"...why can't all guys be like that..." Come on chicas, this isn't about guys! It's about us! There are way too many times that WE think we're not pretty enough (or we think "guys won't want us"). Listen, if we go around thinking that, WE are the ones who lose out. It's not about guys treating us like that, it's about us treating ourselves with more self esteem.
@SarahLee1 Yup I hear you! (Except I know there were some times when guys thought I was just fine, but I was too wrapped up in low self esteem to even notice. I swear it reminds me of the girl shut up in that house!)
my best guyfriend told me to look this up after i had my cofidience litterally destroyed by an asshole guy, he said this would make me feel better, and it did. :)
first time i watched this video was just a night ago at this sleepover that was held at my school library with all of us grade eight girls for this inner beauty thing, this video made pretty much all of us cry...i mean it is so short...but so beautiful, yinno. it makes me happy inside for some reason. just my opinion tho.
Man, I feel so bad for her admirer... She thinks she's ugly and that sets off a whole chain reaction: the boy probably takes it the wrong way, like he thinks that she won't come out because it's him; he gets sad; then he'll sulk in his room. :(
So cute! :] It's heart breaking to know that a lot of girls actually DO feel like that and there are guys out there who think their girl is pefect :) wish girls could realize it.
@MCShellii Most guys are, but most of you girls just good for the 'Bad boys' that treat you like crap, but you seem to keep coming back to them type of guys.
@UnknownDude007 I honestly have no clue. I shot down the last "bad boy" that asked me out. I think all of those girls who go for the "bad boy" type do it because their too forgiving. Usually because the have bad self esteem.
For all the people who don't understand lol. From all the influences in magazines and the ads where everyone is photoshopped and made-up, she begins seeing flaws in herself. But the boy, doesn't see any at all. She just thinks that she is not perfect like who she sees.
This is SOOO cute and true! I can name a zillion things wrong with me inside-out, but not so much when it comes to the people I love. I guess we all have to learn how to accept our little flaws and just think it's part of our charm, huh? Thnx for posting this!
I do agree with ianmac2010. I understand that there is another bridge to cross more difficult than this (new lands), when you get past this barrier. At times, it is okay to get hurt in a healthy way. (responsibily)
My friend cried from this... and it's sooo adorable!!!!! and sooo true... the one who cares about doesnt care if your having a bad hair day that day... they will still love you!
It's also funny how didn't understand how i gave an EXAMPLE.... and also thank you for being very pessimistic since everyone else is being very positive...
this is so beautiful :') Thank you so much for helping to create these videos to help real girls with real beauty- not the horrible fake beauty, product of photoshop.. :)
God!! How can an ad be so cute and so true and don't even be aired!!! O_O I want the whole world to see how beautiful (but sad) this ad is!!! I want that me and all women and girl, white, brown, black, yellow or blue, rich or poor, single or not to see that video and understand how beautiful they can be with a little self-confidence. We make our own definition of the beauty!! We are beautiful!! :-D
I really needed to see this. So do many many other people. Everyday I look at myself and pick on my flaws... I put on makeup because I think I look terrible without it. I am just 14...and 14 year olds shouldn't be thinking like this... neither should anyone else older or younger. Dove is inspiring me to start loving how I look.
Women feel insecure when it comes to love (or career?). They are afraid that their men will be snatched by other women more attractive than them. Therefore the peacock mania... we pile on accessories, products, surgery, always trying to out-do the next person. Men are feeling the pressure to look good and smart too. Coz they are also competing with one another right?
and for you guys, it goes that way too. I never liked muscles at all on a guy. Seriously, a bit of pudge makes you come of softer, more huggable, and more lovable. No one wants a backbreaking hug. ^w^
This was what I needed to see ...all girls need to see this ....I past up alot of things because I didn't know how to embrace my body....so I'm starting over ..Thanx Dove xoxox
The point is that girls' perception of beauty is wrong because of the photoshoped models we see on TV and ads. That's why pretty much any girl can tell you at least 1 thing "wrong" with her appearance. Seeing fake beauty makes them lose confidence in their own appearance. The guy can't point anything "wrong" with her looks because there is nothing wrong with her looks. It's quite clever...
