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  • Thanks I have something after high school to look forward too

  • THE term IT GETS BETTER does not mean the people around you become more accepting or that the world changes towards you with time after you come out, the term IT GETS BETTER means after you accept yourself you start to emotionally grow and mature to this new side of yourself that you have found. you began to love yourself more than you have or would have while in the closet, and you began to become complete as your own individual. IT GETS BETTER is for YOU not THEM

  • you just have to remember that life is a struggle "for everyone". but most make it better for themselves by downgrading good hearted people. if you want to make it better, then you surround yourself with friends like yourself that will support you and protect you, and you can do the same for them. its hard to make it on your own, but it can get better with someone to love.

  • I know it gets better if you surround urself with people that love and care about u a not think about those asswholes that try to put u down cuz they have nothing good going on with them selfs... btw luv ur accent it's so hot

  • i love you <3

  • Your so cute!

  • Love the talk. It's great to see people getting on YouTube and actually talking about something important and something that matters. I love the way you said all of it and in the perspective you put it in. Hope you do a lot more like it:). P.s. your really cute and I love your accent

  • <3 !

  • All those influential figures who go on camera to preach 'it will get better' aren't saying that life will spontaneously improve because high school has ended. They're saying that once the barriers put in place by high school and other institutions in life have been removed, that's the time to start making the changes in ones life that we weren't able to make before.

    Its a time to begin finding oneself, to choose where we want to go and who we want to interact with on the way.

  • Its good to see someone being the devils advocate to the 'It Get's Better' campaign who is not just a homophobic bible basher. While I agree to an extent with what you're saying, that life is only what you make it, I think that's essentially what the 'It Get's Better' campaign is trying to get across as well.

  • Lol... Agreed however it does get better :| You learn to ignore those assholes.. However it does get better...

  • i agree with you. it's not really about life getting better. it's about learning to look past the people who hate you or don't accept you. people are people, and make mistakes. you just have to pray that they'll all see how terrible they were in the future, and have a chance to change.(:

  • It never gets better....you just get used to shittt

  • I agree with you 100%! I love the accent, and this helps a lot!:D Thanks!

  • I agree. Life gets shittier and shittier when I feel I am getting better. I really am not. I found a girl I really and truely like. And my parents never see eye to eye with me. My life is a living hell. It has been the last 9 months because of everything. Then I can't be happy when I am. Gotta love the higher power. Its all bullshit.

  • i fucking love how forward you are..... you kick ass(: thanks for making this video and for being honest about shit its about time for someone to be this honest! i fucking love your style your amazing and pretty fucking hot <3

  • Doo Youh Have A Facebook O.o

  • YOU'RE SO HOT

  • THIS GUY IS SO HOT. & also I have been out of high school for a year and a half and this is exactly how I feel! If anything it's almost worse lol. Well, nothing can really be worse than high school, but I think it just gets easier when you're older and not so worried about being accepted.The things people would say hurt me a lot more when I was younger than now. And also having a car and a license is helpful too! lol. Oh and love that accent ;)

  • My experience is that IT DOES GET BETTER:I was gay for 20 years. That was the lowest time for me. From there is could only go better, because living as gay ruined my whole being. Then I completely trusted Jesus of the Bible who knows why homosexuality is wrong for one's life. He knows the best and I accepted His best. He healed me of my sin of homosexuality and gave me my life back. With that, I got the whole promise of the Bible as well: blessing after blessing. My story: ilivestraight site.

  • @sinisbal If you really believe that

  • @sinisbal really? Or are you just lying to urself? Because if being gay is a choice then being straight would also be a choice also is it not?

  • Wonderful Vid...extremely uplifting, and it put me back on the "up" track...Thanks dude!

  • you are super hot! come to California

  • @MsEeyore91 I second that, he should come to california! lol

  • except jesus into your heart. life is sooo much better!

  • love the accent and the hair. jealous xD

  • As soon as he said "it does not get better" I laughed extremely loud hahaha. It's true

  • you're really hot, my idea of a perfect guy. :P

  • I love this video I watch it when im feeling down… if you had something you were trying to accomplish in this vlog, I think you nailed it : )

  • @imwining1 I really didn't have anything I was trying to accomplish. I was just trying to get some stuff off of my chest. It has really moved me how much this video has helped people!

