there isnt really anyone here i can talk to.. My parents and i dont get along .. and they know that i cut..and so does some of my family after my hospital visit and seeing the bandages on my arm.. but we dont talk about it.. its a awkard silent stare with my family..we dont address it.and dont talk about it.. I dont really have anyone else to talk to .. ive tried talking with a friend but she cant help and doesnt understand..
not really.. i mean i just figured it was something i was always going to be battling..i accepted the fact that i do it and im okay with it some days. I guess its the same as asking a person who smokes..(which i dont) to stop smoking because its bad for them... they know its bad..but cant necessary quit and dont really want to because it makes them feel better... This makes me feel better.. i know its wrong.. but i dont know how to deal with these things in my life.
But when God does something, He doesn't do it halfway. If you ask for His help, He delivers you, completely. And He fills all the voids with His peace.
no i havent.. i actually was hospitalized from wounds caused from self-injury.. i havent started any kind of therapy or anything but ive been getting really grounded in church but i still struggle like no other.. Its an addiction i cant break.. but im too scared to seek help.. my parents know i do it..and they thought i was trying to commit suicide.. theres just so many things bottled up inside.. ive stayed quiet for to long. but ill definately check out your video
I would highly recommend that you go to a Christian counselor that you're comfortable with, and trust. Just a couple of years ago, I decided to go to one for a few months. As far as I'm concerned, even the most outwardly balanced person, had hidden issues that need to be addressed. We all need a tune-up once in a while. ;)
Im glad to hear she's doing alot better, i guess she was one of the lucky ones then..mine still haunts me.. i still have nightmares, its caused me to hate myself entirely, and my predator still trys to contact me through myspace and ive blocked him i dont know how many times. thanks again for posting this..
I'm sorry to hear that. Keep praying and seek Godly counsel. Have you watched my videos about my history with an eating disorder?
And I haven't asked the girl any personal questions in a long time. She probably is having problems. I just pray for her. And when she e-mails me, I try to help, as much as I can.
I just felt like i had to say something i completely know how that girl is feeling because that happened to me.. there isnt to many people who know but i actually had to go to court against mine.. and he was my birth father.. the sad thing is he's still out there and they didnt do anything to him.. and i have to live with that the rest of my life..
That's horrible! But this girl is here on You Tube and seems to be living like a typical teen. She's posting videos and playing around. But I know she's still working through her issues. It was a family member. Just not her immediate family.
although this is an old video, I just have to say I sympathize with the girl. I know of someone who that happened to, and even though they spoke up to one of the church leaders, they took the guy's side who was touching the girl inappropriately...can u believe that? Finally someone took her word and was able to resolve the problem, thank God...hope she's doing okay now
I think she's doing better. I mean, as much as can be expected. She's around here on You Tube. We haven't discussed the past lately. If she wants to talk about it, she will.
That's usually the case. There's one living about one mile from us, if you follow the streets. But if I cut through the neighbors yards, it's about 3 blocks away .
There's probably no need to be afraid. It's the ones that are NOT registered that are scarier. And some sites will let you see the severity of the crime. Hopefully it's not the worst. But at least 2.5 miles is not exactly walking distance!
Wow...that's scary how many turned up in our neighborhood and we lived in an area that's considered pretty safe.
My prayers and encouragment go out to/for the young lady. Nobody deserves that. You are beautiful, wonderful, worth it, etc because Jesus says you are. And no matter how you feel it's not your fault.
It's amazing isn't it? And those are only the ones who have registered! The girl still needs prayer! She and her whole family are going through a LOT!
I never thought of that, but this girl is not in my state and I don't know her last name anyway. However she already told her parents and they pressed charges, so it's being handled by the proper authorities now. Thank God!
To the girl that you are mentioning here:I have been going throu the same for 4 by a babysitter while I was a child.Listen:Talk to your doctor and also your teacher.Before or later,your mom will see the facts.The reason why she does not believe you now might be that she loves you very much and it is tuff for her to face the reality.You have alredy made the first step .You can do it!
She told her parents and they already took her to talk to the police. They're pressing charges. The whole family's world has been turned upside down. They all need prayer. Thanks for the encouraging words for her =)
Good job! If more people would tap into that gut feeling and trust the intuition that God has already given them, they could avoid a lot of trouble. The problem is, too many people have become so hateful and/or negative themselves, that they've lost touch with their own conscience. They can no longer "hear" what it's telling them.
Usually, any sexual abuse to children is called molestation, even though it can be rape. But children are taught to respect their elders, so they don't always fight back or tell them to stop. It's still abuse and/or rape.
I taught my grrl to scream, fight and run to help. I even got her Karate classes! If anyone ever did something like that and I found out.... well let's just say that it wouldn't be pretty!
Stuff like this just makes me shudder. I can't imagine how hard it must have been for her. I hope everything is okay now that the police are involved.
Thanks Khaya. She told her parents an they took her to the police department to make a statement. She just left me a message that she's headed out the door to a counseling session already. Her parents took quick action! But there are some other developments already. That family needs prayer.
Indeed! Though in a sense, she's lucky she didn't get raped, though malestation is very hard to prove true. One of my friends got date raped and the guy us still walking around without a single jail time! And he had 'supposedly' raped others aswell! And then there's though who did get prosecuted that weren't guilty, like my cousin *sighs* darn justice system! I'll keep her in my prayers.