The Models we see on TV and in ads aren't real... no women look like that naturally, or at least they are so rare as to be a statistical anomoly, you are more likely to win the lottery, get struck by lightening, attacked by a shark, and blown up in an al qaeda attack all in the same day than you are to run across a woman who NATURALLY looks like the TV and magazine women.
To me being attracted that crap is the same as being attracted to hentai, or a real doll.
Happens to me. And lots of people - they avoid going out because they feel like they don't look good enough. Yeah, it's stupid, but it is how some people feel.
I'm sure what you said is true. It just baffles me. Even I am not what America defines as beautiful: white skin, blue eyes, and blonde hair. (Unless it is totally natural, I think it is a washed out look.) But I am what I think and millions of other people think is beautiful. Not trying to preach, but it's only your fault for kicking yourself while your self esteem may already be low... Hope it heals though.
I always was a confident kid. I even had white skin and blue eyes......... and red hair. Even the strongest person is going to get a little down if perfect strangers on the street hurl verbal abuse at you because of the colour of your hair, especially if they've been getting that sort of ridiculous abuse their whole life.
I don't agree when people say the pressure for girls/women to look good comes from other women. From my experience, it definitely comes from seeing the way men react toward women. I don't like how society always portrays women to be against each other. All the women in my life work together and are very supportive of each other no matter how we look. Not to blame "MEN" in general, but it's men that have created the entertainment industry, and the standard women are meant to live up to.
adding to my last comment, i think we feel pressure when we see how women r portrayed in music and movies, especially in music videos about the "sexy girls at the club" and stuff and we begin to feel like if we dont look like those women,we aren't beautiful or "sexy". and with things like this everywhere, we begin feeling tht all men r like tht and we need to look a certain way if we want the guy we like to notice us even tho he's probably different. i think tht is the big point in this video.
I like this video because it underscores a point that is seldom articulated in the public square. The dirty truth is that the real pressure for women to meet unrealistic standards of perfection comes from other WOMEN.
I totally agree. I've been to both a co-ed school and an all girl school, and I can definitely say that girls mostly dress up to impress other girls. Guys have told me that they don't really notice if you are wearing the same dress that you wore to the year 11 dinner dance to the year 12 ball - they just think you look great.
Psychological research shows that what women perceive to be the ideal body weight is at least 25% less than what is the average body weight and almost 40-50% less than what men want.
My health teacher showed the class this for body image unit i thought it was funny thinking about him staying there for years. AMY!!! Lol.
OsiRisKinGz21 1 month ago
AWW that kids adorable :)
milkyway531 1 month ago
show me amy. i bet i could find at least 20 things wrong with her
Schnake313 2 months ago
this is how boys can win a girls heart...!
princessweronika157 3 months ago 9
wow. only twelve.
neverlasting49 3 months ago
That's how you get a girlfriend!
xXMyGodComplexXx 4 months ago 11
Pretty
azabian05 5 months ago
"...why can't all guys be like that..." Come on chicas, this isn't about guys! It's about us! There are way too many times that WE think we're not pretty enough (or we think "guys won't want us"). Listen, if we go around thinking that, WE are the ones who lose out. It's not about guys treating us like that, it's about us treating ourselves with more self esteem.
yoohooootube 5 months ago 13
@yoohooootube Because girls have been conditioned since day one to want validation through how men see us. Sad, but true.
