Theory Of A Deadman - Gentleman (Lyrics)

[amComputerSciRules]

great rockin song and everything, but the truth of the matter is that you need to be yourself to get the right people. it's not about being an a-hole or d**k. you gotta stay true to your beliefs and not sell yourself out just for the sake of agreeing. :)

[ThatGamerSaki]

Lol... Being a girl, I agree with this song.

I like being pushed around.... (;

[FieldofScreams4Life]

This song sums me up, I did everything but lettin' the door hit their face, I just told em to gtfo.

Fucking being nice; use bitches, they flock to you like leaves on your front porch!

Girls are born masochists, they like abuse and taboo subconsciously. Just never call em a slut or psycho or they will GO slut & psycho on you.

It's like...when you call a liar a liar they get all pissed :]

[GravediggerV15]

Its scary how true the lyrics are lmao.... Love the song.

[RevsStallionDuck]

This song is my cocaine.

[sswgaming]

i talk to this girl for 6 months she says shes in love with me,we date for 3 days she breaks up with me because im "too nice" ,and leaves me for a guy who only wants her for sex when we never talked about sex

[DethmetalUSA]

most theraputic song of all time

[Goirdy]

my last girlfriend said she wanted me to be more open. to be honest about my thoughts and feelings. not wanting to lose her, I do just that. because I did that, she broke up with me a few days later and called me an unbathed idiotic child. fed up with it, I sang "The Truth Is..." to her and removed her from everything I have. I don't have a single regret for the hypocritical bitch.

[FiyahKitteh]

How about: a guy (or girl) who is caring and nice as in knows manners and chivalry, but is assertive, self-confident and witty. Not just "a nice guy" but also not just "and asshole" (Or at all, really. What, only because he can dish out?). I'd take that. ;D

[Goirdy]

@FiyahKitteh that's what I was. my last girlfriend broke up with me for it. but I'm glad to hear that you're different.

[FiyahKitteh]

@Goirdy : Well no offense to my own gender (pft =P) but some chicks are just plain stupid. I would know. All my friends are guys. I hear plenty of stories and see lots of things.

Sorry to hear you got screwed over, Goirdy. Or all of you, for that matter. Rest assured if I ever meet a person like that who is a complete ass to people, I'll let'er have it. >:3

Much <3 to y'all!

[Goirdy]

@FiyahKitteh hahaha thank you! :)

[cococrispys]

@FiyahKitteh you have no "friends" who are guys. guys and girls can't be friends unless you are both freaking ugly. It's true no matter how much you deny it. Guys always friend girls to get in their pants.

[FiyahKitteh]

@cococrispys : Hey, if that belief of yours makes your life more bearable, then by all means keep it up. ;D

[jasonbikeracer1]

@cococrispys Nah it's possible to have attractive girls that are fiends and be somewhat attractive yourself. Example: There are these two girls, who are friends that I have known for 8 years and they are like sisters to me. I wouldn't have sex with a sister if I had one and I wouldn't really have sex with either of these two either. Also if you have girls who are your fiends they can set you up with their friends, it's quite handy.

[HellFlames14]

@cococrispys That's not true at all. I have a lot of guy friends who are incredibly attractive and they never once tried to get into my pants. We're very close friends, almost like siblings. I don't really understand where you're coming from.

[cococrispys]

@HellFlames14 They must be gay then. All my guy friends who have friends who are girls always talk about how hot they look and how they are going to try to get in their pants, not about their personality (which the girls they friend think it is all about). No straight guy wants to just be friends with a girl.

If they aren't gay, they are just waiting for the perfect moment.

[Doczmolder]

This is toward every guy on here bitching. I'm a nice guy but this thread of comments pisses me off. If you want a GIRL be a douchebag. I'm a gentleman and its how i got my girlfriend. If you are a GENTLEMAN look for a WOMAN not a GIRL. A WOMAN wants a gentleman to treat her right cause she doesn't want anymore douchebag boyfriends.

[Markt2113]

@Doczmolder So you're dating a girl who is?... 5 years older than you?

[Doczmolder]

@Markt2113 Not even year older you just have to know how to spot the women in the crowd of girls.

[98Strewberry]

So true, cause if your nice, then you and her are 'just friends'. That's all I always end up being. Where my other friend, who only wants a one night stand, and usually wont call back... He gets all the girls, I have none... I don't fuckin get it.

[Markt2113]

@98Strewberry Be an ass. Girls love assholes.