I went through the same thing when I was younger. It's hard to tell family, mine didn't ever believe me, or at least they didn't want to believe me. I also worked with a guy who was a sexual offender and ended up getting arrested after talking to a "13 year old girl" who ended up being a police officer. I can't offer any help but I do know what she's going through because I went through it myself.
I'm sorry to hear that. I wonder how many times, when the parents don't believe the kids, it's just because they can't handle the truth. In any case, she told her parents last night and they believed her. She's already been to the police station and they're taking further steps too.
For the girl with the problem, I'm praying for you! Thanks for the links biblegirl! But I think you already covered what she should do right now hun. I just wish I could find a way to help her out and others who have the same problems!
Thanks Victor. She's been in contact with me today too. Her parents acted quickly to handle the situation! But there are new developments. I'm going to have to get her approval to see if I can divulge anything else.
Its really good knowing that there are people like who you will go out of their way to help other people. You make this world a better place to live in :D
Actually, I'm inclined to agree. Except that there are many other ways these perverts can molest and they might become more violent if they're castrated.
Well i found this video useful if not anything i have 55 none sex offenders living in my city and around! I've tried to find links but they all want you to pay. Biblegirl7 i found you video very useful! Keep it up!
Try a Google search and use a sexual predator site that's just for your state, or your county. I couldn't post every state and county site. Usually the local police department will post all the information for free.
Thank you and good luck! You can get more specific information if you do a Google search and find your local state and possibly county information that's supplied by the local police departments.
Very important issue. I would say the same as you, she needs to tell an adult she trusts, a trusted family member or teacher or something like that. It's wrong and it has to stop. And she needs to know that we're on her side, and there IS help.
I see she has got her parents to help her deal with this now. I'm thankful for that. I would encourage anyone else who sees this in the same situation to do the same. And I'll add my prayers to everyone elses. I imagine this will be a very difficult time.
Thanks for this video Lisa, I will try and get a video response up later this evening or tonight. I expereinced the same thing sort of when I first told about my own abuse. Thanks again, and I didnt the search and found I had more than I like in my area, ugh. No wonder I dont leave home and let my kids roam. Love and Blessings
Thanks Lisa. I'm sure your video will help. She talked to her parents and the police already. Now she's struggling with the rest of the process. She and her family need a lot of prayer.
This girl needs prayer. I will pray that this girl finds courage and that her parents believe her and that they do something about it and that it stops now!...Syd
Thanks Syd. She talked to her parents last night. Keep praying. She had to talked to the police and tell them everything. It's going to be a long road!
Keep praying. She talked to her parents last night, and she had to talk to the police. A lot of healing is going to have to take place in the whole family.
Yeah, I just read my response and I would say Huh also. I think I was talking to a relative at the same time answering you and I answered her as a comment to you. Don't mind me. Sorry I've got a house full of company.
I just found your last comment. I don't think my "huh" was a response to you. That was the night You Tube screwed up the comments. They were probably all out of order. Plus I had to delete a couple of idiots.
when i move to america i'll definately check if theres one in the area i move to, if there is i'll search elsewhere for a place to stay.
the girl should contact the police asap, not go to a church. contact the police, and let the docs examine her to obtain physical evidence shes been abused (seminal residue or whatever), then present a case.
I'm afraid you're going to find sexual predators are everywhere. The only way to really avoid them is to live n a rural area, on a farm or something. Or you can live near a school. Sexual offenders are not allowed to live close to schools.
And the girl told her parents and had to talk to the police for a long time. Now she's really frustrated, going through the system.
Thank goodness the young lady has contacted you for help.
Our lord God says vengence will be mine, nobody else has the right to take the law into his hands. That said the authorities should be contacted in this instance regarding this poor young lady. I do hope this helps.
Sage advice! It is tempting to take matters into our own hands with things like this. I know if anyone laid a hand on my daughter, I'd want to hurt somebody! But we have to trust in God to handle it.
The authorities have been notified already. Her parents are now aware and are taking the proper steps. Thanks!
This is true! Elder abuse is rampant and unfortunately, it's getting worse. And I think they're even less likely to reach out for help since they're more isolated.
I responded to this several days ago. Stupid ScrewTube ate my comment. You're absolutely right! And the elderly have less opportunity to be around people they can ask for help!
That whole thing is so foreign to me and my way of thinking. The last time I thought a 13 year old was attractive I was maybe 14. What is it with pervs that prey upon those so much younger than themselves?
I don't know how old she actually is, but it's sick, regardless! But she e-mailed me again and she already talked to her parents. This was the push she needed. They believe her! And they're calling the police.
Thanks Mike. There are too many perverts in this world! She already talked to her parents. These comments were the push she needed to do it. And her parents are helping!
Something about you made it okay for her to reach out to you. That is kinda cool dontcha think. If you ever get that sort of request in the future you might find googling 211 to helpful. It is a family services and referral system which is almost (65%) nation wide.
Thanks for the info. It's kinda weird, but I have this thing for helping teenagers. A lot of them have contacted me for one reason or another. Maybe it's because I'm just a big kid myself, or maybe it's because I can still remember the trauma of being a teenager, so I can relate to them. Most adults like small children and can't relate to teens. I'm the opposite. I guess that's how God made it. People of all ages need help, and someone has to be willing and able to step in.