  • Your accent made me cum.

  • First word out of you're mouth "Hey", First thought in my mind "I love you're voice!"

  • caayooot

  • You're so.. Hot..

  • omg marry me now lol :') xx

  • Yeah nah i agree i doesnt get better, you just learn to cope

  • im australian too... fight them.. punch on!

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  • ;(

  • finally someone who doesn't bullshit themselves or others!well said

  • You are correct about things getting easier. Also, some of the jerks we went to school with simply grew up, and it is no longer hip to act like a twat in public. I am a lot older than you are, and I have learned to live each day as it comes, to the fullest extent possible. It doesn't matter if you are gay or straight. As Rosaline Russell said in "Auntie Mame" in the 1950's: "Live, live, live. Life is a banquet and most poor suckers are starving to death!" I enjoy your videos, Mate! Cheers!

  • I want too marry you..

  • Dude it gets better because you grow stronger. Bitter not really only if you let them get to you. The first thing you need to do is find peace with yourself man. After you do that, everything else is cake. For the idiots that talk shit.if it's one on one, beat the living shit out of his straight face, I doubt he'll talk about that afterwards. For other moments, play with it.It gets better though,because when you're life is good, you wont need to give a shit about the pee ons running like roaches

  • omg his accent is to die for, what is his nationality?

    I don't think it gets better

  • @betrbleave Australian.

  • @betrbleave he's Australian!

  • I guess for those living a charmed life it gets better....but when i think about it for those guys lifealways was a paverbial bowl of cheerys(gay cherries)tehe.Like the kid that comes out and everyone in school personally give him their support.My point is if people dont like you ,then being gay(for some) is just another reason to talk shit.But who cares about those people,they are not worth knowing.Truth is life gets better for some,not for others,depending on our life decisions and LUCK.

  • This isn't a question of if gay life gets better. Life has struggle for anyone. We learn to deal with our struggles.

  • You seem like a really nice guy. they're obviously jealous of you and they're very insecure. probably why they're acting like that..theres no need for it tho..the more you ignore it and get use to it the better it gets..your the better person at the end of the day :)

  • Your some cute.

  • hah UR SUPPERRR KUTTE!! lol ^__^ i luv ur plugs

  • hey, your cute! but anyway, maybe it does get better!

  • OMG YOURE HOT

  • it will get betta dependin on how u deal wit the shitt

  • thanks for this vid. :D

  • I was once told by an older lady that you're as happy as you'll ever be. That in her worst parts in her life she was just about as happy as she was presently. I thought about what she said and all the shitty things in my life and she was right. I was just about as happy then, as I am now. Sure, in the future, I'll have more of a say and things will seem "better", but shitty things will still happen to me. Life is what you make it. You have to be happy for yourself.

  • soo cute :)

  • lol i agree 100 % but i gotta admit most of the time i was listening to your sexy accent and your piercings ;) and dont forget it gets better :D

  • You are exactly right, its gets easier to deal with rejection and ridicule. That campain "It gets better." is a bunch of bullshit,created by fianacally stable gay people who own their own homes and businesses and dont have to deal with taking buses,working a minimum wage job. Let face it,when you have money its easier to find people that will kiss your ass no matter how you act. When your poor its the opposite,people fell you have nothing to offer. That Campain was a shallow attempt to placate

  • Great video :D

  • Remember there's always two paths in life... we can choose to look at things in a negative way or we can look at them in a positive way. You have to learn to look passed the illusions and recognize that we're all fighting a similar struggle against ourselves. As long as you have friends and family who love you and maybe a special someone, you can make your life what you want. Whether it is better or not, not just easier. (Life usually doesn't just get easier either, lol.) Lots of Love! <3 <3 <3

  • Believe me young fellow ,i am 36 and it does get better , even though its not a perfect world

  • if life hasn't gotten better then the worst part isn't over yet

  • your handsome btw love the vid

  • I couldn't agree w/ you more....Even though I'm a bit late seeing it..Still agree, wholeheartedly..