[risendudelm]

funny how many douchebag pot smokin, pant saggin, big talk no walk, little shit, thug wishin, wanna be gang banging, rap listenin, fake little assholes can get some of the girls yet the REAL committed dudes that have a livelyhood behind them and treat women like the next fucking queen of england with a shit ton of respect and chivalry get blown off and forgotten... do women just want to be treated like shit!?... the world is fucking upside down and the concept of love isnt what it use to be...

[ryanpp10]

possibly the best album coming out of a break up ;D telling it how it is theory of a deadman

[RaisingCain199]

The only good thing about being a loser

[TheGaMeRZ69]

The only thing I don't want to be is a looser, so the only thing I'm not gonna have is a girlfriend... That's the way it works, fuck this world.

[ravbruggen2]

Girls don't want a gentleman(i used to be)

They want a loser like me. 

[D3m3nt3D17]

I love this song because im always nice to girls and I get cheated on because they think some assholes hot. Describes my relationships

[MrJackintheBoxers]

I'm a girl (don't be fooled by the name XD).... I like good guys. Bad guys are just retards who are a waste of time.

[NotSoStraightGirl]

<3

[TeamStricklord]

Will anybody address the fact that being a gentleman is stupid anyway? Why aren't there any gentleladies doing all that stuff for men?

[lPrawny]

0:31-0:42 best riff ever.

[HunnyBunny49]

I told my boyfriend to listen to this. Uh, oops. (:

[MsEminem120]

I'm a girl and I've dated only gentleman. Cause I take no shit. A guy said fuck you to me once and I broke up with him the next day. Guess it depends on the girl.

[shadowalliancex]

@MsEminem120 Wish more girls were like you

[boomthehedaghog4421]

this song is soooo damn true. I've been a gentleman all my life and i've had about 10 girlfriends and i currently have one but she's left me about 10 times for some asshole she thought was a nice guy and i really ended up not caring about what she does anymore. And as people said before if you girls REALLY want us to be nice then why do you only go for the "bad boys" that WILL end up hurting you?

[xxraw15xx]

its sad how true this is!

[Yotsubushi]

Nothing to say but TRUE! I tested it and when you're flirting with a girl and you're gentleman you'll be her bff but being an asshole will get you directly into her pants!!!! Sad but still

TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!

[CPsniper95]

Im 16, Im a good guy. Four girls have broken up with me because I was "Too good of a friend". Fuck being a gentleman.

[Markt2113]

@CPsniper95 Welcome to the world of being an ass. We've been expecting you :)

[bearfootedhero]

@CPsniper95 i got the same problem

[LoveThroughSong]

I like the song, but I don't like the message behind it. Yes, there are girls that want a gentlemen and most gentlemen are "losers" in some way; well, everyone is in a way. I know that there are girls that are not worth a guys time, but there are also guys not worth a girls time. I will always respect women whole-heartedly, my mother raised me and taught me that. I have had a girlfriend like that, but there are girls that do care and are not all the same.

[RainyDayzandFunDayz]

This song makes me even more happy to be a lesbian. ;)

[Dayla252]

OMG these guys must know my brother-in-law.....

[welcome2thefreakshow]

Yes, girls want a loser like HIM (Tyler Connelly) because he actually isn't a loser.

He's a very attractive, rich rockstar.

I know I wouldn't mind a loser like 'him'. :)

[Tourettesguyfan102]

@welcome2thefreakshow Because riches and outer appearances are the only TRUE way to judge someone's potential as a man. Not just one, though. Has to be both. I'd like to think I'm good looking, but I'm not rich. If I were a girl, I'd totally diss myself.

[welcome2thefreakshow]

@Tourettesguyfan102

...I just like Tyler Connelly. That's all that was. I don't want to marry him, I don't know him personally. But when girls hear the song, they might think of him and go "well, losers aren't so bad if they're like Tyler."

But an extremely cocky, yet good looking asshole... never wins over a nice guy, at least to self-appreciating women.

So, the point= girls don't want a loser like he describes in the lyrics.

But they might want Tyler.

[Tourettesguyfan102]

@welcome2thefreakshow I don't know.... I'm pretty cocky and egotistical, and a lot of girls like me. Although I'm not an asshole, and I'm also capable of loving others as much as I do myself, so....

Still got being kind of a loser against me. ;p

[1zaknafien]

This is my theme song :)

[3choPho3nixx]

Holy hell, I'm the 100,000th viewer. Let me bask in this moment...okay I'm done.

Great song from an awesome band. Can't wait to see these guys live again!

