Baby, Can You Hear Me?

[studiocaribetv]

Please check out trailer for our IVF film coming out early 2011 search “The Island of Hope” Trailer

[Addiebear06]

I feel as if I could have made this video myself. My husband and I lost our baby at 6 1/2 weeks on June 17, 2009. We have tried the fertility pills which were not succesful for us. We are contuning the old fashioned way due to insurance reasons and I and pray that one day we will be able to greet our miracle. He or she has a big sister wanting to know why God took the baby away. Our baby would be turning 1 in about a month 1/2 and I dream of all the things we would have done as a family of 4.

[ilgin69]

Thanks for the great video, made me cry a lot, but I felt I was not alone. Good luck to all of us...

[alexaffliction93]

So touching..

I wish all whom ttc the best of wishes<3

[SannaGNR]

6+ years going.. last possible month now, then it's over... Dying inside

[TheRosalol]

where sing this beautiful song ??

[ThePrincesselysha]

I just miscarried after ivf, one day my dream will come true xx

[may12flower]

think at it this way. god gives people who dont want kids , babies so maybe they will change there life around then the people who want kids it will come later because god already knows we are saved . u already have a baby

[may12flower]

think at it this way. god gives people who dont want kids , babies so maybe they will change there life around then the people who want kids it will come later because god already knows we are saved .

[Lientje74]

In mijn dromen zie ik jou, mijn klein wonder waar ik zo lang op wacht. Voetjes en handjes, heel erg klein, zul je ooit dichtbij ons zijn? In mijn dromen zie ik jou, wat ben je mooi en lief. Ik hou je vast en geniet intens. jij bent mijn grootste wens. In mijn dromen zie ik jou, ooit zie ik je echt. Het is de droom waar ik voor ga, de droom waar ik voor vecht.

[michellewayne24]

Your video was absolutely beautiful.. I had tears streaming down my face the whole 6 minutes.... I really do feel for you and i hope that your baby comes to you soon... All the very best wishes, stay strong...

[jbajic44]

@michellewayne24 thank you for your kind post, we were blessed with our miracle baby last year while we were in the midst of adoption proceedings, life has a funny way of working out when you least expect it.

[DaisyButterfly0728]

I just found out I lost my baby today. I went for a 3 year fertility nightmare before I got my son Seeley. Now we have lost a child and my endometriosis is going to make it harder than ever to try again. Just because you want to do the natural method doesn't mea you can't let other women have their own opinion and options. We are here to support one another not hurt eachother. Why don't you look into therapy for your issues instead of being a downer to others. Baby Dust!

[MsHello2468]

...furthermore Natural methods have a better success rate without all the side effects. It is amazing the things our natural fertility doc knows that our specialist state doctor did not know at all. He was quite impressed with what we showed him. All he could suggest was IVF and we want to be happy and conscience-clear when we have our little one.

[jbajic44]

I appreciate your viewpoint, however just because you do not agree with fertility treatments for your journey does not mean it is not a good option for other couples. We need to be respectful of every woman's right to choose their path to a family.

[MsHello2468]

People . Please do not submit to IVF. They select and destroy your children or store them or use them for experimentation. IVF breaks relationships too because it seperates mum and dad's love from the whole process. We do not have a right to children. They are truly a gift. We can give love by adopting and many other ways.

[starrynightz]

After 10 years of secondary infertility, I now have a baby girl who is two weeks old. No invitro, or fertility drugs. I am 44 years old. Miracles are possible.

[x3GCZx3]

whats the name of this songs??

they're beautiful!

[eddiecat28]

It's unbelievable how much I can relate to this. I wish I didn't but I hope all of your dreams of having a child come true.

[RealmOfDestiny]

Beautiful...my baby daughter was born sleeping peacefully 28th Feb 09, she was so, so beautiful, sometimes amid the pain, loss and grief we forget the beauty...

[Jo5960]

I have kept an eye on this video and it's comments for about 6 months. Great video! So touching, a real insight for those of us on the outside. My heartfelt congratulations on your miracle baby. I have told my sister who's going through IVF about this video and your wonderful news. Congratulations again...so happy for you!

