the guy that i was with for about 8 months has been my friend for about a year and a half and i told him pretty much the same thing, that for relationships to work you have (or at least should) friendship between the two people. he broke up with me because he thought that he felt like we were just friends, do you think it was just not meant to be with him?
Ï know what she´s talking about, people should realize that nice ass or beautiful face are no reasons to commit sharing a lifetime with a person. If U want to look for a sign that U Rtaking the correct decision, just think about the way U feel for her/him. When U know some details about a person and don't bothers U the way it would if some else did the same, if Uenjoy just sitting next to her, if U feel like U R a team working to reach each other's wellness, get married then :-)
@CatchMeMonster hey, why don't you shut up, you apparently are crazy and have no life. You also don't even know how to spell grannies. So, you go get a life, learn how to spell, and don't get on youtube to put people down just to make yourself feel better. Youtube is a place to watch videos, entertain, make videos, be informative, and get feedback on videos, not for some little p.o.s. to say rude things to good people just to be a jerk and feel better about their shitty lives.
As a young person of 25yrs, I must say that this video speaks the truth in everyway shape and form. I know a lot of people can't accept it but I hope those people still listen to it.
Nice thoughts but I don't like hearing stuff like, "person perfect for you," or, "soul mate." When this world has 6 Billion people in on and the most you will get to know in your life is almost definitely less than one thousand.
@CatchMeMonster let her do her stuff. look at you when you're old and when you make videos, you are gonna regret for ranting about old people on youtube, and when you are old, im gonna fuck up you likes and dislikes. fuck off and gtfo!
oh gee, I've been with the same lady for 40 years, and married for 30 some year, and we got 3 kids, and some grand kids. And I've known her for over 50 years too. We grew up living next to each other, and so I've known her for the majority of my life, she moved into the house next to ours when i was 6 years old, and im 57 now
My husband is perfect! I decided that years ago. Anytime I find evidence to the contrary, I disregard it, on account of my previous decision! I love my husband and he loves me. We are so content.
I loved your open and honest way of dealing with this topic. Too many folk are giving up too quickly on a sacred important serious thing such as the union of two individuals in a marriage.
I loved your open and honest way of dealing with this topic. Too many folk are giving up tooo tooooo quickly on a sacred important serious thing such as the union of two individuals in a marriage.
exactly, why would you get married for just sex? if you just want to have sex, have sex, dont get married.
marriage is for two people who are seemingly perfect for each other. it bonds your two lives together, and sex is not the only thing in life... it is important, but theres so much else to take into account
i mean, i have loved girls, but just because i love them and think they are the sweetest things, doesnt mean they are perfect for me
I feel like your a family member when you talk, its nice hearing real advice from a REAL person, I hope i can reach that in my relationship one day! God bless you, and I cant wait to hear your video when you and your husband reach your 50 year mark :)
I think you are a a wonderful, wonderful angel! Loved what you said completely - about forgiveness in a relationship. It is not the easiest thing to do because so many times we bring our ego in between - and we go like - 'how could s/he do this to ME?!' - but I have begun to feel how important it is to learn to forgive the tiny imperfections in another human being.. ((Hugs))
Your words have echoed in my head so many times since I watched this video: "You have to have a hefty, hefty amount of forgiveness in your heart if you're gonna last 30 years with somebody. Both of you do." Thank you sooo much, 1 million times over, for posting this video and bringing so much reassurance and warm advice to all of us who watch. You are so wise and sweet & I wish all the best for you and your husband. Both my sweet man and I will remember your words. God bless. <3
Well, she's certainly brightened my day with her video, so I don't think that constitutes as failing at life. And I'd rather watch this video than Dr. Phil anyday.
Hi, my name is Chuck; I think this is a very good video you posted. I posted a video response, but I had to delete it because of the poor sound quality, but I think this is a very important message for many people out there who want to have a relationship with somebody. I can see how important forgiveness is and two people in a marriage relationship really need to have that if they want their marriage to last for many years, or most importantly, the rest of their lives.
I really like this. It reinforces what Ive experienced knowing what it means to love and commit with total acceptance of the person you love, as they are. If you want to change the person, you don't love them, you love your ideals, not the person.
