Black women have treated me like shit but now that I date interracially they get mad at me.
I love all races but black women have givin me the most problems.At the end of the day I just want to be happy.Black women aren't that appealing to me in so many ways.There are good black women out there I just haven't found one.
I find it utterly APPALLING that there are Black woman that refuse to learn...it's like what the hell...the comments coming from men and women alike...forget those broads, gentlemen...they just don't get picked. And they can settle down with their ray ray or pookie because on point men aren't picking them.
@krenae for you to condone broads that are speaking for you speaks volumes. All that means is that you found a simp. Every black woman worth dealing with speaks against the fuckery...but you along with your harpy counterparts support total chaos...bitter is what I was when trying to figure out what it is about black women that made them so fucked up. Now I'm just indifferent. I'm not picking them. Neither is any other sensible man with resources.
BW R not jealous of "other" groups of women. That is something that BM say to offer comfort. 2nd, when u see a BM with the "other" don`t believe that he chose her because she is better. These guys r often rejected by BW hence he decides to date outside. It annoys me when BM bash BW to the "other". This does nothing but make her feel more superior than she already did n the first place. BM, if ur happy N ur relationship, Then be that but, keep the sistas out of it.
Most young black women don't even QUALIFY as date material. They THINK they are, but they're NOT. they'll find this out when they are old bitter and lonely...
@LongLoxx82 You sound extremely bitter yourself. I really doubt you would know about MOST black women, being that you 1. Don't date them or 2. Black women hate YOU. So how would you know if Black women are dateable. You sound miserable. AND yes, I am Black, beautiful, smart and married & I a lot of my Black friends are in the same category..smh.
I was in a store and there was a young black couple they were talking and messing around he said I am gonna get a white girl they both started laughing. This BW runs from the back of the store hollering and screaming and starts cussing out this young guy(BTW-17-20) for wanting to date WW.They both looked at her like she was crazy.
i dont mean to sound like a jerk but she's just gonna have to get over those little stares she be getting from BW. How many BM have been disliked by Asian, hispanic, and white parents for dating their daughters just because they're black? Now that's a real issue....but this was another great video tho btw
Just me sayin' but I think A LOT of Black women are in denial with this topic. Online and on other media sources they claim they don't care or aren't bothered. My question is why do their actions seem to never match up with what they say? I'm a Black guy and I dated a Hispanic, Asian and White women back when I lived in Dallas. We too got HATEFUL stares and endured abusive behavior from the BW in our area. One tried to push a shopping cart forcefully into my gf when we were in a store together.
@rang3r34 Oh please you got more abusive behavior from the parents of the women that you were dating than black women. Please stop trying to convince people that your important.
@Astutechick I am NOT trying to convince anyone of anything. These are events that actually happened to me and the woman I was dating. If it's not because of our relationship what is it? When I went out alone this never happened, only when I was out with my non-Black gf. Stop trying to make an excuse for these women's obvious insecurity.
@rang3r34 Black men do the same exact thing and noone says crap about it. Black men don't even look my way when I'm by myself, but as soon as they see me with my fiance, who happens to be Korean American, all heads randomly start turning.
Oh boy. I'm sure there are some haters out there that don't like this White female dating this Black dude, but for the most part, I really don't think people care. I sure as hell don't. As someone who dates inter-racially myself, I actually have been heckled ad harassed by other people (my own kind, in fact) because of the man I'm with. I don't let it bother me, because frankly, it's none of their business who I choose to date. But I agree with JuneBug; just ignore them and live your life!
9:05 - 10:15 LMAO. In school I hung out with this girl, and everyone thought we were going out. They'd always ask. "You two sure your not datin?" and she'd shout, "My boyfriends Koren! God."
I dont date outside my race... ..I am mix hispanic and black and close to my black side... So that make me black .....I only date black men only...And will never never never date a white man... To me... They just look nasty . Every black sister i know... Dont care who dating who.... I think alot of all have it wrong... I Think every black sister is (NOT) hating on blackmen dating outside his race!!!
girl please get over yourself bye girl fly girl...this sounds like some small town mess that only the "local yokels" deal with. Never once did this chick how these brother have it going on (career, school, money, good guy) and maybe I could see why. Sounds like payback to the sistas who have nothing better going on...after he gets his feel he will move right on like the rest of them...Keep the vids coming baby T Leykis!!!!!
Should we all be talking about something important, like the collapse of the economy and lack of jobs to support oneself or family? I think we all should ask why over 50,000 manufacturing jobs went to china
@RobertChavis There are many websites, message boards, news broadcasts, etc. where the economy and other important topics are being discussed. I agree that these topics should be discussed but I don't agree that we ALL should be addressing them. I think that the people who are knowledgeable about these topics and have viable solutions are the ones who should be talking about it and the rest of the crowd should be listening.
@650Pisces Chick please stop trying to convince people that your desirable. The real reason why your dating black men is because quality white men don’t want you. Girl be honest!!
@Astutechick haha NEWSFLASH IM NOT WHITE! and i dont mind dating any other race. and ive already dated white , arabic, hispanic . it just so happens that the person im with now is black thats all
@650Pisces Again, the reason you dating a black man is because you are undesirable to the men within your race. BW cannot be jealous of you. Did you take a look at your avi pic? I’m guessing you haven’t. Please stop trying to convince people that you are important. Hoe sit down!!
@Astutechick wtf how am i a hoe? sorry im not having sex like u ..besides im latina ive dated latino men..i dont have anything against other races i actually admire their culture more than anything ..and when i mean jealous i didnt mean about my looks dumbass i meant about a GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP !!!!
@650Pisces Yawn!!!! And your still trying to convince me that you are desirable and important SMDH!! When will these silly chicks learn! Latino men don’t want you thats why your with a black guy. How do I know this? Well because of your avi picture. Your not cute!!
@650Pisces Girl stop projecting your feeling onto others. Its not my fault that you are unattractive and hispanic men don’t want to date you. That is something that you need to work out with them or yourself. Please go seek therapy.
@Astutechick O PLEASE STOP BEING SOO INSECURE!!!!! i can see you dont love yourself enough to respect others haha YOUR IN DENIAL!!!!!!! thats why no one can love you ..TOO MUCH DRAMA AND MAKING UP SHIT THAT I NEVER SAID OR MEANT!!!! your taking things out of proportion !!!
@650Pisces Yawn!! More projection. Please don’t blame me that you were born less attractive which is why a latino/white man wouldn’t date you. You need to blame your mom jajajajajaja At this point you need to be thinking about how to lose weight, wear proper makeup, take better pictures, and be more attractive. Get off the internet and work on yourself thats the only thing that I can tell you.
JuneBugObama, let's keep it real my brotha, we both know that this issue has no solution. Reason being, women hate women! The competition amongst them is just straight up obnoxious. What's crazy is that the black women who will deride a brotha for dating a white woman, wouldn't give that man a date. In all honesty, I feel us black men need to step back. These females love conflict. Its ridiculous!
A few things that disturbed me about this vid was:
a) You know damned well that those (and the majority) Black Women were staring that that BM and AW all nasty. By this point in 2011, BW make it no secret that they let thereselves be "known" to whomever.....
b) A man SHOULD flaunt his woman (of any race) anywhere he damn well pleases. That was a funny example u did, but it's not that dramatic. U can just go to lunch w/ a WW co-worker and BW will feel insecure. Why dance around them?
