This is an old video, but I think it will help if you submit to him because you want to submit to Christ. It isn't about submitting to him because of him. It's because you are submitting to the Lord. How do you walk the 'I aint no punk' tightrope?--Let go of the pride. If he says something that offends, you wait till you are calm later and tell him nicely you don't like it.
Godly submission is about being SUPPORTIVE of your man as the leader of the family. In return, your man must act WORTHY of your submission. A marriage is about teamwork and everybody needs to play their role to make it work.
Keep in mind, that a real man will not have to ask his woman to submit to him it is something that will automatically happen. Love is an amazing thing and through love and Christ all things are possible.The bible also states that a man should submit to his wife(think Sarah and Abraham) and love his wife like Christ loved us. Submission works both ways.Fellas you all need to think about that too.
this woman is not Christian or she would submit to her husband who love her and God. Laughing about running the father off. If she is not going to listen to GOD then it is a lost cause
Submiting does not mean you are a punk or weak or a slave it means you are a righteous woman of God and it takes a strong woman to submit and to be that daughter of sarah.If you have a righteous man and he is not telling you to do nothing wrong you are to respect him as the head of the house and man of the house like the scriptures say.
You both remind me of me and my ex girlfriend. The war dragged on for a whole year before I called it quits. I don't regret letting her go. This vid reminds me so much of her.
"I don't regret letting her go. This vid reminds me so much of her."
I bet anything that this is where Mrs' marriage is going. I am hearing too much.... "ain't nobody gonna tell me what to do" for a real marriage to exist. They got 11 years ( a long time), unless she changes, there will probably not be another 11.
There is a difference between submissive and passive. Submissive means to surrender control, to obey, to SUBMIT. to be passive is to Fall back, to alow him to lead (not control), non confrontational. and then there is passive/aggressive which is a balance of both, leading and falling back.
This is a battle me and my husband are somewhat going through right now and I feel we will for a very very long time lol I feel there is a fine line between submission, and being a pushover, it's hard to submit without feeling like I'm lowering my standards or something, ugh, I hope that makes sense. but yea, we can really but heads sometimes. I will be praying for us both girl!
@lilpumpkinpie05 I know exactly how you feel, my hubby and I went through the same exact thing last year. He ended up leaving me for a while(5months) to be exact because of it. The problem was he was unemployed and wanted to control how much hours I worked to support the family because he didn't want to help cook, clean etc while I brought home the bacon. Eventually he realized he had made a mistake and returned home found a job etc etc and basically forgot all about the submission bull crap.
@lilpumpkinpie05 Just keep your head up and listen to him and see if what he's saying makes any sense to you, if he has Christ he should not abuse his authority as a man and you should not belittle yourself as a child to please him. However, marriage is all about compromise and these days and times it's not easy being married the world is against that if you know what I mean. any way I wish you and your husband the best and i hope that you both will find some common ground and be happy.peacenluv
My Sista, Submission is a reaction of love. it is in the love and respect your hubby shows you that you will learn to submit. However in love it is not a matter of who is right or wrong, it is a 'we' thing. A wise woman keeps the home. Even Jesus taught us that the heart of a servant is the heart of a king, in ur case Queen.
i think you have the wrong meaning of submition..i believe that sometimes "we women" have to fall back and allow a man to be the head. you do not have to dimention who you are or be a slave to your husband. Sometimes just as well he has to fall back at times to allow there to be peace.
@CYRINTHIA212 I have heard people say "fall back" before what does that mean. Like let him have his way sometimes and he lets me. I know this question sounds dumb but I'm serious :)
@EbbyRo im going to give you the name of another youtuber. im not married but she is and she really broke this question down and answered it. her name is (GirlTalkwithLaShawna)
@EbbyRo this is the continue info..(GirlTalkwithLaSawna) the title of her video is "Let a man be a man".I believe she can explain what i want to say better..and besides im not married so i do not know what it is to be married
I feel you also... That submission is dead! A real marriage relationship is done together... Whatever happened to two being one? If both cleans up after each other, make decisions together, if one needs a glass of water, get up and get it yourself... I always am telling my husband, if you see that it needs to be done, do it... don't talk about it! This is why in the marriage vows, the words of the bride submitting to your husband had been left out.
and you will be one of the many black women who say black men are no good.
GQbum 1 month ago
don't worry, he'll find someone who is submissive.
GQbum 1 month ago
This is an old video, but I think it will help if you submit to him because you want to submit to Christ. It isn't about submitting to him because of him. It's because you are submitting to the Lord. How do you walk the 'I aint no punk' tightrope?--Let go of the pride. If he says something that offends, you wait till you are calm later and tell him nicely you don't like it.
SaudaraLink 3 months ago
Godly submission is about being SUPPORTIVE of your man as the leader of the family. In return, your man must act WORTHY of your submission. A marriage is about teamwork and everybody needs to play their role to make it work.
TruthandJustice101 4 months ago
Keep in mind, that a real man will not have to ask his woman to submit to him it is something that will automatically happen. Love is an amazing thing and through love and Christ all things are possible.The bible also states that a man should submit to his wife(think Sarah and Abraham) and love his wife like Christ loved us. Submission works both ways.Fellas you all need to think about that too.
thesunwillshineonme 5 months ago
you're cute.
