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  • I don't think crying on command should be from anyone unless they're acting. It's something more for when you honestly can't control it. As for hiding it or not from the lady, of course you shouldn't let her see you unless u could care less.

  • X D Who is this guy to tell men when they may cry? He's too scared of ever looking vulnerable to give out advice.

    Well here's this girl's humble opinion: Dont use tears for manipulation/shock value. And don't listen to women saying they want to see you cry cuz it's sexy/cute. Pfft. Tears are real, we all cry when we need, nothing else.

  • "The chick looks to you for strength" are you friggen serious?! lol

  • if i had her accent i would be having a a non stop diarrhoea in the mouth. talk talk and fucking tal all day long

  • her accent is soooooooooooooo seeexxxxxxxxxxxyyyy!!!!!!

  • we want more Cleo!!

  • Cleo is so hot

  • LOL YOURE SO FUNNY! XD

  • i like a guy to cry infront of me, it shows sensitivity and it shows that he's an emotional person. it also shows he cares about things

  • Real men don't cry at all; not even if a loved one dies.

  • @asd15475 BS.

    What if your child gets killed in a car accident? Do you really think:" Oh, I need to stop crying because its unmanly"? What an ass such a person must be.

  • all women are liars .... to themselves most of all. No matter what they say, you cry in front of them, they lose respect.

  • Skyy, you should start a school ...acting school for guys!! it ll be all waiting list i bet

    

  • For me, it shows that he's comfortable and secure enough around me to show his emotional side, and it depends on the situation, especially if it shows the depth of how much he cares.

  • This is the first video of skyy that I ever watched around early 2009 and I was a bastard ever since. Lol. I love you, Skyy, you sick bastard!

  • Wat if a guy loves a girl n she cheated on the guy once n again tried but caught, so how should a boy xplain her in a way that she should realize wat she did?

  • @junaid256 Get over her.

  • Hold on let's let this ambulance----continue sentence..lmao

  • lol...hold it together!!!

  • he cried when his mum whipped his ass

  • Complete manipulation.. uh huh.. and women do it ALL THE TIME!!!!!!! hahahaha Oh why wount you do that for me? dont you love me? CRY CRY CRY!! Makes a guy feel guilty and makes him do it for ya.. women do it constantly! hahaha

  • bahamas 242

    

  • loooool beside this video is a gay advert...so fitting for this video...lmao...don't cry in front of women fellas..NEVER...EVERRRR....Say no more!

  • Mr. Sky - you are an extremely old-fashioned ignorant sexist.

    Men should do that, women expect that, blabla. Stupid. But maybe americans are a bit after the event when it comes to these things.

  • that english chick is hot, her accent is hot, I'm a straight chick and she's still hot.

  • they say happy christmas where she lives lol

  • There's nothing wrong with crying. I like sensetive guys

  • man she's hot!

  • women CANNOT see through manipulation

  • you know i tried crying the other day you know i was told its good for the soul but i really tried, fuck my eyes are fucking dry i put a picture of my girlfriend in front of me and everytime i try to cry i started laughting so what the fuck i started to kick my ass ,still am not able to cry so i think that men dont cry

  • @suckmyazzz Cool Story, Bro.

  • Even if a chick bite my d you know I don't cry  Crying is for lil boys

  • Ha, i love the way he says ""son".

  • Seems to me a "real" man doesn't have to hide who he is or what he wants to do.

    Another thing, I've seen women with such fine tits it brought tears to my eyes. I sure ain't hidin' that.

  • hey r you a bahamian?

  • Cleo is fucking fine

  • my very best friends boy friend cries for her all the time and this bitch eats that shit up! what the hell girls?

  • real men cry in the shower!!!!

  • i love her laugh its so sexy

  • reall man cry front of woman

  • black or mixed girls with english accents are fucking sexy! .... the white ones ahh not so much

  • I cried in front of my girl and she made fun of me and beat me and told me to act like a man.......she then proceeded to treat me like a bitch for the rest the relationship. I hate that I cried over fluffy dying he was my best friend though/

  • In 43 years I've been on this earth the only woman I've ever cried in front of was my grandmother. I was about 14 or 15 years old and there were some overwhelming emotional reasons. To begin with I'm not someone to cry so easy, but that has nothing to do with any macho man stuff. I don't quite understand the reason why not. But no experience--good or bad--I've had with any woman in my life were compelling enough to draw tears from my eyes.