  • nice video :) actually made me feel a bit inspired. not to mention your pretty hot :)

  • Watcha talkin'bout? It DOES get better.... u get wrinkles, u get old, u get sick, and then u die! Yay! Youth is soooooo over-rated! :-)

  • I have to agree....Your fit (; <3 I hope that made you feel better?

  • You are gorgeous and your voice is sexy i love your accent i enjoyed watching you :) x

  • @FILTHYFAGZ

    He must really fuckin hate you then.

  • You are so amazing. And hot. Oh my god are you hot

  • I LOVE this video. You are completely correct. It DOE SNOT get better. You just grow up, and learn to tolerate things in a way that you see fit. People are ALWAYS going to bully you. People are ALWAYS going to judge you. What you have to do is learn how to say fuck it, and move on. Thanks again for this video, and keep up the good work!!!!

  • @aprillovesgays not that i expect you to use the few brain cells you have..but..this guy is not gay..apart from that..what makes you think your opinion matters ???

  • First off, I like your voice and your piercings. Second, my brother gets the same shit from bulies at school. He gets called gay and a fag, when he is completely straight. And you are right, life only gets easier if you make it easier. But it doesn't get better on it's own

  • the only person you have to empower is yourself...each time you let some sad little fool get to you..you are actually giving them the power to do it..who gives a fuck what people think..as my father used to say...you would not worry so much what people thought about you if you knew how seldom they did

  • You guys he's not gay!!!

  • He's right though.

  • My brother is gay, all through highschool he was bullied.

    He made good grades, was in every sport, and a all around good kid.

    I agree with this video, it doesn't get better.

    It gets easier.

    He still gets called a fag, homo, duck lover, queer, and other names.

    My brother is now 22, I can tell he has learned to not pay attention to what other people say because he chose the life he lives, and nobody can change that.

    It gets easier guys, not better.

  • Two things. Firstly, are you Australian? I'm terrible with accents and I really can't tell them apart but I'm just curious. Secondly, life is what you make it. So if people want to be negative assholes that wallow in self-pity and cynicism, fuck them (figuratively, not literally of course) because generally if you try to help them, they'll just drag you into the same mindset. Some people are just unsaveable, if that is a word which, judging by the red squiggly line, I'm assuming it's not. /rant.

  • who would pick on a beautiful kid like you inside and out

  • Accepting the things you can't change and moving along is a great way to be less cynical. Oh and I also find that smiling for stuff that is genuinely funny will make you so much more sane, so never fake a smile--you don't owe anyone a smile! Yeah... I know your straight, but as a gay person the whole "It gets better" shit is so fucking fake to me because it only gets better for beautiful people who like to make "it gets better" videos.

  • it does get better, the only reason you dont feel that way is because you still let the name calling get to you just ignore them, let people say whatever they want to say as long as they dont put there hands on you

  • it does get better. that is because not only you grow up but the dickheads grow up too. and speacking from experiance after grade 12 it will because no one around you will let that happen if you have a good group of friends.

    Well... i guess it is different in each country but i am talking from Australia. but it will get better

  • how many followers have you got?

  • @BALLINIZZLE Under 1,000

  • @FabricateEradicate so are you gay or not..... whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

  • Wow, you are so real and tell it like it is :)

  • That's true

  • @123321joejoejoe I am straight you ignorant twat.

  • @FabricateEradicate Then things actually do get better for you too man. It just did not look like it when I took a quick peak at your face. Sorry straight guy.

  • You are so right! Finally! Some motherfucker actually gets it right! I am so happy there is someone online who is real, honest, and has a visceral grip on reality.

  • Please, rape me.

  • Okay let me try and sort this out for you.

    It gets better

    In a way, it does.

    Think about it this way.

    When an earthquake breaks a building, architects find a way to build the building again but better equip to prevent so much damage from a quake again.

    Shit happens deal with it. Don't dwell in the problem, you have to find a way to prevent it from happening again.

  • beautiful :O

  • said so well..

  • I think there is a seriously wrong side of youtube that once in a while i fall into but needs to be looked at and deleted ASAFP!

  • you are a perfect human being.