[jbajic44]

Thank you! I am beyond blessed with this beautiful child. My mom was diagnosed with advanced uterine cancer when I was pregnant with him and this baby on the way provided a source of hope for her and strength to endure the treatment. All of this made me believe that the timing of this baby was part of a greater plan, I just never knew it during the years we were trying so desperately.

[jbajic44]

I wanted to update this video to say that my husband and I have been blessed with our miracle baby since I made this video and he was worth every tear I cried, every lost night of sleep, every test and procedure I endured. Never give up hope, ladies, what a difference a year makes.

[lilmissfaboulous343]

pray pray I was almost a miscarriag my mom still calls me miracle baby . I WILL PRAY AND GIVE TO ALL WHO WANT TO BE A MOM!!!

[kissypenguin22]

Thank you for this beautiful video. My husband and I have been trying for 7 years. We did one cycle of clomid with IUI, but just can not afford the Ivf treatment. On the positive side I am only 27, which I try to remember at times, but in reality it doesn't make it any easier.....Good luck to all the women who desperatly want to be a mother.

[cijijoseph]

Good luck dear!

[liverjen]

I have no words.

[mamallamaoscar]

Thank you.

[starrynightz]

When I finally did get pregnant, I had a miscarriage last year. For that brief time I was going to have another baby. I think I will have to face I'll never have another child, but I will never get over it, just learn to live with it. Thanks for this video. We are not alone. I don't understand why God allows so many infants born to people who will kill them, but keeps denying us.

[cijijoseph]

I totally agree with you...

[Nikus98]

We have been going through infertility for 15 months now! This hits the nail on the head and I have forwarded it to all my friends and family who don't quite know how it feels and it is hard to explain! But done so beautifully here!

[l87garcia]

Oh god is so hard to stay positive. when your hurting so much inside, pray for me. i will do my last clomid cause this is way to much for me.

[PartyArtByRobin]

I'm praying for you right now! I'm there too... just found out that I'm infertile, and crying a lot. Remember what God says in the book of Jeremiah "I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you hope and a future".

[l87garcia]

I'm going on 3 years trying. I have pcos, and now depression. I'm on my last try with clomid, i don't want to do something that will hurt my family because of my depression. WISH ME LUCK PRAY FOR ME AND MY HUSBAND TO GET OUR MIRACLE.

[l87garcia]

I know how it feels i been trying for 3 years. I have pcos, and now depression. I'm on my last try with clomid, i don't want to do something that will hurt my family because of my depression. WISH ME LUCK PRAY FOR ME AND MY HUSBAND TO GET OUR MIRACLE.

[l87garcia]

I love this video. Me and my husband have been trying for 3 years i have pcos, im on my last treatment. i don't want to try anymore cause i feel with my depression i will end up doing something that will hurt my family. WISH ME LUCK AND PLEASE PRAY FOR ME.

[bradenton25]

and i dont have the 10,000 to pay for the meds or the treatment or doc fees so what do i do? i pray and ask god what to do am i dieing for something thats never gonna happen!well thank you so much for makeing me feal as if im not alone i hope your deams come true and i will keep everyone in my thoughts as i go threw life

[bradenton25]

as i sit here and cry everything you said was exactly what im fealing i have little girls who are beging for a brouther and were trying im putting my life on thr line for our baby i have cirvical cance found out nov of 06 they told me i had to have a histrectomy asap i refused im not compleat but we just cant seem to do it im so sick of charts and money wasted on ov test watching for cm and being heartbroked its neg i dont understan y all these wemon who have abortions r given babys but were not

[21Kisses4Me]

Thank you so much for this video. My boyfriend and I have been trying to conceive since Jan. 08. By me having PCOS, I rarely ovulate so no baby so far. I don't know how long it will take, but I'm never giving up. I pray for you to soon get your bundle of joy. It's a long hard road I wish no one to travel.

[Jo5960]

May God bless you with a child in your arms....praying for you

[zone5513]

We have been trying for our first child for 7 years. We have been trying to adopt for the last 3 years. When you are talking about infertility there is such a whole in your heart. You have explained that so well. Don't let anyone tell you just go an adopt. That path is rough too. Thanks

[frogiella]

We're going thru, have been, 2ndIf as well... one day... I hoep both our dreams come true.