I pray she can find the courage to deal with this. Hopefully her parents believe her. I also pray that she will have the support structure she needs to get through this mess and everything that comes with it.
I checked my area on some of the website you provided. It's scary how many sex offenders are out there that we know about, especially when you think of how many never get caught.
Keep praying. She already talked to her parents and they believe her! They're being supportive and calling the police. Now the whole family's going to need prayer!
Very good.. we get alot lessons like this at school, but main thing is, most of us are scared to even mention it to an adult. Afraid of what'll happen..
nothin like this has ever happend to me before and i hope that it wont ever. But, all i've got to say is, tell someone. It helps alot.
Thanks! She already e-mailed me and said she's going to go talk to her parents again. These comments are proof that people are going to be there for her.
Bravo!! biblegirl17. I have been a police officer for 23 years, and this is some of the best advice you could have given.Young lady, if no one believes you after telling all the folks that biblegirl has mentioned; next time you are at the mall or a store or something, call 9-1-1 and ask to speak to an officer on the phone. Specifically request a female officer if that makes you more comfortable. You should not HAVE to ask, but do it anyway. Please, please tell someone.
It's like that everywhere! That's why I get so aggravated with these stupid You Tube videos that are accusing other You Tubers when they have no evidence, and in fact they have more to worry about in their own back yard!
My bestfriend who is like a mom to me was in that situation as a child, she ended up telling a friend who told their parents who told police. The best advice I can give is to tell someone she can trust, whether another family member, a teacher, a youth pastor. And not to be afraid to tell thats an important thing is not being afraid though it may be hard in doing so she'll help others who this could have happened to. I'll be praying for her.
That's one of the options I suggested to her via e-mail. Maybe the parent of a friend, if not one of my other suggestions. I think she's finding already, that people will take this very seriously and protect her. She's been afraid to talk. But by talking she will take away this perverts power.
Lisa I remembered seeing something on tv this week and heard about Amie's Law, it was passed in Wisconsin I'm not sure if it's national, Google didn't give me too much info. Another piece of advice I'd give is if there's a hotline for her city/state for things like this, I found a site with a list of 800 numbers so it should be free awarefoundation . org / resources / sexual_abuse_hotlines . aspx (it wouldn't let me post a link so I had to space it all out)
Good evening! I will just say this... first off, I am here for you and if this young girl wishes to talk or needs someone to help speak out for her, though I think you have done a wonderful job here. She must know that yes if this is happening to her, this certiatnly it has happened to others by this same person and will continue with others...
This does not mean that what is happening to her is not only criminal, but not harmful for her spirit and not her fault, but will result in issues greater and beyond her control if she does not seek help out now. I would say go to her mother. But if that does not result in immeadiate stopping of the abuse then she must go seek out others to go to and confide in. This I know from very personal expierence.....
Thank you for posting this Video up. And to this young lady, if she needs help in anyway... even if that means me inculded helping her find her voice and find help, I am here and will be willing to give whatever it takes to have this stop. Again, this is not your fault and oyu are NOT alone with this sweetheart! Take care and love to you all...
Yes this is true. But what I am saying is that the psycological issues for her will only get worse for her to deal with later in her life if she does not confront this now. I say... tell her to keep talking and telling this to ALL that she is near be it a close teacher at school... I counselor and or a family member that would listen. Someone will eventually hear her and believe her....
Side note... very sad to say in my own personal expierence it took going outside the family before someone heard me and my sister. My mother was in complete denial and even blamed me for lying and making it up from the suggestion of the abuser stated to her and an explination of why we would accuse him. Thanks again for this Video! His autumnrain, becca @-->---
I sincerely hope that does not happen! From what she's told me, I don't think it will. And if it does, there are other people she can talk to. You folks are all proving that there are plenty of people who will do all they can to help her. Thanks!
I've already suggested all that =) I just wanted her to see that people will rush to help her. She doesn't have to be afraid of this pervert anymore. And since I have no experience with it, I also wanted to make sure I wasn't mis-advising her!
You did the right thing! I not only applaud you for posting this Video and using this forum to help her and many others, but for your compassion and awareness for her. She can and will get help. We are all here not only hidden behind screens, we are people just like she is. She just needs to talk and keep talking until someone not only believes her but helps take her out of harms way. Thank you again for all the young men and woman you will touch by this Video. His autumnrain, becca @-->-----
She just e-mailed me. The comments that have been left here so far, have already given her the courage to go talk to her parents. She's doing it right now! I'm praying!
Kudos to you for putting this information out there. I wish I had some advice for you, but actually I wound up having a similar experience back in January. A young girl PM'd me here after seeing a vid I did on child abuse awareness. I gave her as much contact info as I had so that she could seek out help, but that was as much as I could think of at the time.
It's a VERY frustrating thing to not be able to just physically extend your hand to someone in need like that.
I hear ya. Hopefully amidst your frustration you're remembering that you're doing as much as you humanly possible.
I'll post my old child abuse info video as a response to this and if you think it's appropriate, go ahead and except. It's an OLD video, though, so if you reject it I won't be offended. The info and links, as far as I know, are still current.
