What you are speaking in this video is insightful to your wisdom. Though I didn't find what I though I was going to find here, I am pleased with what I have found. Unfortunately I cannot comment much tonight as haste would fuel my words. I shall meditate on what you have said.
I let all of the hatred I've dealt with from age 5 all the way to 16 poison the kind of person I was. I've never had real friends & ppl always wanted to fight me, ruin my reputation, physically & mentally scar me. It got so bad I had to be taken from schools cuz I was fighting so much. I was quiet but it didn't matter. Teachers who saw something in me I didn't see in myself told me don't let them change me. I didn't listen, but now I know how to extract it all and go about my life. Thank you :)
Thank U Tonya Tko Ur So right. Today 3/3/10 this bitch @ school was picking on me and i wuz crying ;( felt like i was her slave, But now that I saw this vid. I will kick her ass tommorow X)Maybe. When she's alone. and also no bitch will hurt me again! Luv ur vid! and Luv Ur Clothes! ((:D))
i <3 this video its all so true and all your other videos too but this is my favorite but the first time i saw this im like "hmmm.......sounds fun!!"
but this video is so inspirational even though i dont have the horrible stories of other people i do have this one person and now they are dead spiritually in me
As I'm looking through your videos I ran into this one and this has inspired me so much. I had bought a few journals and for some reason I can't bring me about to start writing in them. Perhaps it's because I don't want to confront a few things that really bothers me but, I will start now that I've seen this video. Thank you so much for posting up this vid.
girl you r so right. i have let people breed in me for ssoo long at school and i realised dat sitting there bondaged by their memory and thinking about them, while they go on living their happy lives is detrmental for me. the best way to get back at somebody is to forgive them and do better with your life. god never gives us more than we can handle, and if u go through alot, it simply means u were meant to be a phenominal person. so focus on the positive........tonya tko, thanks and i'm out. ^ ^
The problem with this philosophy is that for every enemy you forget about, there is another one right around the corner. Wouldn't breaking all your enemies legs with a sledgehammer be more effective at helping you move on?
or, you could just live and let live. like me. peace and love. turn the other cheek. after all. whats the use on dwelling on something so much to the point you actually have to write about it? i dont know. just not my method. but more power to you if it works. and i respect Tonya. she seems like she really has a positive impact on people. way to go!
Tonya that message was pretty insightful.. at first took it literally.. but u stated to kill your enimies and do not allow them to grow withn u. i believe u mean to kill the sin/evil withn u that has been allowed to grow inside u for so long. or more as kill the negitive energy within. because god says love your enimies.pray for them. the only real enemy is the devil and ourselves. we allow certain things to happen to us that we didnt have to allow to grow. thats why you kill the flesh every day
Ummm.... ok, I see what your saying and I'm no psychiatrist but I think writing about some one you hate as if they were dead might be unwise. I mean, what if that person was to die or worse, be murdered. A book full of death writing might look suspicious.
I dont think she means LITERALLY! She means dont let the anger u have fester! People will try to hurt u and sometimes it succeeds but dont let that make u angry and bitter! She doesnt mean take a gun and shoot them! She means, to let go of all pain ppl bring on you, get that bitterness out dont let it stay in you!
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wtf is wrong with you!!!!! dont say kill your enemies! wtf u must not believe in god do you.
listen people might not take this the right way and they might actually go out and litterally kill their enemies. and how would u feel if someone told u they really went out ad killed their enemy because of you? how would u feel?
"Violence begets violence; hate begets hate; and toughness begets a greater toughness. It is all a descending spiral, and the end is destruction — for everybody. Along the way of life, someone must have enough sense and morality to cut off the chain of hate."
For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
I would get more satifaction torturing them,acid,flame,I'll get them out of society,but 6 billion alot of work,I need my hate, keeps me going, nuclear tech, the way to go you, won't know what hit you.Study your enemy so that you can get them in their most vunerable moments, going to do it, do it well or don't do it at all.The human race deserves to die.
i hate to agree w/u but yor RIGHT!we humans are th scourge of th earth.like a cancerous oozing puss drowning any&all goodness that might attempt to breathe&exsist in peace.
This is crazy. I've been going through exactly this lately! It's been driving me mad! So called friends, siblings, women, they've put a dark spot in my heart. The last few years have been tough, but the last few months have really hit me! And now I'm watching this... wow, total coincidence? Or something else? Great video. And helpful for me.
me too...!? i believe we are truly going 2see a 'new planet'emerge that will not tolerate sin-i mean for real.this time.ive had dreams
fortelling 9/11,th ice storm in montreal,etc.catastrophic events ALL of my life.and i see stuff u wouldnt even blieve.people,its time to wake up,mobilize&prepare for th worst-and th best if u choose love.tonya tko is a good place to start....
Thanks for the info Tonya. I never thought about writing in a journal.Forgive and Forget is a very hard process.And the more info you have helps. The info that you posted in this video helps the process.Kill Your Enemines I like the title of this video.