I love what you had to say. and I took all your words to heart. My relationship's been having problems with honesty, and from this, I've gotten the best advice around. Thank you very much lemonette, you're a life saver.
fuck U. There are faults that lie within both genders that contribute to most relationship issues. To be as ignorant as to blame problems on THAT is just extremely stupid and deserves to have thier head shoved in a toilet.
to clear up your stupidity on this: Feminism is just the wacky notion that women are people and deserve to be treated as such. So hard for puny brains, isn't it? Sheesh.
Feminism has ruined the relationship between men and woman by setting them against one another. I have seen wonderful woman transformed into feminist man-hating bitches after taking "Women's studies" or some other related crap. They walk around like the world fuckin owns them something, and it DOESN'T!
I'm feminist and I don't hate every man I see. It's for equality, not to OWN EVERYTHING! what's so bad about wanting the same respect? I understand that women were treated badly all those years ago, but that's the past and it doesn't do any good to be angry over it. You're the one whose got your head twisted with stupid information. GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE YOU ARGUE BECAUSE YOUR OPINION IS JUST ONE HUGE, WRONG BIASED STERIOTYPE.
How about you? You just sound like a sexist, facist pig. Good luck having a girlfriend with that attitude.. most things you listed were just things men do out of curtioucy or just to be a gentlemen (which mind you, were set by men themselves), as for custody, the women did bring them into the world and often give better care. The man only has to pay for care of the child, not HER selfish needs. I hope this is the last of your woman hating rampages. It isn't looking good for you.
"How about you? You just sound like a sexist, facist pig. Good luck having a girlfriend with that attitude..."
My list of 1-6 doesn't sound sexist at all. Sounds about as fair as you can get. If fact, that's what things would be like if they were truly equal. You can either have equality or chivalry, but not both.
I would not want any woman who tries to have both. I'll be just fine without her, trust me.
looks like grandma (granyes) to me, by the way relationships have changed now is how you look and how much money do you have if you are a successful well you are a winner
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You seem like a very sweet person and i enjoyed your video. i can't help but think that your not as happy as you seem you say. I think that weight is a reflection of inner pain. I wonder how can you be happy in a relationship when your not happy with yourself and your body?
thats pretty low dude... i mean come on.. you DONT HAVE TO BRING THAT UP. im pretty sure she doesnt want people saying stuff like that! (and yes i stopped myself from swearing in that)
Many things could be a reflection of inner pain. You focus on weight because that is very visable but you have your flaws just as much as any other person does, perhaps your flaws aren't as visable as other's are.
i dont necesarly understand why hyperactive "symbolise the perfect person" people like you always have to make a reference on obesity. How would you come to the conclusion that people are tormented by their looks? I think that you should let people live how they want to and try not to but into their own lives to make your "perfect community"....
Im single again.. I commented this video a year or so ago when I was with a previous girl. This video always makes me feel better about finding someone right for me.. I dont ever seem to have much luck. just when I find someone I like they are gone after a few months and im on square one again..
This vid really made me miss my mother (shes in heaven now). I'm 20 now and I've been telling my friends since I was 17 that love is all about the dishes, doctors appointments, and waking up everyday with someone next to you, ready to face the everyday world of laughs, tears, and what have yous together. Sex doesn't nearly show as much love as those things do. I guess I got that from Mom, and you Lemonette brought all that back. You are one smart cookie, Kudos!
Great Advise, I have been with my husband for almost 9yrs now, and he and I are best friends! I agree so much about the forgiveness, we all make mistakes and mess up!
I love him so much, I have to go call him right now......
I've always told my wife: "I'm not perfect, but I'm perfect for you". (-; SEX is out the window after about two years. It loses it's appeal. You have a successful relationship, you ARE an authority! I love what you're saying, I "hear" every word.
I think you are very wise and insightful. Thank you for posting this, it's wonderful. And forget those people who leave hating comments. Your too nice of a person to have something like that said to you. =) Go girl!
I think you are very lucky lemmonette. I have been alone now since 1990. I brought my son up on my own and learend to depend on just me. I seem to attract the liars and the cheaters so therefore if I see a guy and think he is cute or whatever, I go in the oppisite direction because I know i am a weirdo magnet for some reason. I am happy for you though.
aw...well I think we are the smart ones :o) hu. maybe some day in my life..In the mean time i ma happy raising my son..You are a good mom to your kids.
i agree with you and me and my boyfriend and i have been toghter for 2 years i hope we will be toghter forever like you and your husband will probably be.