Thankyou so much for bringing this up, and posting the links. I've been meaning to search for some sites so I can check to make sure I am in a safe part, but of course two of my neighbors are ones. At least I can be prepared if I ever meet them again. <3
I have no advice or help for this girl, except to tell her parents. And if her mom doesn't want to believe it then she can just go straight to the police.
Why does it have to be a christian councler? Cant other people help her if they are not a christian?
palmbebe86 2 years ago
Don't make an issue where there's not one. That's who she chose to confide in.
biblegirl7 2 years ago
there isnt really anyone here i can talk to.. My parents and i dont get along .. and they know that i cut..and so does some of my family after my hospital visit and seeing the bandages on my arm.. but we dont talk about it.. its a awkard silent stare with my family..we dont address it.and dont talk about it.. I dont really have anyone else to talk to .. ive tried talking with a friend but she cant help and doesnt understand..
darkbeauty101 3 years ago
Just talk to God then. You can just say whatever you want, and ask Him for help when you can =)
biblegirl7 3 years ago
not really.. i mean i just figured it was something i was always going to be battling..i accepted the fact that i do it and im okay with it some days. I guess its the same as asking a person who smokes..(which i dont) to stop smoking because its bad for them... they know its bad..but cant necessary quit and dont really want to because it makes them feel better... This makes me feel better.. i know its wrong.. but i dont know how to deal with these things in my life.
darkbeauty101 3 years ago
But when God does something, He doesn't do it halfway. If you ask for His help, He delivers you, completely. And He fills all the voids with His peace.
biblegirl7 3 years ago
i dont hardly trust anyone.. i cant ..
darkbeauty101 3 years ago
Have you prayed for God to lead you to someone who can help you?
biblegirl7 3 years ago
thanks...i dont know if im comfortable with that yet.. ill seriously consider it.. but right now it seems okay..
darkbeauty101 3 years ago
If you trust the counselor, you'll be comfortable =)
biblegirl7 3 years ago
no i havent.. i actually was hospitalized from wounds caused from self-injury.. i havent started any kind of therapy or anything but ive been getting really grounded in church but i still struggle like no other.. Its an addiction i cant break.. but im too scared to seek help.. my parents know i do it..and they thought i was trying to commit suicide.. theres just so many things bottled up inside.. ive stayed quiet for to long. but ill definately check out your video
darkbeauty101 3 years ago
I would highly recommend that you go to a Christian counselor that you're comfortable with, and trust. Just a couple of years ago, I decided to go to one for a few months. As far as I'm concerned, even the most outwardly balanced person, had hidden issues that need to be addressed. We all need a tune-up once in a while. ;)
biblegirl7 3 years ago
Im glad to hear she's doing alot better, i guess she was one of the lucky ones then..mine still haunts me.. i still have nightmares, its caused me to hate myself entirely, and my predator still trys to contact me through myspace and ive blocked him i dont know how many times. thanks again for posting this..
darkbeauty101 3 years ago
I'm sorry to hear that. Keep praying and seek Godly counsel. Have you watched my videos about my history with an eating disorder?
And I haven't asked the girl any personal questions in a long time. She probably is having problems. I just pray for her. And when she e-mails me, I try to help, as much as I can.
biblegirl7 3 years ago
I just felt like i had to say something i completely know how that girl is feeling because that happened to me.. there isnt to many people who know but i actually had to go to court against mine.. and he was my birth father.. the sad thing is he's still out there and they didnt do anything to him.. and i have to live with that the rest of my life..
darkbeauty101 3 years ago
That's horrible! But this girl is here on You Tube and seems to be living like a typical teen. She's posting videos and playing around. But I know she's still working through her issues. It was a family member. Just not her immediate family.
biblegirl7 3 years ago
although this is an old video, I just have to say I sympathize with the girl. I know of someone who that happened to, and even though they spoke up to one of the church leaders, they took the guy's side who was touching the girl inappropriately...can u believe that? Finally someone took her word and was able to resolve the problem, thank God...hope she's doing okay now
sOLeeSoL 3 years ago
I think she's doing better. I mean, as much as can be expected. She's around here on You Tube. We haven't discussed the past lately. If she wants to talk about it, she will.
biblegirl7 3 years ago
i loked more clossely started counting.... over a 100 within 10 miles i m ight have counted wrong i doubt it tho there might even be 200
BubblyBlonde12 4 years ago
It's amazing how many sick people are walking among us.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
family watchdog just told me one lives .57 miles from me?!
BubblyBlonde12 4 years ago
That's usually the case. There's one living about one mile from us, if you follow the streets. But if I cut through the neighbors yards, it's about 3 blocks away .
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Hmmm, my city has around 400,000 people and 500 of them are sexual predators.
This one lives a street away (minute walk) I found out about him when I first moved in...I found him on the Megans law website.
There are like 200 others that live 20 minutes or less away too though...that's scary, it's a big city....
=S
AmaraZouloufos 4 years ago
I live in the south. Down here, the general consensus is that a gun is the answer to any nearby perverts. =P
I guess I should have posted that comment from the brattygirl7 channel. LOL
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Oh my goodness!
