I kinda guess the message to be found here is that the grass is greener on the other side. It's always such a shame when a family dissowns one of their own, it's by no means rare, but it's sad to see or even hear that people still have to go through what they have.
Atleast now though, life is better for you and you can enjoy yourself better than when you were trying to deny who you were at heart :)
I want to thank you Jay for allowing us to listen to your story. I am a gay teen in SF and this and your channel have given me real hope. I am not completely out, but it was really nice to hear your experience. Being raised Catholic and going to a Catholic elementary school and a Catholic/ Marianist all boy school, I kinda understand your struggles. I hope when i come out to my parents, we will still be able to have a relationship. Thanks again.
I really want to thank you for posting this video. it is helping me see that being gay doesn't make you bad person and that with coming out hopefully my life won't change permanently for the worst. I have been dealing with my own issues with coming out because i too come from a very conservative town and family and i happen to go to a catholic college. I thought you'd like to know that your video has truly made an impact on me and making me think differently.
Jay, I think I've watched this video 10 times already. You and I are alike in so many ways, the military, depression, fathers homophobia. Fortunately my father went a full 180 degrees when I came out to him, I thought he was gonna disown me, but he actually apologized to me. Question though, why do you think that being in the military, it actually makes you wanna come out more?
Okay, my question is, how is it that a lot of people in the army are gay. I just never thought that. Not that i never imagined a hard guy being gay, cause, i'm sure that happens all the time, but going to the army is just something i never imagined, and tying that with gay? Plus, how did you know? If everybody is acting all tough and stuff, how did you find out if they were gay?
@Joshie102 i know right, how the hell can you look at you new born baby and love it more than you've ever loved anything, then bcos of ONE relatively insignificant thing, turn round and reject the kid like he's nothing
Question for you...did your girlfriend at the time have the child? If so, do you have any contact with him/her??
Also, your channel is fantastic. You have a gorgeous family, and hopefully you are changing peoples' minds about homosexuality. It's a shame that it's 2011 and bullshit discrimination exists. You guys are helping break down those barriers. though. Bravo.
@MrRsalas2010 • A random sample of 5,182 adults from 6 U.S. metropolitan areas questioned about incestuous sex during childhood. Incest was disproportionately reported by both bisexuals and homosexuals. 148 gays (7.7% of the sample) 50% of same-sex, and 22% of opposite-sex incestuous experience. Psychol Rep. 1995 Apr;76(2):611-21 ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/
Bagley and Tremblay (1997) reported that 5 out of 8 suicide attempters were homosexual/bisexual males (16, 17), and a previous study of the same sample had reported that 6 out of 8 suicide attempters (75%) had been sexually abused (experienced unwanted sexual acts) before the age of 17 V Bagley, C., Wood, M., and Young, L. (1994). Victim to abuser: mental health and behavioral sequels of child sexual abuse in a survey of young adult males . Child Abuse & Neglect, 18(8), 683-97.
Hi Jay, Just a quick note to express my appreication and applaude your efforts you make in your videio. i'm 51yrs, gay, but unlike you, have not come out. Though, at 51, no gf ever, no children, you'd have to be deaf, dumb, and blind not to know. Yet, I've told no one. I am nearing retirement, so I am now at a point where living more true to self is looking like the light at the end of the tunnel. It is videos like yours that keep incouraging me, that keeps that dream alive, Thank You.
I feel so sorry that you had to go through hard times with suicidal thoughts and problems with your father. I'm glad that you are now married and have a family and all. I hope you will have a good life.
thats sad about how your father reacted =[ someone should slap that crazy old man. (Im not gay fyi, I have a gay friend who I wish would come out to his parents, but like most cases he fears they will hate him =/)
@MrRsalas2010 would you be willing to ask this question in a video format for our ask a gay family videos? I guess I have to answer this question from a 40 year old perspective...I wouldnt let Bryan treat me in this manner...If Bryan woultn allow me to be a 100% apart of his family and friends with the good and the bad I wouldnt be able to be in a relationship with him. This really is a personal choice that you have to decide for yoursefl. That being said dont ever let someone treat you bad.
@JusticeXavierH If you don't mind me giving you advice as a 28 year old gay man don't ever give up on GOD and don't believe those lie's your parent are telling you when the bible speaks about homosexual acts its speaking on prostitution and rape not gay relationships or gay love GOD love you as you are never let anyone tell you deferent. As you grow and start digging for the truth yourself you'll understand what I'm trying to tell you
@JusticeXavierH depfox (1 second ago) Spam Marked as spam I think you are heading i the right direction you already know who you are and that is amazing....I dint come to terms with who I was untilll I was 18 years old.....Be yourself and dont look back.....the world is full of people who are going to tell you how to live who to love and how to be.....They are all full of shit.
I am a 15 year old male from Texas, and i'm gay... I want to tell my parents so bad, not so much my dad; But its pretty obvious that i'm gay, I listen to all kinds of girl music, I love chick flicks. But I'm worried that they will kick me out and disown me. I'm hopeing after highschool, or even college... When I grow up I would like to become a male nurse. I would tell them right now if I could and I would know how they would react; And both of my parents are divorced... What should I do?
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Thank you. I'm 63 and have just 2 weeks ago come out to my wife and family. It's painful and my heads all over the place. But it is also liberating. At last I'm free in a way.
@20251paris Hi, just wanted to say that I thought your comment was really cute, wish you all the best :) I hope that things have gotten better with your situation and you're enjoying being out
Really interesting story, thanks for sharing. To talk about the horrendous things you've been through, in such short sentences, it's hard to understand. I think most gay people can at least identify with some of these things though, which is really unfortunate.
But in a way, for me anyway, going through such things has made me a much better person, and a lot more appreciative of the life I do have. This video really put things into perspective for me- thanks again. :-)
Thank you for this. Raised as a Jew, i knew that the torah said to stone known active gays, i never thought this was right, but as a result we never learned anything about gayness other than they were like women and were sinning.
