Don't know if this helps anyone, but I see a TON of attractive girls with butt-ugly guys. I never see attractive guys with ugly girls. So if you're an ugly guy, don't worry you CAN get an attractive girl. An ugly girl...not so much. Guys take looks into consideration more than girls do so ugly girls will have more trouble getting relationships than ugly guys will. Girls are interested in personality over looks. If you have a great personality you will BECOME more attractive in her eyes.
Don't know if this helps anyone, but I see a TON of attractive girls with butt-ugly guys. I never see attractive guys with ugly girls. So if you're an ugly guy, don't worry you CAN get an attractive girl. An ugly girl...not so much. Guys take looks into consideration more than girls do so ugly girls will have more trouble getting relationships than ugly guys will. Girls are interested in personality over looks. If you have a great personality you will BECOME more attractive in her eyes.
I will explain your observation if you want me to, but first just answer this simple question - If men are more shallow on looks, why does an AVERAGE LOOKING woman get more dating, sex & relationship opportunities than an AVERAGE LOOKING guy? why can an AVERAGE LOOKING woman attract men MORE EASILY than an AVERAGE LOOKING guy can attract women.
@runtodahills I take the liberty to answer that. I think firstly that women are in general better at charming a man. Secondly, women are more cautious of an apporoaching guy than a man would be of an approaching woman. That's just my 2 cents.
@LINDSAYLIKEOMG My personal observasion exactly! I tell this to all my friends and ask them to look for couples themselves. It's weird but I've seen many many couples of the description you wrote.
The conclusion is that if you're not good looking, then don't worry, as long as you have an awesome personality and social skills. Agreed. So there's really no hope for the average looking guy who is an introvert and lacks personality?
@nico3641 Well, let's say your chances are slim. To be successful you need to offer something, but as @jannelli17 says, if you can't charm a woman than she sees no reason to continue building something long-term. Looks help but personality, elegance and virtue more.
Jennelli, you are quite intelligent. I believe that I will end up being with a woman who is similar to you in intellect, because I readily understand you.
I notice that a lot of these guys here seem to scream bs when they haven't really tried to understand what could be, but that is their quirk.
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box
Here's what you need to do
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll see how easy it is
listen fellows, there are two things that are irresistable to women, power and money....you might have a wart on your forehead as big as a tennis ball, but show them you have power and money and oh yeah dominate them , and they will melt in your hands...no bullshit!!!!
I'm mostly attracted to men who make me laugh and have a nice smile. And tall guys, but I do think short guys are adorable. I really enjoy your videos XD.
As for Michele, she met a guy a few years ago. They dated for a year and a half or a couple of years. He is concsiderably shorter than her, and having serious financial difficulties. An average looking guy. But she really likes him. and has insecurity/anger issues that are constantly spilling over into their relationship and causing arguments. So she finally broke up with him....
(oops. Youtube wouldn't let me post)I have a lot of options of women I would enjoy going with. I can just keep trying them out. One is just as good as the other. And I WILL find someone to go with me!
True story. I just moved to Oakland from LA. Don't really know anyone yet. There is a restaurant that I owe a visit to and I would like to go with a lady. I left a note for the girl who lives downstairs. Never heard back from her. Think it turns out she has a boyfriend. Met a girl at the college and we eneded up taking the train back together. Invited her, she said maybe some other time, but she gave me her number.
And you're right about one more thing(I think). Men are attracted to a higher number of women than women are to men. To me that's an advantage. That means I have more options. Lets forget about women for a second. Lets take you and me. Lets say I only like Asian women. But you are open to women of any race. Which one of us has more options available to us?
You are also right about me seeing things from a woman's perspective. lol, well that's because I want to date women, not men! Ever worked retail? They tell you in all the meetings to put yourself in the customer's shoes. That's how you attract customers and that's how you keep them. It's the same with people. Believe me a little empathy goes a long ways.....
Michele could approach men. I think you will agree that in our culture men are expected to approach women. Maybe she adheres to that idea too strictly. Or maybe she's just insecure about approaching men. Also over these several years she's had some underlying issues that contributed to her struggles with dating. According to me most of such struggles come from one's PERCEPTION of both the self and others and situations. But you are right. Michele could approach men.
I can assure you, that men who struggle at attracting women, have very very reasonable expectations. 'beggars cannot be choosers'. that perfectly applies to men who struggle.
When women claim they struggle, its because they cannot get the KIND OF MAN they want..they cannot get their Mr Right. They can still get a lot of MEN.
Do you know that generally, men are attracted to a larger number of women, but women are attracted to fewer men?
But rest assured I DATE Asian women. And it's not because I sit around telling myself Asian women don't like Black men. Now I gather you are interested in dating women. What difference does it make whether or not I agree with you that women have the advantage in dating? Even if it's true the fact remains that YOU are interested in dating women. So the question is how do you get them to respond more favorably towards you?
@RuntoDahills I'm Black and I like Asian women. I have surmised that the majority of Asian women prefer Asian or White men. I have been told by Asian women from Korea, Japan, the Philipines and China that they were told to never date a black man.....
@Kambridge967, yeah. I can say my friend Michele for example, tall, pretty face, great ass, intelligent. Do you know how many times she's asked me why men don't approach her and told me how she misses the men in Chicago(since she's moved to LA) who had the balls to approach? I've known her at least seven years now. Being single and being lonely has been the biggest struggle of her life as long as I've known her.
Even if i believe that your friend Michelle doesnt get approached by men (ones who meet her standards, anyway) It amazes me that the thought doesnt even cross your mind that why the hell cant SHE begin to approach men?
Im surprised that despite being a male you are coming from a womans perspective
2 the point I was making is that Generally speaking the average guy has what it takes to connect with women. But you have to think about what you do have going for yourself. Not what you don't have going on. I threw in picking up a new skill as a sarcastic remark about the notion that a guy doesn't have anything to offer if he's not rich or good looking.
runtodahills several responses also come to mind. Or at least a few. 1: women also struggle with dating. Contrary to popular belief a lot of women, even (if not especially) attractive women, do not get approached by a lot of guys. That's a fact. Why do you think there's so much online dating going on? People (including women) are trying to find SOME way to connect.
you know i cannot even begin to point out the fallacies in your arguments. My experience tells me it can be quite impossible arguing with someone like you who will refute everything by saying "it happens with women too"....who lives in a state of denial regarding the fact that the dating & sexual marketplace heavily favors women.
@Kearyjb women struggle with dateing huh! well you know why women struggle with dateing? Because they are to picky and far more superficial than men. They bring they're dateing struggles upon theyre own selfs. Then you say alot of attractive women dont get approach by alot of guys? come on are you serious? I dont even need to respond to that one. Females use online dateing so that they can be superficial, shallow and concieted in an easier and quicker way and without haveing to meet the guy.
Even if i believe that your friend Michelle doesnt get approached by men (ones who meet her standards, anyway) It amazes me that the thought doesnt even cross your mind that why the hell cant SHE begin to approach men?
Im surprised that despite being a male you are coming from a womans perspective
several questions come to mind after reading your comments.
For one, since you talk about 'skills', tell me....what skills does an ordinary looking young woman have to attract men? because Ive never seen average looking women struggling to get action.
