i no men r the only ones commenting on this post.i can tell....woman will always be the better half in a relationship.men r dumb as fuck and usually to blaim if the relationship fails even if she cheated on him its his fault.i no tons of great girls but i dont no any good guys worth introducing them too.there r whores out there yes but not to the magnitude of how men r whores too.
PEOPLE "cheat" or betray their mate because they have no morals nor respect. i feel bad for the people who believe that they are responsible for another person's actions.
@pinkcat2010 nope. if he was faithful u would assume he was too close to his mother and dump him for a bad ass. ur an animal too just like all of our species.
Men cheat, because women expect men to cheat. If you don't cheat on women and take them for granted, they think you're a geek and refuse to have anything to do with you outside the "friend" (read "unattractive") zone.
My 19YO daughter is engaged to an older man- he’s actually about my age. I’ve tried hard to like the guy, & so I reluctantly agreed when he suggested we have a ‘man’s night out’ last week.
Sadly, he persuaded me (after several drinks) to go to a lapdancing bar where we ended up in a horrible back room being fellated by 2 young East European girls. I have NEVER BEFORE been unfaithful to my dear wife & blame him for this appalling event. The thought of him even touching my girl now sickens me.
My concern is regarding thewomen who are cheating with these married men. They need to stop and tell these married men to go back to their wives and work things out instead of breaking up families. It takes two. Don't put all the work on the married women dr. neuman. Married men need to fess up and grow up. Please too much excuses are put for these married men who cheat. Married women need men they can lean on not baby.
@WhatUGawkinAt I'd have to agree, I'd say that women are human beings just like man too and there are cases where women actually do cheat on their husbands, what I'd like to know, as a man, are the reason why a woman would cheat, if we're going to know why the man cheats.
@WhatUGawkinAt Yeah, but men don't encourage women to cheat so much. There's still the slut rule and the whore rule. The only possible excuse for women cheating is if her boyfriend does it first. But it's probably her own fault that her boyfriend cheated, since women can't be attracted to meek guys. Male ego really turns women on. Psychologically women never mature past about 13 or 14 years old. Treating a woman well is a sure fire ticket to the dog house.
@ebonics4everyone Men cheat because they weren't compatible with the woman in the first place. A man that cheats is a man that only wanted pussy from day one. There is NO excuse for a woman to cheat period. If either partner cheats, they should go their separate ways.
I knw a dude who cheated on his mrs i felt so sori 4 her she ws devastated i had a mad chat wit him cause i was curious, he reckoned he didnt explain y he did it because he didnt wnt 2 make it sound like he was blaming her but the reason he cheated is because the " other chic" did everythng he wantd and didnt say no. Whn i asked him if he told his mrs he would b tempted 2 cheat if they didnt change things up it made him think , Guys talk to ur mrs bout sex she's proberbly say yes too! DUMB !
three reason's a woman will cheat 1: she's either just a nasty hoe and likes to f*ck around , 2: She got too wasted and made a dumb decision 3 : u just aint treatin her right and she's feeling unloved . I knw this becuse 1: once i got too wasted an almost cheated be4 snapping myself out of it . 2: I knw a nasty hoe who fu*ks men just cause she likes drama and 3: I bein tempted 2 cheat on my man cause i wasnt feelin any love but fixd it b4 i broke it :)
@JanitTilson Well I'm no woman, but I can honestly say that I have cheated because my inhibitions are lowered so much when I drink that it is just like I'm another person.
@MyEggIsBoiled Well i guess the solution to your cheating is pretty simple spesh if your feeling guilty bout it in the morning if u really feel the need to get completly sh*tfaced with alchol take your mrs with you other wise its is possible to have drink's without getting so wasted you dont relise you could lose ur mrs , Know when you've had enougth be happy have a few cokes liquer stay's in your system for hours so u dont have to keep chugging down the beers to hav a mean night with mates:)
You know I'm a chick and that is bull shit. Woman are just as likely to cheat as Men. If your guy is cheating on you then obviously your not giving him something he wants. I don't care what that bitch says. If your fucking great in bed and your good to him then.... Most guys probably wont cheat. Keep them happy. Its really that simple. Girls be good to your guys. AND vice versa.
how about why do men and women cheat on eachother...sometimes. I know it's popular to bring down men in this country but let's get real here, women cheat too.
Wowwww did someone just blame a guy's lack of will power on a woman because women don't want to fuck every day like men do. It's called rape if you are pressured or forced to do something you don't want to. If you're going to fucking cheat, break up with her because you obviously don't care. Easy.
men cheat because they are not satisfied in the bedroom. Women don't like sex as much as men do on average they use it as a weapon. that is the most common reason why men cheat. Forget all the bullshit, men like sex..alot and when a women treats her man like dog using sex as treat for good behavior it will blow up in her your face lol he will go out and get what he wants no matter who he is...if he likes sex he will go get it sometimes just out of spite
Cheating in men is linked to a lower IQ score. The men that are the greatest cheaters typically have limited cognitive skills. Men at the higher end of the intelligence curve are typically more faithful. If these ladies want a faithful man then they should date a "nerdy" guy.
@Keysteeze Not true. Nerds would cheat like crazy if they could. I dated a lawyer and he was the most unfaithul guy ever. My blue collar boyfriend was the most true.
bullshit. plz go out with an HONEST MAN. u cannot change a liar. there will always be intimacy with an HONEST man because he will tryy his best to re create the lost intimacy. simple.
emotional disconnect at home??? wtf?! so the guy goes out to lie to another woman who wants love and a family and that connection? so unfair!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I cheat because I'm not going to be young forever and I want as much pussy as I can get while I can still get with young girls. The pure and simple truth of instinct, I'm not going to lie to myself or deny it like everyone else it's not rocket science. You don't need a psychologist to figure this out. There's lots of pussy to be had, why are you going to waste your time with a relationship. Listening to the same record everyday sucks ass don't it.
These guys are full of crap, men are BIOLOGICALLY PROGRAMMED to have multiple partners. Like it or not its in our nature... The instinct to procreate is stronger than the instinct to eat, think about that one...
I hate how they always make it out to be the womens fault. I not going to be more sexual so my man wont cheat. Thats ridiculous. If hes going to do it hes going to do it. My only job is to make sure he is completely out of my life when hes done.
