Mystery on Pre-Selection and The Three Second Rule.mp4

[Sojujinn]

If you take care of hygiene, look clean, and dress fashionably and/or business like... It will get you in the door. Women don't like bum looking or unclean looking dudes approaching them.

From there, more simple and easier to remember methods based off Kino Escalation and where your verbal game is complimenting your physical approach

After that, its about having the balls to approach lots of women, and not caring about rejection or needing her approval or validation of your worth.

[Sojujinn]

Where I disagree with Mystery, is about getting bogged down into reacting or being pulled into female games.

The better methods are:

. Kino Escalation ladder

. NLP Anchoring techniques (which works great with escalating Kino)

. Verbal Sexual Escalation

This is different from many other methods, where you talk about sexual topics and stories in a seemingly innocent / indirect manner. Not about you and her having sex, or anything graphic, but to implant sexual images into her mind.

[Sojujinn]

What you can disagree with a PUA is the particular method on how to get what you want from women. However your method would be just your theory or opinion, if you though it deeply enough or really had one. I don't agree with every aspect of Mystery theories either. However, you need to SEPARATE THE FACTS about what women ARE DOING, versus YOUR METHOD or THEORY on how to deal with women and/or get what you want from them.

[ZachRose88]

Hahaha so true; "We live in a paradise." There's so much pussy out there it doesn't matter if you fail anymore. Or succeed for that matter; just move on to the next.

[TheAlfredhitchcock]

mystery? that's phil from the mailroom.

[myfavoritejuice]

clever

[rosskay]

He is trying to reverse the natural dynamic of masculinity/femininity. He is playing on the fears that men have of being rejected by women- to further alienate them, and to try this crap. Most men are also looking for good commitments, and this will create drama, if it turns out they stick to one of the women they got to "chase" after them. For the love of satisfying relationships, courtship, and anything decent with a woman- do NOT listen to this dick!

[hokaiyen]

@rosskay fuck u bitch... like u can get girls any better

[rosskay]

@hokaiyen lol, well if I was into girls and really wanted to, I'm pretty sure I can ;p

[romeocasanova90]

@rosskay fuck you. nature is nature. knowing how human beings work is a decision we decide to make or not. which ultimately is whats right. to understand how we fuckign work how we make decisions how attraction is triggered. if you want to keep believing in fucking fairy tale love and your stupid ass comitment thats your problem. you are not gettin laid. you are not a venusian artist. and you are the one at the club looking like a dumbass with your drunkass friends with no girls by your arms ;)

[rosskay]

@romeocasanova90 lol, fuck you for making so many assumoptions- you are right! I am NOT The one looking like a dumbass with no chicks, lol.

[rosskay]

@romeocasanova90 dumbass I'm not even a guy, or into girls.

[Sojujinn]

@rosskay

The only women that would get upset at Mystery, are women that are scamming, cheating on, or playing guys for suckers. These women want men to have limited options, so they can abuse and manipulate those men with sex. They fear men having other options with women and knowing how to get it.

Furthermore, look at women do. The make up, sexy clothes, push up bras, plastic surgery, flirting, teasing, women's advice to each other, the articles about men for women...

Stop male bashing!

[rosskay]

@Sojujinn male bashing? the fact that this actually hurts guys? most guys using these methods want to have decent relationships with women, short term or long term. This "'methods" are just using triggers to get people to react to you a certain way, but will nto set up a foundation fo ra decent relationship, in fact: it was cause DRAMA and problems for those who do end up making long term relationships out of this. 

[Sojujinn]

@rosskay

You don't know what you are talking about. Mystery is making observation about human nature. The GAME between men and women ALREADY existed before Mystery or any PUA came on the scene.

Mystery is simply enlightening men on how women play their games, so that men can have more OPTIONS and date more women.

Having more options arguably makes for better long term relationships, because you get what you want or are clear about what you want.

[mrjedidja]

@Sojujinn Mystery, just like any other self-proclaimed PUA, doesn't teach "proper dating", he's teaching "seduction" and how to pick up girls at clubs or during the day, just so you can get laid. There is considerable difference between the two - the first one is the simple, realistic one which deals with love compatibility first and foremost, whereas the second one is the complicated sex and fantasy driven one. Normal people date a lot, because dating is quite simple.

[ymrhawk]

@mrjedidja

There is no such thing as "proper dating". You either like/love a person are you don't. That person will either like/love you are they don't. Love compatibility? This is a women's idea based on romance novels.

[mrjedidja]

@ymrhawk Dude, you gotta be kidding me to say that there is no proper dating. People date people on a daily basis. Seriously. Yes, people like each other, but they have to test it out first, hence, dating. What's so confusing about it? The fact that its sugar-coated in novels and films?

[mrjedidja]

@Sojujinn What PUA community promotes is a fantasy-driven lifestyle where you get rewarded for getting laid as much as possible. There is no reward whatsoever for finding true love and, in fact, you might be punished for it in case you find it withing first few dates. This sort of lifestyle, unfortunately, appeals to horny lonely men who have never kissed a girl, cause, you know, being a sucker can be cured only by becoming a "master".

[ymrhawk]

@mrjedidja

This is no different than a lonely spinster who lives with 2 cats and watches romantic comedies all day thinking that what she sees is reality. Its either True Love or death to this person and it doesn't make her any more happier than the person who just wants sex. If a person wants to get laid as much as possible then that is their choice. If a person want to look for true love than that is their choice. There is plenty of time for both.

[mrjedidja]

@ymrhawk II'm saying that PUA doesn't care about relationships. I'm not saying that lonely spinster lifestyle is better than PUA lifestyle. But I do think that you don't need PUA crap to be social/happy person even if you are lonely spinster.

[Sojujinn]

@mrjedidja

Actually the phenomenon that Mystery is referring to, female Pre-Selection, is totally valid. Women will make a quick 10 second or so judgment about your value, social status, and if they would have sex with you or not (Yes, No, Maybe).

Simply ask women would you date or have sex with those guys, and they can break most of them down very rapidly into Yes, No, or Maybe. That is all about Pre-Selection.

[mrjedidja]

@Sojujinn If you say so then I guess it must be valid. Problem is, it isn't proven, so it's pretty much just wishful thinking at this point. The test you mention is bogus.

[gpolenik]

@rosskay nah this just shows you how to attract her and seduce her. Plus game is only about 50% when you're playing the field the other half is normal conversation. This is just to get around the bitch shield.

[oojamaflipper]

lolololol!

[danghhuynh]

those are just his mannerisms and speaking patterns. if its bs then dont waste your time watching the videos. this is the way he looks at the world. this is his model of natural phenomena. it works for him and for thousands of other people

[MadMatt86]

Ok this is a serious comment, but there are moments in this video where I think Mystery is HIGH!? His body language, eyes, speech... choice of words, and confusion (sometimes), it just doesn't seem like he is totally with it?

These are good videos, but there is a lot of guff and bs

[rosskay]

yes