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  • i am very happy for you that you lost 195 pounds. imo personally, i think you are pretty. myself being thin (go to my channel i have a video of pictures of me) i dont like it when guys make fun of heavy girls. it really pisses me off. alot of douchbags can be cruel. you seem like a very sweet person, and i would date you if i knew you.

  • @XmapkeeperX Awww... Thanks, hun! You seem sweet too! Hope you have a very Merry Christmas!  :)

  • @peacefulgem you have a merry christmas too sweetheart ~ xoxo ;)

  • I'm gonna make a letter to my belly :)

  • Shut up ur FAT!!

  • @gamezpelon Aww... you can type! I'm so proud! You get a star on the board! *pats your head*

  • Congrats on getting healthier.keep up the good work

  • i think the women that tell other women theyre beautiful even if ur fat are evil bitches

    being fat is not ok if ur looking for a man and it will be bad for your health when you get older (you dont' get the habit of exercising for too long it becomes harder to do) and it becomes harder to lose fat when you get older but if u had the habit of exercising and beating urself up to a slim self you can stay slim even at older age

    men can be harsh but theyre reasonable about yoru fatness

  • @kilkolio I am not nearly as big as I was in this video now. I've lost 195 pounds since then. However, I still disagree with you wholeheartedly.

  • @CertifiedGooner729 Dude, for real. I was just a big head on shoulders. :)

  • I think its just better to simply be fat and happy. Rather then try to fit in the skinny trend that todays socity is stuck on

  • @kansasjamiemcmurray I agree wholeheartedly. If I hadn't have been so unhealthy then I would have been happy staying right where I was.

  • @peacefulgem so ur saying its better being fat then?

  • @Frankie7897 No, it's not better being fat. I am able to do so many more things now than I was able to do before and I am so much healthier. I just sometimes miss eating whatever and whenever I wanted. I wouldn't trade it though. The saying is true... nothing tastes as good as being healthy feels!

  • being fat just shows lack of discipline, just as being addicted to alcohol, sex and drugs do.

    being in shape and looking good shows initially that since you take care of yourself, you can take care of children. and studies show thats what guys look for (hence why girls wear makeup and dress up)

    survival of the fittest, dont hate on people for acting natural because you need justification for your own identity. but also dont get down on yourself because you cant pull that stereotype u see on tv

  • @jforjon You would probably be surprised how many men like big women. It's all just a matter of different tastes. Not hatin', just making observations. For instance, there's a big difference in the way people treat me now (at 150+ lbs lighter) as opposed to when I made this video and vice versa.

  • @jforjon Another troll on a rampage ... first off, its not always a lack of discipline ... It can be psychological issues, or hormonal, and beeing in shape, well who decides what the shape has to be? The media does. If it didn't, people wouldn't have such a lack of tolerance for others. Its all a matter of tolerance, if fat people domintated the way our society looked, it would be considered normal, People are easily influenced, because they fear beeing different, and alone with their opinions.

  • haha, that's cute "write your belly a letter". ;-) You're a beautiful writer! Keep up the good work, good luck with your weight loss, and God bless! :) Always remember, you're worth it!

  • @Sternschnuppen85 Thank you very much! God bless you too! <3 :)

  • @LisaFraggle SO true! Thanks, hun! Hugs back! :)

  • Way to goooooooooo so proud of you for trying to lose it. Way to goooooooooooooooo

  • @Narcissistic21 Aww Thank you much! :)

  • Here's an idea: Educate yourself about physical fitness and nutrition instead of being pen pals with your belly. Anyone can say they're going to get in shape, many people fake it at the gym. Go do it. Train hard and follow your diet and it will come. Or you can be fake like the rest of society.

  • @Cap285 Here's an idea for you: Don't be an asshole. Also, fyi, I have lost over 120 lbs since this video was made. Have a nice life.

  • @peacefulgem Shove it. I'm not one of those fat acceptance people. Quit being a disgusting pig.

  • @Cap285 LOL... You are such a big baby! lmFao!!! hahahaha

  • @peacefulgem so someone gives you advice on how to lose weight and you call them an asshole, good job

  • @PowLingChong I didn't call him an asshole because he gave me weight loss advice. I called him an asshole because that is exactly what he was being. He wasn't being helpful or friendly. He was trying to insult me.

