MEN'S DIVORCE RECOVERY

[JesusManson323]

Don't get married until you are in your 30's. Even better, don't get married at all. Sleep with as many women as you want and keep all your money for yourself.

[Dustjericho]

I hate pointing the obvious but this video is made for a fools and 14 of them actually liked the thing. Marriage is how guys paying for sex and sex is how girls are paying for marriage the rest is temporary and passing. Wait. You actually CAN have sex without marriage and you actually CAN live with a girl without marriage and if one of you screws it up - find another one and go forth no hard feeling and burned nervecells. Now quit whining grab yourself a cold beer and pork that bitch. Good luck.

[RaysUserName]

This video is an absolute treasure here on youtube. I'd like to personally thank TheDrivingForce for the upload. I can remember the first time I watched this while in the darkest place of my separation / divorce (2 years ago). The message at the end while short and simple made a massive impression on my heart. There is light at the end of the tunnel keep your eyes on it. The emotions this video brings out is unbelievable, whether you are going into the storm or reflecting back to the storm.

[natetd25]

My wife left and divorced me. I live in constant depression. It has destroyed both of our lives. We have lost everything, we went from a healthy financial situation to poverty. Our two innocent children suffer each day emotionally wondering why mommy and daddy aren't together and when they will get back together. I don't care what anyone says, divorce is WRONG! It destroys familys, lives and is emotionally and physically unhealthy.

[standinginnothing]

@natetd25 my wife did the same, I lost the house and was on the verge of suicide. I particiapted in a personal develpment course called The Landmark Forum and got my power and peace back. I recommend it to anyone suffering in this way.

[777hayes]

@natetd25 :

Your story and mine are the same( I have 3 beautiful children, (Deirdre, Brendan and Fintan). Sadly, women don't always think logically and are fooled by divorce lawyers. They have a capacity for hate that is insane. A lot of men don't worry about the little things for the very reason, they are little things. Women see the little things and don't see the big picture. Sad. Very sad.

[BiGMANJOE32]

look im not sorry about women getting killed in court for this shit. Divorce is nothing but pain and suffering

[ethicomm]

A couple of female radio news announcers I've heard in the last year read stories concerning women getting divorces and putting the boots to men. One of the announcers concluded the story with "right on sister". 3 years ago a buddy of mine lost his brother to suicide after he had the boots put to him by his ex. I'd like to see those radio announcers try get his grieving mother on their side.

[blupheonix44]

@ethicomm

Reverse the gender... Had male announcers backed up a MALE in such a fashion, they would be FIRED in a heartbeat. What we now work under is institutionalized misandry.....

[AmariLLoTexasCorrupt]

i do not have the income to recover and i am below poverty level and i will be on benefits for the rest of my life instead of enjoying my life i live in a high crime area and have every problem of poverty after having saved my money all my life to share it with someone special. when i see something or am personally attacked by criminals, street people, etc, i am more afraid of the police than the attacker.

[AmariLLoTexasCorrupt]

i went to JAIL for trying to make my immigrant wife LEGAL. i was set up. when i tried to talk to her about the money one last time, she exploded at me screaming at me, went outside, and called the police on me!! previous to this, she had told me how afraid she was of the american courts and police. everything was an act. the woman i had thought i married doesnt even exist. alot of my money was spent off, but the police, lawyers and courts saw to it that i had no chance and am now in DEBT

[AmariLLoTexasCorrupt]

i lost far more than 50% of my assets.

why? because i married a con artist with police connections. in TEXAS if you get an assault conviction, its easier to get alimony. i didnt even HAVE kids. but what i did have is an angry cop yelling in my face and putting in the report that i was yelling in his face. and that i'd assaulted my con artist wife. who had been yelling at ME then called her copper buddies on ME. they tried to coerce ME to plead guilty to assault charges there are many techniques

[courtinjusticeuk]

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[blupheonix44]

@AmariLLoTexasCorrupt

I would have started in on the pigs... No way you come to MY house and act like that , cop or not, your getting a shot in the mouth! And if you can prove in court that the cops had TIES TO YOU EX, they can get into very deep trouble with the brass...