Wow. Most of you cats sound pretty young. If you believe that women only go for guys that are good looking or wealthy then I assume you are neither good looking nor wealthy and you are not getting any action. Fact is there are a variety of women out there that go for a variety of men for a variety of reasons....
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
Women control relationships because they control the affection. They also want to be pursued. So, men run the chance of making fools out of themselves by pursuing someone who will reject them. This is how all the macho stuff is created within the male ego. I find if I pretend I'm pursuing a girl, I will get my answer. But how do you pretend? Do something kind for her that is unconditional. If she responds positively,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is
Women love to downplay the issue of looks because they don't want to be perceived as "shallow." The reality is, even an average looking feels "entitled" to a male model because of the massive amounts of male attention they get. Even OVERWEIGHT women are dating guys out of their league, because men have become so desperate.
How many times on online dating sites/chatrooms women take one look at a mans picture and don't respond EVEN if they have similar hobbies and interests. I took the photo of a handsome male, made a really lame profile and had tons and tons of shallow superficial women messaging me, ready to have sex on the first date. Guys need to wake up and realize women are just as shallow and looks based as men are! Why would a girl like a guy she knows nothing about? LOOKS!
Women are so shallow they talk to you, based on how attracted they are to you. Go to any bar or club, women take one look at a guy and make up their mind about him. If a guy is good looking he could go up to a girl and start touching her and she will be fine with it, if the guy did the same thing and he was ugly, she would cry "sexual harassment." The way a woman responds to your actions is based on how sexually attracted she is to you.
Women are just as shallow and just as superficial as men are when it comes to looks. Women love to downplay the issue of looks but the reality is they are very looks based. They reject men in 1-5 seconds based on LOOKS and then claim the guy was "creepy." If a guy is good looking they will laugh at any lame joke he makes and overlook as his negative personality traits. If a guy is unattractive he is creepy to them and the best thing he can be is in the "friend zone."
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
I almost wrote you off. But, you made good sense. Us guys are physical and women are mental. Hence, opposites attract. But, looks dont really matter, if you can spark the intrigue of a woman and keep her on that train, then you are good to go. But If you think youre looks alone are the final decision in being chosen, then get real. Simply, guys, just step up and keep her interested. That all it takes.
not every girl is like you, i am so so looking guy yet i get positive responses (more than as friend) from some 10 looking girls after they know me... if men go for looks its natural , if girls do it is shallow... i believe you are good looking ( 6,7,8) and you based your confidence on that wholly,
have you got any boyfriends who likes you for who you are ? have you had any deep sex ? you can't because you will loose your confidence if you try to lower the value about looks...
@aliakber1001 Really? That was really ignorant to say because In a new study that just took place at an Oklahoma University they said that MORE MEN THAN WOMEN get happiness in the relationship by cuddling and than Woman. Times are changing bub. ;p Woman aren't just sex toys.
So, if Osama Bin Laden had an amazing personality, he would have been a Playboy in Playboy Magazine instead of being a terrorist hiding in Pakistan and jacking off to porn in his den?
hmm don't worry .. a 'hot' looking guy with mediocre personality will get more attention, couples of dates, and SEX... and you won't get all that but you will get the emotional shit.. :\
It's not that hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there are some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things for me and most recently I've been using the techniques from P.box.
Here's what you need to do..
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tops and blend it with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself a bit and you'll see how easy it can be.
I strongly think that this notion that women are only interested in hot men wears off as she gets older and as she become more aware of the world around her. Young girls love dating hot men but by the time she's in her thirties she will become tired of this. She will be wanting someone long term, good looking or not. Someone to have a serious relatinship with besides sex. This means that it is the person that is importnat and not what his face or body looks like.
Attractiveness is purely subjective. Attractiveness mostly come from within. It doesn't matter if someone is ugly as long as they have a shiny personality and is fun to be with. I've seen some guys who think they are good looking and are complete jerks.
its actually much more important for a man to be goodlooking. even average looking women can easily date and have sexual relations with a lot of men. an average looking guy has no option but to pursue a woman for a relationship. average looking men cannot have flings...they cannot appeal to women based on their looks, they cannot have casual relationships. they cannot date multiple women. they can have ONE woman ie they work hard to impress her. pls cut the crap.
its amazing that the hypocrite women tel us "dont worry, if youre not a hot guy...you will get a gf some day bcos there is someone made for everyone" yesh... notice how they subtly tell us that the only option for an average-ok looking guy is to pursue a single woman for a relationship. we cannot have FUN, we cannot have flings, casual relationships, casual dating, FWB's... no, thats only for women. (and hot guys)
@SuperKam24 BULLSHIT!!, you can have the most engaging and interesting persoanlity, but if you don't pass the looks test with a woman, then it's GAME OVER.
i have a question for you. i don't have a good looking but i am working on it. but i like a girl and she's showing all the signs you have told that shows that she seems to want a relationship but i don't know what to do. help please..........
OKAY LADIES! TIME TO BOYCOTT SEX & MARRIAGE! DON'T GIVE MEN ANYTHING! THEY DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT US! SO MAKE SURE YOU DON'T GIVE THE SERVICE, HOSPITALITY, SEX, OR ANY OTHER PLEASURE!!! BOYCOTT MEN!!!!!!
This is a bullshit ! Look at how women react when they see a muscular man with his shirt off. They love it. Now, the real reason that you see a women with a not so attractive man is security. The security can either be financial or emotional. Women who with ugly men, who aren't rich, are with them because they're insecure. And you better believe that they're fucking some attractive bad boy behind their ugly boyfriends back.
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is
theres no such thing as chemistry; only an illusion of it. also looks only go so far. it's all based on personality, character and how you can make her or him feel.
you realize that all that crap you said about what women 'really' want from a guy, only works after (after) she has gotten with the guy? most guys arent dumb enough to do all that shit to a girl they arent dating much less fuckin. none of that matters at the stage that guys are having problem with, and thats getting to the point where girls are hooking up with them.
@mofotax LOL, yeah if i got $1 for every time i heard a woman say: "i want a guy who is funny, who makes me laugh, who is smart, etc"... I'd have enough money to buy a house and a ferrari!
if looks are not that important to women, then tell me.... why does an average looking woman get more dating & sexual opportunities than an average looking guy.
average-OK looking women can still attract a lot of men. they can still date a variety of men. but average-OK looking men get very few dating & sexual opportunities.
@runtodahills average-OK looking women can still attract a lot of men. they can still date a variety of men. but average-OK looking men get very few dating & sexual opportunities.
Lots of good comments here, but this one really stuck out---I've been saying this for years. I'm tall, muscular, and not an eyesore, and yet women who should be in my physical dating "bracket" are not coming forth much. I do get women attracted to me, but usually they are not on the same level appearance-wise.
Looks are 98% important to men. Looks are 95% important to women. If you are a goodlooking guy women will be receptive and those chemistry things will magically click. Most hot women are with young decent to goodlooking guys. Don't forget age. Young women choose who they want to be with more than older ones. Goodlooking guys don't do a little better than other guys they do a LOT better. Women always SAY it's about personality but women say a lot of BS to try to seem better than men.
women can have that chemistry/magic thing going with men even if theyre not that hot. if theyre OK looking that would do. women can naturally attract men even if theyre not hot/gorgeous.
when it comes to looks alone, men need to be very goodlooking in order to attract women...to have chemistry/magic thing going. women find very few men physically attractive.