SarahLee1 3 months ago
@SarahLee1 Yup I hear you! (Except I know there were some times when guys thought I was just fine, but I was too wrapped up in low self esteem to even notice. I swear it reminds me of the girl shut up in that house!)
yoohooootube 3 months ago
sooo sweettt !! y cant all guys be like that ??
ishouldbeblond 5 months ago
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giga422 6 months ago
this. is. the. cutest. but. saddest. ad. ever. i went awwwwwwwwwww like a million timess awwwww
ilypaul4 6 months ago
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PeaceLoveLipgloss02 7 months ago
awe, i wish all guys were like that ♥ : (
cutest dove ad ever! : )
princessweronika157 8 months ago
my best guyfriend told me to look this up after i had my cofidience litterally destroyed by an asshole guy, he said this would make me feel better, and it did. :)
saralovesmusic1000 9 months ago
this was soo cute. we were watching all these dove beauty campaign vids in my pscyh class today. this one was just precious.
livexthexlife192 9 months ago
that was tremendously, awfully, extremely, unbelievably, breath taking, eye ball popping, astonishing, really cute
caramelbeautyhorizon 9 months ago
this is sooo cute, we watched it in health class!
hugmeXD27 9 months ago
Aw this makes me cry when I watch it. -3 so sweet
AnnieAndAbby 10 months ago
: )
gl3Ndi 10 months ago
what's the song called?!
abercrombiebliss 10 months ago
@abercrombiebliss dont be afraid- howie beck
ZeroSubscribe 10 months ago
Aww this is soo sweet. makes me wanna cry :(
iiRawrrMusic 10 months ago
im SO sending this to the guy I stalk! thanks dove!
BrianaLoveW 10 months ago
oh what is this was rory from doctor who?
15writergirl 10 months ago
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!
candyandi28 11 months ago
first time i watched this video was just a night ago at this sleepover that was held at my school library with all of us grade eight girls for this inner beauty thing, this video made pretty much all of us cry...i mean it is so short...but so beautiful, yinno. it makes me happy inside for some reason. just my opinion tho.
candyandi28 11 months ago
This is so sweet. Girls are afraid to have flaws, and their admirers see no flaws, inside or out. I found this really cute
IAmMadeUpOfSugar 11 months ago
that is such a wonderful ad.
253371rlz 11 months ago
I dated an Amy Grie
jenkinatorful123 11 months ago
awww... so cute and sad
autumrose1 1 year ago
Man, I feel so bad for her admirer... She thinks she's ugly and that sets off a whole chain reaction: the boy probably takes it the wrong way, like he thinks that she won't come out because it's him; he gets sad; then he'll sulk in his room. :(
It's just the plain truth.
TheWarriorsluver 1 year ago
My name is amy
hypaga97 1 year ago
So cute! :] It's heart breaking to know that a lot of girls actually DO feel like that and there are guys out there who think their girl is pefect :) wish girls could realize it.
StarsInyourEyes1 1 year ago
The first time I saw this, over a year ago, I literally "Aww" ed outloud.
THEnicolelizabeth 1 year ago 2
oh my god im literly crying as im watching this commercial! IT IS JUST TO CUTE AND SOO TRUE!
niki19909 1 year ago
Why isn't she coming out? Did she die? Lol jks
xxMidnightBonesxx 1 year ago
Thank you.
TheLonelyImmortal 1 year ago
this just makes me smile :) its cute :D
greentreefrog1965 1 year ago
i honestly think (as cheesy as this sounds) the most beautiful of the dove commercials, and makes the greatest impact on myself, personally.
caseygirl23675 1 year ago
I wish all guys were like that.... :( thumbs up if you agree
MCShellii 1 year ago 132
@MCShellii no, just no. That isn't how it is or ever will be. This is a good thing.
19maurice42 10 months ago
@MCShellii Most guys are, but most of you girls just good for the 'Bad boys' that treat you like crap, but you seem to keep coming back to them type of guys.
So here is my question to you,
Why do most girls always go for the 'bad boys?'
UnknownDude007 7 months ago
@UnknownDude007 I honestly have no clue. I shot down the last "bad boy" that asked me out. I think all of those girls who go for the "bad boy" type do it because their too forgiving. Usually because the have bad self esteem.