I did something like this yesterday but in the form of a poem. lol and just minutes later this same person leaves me a message on facebook. I guess I have to forgive and forget.
Hate only keeps someone alive longer in your heart. Hate is active, requires energy, and keeps resurrecting their spirit to live in you through your actions. Good luck hating. Good luck seeing their face, thinking of their voice and their actions and making yurself sick.
I understood where you were coming from...that place. Nice message! If more people did that then we wouldn't have so much violence! I love to keep journal anyway...It helps me remember and cope with things.
the way you get them out of you is to bring god in and dont show anger toward them but forgive them and pure firey coals on their head which means kill them with kindness.
believe me i tried that for years...sometimes it doesn't work it doesn't get what they said out of your head and heart. believe me. I mean sure do that too but also do what Tonya said for a more effective method ;)
Yeah so true Alwayz it doesn't get anything out of your brain. I realized after finishing the wounded spirit just how hard it is to forget those damn kids that did stuff to you or the dad that did it or anything. I may have forgiven but I haven't forgotten and that's what makes it hurt. thanks for sending the vid to me by the way sis *HUGS*
You know what, alot of you youtubers are fuckin ignorant, real talk! Do you hear what she is saying at all!?!? She's not saying kill them literally, and maybe if you watch the whole damn video instead of listening to the first ten seconds, you would understand that and not look so damn ignorant! You speak powerful words Tonya, preach on sister!
Tonya when i said small seeds of hate and sadness, it is through the fault of MY ENEMIES, not directed and small disagreements or grievances at random. ok?
she is so right im going thrugh that hell right now , when you become strong and get all the money then you get revenge , when the time is right yes , the you wil become the best
You heard what the lady said. Get rid of em all. And the looks of Tonya's face as she expressing herself.....lmao.... she's not only gonna put you in the "I hate yo ass book" but she really might bust yo ass if you get in her way....lol
but anyway... go get 'em Tk to the mother fucking izo
Wow, yeah, that written eulogy is very cool. I have severe depression and my dad was not very nice to me. Funny thing is, since he died 3 years ago, I have not had one single night terror. I wasn't aware he was responsible for them.
Well spoken, your message probably helped keep me from inflicting great harm on some folks this week... probably You're right, there are more productive things I can do with that negative energy.
I call my method of killing my enemies "mental whacking".It works for me, see if it works for you: you simply imagine stalking and killing your enemy and then you imagine burrying him/her somewhere in the woods or any deserted place.The main idea behind this is visualisation.You have to get rid of the image of your enemy in your mind, you have to see him/her vanish once and for all.This is like writing about someone in the past tense, as Tonya suggested.
i didn't used the word nigger or hatred towards woman simply didn't agree with your statement that we should 'kill' our enemies whether you mean kill emotionally or killing people for real it doesn't matter.
we ought to love everybody,be forgiving,to show compassion towards one another,kindness,love.
hunnie, Why would I block you for spreading messages of love? My comments areas are usual "pend approval" for anyone who is not on the friendslist. Yesterday I had it open by mistake and a "Nigger Nigger" got thru, so I closed it up. Just send me a friend invite and that will solve your "pending" comments status.
I don't expect everyone to agree with me... and I DO expect us to speak our minds (without ignorance and hate of course)
Feel free to come back and post. I love love and hate hate.
Anyone who uses the word *nigger* on my page is banned. Anyone who has nothing but ignorance and confusion to add... is banned... and anyone who expresses misogynistic messages of hatred towards all women with certain language is BANNED and anyone who threatens to harm Children is BANNED.
Kill your enemies! I understand your message: "Don't let revenge and hatred consume you" but some people who are traumatize by what a person did to them can undertand your message in a different manner.
Since you did allude to the "Love thy enemy" concept, I just had to provide clarification on this point. The spirit behind loving one's enemy does not encourage us to leave ourselves open to attacks. Rather, we shouldn't continue obstinate with persons who have a change of heart. That is what was happening when people were converting to Christianity in the First Century. Some of them used to persecute Christians, even stoning them. But when persecuters made a complete turnaround, they were
welcomed as brothers. The apostle Paul used to zealously attack Christians before he had a change of heart. We are to hate certain types of behavior, not the person. Because a person can change or modify his behavior. There are plenty of examples in the Scriptures that show that God's servants were to protect themselves and their families. The main thing is to pursue peace whenever we can.
Still, your message is a good one in that it encourages us to remove disquieting things from our lives. While we love goodness, there's a need to hate badness at the same time(See Psalms 97:10).
Don't waste your time and tie your innards in a knot with negative emotions. Pick a positive goal and work toward it. Odd illustration: Michael Myers (Halloween). No matter what happens to him, he keeps coming back. Keep your hand on the plow, girlie...
I've noticed my enemies fare far worse when I do nothing to them. I pray for God's guidance in the situation; I've seen some of my enemies ruined and I didn't lift a finger. I don't wish for such and I don't rejoice at their calamity lest I should be next!