I agree with JuneBug, most people in this day and age don't even care about interracial relationships, let alone react negatively to them in public. Its an ingrained stereotype. And a lot of these women and men are projecting, and assume Black women care when they don't. I think it makes them feel more special then they really are. ( speaking from personal experience )
Why is there always so much interracial videos by black people nowadays? I'm not hating on this one in particular but it seems we have become overly obsessed with dating IR. I mean dang you can hardly find anything positive about black men and black women being together and that just plain messed up. BTW I'm not necessarily against dating IR if that's your thing, I just hate how there so much bashing going on in the community.
@fmcneillii This is the result of 30 years of black women dogging men out. I think the men finally got tired and jumped the fence. Black women try to compete by going after white men but..... You can't compete with someone that gave up already.
@mktking I said I wasn't hating on this particular video but that I hate how bashing the opposite gender in the community has become an epidemic. Learn how to read things in context.
I think people need to get a hidden video camera and record on how women act behind doors. People act like this doesn't happen. When I go out on dates I don't look for people staring at me. Like I told one poster it really depends on how attractive the women who you with also. If she is black but look like Alicia Keys watch out !
You are getting looks from both blacks and non-blacks. I don't know why black women are being targeted...People have more things to worry about in their lives than some stupid couple walking down the street. I am worrying keeping my job in this economy, the expense of living, and college. Why would I worry about some interracial couple?
@89rnicole I am a Black man and I do agree with you honey folks get looks from Blacks and non-Blacks not just us hell I have dated White Women before and have got looks, & comments, that were not good from White guys so it goes both ways I do agree babygirl.
I am currently dating outside my race. I'm with a white woman..... I get dirty looks from maybe 1/15 older black women and 1/20 younger black women. I kinda look at them and say to myself "I'm here with a white chick.....so fuckin what?!" I don't have a racial preference and I think ALL women have something unique,beautiful, and sexy about them. I've dated blacks, whites, and latinas. Ignoring hateful people is the best solution.
i dont think most bw really care if bm date ir. but complaining about it has become such an ingrained part of their culture and such a key component of their identity that they feel compelled to pretend to be offended just to keep up appearances.
i mean what sane adult actually stops and stares at ir couples? seriously. stopping and staring? it's not as if they're midgets or they have elephantitis. there is nothing stare-worthy about ir couples. grow up, motherfuckers.
UM NOT GOING TO FALL FOR THAT DUMB SHIT ABOUT INTERRACIAL COUPLES..........IF ANYBODY WANTS SOMEBODY DAT IS PURPLE GREEN OR BLUE..... SO BE IT JUS LIKE THE AFRO QWEEN SAID....GOD MADE EVERYBODY AND HE DID IT WITHOUT RACE MIXING RULES....ITS ANIMALS THAT CANT BE MIXED AND WE ARE NOT ANIMALS...
people's attitude towards others as far as dating other race is a deep psychological thing,prejudice,racism,low self esteem, envy..the worst part is that alot of them go out of their way to make it their problem or their business to interfere
her boyfriend is right: ignore them. when i encounter those people, I start necking my wife. Shes Japanese, Im Jamaican. shes yellow Im black, shes mongoloid, im a negro.
@EritranPrincess No, Negro. Like Caucasian and Mongoloid, Negro is a racial term. Black describes the skin color of the Negro. Yeh, i know its not pc,but until those in academia come with a racial term to replace Negro, then I will continue using it whenever the discussion is about race and interracial activities.
Man Junebug, don't get that asian girl beat up for talking trash!! lol. Naw, I know you were playing, but people are gonna hate on you for everything: the way you walk, talk dress, spend money, the car you drive, and the /men/women you talk to will all be scrutinized. Some folks are just miserable, and you know what they say about misery. So for 2011 and beyond people, just do what makes you happy. If nobody likes it, they can go to hell sez I...
Just met a nice Mexican girl yesterday. After being divorced from a black woman after three years I really don't care what anyone thinks. If she treats me right I'm going for it!!! BTW I am a black man.
Fun video I thought this was going to be about a black man dating a white chick and getting looks. I really don't see why this woman is concerned with this stuff she's an adult why does she care what anyone else thinks?
I am really tired of hearing about this topic. Sometimes I feel as though these non-bw are just looking for attention and they are making things bigger than what they really are. It seems some of these women just want black women to be jealous of their relationships. Just get over it. I dont even think this stuff is as seriosu as people are making it out to be. Most bw really dont care.
Really what about the hundreds of videos by black women stating white women and non-black women are jealous of their white boyfriend/husbands. I can honestly say that here in Atlanta me and my husband get a lot of hateful stares from black women, most who are overweight.
@ErikandAndreea If that id indeed you and your husband in those videos on your page than I am absolutely 100% percent positive that no one gave you guys hateful stares. Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror or your husband? You both are clearly unattractive.. just saying:)
One thing you didn't touch on, is how some black women seem to hate and/or envy white women for no reason. I'm a white woman and it's happened to me. They don't know me but they will push me as they walk by on the train or whatnot. I've come to the conclusion that it's because I know white men usually won't date black women and black men will sometimes prefer white women over black women so they envy the white girls. Understandable, but I didn't choose to be white.
hate to burst your bubble and release you from your delusional superiority complex..but.... but unfortunately contrary to the beliefs of white supremacists i feel indifferent about white girls, so get your self esteem else where
a lot of people get pushed in the train station. i get pushed men and women of all races. so maybe they were trying to get to their destination instead of waiting for you by the train to seek their revenge because you date inter-racially.
Respond to this video... no we dont want white men so them not liking us is cool. as much you lot think everyone attracted to you, envy's and worships the ground you walk on. sadly this is not the case
i hope you meet a good black man who loves you helps you realize that the world revolves around you
good thing you cant help being white, i bet you cant help being a narcissist either
@aylix89 what's with the attitude there? I was simply commenting on how black women seem to be rude to me without knowing me. You've obviously got a chip on your shoulder.
I know you arent condoning the notion JuneBug and I feel you on the exaggeration. No man of any race announces his female companion in public place....
What is the difference between flaunting a non-black woman and flaunting a black woman? Do you hold your head up higher, roll eyes, etc? The insecurity is apparent in the verbiage used as "flaunting".
LOL to just look at an interracial couple and be mad 'cause they're not the same race that's just pathetic hahaha sounds like these people need to get a life.
I say, let them see what some of these brothers will put them through. I think some bm find white women simple and easy to pull the wool over their eyes. In a few years, watch the number of AIDS cases jump among white women. I see some sisters who need to be slap to death as well as white women. Yeah, we have slim pickens in the black community. But I would rather go it solo, then to get a beat down, cheated on, HIV, or God forbid, killed. So you can have them, take them an don't return them
I am almost certain that these non-bw that date bm are somewhat insecure when they see beautiful bw. I've seen this shit!! They are the one with the issues and they try to flip it on us.I get to find out that these bm and non-bw are the ones that stare hope to get a re-action from us, in other words they are trying to see if we are jealous). I always think us bw has inferiority complex until I start interacting with these non-bw. They are the ones who r insecure!
this is nothing new when i was in highschool i remember that a white girl got jumped and stumped in the floor by a group of black girls cause she was with a black guy .
@JoJoStar22 I total agree with you. Black women stare at me at restaurants for long periods because I'm with a pretty Light skin women. If I'm with a white women they stare at me and won't blink if a I look right back at them. White women would just look at me too. They check me out more of a flirt way if I'm with a white women. If a man is with an attractive women he is going to get looks from other women. So it doesn't matter if I'm with a black women or white.