@HellYeahImHot There's probability and possibility. Not looking at the cross lights increases your probability of getting hit by a car but, the possibility will always be there. Being more sexual doesn't erase the possibility of getting cheated on but increases your probability of having a successful relationship but if your only concern is "to make sure he is completely out" I recommend learning Beyonce's "Single Ladies Dance" because it will be your lifetime tune.
this man is ass backwards!!! that sounds like why women cheat these men are probably gay...men cheat because new pussy is always better than the regular pussy yyhu have btw im a girl
you fucking peice of shit you were on tv talking toatally oppossite fucking hippocrate shit brick male or female get a real fucking job author my ass fucking asshole
I respect your answer and your work, but you are wrong padre. It is very simple. People cheat because they want to. Temptation, Fullfillment and Excitement. I know because I am a 30 year retired cheater with a 401K and IRA.
I'm sorry but I think this guy is an idiot. It all has to do with the lack of emotional disconnect and sexual infrequency at home. Are you kidding me? Cheating is not neccessarily an issue between a man and his wife. There is a lot of evidence that cheating, committed by men and women, has to do with childhood issues and lack of impulse control. Not saying those are the only factors which lead one to cheat but they are diffenately stronger factors than "sexual infrequency" and "emotiona
I'm sorry but I think this guy is an idiot. It all has to do with the lack of emotional disconnect and sexual infrequency at home. Are you kidding me? Cheating is not neccessarily an issue between a man and his wife. There is a lot of evidence that cheating, committed by men and women, has to do with childhood issues and lack of impulse control. Not saying those are the only factors which lead one to cheat but they are diffenately stronger factors than "sexual infrequency" and "emotional"
i cheat but when i go with other girls i feel pleasure but i dnt feel anything emosionally its jst sex but when im with my lady i feel everything i do love her i jst cant stop cheating i need help
I don't get it. Seems to me like all guys want is hot chick with big fake boobs. I will never understand men, they all seem the same to me. It's like men aren't capable of being faithful. They get an amazing beautiful girlfriend who would do anything for them and they'll drop them the second a hot chick with huge boobs comes their way. Just saying from all personal experiences. If guys aren't all like this, please do tell becuase i'd like to have a little hope.
@XAAMX actually if you look at women today, they are the ones cheating more often, yes us men are idiots i will never say we are not, but a woman is menipulative, maybe a man cheats because it is physical but have you ever thought of they mental harm a man goes through when a woman cheats, as a man we think what does he have that i don't am i not good enough, is my d*** small, am i not providing for her, am i less of a man? atleast when a man cheats its cuz his d*** was thinking not his brain
@XAAMX when a woman cheats its more of an emotional type of cheating, both ways are wrong dont get me wrong but men and women are both to blame, not just men
@XAAMX Amazing beautiful girlfriends aren't attracted to men that won't cheat on them. They usually blow the guy off as just a "friend" when he'd make a great boyfriend. Shame on you.
@kucoru16 I never said beautiful girls are not attracted to men who don't cheat, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I was talking about guys always thinking with their dick and not their brain. Not a girl feeling differently towards a guy that likes her. Shame on me? I said "Just saying from all personal experiences" I'm not bagging on guys for no reason. It's just IRRITATING that guys constantly think with their dick and not their brain when it comes to girls. NO OFFENSE.
My boyfriend.. is cheating on me and he called me and i didnt awnser then he puts his pic on fb as him kissing a girl and he took me off his friends and everything and idk what to do about it if anyone knows why hes cheating plz uhm help or tell me what i should do.. and on behalf of all yu girls that have been cheated on.. "there will be blood" lol. well anyways plz help cuz idk what 2 do Dx
@perttygurlswaqq apparently he doesnt wanna be with you that was his way of saying its over, he just doesn't wanna say its over he just wants you to go away. dont mean to be mean but im just tellin you how it is all you can do is move on
@thekingVA ty.. umm after a while his new gf dumped him and we talked and he said he loves me and cares for me but hes too busy right now to party with me so were going our seprate ways but i told him if he needs me ill be there... but honestly once i thought about it i realized he wasnt right for me... i mean he cared and everything but i cant be there for him all the time and neither can he... but honestly i care for him still... :3
@perttygurlswaqq understandable but you have to think since he left for another girl once he will do it again, so dont get with him again if you dont want it to happen again, don't lower yourself to saying youll be there for him, where was he when you were worried? ohh sorry he was with another girl, sticking around makes you seem desperate and he will take you for granted trust me i know ive done what he did, and the girl stuck around and all she was to me was a back up plan, dont let yourself
I have been hit on by married so many times.I have a theory I think cheating begins with boredom. I think lots of men try to be good to their wives at first and turn away from other women but after a while it feels like there’re turning away from something new for something old instead. Everyone likes new stuff, like kids men want new toys it's depressing for them to have the same old thing (in bed) forever. I believe it gets easier for men to cheat the longer he stays in the same relationship.
@trubelieva4life You're right, but it goes both ways. My ex fiancee cheated on me, when I did everything right as a man. I was confused for the longest time, but I always noticed how women will try to cheat on their boyfriends/husbands with me as long as I have better qualities than their current spouse. This further validates why I no longer do relationships. With friends with benefits, I get the benefits of a relationship without the heartbreak or stress. Sad world we live in now.
@rickdarko It's a sad world. Greed controls everything people want it all and they have the same demands for their love lives which is disastrous for relations, but despite it all it's not all doom and gloom cause once they attain “it” everything they ever wanted, they begin to realize how worthless and superficial all these things are.Then they face the deepest, darkest emptiness that can only be taken away by finding someone/ something you really love, care about and treat properly
@trubelieva4life communication is the problem in marriages. ppl dont talk about doing something new, creating new sex with each other, and some people werent really ready for marriage or a relationship to begin with.
@yADigProductions26 Communication is important but it’s not exciting or fun to explain everything all the time talking is boring and can never live up to or substitute that spontaneous sexual excitement and chemistry you feel with a new person who you share an attraction to and it doesn't help when you’re married because forbidden fruit is the sweetest. Personally, I believe true love is very rare and everybody else will cheat given the chance. Soul mates and faithfulness isn't for everybody.