This was enjoyable. Thank you for being so strong. I know I cannot stand putting myself out there on the internet. It's crawling, absolutely crawling, with the shallow, the selfish, and the narrow minded. Not to mention the inexperienced prat who believes they're all knowing. I could take a leaf out of your book really.
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ok lemonette u are soo annoying and im not going to curse cause then u will comment on my language being profane so just straight out u cant make a relationship video seriously look like a slug its like a dead man wearing a watch y would someone take advice from u and my profile doesnt have any information but just for the record im 16 and im more intelligent then u your pathetic
in our today civilization you may be right, but i want to make all who read this post of mine think about all the things we believe to be right or normal. in humanities past relationships were there to have children. (like all animals) i say a relationship doesnt make any sense without sex, it's in harder words pointless/no real relationship if you dont have children. by the way i myself have no children, and i dont belong to a religion or similar dumb believeing-things, i am a thinking person.
"...or similar dumb believeing-things, I am a thinking person."
ROFL!!! People need religion because it gives them a purpose for life, and something/someone to turn to when things get rough. Just everyone doesn't think like you (thank GOD) doesn't mean it's "dumb." Anything "thinking person" worth their salt should come to that realization.
You have been quite honest in your speach. But I think you forgot to mention the one reason that keeps most people together, and that is the fear of being alone. It takes quite a lot of guts to admit it, though.
thanks for this it makes me think, cause im sooo young. Love this vid im soo happy i found u lemonette. But anyways i better go watch another oneofyer vidsim watching them all xx
omg lemonette! *gives you a biiig hug* your awesome. ive been looking for help in my relationship for a while now.. and all i needed to see was your video. your a VERY smart lady.. i miss having someone like that around to talk to. <33
i want to lick your balls. let me like your balls. im telling you to let me lick your balls. i'm telling you to tell me to lick your balls. force me to lick your balls. i want you to let me force you to force me to lick your balls.
I believe the best relationship involves chemistry first. Just like you said. And I agree on the sexual part, I mean, you should have some physical attraction to the person, but that's not all that should matter.
Congrads on the long-lasting relationship! You're one of those very lucky people to have someone in your life for so long! Just like my parents they were together since age 15 and are in their mid and late 30s and still goin' strong..
You taught me more bout' relationships that anyone else. Least of all my parental figures. I love you Lemonette. You the God damn best. If I can be half as happy as y'all, I'll be doin' good.
the guy that i was with for about 8 months has been my friend for about a year and a half and i told him pretty much the same thing, that for relationships to work you have (or at least should) friendship between the two people. he broke up with me because he thought that he felt like we were just friends, do you think it was just not meant to be with him?
lilhinata001l 3 weeks ago
I wish you were my aunt.. Thank you so much. :)
bluedonkeycat 2 months ago
thank you........someone i cared about really deeply hurt me and i wasnt going to talk to them again but i guess they deserve another chance
tsunamiplayer3 3 months ago
Very valuable words, and high value person you are. Thank you for this moment, Lemonette.
Regards from Portugal!
demourax 4 months ago
Ï know what she´s talking about, people should realize that nice ass or beautiful face are no reasons to commit sharing a lifetime with a person. If U want to look for a sign that U Rtaking the correct decision, just think about the way U feel for her/him. When U know some details about a person and don't bothers U the way it would if some else did the same, if Uenjoy just sitting next to her, if U feel like U R a team working to reach each other's wellness, get married then :-)
J0Diaz 5 months ago
awsome story lady.. hope u stay married for 30 more years
notoriousjerry 5 months ago
@CatchMeMonster hey, why don't you shut up, you apparently are crazy and have no life. You also don't even know how to spell grannies. So, you go get a life, learn how to spell, and don't get on youtube to put people down just to make yourself feel better. Youtube is a place to watch videos, entertain, make videos, be informative, and get feedback on videos, not for some little p.o.s. to say rude things to good people just to be a jerk and feel better about their shitty lives.
thefriedpotatoes 5 months ago
As a young person of 25yrs, I must say that this video speaks the truth in everyway shape and form. I know a lot of people can't accept it but I hope those people still listen to it.
TheJason2526 5 months ago
Nice thoughts but I don't like hearing stuff like, "person perfect for you," or, "soul mate." When this world has 6 Billion people in on and the most you will get to know in your life is almost definitely less than one thousand.