I can't even believe you have the gall to say something horrible like that!! You're lucky you have a computer to hide behind, because if you tried to say some shit like that in person...you'd get knocked the fuck out!!
If there are particular things that "niggers" do that has hurt you over the years, yes, write it out on paper and release your pain so you can go on living a normal life.
I'm not sure if you're referring to Black people when you say "Nigger" But the way things are going you will not be able to live a normal life without interacting with Black people, even so much that you have sought me out online. Then we have banks, customer service, restaurants, bosses, post office... we're everywhere!
"I'm not sure if you're referring to Black people when you say "Nigger" But the way things are going you will not be able to live a normal life without interacting with Black people...we have banks, customer service, restaurants, bosses, post office... we're everywhere!"
I denounce you. You are my enemy because your ignorance way surpasses your intelligence. You are hateful and a waste of time and space. The essense of you is dead to everyone you insult with the word "nigger". The thought of you is dead to the people you hate with action or words.
You are hereby stricken from the record. You don't matter.
That's not true felis. Keeping toxic people in your life creates stress, strife and confusion. ALL you need in life is peace. It can't exist with someone hateful and spiteful breathing down your neck, playing the "crabs in a barrel" game. Kill them by emotionally checking them out of your life...She didn't mean killing people for real.
lol i didnt even realize that was a t-shirt until you said it ... that's hot ... and btw thank you for this message extremely touching needed to hair that it reminds me a lot of the song by keshia cole "should have let you go" keep it up
Good Afternoon Ms, TonyaTko I just wanted to tell you that I've been a member of your personal website since June 2, I really look forward to keeping in touch with you. I did my journal last night & omg I cried like a baby. I slept like one too lol, I want to thank you for the great advice that you give. You are like a therapist and a voice for people who don't have one. God Bless You Tonya.
Tonya you have fighter's fist. This is what I do now I wrote stories and draw comic books and graphic novels and when I feel like someone to that point where I wanna kill em I'll just kill them in one of my books. Stay up and stay positive my queen.
Why don't you try eulogizing some of the Black women who have hurt you in the past, so that yu don't have to make videos and movies disrespecting them... LET IT OUT!!! and LET IT GOOOO!!!!
I found your "Why Black women are single" Part one AND part two, to be particularly distasteful... and then the story you told about the shy girl who was having sex with you and you wouldn't make love to her in a position she was comfortable with & bring her to orgasm... I think yu even called her the b word a few times (not sure & I don't want to go dig thru yur vids & listen to that story again)
Tonya! The video about "Black woman are single" is just a responce to one of oprah's clips! READ the Info of that video! And the other video about "Shy girl" or w/e is just a storie or something! hes not hurt!
Tonya you got it all wrong those were response videos and i didn't make up the statistic I actually said I didn't agree with it but, it is what it is. as for the other video about the girl I didn't mention her name and she does not know my vids exist and it was just a situation i found funny that's all. Everyone has their own opinion.
You're so right Tonya. The enemies know that they have won when they see you upset and frowning, crying and they sit back and feed off of this. When they see that your upset they are laughing and they do even more things to provoke you into doing something evil. Yes it good to write your thoughts down. I'm glad you made this video! Maybe I need three journals start it from 2005. lol.
I didn't realize my journal looked like a bible until ppl started commenting.... even after I watched it holding it in my hand that way was very preacher-y.
I don't know what your dad did to you... but if the offense was good enough for his daughter to write him out from life, then Goodbye to him... goodbye to hate... and make sure that you say hello to LOVE... Loving yourself... strengthening yourself and living the best life that you truly can live without pollution, poison, or regrets!!!
I will get a journal!!!!!!!!! THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO EVER INVENTED!
CandyCharisma 3 months ago
What you are speaking in this video is insightful to your wisdom. Though I didn't find what I though I was going to find here, I am pleased with what I have found. Unfortunately I cannot comment much tonight as haste would fuel my words. I shall meditate on what you have said.
jacobzjf 1 year ago
I let all of the hatred I've dealt with from age 5 all the way to 16 poison the kind of person I was. I've never had real friends & ppl always wanted to fight me, ruin my reputation, physically & mentally scar me. It got so bad I had to be taken from schools cuz I was fighting so much. I was quiet but it didn't matter. Teachers who saw something in me I didn't see in myself told me don't let them change me. I didn't listen, but now I know how to extract it all and go about my life. Thank you :)
Charity17022 1 year ago
you are a saint... that changed my whole thought process..
uncommonvalor187 1 year ago
Thank U Tonya Tko Ur So right. Today 3/3/10 this bitch @ school was picking on me and i wuz crying ;( felt like i was her slave, But now that I saw this vid. I will kick her ass tommorow X)Maybe. When she's alone. and also no bitch will hurt me again! Luv ur vid! and Luv Ur Clothes! ((:D))
1beatlesluvr 1 year ago
whoa!!
i <3 this video its all so true and all your other videos too but this is my favorite but the first time i saw this im like "hmmm.......sounds fun!!"
but this video is so inspirational even though i dont have the horrible stories of other people i do have this one person and now they are dead spiritually in me
Thank you Tonya
RollerCoasterTycoon8 2 years ago
Thank You...
honeymilk5649 2 years ago 3
As I'm looking through your videos I ran into this one and this has inspired me so much. I had bought a few journals and for some reason I can't bring me about to start writing in them. Perhaps it's because I don't want to confront a few things that really bothers me but, I will start now that I've seen this video. Thank you so much for posting up this vid.