I knew this wasn't true but i never knew a gay person, i always wondered what they were actually like, or how their families were run. And despite the fact i had nothing against gays, i couldn't see them as natural, it was a choice, or a genetic thing, but i was wrong.
thanks you so much for doing this video....just earlier today i was thinking about coming out to myself. i am gay and i love myself. thank you so much
And as I'm looking at the date of this video "June 12, 2009", it gives me the chills because I put a video on YouTube titled "My Confession" on June 15, 2009 in which I come out of the closet to my friends and anyone else who is watching. I posted it after coming out to my family. The video is now under "private" on my channel because it's hard for me to go back to that state. I mean the video is basically me bawling haha. So yeah, just thought I'd share that with ya! ;-)
Holy crap! I was lookin' through some of your videos, and this video hit me in the face like a bag of bricks! Last year right before I came out of the closet I went onto YouTube and searched for some coming out videos to help encourage me that I was making the right decision. Also to get some ideas on how to just spill everything. I remember running into this video! It's crazy how a year later everything comes around full circle, and here I am running into your videos! Way cool!
I thought that was touching and the little boy you once must have been was visible or at least imaginable again, as is the solid man. Though I don't want to state a banality or something offensive, it occurred to me that your dad may very well have been a pure repressed homosexual. Also, I don't think that 3 out of 5 gay is some "divine irony" at all, although I realize this line of thought may be at odds with the "we were born that way" outlook -an outlook that I don't share...
Your story is a very amazing one that I am sure has saved some young peoples lives. Thank you for the honesty and straightforwardness that you have shared. I know without a doubt that you have had a positive impact on the lives of many. As a priest, I also know that there are many religious leaders today, myself included, that are open and affirmming to my gay brothers and sisters. Don't loose faith and remember God loves you just as he made you...Father Rick
Your story is a very amazing one that I am sure has saved some young peoples lives. Thank you for the honesty and straightforwardness that you have shared. I know without a doubt that you have had a positive impact on the lives of many. As a priest, I also know that there are many religious leaders today, myself included, that are open and affirmming to my gay brothers and sisters. Don't loose faith and remember God loves you just as he made you...Father Rick
I don't have children yet, but if my offspring came to me and said they were gay, I'd probably disappoint them by not caring. "oh, you're gay? ...so?" I wouldn't really do anything about it but continue to support the parson that I helped to create. ...wait, the army is full of teh gey buttsecks? ZOMGWTFBQ!!!! lol
Love your video. I have two kids,one that I adopted when I was married. You can have a family and be gay.. My kids are wonderful and My partner and I Love our kids. We are the same as any straight parents..You guys are wonderful..thanks so much for posting this video..you guys have reached so many people...TY..God Bless
You my good sir are an inspiration for all the gay people out there! You were capable to do what many people want to do but just don't are brave enough (i'm talking for myself too) and the fact you're raising thos children is just adorable! Thanks a lot for the video. I really am struggling to coming out to my parents because i came out already for my friends and it went very good i have very supportive people around me :) Thanks a lot you're what this society needs. Thanks.
oh I haven't seen this channel since the award and the march on DC...I see from ur profile that u now have taken in ur nieces 3 kids..that is awesome.. str8 people are always going on about gays adopting kids yet with all the kids in need of a home we can ask the question "where are they when it counts?" u have done more good for kids than 99% of str8 couples ..be proud be strong ..u surely r blessed
@xadam2dudex Your story is a very amazing one that I am sure has saved some young peoples lives. Thank you for the honesty and straightforwardness that you have shared. I know without a doubt that you have had a positive impact on the lives of many. As a priest, I also know that there are many religious leaders today, myself included, that are open and affirmming to my gay brothers and sisters. Don't loose faith and remember God loves you just as he made you...Father Rick
@EmailFatherRick I think u might have clicked on my comment instead of depfox's ..they are the one's that u should praise they have done the good works ..but thanx 4 the support u offered
I'm sorry but I gotta say this. Jay please stop slouching! or like the wrap song says....."LEAN BACK, LEAN BACK" LOL. all jokes (& posture critizium aside), that was beautiful jay, I'm about to click on part two now. & Man you better had explain what ever happend with your biological child!!
ITS STATES CLEARLY IN THE BIBLE THAT MAN SHALL NOT LAY W/MAN AND WOMAN SHALL NOT LAY W/WOMAN SO WHY IS IT THAT EVERY ONE IS IGNORING GODS WORD!!! I DONT GET IT!!! YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
@bombaymahogany It also says to not eat pork or shell fish or commit adultry or to steal or to kill or to blah, blad, blah. the bible is used to condem everyone so get over it!, half the world doesn't believe in that book.
Why does everyone pull the bible card when it comes to gay people? There has been gay since like,,, Forever. Before the bible was rewitten there was homosexulity. We aint going away beotch!
its best to ignore comments from pple who specifically look for vids like yours just to put you/us down coz its easy for any1 to write a comment and post.......
Thanks for posting this Jay! It is nice to realize that someone can be gay and have values, a normal life and a real family... you're such an example.
great video. it annoys me how they say that god sends gays and bis and lesbians to hell, but they also say that he creats us and gives us life. so, why would he send us to hell for how he made us? we cant change how we feel. you van pretend but u cant make those feelings go away.
GENESIS 2:24. “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” In this ONE VERSE, God establishes “His” boundaries for BOTH marriage and sex. ANY deviation from this is a perversion of His will for your life and rebellion (SIN) against Him.
When you find yourself believing in a God that hates the same kind of people you do, then you can be absolutely certain that is a God that you yourself have created. Whoever said the Bible was meant to be used as Constitution on which to base our lives? Does anyone really believe that Jesus himself would have insisted on this? Was Jesus himself a Christian? Jesus came to the world with a beautiful message, only to be corrupted by the humans who came after him - so-called Christians.
I did all this when I was 15, in 1975.It seems strange now to revisit all of this pain and confusion in your videos.Correct me if I'm wrong, but had you not not been gay, would you have cared and been as empathic of others as you are now? To those of us who do our emotional and spiritual homework,being gay can be seen as a gift in understanding better ourselves and the human condition.I'm very glad you found your way through.I have no doubt you will pay all this insight forward.
to actually be gay, I think is something that gets put into your brain at a young age b/c, "womanly men" are called that. Our society should learn this, since every year our society becomes more feminine. There were actually ancient Indian tribes that knew this. It's just too bad there's no one there for these kids at this young age to tell them right from wrong and that gay thoughts ARE normal at that age, but shouldn't continue beyond puberty. Men and Women are made for each other.