Arrroza 5 months ago
@CatchMeMonster let her do her stuff. look at you when you're old and when you make videos, you are gonna regret for ranting about old people on youtube, and when you are old, im gonna fuck up you likes and dislikes. fuck off and gtfo!
Dragonicafan 5 months ago
Thumbs up if Traveler brought you here ;)
rimwydas44 5 months ago 11
I really respect you, I just came across this video and it helped me alot:) Thank you.
fullmoonlover09 5 months ago
Great advice. Thank you.
InfoUplink 5 months ago 2
oh gee, I've been with the same lady for 40 years, and married for 30 some year, and we got 3 kids, and some grand kids. And I've known her for over 50 years too. We grew up living next to each other, and so I've known her for the majority of my life, she moved into the house next to ours when i was 6 years old, and im 57 now
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@CatchMeMonster and youtube arent for douchebags either
tar464 9 months ago
Do you live in the car ... ?
hermitmason111 11 months ago
@hermitmason111 do u live with your mom?
tar464 9 months ago
My husband is perfect! I decided that years ago. Anytime I find evidence to the contrary, I disregard it, on account of my previous decision! I love my husband and he loves me. We are so content.
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I loved your open and honest way of dealing with this topic. Too many folk are giving up too quickly on a sacred important serious thing such as the union of two individuals in a marriage.
TheKrimsonKat 1 year ago
I loved your open and honest way of dealing with this topic. Too many folk are giving up tooo tooooo quickly on a sacred important serious thing such as the union of two individuals in a marriage.
TheKrimsonKat 1 year ago
I love you lemonette!
ClaustrophobicPsycho 1 year ago
I love you lemonette <3
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SuperSaliormoon1 1 year ago
I happened upon this video by accident. Excellent advice!
Cecil
kiltinsa 1 year ago 2
O MY
MADdrummer971 1 year ago
exactly, why would you get married for just sex? if you just want to have sex, have sex, dont get married.
marriage is for two people who are seemingly perfect for each other. it bonds your two lives together, and sex is not the only thing in life... it is important, but theres so much else to take into account
i mean, i have loved girls, but just because i love them and think they are the sweetest things, doesnt mean they are perfect for me
randumbtimes3 2 years ago
My nanny and grabdad were married for 50 years
alphadog2002 2 years ago
Thank you so much. i am a 21 year old guy....and all u have said has made sooo much sense. No wonder you are still with your husband....
bibobra 2 years ago
the sun shines brighter because of your luminescent wisdom
fatrubberduckey 2 years ago
wise lady - thank you
ammusi 2 years ago
I love your accent and such wise words :)
Sennaye 2 years ago
outstanding !!!!!
MasterGrover1 2 years ago 3
woah, those words are very wise.. they actually helped me xD and i just wandered along this video randomly.. Wow thank you ^.^
littledutchgirl78 2 years ago 2
you are exactly right its forgiveness...fabulous video i have subbed, and congrats on nearly a million views
a viewer from london UK
nikeeweston 2 years ago
i needit this today thank you.
msbuns 2 years ago
I feel like your a family member when you talk, its nice hearing real advice from a REAL person, I hope i can reach that in my relationship one day! God bless you, and I cant wait to hear your video when you and your husband reach your 50 year mark :)
lovemypurpleheart 2 years ago 28
LMFBO!!!
AwolInfantryman 2 years ago
omg i think u are sooo cool!!! thank u for sharing!!!!
heyma1love 2 years ago 2
I think this was wonderful. Thank you for sharing.
liselect9 2 years ago
*hug*
iFr4ntiK 2 years ago 9
I think you are a a wonderful, wonderful angel! Loved what you said completely - about forgiveness in a relationship. It is not the easiest thing to do because so many times we bring our ego in between - and we go like - 'how could s/he do this to ME?!' - but I have begun to feel how important it is to learn to forgive the tiny imperfections in another human being.. ((Hugs))
sharmasibal 2 years ago 3
this is very wise but why are you in your car with the seat belt on?
camimuller8 2 years ago
thanks for sharing.
wilroettgen 2 years ago
ok ?