@runtodahills Sorry, been to too many parties and bars and watched most girls focus on the hottest looking guys, there are always exceptions but they don't disprove the rule. Good looking guys do MUCH better than just decent looking and below. Maybe YOU are different but you're not most girls. Women like to pretend they are less shallow than guys but they really aren't. In the real world of dating guys know this crap you are saying is just fantasy.
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did).
I'll give you some advice right now..
Step 1: Go to MackMethods(dot)com
Step 2: Order the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use it and laugh at how easy girls are to figure out haha
Seriously, that program has changed my life. I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it because I don't want a bunch of other guys out there running the same "game" but whatever, I'm in a good mood today so I'll share the tip.
It's also about the personality matching. There are many women out there that are just as dorky as the men they're dating, but it's hidden behind make up and the fact that they're women. Birds of a feather flock together. "Cooler" women will go for the "cooler" guys. Picture Pam Anderson, Pink, Beyonce or Madonna with a Pee Wee Herman type of guy. Not happening. They're attracted to a certain type of man. So it also depends on the woman.
Men are thinkers? Really? It's true for about 70%. But 30% of male feelers aren't a small minority. With women it's the same inverse. The large majority is feelers, but again 30% thinkers isn't a minority you should neglect. Get more into MBTI and Socionics and character psychology in general. Tell me, how should I treat a women who's character is ESTJ? I think yours is ENFJ, no?
i tried to invoke this feeling of a emotional attraction into women, but all I want from most is just irresponsible sex. After doing this for many years and sleeping with hundreds, I lost these emotion now, only know how to manipulate it. I became this soulless jerk that can't even feel anything but my dick. true story. don't be a player, not worth it, even if you can land a 10 that society think is the best....
Right, looks don't matter. That is why women fantasize about George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Ryan Reynolds, etc.. Women are just like men in this regard--the medium is the message-if you are tall dark and handsome your message gets more interest and women are more likely to forgive your conversational faux pas.
@MrTombstonemike True, but this isn't about what women want, it's about what they will take. George Clooney's and Brad Pitts aren't approaching most women. Also, take into consideration that there are much more attractive women out there than men. And to me, it seems quite two-faced that women talk so much about how looks don't matter, yet they spend half the day in front of mirrors.
@MrTombstonemike That's part of it. But think about people like Tony Soprano. He's not physically attractive at all. But it's his confidence, bravado, the aura he presents himself with drives women towards him. That's more important than actualy physical attraction to a woman.
Everything you describe is about a women being impressed by a higher status (wealth/power) man. Good looks do contribute to a man's status, but no man in a Burger King hat will be attractive.
For every man with a fairly standard personality, there is a woman with a fairly standard personality.
@ejdf870 : what do you have to say to this reply alphafemale?? I am wondering what..cause this is his experience. And it has to count for something and of value
@ejdf870 I'm a girl and I kind of have the same thing a you. I used to be overweight, but now that I dropped the pounds all the guys that used to never look at me are talking to me day and night. Weird.
Trust me, I know women can be REAL bitches sometimes, but don't try to make it seem like *just* women are the shallow ones. Humans are shallow.
agree with emotional connection BUT, what do u mean by "fairly standard personality"..?....some girls prefer shy, feminine guys, some prefer nerds, and some prefer athletic outgoing types. everyone's different and unique. there's no personality that is superior than the other. they all have pros and cons
Kyla Cole is a hot alpha female. Megan Fox is a hot alpha female. Carmen Electra is a hot alpha female. You are a nice girl but your are not a hot alpha female.
Yeah well, I dont know how to say it but a lot of girls now adays and even guys seem to lack qualities of loyalty, honesty, patience, but most important Imagination. And I don't think its anyone's fault, but so many relationship break ups and stuff like that imo is because everone is looking in the wrong directions using a lop sided balance of their senses. NOT ALL BUT A LOT
I think women like to SAY "looks are not important" but THEN the same ones run around hyper-focusing on silly things like HEIGHT (which is about as shallow as a man who measures a woman's sex appeal ONLY by her breast size).
By the way, it's good to say "how she FEELS with you" - I agree, but there's the issue *WHY* she develops those feelings; and therein lies the rub!
All too often, there are some very illogical, erroneous associations which generate these "feelings".
i think women are more attracted to looks at first, b/c all of us men have this one girl whom we like, and yet she likes this one dude who's a douche bag and treats people like crap but he is good looking and has money and he has a good social status and then women get heartbroken by that one guy and they say, all i want is a nice guy, but here u are, ure the nice guy shes waiting for but then she says i dont like you that way, i like u as a friend, but u are the nice guy and a great guy
Hot girls talk with friendly (nice guys) all the time, how is one supposed to stand out (I mean, shes not going to date/have sex with every guy thats nice to her, and makes her feel secure).
So your saying looks dont trigger an emtional response to women? Lol. If someone initiated a lab test where a women has devices on her brain that measue its activity while looking at a hot guy, you would see some emtional response there. People may say looks are important intially, but first impression basically make or brake your chances with women.
One other quick point: "good looks" are, of course, very subjective! What ONE person finds attractive may NOT be attractive to another person. So, that skews the entire discussion a bit more. Of course, your point about "presentation" is right on; a guy's presentation (confidence, mannerisms, clothing, no broccoli in the teeth, etc) will certainly be factors. : )
I gotta say, Jenn, I think you might be a bit off on this discussion. It's basic human nature; EVERYONE wants someone who is "aesthetically pleasing to the eye", men and woman both. Looks might be LESS important (no woman with any dignity or confidence wants to be with a "HIM-BO"), but I just don't believe that looks don't matter. No chick wants to date "the Elephant Man".
This is true, Jenelly, after a few seconds or minutes have passed after knowing her: but although I've proven myself this kind of thoughts many times, I still sometimes wonder about the VERY FIRST COUPLE OF SECONDS of approaching a woman, for example a woman in the street. Althouth, the pretty obvious answer is: if a woman belongs to the tiny female population that rejects you in the street without even giving you the chance to talk, she does have a problem herself, and she isn't worth it.
@davidattends Maybe the "woman in the street" is just a little bit too busy to talk to you at that moment ... that makes her not worth it and that SHE has "a problem"? That's a rather swift conclusion prone to being inaccurate, eh?? "The street" is not exactly a bar, or a grocery store, or even a laundromat ... good grief, no woman is OBLIGATED to talk to you just because you want to talk to "a woman". That's the flip side of this whole discussion! How silly ...
Now im really sorry Jennilli, your update is even worse than your original message, OFCOURSE ppl want to date not good looking celebs, cause THEYRE CELEBS!! duh....and the whole PUA market sells because their stories about not good looking guys getting hot dates, so no shit theyre telling you that....sorry...but you were better off without that update.
@jennellir17 - I agree with your overall assessment. Not for your examples, but from observation. Examples of Brand and Cohen, while not attractive in your opinion or to women in general, are more supporting of the theory that women go for money and status; personality only being an added bonus. Now, had they chosen these gentlemen well before their stars had started to shine, they would make great examples. Still, I've seen many an "odd" couple. My friends and I term them "MBL" - Must Be Love.