  • Only if you love her, I cried in front of my girl when we were talking about our deepest secrets. Worked out well bc we felt real close after.

  • does it count if i farted and it scared her and i cried laughing?

  • @TheGeneralCrimson lol wut?

  • yo sky she is fuckin fine wow

  • I love that british accent!!!

  • AAAAAAAHHHHH FUCKIN LOVE HER ACCENT

  • @techheadrevenge Holy shit I thought she was going to talk all black. Man was I wrong...

  • @techheadrevenge London accent ;)

  • Cleo pwns SJ

    I don't cry. I haven't cried in 5 years. But I don't judge an emotional guy who cries in front of his girl. If the girl can't respect that, fuck her!

  • Cleo is fine!!!!!!!

  • A Real Man does what he wants to do n doesn't care what people think. Not to be confused with assholes. assholes stink

  • i cry only when am drunk

  • Dawn look at them cock sucking lips.

  • you can cry if your family ignores you on chrismas.

    family is most important. more important than just a chick. seriously.

  • Bait UK accent. Don't actually sound like that

  • crying!? what crap is this!? real men do not have tear ducts!!!

  • My boyfriend has cried in front of me... and he's one of those manly guys who doesn't cry in front of anyone. I don't mind when he cries. I only get upset because he's crying because he's angry, hurt, etc.

  • my man crys to me all the time...it makes me so sad buttt, i know he's being wide open with me and that he has his emotional guard down, and thats special.

  • who said men cry ?

  • @Love2CuSmile4Me you are awesome enough said

  • I think so too Dark.. Not alot of men will cry in front of girl.. but they will do it behind closed doors while girl listens.. Now that will make a woman leave LoL we love when a man crys SOMETIMES, we can cheer him up with our boobs!!

  • Every female friend of mine says it's cute or sexy if a boy cries (during a movie or something). But it's just like the nice guys vs. bad boys situation. What women say they like and what they actually like are the opposite. I really would like to prove that most women prefer a sensitive man, but the reality is that you can't show sensitive emotions in front of them or they'll dump you. So he's right. The truth hurts sometimes. But it doesn't hurt enough to make me cry :D

  • @Tyraxio its a british accent

  • @kingojugo ... Same thing!! xD

  • @kingojugo no its not its totally different. i live in the Uk and i know australian people and they do not sound anything like british people. its like comparing the Japanese and Chinese both accents sound nothing like each other

  • uhm I have to disagree. If a guy would cry because he cheated I'd be like "dry your damn eyes! what the fuck do you think I feel about this?!" Crying is like giving up to me and I'd think he'd just stay home and cry over me without trying to figure out how I feel or how to get me back. it's ok for a guy to cry in a situation like cleo told. It shows he isn't a rock so yes a guy should cry in front of his girl but.. not to often.

  • @DoubleDizzle1 excatly no woman wants thier man to be their bitch. GUYS be strong1!!

  • @Joe40oz fuckin agree.

  • OMG, I'm on my way to London right now.

  • why do the women allways disagree with the john?

  • She has some lusious lips man!!!

  • Where is Skyy finding these women?

  • Girls can't see through shit...I lie to girls all the time...i pretend like i give a fuck and they have never suspected it

  • @Mak03Money

    indeed. what they are banking on is that guys cant see through *their* lies...and at the top of that list of lies is that they have some special "intuition". its been my experience when you play along and act like you believe that BS it disarms them...they think that since you think that they can see through YOUR BS you'd never try it lol. more guys need to compare notes on this shit.

    oh, and second on the list is that guys cheat more than they do. what a riot! LOL

  • hahahaa he knowzzzz the truttthhhhh 

  • dude, you are too guts, crying to get a girl back is hilarious!!!

    but I'll remember to use it. Lol!! =]]

  • she looks like his sister with a fake accent ... lol

  • That accent is sooo sexxy.. Man.. can you just imagine how she sounds in deep orgasm ;-) ;-) I don't know but I would love to find out....... ;-) ;-)

  • I think u should act like who u are rather than what u are....

  •  It takes a real man to cry in front of a woman.

  • @darkangel1472 no, it takes a really fucked up situation to make a real man cry in front of a woman. xD

  • @darkangel1472 Does your vagina hurt when you wake up in the morning?

  • @darkangel1472 Not actually. Areal man controls his emotions. It's very easy to let go of yourself.