kimdavi 2 years ago
Your words have echoed in my head so many times since I watched this video: "You have to have a hefty, hefty amount of forgiveness in your heart if you're gonna last 30 years with somebody. Both of you do." Thank you sooo much, 1 million times over, for posting this video and bringing so much reassurance and warm advice to all of us who watch. You are so wise and sweet & I wish all the best for you and your husband. Both my sweet man and I will remember your words. God bless. <3
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WTF lmao? Are you a wannab Dr.Phil except you fail at life and live in your car? ahahaha
Cowie102 2 years ago
Well, she's certainly brightened my day with her video, so I don't think that constitutes as failing at life. And I'd rather watch this video than Dr. Phil anyday.
clairesayshi 2 years ago 2
I think it's pretty useful advice.
thesonofabob 2 years ago
Hi, my name is Chuck; I think this is a very good video you posted. I posted a video response, but I had to delete it because of the poor sound quality, but I think this is a very important message for many people out there who want to have a relationship with somebody. I can see how important forgiveness is and two people in a marriage relationship really need to have that if they want their marriage to last for many years, or most importantly, the rest of their lives.
chuckmanofgod 2 years ago
kill them both it's the only way
randomassbass 2 years ago
do you live in that car?
koiko123 2 years ago
im sorry. a fall is to rise again even in this late in the day and age. we all make it with or without them. hang on NANCY youll do it again. lane
laneatlileden 2 years ago
Bravo.
Lifeinthemusic 3 years ago
I really like this. It reinforces what Ive experienced knowing what it means to love and commit with total acceptance of the person you love, as they are. If you want to change the person, you don't love them, you love your ideals, not the person.
4359634 3 years ago
You Rock!
JoeFloD 3 years ago
Very sage advice, ma'am.
GreenTreeFrog 3 years ago
You want to talk equality?
1: On a date, the man should pay for what he eats. The woman should pay for what she eats.
2: Woman can pull out their own seat, and open their own doors.
3: If there is a draft, woman should also have to go.
4: If there is a divorce, the man should pay for his legal bills. The woman should pay for hers.
WTF1920 3 years ago
5: The divorced father and mother should have equal custody rights. The father should not see their child only once a week.
6: The father should not have to pay 1/3 of his paycheck for child support while the mom gets a free ride with alimony.
If you disagree with ANY of these above statements, then you fit the feminist stereotype. If this is the case, then you are no better than the rest.
WTF1920 3 years ago
I love what you had to say. and I took all your words to heart. My relationship's been having problems with honesty, and from this, I've gotten the best advice around. Thank you very much lemonette, you're a life saver.
funkymcbean 3 years ago
why do you have your seatbelt on while parked?
ryanlundquist 3 years ago 4
Personally, the seatbelt makes me a little comfortable and safe. Thats just me.
Sinfoniette 3 years ago 2
what did you do when you got bored in your relationship over time?
kcssnotbubble 3 years ago
hahaha not sure why this in in my playlist.. Whatever its cool =P
shadywalker 3 years ago
I love this video
luvmuzik03 3 years ago 2
Lanette,
I love hearing stories of successful marriages like yours! Coming generations would do well to heed your advice :)
-J.T.
unrulytruthmonger 3 years ago
wtf dont u have a job
RapGod1345 3 years ago
if your gona insalt someone altleast spell the words rite 0k Bouddy i d0 liek 2 spelllll words w0ng toooo
DjBritishTECHNO 3 years ago
It's just so god damned hard these days. Feminism really screwed things up...for BOTH men and woman.
WTF1920 3 years ago
fuck U. There are faults that lie within both genders that contribute to most relationship issues. To be as ignorant as to blame problems on THAT is just extremely stupid and deserves to have thier head shoved in a toilet.
to clear up your stupidity on this: Feminism is just the wacky notion that women are people and deserve to be treated as such. So hard for puny brains, isn't it? Sheesh.
funkymcbean 3 years ago
No, fuck you.
Feminism has ruined the relationship between men and woman by setting them against one another. I have seen wonderful woman transformed into feminist man-hating bitches after taking "Women's studies" or some other related crap. They walk around like the world fuckin owns them something, and it DOESN'T!
WTF1920 3 years ago
I'm feminist and I don't hate every man I see. It's for equality, not to OWN EVERYTHING! what's so bad about wanting the same respect? I understand that women were treated badly all those years ago, but that's the past and it doesn't do any good to be angry over it. You're the one whose got your head twisted with stupid information. GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE YOU ARGUE BECAUSE YOUR OPINION IS JUST ONE HUGE, WRONG BIASED STERIOTYPE.
funkymcbean 3 years ago
Well...you got something smart to say to that? Or what?