And the reason why you see similar people be together is perhaps they have more in common? If you see a rock chick with a rock dude being a couple is maybe because they share the same interest? There is anyway no correct answer when it comes to love
I agree Russel Brand doesn't have the best look when you first see him, but if you watch some of the shows he has been in and notice how he is, you start wondering why Katy Perry got him, not the other way;)
@MrFuckTheWorld2010 Then you're not good looking enough, friend of mine is 'hot' (not my opinion), and he doesnt have to do anything, just stand in a club and the girls are approaching him. The guy has zero game...but the girls basically ask him for sex (literally sometimes).
Funny about your comments, because I can stand on the street corner and just prove you wrong by checking off couples passing by. You will immediatly see the people with conventional good looks being together, people of similar weight being together (fat), and even the blind following the blind.
The looks do it, that's why people respond to ads for improving their looks. i guess clubs never cherry pick people outside for entry based on looks. Never happens in your neighborhood, huh?
@powergirl901 Agree powergirl. The majority of couples out there are quite evenly matched in looks. Doesn't matter where i'm observing from either, whether it's from my neighbourhood, or right in the heart of the CBD. There is very little difference. It's not just in our heads, it's just life. No point being in denial about it.
AKA women are CRAZYY!
shanest22 5 days ago
AKA user experience...I agree. Even as a guy, how I feel around a woman matters so much to me.
Ravenex2 5 days ago
of course looks are important to women. All good looking men I know (masculine, tall) get laid a lot.
adamcrookedsmile 1 week ago
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Don't know if this helps anyone, but I see a TON of attractive girls with butt-ugly guys. I never see attractive guys with ugly girls. So if you're an ugly guy, don't worry you CAN get an attractive girl. An ugly girl...not so much. Guys take looks into consideration more than girls do so ugly girls will have more trouble getting relationships than ugly guys will. Girls are interested in personality over looks. If you have a great personality you will BECOME more attractive in her eyes.
LINDSAYLIKEOMG 1 week ago
Don't know if this helps anyone, but I see a TON of attractive girls with butt-ugly guys. I never see attractive guys with ugly girls. So if you're an ugly guy, don't worry you CAN get an attractive girl. An ugly girl...not so much. Guys take looks into consideration more than girls do so ugly girls will have more trouble getting relationships than ugly guys will. Girls are interested in personality over looks. If you have a great personality you will BECOME more attractive in her eyes.
LINDSAYLIKEOMG 1 week ago
@LINDSAYLIKEOMG
I will explain your observation if you want me to, but first just answer this simple question - If men are more shallow on looks, why does an AVERAGE LOOKING woman get more dating, sex & relationship opportunities than an AVERAGE LOOKING guy? why can an AVERAGE LOOKING woman attract men MORE EASILY than an AVERAGE LOOKING guy can attract women.
runtodahills 4 days ago in playlist cmnt
@runtodahills I take the liberty to answer that. I think firstly that women are in general better at charming a man. Secondly, women are more cautious of an apporoaching guy than a man would be of an approaching woman. That's just my 2 cents.
jericoba 3 days ago
@LINDSAYLIKEOMG My personal observasion exactly! I tell this to all my friends and ask them to look for couples themselves. It's weird but I've seen many many couples of the description you wrote.
jericoba 3 days ago
The conclusion is that if you're not good looking, then don't worry, as long as you have an awesome personality and social skills. Agreed. So there's really no hope for the average looking guy who is an introvert and lacks personality?
nico3641 2 weeks ago
@nico3641 Well, let's say your chances are slim. To be successful you need to offer something, but as @jannelli17 says, if you can't charm a woman than she sees no reason to continue building something long-term. Looks help but personality, elegance and virtue more.
jericoba 3 days ago
Jennelli, you are quite intelligent. I believe that I will end up being with a woman who is similar to you in intellect, because I readily understand you.
I notice that a lot of these guys here seem to scream bs when they haven't really tried to understand what could be, but that is their quirk.
DAMEFIFTYEIGHTYSEVEN 2 weeks ago
@DAMEFIFTYEIGHTYSEVEN
so tell me then, what is it that the guys arent understanding?
runtodahills 2 weeks ago
Me avg. looking I have had 2 gfs ever (never cheated on them, treated them like royalty)
My friend, Jacked as shit, good looking,10 girlfriends in 2 years(Cheated on all of them)
speaks for its self
Captbrass10 4 weeks ago
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box
Here's what you need to do
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll see how easy it is
BillTheTrainer 1 month ago
listen fellows, there are two things that are irresistable to women, power and money....you might have a wart on your forehead as big as a tennis ball, but show them you have power and money and oh yeah dominate them , and they will melt in your hands...no bullshit!!!!
Deep down they are much weaker then us men.
ripster100 1 month ago
of course looks matter its the first thing you notice when you approach someone
psp785 1 month ago
I'm mostly attracted to men who make me laugh and have a nice smile. And tall guys, but I do think short guys are adorable. I really enjoy your videos XD.
Noodlepunk 2 months ago
@Noodlepunk adorable don't cut the cheese.
Kingstevedaboss 1 month ago
As for Michele, she met a guy a few years ago. They dated for a year and a half or a couple of years. He is concsiderably shorter than her, and having serious financial difficulties. An average looking guy. But she really likes him. and has insecurity/anger issues that are constantly spilling over into their relationship and causing arguments. So she finally broke up with him....
Kearyjb 2 months ago
(oops. Youtube wouldn't let me post)I have a lot of options of women I would enjoy going with. I can just keep trying them out. One is just as good as the other. And I WILL find someone to go with me!
Kearyjb 2 months ago
True story. I just moved to Oakland from LA. Don't really know anyone yet. There is a restaurant that I owe a visit to and I would like to go with a lady. I left a note for the girl who lives downstairs. Never heard back from her. Think it turns out she has a boyfriend. Met a girl at the college and we eneded up taking the train back together. Invited her, she said maybe some other time, but she gave me her number.
Kearyjb 2 months ago
And you're right about one more thing(I think). Men are attracted to a higher number of women than women are to men. To me that's an advantage. That means I have more options. Lets forget about women for a second. Lets take you and me. Lets say I only like Asian women. But you are open to women of any race. Which one of us has more options available to us?
Kearyjb 2 months ago
You are also right about me seeing things from a woman's perspective. lol, well that's because I want to date women, not men! Ever worked retail? They tell you in all the meetings to put yourself in the customer's shoes. That's how you attract customers and that's how you keep them. It's the same with people. Believe me a little empathy goes a long ways.....
Kearyjb 2 months ago
Michele could approach men. I think you will agree that in our culture men are expected to approach women. Maybe she adheres to that idea too strictly. Or maybe she's just insecure about approaching men. Also over these several years she's had some underlying issues that contributed to her struggles with dating. According to me most of such struggles come from one's PERCEPTION of both the self and others and situations. But you are right. Michele could approach men.
Kearyjb 2 months ago
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@Kearyjb
I can assure you, that men who struggle at attracting women, have very very reasonable expectations. 'beggars cannot be choosers'. that perfectly applies to men who struggle.