LtPrime 1 year ago
damn your driving me nuts already...not sure how he lives with you and listens to you talking all day! Good luck! haha
drcook100 1 year ago
this woman is not Christian or she would submit to her husband who love her and God. Laughing about running the father off. If she is not going to listen to GOD then it is a lost cause
dantej32 1 year ago
Submiting does not mean you are a punk or weak or a slave it means you are a righteous woman of God and it takes a strong woman to submit and to be that daughter of sarah.If you have a righteous man and he is not telling you to do nothing wrong you are to respect him as the head of the house and man of the house like the scriptures say.
brianbmf 1 year ago
You both remind me of me and my ex girlfriend. The war dragged on for a whole year before I called it quits. I don't regret letting her go. This vid reminds me so much of her.
manweller1 1 year ago
manweller1 wrote:
"I don't regret letting her go. This vid reminds me so much of her."
I bet anything that this is where Mrs' marriage is going. I am hearing too much.... "ain't nobody gonna tell me what to do" for a real marriage to exist. They got 11 years ( a long time), unless she changes, there will probably not be another 11.
I hope that sista listens to you.
EV
Evens1 1 year ago
"i ain't no punk" hahaha! i miss you cousin.
xo.
ashleybrianna 1 year ago
@ashleybrianna LOL Miss you too :)
EbbyRo 1 year ago
There is a difference between submissive and passive. Submissive means to surrender control, to obey, to SUBMIT. to be passive is to Fall back, to alow him to lead (not control), non confrontational. and then there is passive/aggressive which is a balance of both, leading and falling back.
CYRINTHIA212 1 year ago
@CYRINTHIA212 i ask one of my facebook sista gurls and this is what she told me
CYRINTHIA212 1 year ago
This is a battle me and my husband are somewhat going through right now and I feel we will for a very very long time lol I feel there is a fine line between submission, and being a pushover, it's hard to submit without feeling like I'm lowering my standards or something, ugh, I hope that makes sense. but yea, we can really but heads sometimes. I will be praying for us both girl!
lilpumpkinpie05 1 year ago
@lilpumpkinpie05 It's so hard God help us LOL :)
EbbyRo 1 year ago
@lilpumpkinpie05 I know exactly how you feel, my hubby and I went through the same exact thing last year. He ended up leaving me for a while(5months) to be exact because of it. The problem was he was unemployed and wanted to control how much hours I worked to support the family because he didn't want to help cook, clean etc while I brought home the bacon. Eventually he realized he had made a mistake and returned home found a job etc etc and basically forgot all about the submission bull crap.
thesunwillshineonme 5 months ago
@lilpumpkinpie05 Just keep your head up and listen to him and see if what he's saying makes any sense to you, if he has Christ he should not abuse his authority as a man and you should not belittle yourself as a child to please him. However, marriage is all about compromise and these days and times it's not easy being married the world is against that if you know what I mean. any way I wish you and your husband the best and i hope that you both will find some common ground and be happy.peacenluv
thesunwillshineonme 5 months ago
My Sista, Submission is a reaction of love. it is in the love and respect your hubby shows you that you will learn to submit. However in love it is not a matter of who is right or wrong, it is a 'we' thing. A wise woman keeps the home. Even Jesus taught us that the heart of a servant is the heart of a king, in ur case Queen.
fawob 1 year ago 5
@fawob Thank you very well said.
EbbyRo 1 year ago
i think you have the wrong meaning of submition..i believe that sometimes "we women" have to fall back and allow a man to be the head. you do not have to dimention who you are or be a slave to your husband. Sometimes just as well he has to fall back at times to allow there to be peace.
CYRINTHIA212 1 year ago
@CYRINTHIA212 I have heard people say "fall back" before what does that mean. Like let him have his way sometimes and he lets me. I know this question sounds dumb but I'm serious :)
EbbyRo 1 year ago
@EbbyRo lol "fall back" like literally, take a step back, relax, get off my back, etc.
lilpumpkinpie05 1 year ago
@EbbyRo im going to give you the name of another youtuber. im not married but she is and she really broke this question down and answered it. her name is (GirlTalkwithLaShawna)
CYRINTHIA212 1 year ago
@EbbyRo this is the continue info..(GirlTalkwithLaSawna) the title of her video is "Let a man be a man".I believe she can explain what i want to say better..and besides im not married so i do not know what it is to be married
CYRINTHIA212 1 year ago
@CYRINTHIA212 muchlovefromky also did a response video from girltalkwithlashawn's video they answer your question better than i can
CYRINTHIA212 1 year ago
I feel you also... That submission is dead! A real marriage relationship is done together... Whatever happened to two being one? If both cleans up after each other, make decisions together, if one needs a glass of water, get up and get it yourself... I always am telling my husband, if you see that it needs to be done, do it... don't talk about it! This is why in the marriage vows, the words of the bride submitting to your husband had been left out.
KatBrydon 1 year ago
@KatBrydon You sound like my Mom the word submission is not in her vocab LOL
EbbyRo 1 year ago
i feel u gurl... i feel u.... marriage is hard .. im still learning myself ...
Ty623100 1 year ago
@Ty623100 It ain't easy :)
EbbyRo 1 year ago
I totally understand where ur coming from... Marriage is hard work! Just keep commuication open.... Talk! Talk! Pray!
Dmakeme 1 year ago
@Dmakeme Thanks it is hard work :)
EbbyRo 1 year ago