MCShellii 7 months ago
For all the people who don't understand lol. From all the influences in magazines and the ads where everyone is photoshopped and made-up, she begins seeing flaws in herself. But the boy, doesn't see any at all. She just thinks that she is not perfect like who she sees.
MitsukiKoyamaSan 1 year ago
AWWWWWWW!!!!!!! amy ur so damn spoiled!
mdisalvo123 1 year ago
Awww my name is Amy :D
lantripamy93 1 year ago
why? she´s afraid to go out because she thinks she´s ugly..or am i wrong?
oOLinkinPark 1 year ago
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Great message. If only this commercial could reach more people. The name of the song is Don't be afraid by Howie Beck.
davybrasco 1 year ago
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davybrasco 1 year ago
did she commit suicide or is she afraid?
oOLinkinPark 1 year ago
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14ocie 1 year ago
aww, i really like these ads lol
0zombiepixie0 1 year ago 2
when i first saw this i had tears in my eyes...
care2much2 1 year ago 26
@care2much2 Same! Actually it does every time. I don't understand how 9 people can dislike this? They must have pressed the wrong button.
LittleMissFree 1 year ago
@LittleMissFree :) Thats what I was thinking...and girls hate them self so much because they fail to see how beautiful they actually are...:)
care2much2 1 year ago
@JJRandom1 Awww... That's so sweet! Thnx for the mood-lift :)
GabsLiz 1 year ago
This is SOOO cute and true! I can name a zillion things wrong with me inside-out, but not so much when it comes to the people I love. I guess we all have to learn how to accept our little flaws and just think it's part of our charm, huh? Thnx for posting this!
GabsLiz 1 year ago
oh my god<3333 i love this with all my heart.
HearTheHeartbeat 1 year ago
Naaaaaaw! Adorableeee! I'm suscribing:)
x3Lil 1 year ago
awwwwwwwwww thats adorable
sophiancompany 1 year ago
soo cute.!
TheBeccAHHH 1 year ago
women..the opposite sex..every one of them is as beautiful as they can be.
ronnierave 1 year ago 4
adorable!
Harmonysavatar 1 year ago
this is soooo adorable :)
if only every guy was like this <3 haha psshh, dreams.
craziilexii09 1 year ago
@craziilexii09 some of us are...
Warmarshall1 1 year ago
@Warmarshall1 well thats good to know lmao
craziilexii09 1 year ago
@Warmarshall1 Awww! (:
Pippychan 1 year ago
You are right rire25!!!! thats true!!!
its so sad when girls gonna think that :(
angela123R 1 year ago
Best Ad Ever <3
somewhereintime97 1 year ago
Aww this is so cute
jamfilledcrackers 1 year ago 3
i think this vid is adorable!
disneyvolly4 1 year ago
i don't get it . what is the vid about? can someone tell me?
TheMoehnchen 1 year ago
@TheMoehnchen about people who see like models and they strive to be like them, when they should jusst be them selves cus theres people who like that
IBeGunninGamein 1 year ago
Thank you Dove!
vikipace 1 year ago 2
so cute. i love it :')
californication1593 1 year ago 2
I do agree with ianmac2010. I understand that there is another bridge to cross more difficult than this (new lands), when you get past this barrier. At times, it is okay to get hurt in a healthy way. (responsibily)
AFRONOVA87 1 year ago
This made me cry. It's so true.
Oh, you beautiful girls. You have no idea!
ianmac2010 1 year ago 4
My friend cried from this... and it's sooo adorable!!!!! and sooo true... the one who cares about doesnt care if your having a bad hair day that day... they will still love you!
cshoes277 1 year ago
lol its funny how u dont understand the logic of this video.. it has nothing to do with bad hair day.
2merdrags 1 year ago
It's also funny how didn't understand how i gave an EXAMPLE.... and also thank you for being very pessimistic since everyone else is being very positive...
get a life, loser.
cshoes277 1 year ago
its really not an example, its the fact that u completely missed what the point of the video was.