@JoJoStar22 I 100% co-sign with you on that! I'm a light skinned black female and I've caught stares from dark skinned black women when I'm with my fiance, who happens to be Korean.
Race matters. And people, even 2011, still think of Blacks as savages and most people despite what they say have a problem with interracial relationships. Blacks get mad at Blacks who date white mainly because the White man has been the Black man's enemy since the beginning of time we have never lived in harmony. So you are looked upon as a sell out because more than likely the White person, or Asian person is using the Black person as a sex slave and little else.
That was good advice you gave her. I’m also curious to know if she isn’t the one making a point to let everyone in the place to know that she is with a BLACK MAN! There have been a few times that I caught the women eyeballing me. I usually just give a pleasant smile and keep going my marry way.
That's one point. There are people in IR relationships who try to boast and put it in peoples' faces. They want attention and then want to complain later.
I feel black women aren't that much different than black men. Let's be honest if you are in their shoes and you knew the psychological conditioning of your people by a perceived threat that you were brought up to realize (The white people). Wouldn't you be angry that those very peoples women had your best of men. You'd probably feel hurt, betrayed and confused. So I understand what some black women feel. I feel they should just do them and gain self- knowledge and wisdom about their culture
@emmettmays85 Like I said in the post that you read, based on the knowledge and wisdom of those particular women afflicted by the condition of black people in this country to them, they probably see good BM dating outside of their race as being fickle. That what I meant...
cont. I feel that a proportion of black women may have an inferiority complex left upon due to the conditioning of black people in American society. Put yourself in the shoes of these particular women. They feel left out and undesired, they don't feel there is a level playing field. Yes everyone needs to take responsibility for their own life. But, for those who don't have the proper wisdom and psychological foundation due to whatever circumstances this is the case. continued..
I am a BM and don't see anything wrong with interracial dating. However, I do feel like there are a lot of negative BW out there that drive black men away. I also believe that there are genuine men who want to taste the rainbow such as myself.But, I do understand that this can create jealousy. While I do see where Junebug is coming from in regards to dealing with haters. I don't think a big preponderance of black women particularly care about interracial dating.
I feel black women aren't that much different than black men. Let's be honest if you are in there shoes and you knew the psychological conditioning your people by a perceived threat that you were brought up to realize (The white people). Wouldn't you be angry that those very peoples women had your best of men. You probably feel hurt betrayed and confused. So I understand what some black women feel. I feel they should just do them and gain self- knowledge and wisdom about their culture so that..
some black women may feel that waye.g. betrayed. however i cant because i have never seen black men as "mine" so women of other races cant take them from me. sometimes i think the ones who get mad at interracial couples are actually mad the they are single coz i know if they had a man they wouldnt even notice, too busy be minding their own business
@aylix89 I see where you are coming from about a black women being single. That is true, but I also think it depends on the context. You either have an inferiority complex or you don't. The question is why...? That was some of my point. That is good that you don't see them as property though.
@shawnwolf maybe coz a lot of people say black woman unattractive & have bad attitudes & as a result men see us of being less valuable.but when a black man has that mentality it can be insulting as if your own race isnt good enough for you & it would sting if you saw this man praise and treat a woman of another race better than he did to you. just a guess,i honestly dont know why you think some have an inferiority complex?personally i have enough problems to be focusing on someone else's life
@aylix89 I really don't see where you coming from on this one, If you read my other comments you would have saw that I gave kind of the exact same answer you already gave... (That's what I meant by the CONDITIONING of our people) It's not necessarily my opinion that a proportion of our women have an inferiority complex. Are you suggesting that I shouldn't care to understand the affairs of our own people..? If you are then you lack understanding of the big picture here...
@shawnwolf dude calm the fuck down. i didnt read every single comment posted . you asked me a question i dont know the exact answer so i made a guess based on this video and other youtube vids i have seen which slightly relate to your question. so no i dont get the bigger picture! asshole!!!
@aylix89 WOW, wasn't expecting that from you. I don't know who the fuck you think you are talking to like that, but I'm not the one. I also don't know why you thought I was angry. You obviously don't know any better so I won't waste any more of my time with you. BTW I'd rather be an asshole than an ignoramus like you. Seek knowledge then talk to me.
@aylix89 I SO agree with you! Of course, I wasn't there when this happened to this woman (the one seeking advice), but knowing how Black women think and act (being one myself) -- ESPECIALLY when they're in a group -- I'm apt to believe they behaved exactly how the woman described them. I wonder what their reaction would have been had the couple been a Black woman with an Asian man.
I do not see the point of this letter. Such a waste of time. If she is a grown woman, the ONLY option she has and will ever have is to just ignore these people. Simple! People will always have something to say. I am tired of this crap. Date whoever you want! The majority of BW do not care! I really do not care, it is YOUR life! Do what YOU want and stop watching other people. She sounds arrogant to me, like she thinks she is special or something because she has a BM. Anyway...
I agree. She should just ignore the ignorance!! Doesn't sound arrogant to me though, she's just speaking on the haterade she experiences. I've also noticed that it seems that individual black women don't care when they see an interracial couple, but put those same women in a group of women and their reaction to that couple becomes more aggressive as the emailer described. It's like a mob mentality.
cont. I feel that a proportion of black women may have an inferiority complex left upon due to the conditioning of black people in American society. Put yourself in the shoes of these particular women. They feel left out and undesired, they don't feel there is a level playing field. Yes everyone needs to take responsibility for their own life. But, for those who don't have the proper wisdom and psychological foundation due to whatever circumstances this is the case. continued..
I am a BM and don't see anything wrong with interracial dating. However, I do feel like there are a lot of negative BW out there that drive black men away. I also believe that there are genuine men who want to taste the rainbow such as myself.But, I do understand that creates jealousy. While I do see where Junebug is coming from in regards to dealing with haters. I don't think a big preponderance of black women particularly care about interracial dating.
Junebug, why is that only AA females within all of Black people in diaspora have this bloody arrogant attitude and MINDSET that the AA man belongs to them? Yet, they claim to be so STRONG and don't need no MAN, but have a fit when they see him with BECKY, MING-SUE or Ulricha?
Had she (as an asian woman) seen any asian males around, she would have noticed the same dirty looks from them that would have mirrored the Black women for damn sure. White people have learned to keep their dirty looks to themselves (for the most part) and keep it concealed like their racism. I stand behind the assertion that the white male, asian male and Black female are tag teamers.
I agree with you Junebug & the boyfriend about just ignoring them. The lady who wrote the email should just walk by them and keep looking straight ahead like their invisible if they're throwing shade. Like the law 36 from the 48 laws of power: Ignoring them is the best Revenge. When people see that your not fazed by their childish, immature antics you leave them powerless.
@IONENABILLION Lol I like that 36th Law...and I didn't even know it was in the book(looks like I need to buy a new book this spring). Thats always been a strategy of mine. Don't feed the trolls. Trolls feed on the negativity and if you starve them they'll go somewhere else to feed.
People love to hate. Not to mention a lot of them act like we still live in the 50's. I can't believe that interracial dating is still problem. I especially see it in within the black community. Luckily, my family raised me better than that (black/Mexican). Those woman that she encounters are simply jealous.