  • @Karrimor18 i dissagree man allot of things gave me the feeling o crying my brother getting killed infront of me

    me ending up somewhere with no money no friends no connection i wanted to cry so hard but i couldn't cause its hard for a man to cry , so i did it when i was drunk

  • @darkangel1472 That's BS right there!

  • @darkangel1472 I disagree

  • @darkangel1472 or a real bitch...

  • @darkangel1472 Keep tellin yourself that garbage.. u gonna keep attracting pussies.

  • @darkangel1472 ... or a bitch

  • @darkangel1472 if by "real man" you mean not getting laid then yeah.

  • @darkangel1472

    But the women dont know it.

  • I like Cleo, shes a smart woman.

  • This videos is crap you could cry whenever you want real men show emotions

  • Hooyah! Bahamas!

  • There are things worthy of crying over. They wouldn't just be in place in the presence of your girlfriend.

  • XD to me i do find that somewhat true but guys do have feelings too they are only human

  • If the guy cries out of his penis hole, then it's okay. White tears, that's the best kind. That kind of tears shows how much you love the girl. Let her drink those tears. Semen sauce with asparagus ..

  • Dude, I am a chick, and if a guy cries in front of me, unless someone dies, I call him a faggot and I leave the damn room.

    And in the manipulation case, I would kick him in the nuts, call him a faggot and then leave the damn room.

    And when I say faggot, I mean to call the guy out as a gay person. I don't mean it in a derogatory way. The only guys I know who cry in front of girls are gay, and a gay person is not someone I am interested in being in a relationship with.

  • @sevenstarsofmine You just sound like a bad person, thats just my opinion.

  • @sevenstarsofmine Just becuz he cries doesnt mean he is gay its either manipulation or just expressing how he feels how he would wanna express, this stereo-type about gays being feminime is BS everybody can think,feel,cry whenever they feel is appropriate to, maybe they're just acting like who would be and not hide part of who they are, idk just a wild guess......

  • @sevenstarsofmine

    You sound like a uneducated whore. Your pussy must get pounded by AIDS-ridden thugs on a daily basis. If you kicked me in the nuts I would spin you around from your filthy lice-ridden weave.

  • DO NOT CRY!!!!

    Seriously, girls don't like sissy guys period.

    Showing Positive emotions is ok, but crying isn't what it is.

  • wow guys are so evil hahah~ =p

  • OMG!!! u are awesome dude

  • she fine as hell

  • I absolutely love that woman, and I don't know her. Sophisticated, cultured, beautiful, sweet, and dear god, that is one woman I would actually WANT to talk all of the time; I love her accent.

  • if crying wasnt a manly thing then a man wouldnt be able to cry technically .. this wouldnt happen but before we are men we are human beings& being a human being is not so easy . but then again women cry more then men cus men are less sensitive.In a relationship , A woman likes u for who you are &that means being urself is so important or else the r'ship looses its meaning& women can always tell when your not being ''you'' so i think its important being urself for right reasons nomata what

  • british acent,so sweet

  • If that girl had an american accent she would sound ugly.. but her english accent makes her sound hot!

  • @sabdow So true :p

  • @sabdow lol

  • @sabdow

    It's not about the American or English accent that makes her sound hot. It is her obvious intellect and social skills, which unfortunately most Black people in America choose not to develop in themselves because of all the pretend glory the media pushes on them to support an image, create a demographic of consumers, and make money. Long live capitalism.

  • "You should bitch slap him for crying like dat..crying in front of your troops"

    LMAO

  • English accents are just too sexy.

  • I love you Cleo!!!

  • a nigga should not be crying in front of his girl unless he got caught cheating lol

  • cleo is FINE. does she have a youtube acc?

  • I love how she says 'that's manipulation of emotion'. Women are the experts in doing that.

  • The one and only time I cried in front of my girlfriend was one day before my father passed away...I knew this will happen...and I didn't feel ashamed...

  • skyyjohn is seriousy Gay.

  • @Milacek929 who cares if he is or isnt...

  • @dus2cra that is acceptable bro :)

  • Dude that lady is gorgeous and I love her voice and accent. Is she single???

  • Sky...I agree with you in most situations...but this issue makes you look like a complete ass! I would cry in front of a woman..lets say if a loved one died..or one of her loved ones died...We are ALL human and God made us emotional creatures...Crying shows that you have a heart. Forget this "you are a pussy" if you cry nonsence. Show your feelings and I bet a woman would appriciate you more than being a man of stone.