2merdrags 1 year ago
I apoligize for calling you a loser..
Art is interpretive. Maybe YOU should have the courage to express your take on the video instead of just telling me I "don't get it".
cshoes277 1 year ago
omg i loooove this <3
RonikaRampage 1 year ago
AWE<3
congaixcutiee 1 year ago
finally something that doesnt make guys look like jerks. jerks are jerks, NOT all guys
abelign1991 1 year ago 3
@vickysvoice mine too!
casspellerine 1 year ago
aww that was adorable, my friend sent me that
antshit123 1 year ago
Greenpeace is saving trees.
DOVE is saving GIRLS.
Thank you DOVE for telling girls the truth
dolphinDog 1 year ago 5
this is so beautiful :') Thank you so much for helping to create these videos to help real girls with real beauty- not the horrible fake beauty, product of photoshop.. :)
ShowJumperHunter1 1 year ago
awwiie so cute
pinkshanny707 1 year ago
<3
This is officially my favourite commercial :)
VickysVoice 2 years ago
amazing :) I love it <3
plurple300 2 years ago
the butterfly effect??????
dudeme12 2 years ago
The best ad i ever seen <3
nomorenames101 2 years ago 4
That's adorablee!!
HyperchickAisha 2 years ago 6
:) i love this ad
tharveylynn 2 years ago 2
hahahaha i know that kid he is my friend!!! LOL that was so long ago XD
MrKrown93 2 years ago
awesome add!!! wish this hit the telly everywhere!!! people need to get there heads out of their ummm dark un-name able holes....
ChefDRoy 2 years ago
Love this AD soooo much! its simply Beautiful! ^_^
God...Tearing up. its soo relatea-able to most girls.
fabulousme123 2 years ago 6
that's very nice.
zanyfella 2 years ago
OMG THIS IS SOO CUTE!
JonasAnimalLover 2 years ago
Oh my god. This is so true. And so absolutely terrible.
TNMEBDlove 2 years ago
God!! How can an ad be so cute and so true and don't even be aired!!! O_O I want the whole world to see how beautiful (but sad) this ad is!!! I want that me and all women and girl, white, brown, black, yellow or blue, rich or poor, single or not to see that video and understand how beautiful they can be with a little self-confidence. We make our own definition of the beauty!! We are beautiful!! :-D
rire25 2 years ago 123
the sweetest ad i've seen. -^^-
jearbox 2 years ago 2
Aaaaw i love this ! =D xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hattie1994 2 years ago 2
OMG THIS IS ADORABLE!!!!!
jamjam0625 2 years ago
aww... now only if it was really like this :) .
pinkmileylove 2 years ago
If only this were true...... to bad they have it backwards.... he sees the wrongs not her.
bevhills9O21O 2 years ago
Howie Beck's latest album is available on iTunes:
How to fall down in public - Check it out.
tpiper 2 years ago 4
T-T My bf who live 8 hours away just sent me this... I feel so lucky <3
Thesaiyanangel 2 years ago 2
CUTEST commercial in the wooorld<333333
lauraandjulie 2 years ago 3
this made me cry, i wish that that really happened
NicholasBraunfan 2 years ago 7
Aww. It's all squishy. I love it.
ZombieSparkleNinjaxD 2 years ago 9
made me cry; just because this is so relate-able.
alicaudle 2 years ago 7
aw. cute :)
aznaries13 2 years ago
i cant find the song.. ok its howie beck.. but wut exactly is the name of this song ?
abd2get 2 years ago
Don't Be Afraid is what the song is called.
This is the acoustic version though.
AIMgal66 2 years ago
Dove <3 =)
sou90 2 years ago
any1 kno the music name?
abd2get 2 years ago
Don't Be Afraid by Howie Beck.
this is the acoustic version.
AIMgal66 2 years ago
this is soooo adorable!!!! <3
blondievsbrunetteXOX 2 years ago 2
aw thats is cute
<3
xxcaityxxo 2 years ago 2
incredibly touching.