@trubelieva4life Exactly, not everyone wants true love or one Lover. Just don't blame your wife girlfriend or boyfriend of your cheating just because talking is boring to you and you rather sleep around. some people simply MEN dont need to get in a relationship he prefers forbidden fruit. thats who needs to change. It's called being real with yourself and another. Blaming make syou look weak as to why ya make a bad choice
Read the book "Sex At Dawn". They explain it in such a great, simple, truthful manner. Men cheat for the same reason that women cheat.....go find out.
I cheat in Monopoly all the time. My family doesn't allow me to be banker anymore because I cheated. I cheat because it is fun and if you are successful it can be rewarding, I think i won about 10 monopoly games before getting caught.
JESUS CHRIST, I COULDN'T OF SAID IT BETTER MYSELF. Not to mention the "I was drunk" excuse, seriously I'm not saying cheating is good but why demonize men when women cheat as well?
AAAHHHH its the emotional bull shit line So what does their dick have to do with their emotions. when you need emotional help why are you taking your DICK OUT YOUR PANTS are you telling me your DICK has an emotional problem to lol lol
Their DICK has the problem it wants pussy IT IS NOT about their emotions this is all
about DICK and the need of the DICK to feel good lol lol lol
fidelity does not exist and for those who preach the bible even in genesis it says who did what with who while they where married.stop bickering about dumb shit you don' trust your significant other then leave.stay single stop crying.
Hold it! Wtf! Sexual Infrequency! How long do men think that women suppose to have sex? Ain't no man in this world is going to tare down my body like that! What the so call expert don't know in this case is that a woman can have fibroids due to having to much sex. Ladies, we are not at the demands of these men! Men need to learn how to get a life!
Ok, what does "getting a life" have to do with your point? you sound like one of those women who acts as though women are the only ones in the world who are suffering from pain... I bet you enjoy seeing men screw up, that way, you can justify your hatred hear on YT! Why don't YOU get a life, little girl?
Because it's nature. Males are designed to mate as much as possible before a bigger creature comes and eat them. Even though we live in a 'civilized' society (supposedly), one part of us still wild.
If it was not like that, we would be extinct. Females can reproduce every 9 months, men every 9 hours (or less)
It's nature because like it or not Christians, we are all animals and as far as our instinct go we need to reproduce as much as possible
What the real problem is is that women have to read books and look online for relationship advice instead of just asking their boyfriend/husband what he thinks and wants.
Holy jesus sweetie, you sound like a lunatic and for a good reason perhaps. I'm guessing you either were cheated on before and/or your friends were cheated on. Whatever the case is, know that not every guy is the same just like every girl isn't the same
He said that it wasn't about sex and 88% of the men said that the mistress wasn't better looking than the wife. What does that have to do with it? Why didn't he just say what percentage of men said it was about sex?
@FalseShadowx lol lol lol IT'S ALL ABOUT SEX DON'T YOU SEE THIS MAN IS JUST COVERING THINGS UP FOR MEN AND NOT TELLING THE TRUTH JUST TO MAKE US LITTLE WOMEN FEEL BETTER lol lol lol
what about the wife. poor woman has so much stress looking after the household, their health and all the man can think about is whether he can get his dick in any hole. fuck that. i have no time for cheating men. they cheat as much as they like but for the wife there is someone out there much much better.
That was a great segment. There are several factors. Listen to it a couple times.
In particular, the culture of cheating is a high contributor. Men stuck in this culture either have to choose to cheat and be socially accepted OR not to cheat and be socially ostracized.
I chose the later and it is REALLY hard.
Further, the higher up you go, the greater the culture of cheating...in fact, you are *expected* to both be married and to cheat...it's a sign of control (on many levels).
lol why do WOMEN cheat. almost every RECENT survey shows that women cheat more than men.
and on top of that; recent studies by a canadian government institute and wakeforrest university show that men take break ups harder than women because of how men are socialized in western society.
so men are getting screwed over more than women and women cheat more often than men.
so this video is so stupid. make a video of why WOMEN cheat. stupid.
@jthoov I AGREE women have caught up to men when it comes to cheating
i have heard women say if you can't beat them join them & what's good for the goose is good for the gander lol lol lol women are just tired of men cheating so they have decided to join the party. BUT NOT ME I believe in loyalty and morality, dignity and respect. Something this world has lost through the years
As a male, I'll tell you this. In my case, what mr neuman said is true for me. I've been with my gf for 5 years and I haven't been even temped to cheat.
I've never been temped to cheat because like neuman said, A) I'm emotionally connected with my gf. B) We have sex frequently C) My friends are not cheaters. There's been many occasions where girls were interested in me at parties (for sex) and nothing happened. Now If the top 2 rules were different, I'd be tempted for sure
ive cheated, more than once, i dont now, and im still married, but i have a list of reasons. first my wife was all over me all the time, a few years later it became, " I have a head ache, im tired". different reason every night. then she always had to start an argument. also when she had the chance to share some free time with me, she did not, she was always stuck in a book and things like that. outside the home i had women flirting with me, and i went for it.
@RockandMetalforlife I think it's great that you used your experience and made an honest contribution to the topic with it. I hope your relationship is doing better now.
@FalseShadowx Thanks, like i was saying its simple, if a woman is all over a man all the time early on, it becomes something some men expect. but in time when a woman starts to push a man off to the side or turn him down, it really makes men wonder whats going on, and feel upset, it can make them go for other women that make moves on them, Plus the fact that a man gets put last even behind hobbies, dosent help. Then all this starts an argument, its some reasons a man cheats, its why i did.
i no men r the only ones commenting on this post.i can tell....woman will always be the better half in a relationship.men r dumb as fuck and usually to blaim if the relationship fails even if she cheated on him its his fault.i no tons of great girls but i dont no any good guys worth introducing them too.there r whores out there yes but not to the magnitude of how men r whores too.
ronniemanford1990 5 days ago
PEOPLE "cheat" or betray their mate because they have no morals nor respect. i feel bad for the people who believe that they are responsible for another person's actions.
cherubicnerd 2 weeks ago
@pinkcat2010 nope. if he was faithful u would assume he was too close to his mother and dump him for a bad ass. ur an animal too just like all of our species.
ebonics4everyone 1 month ago
Men cheat, because women expect men to cheat. If you don't cheat on women and take them for granted, they think you're a geek and refuse to have anything to do with you outside the "friend" (read "unattractive") zone.
ebonics4everyone 1 month ago
women are bitches bottom line
millieboyent 2 months ago
Men are pigs bottom line!!!!!!!!!!!!!
pinkcat2010 2 months ago 3
@pinkcat2010 And you dumb chicks wouldn't want us any other way. If a guy was totally loyal and dedicated to you, you'd think he was a crazy stalker.
ebonics4everyone 1 month ago
@ebonics4everyone Nope i would be in shock if i guy was faithful!!!!!!!!
pinkcat2010 1 month ago
My 19YO daughter is engaged to an older man- he’s actually about my age. I’ve tried hard to like the guy, & so I reluctantly agreed when he suggested we have a ‘man’s night out’ last week.