  • @peacefulgem post a video of that fat stuf

  • Your beautiful!!!!!!!Don't let anyone bring you down what are they to you? Their no better than you,their actually worse people taking out their insecurities on you. You need to beat your depression before you lose weight :/ You can do it girlll!!!! Wish you the best<3

  • @aliGuuuu Thank you so much! I have come a long way since I made this video- I have lost 120 lbs! I'm feeling on top of the world and looking forward to the future! Take care! <3

  • @peacefulgem thats awesome!! good for you !

  • Aww. I love your videos and I hope you have good luck with your weigh loss journey!

  • @GIGGITEH Thank you much!  :)

  • @peacefulgem No Problem! It takes ALOT of courage to go on youtube and talk about this stuff! I really look up to you! Good luck with losing weight! Wishing you TONS Of Luck!!!

  • Yea i know right but people who are selfish um go for what they SEE i mean its mean but your so nice hope you do whats your goal thanks for making that video*)

  • i love you you are cute and honest i wiish i had the gots like you when i lost weight people treated me alot better now i gained back everyone I meen everyone changed

    and yes you are beautiful

  • i love you you are cute and honest i wiish i had the gots like you

  • i know how hard it is being fat..i've gone through it...bt don't worry the good thing is ...it's in ur'e hands.."U CAN CHANGE IT"..jus have a lil patientce...n trust ur'eself..trust ur'e body

  • i think your words are beautiful and so true.

  • Yes you are brave. Now, stop driving around and letting fossil fuel take you everywhere. Take up bicycling.

  • ANYONE THAT IS FAT AND MAKING VIDEOS ON YOUTUBE INSTEAD OF USING THAT TIME TO EXERCISE....SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!

  • A letter? You can write a full dictionary on your belly.

  • @liberalsaregaywhads Dear ignorantselfishjerk, your username fits you perfectly!

  • @polly10022 Thanks for the compliment, now get on a treadmill you fat lazy fuck.

  • @liberalsaregaywhads lol what? whoa thanks for YOUR compliment really. People often tell me I look anorexic XD but hey, as I said. your username fits your perfectly ;)

  • @polly10022 As i said, get on a treadmill you gay loving fatass hahahaha

  • @liberalsaregaywhads Gay lovingfat ass? XD seriously, no I laugh at YOU. Hahahaha, that's better :)

  • @polly10022 You must of found a tweenkie in your pocket to be so happy.

  • @liberalsaregaywhads Never had a tweenkie in my life LOL. Pwned!!! XD

  • @polly10022 Anyone that says Pwned or lol every message is a double douche bag, probably like 18 years old and a serious bedwetter. No one cares about your fat pathetic life. So go pump your dad some more miss piggy. Your just mad cuz your mom couldnt suck enough dick to make rent this month , again.

  • @liberalsaregaywhads What? XD are you serious now or what. You think u know anything about me? okey, playtime is over. Go fuck yourself :) hope you have an awful life and die

  • @polly10022 LOL i can see that you are a miserable & angry person. Go cry your fat ass on your huge massive pillow and think about how you became such a fat lazy manish looking piece of shit while everyone else has a happy holiday. How many cup cakes will u be getting for christmas this year you blimp bitch? hahaha

  • @liberalsaregaywhads Are you having fun yet? -.-

  • @liberalsaregaywhads

    Wow, are you 12 years old?

  • @DecmanReturns Nope. but youre FAT lol

  • @liberalsaregaywhads yes, AND you're prolly dying of annorexia. sucks for you. XD

  • After you lose the weight, ditch the tie-dye. It's a very FAT look.

  • Also, your belly is a decently witty writter.

  • The guitarist in Bowling For Soup is proof that you can be awsome no matter how you are shaped. I can't say I am Bowling For Soup's biggest fan, but you just gotta respect that guy.

  • EXACTLY....the same person, fat or thin, I agree. The issue however is, that being fat is unhealthy. I am fat and know this. All of us fat people can't just all stay fat to protest the idiots who treat us like shit. There is a stigma about fat people, we will never be accepted, for WHO WE ARE, we will only be accepted if we look good. And that MEANS thin. You have to admit, being thin FEELS better than any chocolate donut taste. I know personally, weight watchers sets us up for failure.

  • I feel the same way you did. Around 2007, 2009 I was much thinner than I am now. But I gained most of it back. And I think its because I thought the same things you did. But now I want to be the size I was again but not be ultra thin. I think I was pushing myself to hard and I got overwhelmed. This video almost made me cry. Thank you for sharing this with us.

  • Booo hooo, let's get fat and talk about how that makes us feel.

  • good for you!!