[WritingJenny73070]

Hate the song choice btw... U2 is annoying and honestly... I find it to be NOISE.

[WritingJenny73070]

One of the things people don't do before marrying is really talk. Do you want kids? Do you want to stay in the state? Where are the boundaries with the in-laws on both sides? How are WE going to treat money? What are our roles to be? What is your idea of marriage? What do you expect from me/yourself?

If more people talked clearly... there would be less divorce.  Love isn't enough to live with someone - it takes a partnership.

Goodluck everyone.

[licmy3balls]

thats true, but it's gotten alot easier to get divorced, and people are lazy, so when it gets hard, they quit. it's become the american way....it's pathetic.

[mybsr329]

Wow.... I am surprised at the negativity or the remarks here. You guys have a lot to learn....

[blupheonix44]

@mybsr329

Most HAVE learned, thru DIVORCE!

And the rest of us see our friends go thru the grinder...

Seems you GIRLS have alot to ANSWER FOR....

[JP5466]

Quite simply... don't ever get married. You won't have to give away 50% of your assets and you'll get to bang all the women you want.

Marriage is not about love. It is a financial arrangement that benefits women.

Stay single, stay happy!

[cjjaxxon]

No need to tell me! I figured that out almost 10 years ago.

[elroller03]

Yeah! We man are FUCK on the "USA"

[londonarms]

what is he saying? elroller03=dumbass

[ethicomm]

I'd like to add to your list. Go to Yahoo and search for: The Myth of the Deadbeat Dad. It's a 2001 Readers Digest Canada article written by a woman who totally agrees with that the system is biased against Dads.

[blupheonix44]

@ethicomm

Written by a man BTW... Just read it...

[xxx41724172]

Want investment advice? Don't get married. 18 years of marriage will get you 9 years of alimony. You'll loose half your income and half all your stuff. It happens over and over and over and over yet your brainwashed parents tell you it's the right thing to do. The divorce rate is 65%. Helllooo!

[williamwagener]

If your MALE, you will lose 90% cause they make YOU pay

all the court costs and HER atty.'s cost, while HER attorney

is doing her on the side. IF WOMEN are truly EQUAL, then STOP ALL ALIMONEY.

IT is a 18th century concept. Increase the State Assembly size by 1000% and make elections by unknowns attainable so the "common" man

can get into Assembly. \

[ethicomm]

Yahoo: The Myth of the Deadbeat Dads. There's a story about an Ontario, Canada father that earned about $150,000 a year. After taxes he was was forced to pay his ex around $7500 a month in alimony and child support. He was literally left with around $300 a month to survive on. A single man in Ontario could get $500 in welfare.

[tobikeef]

There is no marriage because woman are not obligated to obey their husbands. Women are impure by nature, and have too much power these days. And men need to be spiritual and lead a life of pray in order to lovingly lead a marriage down the path of time. It's hopeless.

[elroller03]

WOW! Dude You are the MAN

[punchface111]

Just have a wedding without signing court papers. Courts should not be the ones to say who is married or not. It should only be done by the church or whoever can marry you.

[yellowtail3]

there is an idea. It is none of the state's damned business. The state LOVES divorce - it empowers the state, they make money from feds by 'collecting' child support, and they get to dispense patronage to various 'advocacy' groups. And lawyers - who makes the laws? - lawyers make a fortune. When you walk in to their office in divorce, they see at least six grand coming their way. they have no interest in you or your family, simply winning, and... getting paid.

[kingarrthas1]

Totally agree with you.

[blupheonix44]

@yellowtail3

Divorce lawyers are the scum of the legal profession... Even other lawyers know this fact, lol...

[Danutz241]

Please DON'T WATCH THIS SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

U fing asshole, what kind a person are U to post such a heartbreaking video, ASSHOLE!!!!!!!!!!

[just2w4tch]

my parents got divorced. so now i know, if the bitch i marry wants one, i'll just slap her a good few, and that will end that shit right there. getting married was her idea anyway.

[bigdog49094]

marriage is just like drugs, JUST SAY NO and skip all the pain.