Sadly, he persuaded me (after several drinks) to go to a lapdancing bar where we ended up in a horrible back room being fellated by 2 young East European girls. I have NEVER BEFORE been unfaithful to my dear wife & blame him for this appalling event. The thought of him even touching my girl now sickens me.
SuperTruth77 3 months ago
@SuperTruth77 ha ha ha. Let me guess. You're Michael Caine?
ebonics4everyone 1 month ago
My concern is regarding thewomen who are cheating with these married men. They need to stop and tell these married men to go back to their wives and work things out instead of breaking up families. It takes two. Don't put all the work on the married women dr. neuman. Married men need to fess up and grow up. Please too much excuses are put for these married men who cheat. Married women need men they can lean on not baby.
Shemet3 3 months ago
OK what if you want sex and your husband denies you all the time? Answer that then get back to me.
Annabolina1533 4 months ago
LOL, as if men are the only ones to cheat -.-
WhatUGawkinAt 4 months ago 7
@WhatUGawkinAt I'd have to agree, I'd say that women are human beings just like man too and there are cases where women actually do cheat on their husbands, what I'd like to know, as a man, are the reason why a woman would cheat, if we're going to know why the man cheats.
RyGil91 2 months ago
@WhatUGawkinAt Yeah, but men don't encourage women to cheat so much. There's still the slut rule and the whore rule. The only possible excuse for women cheating is if her boyfriend does it first. But it's probably her own fault that her boyfriend cheated, since women can't be attracted to meek guys. Male ego really turns women on. Psychologically women never mature past about 13 or 14 years old. Treating a woman well is a sure fire ticket to the dog house.
ebonics4everyone 1 month ago
@ebonics4everyone Men cheat because they weren't compatible with the woman in the first place. A man that cheats is a man that only wanted pussy from day one. There is NO excuse for a woman to cheat period. If either partner cheats, they should go their separate ways.
WhatUGawkinAt 1 month ago
Funny. With who men cheat? Not other women who often are already with men. Then, men and women cheat.
ghune 6 months ago
I knw a dude who cheated on his mrs i felt so sori 4 her she ws devastated i had a mad chat wit him cause i was curious, he reckoned he didnt explain y he did it because he didnt wnt 2 make it sound like he was blaming her but the reason he cheated is because the " other chic" did everythng he wantd and didnt say no. Whn i asked him if he told his mrs he would b tempted 2 cheat if they didnt change things up it made him think , Guys talk to ur mrs bout sex she's proberbly say yes too! DUMB !
JanitTilson 6 months ago
You wonna know what makes a woman cheat ?
three reason's a woman will cheat 1: she's either just a nasty hoe and likes to f*ck around , 2: She got too wasted and made a dumb decision 3 : u just aint treatin her right and she's feeling unloved . I knw this becuse 1: once i got too wasted an almost cheated be4 snapping myself out of it . 2: I knw a nasty hoe who fu*ks men just cause she likes drama and 3: I bein tempted 2 cheat on my man cause i wasnt feelin any love but fixd it b4 i broke it :)
JanitTilson 6 months ago
@JanitTilson Well I'm no woman, but I can honestly say that I have cheated because my inhibitions are lowered so much when I drink that it is just like I'm another person.
MyEggIsBoiled 6 months ago
@MyEggIsBoiled Well i guess the solution to your cheating is pretty simple spesh if your feeling guilty bout it in the morning if u really feel the need to get completly sh*tfaced with alchol take your mrs with you other wise its is possible to have drink's without getting so wasted you dont relise you could lose ur mrs , Know when you've had enougth be happy have a few cokes liquer stay's in your system for hours so u dont have to keep chugging down the beers to hav a mean night with mates:)
JanitTilson 6 months ago
@JanitTilson What great advice. I'm very much working on it. Thank you :)
MyEggIsBoiled 6 months ago
Men are just selfish dogs, this is all BS.
peekaboots01 6 months ago
You know I'm a chick and that is bull shit. Woman are just as likely to cheat as Men. If your guy is cheating on you then obviously your not giving him something he wants. I don't care what that bitch says. If your fucking great in bed and your good to him then.... Most guys probably wont cheat. Keep them happy. Its really that simple. Girls be good to your guys. AND vice versa.
BethWuzzHere210 6 months ago
Of course we don't have a woman explaining why women cheat. No! that would be...sexist! Fuck cunts! Oh my god I just said the word CUNT!
james1forification1 7 months ago
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james1forification1 7 months ago
Men cheat because of their sex drive. It's that fucking simple.
james1forification1 7 months ago
how about why do men and women cheat on eachother...sometimes. I know it's popular to bring down men in this country but let's get real here, women cheat too.
james1forification1 7 months ago
I'm a female, but women are just as likely to cheat as men. Stop the sexism.
iLoveLadyDiana 7 months ago
the real question is why would anyone cheat? relationships arent based only on sex. ill take a faithful girl over great sex anyday..