LatinSoulLady 2 years ago 2
girl you r so right. i have let people breed in me for ssoo long at school and i realised dat sitting there bondaged by their memory and thinking about them, while they go on living their happy lives is detrmental for me. the best way to get back at somebody is to forgive them and do better with your life. god never gives us more than we can handle, and if u go through alot, it simply means u were meant to be a phenominal person. so focus on the positive........tonya tko, thanks and i'm out. ^ ^
nal80lia 2 years ago 5
Awe momma thats wonderful! ((HUGSS))
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
hope you like that video response that i did, thanks!
danielcoder2 2 years ago
The problem with this philosophy is that for every enemy you forget about, there is another one right around the corner. Wouldn't breaking all your enemies legs with a sledgehammer be more effective at helping you move on?
spulkagent47 2 years ago
lol. i like that idea
PrettyDeep24 2 years ago
Truly that was beautiful, you're quite wise
bisna536 2 years ago
you talks crazy and i likes crazy people lol
twilightrullermiriah 2 years ago
so... don't actually kill your enemies... uh oh
alexisnum1 2 years ago 2
i am dealing with that now! thanks and thanks to a few folks below who made awesome comments...
vivey623 2 years ago
Thank you :)
bbvibrabb 3 years ago
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KILL THE NIGGERS
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briankaboom 3 years ago
GET THIS TO JENNIFER HUDSON'S family!!? i believe they need to know that other ppl empathize &want them to survive ths&heal
chanlately 3 years ago
Tonya that message was pretty insightful.. at first took it literally.. but u stated to kill your enimies and do not allow them to grow withn u. i believe u mean to kill the sin/evil withn u that has been allowed to grow inside u for so long. or more as kill the negitive energy within. because god says love your enimies.pray for them. the only real enemy is the devil and ourselves. we allow certain things to happen to us that we didnt have to allow to grow. thats why you kill the flesh every day
Oldschool1972 3 years ago 3
yes! you got it!
-TKO
TonyaTko 3 years ago
VICTORY
Simon5636 3 years ago
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LADY YOU ARE CRAZY,SEEK HELP!!
nenmore 3 years ago
Ummm.... ok, I see what your saying and I'm no psychiatrist but I think writing about some one you hate as if they were dead might be unwise. I mean, what if that person was to die or worse, be murdered. A book full of death writing might look suspicious.
Disthron 3 years ago
luv ur videos....ur such a powerful speaker
SoldierGurl21 3 years ago
Nice.Dang you are smart!You seem very very far in a deep mind of state.Good work!!!
gtamythmaster43 3 years ago
wow u sound pissed
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aysect33 3 years ago
u kill her muthrfuckr&i kill u!!!!!!
chanlately 3 years ago
I know EXACTLY what she says..
And THATS a true black woman. Wow you can tell it in her eyes, her voice, her expressions.
DubbSm0kin 3 years ago
I will get him!!!Yes I will I will stop him!!!I WILL KILL THEM!!!By writing a book.Yay I love writing!!
Thefriendlybaron 3 years ago
Never repay evil with evil! That's just stupid.
Twinbladechaos 3 years ago
I dont think she means LITERALLY! She means dont let the anger u have fester! People will try to hurt u and sometimes it succeeds but dont let that make u angry and bitter! She doesnt mean take a gun and shoot them! She means, to let go of all pain ppl bring on you, get that bitterness out dont let it stay in you!
MsBrei 3 years ago 3
some had a bad break up or did u forgot to take ur meds or u haven ur period i suggest weed or pot
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wtf is wrong with you!!!!! dont say kill your enemies! wtf u must not believe in god do you.
listen people might not take this the right way and they might actually go out and litterally kill their enemies. and how would u feel if someone told u they really went out ad killed their enemy because of you? how would u feel?
subar74 3 years ago
REAL TALK, Tonya!!
vixxa 3 years ago 3
kill them
Police1097 3 years ago
You are cool.
JENSSCHLAU 3 years ago
i will kill them!!!!!
xtinaaguileraroxs 3 years ago
Martin Luther King, Jr. said,
"Violence begets violence; hate begets hate; and toughness begets a greater toughness. It is all a descending spiral, and the end is destruction — for everybody. Along the way of life, someone must have enough sense and morality to cut off the chain of hate."
RickJamesham 3 years ago 2
In Matthew 6:14-15, JESUS/YESHUA said,
For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
RickJamesham 3 years ago
woah,
this is so true!
i'm taking your advice!
bucketluver 3 years ago
True dat!