Thank you so much for making me aware of my surroundings, Lisa. There is someone 2.5 miles away from me! :O! im scared.
makaylat32 4 years ago
There's probably no need to be afraid. It's the ones that are NOT registered that are scarier. And some sites will let you see the severity of the crime. Hopefully it's not the worst. But at least 2.5 miles is not exactly walking distance!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Wow...that's scary how many turned up in our neighborhood and we lived in an area that's considered pretty safe.
My prayers and encouragment go out to/for the young lady. Nobody deserves that. You are beautiful, wonderful, worth it, etc because Jesus says you are. And no matter how you feel it's not your fault.
Addue 4 years ago
It's amazing isn't it? And those are only the ones who have registered! The girl still needs prayer! She and her whole family are going through a LOT!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
In most states you are required by law to report to law enforcement when a child tells you he/she is being molested.
newsmiracles 4 years ago
I never thought of that, but this girl is not in my state and I don't know her last name anyway. However she already told her parents and they pressed charges, so it's being handled by the proper authorities now. Thank God!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Why not call the POLICE and have the sum bag locked up!
rb5235 4 years ago 2
They did =D
biblegirl7 4 years ago
To the girl that you are mentioning here:I have been going throu the same for 4 by a babysitter while I was a child.Listen:Talk to your doctor and also your teacher.Before or later,your mom will see the facts.The reason why she does not believe you now might be that she loves you very much and it is tuff for her to face the reality.You have alredy made the first step .You can do it!
Tanja060100 4 years ago
She told her parents and they already took her to talk to the police. They're pressing charges. The whole family's world has been turned upside down. They all need prayer. Thanks for the encouraging words for her =)
biblegirl7 4 years ago
wow I looked on those sites and theres sooo many near me. i was surprised.
D4ncegirl1226 4 years ago
Most people are surprised. They're everywhere! And those are only the ones that have been caught!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Like there was one that was like half a mile away...thats kinda freaky...thats scary...
D4ncegirl1226 4 years ago
There's one like five doors down from me! Already knew to tell my kids not to talk to him... just had a feeling...
MightyTrebor 4 years ago
Good job! If more people would tap into that gut feeling and trust the intuition that God has already given them, they could avoid a lot of trouble. The problem is, too many people have become so hateful and/or negative themselves, that they've lost touch with their own conscience. They can no longer "hear" what it's telling them.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
or who's telling them... :)
MightyTrebor 4 years ago
Amen to that! The voice of God is accompanied by peace. That's usually my indicator =)
biblegirl7 4 years ago
oh wow. That would be very scary.
D4ncegirl1226 4 years ago
Not scary for me, I'm bigger than him.... and better trained. Scary for the neighbors maybe when I'm not around.
MightyTrebor 4 years ago
What's the difference between molestation, sexual abuse, and rape?
RndmVBChick 4 years ago
Usually, any sexual abuse to children is called molestation, even though it can be rape. But children are taught to respect their elders, so they don't always fight back or tell them to stop. It's still abuse and/or rape.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
I taught my grrl to scream, fight and run to help. I even got her Karate classes! If anyone ever did something like that and I found out.... well let's just say that it wouldn't be pretty!
MightyTrebor 4 years ago
I think most parents feel the same way. It's hard to not take the law into your own hands if someone touches your children.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Stuff like this just makes me shudder. I can't imagine how hard it must have been for her. I hope everything is okay now that the police are involved.
velation 4 years ago
The whole family has been affected now. It's going to be a long healing process. They all need our prayers.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Good advice. Good video.
khayav 4 years ago 2
Thanks Khaya. She told her parents an they took her to the police department to make a statement. She just left me a message that she's headed out the door to a counseling session already. Her parents took quick action! But there are some other developments already. That family needs prayer.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
molestation is NO laughing matter!
politeinmate 4 years ago 2
That's for sure!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Indeed! Though in a sense, she's lucky she didn't get raped, though malestation is very hard to prove true. One of my friends got date raped and the guy us still walking around without a single jail time! And he had 'supposedly' raped others aswell! And then there's though who did get prosecuted that weren't guilty, like my cousin *sighs* darn justice system! I'll keep her in my prayers.
Duckyjackie 4 years ago
I went through the same thing when I was younger. It's hard to tell family, mine didn't ever believe me, or at least they didn't want to believe me. I also worked with a guy who was a sexual offender and ended up getting arrested after talking to a "13 year old girl" who ended up being a police officer. I can't offer any help but I do know what she's going through because I went through it myself.
glasseyelashes 4 years ago
I'm sorry to hear that. I wonder how many times, when the parents don't believe the kids, it's just because they can't handle the truth. In any case, she told her parents last night and they believed her. She's already been to the police station and they're taking further steps too.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
For the girl with the problem, I'm praying for you! Thanks for the links biblegirl! But I think you already covered what she should do right now hun. I just wish I could find a way to help her out and others who have the same problems!
~Dj
Duckyjackie 4 years ago 2
Thanks Dj. Keep praying for the whole family. There were some new developments today. They're going to need a lot of prayer for a long time!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Watched yesterday but could not comment.
Very good video.