Amazing post my Brother Wise~ I agree, I'm neutral date who you wish it's not up to me, MY preference is MY BEAUTIFUL BROTHERS(I married one) & if a Brother wants a white woman - so be it- I get the dirty looks from the white chicks with the Brothers as if they are waiting for me to say or do something; when they are the last thing I'm paying attention to- WEIRD- I catch white women WITH a bm GLARING @ me, go figure- DO YOU BOO :D
I can understand why. Based on past experiences, they're probably assuming that you'll have a problem with it because you're a black woman. But that's still no excuse because it's wrong to make assumptions.
@kuunami from a ww point of view I can understand why too, however Im minding my gotdam business, WITH MY CHILDREN AND HUSBAND- why keep glaring @ ME- ww don't want us to take slavery out on them so why are they taking their past exp. w/ OTHER bw out on ME & I don't care - my personal choice was/is a black MAN, so go pick a fight/staring contest with another bw who gives a shit- I've been walking with my black man 10x longer than most of these ww who are chasing them now- why should I care
I understand how you feel. If the jealous women who do have a problem with it would mind their own business, real women like you who actually have common sense wouldn't have to deal with people assuming that you're a hater. I can understand how this would be annoying because I used to encounter the same thing from a WM/BW couple in a park that I used to jog in every time I saw them there. This was a few years ago when I lived down south in Atlanta with my brother.
@kuunami I'm concerned about the state of my people's mind and their self dignity and healing- I'm not concerned about if a bm wants a bw- I am not trying to impose my personal feelings on any bm, & just bc they don't choose a bw doesn't mean I'm automatically jealous just bc I'm a bw- I chose bm, I feel I'm better suited for a bm,that's ME- ww need to get a grip,clearly they are the one's with issues, they are innovators of self- insecurities IMO- ty for your compliment :)
Black women have treated me like shit but now that I date interracially they get mad at me.
I love all races but black women have givin me the most problems.At the end of the day I just want to be happy.Black women aren't that appealing to me in so many ways.There are good black women out there I just haven't found one.
pineboy23 1 week ago
I find it utterly APPALLING that there are Black woman that refuse to learn...it's like what the hell...the comments coming from men and women alike...forget those broads, gentlemen...they just don't get picked. And they can settle down with their ray ray or pookie because on point men aren't picking them.
LongLoxx82 1 week ago
@krenae for you to condone broads that are speaking for you speaks volumes. All that means is that you found a simp. Every black woman worth dealing with speaks against the fuckery...but you along with your harpy counterparts support total chaos...bitter is what I was when trying to figure out what it is about black women that made them so fucked up. Now I'm just indifferent. I'm not picking them. Neither is any other sensible man with resources.
LongLoxx82 1 week ago
@Stangy04 valid point!
vandi135 3 weeks ago
BW R not jealous of "other" groups of women. That is something that BM say to offer comfort. 2nd, when u see a BM with the "other" don`t believe that he chose her because she is better. These guys r often rejected by BW hence he decides to date outside. It annoys me when BM bash BW to the "other". This does nothing but make her feel more superior than she already did n the first place. BM, if ur happy N ur relationship, Then be that but, keep the sistas out of it.
vandi135 3 weeks ago
It's laughable for them to think the white men will save them...
LongLoxx82 3 weeks ago
Most young black women don't even QUALIFY as date material. They THINK they are, but they're NOT. they'll find this out when they are old bitter and lonely...
LongLoxx82 3 weeks ago
@LongLoxx82 You sound extremely bitter yourself. I really doubt you would know about MOST black women, being that you 1. Don't date them or 2. Black women hate YOU. So how would you know if Black women are dateable. You sound miserable. AND yes, I am Black, beautiful, smart and married & I a lot of my Black friends are in the same category..smh.
krenae 1 week ago
Most young black women do not care about who black guys date, we are too busy trying to get ourselves some white loving. :)
Mary2020VA 1 month ago
I was in a store and there was a young black couple they were talking and messing around he said I am gonna get a white girl they both started laughing. This BW runs from the back of the store hollering and screaming and starts cussing out this young guy(BTW-17-20) for wanting to date WW.They both looked at her like she was crazy.
maann36 2 months ago
@Haku across the board black men predominantly want black woman
sophisticatcovergirl 4 months ago
any the girls want some white meat just let a nigga know
kainniak1 6 months ago
i dont mean to sound like a jerk but she's just gonna have to get over those little stares she be getting from BW. How many BM have been disliked by Asian, hispanic, and white parents for dating their daughters just because they're black? Now that's a real issue....but this was another great video tho btw
Stangy04 7 months ago 2
Little attention whore...lol
BeaSiegal 7 months ago
Just me sayin' but I think A LOT of Black women are in denial with this topic. Online and on other media sources they claim they don't care or aren't bothered. My question is why do their actions seem to never match up with what they say? I'm a Black guy and I dated a Hispanic, Asian and White women back when I lived in Dallas. We too got HATEFUL stares and endured abusive behavior from the BW in our area. One tried to push a shopping cart forcefully into my gf when we were in a store together.
rang3r34 7 months ago
@rang3r34 Oh please you got more abusive behavior from the parents of the women that you were dating than black women. Please stop trying to convince people that your important.
Astutechick 6 months ago
@Astutechick I am NOT trying to convince anyone of anything. These are events that actually happened to me and the woman I was dating. If it's not because of our relationship what is it? When I went out alone this never happened, only when I was out with my non-Black gf. Stop trying to make an excuse for these women's obvious insecurity.
rang3r34 6 months ago
@rang3r34 Black men do the same exact thing and noone says crap about it. Black men don't even look my way when I'm by myself, but as soon as they see me with my fiance, who happens to be Korean American, all heads randomly start turning.
DaPrincess007 4 months ago
@DaPrincess007 I dunno, maybe they've never seen a Korean before? Nah, just kidding. That may be true, but BW are far worse with it in MY experience.
rang3r34 4 months ago
Oh boy. I'm sure there are some haters out there that don't like this White female dating this Black dude, but for the most part, I really don't think people care. I sure as hell don't. As someone who dates inter-racially myself, I actually have been heckled ad harassed by other people (my own kind, in fact) because of the man I'm with. I don't let it bother me, because frankly, it's none of their business who I choose to date. But I agree with JuneBug; just ignore them and live your life!
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coconisha85 7 months ago
9:05 - 10:15 LMAO. In school I hung out with this girl, and everyone thought we were going out. They'd always ask. "You two sure your not datin?" and she'd shout, "My boyfriends Koren! God."
Kyensai 7 months ago
LOl you can't be serious!! Black women don't give a finger in the middle about who you date. Stop trying to convince people that you are important.
Astutechick 7 months ago
Who cares what other women think!? If your man/women is the one you love its not their business. His/her color should not even be a big issue.
DaeDae980 8 months ago
I dont date outside my race... ..I am mix hispanic and black and close to my black side... So that make me black .....I only date black men only...And will never never never date a white man... To me... They just look nasty . Every black sister i know... Dont care who dating who.... I think alot of all have it wrong... I Think every black sister is (NOT) hating on blackmen dating outside his race!!!
sweetsface 8 months ago
@sweetsface Not all of them no, but some do. Black women are really the only ones who will go on TV/Radio and put their own men on blast.