AciddReign 7 months ago 11
Wowwww did someone just blame a guy's lack of will power on a woman because women don't want to fuck every day like men do. It's called rape if you are pressured or forced to do something you don't want to. If you're going to fucking cheat, break up with her because you obviously don't care. Easy.
elissaellis17 8 months ago
@elissaellis17 thank you, i agree 100%!
iamnotuke 7 months ago
men cheat because they are not satisfied in the bedroom. Women don't like sex as much as men do on average they use it as a weapon. that is the most common reason why men cheat. Forget all the bullshit, men like sex..alot and when a women treats her man like dog using sex as treat for good behavior it will blow up in her your face lol he will go out and get what he wants no matter who he is...if he likes sex he will go get it sometimes just out of spite
MTVVH1sucks 8 months ago
Cause it's not cheating it IS called being a man. If you one pie thats fine but why have one when you can HAVE more.
IblewuponyourfaceIII 8 months ago
Cheating in men is linked to a lower IQ score. The men that are the greatest cheaters typically have limited cognitive skills. Men at the higher end of the intelligence curve are typically more faithful. If these ladies want a faithful man then they should date a "nerdy" guy.
Keysteeze 8 months ago
@Keysteeze "Men at the higher end of the intelligence curve are typically more faithful." Higher intelligence usually entails higher paying jobs.
I would be faithful too if I stood to lose half in court and not including litigation fees, alimony, and child support.
FitnessGuru1988 8 months ago
@FitnessGuru1988 LOl good one. You are right of course. It is not entirely known WHY intelligent men are less likely to cheat.
Keysteeze 8 months ago
@Keysteeze Not true. Nerds would cheat like crazy if they could. I dated a lawyer and he was the most unfaithul guy ever. My blue collar boyfriend was the most true.
peekaboots01 6 months ago
In my case I think women cheat more. They work less hours and have much more freetime to be foolin around.
thedamned38 8 months ago
actually women cheat way more
324582782 8 months ago
bullshit. plz go out with an HONEST MAN. u cannot change a liar. there will always be intimacy with an HONEST man because he will tryy his best to re create the lost intimacy. simple.
sairaj1 9 months ago
just waitt to meet that man. stay away, especially if u attract shitty men. :(
sairaj1 9 months ago
emotional disconnect at home??? wtf?! so the guy goes out to lie to another woman who wants love and a family and that connection? so unfair!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sairaj1 9 months ago
i swear it is disgusting. :((( if u wanna cheat then go out with women who dont want commitment. why lie?
sairaj1 9 months ago
I cheat because I'm not going to be young forever and I want as much pussy as I can get while I can still get with young girls. The pure and simple truth of instinct, I'm not going to lie to myself or deny it like everyone else it's not rocket science. You don't need a psychologist to figure this out. There's lots of pussy to be had, why are you going to waste your time with a relationship. Listening to the same record everyday sucks ass don't it.
parsleysprigs 9 months ago
Wikipedia: The Coolidge Effect. That explains the real end of story.
Keysteeze 10 months ago
thumbs up if you think the woman slept with one of those dudes
crazyguy1444 10 months ago
These guys are full of crap, men are BIOLOGICALLY PROGRAMMED to have multiple partners. Like it or not its in our nature... The instinct to procreate is stronger than the instinct to eat, think about that one...
robzrx7 10 months ago
man are fuking pigs im suck of all u fukers im going to become a bitch!!!!!!
anaihinds 10 months ago
its not the sex its the friends and their need to feel good looking
glitterysweet1 11 months ago
I hate how they always make it out to be the womens fault. I not going to be more sexual so my man wont cheat. Thats ridiculous. If hes going to do it hes going to do it. My only job is to make sure he is completely out of my life when hes done.
HellYeahImHot 11 months ago 3
@HellYeahImHot There's probability and possibility. Not looking at the cross lights increases your probability of getting hit by a car but, the possibility will always be there. Being more sexual doesn't erase the possibility of getting cheated on but increases your probability of having a successful relationship but if your only concern is "to make sure he is completely out" I recommend learning Beyonce's "Single Ladies Dance" because it will be your lifetime tune.
FitnessGuru1988 8 months ago
i dont like how this sends the message that ALL men cheat.
TornPaperYoyos 11 months ago
Nonsense! Why isn't there a question about why women cheat? Don't women cheat?
leston4life 11 months ago
@sapphiretwilight1 I totally agree with you
MrLocario 11 months ago
lolz.....tht's really hilarious
asinaestheiziyar 11 months ago
#1 Opportunity
#2 Frequency
#3 Better sex
mba2ceo 1 year ago
I love Pussy
mike6037553461 1 year ago
I love pussy
mike6037553461 1 year ago
lol 1:10 interruption
ThePinkqueen9 1 year ago
"Forward thinking male" ? What does that even mean? Everyone just wants to have a good time. New pussy is a good time.
GypsyGyps9 1 year ago
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GypsyGyps9 1 year ago
that's true most of the time the wife is even better looking,
1980vince 1 year ago
wat da fuck does dis jewish piece of shit know? men cheat kuz of curiosity of the next best sex, aint no pussy like new pussy
IISourAyyII 1 year ago
the resons we cheat is because we just want some new pussy is that so worng
desmon19145 1 year ago
If this is about why men cheat, why do they have 3 women on the show??? well, I guess I'm not sure about the host, lol.
l337pwnage 1 year ago
TV Commercials and no actual news, yeah!!!
BigAndTall666 1 year ago
this man is ass backwards!!! that sounds like why women cheat these men are probably gay...men cheat because new pussy is always better than the regular pussy yyhu have btw im a girl
sexytrackstar2008 1 year ago
you fucking peice of shit you were on tv talking toatally oppossite fucking hippocrate shit brick male or female get a real fucking job author my ass fucking asshole
rodsnreels 1 year ago
men cheat cause it makes us feel powerful to know we can manipulate more then one female
katastrophic707 1 year ago
the 64 likes were all women
lordmorgarath1 1 year ago
@lordmorgarath1 Why would we like the fact that men cheat?Dislike
jessicakennon 1 year ago
What about "Why women cheat?" ?!?!?!?