[angelmaguire]

i know ur pain im 9yrs trying now i have secondary infertility and it hurts just as much as wanting one so many peopkle tell me dont think about it and it will happen........ i cant. lovely video thankyou x

[Nikki22QT]

thank you that was beautiful I am currently going through fertility treatments. first it was Clomid now it Femara next will be IUI for me

[snugglepuppy9]

You did a beautiful job on this. So sorry for your pain and I hope your dream comes true.

[Hanna611]

Ummmmm. How about adopting a needy child? The Ultimate Going GREEN.

[emmmi9]

How about you wont talk about something you are clueless about?

[pimpettelala]

people really dont understand when they make comments like that... it really would've been better had they said nothing at all.

[Nikus98]

Maybe you try and get pregnant and can't and then tell us how you feel! It isn't easy to adopt either! Don't stick your ignorant nose where it doesn't belong! And if you meant this to be funny, you sure picked the WRONG forum!

[dulcylee]

I have done 2 IVF cycle with donor eggs ~ both resulted in pregnancy but both ended in first trimester miscarriages. My due date for my first pregnancy would have been on Tuesday...I am dreading it. Thank you for sharing with the world the pain that goes with IF...more people need to understand the heartaches that is felt. Our dreams will come true!!! I am sure of it...I hope none of us give up until it does!!!

[boo8ball]

I too am experiencing 2ndary infertility. We have been trying to give our son a sibling for 11 years. Our son will be 15 in May.. he still asks if he is gonna be a big brother. It hurts.. it really does. I have PCOS and 1 tube blocked. People all around me say: "Well at least you have one." You should count your blessings.. there are some women that can't have even one baby.. i know that but it still hurts so much. We are still trying and we will continue until well until never!I know your pain.

[rascaloo]

Hi great video..very poetic and touching. I've started my journey also and i'm very sad and depressed with every BFN.

[abbyannj]

Wow, I can hardly breathe...it was so exact and perfect. I'd love to say thanks for making it but I hate that it had to be made. Not many understand what it's like dealing with IF but to deal with SIF is a whole different pain. No one should ever have to feel the loss of a dream. No one. God bless you, God heal you and God fill your arms with a child to love.

[prkygth]

I am glad to know that I am not the only that talks to my future baby. I have been through numerous tests- all have come back normal- the only problem is that I have endometriosis and have had 3 unexplained m/c since 2005. It is frustrating to go through the Clomid and the blood work and month after month of hope and still get that BFN. To have that empty room sitting there just waiting- I wish you the best in your journey- much love to you and your family!

[jbajic44]

Thanks everyone for your nice comments, it means so much to me that women around the world are seeing this and maybe showing it to someone close to them who doesn't quite understand what its like to go through secondary infertility... it's so hard... so so hard. And to all of you trying for a child, i wish you baby dreams and boring pregnancies...

[ilianahopkins]

It is very sad, all these treatments spend pot and wait, I still looking for day to day life and I also wonder the same thing, I understand what you feel, as I have all tratamientos.ya not take that, I do everything, not to give you defeated, where God has to say.

Excuse me if my typing wrong, my first language is Spanish

[ilianahopkins]

It is very sad, all these treatments spend pot and wait, I still looking for day to day life and I also wonder the same thing, I understand what you feel, as I have all tratamientos.ya not take that, I do everything, not to give you defeated, where God has to say.

Excuse me if my typing wrong, my first language is Spanish

[ilianahopkins]

It is very sad, all these treatments spend pot and wait, I still looking for day to day life and I also wonder the same thing, I understand what you feel, as I have all tratamientos.ya not take that, I do everything, not to give you defeated, where God has to say.

Excuse me if my typing wrong, my first language is Spanish

[hoping4baby2]

Such a wonderful video! People dont understnad how hard it is untill they go through it! You never dream of this could happen to you! Why me? GOD BLESS EVERYONE WHO IS HAVING PROBLEMS TRYING TO CONCIVE! OUR TIME WILL COME! WITH ALITTLE LOVE & PATIENCE, ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE!!!

[mdesi523]

Wonderful video. A lot of people don't realize that Secondary Infertility is painful too.

[aquariusgal69]

That was very nice...good job with the video. Been there, done that...and it's a hard road to be on.