FrontalTraction 3 years ago
anyone wanna be my freind just ask i accept all freind invites and if you sub to me i always sub back
heth369 3 years ago
this is so true
aleksandri4ka93 3 years ago
i understand
ham554 3 years ago
I love your videos!
picaticatara 3 years ago
you are truly an upwardly mobile well-rounded being.much respect,QUEEN!
chanlately 3 years ago
Me encanta tus videos
I love ur videos
boly22 3 years ago
so true.
Drpepperrock31 3 years ago
I like this!
Kiva91 3 years ago
nice title! got my attention and ur vid rocks! ^o^
ichigo646 3 years ago
does this mean physically murder them like rip their heart out, or forget about them.
(note I prefer the first one)
cr00kedfencepost 3 years ago
i don't know if this is supposed to be funny but the title made me laugh, good vid though
Aquabarbarian 3 years ago
WOW! You rock, lady!
patiencepoet 3 years ago
i just love your sprit!!!..... i really look up 2 u :)
idk if u follow astrology but whats ur sign?.. jus wondering lol
love112489 3 years ago
lol ur crazy in a good way lol
trampolinegods4life 3 years ago
Right on, sister! Speak your truth! The unfortunate fact is that many people who were traumatized as children do not get beyond it.
Allowing something to eat away at you is bad for your health. But some people need to learn how to let go, how to release.
headamazon 3 years ago
I would get more satifaction torturing them,acid,flame,I'll get them out of society,but 6 billion alot of work,I need my hate, keeps me going, nuclear tech, the way to go you, won't know what hit you.Study your enemy so that you can get them in their most vunerable moments, going to do it, do it well or don't do it at all.The human race deserves to die.
Kilooscarromeo 3 years ago
i hate to agree w/u but yor RIGHT!we humans are th scourge of th earth.like a cancerous oozing puss drowning any&all goodness that might attempt to breathe&exsist in peace.
chanlately 3 years ago
Tymur Ibragimov and Tolya Lyapustin are gays.They suck dick to each other.They like fucking each other.They are bitches.
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xxxJAYyBR33ZYxxx 3 years ago
damn..... thats why i am doing 25 to life now.... talk to you later its about to be lights out..
ncj333 3 years ago
seems like we should have a word of prayer afer this video
truwoman01 3 years ago
Darling, I needed this video!
sexymodelboy 3 years ago
you should be a preacher.
isaidydpinto 3 years ago
beautiful sister with a beautiful message!
brwneyedbeatnik 3 years ago
This is crazy. I've been going through exactly this lately! It's been driving me mad! So called friends, siblings, women, they've put a dark spot in my heart. The last few years have been tough, but the last few months have really hit me! And now I'm watching this... wow, total coincidence? Or something else? Great video. And helpful for me.
sonnybrown 3 years ago
me too...!? i believe we are truly going 2see a 'new planet'emerge that will not tolerate sin-i mean for real.this time.ive had dreams
fortelling 9/11,th ice storm in montreal,etc.catastrophic events ALL of my life.and i see stuff u wouldnt even blieve.people,its time to wake up,mobilize&prepare for th worst-and th best if u choose love.tonya tko is a good place to start....
chanlately 3 years ago
A "new planet"? Interesting.
sonnybrown 3 years ago
Who are what is the enemy in side of me?
mrkillerman 3 years ago
I love you my sister.....u are wise. Thank you for sharing!!!
Terri
TerrisRacePlace 3 years ago
wow... powerful... i write in a journal all the time..
Pooobaihr23 3 years ago
Deep TonyaTKO but it is TRUTH! Thanks for dropping that knowledge.
tbveternal 3 years ago
Thanks for the info Tonya. I never thought about writing in a journal.Forgive and Forget is a very hard process.And the more info you have helps. The info that you posted in this video helps the process.Kill Your Enemines I like the title of this video.
2mariebl 3 years ago
I did something like this yesterday but in the form of a poem. lol and just minutes later this same person leaves me a message on facebook. I guess I have to forgive and forget.
Panther15 3 years ago
Hate only keeps someone alive longer in your heart. Hate is active, requires energy, and keeps resurrecting their spirit to live in you through your actions. Good luck hating. Good luck seeing their face, thinking of their voice and their actions and making yurself sick.
Good luck.
-TonyaTko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
I understood where you were coming from...that place. Nice message! If more people did that then we wouldn't have so much violence! I love to keep journal anyway...It helps me remember and cope with things.
checkmate4sure 3 years ago
the way you get them out of you is to bring god in and dont show anger toward them but forgive them and pure firey coals on their head which means kill them with kindness.
ezdavid34 3 years ago
believe me i tried that for years...sometimes it doesn't work it doesn't get what they said out of your head and heart. believe me. I mean sure do that too but also do what Tonya said for a more effective method ;)
alwayzblu 3 years ago
Yeah so true Alwayz it doesn't get anything out of your brain. I realized after finishing the wounded spirit just how hard it is to forget those damn kids that did stuff to you or the dad that did it or anything. I may have forgiven but I haven't forgotten and that's what makes it hurt. thanks for sending the vid to me by the way sis *HUGS*
singingbabe26 3 years ago
I don't think you understood.
