Meiko - Boys With Girlfriends

[minnie7music]

song really relates to my situation now an my best guy friend an me r no longer talking now T_T an i miss him so much damn her!!!

[MsBananas101]

this is so scary!!:)

[eeepppiiiccc123]

THE MONKEYS A STALKER

[MaryLouJem]

FRIENDZONE !

[Vampgirl51600]

Who dates a bear in the first place anyways? Am I the only one who thinks this?

[xDINOxSEXxRAWRx]

so... when will she be releasing new music?

[suzegoalie29]

"You looked at me and said 'It's a little bit late for bed'"

<3

[XxXyourXaddictionXxX]

Oh geesh I remember I went through the same thing as this once. She pretty much ruined our friendship. :/

Still a great song though! :D

[goozy101]

Totally goin thru this right now haha... really into this one girl & she's into me too but she has a gf & I'm pretty sure her gf is suspicious of me...sigh it sucks

[VintageBeauty1234]

"I know better not to be friends with boys who have girlfriends..I know better than that" ((:

[shimmerysquirt]

.....this fits my life soo perfectly...he's my best friend. She's my friend...but she's not good enough for him. But this song helped me get over it. :) I've moved on to better things than loving him.

[victorragingredlma1]

FAIL XD

[Kagome8055]

PEDOBEAR!....

anyways what kind of bear is that...a mixed breed o__o

anyways, this song is soooo catchy :DDD

[rruutthhable]

this is sooo the story of my life. you like a guy and he likes you but he's taken so you're just friends but she was on to you from the start.

[Nellatrescocos]

@rruutthhable I don'tget people that have boy/girlfriends and they also like somebody else. If he was into you, why didn't he broke up with his girlfriend? I can't trust people like that.

[MaryLouJem]

@Nellatrescocos I totally agree with you! He is the one who has to break up with her :( (sorry for my English)

[SnakeSnakeSnakeSna]

@rruutthhable depressing ass life

[mistrosr11]

Saw her live 2 days ago....love this song. Amazing!!

[dropdeadhayley]

I love your story behind this song, Meiko!

I hope the girl doesn't beat you up after this.. when she hears it. X)

You are amazing. <3

[becks777ham]

meiko is the sweetest girl ever!

[leslieg92]

yea you should know better than being freinds with a guy that has a BEAR for a girl....shes gonna attack you!

[MicaelaCarling]

That bear scared the living shit out of me in the refection on the subway.... :O OMFG!

[THREESIXTEEN93]

I wish I could stay away from girls with boyfriends. I could swear she's into me but the next day she's going back to her boyfriend.

[sunkissed646]

im sorry i think the bear is awesome!

[JennyPennyXP]

Whats funny because the guy I like isnt even aware that his relationship is technically an abusive one. emotionally. yet hes still pussy wipped by that tiny little skank. haha

[xoxoSydneexoxo]

that bear is like a stalker...

[hillsssy]

You shouldn't try taking your guy friend away from his girlfriend int he first place. This is such a stupid song...well, the lyrics are stupid, the beat is cute.

[kristenmsz]

@hillsssy That's the point, that's what the song is about... about knowing better than even trying to associate with a guy with a girlfriend, because if anything happens... he'll tell his gf that she came onto him etc etc ("the bad guy") and he couldn't do anything about it ("the victim"). You can't help how you feel about someone, the song is just saying that she's smarter than trying to do anything about it.

[NadielleG]

@hillsssy its not about trying to take your guyfriend away from his girlfriend its about having a guy friend who u r close too and even though nothing happens becuz of how close u r to the person the girlfriend may get the wrong impression and it could also be interpreted as what kristenmsz said

[Kathehable]

Relevant.

[MissAnimeGirl2222]

Stalker bear

[jumboband]

Is it just me, or is this just another musically empty tune? Nothing against singer-song writers, but how is this different musically different from all the rest of the singer-song writer types? Anyway, I'm sure she's a fine person, but musically, I don't see much here.

[creamsoda178]

@jumboband It's a bit folkier than other artists, my opinion. I also think her voice is quite unique, but nowadays the soft love song genre is quite flooded.

[readthesecomments]

lol, they couldn't find a suitable girl, so they used a bear for the girlfriend? 

[OMGoITSoHANNAH]

Ha.. Awkward silence at the end

[MsAshleyDoll]

It's nice knowing i'm not the only one with these problems!