[cutiepietaytay]

I find the gentlemen so much hotter anyways c: most rude-boys jst want ass and have a bad look or attitude.. Grow up men! <3

[cococrispys]

@cutiepietaytay bullshit

[cutiepietaytay]

@cococrispys my lover is a gentleman and hes hott.. anyways, looks dont matter

[MyBeDelicious]

@cutiepietaytay i agree. A nice guy will always win me over. When i find out a guy is an asshole he is not sexy at all anymore. Maybe we are different to other girls though.

[demonslife]

@cutiepietaytay lol most girls say that but they dont mean it

[mousemoo6]

i'm a girl and i agree but i would love a Gentlemen but there all nob heads around here and if there is one some slut has him

[917sexything]

@SuperStumped1 well im a girl and i havent dumped a guy he dumped me for an ass hole

[MrEPiCMongoose]

music video <3 please

[Arps5]

Its true in my cases, treat them with respect and get dumped like a bad habit :(

[raider4life2000]

This gentleman has enough of being passed up, time for those bitches to realize what they lost

[dodobirdsrock]

♡♡♡ 

[MsBoomersoonergirl]

<3

[TheSvs1]

they should really make a video for this song

[Goirdy]

@SuperStumped1 same here bro.

[katy2917]

It almost seems as if their whole album is against girls...... oh well Im still singing along! ;D

[BlackSymphonyWings]

@katy2917 That's because Tyler and his Wife Divorced before this Album. Hope that explains why. xD

[michael12kinard]

this song is true

[Nicole112212]

I love my loser gentleman. He's a gentleman when he should be, and a total loser at heart. <3

[DeJuanNOnley]

A truer song has never been recorded. Women everywhere are pissed their secret is out.

[Markt2113]

@DeJuanNOnley Fuck yeah they are. They don't want a gentleman they want dicks and asses. Fuck yeah for being an ass :D

[yoyoandfriends]

I wish I had a loser like him!!! 3

[CeresLegend]

ugh...another mediocre song... -___- last 3 albums were fantastic...what the hell went wrong...

[z7TravisGT500]

@CeresLegend go die

[totalMate]

@z7TravisGT500 That's true though

[spicemint80]

@totalMate yes it is but its still good

[CamoCat5000]

I went down the hall singing this song. And I'm a girl.

The point:

Theory of a deadman is BEAST.

[nthomas87]

Truer words were never spoken...

[TheRockersway]

good for him he got a divorce. good riddance i'll say. i say the best gentleman ever is the one depicted as THE GENT in the movie hell ride. look into it and then lets see if anyone wants to argue if gentleman get how many girls.

[poopedon19]

JRFan you are def right my friend it doesn't make any sense whatsoever geez women so confusing

[okeday100]

@TheRockersway

He wrote the album when he was going through a divorce and its probobly wat hewas feeling at the time

[TheRockersway]

since when us men started caring about what women want and right songs about it?

[TheRockersway]

why are most of the Theory's songs about girl problems? there is a big world out there with a lot of other problems and solutions you can right songs about.

[godinthetv]

I want a loser like him. <3

[JRFAN8381]

I've been nothing but a "gentleman" to girls my entire life, and besides a couple of good friends it hasn't gotten me anywhere. When I listened to this song, I realized how true this song is when it comes to real life. My question for all the ladies is why do you always complain about not having a gentleman for a companion when the only thing you keep your eyes on is an asshole?

[whackykoolness]

@JRFAN8381 so true. being a gentleman has gotten me nowhere. girls always go out with the assholes, complain about them being an asshole, dump them and go out with another asshole. as i'm sitting over here being nice to girls and they think i'm just a nice friend

[CapricornBeast666]

@JRFAN8381 Because they keep talking shit themselve?

[NewVanguard]

@JRFAN8381 That's exactly the same for me!

[jhafer123]

@JRFAN8381 i went after the asshole because they show you how to have fun and break the rules, but now im with the genleman because i had my "rebel" stage and im ready to be with someone who actually loves me and treats me right :) every girl ends up with the gentleman in the end though, assholes get old after the first year

[xXburningrosesXx]

@jhafer123 Hmm. Maybe that's why he says girls don't want a gentleman as opposed to women don't want a gentleman.

[EaglesBPE]

@JRFAN8381 keep waiting lol you'll find a girl who realizes your better than the super hot asshole. I found my gentleman. Gentlemen are an aquired liking lol, takes a lot of shit to make them realize hey gentlemen are way better, @jhafer123 is right, gentlemen win in the end because assholes do get old

[cjt1440]

@EaglesBPE Oh great, so by the time we get the girls they are washed up whores with a ton of baggage. Sounds like a win to me...