When women claim they struggle, its because they cannot get the KIND OF MAN they want..they cannot get their Mr Right. They can still get a lot of MEN.
Do you know that generally, men are attracted to a larger number of women, but women are attracted to fewer men?
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But rest assured I DATE Asian women. And it's not because I sit around telling myself Asian women don't like Black men. Now I gather you are interested in dating women. What difference does it make whether or not I agree with you that women have the advantage in dating? Even if it's true the fact remains that YOU are interested in dating women. So the question is how do you get them to respond more favorably towards you?
Kearyjb 2 months ago
@RuntoDahills I'm Black and I like Asian women. I have surmised that the majority of Asian women prefer Asian or White men. I have been told by Asian women from Korea, Japan, the Philipines and China that they were told to never date a black man.....
Kearyjb 2 months ago
@Kambridge967, yeah. I can say my friend Michele for example, tall, pretty face, great ass, intelligent. Do you know how many times she's asked me why men don't approach her and told me how she misses the men in Chicago(since she's moved to LA) who had the balls to approach? I've known her at least seven years now. Being single and being lonely has been the biggest struggle of her life as long as I've known her.
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@Kearyjb
Even if i believe that your friend Michelle doesnt get approached by men (ones who meet her standards, anyway) It amazes me that the thought doesnt even cross your mind that why the hell cant SHE begin to approach men?
Im surprised that despite being a male you are coming from a womans perspective
runtodahills 2 months ago in playlist cmnt
2 the point I was making is that Generally speaking the average guy has what it takes to connect with women. But you have to think about what you do have going for yourself. Not what you don't have going on. I threw in picking up a new skill as a sarcastic remark about the notion that a guy doesn't have anything to offer if he's not rich or good looking.
Kearyjb 2 months ago
runtodahills several responses also come to mind. Or at least a few. 1: women also struggle with dating. Contrary to popular belief a lot of women, even (if not especially) attractive women, do not get approached by a lot of guys. That's a fact. Why do you think there's so much online dating going on? People (including women) are trying to find SOME way to connect.
Kearyjb 2 months ago
@Kearyjb
you know i cannot even begin to point out the fallacies in your arguments. My experience tells me it can be quite impossible arguing with someone like you who will refute everything by saying "it happens with women too"....who lives in a state of denial regarding the fact that the dating & sexual marketplace heavily favors women.
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@Kearyjb women struggle with dateing huh! well you know why women struggle with dateing? Because they are to picky and far more superficial than men. They bring they're dateing struggles upon theyre own selfs. Then you say alot of attractive women dont get approach by alot of guys? come on are you serious? I dont even need to respond to that one. Females use online dateing so that they can be superficial, shallow and concieted in an easier and quicker way and without haveing to meet the guy.
kambridge967 2 months ago
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@kambridge967
Even if i believe that your friend Michelle doesnt get approached by men (ones who meet her standards, anyway) It amazes me that the thought doesnt even cross your mind that why the hell cant SHE begin to approach men?
Im surprised that despite being a male you are coming from a womans perspective
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@Kearyjb
several questions come to mind after reading your comments.
For one, since you talk about 'skills', tell me....what skills does an ordinary looking young woman have to attract men? because Ive never seen average looking women struggling to get action.
runtodahills 2 months ago
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runtodahills 2 months ago
Wow. Most of you cats sound pretty young. If you believe that women only go for guys that are good looking or wealthy then I assume you are neither good looking nor wealthy and you are not getting any action. Fact is there are a variety of women out there that go for a variety of men for a variety of reasons....
Kearyjb 2 months ago
weeeelllll, are YOU single? :D
ahah :P
brizzlestick 2 months ago
Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
BillTheTrainer 2 months ago
This video is why hookers are so important for the service they provide to the world.
shmiggen 2 months ago
Women control relationships because they control the affection. They also want to be pursued. So, men run the chance of making fools out of themselves by pursuing someone who will reject them. This is how all the macho stuff is created within the male ego. I find if I pretend I'm pursuing a girl, I will get my answer. But how do you pretend? Do something kind for her that is unconditional. If she responds positively,
Doorocker 2 months ago 3
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is
FreeOnlineWorkouts 2 months ago
Women love to downplay the issue of looks because they don't want to be perceived as "shallow." The reality is, even an average looking feels "entitled" to a male model because of the massive amounts of male attention they get. Even OVERWEIGHT women are dating guys out of their league, because men have become so desperate.
GameIsLooks 3 months ago 4
How many times on online dating sites/chatrooms women take one look at a mans picture and don't respond EVEN if they have similar hobbies and interests. I took the photo of a handsome male, made a really lame profile and had tons and tons of shallow superficial women messaging me, ready to have sex on the first date. Guys need to wake up and realize women are just as shallow and looks based as men are! Why would a girl like a guy she knows nothing about? LOOKS!
GameIsLooks 3 months ago 3
Women are so shallow they talk to you, based on how attracted they are to you. Go to any bar or club, women take one look at a guy and make up their mind about him. If a guy is good looking he could go up to a girl and start touching her and she will be fine with it, if the guy did the same thing and he was ugly, she would cry "sexual harassment." The way a woman responds to your actions is based on how sexually attracted she is to you.
GameIsLooks 3 months ago 3
Women are just as shallow and just as superficial as men are when it comes to looks. Women love to downplay the issue of looks but the reality is they are very looks based. They reject men in 1-5 seconds based on LOOKS and then claim the guy was "creepy." If a guy is good looking they will laugh at any lame joke he makes and overlook as his negative personality traits. If a guy is unattractive he is creepy to them and the best thing he can be is in the "friend zone."
GameIsLooks 3 months ago 3
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THIS STUPID BITCH ALWAYS TALKS SHIT LIKE SHE KNOWS IT ALL
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BMGRECORD 3 months ago
1 main reason IS... if ur attractive........ ,,plain in simple thats the matter of the fact
mrfree133 3 months ago
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
BillTheTrainer 3 months ago
two words
Nikolas Sarkozy
TheJayEffkay 3 months ago
what is the name of the song from the beginning?
ctobar01 3 months ago in playlist ctobar01's favorites
I almost wrote you off. But, you made good sense. Us guys are physical and women are mental. Hence, opposites attract. But, looks dont really matter, if you can spark the intrigue of a woman and keep her on that train, then you are good to go. But If you think youre looks alone are the final decision in being chosen, then get real. Simply, guys, just step up and keep her interested. That all it takes.
Apollo2003 4 months ago
@Apollo2003 Complete and utter bullshit, women care more about looks than men do. Stop reading PUA shit, it will just confuse you.
InspectorMontelbano1 2 weeks ago
If you have a big penis the girl will go out with you
planotxable 4 months ago
@00great226
you don't know the difference between attractive and good looks, what you meant by attractive is confidence in the guy...
because of spatial intelligence dominance in men and verbal intelligence in women, girls would fall for personality more...
my guys friends (whose spatial intelligence discernibly dominates ) used to be very shallow...
don't say bullshit and try to know abt urself, you might fall for me( i am not good looking) lol...
MrShrek619619 4 months ago
@00great226
there is a lot things to value in people , personally i don't like shallow girls, i don't know how guys could trust on girls like you...
i am kind of drunk, but what i said is true...