DeadSleepers 8 months ago
girl please get over yourself bye girl fly girl...this sounds like some small town mess that only the "local yokels" deal with. Never once did this chick how these brother have it going on (career, school, money, good guy) and maybe I could see why. Sounds like payback to the sistas who have nothing better going on...after he gets his feel he will move right on like the rest of them...Keep the vids coming baby T Leykis!!!!!
lovelybgirl08 9 months ago
Should we all be talking about something important, like the collapse of the economy and lack of jobs to support oneself or family? I think we all should ask why over 50,000 manufacturing jobs went to china
RobertChavis 9 months ago 2
@RobertChavis There are many websites, message boards, news broadcasts, etc. where the economy and other important topics are being discussed. I agree that these topics should be discussed but I don't agree that we ALL should be addressing them. I think that the people who are knowledgeable about these topics and have viable solutions are the ones who should be talking about it and the rest of the crowd should be listening.
JunebugObama 9 months ago
a bw said to me that my black bf is with me only for sex ...lmao we dont even have sex ! i think shes just jealous !!!
650Pisces 9 months ago
@650Pisces Chick please stop trying to convince people that your desirable. The real reason why your dating black men is because quality white men don’t want you. Girl be honest!!
Astutechick 6 months ago
@Astutechick haha NEWSFLASH IM NOT WHITE! and i dont mind dating any other race. and ive already dated white , arabic, hispanic . it just so happens that the person im with now is black thats all
650Pisces 6 months ago
@650Pisces Again, the reason you dating a black man is because you are undesirable to the men within your race. BW cannot be jealous of you. Did you take a look at your avi pic? I’m guessing you haven’t. Please stop trying to convince people that you are important. Hoe sit down!!
Astutechick 6 months ago
@Astutechick wtf how am i a hoe? sorry im not having sex like u ..besides im latina ive dated latino men..i dont have anything against other races i actually admire their culture more than anything ..and when i mean jealous i didnt mean about my looks dumbass i meant about a GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP !!!!
650Pisces 6 months ago
@650Pisces Yawn!!!! And your still trying to convince me that you are desirable and important SMDH!! When will these silly chicks learn! Latino men don’t want you thats why your with a black guy. How do I know this? Well because of your avi picture. Your not cute!!
Astutechick 6 months ago
@Astutechick lmao KEEP HATING!!!!
650Pisces 6 months ago
@650Pisces Keep being ugly and trying to convince people that you are important!!! Lol trash:)
Astutechick 6 months ago
@Astutechick hatred, jealousy, or ,envy CHOOSE ONE AND STFU!!! stop being so fucken dramatic and butthurt!!!!
650Pisces 6 months ago
@650Pisces Girl stop projecting your feeling onto others. Its not my fault that you are unattractive and hispanic men don’t want to date you. That is something that you need to work out with them or yourself. Please go seek therapy.
Astutechick 6 months ago
@Astutechick O PLEASE STOP BEING SOO INSECURE!!!!! i can see you dont love yourself enough to respect others haha YOUR IN DENIAL!!!!!!! thats why no one can love you ..TOO MUCH DRAMA AND MAKING UP SHIT THAT I NEVER SAID OR MEANT!!!! your taking things out of proportion !!!
650Pisces 6 months ago
@650Pisces Yawn!! More projection. Please don’t blame me that you were born less attractive which is why a latino/white man wouldn’t date you. You need to blame your mom jajajajajaja At this point you need to be thinking about how to lose weight, wear proper makeup, take better pictures, and be more attractive. Get off the internet and work on yourself thats the only thing that I can tell you.
Astutechick 6 months ago
When you're around these witches again, ask you boyfriend to give you a dramatic kiss - dip you back and plant a huge smacker.
cinenglland 9 months ago
something simillar happend to myself when I was walking thru my city centre with this asian chick (who was just a friend)
BlackPoisonxX 9 months ago 2
JuneBugObama, let's keep it real my brotha, we both know that this issue has no solution. Reason being, women hate women! The competition amongst them is just straight up obnoxious. What's crazy is that the black women who will deride a brotha for dating a white woman, wouldn't give that man a date. In all honesty, I feel us black men need to step back. These females love conflict. Its ridiculous!
supremetechnique98 9 months ago
@ Junebug
A few things that disturbed me about this vid was:
a) You know damned well that those (and the majority) Black Women were staring that that BM and AW all nasty. By this point in 2011, BW make it no secret that they let thereselves be "known" to whomever.....
b) A man SHOULD flaunt his woman (of any race) anywhere he damn well pleases. That was a funny example u did, but it's not that dramatic. U can just go to lunch w/ a WW co-worker and BW will feel insecure. Why dance around them?
mktking 10 months ago
I agree with JuneBug, most people in this day and age don't even care about interracial relationships, let alone react negatively to them in public. Its an ingrained stereotype. And a lot of these women and men are projecting, and assume Black women care when they don't. I think it makes them feel more special then they really are. ( speaking from personal experience )
IstahilIB 10 months ago
...covering all angles......funny, but true (depending on the man)!
queenlaurel 10 months ago
Wow another interacial dating video. Its really not that serious. If you have a problem with it please get a life.
majormoviestar2008 10 months ago 2
Junebug!!!! YOU CRAZY, MAN!
glasscitadel12 10 months ago
Why is there always so much interracial videos by black people nowadays? I'm not hating on this one in particular but it seems we have become overly obsessed with dating IR. I mean dang you can hardly find anything positive about black men and black women being together and that just plain messed up. BTW I'm not necessarily against dating IR if that's your thing, I just hate how there so much bashing going on in the community.
fmcneillii 10 months ago 7
@fmcneillii This is the result of 30 years of black women dogging men out. I think the men finally got tired and jumped the fence. Black women try to compete by going after white men but..... You can't compete with someone that gave up already.
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@fmcneillii "I'm not hating"....."I just hate"...
Errrrrrrrrrr?
mktking 1 week ago
@mktking I said I wasn't hating on this particular video but that I hate how bashing the opposite gender in the community has become an epidemic. Learn how to read things in context.
fmcneillii 1 week ago
I think people need to get a hidden video camera and record on how women act behind doors. People act like this doesn't happen. When I go out on dates I don't look for people staring at me. Like I told one poster it really depends on how attractive the women who you with also. If she is black but look like Alicia Keys watch out !
dhan219 10 months ago
You are getting looks from both blacks and non-blacks. I don't know why black women are being targeted...People have more things to worry about in their lives than some stupid couple walking down the street. I am worrying keeping my job in this economy, the expense of living, and college. Why would I worry about some interracial couple?
89rnicole 10 months ago 2
@89rnicole I am a Black man and I do agree with you honey folks get looks from Blacks and non-Blacks not just us hell I have dated White Women before and have got looks, & comments, that were not good from White guys so it goes both ways I do agree babygirl.
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89rnicole 10 months ago
@yvonnelee1999 Thats pathetic that they do so. Thats just dating ANYone for the wrong reasons.
DeadSleepers 10 months ago
I am currently dating outside my race. I'm with a white woman..... I get dirty looks from maybe 1/15 older black women and 1/20 younger black women. I kinda look at them and say to myself "I'm here with a white chick.....so fuckin what?!" I don't have a racial preference and I think ALL women have something unique,beautiful, and sexy about them. I've dated blacks, whites, and latinas. Ignoring hateful people is the best solution.