SatanicSBA 2 years ago 34
i got sent this when i felt really shitty, it really helped :)
pOlLyWalLyDoDa 2 years ago 2
this is adorable
FANSinc 2 years ago 2
most beautiful commercial ever <3
Emmyrainnblack21 2 years ago 7
Thank you, Dove.
tengounachichi 2 years ago 6
aww . hes cute - but only if he is within the age range of 15/16
PrincessMe1993 2 years ago 2
I have to agree with amverano333...
I really needed to see this. So do many many other people. Everyday I look at myself and pick on my flaws... I put on makeup because I think I look terrible without it. I am just 14...and 14 year olds shouldn't be thinking like this... neither should anyone else older or younger. Dove is inspiring me to start loving how I look.
XxComfortablyNumb1Xx 2 years ago 4
Women feel insecure when it comes to love (or career?). They are afraid that their men will be snatched by other women more attractive than them. Therefore the peacock mania... we pile on accessories, products, surgery, always trying to out-do the next person. Men are feeling the pressure to look good and smart too. Coz they are also competing with one another right?
butterglobe 2 years ago 2
Why are videos like this... so minimal?
We need more support like this..
and for you guys, it goes that way too. I never liked muscles at all on a guy. Seriously, a bit of pudge makes you come of softer, more huggable, and more lovable. No one wants a backbreaking hug. ^w^
iamacat532 2 years ago 13
aww im sending this to my best friend
C4SSIExo 2 years ago
This was what I needed to see ...all girls need to see this ....I past up alot of things because I didn't know how to embrace my body....so I'm starting over ..Thanx Dove xoxox
amverano333 2 years ago 5
This is so amazing, because my bf says I'm pretty and I never believe him because I am so self cautious . ahahah I am also named Amy.
othehorror 2 years ago 8
Aww that's so cute! :P
smettiuss 2 years ago 2
This was made for u Amy!
ariesram75 2 years ago
how sweet and cute
chandley22 2 years ago 3
I feel like most women wear make-up and trendy clothing for other women, not for men. Men don't give a shit. And neither should we.
thejanebejane 2 years ago 13
This is SO adorable!
dancerbabixoxo 2 years ago 4
The point is that girls' perception of beauty is wrong because of the photoshoped models we see on TV and ads. That's why pretty much any girl can tell you at least 1 thing "wrong" with her appearance. Seeing fake beauty makes them lose confidence in their own appearance. The guy can't point anything "wrong" with her looks because there is nothing wrong with her looks. It's quite clever...
StealthB6 2 years ago 54
The Models we see on TV and in ads aren't real... no women look like that naturally, or at least they are so rare as to be a statistical anomoly, you are more likely to win the lottery, get struck by lightening, attacked by a shark, and blown up in an al qaeda attack all in the same day than you are to run across a woman who NATURALLY looks like the TV and magazine women.
To me being attracted that crap is the same as being attracted to hentai, or a real doll.
IT'S NOT REAL! I LIKE REAL WOMEN!
heatsketch 2 years ago 18
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still don't get it :/
abd2get 2 years ago
wats not 2 get? jw this vid is beautiful
Kisses4ColeyMoley 2 years ago
hey can someone explain me this ? what did "amy can name 12 things wrong with her appearance" mean, plz ?
abd2get 2 years ago
the girl can find 12 things she doesn't like about how she looks. he can't find any is what it's saying. it's really sweet =]
smuckerz82 2 years ago 10
amy see's her shortcomings while the guy doesn't
alanochanman 2 years ago 4
This is why 8 year olds shouldn't be on Youtube. -_-
BraelynH 2 years ago
im not 8 years old.. and actually i just got it..
abd2get 2 years ago
That is sooooooooo sweet!
youAREmySunshine45 2 years ago 3
anybody know the name of the song playing in the background??
alliekinzz 2 years ago
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this never happens.
isabel6789 2 years ago
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that's sooooooo cute haha
but look the guy is white no offense but just mix it up a little
SShanelcoocoocrazy 2 years ago
very very nice!
negserg 2 years ago
i love this ad
lane0065 2 years ago 3
probably the best youtube video ive seen in a hwile =P at least the most truthfull ^^
sequelmen 2 years ago 5
i know i am beautiful/ thank you tpiper
spellthemagicword 2 years ago 2
i wish i had a boy like tht<3 lol
magicalneko101 2 years ago 5
how sweet !!!!!!!!!!!!