WTF1920 3 years ago
How about you? You just sound like a sexist, facist pig. Good luck having a girlfriend with that attitude.. most things you listed were just things men do out of curtioucy or just to be a gentlemen (which mind you, were set by men themselves), as for custody, the women did bring them into the world and often give better care. The man only has to pay for care of the child, not HER selfish needs. I hope this is the last of your woman hating rampages. It isn't looking good for you.
funkymcbean 3 years ago 3
"How about you? You just sound like a sexist, facist pig. Good luck having a girlfriend with that attitude..."
My list of 1-6 doesn't sound sexist at all. Sounds about as fair as you can get. If fact, that's what things would be like if they were truly equal. You can either have equality or chivalry, but not both.
I would not want any woman who tries to have both. I'll be just fine without her, trust me.
WTF1920 3 years ago
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you've been married to just one man....... one very unfortunate man.
alx3120 3 years ago
At least she's able to get with someone.
Get a life.
Sephymuffins 3 years ago
what in hell is a granyes?
lemonette 3 years ago 19
i think its a polish soup :S
hartnell114 3 years ago 2
looks like grandma (granyes) to me, by the way relationships have changed now is how you look and how much money do you have if you are a successful well you are a winner
hadeskngofhll 3 years ago
@lemonette LOL, I was thinking the same thing... I assume it's the opposite of granno?
Anyway, keep up the good work, I really love your videos.
Moon240386 8 months ago
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You seem like a very sweet person and i enjoyed your video. i can't help but think that your not as happy as you seem you say. I think that weight is a reflection of inner pain. I wonder how can you be happy in a relationship when your not happy with yourself and your body?
Feelthemusic4ever 3 years ago
I appreciate your concern, but I think that you are presuming too much.
lemonette 3 years ago 17
thats pretty low dude... i mean come on.. you DONT HAVE TO BRING THAT UP. im pretty sure she doesnt want people saying stuff like that! (and yes i stopped myself from swearing in that)
Deth8Klok 3 years ago 3
Many things could be a reflection of inner pain. You focus on weight because that is very visable but you have your flaws just as much as any other person does, perhaps your flaws aren't as visable as other's are.
Elizabeth01010101 3 years ago
i dont necesarly understand why hyperactive "symbolise the perfect person" people like you always have to make a reference on obesity. How would you come to the conclusion that people are tormented by their looks? I think that you should let people live how they want to and try not to but into their own lives to make your "perfect community"....
1blackwed1 3 years ago 3
@Feelthemusic4ever What kind of stupid shit is that to say to somebody? are you a nutjob?
XforeverlongingX 1 year ago
Great commentary. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us all!
awomansmind 3 years ago 4
Im single again.. I commented this video a year or so ago when I was with a previous girl. This video always makes me feel better about finding someone right for me.. I dont ever seem to have much luck. just when I find someone I like they are gone after a few months and im on square one again..
kyeent 3 years ago
i may be younger but i respect u!
kudos!
lovesRSproductions 3 years ago
Why are you doing this in ur car???
ItsNichole93 3 years ago
This vid really made me miss my mother (shes in heaven now). I'm 20 now and I've been telling my friends since I was 17 that love is all about the dishes, doctors appointments, and waking up everyday with someone next to you, ready to face the everyday world of laughs, tears, and what have yous together. Sex doesn't nearly show as much love as those things do. I guess I got that from Mom, and you Lemonette brought all that back. You are one smart cookie, Kudos!
Take Care - Sammy
slewiscar77 3 years ago
get a life woop woop !! i like ur hair and glasses xx
mrflufe 3 years ago
Great Advise, I have been with my husband for almost 9yrs now, and he and I are best friends! I agree so much about the forgiveness, we all make mistakes and mess up!
I love him so much, I have to go call him right now......
ninjajessie1 3 years ago
im so in love too.. :)
abcd12345 3 years ago
I love that she wears her seatbelt while parked.
goldkind 3 years ago
you need your own advise column.
mileycyrusPersonal 3 years ago
everyone can have the perfect relationship.
you just need to play with the right tools.
helping one perfect relationship at a time,
Hope & Darrell
we've been dating for 2 weeks. we're so in love!