Serg223 10 months ago
i dont think most bw really care if bm date ir. but complaining about it has become such an ingrained part of their culture and such a key component of their identity that they feel compelled to pretend to be offended just to keep up appearances.
i mean what sane adult actually stops and stares at ir couples? seriously. stopping and staring? it's not as if they're midgets or they have elephantitis. there is nothing stare-worthy about ir couples. grow up, motherfuckers.
TheBigBadWoIf 10 months ago
love is love, color doesn't matter, i wouldn't care what anyone says
srzman1 10 months ago 2
@srzman1 Why do people say color doesn't matter when it dose!? We are in America one of the most apartheid countries in the world.
maann36 2 months ago
some black women are jealous of interracial relationships
srzman1 10 months ago
@srzman1
allot not some l0l
GunStreets 10 months ago
UM NOT GOING TO FALL FOR THAT DUMB SHIT ABOUT INTERRACIAL COUPLES..........IF ANYBODY WANTS SOMEBODY DAT IS PURPLE GREEN OR BLUE..... SO BE IT JUS LIKE THE AFRO QWEEN SAID....GOD MADE EVERYBODY AND HE DID IT WITHOUT RACE MIXING RULES....ITS ANIMALS THAT CANT BE MIXED AND WE ARE NOT ANIMALS...
cynnamynthic 10 months ago
people's attitude towards others as far as dating other race is a deep psychological thing,prejudice,racism,low self esteem, envy..the worst part is that alot of them go out of their way to make it their problem or their business to interfere
ruddiato 10 months ago
her boyfriend is right: ignore them. when i encounter those people, I start necking my wife. Shes Japanese, Im Jamaican. shes yellow Im black, shes mongoloid, im a negro.
blackpassenger 10 months ago
@blackpassenger negro?? huh ur just black!!!!
EritranPrincess 10 months ago
@EritranPrincess No, Negro. Like Caucasian and Mongoloid, Negro is a racial term. Black describes the skin color of the Negro. Yeh, i know its not pc,but until those in academia come with a racial term to replace Negro, then I will continue using it whenever the discussion is about race and interracial activities.
blackpassenger 10 months ago
@EritranPrincess No, not black. Negro
blackpassenger 10 months ago
@blackpassenger somehow i still disagree with you. but ok if u wanna be called negro its fine...
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EritranPrincess 10 months ago
Hey Tanya, this is my Asian Girlfriend Sing Ho. Good video Junebug
DukePowell 10 months ago
Lmao @ hey everybody I got an asian gf.
0001265175 10 months ago 4
Elmer Fudd: Be quiet you siwwy wabbit! Evewyone's wooking at you!
Bugs Bunny: WELL WET 'EM WOOK!
expatriate40 10 months ago
Man Junebug, don't get that asian girl beat up for talking trash!! lol. Naw, I know you were playing, but people are gonna hate on you for everything: the way you walk, talk dress, spend money, the car you drive, and the /men/women you talk to will all be scrutinized. Some folks are just miserable, and you know what they say about misery. So for 2011 and beyond people, just do what makes you happy. If nobody likes it, they can go to hell sez I...
propheci 10 months ago
Hey Yo Everybody!! Lol Lol. Check Out My New Asian Girlfriend!! Lol. Lol.
ReverendDoGood 10 months ago
It's 2011, not 1950, people outta get the f%@$ over it....
YoungGrizzly82 10 months ago
@JunebugObama
wat is the name of the song at the beginning?
Groundbrekr 10 months ago
Just met a nice Mexican girl yesterday. After being divorced from a black woman after three years I really don't care what anyone thinks. If she treats me right I'm going for it!!! BTW I am a black man.
mrmonnet 10 months ago
@mrmonnet yay good for u hehe my bf is black and i am mexican ;D
650Pisces 10 months ago
Fun video I thought this was going to be about a black man dating a white chick and getting looks. I really don't see why this woman is concerned with this stuff she's an adult why does she care what anyone else thinks?
harr77 10 months ago
I am really tired of hearing about this topic. Sometimes I feel as though these non-bw are just looking for attention and they are making things bigger than what they really are. It seems some of these women just want black women to be jealous of their relationships. Just get over it. I dont even think this stuff is as seriosu as people are making it out to be. Most bw really dont care.
Unidentified43 10 months ago 7
@Unidentified43
Really what about the hundreds of videos by black women stating white women and non-black women are jealous of their white boyfriend/husbands. I can honestly say that here in Atlanta me and my husband get a lot of hateful stares from black women, most who are overweight.
ErikandAndreea 5 months ago
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@ErikandAndreea If that id indeed you and your husband in those videos on your page than I am absolutely 100% percent positive that no one gave you guys hateful stares. Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror or your husband? You both are clearly unattractive.. just saying:)
Astutechick 5 months ago
@Unidentified43
i think black women are jealous because they dont have a black man that
want to be bothered with such drama and the black man seek asian or other
races i see this all the time i talk to alot of asians women at school and mall
i see black women give me dirty looks and i have a black lady friend and she see me with at
asian and now she hate me for ever and she said i need a black women
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@damnedgenericname Exactly.
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Unidentified43 10 months ago
Junebug, at the end, that was sooo funny!!!
emoviebuff87 10 months ago
One thing you didn't touch on, is how some black women seem to hate and/or envy white women for no reason. I'm a white woman and it's happened to me. They don't know me but they will push me as they walk by on the train or whatnot. I've come to the conclusion that it's because I know white men usually won't date black women and black men will sometimes prefer white women over black women so they envy the white girls. Understandable, but I didn't choose to be white.
lauvamojada 10 months ago
@lauvamojada U have got to be kidding me?
Unidentified43 10 months ago 3
@lauvamojada trolololol
hate to burst your bubble and release you from your delusional superiority complex..but.... but unfortunately contrary to the beliefs of white supremacists i feel indifferent about white girls, so get your self esteem else where
a lot of people get pushed in the train station. i get pushed men and women of all races. so maybe they were trying to get to their destination instead of waiting for you by the train to seek their revenge because you date inter-racially.
aylix89 10 months ago 3
Respond to this video... no we dont want white men so them not liking us is cool. as much you lot think everyone attracted to you, envy's and worships the ground you walk on. sadly this is not the case
i hope you meet a good black man who loves you helps you realize that the world revolves around you
good thing you cant help being white, i bet you cant help being a narcissist either
aylix89 10 months ago
@aylix89 what's with the attitude there? I was simply commenting on how black women seem to be rude to me without knowing me. You've obviously got a chip on your shoulder.
lauvamojada 10 months ago
@lauvamojada no you have a black man your ass
nah dont mistake my well wishes as having a chip on my shoulder
aylix89 10 months ago
@lauvamojada Hoe sit your trolling ass down somewhere fatso!!!
Astutechick 7 months ago
I know you arent condoning the notion JuneBug and I feel you on the exaggeration. No man of any race announces his female companion in public place....
authorNYSE 10 months ago
What is the difference between flaunting a non-black woman and flaunting a black woman? Do you hold your head up higher, roll eyes, etc? The insecurity is apparent in the verbiage used as "flaunting".
authorNYSE 10 months ago
Junebug! Awesome video on interracial dating. Tired of it but I agreed with you
What the hell yall looking at? You better get that damn look off your face or I'll knock it off" Sista HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
I say date who you want if it turns you on (if BM date interracial to make BW mad he's weak and he's doing the Sistas a favor and vice versa)
I would date (1) BW and every race except White because they not that good looking and they aged to quick unless she looks like Angeline Jolie
21sttnmemphis 10 months ago
LOL to just look at an interracial couple and be mad 'cause they're not the same race that's just pathetic hahaha sounds like these people need to get a life.