  • cleo looks good man

  • my boyfriend cried in front of me and it was sweet and sensitive. it made me love him more - it was just a few tears. if hes lyk wailing then its all bad!!

  • anyone who doesn't cry.. isn't being true to themselves. Regardless if it's a guy or a girl. I RESPECT any guy that can shed some tears... it's all about being REAL & raw with HIMSELF..shows honesty & integrity with his soul; instead of covering it up, repressing it, acting like nothing is wrong.. creating an illusion, a facade. Crying is a release. nothing weak about it at ALL! it HELPs to build strength. Do some of you guys feel like one day you're gonna flip out? Try crying a bit

  • bitch slap him lool.I agree with u my ex started crying when i told him i wanted to break up ughh eww

  • Hahaha My Dude!

  • nice couple!!!

  • You cracked me up man XD

  • She is beautiful...a godess

  • ahh dude you are fuckin hilarious lol

  • guys shouldn't cry but ill have to agree with the girl that was a valid reason.

  • I think this is stupid personally, I know that my guy is extremely strong, and I feel that part of his emotions and what defines him as a human is to cry when saddened...if he cried...I'd hold him and tell him it's gonna be ok..because I know he'd do the same for me.

  • Heres a simple test ask a girl what she wants in a man whats the number one answer funny/sensitive cliche magazine stock answer but then look at who they date. You need to draw the distinction between what people say and what they actually do. Take it from someone whos transcended rigid gender roles his whole life when you actually try it some things are just biological and its like swimming up stream DIFFICULT, possible but difficult cause we are animals but with an ability for concious action

  • I mean its really not a bad thing if you do. just not all the time. some females love it wen a guy crys. i do. i think its really cute and it gives us a chance to b that shoulder to cry on instead of the guy we r wit. i prefer 4 my guy to not b afraid 2 cry n front of me

  • Trying to appear strong, has nothing to do with strength. The most "macho" guys are usually the weakest.

    John my man. I'm sorry to break this to you, but you must be dating some truly messed up woman.

  • skyyjohn shut the fuck up you piece of shit.

  • Okay so the lesson here is... If you're a guy in a relationship and you want to impress guys like Skyy, you don't ever cry. So unless you're gay (and you're the receiver), you should listen to Cleo.

  • Oh come on...what's wrong with waiting to shed tears when you're alone? Watching a couple crying together is not romantic or appealing at all. Or worse, a dude crying and his girlfriend comforting him...sure I want my girlfriend to comfort me when I'm sad, but I'd like to shed my tears in private!

  • @Ojokernegro you should be grateful for your sensitivity . dont try to depress your nature. bye 

  • I think skyy is talking about all the whiners bitches, not the "man with emotions", when you see like 100 guys per month crying and crying over normal life stuff, you need to stand up against that.

  • skyjohn you are idiot and gay

  • @vasgeorge No dude, Skyy is the man!

  • @Ojokernegro he is full of bullshit. so you are.

  • @vasgeorge no man...the truth is, you are full of bullshit. :(

  • @Ojokernegro if a man is afraid to cry , he is not a man at all. so think again who is full of bullshit.

  • @vasgeorge Skyy doesn't say that a man shouldn't cry, he says that a man shouldn't cry in front of "his girl"! Do you understand that? You see, there's nothing wrong with crying, we all cry, I've cried while alone SEVERAL times...alone! And the reason men don't cry in front of their girls is not because of "fear" it's because of PRIDE! Not fear, PRIDE! If you, as a man, are not proud of being a man who doesn't have to cry in front of people to seek comfort (whimp) then I fear for your girl mate.

  • @Ojokernegro you are such an idiot.Pride is stupidness.So if you feel like crying , and your girl is in front , what are you gonna do?Depress your feelings? this is just stupid and fake. And i don't think that women like fake people.They like true people , who aren't afraid to express their feelings. So finally it is about FEAR. You are afraid of what the girl should thing about you. So stop the stupid "should" and "should not" listen to your heart and live truly , authentically. no matter what.

  • @vasgeorge First of all, I'm not defending my views because of skyy, the fact of the matter is simply that I have always shared the same opinion as he has, so no, Skyyjohn is not brainwashing me, I'm an adult thank you. I disagree with you when you call it fake. Not crying in front of your girl is not being fake, instead it is being strong, being in control! My girlfriend is allowed to see me sad, to see me devastaded, to see me confused and at loss of what to do, but not when I'm crying. [cont]

  • @Ojokernegro anyway I'm very sorry for you, ..cheers and be real. no matter what.. Throw away the idiotic ideas that society gave you.Only then you will be authentic.. 

