Men don't understand that BPD is an attachment disorder which makes their abusive spouse abusive, destructive and entitled. BPD may be somewhat the opposite of the other attachment disorder RAD but with some similar self destructive behaviors which still destroy all around them too. It is PC to blame the man for her bad behavior with BPD. How could a woman ever be to blame??? Most counsellors agree with that garbage.
@addvoc8 I seriously dated a Borderline Personality Disordered female and its pretty hard not to put blame on the woman when you word something wrong and all she hears is "I dont love you I hate you never come back" and the next day she is fine again. Push/pull hot/cold fear of abandonment and righteously indignant attitudes all are involved when you are involved with a developmentally challenged woman. Guys can be equally insane as well, really puts the strain on us codependant narcissists. lol
Men don't understand that BPD is an attachment disorder which makes their abusive spouse abusive, destructive and entitled. BPD may be somewhat the opposite of the other attachment disorder RAD but with some similar self destructive behaviors which still destroy all around them too. It is PC to blame the man for her bad behavior with BPD. How could a woman ever be to blame??? Most counsellors agree with that garbage.
Double standards are the worst abuse of all...
addvoc8 1 year ago
@addvoc8 I seriously dated a Borderline Personality Disordered female and its pretty hard not to put blame on the woman when you word something wrong and all she hears is "I dont love you I hate you never come back" and the next day she is fine again. Push/pull hot/cold fear of abandonment and righteously indignant attitudes all are involved when you are involved with a developmentally challenged woman. Guys can be equally insane as well, really puts the strain on us codependant narcissists. lol
Trox118 1 year ago