Hahaa sing it sistah!

[seymoreike23]

I HAVE SEARCHED IT FOR SO LONG I HEARD IT ON GRAYS ANATOMY...ITS A LOVELLY SONG...

[vixaprince]

at 1:37 they ran from the mexican cholos in the doorway.

[maybenot1980]

I love her voice.  I love this song. I want her album.

[rozzkalingo]

what kind of music video was that? who is the bear/monkey, the girlfriend? LOL. anyway i love this song so much.

[angiiierojas]

Does anyone know why her album isn't on iTunes anymore?

[SuperFlyyChickahh14]

<3ThisSong. 

[finalfantasy8VIII]

i don't think the bear is scary at all, you guys are all wimps lol :P I really like this song super catchy!

[myrtledoesntmodel]

wtf?? That bear was freakin creepy!! I still loved the video though because it made me laugh at how weird it was and the song is addictinnnngggg :P

[HelloCupcake411]

You know, the ending were the bear thing creeped on the subway and came towards tge girl and guy, made me think... WHAT HAPPENED NEXT? 0.0

[NinjasEatedMyBrainsy]

I love this song soo much :) Always have ^^

[HelloCupcake411]

Ugh... I know watcha mean, *stares longingly at bestfriend beside me*

[SantanaxBrittany]

nice song, but it was the bear that made it stand out

[samimo25000]

in love

[partygirl589]

Love this song, hate that bear…who would want to be with such a stalker... That guy is way stupid.

[MKALove146]

omg the bed is so scary!

[shefondaaa]

known this song for years - but only now I can say I can relate to it. I DEFINITELY know better than to be friends with boys with girlfriends. hahaha. effing bear-ladies >:O

[Yourfelony]

story of my life.. stupid boys with beary-girlfriends!!!! :(

[XMoonlightMistressX]

The scene on the train freaking SCARED ME!!!!! O:

[allisonmarie65]

12 people are afraid of bears D:

[dhaan16]

my theme song

[TheHolyphantom]

I don't know why all of you keep saying "bear." looks more like a damn monkey to me

[ferki1234567]

@TheHolyphantom "A regular jealous bear." Ever heard that expression? :P

[MegaMexican19]

i wish i had a creepy bear that would follow me around...):

[NKWproductiontdp]

i just died.

that ending. ahahaha

[emanem22]

How could he not laugh when the bear put it's paw on his lap in the end LOL

[CubTy]

@asnnbrg I love you <3

[missmickey02]

the girlfriend must be overBEARing..(:

[LessMusclesToSmile]

over-bearing girlfriend?

[dhaan16]

I know better than to be friennds with boys with creepy pink bear girlfriends

[nadineibay]

one of the best songs i have ever heard! <3

[maroonhattedparakeet]

This song is so great, not in this situation right now, but i sure as hell was 2 months ago, I'm with him now, so suck it creepy bear :)

[asnnbrg]

@maroonhattedparakeet So in other words, the girlfriend was right to feel threatened by you, given that, in the end, he broke up with her to be with you?

And why does everyone feel bad for the "poor" boyfriend? He can easily choose to break up with his girlfriend if he wants to. He just gets more mileage out of the drama he creates between the two girls. It bolsters his ego -- stop playing into that nonsense and find a man who isn't taken and isn't playing games.

[maroonhattedparakeet]

@asnnbrg Im not one of those doushes who get in little "comment" fights, just wanted to say that i see ur point 100% but I am happy with the descisions I have made...thanks :)

[shuTuPanDrespecT25]

the bear...lmao. i would've expected this to be really serious, i like how that makes it a lot more lighthearted. i listen to 95% hardcore shit but this is awesome :)

[phopho4]

see now i thought that the bear was the friend and the girl was the girlfriend, because the girl and the guy held hands and everything, which just friends wouldnt do. so like the over protective friend ruined their relationship, am i the only one who thought that? oh okay, just me then.

[SpaQueenRocks]

@phopho4 lmao...your comment is hilarious. as for me...i KNEW the bear was the girlfriend and the guy was running around with the "friend" from the start.

[phopho4]

i thought that she was the girlfriend? and the friend was the bear? because friends dont do all that stuff that her and that guy did? just me who thinks that? oh ok.

[phopho4]

i thought that she was the girlfriend? and the friend was the bear? because friends dont do all that stuff that her and that guy did? just me who thinks that? oh ok.