20SarahN10 10 months ago
I say, let them see what some of these brothers will put them through. I think some bm find white women simple and easy to pull the wool over their eyes. In a few years, watch the number of AIDS cases jump among white women. I see some sisters who need to be slap to death as well as white women. Yeah, we have slim pickens in the black community. But I would rather go it solo, then to get a beat down, cheated on, HIV, or God forbid, killed. So you can have them, take them an don't return them
jendavrob 10 months ago
I am almost certain that these non-bw that date bm are somewhat insecure when they see beautiful bw. I've seen this shit!! They are the one with the issues and they try to flip it on us.I get to find out that these bm and non-bw are the ones that stare hope to get a re-action from us, in other words they are trying to see if we are jealous). I always think us bw has inferiority complex until I start interacting with these non-bw. They are the ones who r insecure!
TheNoleboo 10 months ago 13
@TheNoleboo I agree with you
shawnwolf 10 months ago
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TheNoleboo 10 months ago
lol asian chicks are sooooo sexy, too bad a lot aint got no booty
AnimeNikkaJamal 10 months ago
this is nothing new when i was in highschool i remember that a white girl got jumped and stumped in the floor by a group of black girls cause she was with a black guy .
GTYmassive 10 months ago
Black women will get jealous even if u date a black woman.
Let's say she happen to be light skin, and there's a dark skin woman.
They complain about everything. i date interracial and can careless how anyone feel.
people will look you down and stare even if u look better them or got something they don't got . People just hate on everything!!!!!
JoJoStar22 10 months ago
@JoJoStar22 I total agree with you. Black women stare at me at restaurants for long periods because I'm with a pretty Light skin women. If I'm with a white women they stare at me and won't blink if a I look right back at them. White women would just look at me too. They check me out more of a flirt way if I'm with a white women. If a man is with an attractive women he is going to get looks from other women. So it doesn't matter if I'm with a black women or white.
dhan219 10 months ago
@dhan219
That's too be expected but i love the attention.
all they're doing is belittling and showing they don't love themselves.
So, if u don't love yourself then why would any man take interest in you ?
You can date a light skin black woman, and get the same looks from a dark skin black woman.
So.....Who cares ? I give em something to look at, i hold on to my non black woman
and walk with a smile on my face. People just hate, and that's how it is.
Without haters, you wouldn't be shit.
JoJoStar22 10 months ago
@JoJoStar22 I 100% co-sign with you on that! I'm a light skinned black female and I've caught stares from dark skinned black women when I'm with my fiance, who happens to be Korean.
DaPrincess007 4 months ago
Race matters. And people, even 2011, still think of Blacks as savages and most people despite what they say have a problem with interracial relationships. Blacks get mad at Blacks who date white mainly because the White man has been the Black man's enemy since the beginning of time we have never lived in harmony. So you are looked upon as a sell out because more than likely the White person, or Asian person is using the Black person as a sex slave and little else.
ENOCHSZUNXXXL 10 months ago
@ENOCHSZUNXXXL I agree to a certain extent... I think it boosts their egos to have conquered a black man
shawnwolf 10 months ago
That was good advice you gave her. I’m also curious to know if she isn’t the one making a point to let everyone in the place to know that she is with a BLACK MAN! There have been a few times that I caught the women eyeballing me. I usually just give a pleasant smile and keep going my marry way.
MyRedmamba 10 months ago
some people just like being in a bi racial couple just because of the drama
CrazyCrackerCat 10 months ago
if someone has a problem with who i date they can EAD, real men do have TIME for this made up ass race bullshit.
k5lta 10 months ago
That's one point. There are people in IR relationships who try to boast and put it in peoples' faces. They want attention and then want to complain later.
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cont..
so that they aren't afflicted in this way. This is my opinion about the matter...
shawnwolf 10 months ago
I feel black women aren't that much different than black men. Let's be honest if you are in their shoes and you knew the psychological conditioning of your people by a perceived threat that you were brought up to realize (The white people). Wouldn't you be angry that those very peoples women had your best of men. You'd probably feel hurt, betrayed and confused. So I understand what some black women feel. I feel they should just do them and gain self- knowledge and wisdom about their culture
shawnwolf 10 months ago
@shawnwolf what u mean by betrayed?
emmettmays85 10 months ago
@emmettmays85 Like I said in the post that you read, based on the knowledge and wisdom of those particular women afflicted by the condition of black people in this country to them, they probably see good BM dating outside of their race as being fickle. That what I meant...
shawnwolf 10 months ago
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cont. I feel that a proportion of black women may have an inferiority complex left upon due to the conditioning of black people in American society. Put yourself in the shoes of these particular women. They feel left out and undesired, they don't feel there is a level playing field. Yes everyone needs to take responsibility for their own life. But, for those who don't have the proper wisdom and psychological foundation due to whatever circumstances this is the case. continued..
shawnwolf 10 months ago
I am a BM and don't see anything wrong with interracial dating. However, I do feel like there are a lot of negative BW out there that drive black men away. I also believe that there are genuine men who want to taste the rainbow such as myself.But, I do understand that this can create jealousy. While I do see where Junebug is coming from in regards to dealing with haters. I don't think a big preponderance of black women particularly care about interracial dating.
shawnwolf 10 months ago
cont.. they aren't afflicted in this way. This my opinion about the matter...
shawnwolf 10 months ago
I feel black women aren't that much different than black men. Let's be honest if you are in there shoes and you knew the psychological conditioning your people by a perceived threat that you were brought up to realize (The white people). Wouldn't you be angry that those very peoples women had your best of men. You probably feel hurt betrayed and confused. So I understand what some black women feel. I feel they should just do them and gain self- knowledge and wisdom about their culture so that..
shawnwolf 10 months ago
@shawnwolf
some black women may feel that waye.g. betrayed. however i cant because i have never seen black men as "mine" so women of other races cant take them from me. sometimes i think the ones who get mad at interracial couples are actually mad the they are single coz i know if they had a man they wouldnt even notice, too busy be minding their own business
aylix89 10 months ago 15
@aylix89 I see where you are coming from about a black women being single. That is true, but I also think it depends on the context. You either have an inferiority complex or you don't. The question is why...? That was some of my point. That is good that you don't see them as property though.
shawnwolf 10 months ago
@shawnwolf maybe coz a lot of people say black woman unattractive & have bad attitudes & as a result men see us of being less valuable.but when a black man has that mentality it can be insulting as if your own race isnt good enough for you & it would sting if you saw this man praise and treat a woman of another race better than he did to you. just a guess,i honestly dont know why you think some have an inferiority complex?personally i have enough problems to be focusing on someone else's life
aylix89 10 months ago
@aylix89 I really don't see where you coming from on this one, If you read my other comments you would have saw that I gave kind of the exact same answer you already gave... (That's what I meant by the CONDITIONING of our people) It's not necessarily my opinion that a proportion of our women have an inferiority complex. Are you suggesting that I shouldn't care to understand the affairs of our own people..? If you are then you lack understanding of the big picture here...
shawnwolf 10 months ago
@shawnwolf dude calm the fuck down. i didnt read every single comment posted . you asked me a question i dont know the exact answer so i made a guess based on this video and other youtube vids i have seen which slightly relate to your question. so no i dont get the bigger picture! asshole!!!