Apink420 2 years ago
Brilliant! :)
AndreiPascale 2 years ago
this always makes me cry! it's so beautiful!
capemaker 2 years ago
^.^ This is why I don't care. I eat junk food but I'm at the gym alot
tashea2 2 years ago
Okay let me get this straight... she didn't want to leave the house because she thought she was ugly? Lady! Please, give us a break!
AmidProcrastination 2 years ago
Happens to me. And lots of people - they avoid going out because they feel like they don't look good enough. Yeah, it's stupid, but it is how some people feel.
fireandice027 2 years ago
I'm sure what you said is true. It just baffles me. Even I am not what America defines as beautiful: white skin, blue eyes, and blonde hair. (Unless it is totally natural, I think it is a washed out look.) But I am what I think and millions of other people think is beautiful. Not trying to preach, but it's only your fault for kicking yourself while your self esteem may already be low... Hope it heals though.
AmidProcrastination 2 years ago
I always was a confident kid. I even had white skin and blue eyes......... and red hair. Even the strongest person is going to get a little down if perfect strangers on the street hurl verbal abuse at you because of the colour of your hair, especially if they've been getting that sort of ridiculous abuse their whole life.
fireandice027 2 years ago
Strangers are strangers. Screw them, their life probably sucks more than yours (i'm saying this for anyone!)
AmidProcrastination 2 years ago
I don't agree when people say the pressure for girls/women to look good comes from other women. From my experience, it definitely comes from seeing the way men react toward women. I don't like how society always portrays women to be against each other. All the women in my life work together and are very supportive of each other no matter how we look. Not to blame "MEN" in general, but it's men that have created the entertainment industry, and the standard women are meant to live up to.
neonlight2000 2 years ago 4
i agree with u completely
magicalneko101 2 years ago
adding to my last comment, i think we feel pressure when we see how women r portrayed in music and movies, especially in music videos about the "sexy girls at the club" and stuff and we begin to feel like if we dont look like those women,we aren't beautiful or "sexy". and with things like this everywhere, we begin feeling tht all men r like tht and we need to look a certain way if we want the guy we like to notice us even tho he's probably different. i think tht is the big point in this video.
magicalneko101 2 years ago
so incredibly true
luv4turtles1355 2 years ago 2
I like this video because it underscores a point that is seldom articulated in the public square. The dirty truth is that the real pressure for women to meet unrealistic standards of perfection comes from other WOMEN.
alphacause 2 years ago 5
I totally agree. I've been to both a co-ed school and an all girl school, and I can definitely say that girls mostly dress up to impress other girls. Guys have told me that they don't really notice if you are wearing the same dress that you wore to the year 11 dinner dance to the year 12 ball - they just think you look great.
fireandice027 2 years ago
Agreed.
Psychological research shows that what women perceive to be the ideal body weight is at least 25% less than what is the average body weight and almost 40-50% less than what men want.
MissAmivera 2 years ago
i apperciate this video SO much1!!!!!!!!!!
TasiaBosch 2 years ago 2
So sweet! We were watching some different dove commercials in English today and I thought this one was so cute. :]
Pippychan 2 years ago
same, only we are in the same homeroom so i would guess, everyone did love it, can u guess who i am thought?
jgirlrockin001 2 years ago
this is the cutest and sweetest video i've ever seen in my life. i want a guy like that! :)
crazeeaboutdance14 2 years ago 3