Gimmeabreakman 4 years ago
Thanks Victor. She's been in contact with me today too. Her parents acted quickly to handle the situation! But there are new developments. I'm going to have to get her approval to see if I can divulge anything else.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Its really good knowing that there are people like who you will go out of their way to help other people. You make this world a better place to live in :D
ItsSchafe 4 years ago 3
Thanks =) She told her parents and she had to talk to the cops. She's having a rough day today!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Im not surprised she's having a rough day :( I hope everything works out well for her and anyone else experiencing similar situations.
ItsSchafe 4 years ago
There have been some new developments. I'll find out tomorrow is she'll let me divulge the new information.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
i know some may go against my comments, but some that have this problem need to be Eunuchs.I think that is the only way to stop this.
justsimplyjeff 4 years ago
Actually, I'm inclined to agree. Except that there are many other ways these perverts can molest and they might become more violent if they're castrated.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Ill be praying for her. And the links you provided were useful!
crazycamper12 4 years ago
I'm glad the links helped. Most people don't realize how easy it is to check.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
They do tell the truth because there is one who lives on the road next to us and i all ready knew that he was one and he is on there so thats proof!
crazycamper12 4 years ago
They're really all over the place. And those are just the ones who have gotten caught and are registered.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Well i found this video useful if not anything i have 55 none sex offenders living in my city and around! I've tried to find links but they all want you to pay. Biblegirl7 i found you video very useful! Keep it up!
crazycamper12 4 years ago
Try a Google search and use a sexual predator site that's just for your state, or your county. I couldn't post every state and county site. Usually the local police department will post all the information for free.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
their should be more information and help available at schools for kids like this...
CraigDev93 4 years ago
you got punk'd dum dum
No1MechWarrior 4 years ago
wow, thanks.
i searched my address i found one on my street.
amandaclairexo 4 years ago
Yes, this has to come out.
Moomay
moomay11649 4 years ago
She's had a lot to deal with in the last 24 hours. The entire family has been affected. Just pray for them.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
I'm glad to see action is now being taken. I'll be praying for her.
Duckchow24 4 years ago
Pray for the whole family. Pray hard! There have been new developments. I'll ask her tomorrow if I can share anymore information.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Thank you. I am about to move, and those websites are a great help.
You are amazing, really.
gusherssalad 4 years ago
Thank you and good luck! You can get more specific information if you do a Google search and find your local state and possibly county information that's supplied by the local police departments.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Very important issue. I would say the same as you, she needs to tell an adult she trusts, a trusted family member or teacher or something like that. It's wrong and it has to stop. And she needs to know that we're on her side, and there IS help.
samsarajade 4 years ago 2
I see she has got her parents to help her deal with this now. I'm thankful for that. I would encourage anyone else who sees this in the same situation to do the same. And I'll add my prayers to everyone elses. I imagine this will be a very difficult time.
samsarajade 4 years ago 2
Thanks Tia. She's having a rough day today.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Thanks for this video Lisa, I will try and get a video response up later this evening or tonight. I expereinced the same thing sort of when I first told about my own abuse. Thanks again, and I didnt the search and found I had more than I like in my area, ugh. No wonder I dont leave home and let my kids roam. Love and Blessings
SuvivorsFaith 4 years ago
Thanks Lisa. I'm sure your video will help. She talked to her parents and the police already. Now she's struggling with the rest of the process. She and her family need a lot of prayer.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
I will keep them in my thoughts and prayers. You are an awesome person for speaking out on this, awareness on abuse needs to be kept alive.
SuvivorsFaith 4 years ago
that was sobering...
DRUNKENMONK1313 4 years ago
Yeah. I know. We live in a sick world.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
No kidding. The links you provided was an eye opener for me. I never knew so many child predators lived in my town let alone within 1/2 mile of me.
VictoryOverDeath7 4 years ago
It's the same everywhere! And those are just the one's who have gotten caught and are registered.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
This girl needs prayer. I will pray that this girl finds courage and that her parents believe her and that they do something about it and that it stops now!...Syd
pray4syd 4 years ago
Thanks Syd. She talked to her parents last night. Keep praying. She had to talked to the police and tell them everything. It's going to be a long road!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
I really hope this girl listens to your advice. I'm so glad she came to you. It sounds like she's really begging for help. I'm praying for her
Fringe111 4 years ago
Keep praying. She talked to her parents last night, and she had to talk to the police. A lot of healing is going to have to take place in the whole family.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
She's doing the right thing but she must be scared to death.
Can you keep me updated? It can be private if you like. I hate to see children hurt in any way
Joy
Fringe111 4 years ago
I'll see how much she wants me to divulge. Some painful stuff has happened today. Her family needs a lot of prayer.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Well they have that from me
Fringe111 4 years ago
Huh?
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Yeah, I just read my response and I would say Huh also. I think I was talking to a relative at the same time answering you and I answered her as a comment to you. Don't mind me. Sorry I've got a house full of company.
Fringe111 4 years ago
I just found your last comment. I don't think my "huh" was a response to you. That was the night You Tube screwed up the comments. They were probably all out of order. Plus I had to delete a couple of idiots.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
when i move to america i'll definately check if theres one in the area i move to, if there is i'll search elsewhere for a place to stay.
the girl should contact the police asap, not go to a church. contact the police, and let the docs examine her to obtain physical evidence shes been abused (seminal residue or whatever), then present a case.