MrShrek619619 4 months ago
@00great226
not every girl is like you, i am so so looking guy yet i get positive responses (more than as friend) from some 10 looking girls after they know me... if men go for looks its natural , if girls do it is shallow... i believe you are good looking ( 6,7,8) and you based your confidence on that wholly,
have you got any boyfriends who likes you for who you are ? have you had any deep sex ? you can't because you will loose your confidence if you try to lower the value about looks...
MrShrek619619 4 months ago
women are just stupid period. they must be conquered and dominated.
used and then left, they are only good for sex. THATS IT
aliakber1001 4 months ago
@aliakber1001 Really? That was really ignorant to say because In a new study that just took place at an Oklahoma University they said that MORE MEN THAN WOMEN get happiness in the relationship by cuddling and than Woman. Times are changing bub. ;p Woman aren't just sex toys.
andreab4ya 3 months ago
So, if Osama Bin Laden had an amazing personality, he would have been a Playboy in Playboy Magazine instead of being a terrorist hiding in Pakistan and jacking off to porn in his den?
skisbej 4 months ago
hmm don't worry .. a 'hot' looking guy with mediocre personality will get more attention, couples of dates, and SEX... and you won't get all that but you will get the emotional shit.. :\
mavishill 4 months ago 6
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Guys,
It's not that hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there are some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things for me and most recently I've been using the techniques from P.box.
Here's what you need to do..
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tops and blend it with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself a bit and you'll see how easy it can be.
MMArtist99 4 months ago
Rambled on about how women are wired differently for most of the video.
IWantMyVisionBack 4 months ago
i think you're one of the smartest and most pleasant girls on youtube
961kgb 4 months ago
Your smart I love your explinations ect very good very true
fireonhair 4 months ago
Beauty is subjective.
kipkayify 4 months ago
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I don't give a fuck.
3089280288 5 months ago
I strongly think that this notion that women are only interested in hot men wears off as she gets older and as she become more aware of the world around her. Young girls love dating hot men but by the time she's in her thirties she will become tired of this. She will be wanting someone long term, good looking or not. Someone to have a serious relatinship with besides sex. This means that it is the person that is importnat and not what his face or body looks like.
SuperKam24 5 months ago
Attractiveness is purely subjective. Attractiveness mostly come from within. It doesn't matter if someone is ugly as long as they have a shiny personality and is fun to be with. I've seen some guys who think they are good looking and are complete jerks.
SuperKam24 5 months ago
@SuperKam24
its actually much more important for a man to be goodlooking. even average looking women can easily date and have sexual relations with a lot of men. an average looking guy has no option but to pursue a woman for a relationship. average looking men cannot have flings...they cannot appeal to women based on their looks, they cannot have casual relationships. they cannot date multiple women. they can have ONE woman ie they work hard to impress her. pls cut the crap.
runtodahills 5 months ago 2
its amazing that the hypocrite women tel us "dont worry, if youre not a hot guy...you will get a gf some day bcos there is someone made for everyone" yesh... notice how they subtly tell us that the only option for an average-ok looking guy is to pursue a single woman for a relationship. we cannot have FUN, we cannot have flings, casual relationships, casual dating, FWB's... no, thats only for women. (and hot guys)
runtodahills 5 months ago 29
@runtodahills And of course WE are shallow mother fuckers when we reject females because their looks aren't up to our standards!
orangewizard 2 months ago
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runtodahills 2 months ago
@orangewizard
you being sarcastic ?
runtodahills 2 months ago
@runtodahills for all the others there are the plastic surgery & gym solutions! ;)
oniricmedia 1 month ago
@runtodahills right on. women never admit to being shallow.
GameIsLooks 2 weeks ago
@runtodahills Amen to that brother!!!
InspectorMontelbano1 2 weeks ago
@SuperKam24 BULLSHIT!!, you can have the most engaging and interesting persoanlity, but if you don't pass the looks test with a woman, then it's GAME OVER.
InspectorMontelbano1 2 weeks ago
i have a question for you. i don't have a good looking but i am working on it. but i like a girl and she's showing all the signs you have told that shows that she seems to want a relationship but i don't know what to do. help please..........
bloodysucker666 5 months ago
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FeminismIsRespect 5 months ago
This is a bullshit ! Look at how women react when they see a muscular man with his shirt off. They love it. Now, the real reason that you see a women with a not so attractive man is security. The security can either be financial or emotional. Women who with ugly men, who aren't rich, are with them because they're insecure. And you better believe that they're fucking some attractive bad boy behind their ugly boyfriends back.
Dmacho78 5 months ago 16
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is
MMArtist99 5 months ago
theres no such thing as chemistry; only an illusion of it. also looks only go so far. it's all based on personality, character and how you can make her or him feel.
lp0715 5 months ago
it just takes a little bit of logic to realize what bullshit this is.
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MMArtist99 5 months ago
I'm one broing and sentimental mother fucker(also a janitor). Yet I got a blonde and blue eyed chick at work who wants to fuck me.
Dansthoughts 5 months ago
@Dansthoughts
ROFL....or so you think?
WickedWitch1988 5 months ago
@WickedWitch1988 she did fuck me. There are some crazy bitches out there.
Dansthoughts 5 months ago
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TENNSUMITSUMA 6 months ago
to jennelli17
you realize that all that crap you said about what women 'really' want from a guy, only works after (after) she has gotten with the guy? most guys arent dumb enough to do all that shit to a girl they arent dating much less fuckin. none of that matters at the stage that guys are having problem with, and thats getting to the point where girls are hooking up with them.
TENNSUMITSUMA 6 months ago
I CAN PASS THIS, BUT THEY FIND ME VERY BORING AND INTEMEDATING CREEP
Speslad 6 months ago
How Important Are Looks To Women ... Really? REALLY:
1. Do you look like you have zero cash?
2. Do you look like the elephant man?
3. Do you look like you have a teeny weenie?
If you can say "yes" to 1 or more of the above than you can forget about getting any pussy in this incarnation.
mofotax 6 months ago 27
@mofotax LOL, yeah if i got $1 for every time i heard a woman say: "i want a guy who is funny, who makes me laugh, who is smart, etc"... I'd have enough money to buy a house and a ferrari!
xrayracer1 2 months ago
if looks are not that important to women, then tell me.... why does an average looking woman get more dating & sexual opportunities than an average looking guy.
average-OK looking women can still attract a lot of men. they can still date a variety of men. but average-OK looking men get very few dating & sexual opportunities.
runtodahills 6 months ago 3
@runtodahills average-OK looking women can still attract a lot of men. they can still date a variety of men. but average-OK looking men get very few dating & sexual opportunities.
Lots of good comments here, but this one really stuck out---I've been saying this for years. I'm tall, muscular, and not an eyesore, and yet women who should be in my physical dating "bracket" are not coming forth much. I do get women attracted to me, but usually they are not on the same level appearance-wise.