-TonyaTko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
I'm with it.
dilliot2k 3 years ago
Tanya, I'm a new subscriber, you are very good. Look forward to hearing more for you. Todd
wtr7 3 years ago
uve been initiated! CHeck your inbox
:oD
-TONYATko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
i really appreciated that u said write it in a journal...im having a bad time in my life really hard stuff n thats a good idea
battygyalbblazin0 3 years ago
You know what, alot of you youtubers are fuckin ignorant, real talk! Do you hear what she is saying at all!?!? She's not saying kill them literally, and maybe if you watch the whole damn video instead of listening to the first ten seconds, you would understand that and not look so damn ignorant! You speak powerful words Tonya, preach on sister!
chrisdotwynn 3 years ago 3
Thank you very much Chris... I wasnt even going to say anything.
-TonyaTko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
thats very strong words
jboogy259 3 years ago
u need 2 bring ur fine ass back down to nevis....lemme ferry over
ironkong26 3 years ago
lmao
ceciliaboo 3 years ago
I love it. I get what you saying though. you talking about moving on. Not letting people live inside of you. Yea I like that
manabower 3 years ago
Someone who GETS IT! Thank you.
-TKO
TonyaTko 3 years ago
y kill you enimies1 when you could show dem love
Jstarquest 3 years ago
Getting my book out right now.
LadyFlameSniper 3 years ago
Tonya when i said small seeds of hate and sadness, it is through the fault of MY ENEMIES, not directed and small disagreements or grievances at random. ok?
gilga101 3 years ago
Gotcha!
-Tko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
ok Tonya ur right about that(Kill your enemies).
alkaff2008 3 years ago
Eulogize and cremate that bitch that offended you! LMAO
Bronzstar 3 years ago
LOL! Okay London... you sure you're alright?
-Tko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
I love you TKO
-London
Bronzstar 3 years ago
very nice ,by ther title i was like wat tonya has lost it but it was so right.
krissy4nik 3 years ago
SMITE!
Magdalicious00 3 years ago
she is so right im going thrugh that hell right now , when you become strong and get all the money then you get revenge , when the time is right yes , the you wil become the best
swazia73 3 years ago
nice 5
bettyrip2 3 years ago
aight!!!!!!
You heard what the lady said. Get rid of em all. And the looks of Tonya's face as she expressing herself.....lmao.... she's not only gonna put you in the "I hate yo ass book" but she really might bust yo ass if you get in her way....lol
but anyway... go get 'em Tk to the mother fucking izo
I'm out cause I gotta get cream....bitches!!!
abdu
pefilms 3 years ago
Wow, yeah, that written eulogy is very cool. I have severe depression and my dad was not very nice to me. Funny thing is, since he died 3 years ago, I have not had one single night terror. I wasn't aware he was responsible for them.
orki1960 3 years ago
Well spoken, your message probably helped keep me from inflicting great harm on some folks this week... probably You're right, there are more productive things I can do with that negative energy.
janus131 3 years ago
Well I am glad my message found you!
Im serous though... go out and get a book...even if its a composition notebook. Do what I instructed and come back monday and tell us how you did.
-TonyaTko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
Such passion and love beautiful sister ! confession is good for the soul your focus determines your reality.
Sun6080 3 years ago
You tell 'em!
Amadeus69 3 years ago
I speak english bad very bad but in the video I understand some words, and te message is too interesting for me.
is no nesesary but interesting, if I can help, ok, let´s go
osigato 3 years ago
no podrias hacer una traduccion al español ;)?
osigato 3 years ago
Si, puedo.
Necesitas? Pero hay palabras que no puedo escribir... y hay muchas palabras en este video para tracucir... puedes ayudame? Hablas ingles? un poco?
-TonyaTko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
"I want all of you to get out of your chairs, Open your windows then yell out...I am mad as Hell, AND I'M NOT GONNA TAKE IT ANYMORE!"
CUTWEST 3 years ago
I call my method of killing my enemies "mental whacking".It works for me, see if it works for you: you simply imagine stalking and killing your enemy and then you imagine burrying him/her somewhere in the woods or any deserted place.The main idea behind this is visualisation.You have to get rid of the image of your enemy in your mind, you have to see him/her vanish once and for all.This is like writing about someone in the past tense, as Tonya suggested.
Hope you don't think I'm a psycho! :-)
RobeeMan 3 years ago
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
felisberto2 3 years ago
Love, while always forgiving of imperfections and mistakes, can never cease to will their removal.
felisberto2 3 years ago
i didn't used the word nigger or hatred towards woman simply didn't agree with your statement that we should 'kill' our enemies whether you mean kill emotionally or killing people for real it doesn't matter.
we ought to love everybody,be forgiving,to show compassion towards one another,kindness,love.
felisberto2 3 years ago
hunnie, Why would I block you for spreading messages of love? My comments areas are usual "pend approval" for anyone who is not on the friendslist. Yesterday I had it open by mistake and a "Nigger Nigger" got thru, so I closed it up. Just send me a friend invite and that will solve your "pending" comments status.