PerfectRelationship 3 years ago
I've always told my wife: "I'm not perfect, but I'm perfect for you". (-; SEX is out the window after about two years. It loses it's appeal. You have a successful relationship, you ARE an authority! I love what you're saying, I "hear" every word.
Love to you,
Stefan from Kentucky
NFB709 3 years ago
Thank you so much for this video~~
brycerice1 3 years ago
WOW...
this was amazing,
im not even exaggerating,
im 13, and have had a boyfriend for going on 9 months the 14th and this helped with all the questions, and doubts ive EVER had,.
keep doind great,
you truly have a talent!
this video was spectacular!
fruitydino 3 years ago
This video helped me out so much. Makes me proud to be a fellow Southern gal :)
oohlala310 3 years ago
I think you are very wise and insightful. Thank you for posting this, it's wonderful. And forget those people who leave hating comments. Your too nice of a person to have something like that said to you. =) Go girl!
JJBlove5 3 years ago
great video...
I may be 20... but all of this is no surprise to me... which is goood
=)
RocketMichael1892M 3 years ago
damn you are one wise woman! totally subscribed!
vesper8 3 years ago
I think you are very lucky lemmonette. I have been alone now since 1990. I brought my son up on my own and learend to depend on just me. I seem to attract the liars and the cheaters so therefore if I see a guy and think he is cute or whatever, I go in the oppisite direction because I know i am a weirdo magnet for some reason. I am happy for you though.
goldydogs 3 years ago
dont feel bad i have the same magnet,, im 37 raised 3 kids and still cant get a good one either.
rosalita4life 3 years ago
aw...well I think we are the smart ones :o) hu. maybe some day in my life..In the mean time i ma happy raising my son..You are a good mom to your kids.
goldydogs 3 years ago
I love Tom.
oneiblind30 3 years ago
i agree with you and me and my boyfriend and i have been toghter for 2 years i hope we will be toghter forever like you and your husband will probably be.
great vid!
REPDAT916 3 years ago
thank you that was very sweet.
:)
Kassi54321 3 years ago 2
I feel like I knew the things she said, but I needed to be reminded of it. Thanks for this video, it was really meaningful!
aNiMeANiMaLs 3 years ago
smart women,.. keep up
tifbuy 3 years ago
you make a really good point in a relationship about forgiveness.
djm86 3 years ago
Very well said! Great advice!
yourtango 3 years ago
true very true
suseflooze 4 years ago 3
Hey, I think your very brave for doing this vid and what you said strikes home
Best wishes
Dave
davettl 4 years ago 7
Thanks
for the love
zeno111111 4 years ago 4
I have been in a relationship for over 6 years and I think everything you said applies. Thanks for the vid.
EvBrand 4 years ago 4
This was enjoyable. Thank you for being so strong. I know I cannot stand putting myself out there on the internet. It's crawling, absolutely crawling, with the shallow, the selfish, and the narrow minded. Not to mention the inexperienced prat who believes they're all knowing. I could take a leaf out of your book really.
syntheral 4 years ago 4
that was profound for me... thanku :)
astounded85 4 years ago
You really are a good girl.
petuniabelle650 4 years ago 3
Nearly One Million views ;]
EnglishKeenan 4 years ago 5
ok.... good video, but y film it in a car? r u homeless or something? lol just kidding.
rammsteinrules4ever 4 years ago
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why is she filming in the car?
atvizory2000 4 years ago
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ok lemonette u are soo annoying and im not going to curse cause then u will comment on my language being profane so just straight out u cant make a relationship video seriously look like a slug its like a dead man wearing a watch y would someone take advice from u and my profile doesnt have any information but just for the record im 16 and im more intelligent then u your pathetic
blackjackcityyyy 4 years ago
:-)
AnnaAnderlie 4 years ago
You are a beautiful person, wish i have the same attitude towards life.