    I really respect you for owning your size and deciding to change - a lot of people don't have the courage to do that.

  • Thats nice that u want to lose weight , I wish you the best of courage...You can do it , for your health !! Good luck !!!

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  • Just do it for yourself. I'm fat, and I'm working out to make things easier for me. You know...all the things they tell us, specially because of our health. I wish you the very best, you are gorgeous and I hope next time you lose it, just don't think about people... think about how good u r and how healthy you r.

  • Great video.

  • I'm 14 years old. And I was originally 70 lbs over weight. I have lost 30 lbs naturally.

    And, I just wanted to say that you are beautiful. Fuck all those people who say you are ugly.

  • courage

  • i respect you so much and your so right.......

  • Your one beautiful women.

  • I wish you my best at your program......trust me, been there done it and I guess my wake up call was when I found out I was diabetic....I came from a family of obiesity....and as far as i am concerned.......how you look is not important..........it is the true inner being that counts..............but I just found since loosing the weight from 255 down to 165 now......and still working on it, I just feel so much better....and you will too.....keep it up......trust me.....God bless you!

  • Fat people make videos about being fat..

  • ...wow. you are an amazing and very inspiring person... thank you so much for posting this

  • i think you're awesome, i'm going to journal also, i have issues about this also. god bless you peacefulgem!

  • being skinny ..every body likes you but they make u feel bad cause you want to be them but being over weight like people like me or u or lots of them just want to be skinny ... i want to be who i am too ..people who make fun of u are "haters" maybe they never had love does why they hate ... anyways HOPE U FEEL BETTER

  • well being skinny makes you more attractive and people have more respect for you because they see you take care of yourself.

    maybe thats why some people would look at you differently if you were at a healthier weight.

    But yeah fat or skinny you are worth the same.

  • @sharonloveschloe Being skinny doesn't make you attractive. There are some beautiful overweight people (Nikki Blonsky, Queen Latifah, etc).

  • good luck to you. I know you can do it :)

  • where is your neck

  • @Pickpocket lol

  • Best of luck to you; you're a pretty lady.

  • 'just accept me for me' the last refuge of the quitter. It is true its not nice to make fun of people for things they don't choose ie: skin colour, sexuality.

    But being fat is considered fair game because you DO choose to be fat. Don't believe me? Go find me a fat ethiopian.

  • @srspower Do you really believe that? Lots of people just live their lives the way they always have, and then look down one day to find that they've gained weight. Maybe they were raised without healthy habits, maybe they never had to exercise when they were young. It's a lifestyle thing--you can't always choose the way you ARE. But you can choose to change that by becoming healthier. It works with the Ethiopian stereotype too: do you really think they CHOOSE to be so thin and malnourished?

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  • you are very beautiful and sexy

  • if 100 extra pounds hold you back this much,, then your self esteem is thrash in the first place, regardless of your weight, maybe we should blame smoking next for all our problems in life

  • you are very beautiful, you blogs and msn? make more videos as

  • I think you are cute and I love apron tummys

  • I bet if you loose all that weight, you'd be one hot fox :]. Don't worry I have the same problem! They say that all fat people aren't ugly is just overweight. Inside the the cocoon is a beautiful butterfly just waiting to come out of its shell. So don't get these a-holes in your head cause you know, once you get fit there is no way they could ever be your lover. :]

  • If I was to write a letter to your belly, i'd need a HUGE STAMP.

  • I think you are beautiful

  • id hit that but i would need some climbing gear to get up there

  • Verenicrus, You represent the stereotype of idiotic Americans who are ignorant and cannot spell. Don't waste time walking, maybe you should READ. I love this video, so cute and honest. Peacefulgem you are a beautiful person, I admire that you accept yourself and want to change for really great reasons, like being healthier. You can accomplish it, and your strength and belief in yourself is inspiring! :)

  • want a donut

  • YOU GO GURL! Lol best of wishes to you, I'm also trying to lose weight, but I know I can do it because I've got God on my side, and I know he's on your side aswell. God bless you!

  • I wish you all the best with your journey. At least you know that you have done it once, so there is no readon why you can't do it before. You look lovely as you are, but you have pretty features, so you'll be super hot when you lose it. People judge on appearances (see some of the assholes below), but I guess people have more respect for people when they see someone who has worked hard and achieved something. Don't let that get you down. Go for it, and come back and show us how you are doing.