[danielratliff665]

so this is supposed to make someone feel better about getting a divorce

[stevenrayd]

Your not supose to recover from a corupt divorce system do what I do 1.only date married women 2. treat all men that are married like shit I.E.verbally torment them suduce their wives and show them how to financially devestate his life like it was done to me and watch them squirm some commit suicide oh well the courts made me callouse god bless America.

[blupheonix44]

@stevenrayd

THATS fucked up! You should be helping your BROTHERS, not fucking their evil wives! Your a piece of shit, man....

[Dustjericho]

@stevenrayd you need to undergo a vasectomy and a euthanasia just in case...

[JandAneverending]

Misery. My kids need and deserve to have me and their mom in their lives full time. What happened to her? I don't even know her anymore. She's a different person and makes no sense.  This is so crazy!

[grumpgus]

The Hardest thing is letting go, and accepting that I no longer make her happy.

I would not sacrifice her happiness for my own. I am holding on to that hope and even though it feels like my life is over, I try to stay positive.

[xxx41724172]

love like happiness is temporary but a marriage license, a license to steal is not temporary. The 7 year itch is for real. People change. Like high school' crushes and love comes and go, and there's no loyalty, so don't fall for the concept of a marriage a second time. I'm bitter because I was ripped off financially and emotionally. I've found my calling, to rail against what will ultimately cause angst in 60% of the population's future, and that is marriage. Warn your sons !

[MrByootox]

@xxx41724172 I agree about the 7 year itch which makes me wonder if we really were meant to be monogamous !!

Loyalty of over 15 years on my behalf meant absolutely nothing to my ex !!

Got to say the ball and chain of marriage is more real than most would imagine !!

[xxx41724172]

So what did I learn in my 42 years in this life? Prenups don't always work, Don't get married, don't move to Wisconsin, and don't trust anyone. Most people are users and or assholes. But you'll never know which ones are till it's too late. Cigarettes cause cancer but people still smoke, people hear about bitter divorce yet still get married. Marriage is a license to steal. Someone wins and someone looses (their shirt)

[Dr9steen]

@xxx41724172 I agree, but its the media and entertainment ( films, sitcoms, soaps, even cartoons) that pumps (blatantly and subliminally) into the minds of our youngsters that its good to jump into the shit.

people don't want the truth till its tooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­ooooooooooooooooooo late.

[pigpenthecat]

@xxx41724172 Sounds like you have met my ex-husband.

[heavyliftz]

So just become beautiful and white and it'll all get solved?

[drakkheim]

God, like divorce isnt hard enough on everyone. This video is nothing but more pain. Skip it.

[tinainfla]

How is this suppose to help the men of for that matter anyone that is going through a divorce, I think it would cause them to want to jump in front of a bus after watching this video.

[wswizzy99]

Luckily, I've discovered the truth at about age 18-19 and am still a firm believer on my singlehood. Women have a distructive nature; pure and simple.

[vdub2002]

um what? women are reason for man living.

[weesmeister]

True. But that's only a consequence. It doesn't mean women's intentions are necessarily good (or bad). Another way of putting it is like working for a company and getting paid for it; the company isn't being generous by giving you money, they're just rewarding you for the added value.

[gobz11]

Proof?

[LosingInnerPeace]

@wswizzy99 do they really, eh? well I'll have you know that it was my dad who decided to divorce my mom, she still loves him greatly and would give her life for him. Yet, just months later he's seeing other women. He didn't tell me though, i actually bumped into him whilst he was on a date. So think about that before you blame every woman going through divorce.

[brandonkirk]

Depressing.

[MolechBaalAshterah]

Any man in the US who falls for the put a ring on my finger is just falling for Goddess Ashterah of the USA. American women are not women they are snakes, liars, golddiggers and whores who think they are owed something. Here's a clue witch, Go squat in a bush and push out a child as God directed you to according to your own sin. This country has been worshipping Molech and Goddess ashterah way to long, why because Goddess Ashterah is false she promises but does not keep.

[pcondor33]

Why U2 "Where the streets have no name song?" as soundtrack?

[MOD725]

Don't be a dick , i miss my kids and would rather be going through what you are going through

[tadude1995]

Being a person who doesn't have kids and is going through a divorce, this video only depressed me further. It should've been named "Dad's Divorce Recovery" instead.