aylix89 10 months ago
@aylix89 WOW, wasn't expecting that from you. I don't know who the fuck you think you are talking to like that, but I'm not the one. I also don't know why you thought I was angry. You obviously don't know any better so I won't waste any more of my time with you. BTW I'd rather be an asshole than an ignoramus like you. Seek knowledge then talk to me.
shawnwolf 10 months ago
@aylix89 Also the question I asked wasn't for you to answer. It was rhetorical..
shawnwolf 10 months ago
@shawnwolf so you would type me rhetorical question - wth ? whatever
aylix89 10 months ago
@aylix89 I so agree... The ones that have time to hate are probably the single ones LOL.
psat21 10 months ago
@psat21 now i think about it is only single ones who have low self esteem and are lonely. yup dey need to get there shit together
i know plenty of single black women who feel indifferent about ir dating
aylix89 10 months ago
@aylix89 I SO agree with you! Of course, I wasn't there when this happened to this woman (the one seeking advice), but knowing how Black women think and act (being one myself) -- ESPECIALLY when they're in a group -- I'm apt to believe they behaved exactly how the woman described them. I wonder what their reaction would have been had the couple been a Black woman with an Asian man.
Khrys32 9 months ago
@aylix89 Exactly!!!!
k5lta 9 months ago
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Is the picture at 0:48 Latoyaforever?
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kuunami 10 months ago
I do not see the point of this letter. Such a waste of time. If she is a grown woman, the ONLY option she has and will ever have is to just ignore these people. Simple! People will always have something to say. I am tired of this crap. Date whoever you want! The majority of BW do not care! I really do not care, it is YOUR life! Do what YOU want and stop watching other people. She sounds arrogant to me, like she thinks she is special or something because she has a BM. Anyway...
kweencessX 10 months ago
@kweencessX
I agree. She should just ignore the ignorance!! Doesn't sound arrogant to me though, she's just speaking on the haterade she experiences. I've also noticed that it seems that individual black women don't care when they see an interracial couple, but put those same women in a group of women and their reaction to that couple becomes more aggressive as the emailer described. It's like a mob mentality.
kuunami 10 months ago
cont. I feel that a proportion of black women may have an inferiority complex left upon due to the conditioning of black people in American society. Put yourself in the shoes of these particular women. They feel left out and undesired, they don't feel there is a level playing field. Yes everyone needs to take responsibility for their own life. But, for those who don't have the proper wisdom and psychological foundation due to whatever circumstances this is the case. continued..
shawnwolf 10 months ago
I am a BM and don't see anything wrong with interracial dating. However, I do feel like there are a lot of negative BW out there that drive black men away. I also believe that there are genuine men who want to taste the rainbow such as myself.But, I do understand that creates jealousy. While I do see where Junebug is coming from in regards to dealing with haters. I don't think a big preponderance of black women particularly care about interracial dating.
shawnwolf 10 months ago
O lord, here we go again.
Unekwu89 10 months ago
"Make sure you roll your neck."
LOL XD
lonelysith66 10 months ago
Good advise.
Khemistry101 10 months ago
Junebug :3
ipor2 10 months ago
Junebug, why is that only AA females within all of Black people in diaspora have this bloody arrogant attitude and MINDSET that the AA man belongs to them? Yet, they claim to be so STRONG and don't need no MAN, but have a fit when they see him with BECKY, MING-SUE or Ulricha?
vaurnj39 10 months ago
Had she (as an asian woman) seen any asian males around, she would have noticed the same dirty looks from them that would have mirrored the Black women for damn sure. White people have learned to keep their dirty looks to themselves (for the most part) and keep it concealed like their racism. I stand behind the assertion that the white male, asian male and Black female are tag teamers.
ankokugaiBOSS 10 months ago
I agree with you Junebug & the boyfriend about just ignoring them. The lady who wrote the email should just walk by them and keep looking straight ahead like their invisible if they're throwing shade. Like the law 36 from the 48 laws of power: Ignoring them is the best Revenge. When people see that your not fazed by their childish, immature antics you leave them powerless.
IONENABILLION 10 months ago
@IONENABILLION lol........True True
donte957 10 months ago
@IONENABILLION Lol I like that 36th Law...and I didn't even know it was in the book(looks like I need to buy a new book this spring). Thats always been a strategy of mine. Don't feed the trolls. Trolls feed on the negativity and if you starve them they'll go somewhere else to feed.
bkstyle82 10 months ago
wow she is really arrogant. sorry babes but i have better things to do than hate on other people relationships
aylix89 10 months ago
@aylix89 Yeah, really.
I got too much going on be bothered with foolishness like this.
:/
lonelysith66 10 months ago
*cough* sounds familiar *cough* lol
odaymustdie 10 months ago
People love to hate. Not to mention a lot of them act like we still live in the 50's. I can't believe that interracial dating is still problem. I especially see it in within the black community. Luckily, my family raised me better than that (black/Mexican). Those woman that she encounters are simply jealous.
DeadSleepers 10 months ago
Amazing post my Brother Wise~ I agree, I'm neutral date who you wish it's not up to me, MY preference is MY BEAUTIFUL BROTHERS(I married one) & if a Brother wants a white woman - so be it- I get the dirty looks from the white chicks with the Brothers as if they are waiting for me to say or do something; when they are the last thing I'm paying attention to- WEIRD- I catch white women WITH a bm GLARING @ me, go figure- DO YOU BOO :D
TheAfroQween 10 months ago 22
@TheAfroQween
I can understand why. Based on past experiences, they're probably assuming that you'll have a problem with it because you're a black woman. But that's still no excuse because it's wrong to make assumptions.
kuunami 10 months ago
@kuunami from a ww point of view I can understand why too, however Im minding my gotdam business, WITH MY CHILDREN AND HUSBAND- why keep glaring @ ME- ww don't want us to take slavery out on them so why are they taking their past exp. w/ OTHER bw out on ME & I don't care - my personal choice was/is a black MAN, so go pick a fight/staring contest with another bw who gives a shit- I've been walking with my black man 10x longer than most of these ww who are chasing them now- why should I care
TheAfroQween 10 months ago
@TheAfroQween
I understand how you feel. If the jealous women who do have a problem with it would mind their own business, real women like you who actually have common sense wouldn't have to deal with people assuming that you're a hater. I can understand how this would be annoying because I used to encounter the same thing from a WM/BW couple in a park that I used to jog in every time I saw them there. This was a few years ago when I lived down south in Atlanta with my brother.
kuunami 10 months ago
@kuunami I'm concerned about the state of my people's mind and their self dignity and healing- I'm not concerned about if a bm wants a bw- I am not trying to impose my personal feelings on any bm, & just bc they don't choose a bw doesn't mean I'm automatically jealous just bc I'm a bw- I chose bm, I feel I'm better suited for a bm,that's ME- ww need to get a grip,clearly they are the one's with issues, they are innovators of self- insecurities IMO- ty for your compliment :)
TheAfroQween 10 months ago
lol @ SISTA!
KellyGreene08 10 months ago
LMAO!
qmulus1 10 months ago
Where is that dope ass beat in the intro from?
AnbusKi 10 months ago
people gotta understand if you worry about what people think you'll never be happy.
someone will always hate on anything & everything no matter what it is.
let them stare.
deluxedookie 10 months ago 19
@deluxedookie - Agreed! That's very true.
JazzyZenBrotha 10 months ago