Jay my heart goes out to you. I'm so sorry your father disowned you and I'm sorry what you had to go through growing up. I'm so glad that you remained strong and that you are now happy with Bryan and your children. You are truly an inspiration. Thank you for posting this.
Jay, DON'T even bother with suicide, the only person you are truly robbing is yourself of any future happiness, I think it's the saddest thing when you hear someone has killed themself because of rejection to their sexuality. It really gets me how parents reject their gay kids when they created them and it's the gay kids that'll probably look after them in their twilight years. My first question to God will be why did you make me gay God in such a cruel hetro world.
@lefty5128 I'm not god..but I do think that life is a test, people are put into different places, situations, cultures, religions and life styles to see how they act..we are free in will, and god judges people from their hearts, intentions and deeds..just be a good person, do what you can to help those in need and you'll be fine if god wills it.
Thanx for posting this!!! I've been watching many of your vids and I'll stop commenting for now.....before both of you think I'm some kind of stalker....I just think both of you are such a rolemodel!!!! The world needs more and more like the 2 of you!
Hi, my name is Andrew & I am gay. I'm so happy I can NAME myself and CLAIM myself after so long. Thanks for your videos - they make me feel not alone anymore.
darkwinter76 do not tell him that he is a mockery of life its very difficult to come out to your parents. its not like us gay people can control that we are gay. it tears u apart and its very difficult living with it. Jay im happy that your living a happy life and your the kind of person that i look up to, not the kind of person i look down on we need more people like u in society. your strong to be talking about this congrats
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Brother, you are making a mockery of family life. Repent and turn away from your sin. Your marriage is invalid according to the Bible. I hate to tell you the truth but you are strongly under the influence of Satan who wants you to be gay. Dont believe people that say God hates you brother, He loves you but not your sin but begs for you to not be a homosuxual and defile marriage. I am a sinner just like you, you can be saved it is not too late. See Bible for details.
I dont belive in a hate filled God I belive in a God thats loves all his creations. I am sorry that you see love in such a limited capacity. We will all stand in front of God, I feel very confident that God will be pleased for the life I have lived.
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did I not just tell you that God does not hate you, God loves you, He just does not like homosexuality and that is found in His Holy Bible, I am sorry but it is. Marriage is between a man and a woman and what He created needs to be preserved. this is not an alternative lifestyle and teaching the next generation that this is normal is wrong. Im not telling you you are going to hell like some would I am saying that no matter what this is against God's Word and what our country was founded on.
Sir man wrote the bible not God, The bible is inspired by God and sadly man makes lots of mistakes. The bible has been translated into thousands of languages and translations. Man makes a lot of mistakes. As for sin it is all equale in gods eyes. Please stop judging my family for being happy. I wonder do you ever stand out side Redlobster and tell the people heading in to dine that God is against the eating of shell fish?
I dont judge anyone. I warn people. You are free to live your life however you want and disbelieve the Bible that is fine. But please stop gloating in your sin. You homosexuals love to flaunt what you are doing to justify it. I am ashamed of my sins. If you do not believe the God of the Bible is God then you are living a lie. Shame on you for flaunting this online for children to see. I did not know God was against shellfish, but I will look it up. I know God is against sodomy.
@darkwinter76 God isn't against Sodomy, people are. And don't give me that crap about Sodom and Gomorrah. Do you know what Lot was going to offer to the men who were about to gang rape the two men- angels who came to visit? His two virgin daughters! Oh that makes me feel really good about the God you believe in! And yes, this part of the story is in your precious Bible too. To Hell with your Bible, where it belongs.
@avesraggiana He is against Homosexuals though. 1 Cor 6:9 "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals" Its not the only thing He is against though. I am just trying to warn you people thats all, I am not judging you for I sin too. The thing that makes this sin so terrible is you people have pride in your sin, you should be ashamed. shame on you jay
@darkwinter76 I think the phrase is, "abusers of themselves with mankind". That's according to the King James version which can be no more accurate than any other translation. How can we really know what was meant by this? Further, Jesus didn't say this, Paul did. Paul couldn't have spoken for Jesus, much less God. Paul in his time and in his culture could never have conceived of the kind of loving, committed, wholesome gay relationship that Bryan and Jay so beautifully live out for us today.
@avesraggiana well you are entitled to your opinion but the Bible is clear on its position with homos. It is not natural. They can not have children nor should raise children. Two men having intercourse is unhealthy and DISGUSTING. Look at the spread of aids, God made male and female. If you think it is okay, fine, but you will one day find out that this is complete sin and what makes it even worse is the fact that they parade it and take pride and confuse young kids to be sodomites
@darkwinter76 I didn't have to be confused to become a sodomite. I was already born one because that is how God made me. Yes, the Bible is clear on its position on homos. But our interpretation of what the Bible means in its positon on homos is very much less certain. Cultures change, languages changes, meanings change and contexts change. And to use the Bible to justify our biases and judgements is a sin that Christians have committed to justify their inhumane behavior to their fellow men.
@darkwinter76 And why are nongays so bizarrely fascinated with two men having intercourse? What is with this obsessive preoccupation with what two people of the same sex do in bed? It's not as if I go around looking at all the heterosexual couples around me, wondering what they do in bed. That's the last thing I would want on my mind!
@darkwinter76 So what does Jesus have to say about homosexuality? In the Bible in its current form? Absolutely NOTHING. Jesus does have a lot to say about divorce and by that standard, half of heterosexual America should be burning in Hell right about now. Divorce is a greater threat to the institution of marriage than gay marriage. If you're serious about preserving the institution of marriage, then ban Divorce.
@darkwinter76 And thank you for your warning. You would be better off directing your efforts in another direction: yourself. Our pride in our so-called sin is a no greater shame than your pride in your self-righteousness and your presumption that you would know what God would want from us. The God I know and love is much, much greater than any Bible, any religion or any belief another human being would try to impose on me.
Go live your life privately instead of putting ideas in childrens heads and other peoples heads online making sodomy seem just fine by making these videos. It is a damn shame that people like you are one by one ruining our next generation. So the God of the Bible isnt God? Maybe you should re examine that statement.
