Kiely Williams - Dear Kiely #3 (Lying in your Relationship)

[TheLiljez]

she's telling a liee

[cheerviolinst15]

South park is playing in the background XD

[EndlessClaw]

Only thing is if she cheated that is gounds for termination, and should be told anyway. If that is not the case then she sould tell him and he should be understanding enough to hear her out. No matter what she should tell the truth.

[Dtownfoxy]

Honesty is the most important factor in a relationship.. By lying its already fucked up. But if you come at him with yer honesty and be like I didn't know how to tell you but I want you to know the truth.. He may respect your honesty and you going out on a limb and risking everything to be honest with him. Because of that he may be able to forgive you.. You just need to explain everything. If the relationship is lost after that then I guess you learn yer lesson.

[xtinaluver1]

good advice, and your really pretty!

[queenjulien]

yeah! usually if a guy really loves you he'll understand whatever you lied if you tell him up front. Boys usually have a kept secret too.

[618wood]

lookin fine as ever...

[webinuri]

in response to kiely... if it is a small lie and trivial not that big of a deal dont keep it to yourself b/c in disagreeance with kiely how she said its not worth losing relationship over... well i feel if its that samll then when you tell him it shouldn't matter but i think he will have a prob. with yo lying in the first place so it should be his choice if he wants to end it or not after you bring the lie to his attention.. not telling him is just being selfish in a sense that's my advice : )

[Luckycharms2007]

Wow great advice kiely you really have grown up into a beauitful young lady..

[Hanklink1014]

@Luckycharms2007 have you seen spectacular since posting that comment?

[PrincessNicey99]

Never lie to your boyfried/girlfriend. Its not kool. Realtionships should be about honesty & trust.Not lies.

[CelesteB2Phr3sh]

Like I said....just tell the truth from the beginning. Lying is lying whether it hurts or not.

[CelesteB2Phr3sh]

Nooooo! Don't keep lying! If you lie about something so small....you're pathetic. Relationships should be about trust...if you lie from the beginning, where's the trust??????

[Aquamarine045]

we all have lied in our lives and sometimes it doesn't hurt,at some point you are going to lie in your relationship we are not perfect

[dealmaker007]

@Aquamarine045 not really an excuse. It's a "huge lie", and most likely something the guy deserves to know the truth about. She made her choice to lie about it, now he should be given a choice to forgive her or not. Or trust her or not. Her not telling him doesn't give him a choice. If she is dishonest she is not trustworthy. She knows this, this is why she is scared.

[kaylin24413]

Not helpful at all. Don't keep lying! Small lie: tell the truth. Big lie: Tell the truth. SIMPLE.

[kailynnmbaby]

i agree. if u lie about somethin small u'll lie about somethin big. u dont wanna start a relationship off by lying. all that does is set the tone for things to come. i disagree wit kiely on this one. sorry!!!