
LMW87MMA 1 year ago 28
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs Marriage might not be more than a word. To some it means absolutely nothing more than the legal papers. It doesn't need to change the relationship in any way. getting married to someone without having sex first to me seems like a huge gamble, because I do enjoy sex and want that aspect to work as well.
The only reason to make me get married is my fiance who wants it, and with more happiness comes more sex. Win-win, everyone happy and sexing away.
Daealis 1 year ago
@Daealis I think this is the problem people who know nothing about marriage & chastity & what they are giving advice to others about marriage & chastity To some it means absolutely nothing more than the legal papers or a word because they know nothing about it Lust is a internal weakness chastity is a internal strength chastity means your strong & can say no lust means your enslaved to it & can not say no & it controls you Men who lust are a dime a dozen nothing to offer just use women
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs Marriage is whatever you feel it is. To me it's just a cultural habit, I'd be just fine without the whole church part. To others it is the holy fucking grail of commitment, the end of freedom. I don't need arbitruary constraints on my sex life. I see sex as what it is, just another urge in humans. If you wish to live without endulging in the pleasures of it then fine, whatever rocks your boat.
But don't pretend to have the all around answer for the rest of humanity.
Daealis 1 year ago
@Daealis Freedom is not doing whatever you want to do that is called licentiousness If people felt street lines lights signs guardrails & laws were arbitrary constraints & thought that doing whatever they wanted would make them more free they would never be able to make it across a city. Street lines lights signs guardrails & laws free us to make it across a city Lust does not free you lust enslaves you Chastity frees you
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@Daealis You are the one who is enslaved to lust & that is not freedom it is enslavement you can not say no. Understanding chastity & marriage & doing it frees a person If you wish to live without being able to control lustful urges but have them enslave you Do not falsely assume nobody has answers just because you are ignorant of answers
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@Daealis To say marriage is whatever you feel it is is called subjectivism People often use subjectivism when they are ignorant of what they are talking about & falsely assume everybody else is just as ignorant as they are Do not falsely assume nobody has answers just because you are ignorant of answers I have read listened & watched a lot more than you at chastity . com
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs Yeah, you have read a lot of the other side, how much do you know about the side that doesn't want to wait? Just the health benefits of masturbation alone, let alone sex, are a good enough justification for it to me. Why not follow the suggestion of Laci that nobody should tell you how or when to express your sexuality, but rather decide for yourself? All the information is out there, but don't settle for one site if you want to read. Read the facts, not an opinionated site.
Daealis 1 year ago
@Daealis I know enough to know lust is a weakness & rather than admit to yourself you have a weakness your trying to rationalize & justify your weakness If you can not say no to masturbation & licentious sex it means you are enslaved The world is backwards sin is enslavement & weakness while virtue is freedom & strength
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs How many people do you see masturbating in public on a daily basis? The reality is that in teens, majority masturbates on a somewhat regular basis. But they don't do it all the time, despite the stress-relief and the good feeling that it results in(if you are not indoctrinated with the notion that wanking is somehow bad). Why do they restrain in such manner? Because they have a brain.
You are saying that freedom is denying yourself sex. And I have the world backwards...
Daealis 1 year ago
@Daealis Again your trying to rationalize & justify your weakness Freedom is not to do whatever you want that is called licentiousness Your saying freedom is being enslaving yourself to sex. If everybody felt traffic laws were arbitrary constraints & thought that doing whatever they wanted would make them more free nobody would never be able to make it across a city. In a community traffic laws free us to make it across a city. Marriage sets us free to love lust enslaves us to using others.
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs In a community the traffic laws constrict our freedoms to drive insanely if we so please, to enable safe traffic for everyone. These laws regulate freedoms to ensure an enviroment where no one is discriminated or brought to harm by others(at least without consequences).
"Marriage sets us free to love". I'm free to love outside marriage. Lust between two consenting individuals entangles them in a sweaty night of fornication. When done properly, it's safe and fun.
Daealis 1 year ago
@Daealis If you have sex outside marriage it is not love but using which is the opposite of love which means you are not free to love outside marriage but are using others outside marriage. Licentiousness is not freedom doing whatever you want is not freedom just like driving totally ignoring traffic laws is not freedom but self destructive. I read the Q & A at chastity DOT com to answer your questions.
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs If there is no love outside marriage, how the hell do marriages happen? By cold logic and reason, as a mutually set agreement to pool wealth together or something? Emotions have nothing to do with it?
Using is the opposite of love... I don't know what you have been smoking, but your arguments are getting more ridiculous by the second. I didn't read my answers from a Q&A, I actually can think for myself. And any Q&A that hints to what you're saying isn't propably that good.
Daealis 1 year ago
@Daealis Using is the opposite of loving thats a fact Love is self giving the opposite is using Love is not a emotion Think of a child A child is the love between a husband & wife. You give your flesh & blood, time, intellect, emotions, the works of your hands, everything you are The child is the common union between the husband & wife. Common union is where we get the word community & where communities come from You shouldn't call chosing to remain ignorant about chastity thinking for yourself
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs Love is not an emotion? Yeah, I'm done with you.
Daealis 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs Go die. Go fucking die. You're a waste of space, you waste resources that others could use, you provide no value, therefore you'd be more use dead than alive.
silencesoloud12 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs without lust you would not need to chastise, because you have no want to have sex. Just saying.
CSIArab 1 year ago
@CSIArab Chastity & abstinence are two different things If you do not understand what chastity is you do not understand what marriage is God created sexual pleasure Satan is a creature & can not create so he can only twist what God created. Sex within chastity takes love to a whole other level while lust is a poor sad counterfeit through Satan & the fallen nature of man that unfortunately so many people get lied into thinking is better Sin is self destruction lust make a person less of a person
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago
@mazdaspeedmx512lbs Ok, I see were you are coming from. But trying to force feed you religion, or jut beliefs in general, down someones throat is not the way to deal with something. I feel that if someone is confronting you about your opinions (and that is what religion is) you need to just keep it to yourself. If man was ment to worship God, they will do it on there own. As the Bible says, all will bow to the word of God on Judgement day. It'll happen all in good time, Don't force it.
CSIArab 1 year ago
@CSIArab You are the one force feeding your immoral religious beliefs down someone's throat. People like you are such hippocrates when it is YOU who is telling me to keep it to myself being a forceful bully. It is not my opinion truth is just truth.
mazdaspeedmx512lbs 1 year ago