Nihilanth1982 4 years ago
I'm afraid you're going to find sexual predators are everywhere. The only way to really avoid them is to live n a rural area, on a farm or something. Or you can live near a school. Sexual offenders are not allowed to live close to schools.
And the girl told her parents and had to talk to the police for a long time. Now she's really frustrated, going through the system.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Thank goodness the young lady has contacted you for help.
Our lord God says vengence will be mine, nobody else has the right to take the law into his hands. That said the authorities should be contacted in this instance regarding this poor young lady. I do hope this helps.
4eyes79 4 years ago
Sage advice! It is tempting to take matters into our own hands with things like this. I know if anyone laid a hand on my daughter, I'd want to hurt somebody! But we have to trust in God to handle it.
The authorities have been notified already. Her parents are now aware and are taking the proper steps. Thanks!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
please help all kids or indeed anyone being abused, old people are being abuse at the same rate as children
lazymornings 4 years ago 3
This is true! Elder abuse is rampant and unfortunately, it's getting worse. And I think they're even less likely to reach out for help since they're more isolated.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
I responded to this several days ago. Stupid ScrewTube ate my comment. You're absolutely right! And the elderly have less opportunity to be around people they can ask for help!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
THESE comments going upo or what
lazymornings 4 years ago
I'm glad so many people want to help and encourage her!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
I can't offer advice to the girl, but I think it's great you are helping her. It probably made her feel a little better.
abbyroadme 4 years ago
The comments are helping already. She talked to her parents and they called the police. Now she needs prayer to get through the process.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
That is so good to hear. I will keep her and her family in my thoughts.
abbyroadme 4 years ago
That whole thing is so foreign to me and my way of thinking. The last time I thought a 13 year old was attractive I was maybe 14. What is it with pervs that prey upon those so much younger than themselves?
bowlingballout 4 years ago
I don't know how old she actually is, but it's sick, regardless! But she e-mailed me again and she already talked to her parents. This was the push she needed. They believe her! And they're calling the police.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Good to hear.
bowlingballout 4 years ago
Thanks Mike. There are too many perverts in this world! She already talked to her parents. These comments were the push she needed to do it. And her parents are helping!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Something about you made it okay for her to reach out to you. That is kinda cool dontcha think. If you ever get that sort of request in the future you might find googling 211 to helpful. It is a family services and referral system which is almost (65%) nation wide.
2of6Solutions 4 years ago 2
Thanks for the info. It's kinda weird, but I have this thing for helping teenagers. A lot of them have contacted me for one reason or another. Maybe it's because I'm just a big kid myself, or maybe it's because I can still remember the trauma of being a teenager, so I can relate to them. Most adults like small children and can't relate to teens. I'm the opposite. I guess that's how God made it. People of all ages need help, and someone has to be willing and able to step in.
biblegirl7 4 years ago 2
This Is So Awful. I Have Been Through This Too. But The Person Is Dead Now. ]:
Patty9008 4 years ago
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. It's time's like this when I think "It's a good thing I'm not God!" I don't feel much mercy for perverts.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
I pray she can find the courage to deal with this. Hopefully her parents believe her. I also pray that she will have the support structure she needs to get through this mess and everything that comes with it.
I checked my area on some of the website you provided. It's scary how many sex offenders are out there that we know about, especially when you think of how many never get caught.
LynnyLee 4 years ago 3
Keep praying. She already talked to her parents and they believe her! They're being supportive and calling the police. Now the whole family's going to need prayer!
biblegirl7 4 years ago 4
they should teach..
sexual preadors..
in children's schools..
seriously, sexual predators are not cool..
and should go..
die.
:x
spongebobspal246 4 years ago
I don't want them to die. I want to to rot in jail for the rest of their lives! And I hope they're miserable the entire time.
biblegirl7 4 years ago 2
I agree with biblegirl7 they don't to die, they just need help!
crazycamper12 4 years ago
True....
spongebobspal246 4 years ago
Very good.. we get alot lessons like this at school, but main thing is, most of us are scared to even mention it to an adult. Afraid of what'll happen..
nothin like this has ever happend to me before and i hope that it wont ever. But, all i've got to say is, tell someone. It helps alot.
MugglePrefect 4 years ago
Thanks! She already e-mailed me and said she's going to go talk to her parents again. These comments are proof that people are going to be there for her.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Bravo!! biblegirl17. I have been a police officer for 23 years, and this is some of the best advice you could have given.Young lady, if no one believes you after telling all the folks that biblegirl has mentioned; next time you are at the mall or a store or something, call 9-1-1 and ask to speak to an officer on the phone. Specifically request a female officer if that makes you more comfortable. You should not HAVE to ask, but do it anyway. Please, please tell someone.
cstanfield333 4 years ago 3
Thank you for your input! I know she's reading these comments.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
its really scary how sick people are in this world :(
SasukeFreak 4 years ago
I know. They all need to be locked up for life.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
I just checked my location there are 8 offenders with in 2 miles of my house thats definitely an eye opener I didnt know it would be that many!
KickinIn87 4 years ago
It's like that everywhere! That's why I get so aggravated with these stupid You Tube videos that are accusing other You Tubers when they have no evidence, and in fact they have more to worry about in their own back yard!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
My bestfriend who is like a mom to me was in that situation as a child, she ended up telling a friend who told their parents who told police. The best advice I can give is to tell someone she can trust, whether another family member, a teacher, a youth pastor. And not to be afraid to tell thats an important thing is not being afraid though it may be hard in doing so she'll help others who this could have happened to. I'll be praying for her.