I don't expect everyone to agree with me... and I DO expect us to speak our minds (without ignorance and hate of course)
Feel free to come back and post. I love love and hate hate.
TonyaTko 3 years ago
Girl you reading from Revelations!!!! There shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth! I'm shivering!
roadlesswandering 3 years ago
i can't believe tonyatko banned me.
felisberto2 3 years ago
Anyone who uses the word *nigger* on my page is banned. Anyone who has nothing but ignorance and confusion to add... is banned... and anyone who expresses misogynistic messages of hatred towards all women with certain language is BANNED and anyone who threatens to harm Children is BANNED.
Did you fall into any of those categories?
-TKO
TonyaTko 3 years ago
Good advice...This is some funny stuff too!
ebonyarko769 3 years ago
you speak the truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OrlandoTV 3 years ago
tell it tonya put all your heart into it
tay240 3 years ago
To TonyaTko:
Kill your enemies! I understand your message: "Don't let revenge and hatred consume you" but some people who are traumatize by what a person did to them can undertand your message in a different manner.
KushWarriorReturns 3 years ago
Well said Tonya! Great message, loved it. Much respect & love ya! :)
craftywytch 3 years ago
Since you did allude to the "Love thy enemy" concept, I just had to provide clarification on this point. The spirit behind loving one's enemy does not encourage us to leave ourselves open to attacks. Rather, we shouldn't continue obstinate with persons who have a change of heart. That is what was happening when people were converting to Christianity in the First Century. Some of them used to persecute Christians, even stoning them. But when persecuters made a complete turnaround, they were
jemzWorld 3 years ago
welcomed as brothers. The apostle Paul used to zealously attack Christians before he had a change of heart. We are to hate certain types of behavior, not the person. Because a person can change or modify his behavior. There are plenty of examples in the Scriptures that show that God's servants were to protect themselves and their families. The main thing is to pursue peace whenever we can.
jemzWorld 3 years ago
Yet if a person persists in doing bad things in our midst, then 1 Corinthians 15:33 applies. They should be dropped like a bad habit!
jemzWorld 3 years ago
Still, your message is a good one in that it encourages us to remove disquieting things from our lives. While we love goodness, there's a need to hate badness at the same time(See Psalms 97:10).
jemzWorld 3 years ago
SPEAK TO IT SISTER.
tssexychanel 3 years ago
"Living well is the best revenge"
However, if Shit Hits The Fan and I'm fortunate enough to be choosing, I'd have to appoint T-TKO as Minister of Defense! :0)
ShiekUrBooty 3 years ago
I felt so much better meditating on your words.
wety77 3 years ago
Don't waste your time and tie your innards in a knot with negative emotions. Pick a positive goal and work toward it. Odd illustration: Michael Myers (Halloween). No matter what happens to him, he keeps coming back. Keep your hand on the plow, girlie...
misharyutubbee 3 years ago
"If you choose revenge, you better dig two graves...one for the 'person of interest' and one for yourself"
"Revenge is a dish best served cold"
ShiekUrBooty 3 years ago
I've noticed my enemies fare far worse when I do nothing to them. I pray for God's guidance in the situation; I've seen some of my enemies ruined and I didn't lift a finger. I don't wish for such and I don't rejoice at their calamity lest I should be next!
misharyutubbee 3 years ago
I can't even believe you have the gall to say something horrible like that!! You're lucky you have a computer to hide behind, because if you tried to say some shit like that in person...you'd get knocked the fuck out!!
machineprod 3 years ago
congratulation
hoooil 3 years ago
When I think of using my foot or fist to smite someone I feel alive.
TheIncredibleStalk 3 years ago
I agree with you. I recently started writing when someone upsets me. It helps to get it off my chest.
kdharri2 3 years ago
If there are particular things that "niggers" do that has hurt you over the years, yes, write it out on paper and release your pain so you can go on living a normal life.
I'm not sure if you're referring to Black people when you say "Nigger" But the way things are going you will not be able to live a normal life without interacting with Black people, even so much that you have sought me out online. Then we have banks, customer service, restaurants, bosses, post office... we're everywhere!
-TKO
TonyaTko 3 years ago
"I'm not sure if you're referring to Black people when you say "Nigger" But the way things are going you will not be able to live a normal life without interacting with Black people...we have banks, customer service, restaurants, bosses, post office... we're everywhere!"
Wouldn't that make them "Ninjas"?
:0)
ShiekUrBooty 3 years ago
Well...I'm a ninja..seriously. So no.
SpraxIAKS 3 years ago
Writing to my enemy, XXSparky...
I denounce you. You are my enemy because your ignorance way surpasses your intelligence. You are hateful and a waste of time and space. The essense of you is dead to everyone you insult with the word "nigger". The thought of you is dead to the people you hate with action or words.