I am raising 5 kids that Straight Men and Women have hurt and thrown away I can gurantee you sir I am not hurting our next generation I am helping to teach them its not who or where you come from its how you live your life. I also treat them to treat others as they want to be treated and that we are all special and that God has a plan for all of us. I suggest you stop judging others that you do not understand or know.
For the last time, I am not judging you, that is not my job and I believe God loves you. If you put yourself online like this, expect a stir to be caused. It has nothing to do with your kids at all. The fact is what is wrong is you justifying the homosexual lifestyle that is going to confuse people on what God intended marriage to be, between a man and a woman. It is Biblically put that way. You are free to do whatever but I think you are wrong for putting this stuff online man.
@depfox bisexuals and homosexuals like to stick their dicks in poo and often rinse it in pussy... its not very hygenic, its un-natural and promiscious,and sticking your dick in shit is pretty disgusting if you think about it, especially since most fags then turn around and suck others' poo soaked cocks. Gay life is repulsive and bisexuality is the first slippery rung in a life of peversion.
@darkwinter76 people like you are the reason why i cry at night. You are blinded by religion. religion will bring the fall of america. I am not saying that you should not beleive in god i could care less about if you have a religion. I am Buhddist . BUt don't put religion in front of Ethos (Ethics) and Logos (Logic) for you will make a invalid argument A (IF True then False= False)
@soytofu1234 I am glad that you cry at nite. I am glad you are provoked to think. You obviously at least have a guilty conscience and know you are wrong. you people are blinded by "political correctness". You think that this guy is so wonderful, HE IS USING THESE KIDS FOR POLITICAL PROPAGANDA ON PROP 8. WAKE UP PEOPLE. glad hes at least banned in Germany.. If anyone can show me where in the Bible it says its okay to be a homo I will personally support proposition 8.
@darkwinter76 i sincerely hope that god hates me, im not gay or something, but i im an atheist, and if there's a heaven that will be full with people like you i dont want to be there... i think hell with all these calm and down to earth gay people, everything else you are scared about would be better (please note my sarcasm when refering to god, i dont believe that he exists :3)
You're awesome.
BrettNiche 4 days ago
YOU ARE MY HERO!THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR COMING OUT STORY!
likeag666 1 month ago
I kinda guess the message to be found here is that the grass is greener on the other side. It's always such a shame when a family dissowns one of their own, it's by no means rare, but it's sad to see or even hear that people still have to go through what they have.
Atleast now though, life is better for you and you can enjoy yourself better than when you were trying to deny who you were at heart :)
FANNYLEROUX 1 month ago
What movies?
dalehu 1 month ago
I want to thank you Jay for allowing us to listen to your story. I am a gay teen in SF and this and your channel have given me real hope. I am not completely out, but it was really nice to hear your experience. Being raised Catholic and going to a Catholic elementary school and a Catholic/ Marianist all boy school, I kinda understand your struggles. I hope when i come out to my parents, we will still be able to have a relationship. Thanks again.
Magic41357 1 month ago
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Magic41357 1 month ago
wish i could do the same! but i cant :(:(:( :'(
SiestaXD 2 months ago
thanx for this i never new how to come out untill now. i can now go tell my frends with confedence
zdunzy 3 months ago
I really want to thank you for posting this video. it is helping me see that being gay doesn't make you bad person and that with coming out hopefully my life won't change permanently for the worst. I have been dealing with my own issues with coming out because i too come from a very conservative town and family and i happen to go to a catholic college. I thought you'd like to know that your video has truly made an impact on me and making me think differently.
thankyou
MichaelRicciTKD0100 3 months ago
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ALL GAYS ARE GOING TO HELL. READ 1ST CORINTHIANS 6 VERSE 7
IIIIlllllll 3 months ago
Jay, I think I've watched this video 10 times already. You and I are alike in so many ways, the military, depression, fathers homophobia. Fortunately my father went a full 180 degrees when I came out to him, I thought he was gonna disown me, but he actually apologized to me. Question though, why do you think that being in the military, it actually makes you wanna come out more?
ERAUPRCWA 4 months ago
thanks a lot this really helped ((:
SpoonerSpecter 4 months ago
Been trying to kill myself for 6 years now. No self worth at all. I class myself as complicated and I've done unforgivable things. Save me :)
vikingndesert 4 months ago
It's interesting that even men that are promiscuous turn homo later on
cagelsthrough 5 months ago
Okay, my question is, how is it that a lot of people in the army are gay. I just never thought that. Not that i never imagined a hard guy being gay, cause, i'm sure that happens all the time, but going to the army is just something i never imagined, and tying that with gay? Plus, how did you know? If everybody is acting all tough and stuff, how did you find out if they were gay?
Equistta 5 months ago
If your father is willing to disown you, then he isn't worth your very presence.
Joshie102 5 months ago
@Joshie102 i know right, how the hell can you look at you new born baby and love it more than you've ever loved anything, then bcos of ONE relatively insignificant thing, turn round and reject the kid like he's nothing
BananaSandwich1 4 months ago
I know how you feel. The Army has done the same for me... oddly enough it helped me come out and feel more comfortable with myself
ERAUPRCWA 7 months ago
Great video. Thank you for sharing this. Your videos really warm my heart. The world needs more people like you guys! :)
RaquelG2885 7 months ago
I love you:) -3
scarletbewitcher21 8 months ago
Did your girlfriend have the baby?
NeverUntilTomorrow 8 months ago
@NeverUntilTomorrow No sadly she had an abortion :O(
depfox 8 months ago
Whoops, the question I just asked was answered in part 2. Sorry :p
mattdyer0 8 months ago
Question for you...did your girlfriend at the time have the child? If so, do you have any contact with him/her??
Also, your channel is fantastic. You have a gorgeous family, and hopefully you are changing peoples' minds about homosexuality. It's a shame that it's 2011 and bullshit discrimination exists. You guys are helping break down those barriers. though. Bravo.
mattdyer0 8 months ago
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@MrRsalas2010 • A random sample of 5,182 adults from 6 U.S. metropolitan areas questioned about incestuous sex during childhood. Incest was disproportionately reported by both bisexuals and homosexuals. 148 gays (7.7% of the sample) 50% of same-sex, and 22% of opposite-sex incestuous experience. Psychol Rep. 1995 Apr;76(2):611-21 ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/
WhopokedOprah 9 months ago
@MrRsalas2010 he is probably ashamed of you!