[EaglesBPE]

@cjt1440 wow really? not everyone takes a whole bunch of shit and calling girls a whore with a ton of baggage wont win them over at all. Maybe ur just a jerk and thats why girls don't stay with you.

[cjt1440]

@EaglesBPE you said it takes a lot of shit to make them realize...does that not add up to some baggage? Nothing better than listening to a girl complain about what a dick her ex was and then not having it go anywhere because "I just don't see us as more than friends, but you're really a nice guy." Yes I do hope those girls get screwed over again and again. Serves them right.

[KaelMacKenneth]

@JRFAN8381SO FUCKIN' TRUE MAN!

[MrGoncaloM]

@JRFAN8381 damn right buddy

[slinkyhuey]

Id rather be a gentleman and have a clear concious, then be an asshole anyday, you assholes can have all the girls you want, i only need one. Oh and whoever commented on gentlemen being boring I have two words for you....... get fucked, stop dating boring losers lol.

[TeamStricklord]

@slinkyhuey You have a clear conscious because you follow society's vaguely laid out rules with no basis is fair play or equality whatsoever? If I was like that my conscious would eat me alive for being a gentleman.

[LadyElsweyr]

I'd rather have an honest loser than a cheating gentleman. Because those kind of gentleman are only made of lies.

[smalltowngamers]

@CendrillionGaming You want us to stay gentlemen? Help us out a little then. I've been one my whole life, never had a girlfriend. You don't want us to change, give us a reason not to.

[ravbruggen2]

@smalltowngamers +1

[ksivic497]

@smalltowngamers so true....RESPECT

[No1veigar]

Gentlemen Cho'gath is not amused by this

[nubizinha]

unfortunately that's true -.- bad boys are so much sexier xD

[hnsvill]

Advise coming form the female side of this argument: We go for the assholes because we get sick of "its all up to you" and "I would never hurt you" seriously. What happened to S&M? How the hell did S&M die along with chivalry?

[Methos200686]

@hnsvill ya know, any guy, good or bad, willl do anythng in bed, shit, chivalry got nothin to do with it, hows a guy meant to know you want him to choke you unless you say something lol

[hnsvill]

@Methos200686 Haha I was only talking about sex in half of my comment. ;) (Mostly) nice guys really do finish first, but I'm just fed up with only ever being the dominant one. (It does really get boring sometimes...)

[TheDJJOLLY]

@hnsvill Im a good guy i say i'll never hurt you unless you want it then if you to fuck me up

thats why im taking and im my fiancees bitch :D

BDSM FTW!!!!!!!!!!

[willc803]

sounds like nickelback

[kojakbeistel]

2:40 those sound familiar.. what song?

[wolfking3956]

:z this song is right n true :p

[LarsDagger1]

just like men though, there are women out there that ruin it for all women...making them look bad...

[toraex0]

Girls want to be treated like a lady in public and a whore in bed. It's best to be a healthy mix of badboy AND gentleman ;)

[MrInsane696]

This song is so fuckin true... and every gentlemen i knew... Is gettin drunk saying fuck a lying cheatin bitch like you! hahaha :D

[Delvithicas]

You have to slay alot of Dragons before you find your Princess.

[CoolUserNameInserted]

the music does not suck. the critics are bad because they accused tha band of racism to women with this kind of lyrics

[Lirrink1776]

@CoolUserNameInserted Well this song is true xD

[CoolUserNameInserted]

@Lirrink1776 i know it is, and i find it fun too but the critics didn't think the same. Beside the bad critics tho the songs in the album still got very popular and most people apreciated them

[Iraqnid2088]

@CoolUserNameInserted Lol "Racism to women" I did not know Woman was a race <.<

[pbbowl]

@Iraqnid2088 Isnt that sexism lol?

[Iraqnid2088]

@pbbowl Exactly XD lol glad you caught it

[it3659]

There new music sucks... It may be my opinion but look at the critics aswel...

[Lirrink1776]

@it3659 This cd is amazing, I love it ^_^

[billyblackattacks]

this is the most dead on song ever lol

[PryOpenThirdEye]

Why do women get periods? Because they deserve them.

[TeamStricklord]

@PryOpenThirdEye LOL Very true. But it kinda backfires on men..

[33vampires33]

If I had a guy like this I would break up with him so fast...I would prefer a gentlemen.

[Lirrink1776]

@33vampires33 Ya know, I gotta say bullshit on that :P

[33vampires33]

@Lirrink1776 Well I say whatever to that. When it comes to guys I don't want a bum laying on my couch all day because hes an ass. Sorry, I want a guy that's nice, has a job, and isn't a total pig.