Wytchfinde 5 months ago 3
This girl is so sexy
lumkid060285 6 months ago
Looks are 98% important to men. Looks are 95% important to women. If you are a goodlooking guy women will be receptive and those chemistry things will magically click. Most hot women are with young decent to goodlooking guys. Don't forget age. Young women choose who they want to be with more than older ones. Goodlooking guys don't do a little better than other guys they do a LOT better. Women always SAY it's about personality but women say a lot of BS to try to seem better than men.
zettadom 6 months ago 4
@zettadom
women can have that chemistry/magic thing going with men even if theyre not that hot. if theyre OK looking that would do. women can naturally attract men even if theyre not hot/gorgeous.
when it comes to looks alone, men need to be very goodlooking in order to attract women...to have chemistry/magic thing going. women find very few men physically attractive.
runtodahills 6 months ago 3
@runtodahills Sorry, been to too many parties and bars and watched most girls focus on the hottest looking guys, there are always exceptions but they don't disprove the rule. Good looking guys do MUCH better than just decent looking and below. Maybe YOU are different but you're not most girls. Women like to pretend they are less shallow than guys but they really aren't. In the real world of dating guys know this crap you are saying is just fantasy.
zettadom 6 months ago 4
@zettadom
women can have that chemistry/magic thing going with men even if theyre (THE WOMEN) are not that hot.
now misinterpreted the whole thing. im male.
runtodahills 6 months ago
What's the song?
sirgerry 6 months ago
Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
MMArtist99 6 months ago
Thanks jenni your videos are great...
onlyjoetee 6 months ago
I am constantly amazed at how women can talk and talk about something but not actually SAY anything.
Madkre8tor 7 months ago 2
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If you really want to pick up girls, I recommend that you read both of the following guides:
- "The Game" by Neil Strauss
- "Pandora's Box" on MackMethods. com (highly recommend this)
GENERAL GUIDELINES
1) Be Confident (Posture, Eye Contact, Speak With Authority etc).
2) Act like you don't need them and make them prove themselves to YOU!
3) Make them feel comfortable (comfort comes before intimacy)
4) Demonstrate that you're a good provider & protector (easy ways to do this).
LadyboyHunter 7 months ago
What's up HOT Alpha female? I have 5.3% bodyfat and I have a huge atvantage over 98% of most guys
iaadotlk1 7 months ago
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Guys,
Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did).
I'll give you some advice right now..
Step 1: Go to MackMethods(dot)com
Step 2: Order the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use it and laugh at how easy girls are to figure out haha
Seriously, that program has changed my life. I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it because I don't want a bunch of other guys out there running the same "game" but whatever, I'm in a good mood today so I'll share the tip.
FreeOnlineWorkouts 7 months ago
It's also about the personality matching. There are many women out there that are just as dorky as the men they're dating, but it's hidden behind make up and the fact that they're women. Birds of a feather flock together. "Cooler" women will go for the "cooler" guys. Picture Pam Anderson, Pink, Beyonce or Madonna with a Pee Wee Herman type of guy. Not happening. They're attracted to a certain type of man. So it also depends on the woman.
rockafelladw 8 months ago
Idk about this one... i think physical attraction is important for women as well..
bwidger 8 months ago
She sounds like Fang from Final Fantasy 13 :P
ProjektAlex94 8 months ago
Men are thinkers? Really? It's true for about 70%. But 30% of male feelers aren't a small minority. With women it's the same inverse. The large majority is feelers, but again 30% thinkers isn't a minority you should neglect. Get more into MBTI and Socionics and character psychology in general. Tell me, how should I treat a women who's character is ESTJ? I think yours is ENFJ, no?
TheoStuss 8 months ago
i tried to invoke this feeling of a emotional attraction into women, but all I want from most is just irresponsible sex. After doing this for many years and sleeping with hundreds, I lost these emotion now, only know how to manipulate it. I became this soulless jerk that can't even feel anything but my dick. true story. don't be a player, not worth it, even if you can land a 10 that society think is the best....
superawesomefilm 8 months ago
Right, looks don't matter. That is why women fantasize about George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Ryan Reynolds, etc.. Women are just like men in this regard--the medium is the message-if you are tall dark and handsome your message gets more interest and women are more likely to forgive your conversational faux pas.
MrTombstonemike 8 months ago 2
@MrTombstonemike True, but this isn't about what women want, it's about what they will take. George Clooney's and Brad Pitts aren't approaching most women. Also, take into consideration that there are much more attractive women out there than men. And to me, it seems quite two-faced that women talk so much about how looks don't matter, yet they spend half the day in front of mirrors.
rockafelladw 8 months ago 2
@MrTombstonemike That's part of it. But think about people like Tony Soprano. He's not physically attractive at all. But it's his confidence, bravado, the aura he presents himself with drives women towards him. That's more important than actualy physical attraction to a woman.
Antrizzle2009 6 months ago
Everything you describe is about a women being impressed by a higher status (wealth/power) man. Good looks do contribute to a man's status, but no man in a Burger King hat will be attractive.
For every man with a fairly standard personality, there is a woman with a fairly standard personality.
feministsAreCorrupt 9 months ago 3
When I was lean and my face was chiseled women chased me like DOGS.
Now that I'm 40lbs. overweight, and my face is chubby, women ignore me.
What a coincidence.
ejdf870 9 months ago 3
@ejdf870 : what do you have to say to this reply alphafemale?? I am wondering what..cause this is his experience. And it has to count for something and of value
rgchrono 9 months ago
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@rgchrono She has no reply. You cannot refute a fact.
ejdf870 9 months ago
@ejdf870 I'm a girl and I kind of have the same thing a you. I used to be overweight, but now that I dropped the pounds all the guys that used to never look at me are talking to me day and night. Weird.
Trust me, I know women can be REAL bitches sometimes, but don't try to make it seem like *just* women are the shallow ones. Humans are shallow.
kipkayify 4 months ago
@kipkayify For a woman to be a little overweight can be sexy, for a man it is sexual MURDER.
ejdf870 4 months ago
that feeling shit!!! is bullshit!!! all girls care about are looks and jerks
skullfoxx2 9 months ago
don't get involved with a woman who lives her life based on FEELINGS - cause you're asking for trouble
itubeyoublah 10 months ago
agree with emotional connection BUT, what do u mean by "fairly standard personality"..?....some girls prefer shy, feminine guys, some prefer nerds, and some prefer athletic outgoing types. everyone's different and unique. there's no personality that is superior than the other. they all have pros and cons
Alxphat 10 months ago 3
LOOKS are #1 reason why women have sex.
Money #2.
mba2ceo 11 months ago 5
omg i know exactly what you mean about the not so attractive magnet guy. seriously, that is so attractive!
ChnkGoddess 11 months ago
REALLY? Sacha Baron Cohen is the sexiest man on Earth!!!!!!!!! Like actually he's tall, and very handsome :) lozz Just my opinion :P
EbiSmolarek7 11 months ago
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xplosive19 1 year ago
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xplosive19 1 year ago
Kyla Cole is a hot alpha female. Megan Fox is a hot alpha female. Carmen Electra is a hot alpha female. You are a nice girl but your are not a hot alpha female.
Serb1anArchangel 1 year ago
What's important to a woman = Your job and your bank account.
blade004 1 year ago
Yeah well, I dont know how to say it but a lot of girls now adays and even guys seem to lack qualities of loyalty, honesty, patience, but most important Imagination. And I don't think its anyone's fault, but so many relationship break ups and stuff like that imo is because everone is looking in the wrong directions using a lop sided balance of their senses. NOT ALL BUT A LOT
twinz2008 1 year ago
I think women like to SAY "looks are not important" but THEN the same ones run around hyper-focusing on silly things like HEIGHT (which is about as shallow as a man who measures a woman's sex appeal ONLY by her breast size).