WhopokedOprah 9 months ago
Bagley and Tremblay (1997) reported that 5 out of 8 suicide attempters were homosexual/bisexual males (16, 17), and a previous study of the same sample had reported that 6 out of 8 suicide attempters (75%) had been sexually abused (experienced unwanted sexual acts) before the age of 17 V Bagley, C., Wood, M., and Young, L. (1994). Victim to abuser: mental health and behavioral sequels of child sexual abuse in a survey of young adult males . Child Abuse & Neglect, 18(8), 683-97.
WhopokedOprah 9 months ago
I wana meet the 10 people who disliked this and destroy them!
this shouldn't even have a dislike button!!!
BigGayDan1 9 months ago
Awwww I love your guys' videos :-)
awkwardanniness 10 months ago
Hi Jay, Just a quick note to express my appreication and applaude your efforts you make in your videio. i'm 51yrs, gay, but unlike you, have not come out. Though, at 51, no gf ever, no children, you'd have to be deaf, dumb, and blind not to know. Yet, I've told no one. I am nearing retirement, so I am now at a point where living more true to self is looking like the light at the end of the tunnel. It is videos like yours that keep incouraging me, that keeps that dream alive, Thank You.
Mac59111 10 months ago
My brother is the biggest star wars nerd haha.
He has all the toys and dolls still in the package haha
NoUsername713 10 months ago
Please don't commit suicide! evar! :( you're so intelligent and strong-headed! and my hero.
FatChixx97 10 months ago
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This is a wonderful story im a lesbian and i just have great respect for u.
monsterattackful 11 months ago
Interesting story. You're right, you did exhibit distructive behavior, espeically when you got your girlfriend pregnant.
dougrnmsn 11 months ago
I feel so sorry that you had to go through hard times with suicidal thoughts and problems with your father. I'm glad that you are now married and have a family and all. I hope you will have a good life.
LestatdeVladimir 11 months ago
thats sad about how your father reacted =[ someone should slap that crazy old man. (Im not gay fyi, I have a gay friend who I wish would come out to his parents, but like most cases he fears they will hate him =/)
Perdoct 1 year ago
@MrRsalas2010 sure
depfox 1 year ago
@MrRsalas2010 would you be willing to ask this question in a video format for our ask a gay family videos? I guess I have to answer this question from a 40 year old perspective...I wouldnt let Bryan treat me in this manner...If Bryan woultn allow me to be a 100% apart of his family and friends with the good and the bad I wouldnt be able to be in a relationship with him. This really is a personal choice that you have to decide for yoursefl. That being said dont ever let someone treat you bad.
depfox 1 year ago
@JusticeXavierH If you don't mind me giving you advice as a 28 year old gay man don't ever give up on GOD and don't believe those lie's your parent are telling you when the bible speaks about homosexual acts its speaking on prostitution and rape not gay relationships or gay love GOD love you as you are never let anyone tell you deferent. As you grow and start digging for the truth yourself you'll understand what I'm trying to tell you
Tommy4503 1 year ago
Where's Bryan's coming out story?
MsAsianNinja 1 year ago
dude right on for sharing your story. also your star wars collection is mind blowing
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@JusticeXavierH depfox (1 second ago) Spam Marked as spam I think you are heading i the right direction you already know who you are and that is amazing....I dint come to terms with who I was untilll I was 18 years old.....Be yourself and dont look back.....the world is full of people who are going to tell you how to live who to love and how to be.....They are all full of shit.
depfox 1 year ago 2
Because of you, I know that I can be lesbian, and have kids. :)
awkwardannieness 1 year ago
I am a 15 year old male from Texas, and i'm gay... I want to tell my parents so bad, not so much my dad; But its pretty obvious that i'm gay, I listen to all kinds of girl music, I love chick flicks. But I'm worried that they will kick me out and disown me. I'm hopeing after highschool, or even college... When I grow up I would like to become a male nurse. I would tell them right now if I could and I would know how they would react; And both of my parents are divorced... What should I do?
ThatOneGuy015 1 year ago
waite if you think they are going to kick you out dont tell them untill you are independent of them
depfox 1 year ago
@depfox I agree with that totally. Don't come out until you can support yourself.
gapitts 1 year ago
You're a wonderful human being with a wonderful story to share. :)
Merry Christmas.
nancyboynoire 1 year ago
Love this video thx for it man
samtheman931 1 year ago
the girl that you got pregnant, are you involved in the child's life??
okonkwoobiageli 1 year ago
@okonkwoobiageli I got that question a lot watch part 2.
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dontmakemeMAD1990 1 year ago
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ggoodie12 1 year ago
gay is not the way
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@ggoodie12 the one who always cares aout what other people think about him doesnt have an opinion, but he/she is an so called 'herdwalker'
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dontmakemeMAD1990 1 year ago
Really appreciate your honesty and solid values, brother.
zaynzaynzayn 1 year ago
Thank you. I'm 63 and have just 2 weeks ago come out to my wife and family. It's painful and my heads all over the place. But it is also liberating. At last I'm free in a way.
20251paris 1 year ago
@20251paris Hi, just wanted to say that I thought your comment was really cute, wish you all the best :) I hope that things have gotten better with your situation and you're enjoying being out
1Vella 1 year ago
@20251paris Welcome!
niznet111 1 year ago
Love it :-) Thanks x
DanBerDar 1 year ago
Really interesting story, thanks for sharing. To talk about the horrendous things you've been through, in such short sentences, it's hard to understand. I think most gay people can at least identify with some of these things though, which is really unfortunate.
But in a way, for me anyway, going through such things has made me a much better person, and a lot more appreciative of the life I do have. This video really put things into perspective for me- thanks again. :-)
scottc1231 1 year ago
Thank you for this. Raised as a Jew, i knew that the torah said to stone known active gays, i never thought this was right, but as a result we never learned anything about gayness other than they were like women and were sinning.