  • Thank you very much! :)

  • @curonevans I agree with you, Just do it for yourself. I'm fat, and I'm working out to make things easier for me. You know...all the things they tell us, specially because of our health. I wish you the very best, you are gorgeous and I hope next time you lose it, just don't think about people... think about how good u r and how healthy you r.

  • to all of the people posting NEGATIVE COMMENTS,... ~~~> I am really sorry you live Pathetic Insecure lives that you need to go on youtube Searching for videos to bash people because you had a bad day (wheather you got picked on in school, someone threw a drink on you at work, or your just plain out ugly) whatever it is thats making you so insecure Posting neg comments arnt gonna solve the problem they just make you look even more pathetic then you already are, Nobodys!! get a life

    God Bless!

  • Amen to that! Thank you!!! :)

  • This video is so beatiful and smart I really know what You are talking about and its not nice but its true when somebody is losing weight other people are changing and strating be nice but when somebody is fat others treating him like worst then they. Letter to belly and letter from belly is very smart and true I belive in You :))

  • Thank you very much! Much love! :)

  • Hey, you have such a beautiful spirit! I believe along with weight loss there needs to be a mental change becuase without the latter it seems to be difficult to maintain. I am sending smiles and hugs your way.

    Be Blessed [you and your belly-that was cute]

  • Thank you much! Smiles and hugs to you too! :)

  • peaceful gem... you're right... you are beautiful

  • Thank you very much! :)

  • sorry, not really but, your fat and ugly. you will have to find a guy with really low standereds or is really really deep to date you. you should face the fact that your the average disgrace to america, a fat lazy person proving to every one that this countrys stereo types are true. you need to stop being lazy and eating all this crap and use your legs once in a while. take the first step by not using the power chairs in walmart. maybe you shouldn't drive to the house next door. WALK SOMETIME

  • I actually walk quite a bit... and I weigh about 130 lbs less than I did when I made this video... however, I'm sure you don't care and would still be just as hateful and cruel. I hope you find whatever it is that you are searching for. Take care and God bless.

  • @peacefulgem just ignore Verenicruz, laugh it off, I think we need more people like you in this world, God bless x0x0x

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  • dude thats harsh like serusly shes trying to loose it and youre being a complete asshole shes expressing herself like fuck u

    peacefulgem im very happy for you

  • well i know how you look now and you look fab!!!!! when r u going to put another video up woMAN!

  • Aww, thank you! :)

    I really should make one soon. My weight loss has been at a stand still for a while but I should make an update anyway. I will soon!

  • oh my god ur so hot. dont let anyone tell you that you arent beautiful . jk ur a fat uselss bitch

  • I'm sorry that you are unhappy and I hope that you can find happiness with yourself someday. Take care and God bless and happy New Year!

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  • ASIMP77... ur a fucking idiot.. just shut the fuck up

    ur probably a piece of shit..

  • my mum did the same thing that ur planing to do. it worked out well for her, but she is always telling us how hard it was. it is so hard to watch ur loved one puke in the sink every night. but she says it was all worth it.

    im sure you will do great and i wish you all the best. good luck!

  • I would imagine that would be hard. I am glad to hear it worked out well for her though!

    I thought I had my mind made up at that point, but I ended up changing my mind. I lost 130 lbs on WW... but since then I've gained around 30 back. It's an ongoing struggle. Thank you and have a happy New Year!

  • LOL?

    "I think my belly is kinda sexy right now."

    Hahaaa NOT! Ur a fat old lady of 60!

  • Haha yea TOTALLY! except shes only in her twenties. Quit being a prick.

  • Everyone has different ideas about what is sexy and what is not. Some like skinny girls, others like fat girls. Some like nice people, others like assholes. So, don't worry, love. Someone will like you! :)

  • Lmao at that comment!

    Dont go act like Misses Guru of the i'm so fucking genious.. Youre a 800 pounds slut! O.o

  • It would be "an 800 pound slut", not "a 800 pounds slut". That just doesn't make any sense.

    Anyway, take care and hope you have happy holidays! :)

  • lol, go peaceful gem, hope you have a great new year :-)

  • Thanks, hun! :) You too!

  • @JohnnytheAwesomeGuy, Well if you don't care as you so rudely put it, then simply don't watch, instead of insulting, like your comments previously.

  • Wow, you are so lucky to be so perfect holyrs...what is your secret? Hate therapy?