You don't get any media attention on that.
felixduhcat89 1 year ago 8
@felixduhcat89 Actually, I see on the side a video that says "Why women cheat"
jessicakennon 1 year ago
if a man cheats its the womens fault for not knowing their man good enough
shino475 1 year ago
WTF is prostitution education?????
marquez2323 1 year ago
why is it the women always should do these certain thing????WTF...so men should do nothing.. wow really f*ck yo*
112887db 1 year ago
men and women both cheat
112887db 1 year ago
Bullshit. There is no reason why men cheat. Men just do cheat. That is all to it.
myemaildw 1 year ago
it sucks when they cheat and pocket call you and dont even know they got caught Go Jim Ackley Idiot!
mscindybear42 1 year ago
fugly ppl cheat the least, u know why? Because they're fugly and nobody wants to touch em. So marry a fugly person.
brokencountry123 1 year ago
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dantelandas125 1 year ago
this is bullshit, women cheat too -__-
THEATRYCAL 1 year ago
@THEATRYCAL No one said they didn't.There are plenty of videos about women cheating.
jessicakennon 1 year ago
i cheat on my wife. i also beat her.
FlameBaiter 1 year ago
I respect your answer and your work, but you are wrong padre. It is very simple. People cheat because they want to. Temptation, Fullfillment and Excitement. I know because I am a 30 year retired cheater with a 401K and IRA.
americasfirstking 1 year ago
I'm sorry but I think this guy is an idiot. It all has to do with the lack of emotional disconnect and sexual infrequency at home. Are you kidding me? Cheating is not neccessarily an issue between a man and his wife. There is a lot of evidence that cheating, committed by men and women, has to do with childhood issues and lack of impulse control. Not saying those are the only factors which lead one to cheat but they are diffenately stronger factors than "sexual infrequency" and "emotiona
kellyi88 1 year ago
I'm sorry but I think this guy is an idiot. It all has to do with the lack of emotional disconnect and sexual infrequency at home. Are you kidding me? Cheating is not neccessarily an issue between a man and his wife. There is a lot of evidence that cheating, committed by men and women, has to do with childhood issues and lack of impulse control. Not saying those are the only factors which lead one to cheat but they are diffenately stronger factors than "sexual infrequency" and "emotional"
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mgaryneuman 1 year ago
That's why you need to go for the shy, socially ackward guy, like me =D
They're less likely to cheat on you because, they have trouble talking anyways.
spikedude55 1 year ago 2
i cheat but when i go with other girls i feel pleasure but i dnt feel anything emosionally its jst sex but when im with my lady i feel everything i do love her i jst cant stop cheating i need help
Elcarlillos100 1 year ago
Men cheat because they want new pussy. End of story
MrLocario 1 year ago 34
@MrLocario You got it! Simple as that. It's funny how all these experts try to make an innate simple fact into something so complicated.
rjhome1 1 year ago
@MrLocario exactly .-.
jugoswolf5678 11 months ago
@MrLocario Well, that's one reason. good call.
745dzl 7 months ago
@MrLocario Exactly. Men want new sex in the same way that so many women want new shoes.
JohanStarDragon 4 months ago
I don't get it. Seems to me like all guys want is hot chick with big fake boobs. I will never understand men, they all seem the same to me. It's like men aren't capable of being faithful. They get an amazing beautiful girlfriend who would do anything for them and they'll drop them the second a hot chick with huge boobs comes their way. Just saying from all personal experiences. If guys aren't all like this, please do tell becuase i'd like to have a little hope.
XAAMX 1 year ago
@XAAMX actually if you look at women today, they are the ones cheating more often, yes us men are idiots i will never say we are not, but a woman is menipulative, maybe a man cheats because it is physical but have you ever thought of they mental harm a man goes through when a woman cheats, as a man we think what does he have that i don't am i not good enough, is my d*** small, am i not providing for her, am i less of a man? atleast when a man cheats its cuz his d*** was thinking not his brain
thekingVA 1 year ago
@thekingVA yes i see your point
XAAMX 1 year ago
@XAAMX when a woman cheats its more of an emotional type of cheating, both ways are wrong dont get me wrong but men and women are both to blame, not just men
thekingVA 1 year ago
@XAAMX Amazing beautiful girlfriends aren't attracted to men that won't cheat on them. They usually blow the guy off as just a "friend" when he'd make a great boyfriend. Shame on you.
kucoru16 1 year ago
@kucoru16 I never said beautiful girls are not attracted to men who don't cheat, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I was talking about guys always thinking with their dick and not their brain. Not a girl feeling differently towards a guy that likes her. Shame on me? I said "Just saying from all personal experiences" I'm not bagging on guys for no reason. It's just IRRITATING that guys constantly think with their dick and not their brain when it comes to girls. NO OFFENSE.
XAAMX 1 year ago
@XAAMX Is that a panda barfing a rainbow? Awesome.
kucoru16 1 year ago
@kucoru16 lol yes it is
XAAMX 1 year ago
@XAAMX
only born again Christian guys aren't like that.
alexavasquez1992 1 year ago
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trubelieva4life 1 year ago
My boyfriend.. is cheating on me and he called me and i didnt awnser then he puts his pic on fb as him kissing a girl and he took me off his friends and everything and idk what to do about it if anyone knows why hes cheating plz uhm help or tell me what i should do.. and on behalf of all yu girls that have been cheated on.. "there will be blood" lol. well anyways plz help cuz idk what 2 do Dx
perttygurlswaqq 1 year ago
@perttygurlswaqq apparently he doesnt wanna be with you that was his way of saying its over, he just doesn't wanna say its over he just wants you to go away. dont mean to be mean but im just tellin you how it is all you can do is move on
thekingVA 1 year ago
@thekingVA ty.. umm after a while his new gf dumped him and we talked and he said he loves me and cares for me but hes too busy right now to party with me so were going our seprate ways but i told him if he needs me ill be there... but honestly once i thought about it i realized he wasnt right for me... i mean he cared and everything but i cant be there for him all the time and neither can he... but honestly i care for him still... :3
perttygurlswaqq 1 year ago
@perttygurlswaqq understandable but you have to think since he left for another girl once he will do it again, so dont get with him again if you dont want it to happen again, don't lower yourself to saying youll be there for him, where was he when you were worried? ohh sorry he was with another girl, sticking around makes you seem desperate and he will take you for granted trust me i know ive done what he did, and the girl stuck around and all she was to me was a back up plan, dont let yourself
thekingVA 1 year ago
@perttygurlswaqq become the back up plan, severe the ties between both of you and keep moving forward. (not trying to be mean with anthing i said)
thekingVA 1 year ago
I have been hit on by married so many times.I have a theory I think cheating begins with boredom. I think lots of men try to be good to their wives at first and turn away from other women but after a while it feels like there’re turning away from something new for something old instead. Everyone likes new stuff, like kids men want new toys it's depressing for them to have the same old thing (in bed) forever. I believe it gets easier for men to cheat the longer he stays in the same relationship.