I knew this wasn't true but i never knew a gay person, i always wondered what they were actually like, or how their families were run. And despite the fact i had nothing against gays, i couldn't see them as natural, it was a choice, or a genetic thing, but i was wrong.
laallaal75 1 year ago
thanks you so much for doing this video....just earlier today i was thinking about coming out to myself. i am gay and i love myself. thank you so much
saxophone2010 1 year ago
thanks for posting this story -
anthonynewsome 1 year ago
And as I'm looking at the date of this video "June 12, 2009", it gives me the chills because I put a video on YouTube titled "My Confession" on June 15, 2009 in which I come out of the closet to my friends and anyone else who is watching. I posted it after coming out to my family. The video is now under "private" on my channel because it's hard for me to go back to that state. I mean the video is basically me bawling haha. So yeah, just thought I'd share that with ya! ;-)
brandoncherrymusic 1 year ago
Holy crap! I was lookin' through some of your videos, and this video hit me in the face like a bag of bricks! Last year right before I came out of the closet I went onto YouTube and searched for some coming out videos to help encourage me that I was making the right decision. Also to get some ideas on how to just spill everything. I remember running into this video! It's crazy how a year later everything comes around full circle, and here I am running into your videos! Way cool!
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minusmn 1 year ago
I thought that was touching and the little boy you once must have been was visible or at least imaginable again, as is the solid man. Though I don't want to state a banality or something offensive, it occurred to me that your dad may very well have been a pure repressed homosexual. Also, I don't think that 3 out of 5 gay is some "divine irony" at all, although I realize this line of thought may be at odds with the "we were born that way" outlook -an outlook that I don't share...
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Your story is a very amazing one that I am sure has saved some young peoples lives. Thank you for the honesty and straightforwardness that you have shared. I know without a doubt that you have had a positive impact on the lives of many. As a priest, I also know that there are many religious leaders today, myself included, that are open and affirmming to my gay brothers and sisters. Don't loose faith and remember God loves you just as he made you...Father Rick
EmailFatherRick 1 year ago
Your story is a very amazing one that I am sure has saved some young peoples lives. Thank you for the honesty and straightforwardness that you have shared. I know without a doubt that you have had a positive impact on the lives of many. As a priest, I also know that there are many religious leaders today, myself included, that are open and affirmming to my gay brothers and sisters. Don't loose faith and remember God loves you just as he made you...Father Rick
EmailFatherRick 1 year ago
I don't have children yet, but if my offspring came to me and said they were gay, I'd probably disappoint them by not caring. "oh, you're gay? ...so?" I wouldn't really do anything about it but continue to support the parson that I helped to create. ...wait, the army is full of teh gey buttsecks? ZOMGWTFBQ!!!! lol
Sakamachi25 1 year ago
Love your video. I have two kids,one that I adopted when I was married. You can have a family and be gay.. My kids are wonderful and My partner and I Love our kids. We are the same as any straight parents..You guys are wonderful..thanks so much for posting this video..you guys have reached so many people...TY..God Bless
rdnylennox 1 year ago
You my good sir are an inspiration for all the gay people out there! You were capable to do what many people want to do but just don't are brave enough (i'm talking for myself too) and the fact you're raising thos children is just adorable! Thanks a lot for the video. I really am struggling to coming out to my parents because i came out already for my friends and it went very good i have very supportive people around me :) Thanks a lot you're what this society needs. Thanks.
Mewenibu 1 year ago
thank you for sharing this, you don't know how many people youve helped, myself included! i wish you and your family all the happiness in the world.
odettetoabird 1 year ago
oh I haven't seen this channel since the award and the march on DC...I see from ur profile that u now have taken in ur nieces 3 kids..that is awesome.. str8 people are always going on about gays adopting kids yet with all the kids in need of a home we can ask the question "where are they when it counts?" u have done more good for kids than 99% of str8 couples ..be proud be strong ..u surely r blessed
xadam2dudex 1 year ago 2
@xadam2dudex we have missed you dont stay away so long ;O)
depfox 1 year ago
@depfox ,
I don't mean to be rude but you are hot!
:-)
ffelix422 1 year ago
@xadam2dudex Your story is a very amazing one that I am sure has saved some young peoples lives. Thank you for the honesty and straightforwardness that you have shared. I know without a doubt that you have had a positive impact on the lives of many. As a priest, I also know that there are many religious leaders today, myself included, that are open and affirmming to my gay brothers and sisters. Don't loose faith and remember God loves you just as he made you...Father Rick
EmailFatherRick 1 year ago
@EmailFatherRick I think u might have clicked on my comment instead of depfox's ..they are the one's that u should praise they have done the good works ..but thanx 4 the support u offered
xadam2dudex 1 year ago
I'm sorry but I gotta say this. Jay please stop slouching! or like the wrap song says....."LEAN BACK, LEAN BACK" LOL. all jokes (& posture critizium aside), that was beautiful jay, I'm about to click on part two now. & Man you better had explain what ever happend with your biological child!!
SUPREMEQUEEN09 1 year ago
ITS STATES CLEARLY IN THE BIBLE THAT MAN SHALL NOT LAY W/MAN AND WOMAN SHALL NOT LAY W/WOMAN SO WHY IS IT THAT EVERY ONE IS IGNORING GODS WORD!!! I DONT GET IT!!! YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
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Karlzberg414 1 year ago
@Karlzberg414 Bravo well said I agree with you a 100% most Americans care Hypocrits.
depfox 1 year ago
@bombaymahogany lol shut up you ignorant fool.
odettetoabird 1 year ago
@bombaymahogany It also says to not eat pork or shell fish or commit adultry or to steal or to kill or to blah, blad, blah. the bible is used to condem everyone so get over it!, half the world doesn't believe in that book.
Why does everyone pull the bible card when it comes to gay people? There has been gay since like,,, Forever. Before the bible was rewitten there was homosexulity. We aint going away beotch!
db1burns01 1 year ago
@db1burns01 i dont do it
i dislike them whitout the bible
i know iam original
and someowhat....
do you know what an mortar is ?
dontmakemeMAD1990 1 year ago
Thank you for this, thank you
aaronlosing 1 year ago
thanx for your story....i totally relate!
its best to ignore comments from pple who specifically look for vids like yours just to put you/us down coz its easy for any1 to write a comment and post.......
dizzin0nz 1 year ago
Thanks for posting this Jay! It is nice to realize that someone can be gay and have values, a normal life and a real family... you're such an example.
braziliaan 1 year ago 2
great video. it annoys me how they say that god sends gays and bis and lesbians to hell, but they also say that he creats us and gives us life. so, why would he send us to hell for how he made us? we cant change how we feel. you van pretend but u cant make those feelings go away.
redsk8r10 1 year ago
Thank you for your video :)
darkmatter88 1 year ago
GENESIS 2:24. “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” In this ONE VERSE, God establishes “His” boundaries for BOTH marriage and sex. ANY deviation from this is a perversion of His will for your life and rebellion (SIN) against Him.
bornagain001 1 year ago
Jay's my new favorite gay guy. lolz u rock.
thenewkeg10609 1 year ago
Hello!