By the way, it's good to say "how she FEELS with you" - I agree, but there's the issue *WHY* she develops those feelings; and therein lies the rub!
All too often, there are some very illogical, erroneous associations which generate these "feelings".
RonQE 1 year ago 2
i think women are more attracted to looks at first, b/c all of us men have this one girl whom we like, and yet she likes this one dude who's a douche bag and treats people like crap but he is good looking and has money and he has a good social status and then women get heartbroken by that one guy and they say, all i want is a nice guy, but here u are, ure the nice guy shes waiting for but then she says i dont like you that way, i like u as a friend, but u are the nice guy and a great guy
BigG507 1 year ago 2
So looks are not important? But that is the only thing i have to come with!
Shinkajo 1 year ago
Women have a perception of you. Once established, its hard to shake off.
I have a number of lady friends that absolutely love to dance with me.
They feel and look great doing so. Some of them laugh at my quips, etc.
That said, none of them want to date me. Perhaps because I'm too available
or "nice". *shrug*
I was trying to find out from one of them what her last, now ex bf had that
I did not. Well, he was described as tall and beautiful. I'm not. So looks
ARE a factor for her.
richard233 1 year ago
Hot girls talk with friendly (nice guys) all the time, how is one supposed to stand out (I mean, shes not going to date/have sex with every guy thats nice to her, and makes her feel secure).
Theonedue 1 year ago
So your saying looks dont trigger an emtional response to women? Lol. If someone initiated a lab test where a women has devices on her brain that measue its activity while looking at a hot guy, you would see some emtional response there. People may say looks are important intially, but first impression basically make or brake your chances with women.
Theonedue 1 year ago 4
One other quick point: "good looks" are, of course, very subjective! What ONE person finds attractive may NOT be attractive to another person. So, that skews the entire discussion a bit more. Of course, your point about "presentation" is right on; a guy's presentation (confidence, mannerisms, clothing, no broccoli in the teeth, etc) will certainly be factors. : )
twostikks1 1 year ago
I gotta say, Jenn, I think you might be a bit off on this discussion. It's basic human nature; EVERYONE wants someone who is "aesthetically pleasing to the eye", men and woman both. Looks might be LESS important (no woman with any dignity or confidence wants to be with a "HIM-BO"), but I just don't believe that looks don't matter. No chick wants to date "the Elephant Man".
twostikks1 1 year ago 2
This is true, Jenelly, after a few seconds or minutes have passed after knowing her: but although I've proven myself this kind of thoughts many times, I still sometimes wonder about the VERY FIRST COUPLE OF SECONDS of approaching a woman, for example a woman in the street. Althouth, the pretty obvious answer is: if a woman belongs to the tiny female population that rejects you in the street without even giving you the chance to talk, she does have a problem herself, and she isn't worth it.
davidattends 1 year ago
@davidattends Maybe the "woman in the street" is just a little bit too busy to talk to you at that moment ... that makes her not worth it and that SHE has "a problem"? That's a rather swift conclusion prone to being inaccurate, eh?? "The street" is not exactly a bar, or a grocery store, or even a laundromat ... good grief, no woman is OBLIGATED to talk to you just because you want to talk to "a woman". That's the flip side of this whole discussion! How silly ...
twostikks1 1 year ago
what do you feel right know? And how does that cultivate in you right now? love the way you talk,
feel free to write back
jollyfellow25 1 year ago
Now im really sorry Jennilli, your update is even worse than your original message, OFCOURSE ppl want to date not good looking celebs, cause THEYRE CELEBS!! duh....and the whole PUA market sells because their stories about not good looking guys getting hot dates, so no shit theyre telling you that....sorry...but you were better off without that update.
Mackoek 1 year ago
@jennellir17 - I agree with your overall assessment. Not for your examples, but from observation. Examples of Brand and Cohen, while not attractive in your opinion or to women in general, are more supporting of the theory that women go for money and status; personality only being an added bonus. Now, had they chosen these gentlemen well before their stars had started to shine, they would make great examples. Still, I've seen many an "odd" couple. My friends and I term them "MBL" - Must Be Love.
BigMTBrain 1 year ago
And the reason why you see similar people be together is perhaps they have more in common? If you see a rock chick with a rock dude being a couple is maybe because they share the same interest? There is anyway no correct answer when it comes to love
Misslilleputt123 1 year ago
I agree Russel Brand doesn't have the best look when you first see him, but if you watch some of the shows he has been in and notice how he is, you start wondering why Katy Perry got him, not the other way;)
Misslilleputt123 1 year ago
@Misslilleputt123 : katty perry got him..cause other women want him... it is his status
his character was developed due to the feedback he gets from both women and men.
rgchrono 1 year ago
I'm good looking guy, but I'm still single. Good looks doesn't mean much. Character is more important than looks!
MrFuckTheWorld2010 1 year ago 5
@MrFuckTheWorld2010 Then you're not good looking enough, friend of mine is 'hot' (not my opinion), and he doesnt have to do anything, just stand in a club and the girls are approaching him. The guy has zero game...but the girls basically ask him for sex (literally sometimes).
Mackoek 1 year ago
@MrFuckTheWorld2010
you really gonna try that highschool 'just be yourself' shit?
TENNSUMITSUMA 6 months ago
@MrFuckTheWorld2010 Nope, people are vain. I'm a fat ugly bastard and willing to bet all I own that you get more action than me.
ZuluFightrunner 5 months ago
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@MrFuckTheWorld2010 Nope, people are vain. I'm a fat ugly bastard and willing to bet all I own that you get more action than me.
ZuluFightrunner 5 months ago
Lol the pictures of "not so hot guys" are with celebrities, I think money and fame is the factor of attraction there and not so much looks lol.
uabm 1 year ago
Funny about your comments, because I can stand on the street corner and just prove you wrong by checking off couples passing by. You will immediatly see the people with conventional good looks being together, people of similar weight being together (fat), and even the blind following the blind.
The looks do it, that's why people respond to ads for improving their looks. i guess clubs never cherry pick people outside for entry based on looks. Never happens in your neighborhood, huh?
powergirl901 1 year ago
@powergirl901 Agree powergirl. The majority of couples out there are quite evenly matched in looks. Doesn't matter where i'm observing from either, whether it's from my neighbourhood, or right in the heart of the CBD. There is very little difference. It's not just in our heads, it's just life. No point being in denial about it.
lamentate07 8 months ago
Hey guys, check the update in my description (near the bottom) for celebrity examples of beautiful women dating not so good looking men.
Hot Alpha Female
jennelli17 1 year ago
@jennelli17 If these guys weren't famous and loaded, those women wouldn't have gone anywhere near them.
RPKGameVids 1 year ago
@jennelli17 Loved the "feel free to rewind that as much as you want" classic! Did you see that one comming. lol made my day. thanks
bill74ish 8 months ago
@jennelli17 you need a black guy:) lol
Android780 1 year ago