[TheTragicallyhip101]

Why is his girlfriend a bear

[StylinPinkDancer]

The ending was SOOOO FREAKIN CREEPY!!

[karleksvenska]

That bear reminds me of the one from the Shining...

[IAMREMIXify]

@Lina0David Your comment is underrated.

[IAMREMIXify]

@Lina0David *facepalm*

[Lina0David]

@IAMREMIXify ok

[resachu1]

That bear thing is so creepy...

[lordxrevan]

am i the only one creeped out by the damn bear

[Sophersnfriends]

@lordxrevan u totally arent! im creeped out by it too! I mean wat up with that bear!

[QueeenQuin]

@Sophersnfriends his girlfriend is overBEARING

[Sophersnfriends]

@QueeenQuin Haha Hehe... i guess...

[whoadangsam]

@QueeenQuin Day=made.

[666DeathSlaughter666]

@lordxrevan no you are not

[gottalovehimback]

@lordxrevan No, I am too xD

[OMGlifesucks]

@lordxrevan

nopee.. i thoughtt it was kindaa creepy.

[xx3emilyxx3]

His girlfriend has nothing on me. ugly bear,

[RockyRode19]

i thought the girl friend was a monkey... o.o

[JessJessickrah]

his girlfriend scares me.

[shy1845]

I love this song so much

[VibrantCompromise]

This explains my whoooooole fucking life.

[yeep94]

i'd fuck the shit out of that bear

[variationsthereof]

the songs arent my kind of thing, but i love her voice...

[hrkzk1]

Pff, Meiko is beautiful I think, but her boyfriend... Beurk...

[soulfulandhopeful]

haha just imagine this bear with like a chainsaw or a big bloody axe. perfect horror movie... :)

[rzg912]

Being the other girl hurts doesn't it? It's hard not to shed the tears every night b4 I go to sleep, ever wondering if I will find some1.

[lovemusic99plustax]

i mean i really loved this song up until i saw the video

[acciobandaid]

That bear is scary D:

[whoeveryouwantme2be]

the stupid bear ruins the video. it would be pretty great otherwise

[rzg912]

Whats with that big teddy bear chasing them around?

[rzg912]

Som1 tell me what she means in this song!??

[hellationships]

@rzg912 She met a guy and fell for him instantly & he told her he had a gf. She knew that she shouldve cut it off then, but decides to be his friend. The end part she talks about doing what's right for herself and what's right is letting him go. If you've ever been a female friend to a guy with a girlfriend... you understand the drama she's talking about here. The drama of the gf being jealous, the guy using you as an excuse for not spending time with his girl. It's just best... to never do it.

[hellationships]

@rzg912 I think that theres a lot of subtext and this is almost like saying "I know better not to fall for a man who is taken even if he seems like the perfect guy for me". I mean, saying "It's a little too late for bed" and then spending all night with her... that's not how a taken man should behave.

[ChangeOurSociety]

@rzg912 Actually hellationships is inaccurate, she talks about why she wrote the song a bit into youtube.com/watch?v=B2TAgnAxeI­o

[YellowFantanaFan]

@ChangeOurSociety Your link doesn't work... just explain it... :)

[ChangeOurSociety]

@YellowFantanaFan Essentially when she moved to LA, she met a guy and whenever she tried to go hang out with him, she'd get all up in her ass about shit. Eventually he stopped returning her phone calls, turns out it was because of her friend's girlfriend. She got all upset and wrote the song. ?v=B2TAgnAxeIo No idea why it doesn't work for you, does for me.

[ChangeOurSociety]

@YellowFantanaFan She as in the guy's girlfriend.

[tymarie2012]

that is one creeper bear >.>

[thunderlights7]

i dont get it

[insertyourquarters]

LOL at bear, gets around quick don't she?!