A very good website is Rainbow-NAC, a very gayfriendly and supporting website
Kind Greetings from Germany
1969Ragnar 1 year ago
When you find yourself believing in a God that hates the same kind of people you do, then you can be absolutely certain that is a God that you yourself have created. Whoever said the Bible was meant to be used as Constitution on which to base our lives? Does anyone really believe that Jesus himself would have insisted on this? Was Jesus himself a Christian? Jesus came to the world with a beautiful message, only to be corrupted by the humans who came after him - so-called Christians.
avesraggiana 1 year ago
IF every gay guy was like this man gays wouldnt be as dicrimated. And never give up on god!!
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2192042694 1 year ago
I did all this when I was 15, in 1975.It seems strange now to revisit all of this pain and confusion in your videos.Correct me if I'm wrong, but had you not not been gay, would you have cared and been as empathic of others as you are now? To those of us who do our emotional and spiritual homework,being gay can be seen as a gift in understanding better ourselves and the human condition.I'm very glad you found your way through.I have no doubt you will pay all this insight forward.
tet43 1 year ago
You're a Hottie...and thank you for telling your story.
avesraggiana 1 year ago
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to actually be gay, I think is something that gets put into your brain at a young age b/c, "womanly men" are called that. Our society should learn this, since every year our society becomes more feminine. There were actually ancient Indian tribes that knew this. It's just too bad there's no one there for these kids at this young age to tell them right from wrong and that gay thoughts ARE normal at that age, but shouldn't continue beyond puberty. Men and Women are made for each other.
FenderMike1428 1 year ago
One of the best DAMN videos on YouTube hands down! Good stuff, good stuff. On my way to watch part 2.
vegasbaby92 1 year ago
Jay my heart goes out to you. I'm so sorry your father disowned you and I'm sorry what you had to go through growing up. I'm so glad that you remained strong and that you are now happy with Bryan and your children. You are truly an inspiration. Thank you for posting this.
mattrd 1 year ago
dude ur a lobster. red shit
911aurel 1 year ago
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Gay people should all be given a lethal injection.
Bagatronic 1 year ago
@Bagatronic, I really pity you. If you want to get rid of gays SIMPLY do not have children.
Kumtekmeon 1 year ago
I came out at the age of 13. ._.
pearsigh 1 year ago
Jay, DON'T even bother with suicide, the only person you are truly robbing is yourself of any future happiness, I think it's the saddest thing when you hear someone has killed themself because of rejection to their sexuality. It really gets me how parents reject their gay kids when they created them and it's the gay kids that'll probably look after them in their twilight years. My first question to God will be why did you make me gay God in such a cruel hetro world.
lefty5128 1 year ago
@lefty5128 I'm not god..but I do think that life is a test, people are put into different places, situations, cultures, religions and life styles to see how they act..we are free in will, and god judges people from their hearts, intentions and deeds..just be a good person, do what you can to help those in need and you'll be fine if god wills it.
alliy20 1 year ago
Thanx for posting this!!! I've been watching many of your vids and I'll stop commenting for now.....before both of you think I'm some kind of stalker....I just think both of you are such a rolemodel!!!! The world needs more and more like the 2 of you!
gyqz 1 year ago
You are so cute! Thank you for sharing this with the world. I have yet to come out to my family, and so this is very encouraging. :)
CJSchlotthauer 1 year ago
good job
MsMadtatter 1 year ago
You guys are so insperational
Taiman5 1 year ago
Hi, my name is Andrew & I am gay. I'm so happy I can NAME myself and CLAIM myself after so long. Thanks for your videos - they make me feel not alone anymore.
tredia576 1 year ago
darkwinter76 do not tell him that he is a mockery of life its very difficult to come out to your parents. its not like us gay people can control that we are gay. it tears u apart and its very difficult living with it. Jay im happy that your living a happy life and your the kind of person that i look up to, not the kind of person i look down on we need more people like u in society. your strong to be talking about this congrats
metamorphesis9 1 year ago
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Brother, you are making a mockery of family life. Repent and turn away from your sin. Your marriage is invalid according to the Bible. I hate to tell you the truth but you are strongly under the influence of Satan who wants you to be gay. Dont believe people that say God hates you brother, He loves you but not your sin but begs for you to not be a homosuxual and defile marriage. I am a sinner just like you, you can be saved it is not too late. See Bible for details.
darkwinter76 1 year ago
I dont belive in a hate filled God I belive in a God thats loves all his creations. I am sorry that you see love in such a limited capacity. We will all stand in front of God, I feel very confident that God will be pleased for the life I have lived.
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did I not just tell you that God does not hate you, God loves you, He just does not like homosexuality and that is found in His Holy Bible, I am sorry but it is. Marriage is between a man and a woman and what He created needs to be preserved. this is not an alternative lifestyle and teaching the next generation that this is normal is wrong. Im not telling you you are going to hell like some would I am saying that no matter what this is against God's Word and what our country was founded on.
darkwinter76 1 year ago
Sir man wrote the bible not God, The bible is inspired by God and sadly man makes lots of mistakes. The bible has been translated into thousands of languages and translations. Man makes a lot of mistakes. As for sin it is all equale in gods eyes. Please stop judging my family for being happy. I wonder do you ever stand out side Redlobster and tell the people heading in to dine that God is against the eating of shell fish?
depfox 1 year ago 28
I dont judge anyone. I warn people. You are free to live your life however you want and disbelieve the Bible that is fine. But please stop gloating in your sin. You homosexuals love to flaunt what you are doing to justify it. I am ashamed of my sins. If you do not believe the God of the Bible is God then you are living a lie. Shame on you for flaunting this online for children to see. I did not know God was against shellfish, but I will look it up. I know God is against sodomy.