  • @vasgeorge ...and you know why? Because my girlfriend knows that no matter how bad things are...no matter how screwed up my life gets, I will always be able to control when my tear flows. Tears are not emotions vasgeorge, they just represent the emotions, and I'll never let my tears represent my emotions when I'm in front of the woman who relies on me to always be in control of myself. Understand that concept.

  • @Ojokernegro the only thing that i understand is that you are a stupid egoist. the fact that you are an adult doesnt mean mothing.Actually it means that you hadn't got over this complex of yours until now. there is no reason to control your feelings. leave it,express it,.As i told you before,you are a fake,egoist , stupid. Dont be afraid to listen to your heart. i have nothing more to say. If you dont understand its your problem, and im sorry for you.But just know that the inside always wins.

  • @vasgeorge I forgive the rude comments you sent my way, as I understand it is your, and many other's ways of striking a point. My heart and I are always in great sync if you must know. Once again, it's not about controlling the feelings, but about controlling the way you express them, which is different even if you don't see it. Thank you for insight vasgeorge, and may you someday mature enough so as to understand what I now am saying...so that even your children will look up to you as a man.

  • @Ojokernegro There is no different ways of expressing your feelings.When you feel like laughing you laugh,when you feel like crying you cry.This is it, so simple and true.No need to be fake.It is your ego that doesnt let you be yourself. Understand this and you will be more mature.I totally understand you,because I'm more mature than you.Maturity has nothing to do with strength and depressing your feelings because of your stupid ego and pride.I hope you'll understand.For your own sake.

  • @Ojokernegro

    Saying that men SHOULDN'T cry in front of their woman is like saying women should be bad at fixing trucks or good at cooking. It's not of this century, man. If you're in a relationship where you can't be vulnerable and honest, then that's a pretty piss poor relationship. Your only hope is growing more mature or finding a woman who's in the same century as you are, mentally.

  • @smaakjeks No. Saying men shouldn't cry is the same as saying, every man needs to be able to have a strong hold of when to break down in tears. Really, not crying is not that hard! A man can program when to let the tears go, it's called being in control. My sweetheart doesn't have to know how to cook perfectly (an egg at least though), or suck at repairing trucks (I don't care if she excels at something more than I do) but I must reassure her that when the shit hits the fan, I'll try to be...

  • @smaakjeks ...man enough to control the tears. She will obviously know that I'm crying in the inside, and she will try to comfort me, and I'll appreciate it. But she does not need to see me crying, and vulnerability does not only apply to shedding tears in front of a girl! Apologies if you find me immature, or a "caveman" as NintendoArielle said it, but I'm sure women won't hate/despise me for never shedding a tear in front of them when things get really really really f'ed up. Am I lying?

  • @Ojokernegro

    No, you're not lying. We all have priorities and different views on what makes us who we are, and what identifies us as men. I'm sure there are lots of women who agree with you and will want you not to cry in front of them. As long as you're okay with that, that's fine. It's not okay with me or my sweetheart, so we both allow ourselves to be open emotionally. I'm responding to the critique that men CAN'T cry in front of women lest they be considered weak or wimpy.

  • @smaakjeks First of all, I appreciate the maturity mate. As for crying making you look weak or wimpy, I knw sum people dont agree with that, and I enjoy having people who have different views from my own. So if its okay to cry in front of your girl in your relationship, then good for you, I wont say you're fortunate, but good for you mate and may you both have a happy long-lasting relationship. What I do know is that exercising control over one's self makes one stronger, and that goes 4 tears 2.

  • @Ojokernegro

    I hope likewise with your relationship. I agree that in some cases self control builds character, but not all control is positive. For example, one might call control over one's emotions synonymous to stunting, hindering or repressing emotions. It depends on the severity and the mental health issues that result from it, of course. And when I say that one should be able to cry, I mean within reason. Some cry as a defense mechanism or to manipulate, and that's different.

  • @Ojokernegro

    To finish off, I think at the root of this is NOT whether or not crying is okay, but to what degree men "should" reveal their vulnerability to their partner. I think we can both agree that as long as we don't feel repressed or pressured by our partner into hiding or letting out our emotions, then that's what's important. Not whether or not our eyes leak.

  • @smaakjeks Fully agreed.

  • @Ojokernegro and stop listening to the stupid skyyjohn..and be yourself ..no matter what..