  • "It get's better" is a phrase for gays. altho life does get better. are you gay? i don't really know ur videos.. but if u are... the way it get's better is when u stop hiding. people are very animalistic and they smell fear. when u stop hiding and come out.. people can't really say those things because u say them first. if u show up and be yourself and show that ur gay.. they will not have any "news flashes" for the public and nothing to make a show with because there's nothing in secret. js

  • @tictactongue I am not gay. My video is just grouped with a heap of videos on the topic of homosexuality. I am just talking about life in general and how as a child you're always told when life is shit "it will get better".

  • @tictactongue it is also for the kids who got bullied and bashed during school.

  • he could not be more honest

  • lord...

  • @theunderdoggx1 of the Rings!

    :D

  • @BlazeBorginSL ahaaaaaaaa.

  • Hmm.. After watching you're video, I don't like to sound anal but you haven't had it that bad unlike people I know that had it worst... eg: Me I grew up in a life of roughness & till is, but I must say it take more then hate & physical assaults to ruined my day. :) Can I also say I see where you coming from in this video, its not the matter of it getting better but the less of a chance of getting worst. Like I say (The World isn't worth giving HATE as its worth Understanding..)

  • poor baby i want to hug u and tell u its ok be urself dont let people get to ya u have an adorable accent and ur incredable sexy and everyone else it jelous lol i wish u all the happyness in the world and u will find someone special that will love u for u

  • You're hot!

  • grow the fuck up

  • @scorpidable Ironic.

  • ask EricJames Borges if it gets bettter, oh wait - you cant- he committed suicide and is now residing in HELL

  • @timeisupUS Dude you are the reason I hate to be called Christian. FUCK YOU, hypocritical sheep.

  • @Mcdovin1 phoney hypocritical ''christians'' stand by and say and do nothing while the fags take over the nation. this nation is going to hell because of stupid cowards like you who go along with the crowd instead of standing up for the Gods truth. so no '''fuck you ''

  • @timeisupUS If you think that god hates Anyone who like someone, including gays/bis, than you're real fucked up

  • @timeisupUS You haven't lived in my shoes. You don't know what I've lived through and how much I actually appreciate Jesus helping me. I go against the crowd and mainstream by standing up for what I believe. But it doesn't mean I don't believe in equality. Just because someone is LGBT doesn't mean they aren't loved. By the way this video is FOR YOU!

  • @timeisupUS So take your head out of your ass, stop being so much of right wing fundamentalist and realize we're only human. If Jesus was there in the back of your church you probably wouldn't know it. There's a difference between religion and relationship. So stop trolling and grow up. If you aren't then I feel really sorry for you dude.

  • @Mcdovin1 shut up and crack a Bible - maybe then you can ask an informed intelligent substantive question. other wise your a waste of space. God hates fags.

  • @timeisupUS John 3:16 re-read that. A few of my close friends are homosexual; I'm straight. But that doesn't mean I'm supposed to hate them for what they do. God love's the sinner but hates the sin. He accepts us all, EQUALLY. Who are you to judge others? Are you GOD? No, you aren't. So grow up, open your eyes and repent for judging. "Whosoever believes in Him shall not parish, but have everlasting life".

  • @Mcdovin1 RIGHT jackass -and read the next few verses too. and shut the hell up GOD HATES FAGS period

  • @timeisupUS Make up a proper response with deep thought and meaning, instead of a shallow pursuit of failure and unrealistic ideologies, then speak to me; rather then blabber on about your idea of the Bible.

  • @Mcdovin1 Ok - here is a profound theological statment for you to ponder GOD HATES FAGS.

  • @Mcdovin1 i am just wondering, i know God loves all his children and anyone can be saved, but youre supposed to repent your sins and ask for forgiveness. now I know that that doesnt mean you will never sin again thats impossible, but do you at least recognize that living a gay lifestyle is sinful? do you not see it as a sin? also i dont want to seem gay-bashing because it is just a sin like any other, but the difference i see is that i dont defend my sins when i commit them

  • what is suppose to get better, life is tough and an up hill climb, I guess if you can confront your self and accept your self then yes it is better, I would tend to agree with what you are saying good for you enjoy your life and make it better, very true out put is equal to in put

  • Easier isn't better?