darkwinter76 1 year ago
@darkwinter76 God isn't against Sodomy, people are. And don't give me that crap about Sodom and Gomorrah. Do you know what Lot was going to offer to the men who were about to gang rape the two men- angels who came to visit? His two virgin daughters! Oh that makes me feel really good about the God you believe in! And yes, this part of the story is in your precious Bible too. To Hell with your Bible, where it belongs.
avesraggiana 1 year ago 2
@avesraggiana He is against Homosexuals though. 1 Cor 6:9 "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals" Its not the only thing He is against though. I am just trying to warn you people thats all, I am not judging you for I sin too. The thing that makes this sin so terrible is you people have pride in your sin, you should be ashamed. shame on you jay
darkwinter76 1 year ago
@darkwinter76 I think the phrase is, "abusers of themselves with mankind". That's according to the King James version which can be no more accurate than any other translation. How can we really know what was meant by this? Further, Jesus didn't say this, Paul did. Paul couldn't have spoken for Jesus, much less God. Paul in his time and in his culture could never have conceived of the kind of loving, committed, wholesome gay relationship that Bryan and Jay so beautifully live out for us today.
avesraggiana 1 year ago
@avesraggiana well you are entitled to your opinion but the Bible is clear on its position with homos. It is not natural. They can not have children nor should raise children. Two men having intercourse is unhealthy and DISGUSTING. Look at the spread of aids, God made male and female. If you think it is okay, fine, but you will one day find out that this is complete sin and what makes it even worse is the fact that they parade it and take pride and confuse young kids to be sodomites
darkwinter76 1 year ago
@darkwinter76 I didn't have to be confused to become a sodomite. I was already born one because that is how God made me. Yes, the Bible is clear on its position on homos. But our interpretation of what the Bible means in its positon on homos is very much less certain. Cultures change, languages changes, meanings change and contexts change. And to use the Bible to justify our biases and judgements is a sin that Christians have committed to justify their inhumane behavior to their fellow men.
avesraggiana 1 year ago
@darkwinter76 And why are nongays so bizarrely fascinated with two men having intercourse? What is with this obsessive preoccupation with what two people of the same sex do in bed? It's not as if I go around looking at all the heterosexual couples around me, wondering what they do in bed. That's the last thing I would want on my mind!
avesraggiana 1 year ago
@darkwinter76 So what does Jesus have to say about homosexuality? In the Bible in its current form? Absolutely NOTHING. Jesus does have a lot to say about divorce and by that standard, half of heterosexual America should be burning in Hell right about now. Divorce is a greater threat to the institution of marriage than gay marriage. If you're serious about preserving the institution of marriage, then ban Divorce.
avesraggiana 1 year ago
@darkwinter76 And thank you for your warning. You would be better off directing your efforts in another direction: yourself. Our pride in our so-called sin is a no greater shame than your pride in your self-righteousness and your presumption that you would know what God would want from us. The God I know and love is much, much greater than any Bible, any religion or any belief another human being would try to impose on me.
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Go live your life privately instead of putting ideas in childrens heads and other peoples heads online making sodomy seem just fine by making these videos. It is a damn shame that people like you are one by one ruining our next generation. So the God of the Bible isnt God? Maybe you should re examine that statement.
darkwinter76 1 year ago
I am raising 5 kids that Straight Men and Women have hurt and thrown away I can gurantee you sir I am not hurting our next generation I am helping to teach them its not who or where you come from its how you live your life. I also treat them to treat others as they want to be treated and that we are all special and that God has a plan for all of us. I suggest you stop judging others that you do not understand or know.
depfox 1 year ago 41
For the last time, I am not judging you, that is not my job and I believe God loves you. If you put yourself online like this, expect a stir to be caused. It has nothing to do with your kids at all. The fact is what is wrong is you justifying the homosexual lifestyle that is going to confuse people on what God intended marriage to be, between a man and a woman. It is Biblically put that way. You are free to do whatever but I think you are wrong for putting this stuff online man.
darkwinter76 1 year ago
@depfox thats awesome man, i loved watching your vid!
sexygreen2010 1 year ago
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@depfox bisexuals and homosexuals like to stick their dicks in poo and often rinse it in pussy... its not very hygenic, its un-natural and promiscious,and sticking your dick in shit is pretty disgusting if you think about it, especially since most fags then turn around and suck others' poo soaked cocks. Gay life is repulsive and bisexuality is the first slippery rung in a life of peversion.
iamslightlybored 1 year ago
@depfox thats riite i havee gay people in my family and we love them just the same stick to what u know dont let no one tell you other wyse
Femalefingerboarder1 1 year ago
@depfox doesnt make u right. u need to die
ninjazoner 1 year ago
@darkwinter76 people like you are the reason why i cry at night. You are blinded by religion. religion will bring the fall of america. I am not saying that you should not beleive in god i could care less about if you have a religion. I am Buhddist . BUt don't put religion in front of Ethos (Ethics) and Logos (Logic) for you will make a invalid argument A (IF True then False= False)
soytofu1234 1 year ago
@soytofu1234 I am glad that you cry at nite. I am glad you are provoked to think. You obviously at least have a guilty conscience and know you are wrong. you people are blinded by "political correctness". You think that this guy is so wonderful, HE IS USING THESE KIDS FOR POLITICAL PROPAGANDA ON PROP 8. WAKE UP PEOPLE. glad hes at least banned in Germany.. If anyone can show me where in the Bible it says its okay to be a homo I will personally support proposition 8.
darkwinter76 1 year ago
@darkwinter76 i sincerely hope that god hates me, im not gay or something, but i im an atheist, and if there's a heaven that will be full with people like you i dont want to be there... i think hell with all these calm and down to earth gay people, everything else you are scared about would be better (please note my sarcasm when refering to god, i dont believe that he exists :3)
Dreadfultime 1 year ago
@Dreadfultime God doesnt hate you he could give a rats ass about you. And when you get to hell tell your mother she left her panties on my floor...
ObamatTheAntiChrist 1 year ago
haha, wow you are such a loving person, i wonder how your cloud in heaven will be... oh wait... just maggots for humans
Dreadfultime 1 year ago
@Dreadfultime get a life. your a waste of time. low life peice of dirt..
ObamatTheAntiChrist 1 year ago