[insertyourquarters]

my days didn't know there was a video :)

[slazeroth]

@insertyourquarters

My days? lol hell yes

[iloveyou123486]

i whould be terrified if that happen to me but anywayzzzzz Meiko has an amazing voice i wish i had her voice but i guess i should be lucky i have a good voice already but still who knows i might be famous one day look for the name Maria Ordaz that my name dont wear it out im 12 so dont be expect to hear my name any time soon i noe i wont or who noes u never noe wow i just relized i wrote alot well anywayzzz buh byezzzzzz ppl :D

[iloveyou123486]

i whould be terrified if that happen to me but anywayzzzzz Meiko has an amazing voice i wish i had her voice but i guess i should be lucky i have a good voice already but still who knows i might be famous one day look for the name Maria Ordaz that my name dont wear it out im 12 so dont be expect to hear my name any time soon i noe i wont or who noes u never noe wow i just relized i wrote alot well anyway byezzzzzz :D

[TeDdYsAuRuSrEx]

she has a funny mouth....i love the song thouhg =]

[CAiTLiNx354]

if this is written about real people I feel really bad for the girlfriend. She's portrayed by a bear

Still love this song though!

[vaballer237]

This makes me sad... Leave the bear... ) : 

[EIIegant]

2:07 - 2:50

favorite part

[1995bobbygirl]

love his bear girlfreind its awsome 

[tarc31]

wow that bear is realy disturbing

[daddysbabiegurl]

3:22 - 3:27 You can totally see the reflection, they ran like 3 seats back and stoped. XD

[Nanalov3ily]

damn i like diz song but da video kind of creeps me out!! :O!

[paul321654987]

Meiko with Crystal Method, Falling Hard

[FakeApology]

The line "you play the victim and I'll be the bad guy" reminds me of all of Taylor Swift's boyfriends.

[PhoebeChanz]

@singing0hanna Pft go to America. or download it off teh intarwebz.

[singing0hanna]

how can i buy this song in the UK? its not on itunes.

[ilovekelly75]

@singing0hanna try Amazon

[mounwootwoot]

lmao! the video is funny! but the lyrics r sooooo true! :|

[april8974]

This is just like my situation right now!!!

[xTachibana]

Everyone has an annoying bear girlfriend these days.

[LCZizzle]

@xTachibana: yep XD

[katydidmeow]

This is the one song that perfectly illustrates the same situation I find myself in 99% of the time. FML

[BananaCrackers]

I want his girlfriends dress. D:<

[FMF00]

the song was good ^.*

[lollaren95]

@FMF00 was? try is

[fidyazahraa]

this video is actually funny

[AnnaLang17]

its all fun and games until someone gets eaten[=

[AlexisUnger]

Don't you hate when you find the perfect song for the situation after the fact?

:) Good thing I luckily didn't need the guidance.

[totallyawesome171]

Ah, shit. Why do The good ones always have a girlfriend?.

[monagirl1996]

this is the cutest video! haha the bear is funny

[alwayslexie]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAmazing song, I will never stop loving it <3

[baileylovestacos]

haha her face at 3:16

[alwayslexie]

@baileylovestacos You can't see her face then...?

[ilovekelly75]

@alwayslexie he probably meant 3:13

[domleah1987]

I love this song. I can relate..lol

[spacemambo101]

stalker bear

[jessicalilac]

i loooove her outfit :O

[rachelface927]

gah, that voice!! love her hair. and her dress. and her boots. saw her live once, she's really funny and cute :)

[Malloryfofallry]

she's so cute :))

[Chesh1373]

my world makes complete since when boys start dating bears....with very 'pretty' faces....

[resachu1]

The bear is so scary... o___o

[blackandvioletroses]

thumbs up if this song reminds u of him

[heavyy06]

This is my girlfriends favorite song by her and the ironic part is, she doesn't know any better XD, that's how she got me :P

[WICKDZEBRA]

yeah.. i know better than that!

[freakymonkey21]

that bear girlfriend is fricking creepy

[stopoverbreeding]

ok my big bro joe and i could not figure out if that thing (the brown bear/monkey) was

[xxpensxipodsxx]

@stopoverbreeding its a bear, haha, cause shes 'overbearing'

[OHAYSARAH]

I love this song. She really doesn't look 1/4 Japanese though, does she?

[brennaluvv]

she has big teeth and small lips lol

[paintballprep0627]

@jardelvars actually its about her friend who is a guy but he has a jealous girlfriend. so he isnt single lol

[candismith127]

love the song but i dont get this at all

[lbrj720]

@raraavises I LOVE HER

[SuperKandyKanes]

I had a nightmare about that stupid bear Dx

[juliamack35]

i always thought this video was creepy ever since i first watched it.....

[bally1020]

@kidwithoutgun so funny to go down and read that haha

[crazygothkid93]

I don't get this video at all...Especially the bear?