trubelieva4life 1 year ago 3
@trubelieva4life You're right, but it goes both ways. My ex fiancee cheated on me, when I did everything right as a man. I was confused for the longest time, but I always noticed how women will try to cheat on their boyfriends/husbands with me as long as I have better qualities than their current spouse. This further validates why I no longer do relationships. With friends with benefits, I get the benefits of a relationship without the heartbreak or stress. Sad world we live in now.
rickdarko 1 year ago 2
@rickdarko thats true and sad when a person has to be cautious before being open to love relationship
yADigProductions26 1 year ago
@rickdarko It's a sad world. Greed controls everything people want it all and they have the same demands for their love lives which is disastrous for relations, but despite it all it's not all doom and gloom cause once they attain “it” everything they ever wanted, they begin to realize how worthless and superficial all these things are.Then they face the deepest, darkest emptiness that can only be taken away by finding someone/ something you really love, care about and treat properly
trubelieva4life 1 year ago
@trubelieva4life communication is the problem in marriages. ppl dont talk about doing something new, creating new sex with each other, and some people werent really ready for marriage or a relationship to begin with.
yADigProductions26 1 year ago
@yADigProductions26 Communication is important but it’s not exciting or fun to explain everything all the time talking is boring and can never live up to or substitute that spontaneous sexual excitement and chemistry you feel with a new person who you share an attraction to and it doesn't help when you’re married because forbidden fruit is the sweetest. Personally, I believe true love is very rare and everybody else will cheat given the chance. Soul mates and faithfulness isn't for everybody.
trubelieva4life 1 year ago
@trubelieva4life Exactly, not everyone wants true love or one Lover. Just don't blame your wife girlfriend or boyfriend of your cheating just because talking is boring to you and you rather sleep around. some people simply MEN dont need to get in a relationship he prefers forbidden fruit. thats who needs to change. It's called being real with yourself and another. Blaming make syou look weak as to why ya make a bad choice
yADigProductions26 1 year ago
Read the book "Sex At Dawn". They explain it in such a great, simple, truthful manner. Men cheat for the same reason that women cheat.....go find out.
palerider1775 1 year ago
One word covers it: Selfishness.
pigpenthecat 1 year ago
Emotional disconnection?
So its nothing to do with testosterone levels then eh?
Lol gtfo.
This guys an idiot.
CaptainObvious607 1 year ago
Why do men cheat ? Because you girls wont give us enough lovin'!
TheDezmona 1 year ago
Wuuuuh.... HAAA HAAAA HAAAAAAAAAA !!!!! Who you think you're fooling, mr Newman?
FrankieP73 1 year ago
We are still going to "cheat". Plus we don't need emotional feedback, fuck that! Give me that pussy! Bitch! Lol!
Jack31902 1 year ago
Why are all there vids about why men cheat when a recent UK survey showed that 64% of married women cheat but just 30% of husbands cheat.
aus2045 1 year ago
IF ? MY or should I say When my husband cheats he will have For REAL an emotional problem when I am done with him lol lol lol
ALL the therapist in the world wont be able to help him lol lol lol
victorialoggia77 1 year ago
@victorialoggia77
Hey everyone look victorialoggia77 kept reloading the page so she can thump up her comments
FuckingEnforcer 1 year ago 26
@FuckingEnforcer OH is that what you do lol lol thumb up your comments?? lol lol
victorialoggia77 1 year ago
@victorialoggia77
Fail, repeating what someone has just said to you. Try again.
FuckingEnforcer 1 year ago
IF ? my, or should I say when my husband cheats he will have for real, an emotional problem when I am done with him lol lol lol
All the therapist in the world won't be able to help him lol lol LOL LOL
victorialoggia77 1 year ago
ITS EMOTIONAL DISCONNECT? ITS JUST THAT HE GOT BORED AT HOME!
ITS HIM DISCONNECTING! IF HE WAS NOT SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO THE MISSTRESS THERE WOULDN'T BE A MISSTRESS lol lol lol lol
when she is SUCKING YOUR DICK what do you call that EMOTIONAL THERAPY
lol lol lol
SO when you go to a therapist do you ask her or him to SUCK YOUR DICK lol lol
YOU PEOPLE ARE SO FULL OF SHIT IT'S ALL ABOUT LUST FOR SEX
victorialoggia77 1 year ago 2
EVERYONE LISTEN TO CREFLO DOLLAR (ON LUST)
YOU WILL GET YOUR ANSWER THERE
victorialoggia77 1 year ago 2
Men cheat because they want to. (If they didn't want to) WOULD THEY
victorialoggia77 1 year ago 4
@victorialoggia77 i agree
pOeROsesyadig 1 year ago
if my gf stops putting out im gonna cheat thats all thier is to it
lordmorgarath1 1 year ago
My serial cheating completely ruined my marriage. I couldn't help myself. My neighbor's sheep were just so damn sexy.
NukeDarfur 1 year ago 2
Here's a better question: Why do people cheat instead of ending their relationships?
shyviolet11 1 year ago
I cheat in Monopoly all the time. My family doesn't allow me to be banker anymore because I cheated. I cheat because it is fun and if you are successful it can be rewarding, I think i won about 10 monopoly games before getting caught.
SeanConnery69 1 year ago 4
It's usually the really ugly bitches who complain about men.... :P lol
pretearking 1 year ago
hmm, why do bitches cheat?
dreicemoney 1 year ago
@dreicemoney, Exactly dreicemoney. When women cheat the "bag o' excuses" gets wheeled out...........
"He's a dog"
"She was looking for love that her husband wasn't giving her"
"She has low self esteem"
When a man cheats, we don't get to use any excuses, this stupid show notwithstanding.
dave4248 1 year ago
@dave4248
JESUS CHRIST, I COULDN'T OF SAID IT BETTER MYSELF. Not to mention the "I was drunk" excuse, seriously I'm not saying cheating is good but why demonize men when women cheat as well?