You are hereby stricken from the record. You don't matter.
Without one ounce of regret,
Imerica1
Imerica1 3 years ago 4
Very nice I feel the energy you are right with this.
60e 3 years ago
Kiss Kisses Hugs Hugs,,,,Much respect
BeautifulGirlByDana 3 years ago
tonyatko you got a wrong message. we must love our enemies forgive them.The Lord Our God Taught Us To Love Our Enemies.
the healing process starting by forgiving our enemies.
felisberto2 3 years ago
That's not true felis. Keeping toxic people in your life creates stress, strife and confusion. ALL you need in life is peace. It can't exist with someone hateful and spiteful breathing down your neck, playing the "crabs in a barrel" game. Kill them by emotionally checking them out of your life...She didn't mean killing people for real.
Imerica1 3 years ago 3
Tell it like it is! An intense and truthful video. I think that you were looking to say that we "channel" the harmful energy of our enemies.
gamoonbat 3 years ago
Creating love with you would so inspiring.
I bet i would learn a lot ;-)
NYKHat 3 years ago
lol i didnt even realize that was a t-shirt until you said it ... that's hot ... and btw thank you for this message extremely touching needed to hair that it reminds me a lot of the song by keshia cole "should have let you go" keep it up
natamil 3 years ago
Good Afternoon Ms, TonyaTko I just wanted to tell you that I've been a member of your personal website since June 2, I really look forward to keeping in touch with you. I did my journal last night & omg I cried like a baby. I slept like one too lol, I want to thank you for the great advice that you give. You are like a therapist and a voice for people who don't have one. God Bless You Tonya.
tenish1 3 years ago
This video is pretty deep! I love it! Thx
youngsebi 3 years ago
Awesome!!!
10to25yrs 3 years ago
damn u sound mad as hell
dboygreat 3 years ago
This video is right on time for me. Thank you.
mosidagod 3 years ago
tru that
kingstreetboys 3 years ago
Tonya you have fighter's fist. This is what I do now I wrote stories and draw comic books and graphic novels and when I feel like someone to that point where I wanna kill em I'll just kill them in one of my books. Stay up and stay positive my queen.
blacktigerwu 3 years ago
Why don't you try eulogizing some of the Black women who have hurt you in the past, so that yu don't have to make videos and movies disrespecting them... LET IT OUT!!! and LET IT GOOOO!!!!
-TonyaTko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
I've never disrespected any women in my videos
blacktigerwu 3 years ago
I found your "Why Black women are single" Part one AND part two, to be particularly distasteful... and then the story you told about the shy girl who was having sex with you and you wouldn't make love to her in a position she was comfortable with & bring her to orgasm... I think yu even called her the b word a few times (not sure & I don't want to go dig thru yur vids & listen to that story again)
-TonyaTko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
Tonya! The video about "Black woman are single" is just a responce to one of oprah's clips! READ the Info of that video! And the other video about "Shy girl" or w/e is just a storie or something! hes not hurt!
gangstanaruto3 3 years ago
THANK YOU. I don't know why they don't get it.
blacktigerwu 3 years ago
Tonya you got it all wrong those were response videos and i didn't make up the statistic I actually said I didn't agree with it but, it is what it is. as for the other video about the girl I didn't mention her name and she does not know my vids exist and it was just a situation i found funny that's all. Everyone has their own opinion.
blacktigerwu 3 years ago
This is true.
idgirl97 3 years ago
I don't understand what you're talking about and what it has to do with this video
-TonyaTko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
You're so right Tonya. The enemies know that they have won when they see you upset and frowning, crying and they sit back and feed off of this. When they see that your upset they are laughing and they do even more things to provoke you into doing something evil. Yes it good to write your thoughts down. I'm glad you made this video! Maybe I need three journals start it from 2005. lol.
chocara1 3 years ago
Well go ahead and reach back and release it all... ALLLLLL, every little bit. Get it off your heart and soul.
-TonyaTko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
I don't have any enemies, they don't exist in my world. WOohoo for freedom!! :o)
MissPrettynCurvy 3 years ago
i love watching this but i always LOL at the start when you say eulogize them :)
raekota 3 years ago
Yeah:)
I didn't realize my journal looked like a bible until ppl started commenting.... even after I watched it holding it in my hand that way was very preacher-y.
-TonyaTko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
In my journal I always talk about my dad dying...and from that day forward I wrote about him in past tense. Stop all haters!
accidentsafe 3 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
I don't know what your dad did to you... but if the offense was good enough for his daughter to write him out from life, then Goodbye to him... goodbye to hate... and make sure that you say hello to LOVE... Loving yourself... strengthening yourself and living the best life that you truly can live without pollution, poison, or regrets!!!
♥
TonyaTko
TonyaTko 3 years ago
it's great that you speak with all that anger but still keep control of your....i think spirit? :o
freezepoppersonguy 3 years ago
That a great video
skyzze 3 years ago