  • IT WILL GET BETTER A LOT OF US ARE FIGHTING FOR YOU!! ADD ME ON FACEBOOK TO SUPPORT, LBGT Shouldn't Fight For Their Rights.

  • This is very true so many people speaking about how they'll never be able to do something yet they do nothing to persue what they want!! Life is def too short. Gotta make the best out of it while we're here.

  • i feel like i say shoulda coulda woulda to myself everyday lol thanks for being blunt and those bullies were idiots and probably regret saying those things. <3

  • Great video! - You're such a cutie.

  • well i hope things have gotten better know.... but life does get better only if you think it will... think positive things will be good... stop caring what anyone thinks when you wanna be your self and diffrent from anyone else thinks then why does it matter what they think

  • @hrappstead GOD dosnt change , what he callls an abominable sin will always be an abominable sin. deal with it

  • @timeisupUS GOD doesn't exist. Sorry to break it to you.

  • @FabricateEradicate stop lying to yourslef. Hell is too hot and eternity is tooo long

  • @timeisupUS Rather spend an eternity in hell with someone like Kurt Cobain than an eternity in paradise with someone like you :)

  • @timeisupUS And life is too short, and love is so strong...

  • Super hot. I am listening to you and am like, Damn.

    

  • Might help to invest in a different HAT!!! Na, man just kidding! Smart kid....40yrs later ain't doing shit myself. Your topic~from high school to say 50-many different phases pass by and through you so try take advantage of what you can when you can. Nothing wrong with beers w/mates n playing video games but, make a life of it then your look back will drag you down right on into old age. Big timelines i know-one thing is a constant, life speeds up and yrs fly by the older you get.

  • "What the fuck are you breathing? It's people like you that make humanity shit!" Hahahaha. Oh, I loved that :D

  • :) australian accent, thats hot xP

  • I'm Jealous Of Your Snake Bites .. -.- Buuut Like You're Video =)

  • your fit

  • your fit

  • your fit

  • your fit

  • Hi. Wanna be my gay lover? You're hot as hell. Like, furreal.

  • it does get better - because as u get older and thicker skinned it doesnt matter - as long as ure ok with ureself and the people u love are - fuck the rest of um - easyer said than done - but can be done - .... and ure fit ...seriously hot ... so hold ure head high ///

  • Aww! You are very funny and you made me smile/laugh! I totally understand and agree with your whole point of view. You gave such a great insight: that life is only what you make it. I can't believe people called you so many horrible names! D: You seem so sweet! But, as you said, there will always be those people out there that you just can't stand. One of my managers is an excellent example. :p

  • you're sexy

  • I'm Australian and if you are Australian you would be able to recognize his accept ahahah

  • great video, like it gets better.... how about telling people the truth.. they like to consentrate on the future an not on the present... anyway... great job. :)

  • i gave this video a thumbs up for the "duck" in the middle of the video 2:40

  • If something gets easier doesnt that mean it gets a little better?? he talks about being able to pursue anything u want when u get older..well isnt that better?? for some people one day without someone calling them a name is better..regardless if the next day someone calls them a fag for that one day it was better and that one day could change someones life..just because some ppl like yourself want everything to be perfect isnt the same for everyone

  • DAYUMMM U R CUTE!!

  • @ghajini615 really saznin? u think everyones cute. lmfao

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  • Sounds like accurate, good advice, mate.

  • I can hear some pain in your voice... it kind of kills me. I'm going through a lot right now actually. I hope you're doing well. And I secretly wish we could be friends =\

  • You're so adorable.... :)

  • so glad yur straight yur cute as hell!!(:

  • Omg you are so fucking sexy.!fuck people that talk shit,you are the shit andd omg I would like move to where ever tf your at.!:-)

  • rahhh you are flippin gorgeous mate :)

  • I completely agree with everything you said. I think "It Gets Better" means: Life after after high school is better because you're not forced to be around those same people who judge each and every little thing about you. I think that's what its about. But I do see your point also. It really doesn't seem to get better, just different.

    Stay Stong.

  • CUTE!

  • :) your great !

  • your so cute^.^<3

  • what size are your plugs?

  • i think ur really cute lmfao :D