FuckingEnforcer 1 year ago
OK PEOPLE don't listen to this emotional excuse
AAAHHHH its the emotional bull shit line So what does their dick have to do with their emotions. when you need emotional help why are you taking your DICK OUT YOUR PANTS are you telling me your DICK has an emotional problem to lol lol
Their DICK has the problem it wants pussy IT IS NOT about their emotions this is all
about DICK and the need of the DICK to feel good lol lol lol
victorialoggia77 1 year ago
fidelity does not exist and for those who preach the bible even in genesis it says who did what with who while they where married.stop bickering about dumb shit you don' trust your significant other then leave.stay single stop crying.
burns559 1 year ago
Hold it! Wtf! Sexual Infrequency! How long do men think that women suppose to have sex? Ain't no man in this world is going to tare down my body like that! What the so call expert don't know in this case is that a woman can have fibroids due to having to much sex. Ladies, we are not at the demands of these men! Men need to learn how to get a life!
Sweetlovingkind 1 year ago
@Sweetlovingkind "Men need to learn to get a life"
Ok, what does "getting a life" have to do with your point? you sound like one of those women who acts as though women are the only ones in the world who are suffering from pain... I bet you enjoy seeing men screw up, that way, you can justify your hatred hear on YT! Why don't YOU get a life, little girl?
pretearking 1 year ago
More sex at home less cheating from your man .
twin29210 1 year ago
@twin29210 lol lol lol not true in all cases they just do it for something different
victorialoggia77 1 year ago
So basically Matt's accident knocked sense into him.
backspins24 1 year ago
Oh please !! Plain and simple
Because it's nature. Males are designed to mate as much as possible before a bigger creature comes and eat them. Even though we live in a 'civilized' society (supposedly), one part of us still wild.
If it was not like that, we would be extinct. Females can reproduce every 9 months, men every 9 hours (or less)
It's nature because like it or not Christians, we are all animals and as far as our instinct go we need to reproduce as much as possible
mcline007 1 year ago
What the real problem is is that women have to read books and look online for relationship advice instead of just asking their boyfriend/husband what he thinks and wants.
lJohnnyTheFoxl 1 year ago
@lJohnnyTheFoxl boyfriends and husbands hate questions they moan and groan when asked a question that might require some mental work
victorialoggia77 1 year ago
@victorialoggia77
Holy jesus sweetie, you sound like a lunatic and for a good reason perhaps. I'm guessing you either were cheated on before and/or your friends were cheated on. Whatever the case is, know that not every guy is the same just like every girl isn't the same
woodyfly 1 year ago
He said that it wasn't about sex and 88% of the men said that the mistress wasn't better looking than the wife. What does that have to do with it? Why didn't he just say what percentage of men said it was about sex?
FalseShadowx 1 year ago
@FalseShadowx lol lol lol IT'S ALL ABOUT SEX DON'T YOU SEE THIS MAN IS JUST COVERING THINGS UP FOR MEN AND NOT TELLING THE TRUTH JUST TO MAKE US LITTLE WOMEN FEEL BETTER lol lol lol
They do it because they want to thats it
victorialoggia77 1 year ago
what about the wife. poor woman has so much stress looking after the household, their health and all the man can think about is whether he can get his dick in any hole. fuck that. i have no time for cheating men. they cheat as much as they like but for the wife there is someone out there much much better.
MrPointyarrow 1 year ago
That was a great segment. There are several factors. Listen to it a couple times.
In particular, the culture of cheating is a high contributor. Men stuck in this culture either have to choose to cheat and be socially accepted OR not to cheat and be socially ostracized.
I chose the later and it is REALLY hard.
Further, the higher up you go, the greater the culture of cheating...in fact, you are *expected* to both be married and to cheat...it's a sign of control (on many levels).
TheGoalSetter 1 year ago
why do mean cheat?
lol why do WOMEN cheat. almost every RECENT survey shows that women cheat more than men.
and on top of that; recent studies by a canadian government institute and wakeforrest university show that men take break ups harder than women because of how men are socialized in western society.
so men are getting screwed over more than women and women cheat more often than men.
so this video is so stupid. make a video of why WOMEN cheat. stupid.
jthoov 1 year ago
@jthoov I AGREE women have caught up to men when it comes to cheating
i have heard women say if you can't beat them join them & what's good for the goose is good for the gander lol lol lol women are just tired of men cheating so they have decided to join the party. BUT NOT ME I believe in loyalty and morality, dignity and respect. Something this world has lost through the years
victorialoggia77 1 year ago
@victorialoggia77
As a male, I'll tell you this. In my case, what mr neuman said is true for me. I've been with my gf for 5 years and I haven't been even temped to cheat.
I've never been temped to cheat because like neuman said, A) I'm emotionally connected with my gf. B) We have sex frequently C) My friends are not cheaters. There's been many occasions where girls were interested in me at parties (for sex) and nothing happened. Now If the top 2 rules were different, I'd be tempted for sure
woodyfly 1 year ago
Women cheat twice as much as men, but they are three times as good at not getting caught.
spanxchix 1 year ago 3
@spanxchix Not that it's a good thing dumbass...
pretearking 1 year ago
ive cheated, more than once, i dont now, and im still married, but i have a list of reasons. first my wife was all over me all the time, a few years later it became, " I have a head ache, im tired". different reason every night. then she always had to start an argument. also when she had the chance to share some free time with me, she did not, she was always stuck in a book and things like that. outside the home i had women flirting with me, and i went for it.
RockandMetalforlife 1 year ago
@RockandMetalforlife I think it's great that you used your experience and made an honest contribution to the topic with it. I hope your relationship is doing better now.
FalseShadowx 1 year ago
@FalseShadowx Thanks, like i was saying its simple, if a woman is all over a man all the time early on, it becomes something some men expect. but in time when a woman starts to push a man off to the side or turn him down, it really makes men wonder whats going on, and feel upset, it can make them go for other women that make moves on them, Plus the fact that a man gets put last even behind hobbies, dosent help. Then all this starts an argument, its some reasons a man cheats, its why i did.
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victorialoggia77 1 year ago
@iamalex818 thank you for being brave enough to share Explain so that means you don't have sex.
so if you need emotional comforting only go to mommy
victorialoggia77 1 year ago