LuvToAct247 4 years ago
you go girl :)
smartyants0123456789 4 years ago
Amen
lordvulcrum 4 years ago
Thanks - I'm only 20 but I love hearing advice from people who have been there.. I will remember all this for my next relationship =)
statixmx 4 years ago
you are so real =)
homphomphomp 4 years ago
haha cute, i find this very accurate
xTURBO 4 years ago
in our today civilization you may be right, but i want to make all who read this post of mine think about all the things we believe to be right or normal. in humanities past relationships were there to have children. (like all animals) i say a relationship doesnt make any sense without sex, it's in harder words pointless/no real relationship if you dont have children. by the way i myself have no children, and i dont belong to a religion or similar dumb believeing-things, i am a thinking person.
BallerSamurai 4 years ago
"...or similar dumb believeing-things, I am a thinking person."
ROFL!!! People need religion because it gives them a purpose for life, and something/someone to turn to when things get rough. Just everyone doesn't think like you (thank GOD) doesn't mean it's "dumb." Anything "thinking person" worth their salt should come to that realization.
TOLERANCE.
syntheral 4 years ago 2
You are a beautiful person, wish i have the same attitude towards life.
YB2000 4 years ago 3
great vlog, thanks.
blkqueen075 4 years ago 3
What a great, honest, and wise vlog. Loved this, Lemonette, really did.
kcgirlgeek 4 years ago 2
lemonette help me please. Mine walked out after 33 years. I am scared because marriage is all I know. Just a little country girl from the carolinas
Gowsdysville 4 years ago 4
wow almost 1 million views wow
sjam2007 4 years ago 2
You have been quite honest in your speach. But I think you forgot to mention the one reason that keeps most people together, and that is the fear of being alone. It takes quite a lot of guts to admit it, though.
maxilucas 4 years ago 6
I am not billy, however...
THANK YOU, for making this video.
Forgiveness is something that a lot of us, forget to "pack" in that bag.
And also, more of us, tend to look at what the other one is doing for the relationship, as opposed as what WE are contributing.
great video. thanks again.
alexciaramirez05 4 years ago
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markniteguy 4 years ago
...you also need to know when to stop forgiving. because when you don't know when to stop,you'll enable yourself to be used as a doormat.
yadoood1212 4 years ago 2
thanks for this it makes me think, cause im sooo young. Love this vid im soo happy i found u lemonette. But anyways i better go watch another oneofyer vidsim watching them all xx
narahara07 4 years ago
lemonette you contraducted everything you said how could you lemonette!
stephaniemills4ever 4 years ago 2
Lemonette i've watched this video one million times probably and its great every time. you're the best!
Richlove07 4 years ago 3
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fuck you
HieiBastardul 4 years ago
no thanks
lemonette 4 years ago
hahahah ur great!!
jennaow 4 years ago 2
i really like how u handle some of these jerks!
sjam2007 4 years ago 2
omg lemonette! *gives you a biiig hug* your awesome. ive been looking for help in my relationship for a while now.. and all i needed to see was your video. your a VERY smart lady.. i miss having someone like that around to talk to. <33
XxToxicDesiresxX 4 years ago
Forgiveness! You hit the nail on the head! Good Job!
Psalm 86:5 -- "For thou, Lord, art good, and ready to forgive; and plenteous in mercy unto all them that call upon thee."
Luke 6:37 -- "Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven"
Luke 17:3 -- "Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him."
curesoon 4 years ago
Hi Lemonette, love your advice and wisdom. I've been married 29 yrs.
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americanpenetration 4 years ago
okay
lemonette 4 years ago
wonderful.
babylulurabbit 4 years ago
lol.. I loved it when you said "...plus I think he's stll cute"
xoxAngelFirexox 4 years ago
I love this woman! I'm 14 but I understand!
I believe the best relationship involves chemistry first. Just like you said. And I agree on the sexual part, I mean, you should have some physical attraction to the person, but that's not all that should matter.
Congrads on the long-lasting relationship! You're one of those very lucky people to have someone in your life for so long! Just like my parents they were together since age 15 and are in their mid and late 30s and still goin' strong..
:)
xoxAngelFirexox 4 years ago
Brilliant. Absolutely brilliant. Words to love by.
stoicjello 4 years ago
Hey Lemonette,
You taught me more bout' relationships that anyone else. Least of all my parental figures. I love you Lemonette. You the God damn best. If I can be half as happy as y'all, I'll be doin' good.
Josh
xoxox
Ps: add me to your myspace.
Peanutsplatters 4 years ago
Hey Lemonette Where did BillyBigUn64 go?
CaribDude815 4 years ago
Cool video.
Seabrook78in 4 years ago