KickinIn87 4 years ago
That's one of the options I suggested to her via e-mail. Maybe the parent of a friend, if not one of my other suggestions. I think she's finding already, that people will take this very seriously and protect her. She's been afraid to talk. But by talking she will take away this perverts power.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Lisa I remembered seeing something on tv this week and heard about Amie's Law, it was passed in Wisconsin I'm not sure if it's national, Google didn't give me too much info. Another piece of advice I'd give is if there's a hotline for her city/state for things like this, I found a site with a list of 800 numbers so it should be free awarefoundation . org / resources / sexual_abuse_hotlines . aspx (it wouldn't let me post a link so I had to space it all out)
KickinIn87 4 years ago
Thanks! She's actually talking to her parents right now. These comments gave her the courage. Just pray for her right now.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Good evening! I will just say this... first off, I am here for you and if this young girl wishes to talk or needs someone to help speak out for her, though I think you have done a wonderful job here. She must know that yes if this is happening to her, this certiatnly it has happened to others by this same person and will continue with others...
Hisautumnrain 4 years ago
This does not mean that what is happening to her is not only criminal, but not harmful for her spirit and not her fault, but will result in issues greater and beyond her control if she does not seek help out now. I would say go to her mother. But if that does not result in immeadiate stopping of the abuse then she must go seek out others to go to and confide in. This I know from very personal expierence.....
Hisautumnrain 4 years ago
She's already experiencing the other associated problems. That's actually how the conversation started.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Thank you for posting this Video up. And to this young lady, if she needs help in anyway... even if that means me inculded helping her find her voice and find help, I am here and will be willing to give whatever it takes to have this stop. Again, this is not your fault and oyu are NOT alone with this sweetheart! Take care and love to you all...
His autumnrain, becca @-->----
Hisautumnrain 4 years ago
Yes this is true. But what I am saying is that the psycological issues for her will only get worse for her to deal with later in her life if she does not confront this now. I say... tell her to keep talking and telling this to ALL that she is near be it a close teacher at school... I counselor and or a family member that would listen. Someone will eventually hear her and believe her....
Hisautumnrain 4 years ago
Side note... very sad to say in my own personal expierence it took going outside the family before someone heard me and my sister. My mother was in complete denial and even blamed me for lying and making it up from the suggestion of the abuser stated to her and an explination of why we would accuse him. Thanks again for this Video! His autumnrain, becca @-->---
Hisautumnrain 4 years ago
I sincerely hope that does not happen! From what she's told me, I don't think it will. And if it does, there are other people she can talk to. You folks are all proving that there are plenty of people who will do all they can to help her. Thanks!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
I've already suggested all that =) I just wanted her to see that people will rush to help her. She doesn't have to be afraid of this pervert anymore. And since I have no experience with it, I also wanted to make sure I wasn't mis-advising her!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
You did the right thing! I not only applaud you for posting this Video and using this forum to help her and many others, but for your compassion and awareness for her. She can and will get help. We are all here not only hidden behind screens, we are people just like she is. She just needs to talk and keep talking until someone not only believes her but helps take her out of harms way. Thank you again for all the young men and woman you will touch by this Video. His autumnrain, becca @-->-----
Hisautumnrain 4 years ago
She just e-mailed me. The comments that have been left here so far, have already given her the courage to go talk to her parents. She's doing it right now! I'm praying!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
Kudos to you for putting this information out there. I wish I had some advice for you, but actually I wound up having a similar experience back in January. A young girl PM'd me here after seeing a vid I did on child abuse awareness. I gave her as much contact info as I had so that she could seek out help, but that was as much as I could think of at the time.
It's a VERY frustrating thing to not be able to just physically extend your hand to someone in need like that.
curt344 4 years ago
I know what you mean about the frustration. I want to drive over there and shake her parents until they listen!
biblegirl7 4 years ago
I hear ya. Hopefully amidst your frustration you're remembering that you're doing as much as you humanly possible.
I'll post my old child abuse info video as a response to this and if you think it's appropriate, go ahead and except. It's an OLD video, though, so if you reject it I won't be offended. The info and links, as far as I know, are still current.
curt344 4 years ago
*as much as is humanly possible* - sorry for the typo.
curt344 4 years ago
Thankyou so much for bringing this up, and posting the links. I've been meaning to search for some sites so I can check to make sure I am in a safe part, but of course two of my neighbors are ones. At least I can be prepared if I ever meet them again. <3
I have no advice or help for this girl, except to tell her parents. And if her mom doesn't want to believe it then she can just go straight to the police.
heffasaurus 4 years ago
I think she probably just needs to be very clear with her parents, and they'll listen.
biblegirl7 4 years ago
I hope they do, for her sake.
heffasaurus 4 years ago
Update- she talked to them again and they believe her. Thanks everyone who encouraged her to talk!
biblegirl7 4 years ago 2
Good. I'll keep her in my thoughts<3
heffasaurus 4 years ago
Talk about a relief! so great she is getting the help. It's so awful to hear about her, but hopefully things will get better.
abbyroadme 4 years ago