  • I aint as perfect as you could think, my secret is that i look at fat people who failed theyr lifes that makes me feel perfect :)

  • write a letter to ur belly? r u actually serious? ur belly is probably saying 'im full' lol

  • More like, "FEED ME!!!!" lol

  • u're not starving urself r u? that's not a good thing even if you wanna loose weight!

  • No, I'm not starving myself. I've been following the Weight Watchers plan, which is completely healthy... my belly only thinks I am starving it! lol

  • Do you think being in 7th grade, and being 138 pounds is fat. I'm not talking chubby, but fat. I'm also around 5 feet 3 or 4 inches(IDK=)?

  • I definitely would not consider that to be fat! Also, I truly believe that everyone should love themselves no matter what their weight, height or anything else like that because all of us are beautiful and created in God's image! Take care and happy holidays! :)

  • it's puppy fat dw, just eat healthy :) x

  • Letter to your belly?

  • Hello. I think you're a beautiful, smart, sensitive person, and that validates you if nothing else does. I am commenting on your video b/c you remind me a lot of myself. I've struggled with my weight all my life, and had the same issues as you. I have lost weight with Weight Watchers, 37 lbs with 100+ to go, and I'm a little scared that when I get my weight off, I'll be a different person, or that no one will like the new me. This fear is very real, but I know it'll be worth it in the end.

  • it'll be worth it and it wont change who likes u or who u are. wieght shouldnt change your personality. and you shouldnt care what ppl say about you.

  • You're so right, unfortunately I've had a lifetime of low self-esteem to try and reverse and it's hard. I have a sweet husband who loves everything about me, and that helps. Just having someone who is on your side makes a lot of difference. People DO judge a book by its cover, that's just the kind of world we live in. Just knowing that there are kind and supportive people out there helps too!

  • LOL

  • u are abeautiful person on the inside

  • Wow, what an insulting thing to say.

  • You have a fit mind and heart. Some people could work out 10 hours a day and not have what you have. Keep up the great work. You're brilliant and beautiful. I enjoyed your honesty and humor.

  • Thank you so very much! You brought tears to my eyes! :)

  • Omg I loved this video :)

    Congratulations :)

    Even if your fat, just judging by this video you're face is really pretty

  • Thank you much! :)

  • omg I'm so sorry wow that must suck to be fat. if i myself was a fatass I would try to lose that weight. I hope your belly listens to your orders of losing those pounds.

  • Wow, I am laughing so hard, you wouldn't believe it. On a side note, I have lost 130 lbs. I hope that is satisfactory for your highness.

  • meh. it's getting there

  • It takes a lot of courage to go on and talk about the struggle of weight in today's world. You seem to be such a down to earth, lovely woman ( : thank you for this video!

  • Thank you so much! :)

  • HI

    WHY DONT U REDUCE SOME WEIGHT? =)

    it's good for ur heart too

  • I have lost 130 pounds. Take care!

  • i didn't know that :(

    i am so proud of you!

    i just saw ur recent videos!

  • Thank you much! :)

  • To people who just keep shouting... or typieing actually.. thats it the persons fault.. Sure it can be but not always.. Alot of times people use food as comfort eating from stress or B U L L Y I N G. and hunnie, u are so right... People do change their attidude towards u if ur fat or not, its ashame really.. : /

  • you have alot of anger inside. idont blame you i know ur unhapppy with the way u look. i dont stalk your videos. i saw this one and decideed to comment. dont post videos if you cant take other people commenting them. "idiot" right back at you.

  • You called me an idiot first. I was just returning the favor. I am in no way, shape or form unhappy with the way I look. I can see beauty that you cannot see. Anyway, I want to apologize. My reaction to your words was juvenile. I'm going through some hard times right now and I lashed out at you, and for that I am sorry. Please accept my apology. Take care and God bless.

  • leave you alone? im not bothering you if your going to post a video people are going to comment. i use to be fat like you and i lost weight. either do something about it or stop complaining idiot

  • Why do you think I have a weight loss blog, IDIOT? Is losing 130 pounds not enough for you? I don't give a damn what you think or if you used to be fat. Like I said before, just leave me the hell alone. I'm so tired of people like you who have nothing better to do than spew their hatred at me and other people like me.

  • just lose weight. seriously. stop complaining about it no one can change you but u

  • Ugh, get over yourself already. Leave me alone.

  • i like the belly letter that is a good idea:)

  • Thanks! :)

  • Yes people are cruel, and we don't like fat people. You can be a wonderful person, but your fat shows you're not wonderful to yourself and obese people are seen as gross and inconvenient. It's the truth.