[Lirrink1776]

@33vampires33 well how come nice guys even agree with this? Experience? :P Try being an asshole and things are actually better

[33vampires33]

@Lirrink1776 Past experience with assholes, they aren't great in my opinion. Sorry that my opinion on boys are different.

[Lirrink1776]

@33vampires33 Well the fact you've had assholes instead of gentleman obviously says something about what you're attracted to :P

[33vampires33]

@Lirrink1776 I cant lay out the whole story of the relationship in this little tiny box buts lets just say I didn't exactly think he was an asshole till later. He acted much different when we would hang out with his friends. Don't judge something that you have no clue about. >>

[Lirrink1776]

@33vampires33 Well nice guys know this is true, that's why nice guys turn out like assholes, because they know in order to get any girl you can't be nice, there's exceptions, but for the most part this song is true

[LadySpyogenes]

@33vampires33

Gentlemen are boring :D

[TeamStricklord]

@33vampires33 Of course you would break up with him. I am sure he would love to break up with you too.

[33vampires33]

@TeamStricklord A total ass would break up with me? And thats bad? I dont know about you but if a total bum dumped me I would be overjoyed. But I'm more confused because I would never date an asshole :/

[OrangebearProducts]

I guess, gentlemen are boring.

The same thing everyday, and women get bored.

[unbrileevable]

This song reminds me how lucky I am that my boyfriend is not a jackass

[toraling2012]

it's not that girls don't want a gentlemen it's just we can't find one

[CendrillionGaming]

@toraling2012 Well frankly, there are alot of gentlemen out there but they become assholes becuase they get Nowhere being a gentlemen so they change and then get fucktons of stupid girls that love asshole but say they dont

[neverbackindown]

@CendrillionGaming so true I am giving up on being being mister nice guy fuck that it gets you no where in life

[Lirrink1776]

@CendrillionGaming Been nice to my now ex for years, learned that she's been cheating on me, lying to me, and isn't sorry at all, now its time to be an asshole to her and never will I treat a girl again like she's worth anything

[OrangebearProducts]

@toraling2012 No, they're just stuck in the 'friend zone' buddy.

[Berethoth]

@toraling2012

Tell that to my (now ex) gf. I was a perfect bf for 16 months, gave her gigantic amounts of love and care. Opened doors for her and everything. Then, two weeks before a really important exam, she casually tells me she cheated on me twice.

Fun, eh?

[TeamStricklord]

@toraling2012 Perhaps try being gentleladies.

[foxboro27]

Great song! Saw them tonight at Hard Rock Orlando, and they opened with this.

[TakingBreathAway]

Yeah I'm guessing I'll just be Single for the rest of my life. Cause this damn song is TRUE!

[unbrileevable]

@TakingBreathAway It does have some truth to it. I've noticed that most of my nicest guy friends are the single ones. It doesn't make sense. but anyways it isnt true in every case and I am confident that eventually they will find nice girls

[iiBRINGIT]

@TakingBreathAway i feel u bro. bitches these days

[h8rsteve]

@TakingBreathAway forever alone

[timmytom1991]

@TakingBreathAway u said bother.

[timmytom1991]

this song is so true. they want a loser. because guys who can take care of them self's can leave i guess. lol they want us stuck and thats the only way they got someone if they get a loser not going anywhere in life. i guess ill be single.

[3333BRICK]

Danggggggggggggg

[lillexiepoo]

im a chickk and i lovee this sonngg :)

[RSJP231]

the chorus of this song is so true :/ my girlfriend just left me and we even have a baby together and it hurts but singing this song loud enough to shake a room helps a hell of a lot

[sourpatch64]

@RSJP231 gay

[RSJP231]

@sourpatch64 fag :) see i can be childish and immature on youtube to dude it isnt that impressive

[sourpatch64]

@RSJP231 The comment you said was gay. I didn't call you gay. Hence I replied to your comment. Grow up you peasant

[robertekew]

So true...

[myspaceleni]

haha ..love the lyrics !

[arborappster]

Every mother fucking time i have the convo, "hey what kind of music do you like?"

Nine chances outta ten the dumbest turns his nose when i say Theory. Cool, stick to your bullshit.

[ChaoticScaper]

@arborappster Welcome to the 21st century /: Music today is a mistake. Obviously i mean the rap shit. Except...i like eminem and e-dubble.

[AshtonJohnFox]

7 people are gentlemen.