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  • What show was this from?

  • Was this from Taboo?

  • This is horrible. It's such a depressing video.

  • Sounds interesting. :o

    Can people become sworn virgins any where else?

  • Looks like its time for some curious rape :D

  • @skylerisno Rape is never okay. Under any circumstance. Please don't joke about it.

  • Im Albanian and thats first time i hear such a thing ..............

  • this is very interesting but as they say this practice will die out eventually because times have changed and have changed alot....This is written in anthropology books and is tought across the U.S i don't know about europe.....

  • need a contact with the author thanks

    s.casini@bizefproduzione.it

  • we albanians are all sworn pussys ..hahahahahah

  • Almost every sexual activity lesbians can engage in is in that "gray area" that some cultures don't consider sex. "Lesbianism" wasn't a word that existed 100s of years ago so I wonder if 100s of years ago they had lesbian sex but it wasn't considered "sex" it was "friends messing around" & so didn't violate their oaths.

  • albaians are turk mix

  • This is freaking weird.

  • it is only tradition that those people have. Every culture has traditions that may seem weird to the rest of us, and all of us have traditions that may seem weird to the rest of the world

  • i know. that's why i said it's weird. i'm sure they think i'm weird too.

  • tina, you have no clue what this is about. These women are not lesbians, and you are truly ignorant, because you don't even know the history and traditions of your own country.

  • I don't agree with you, this is just a way of renouncing sexuallity, these women chosed this way of life for hellping they're familly as it was more easy to live like men,

    It dosen't meen thay are lesbians

  • @ tina1988x... that is only tradition. Why are you so angry?

  • i know about this because my old aunt is one.

  • Different societies have different customs that sometimes shock the mainstream people of other countries. But this is fundamentally dysfunctional. This is not a logical solution to a sexist class system. They should be trying to reverse the sexist attitudes, not their own genders. They're socially handicapping themselves in what is obviously a terribly uneducated society. Tradition is not more important than human dignity, and this demonstrates that fact clearly.

  • you suck. ya jackass!

  • Yeah.. or you could have what's called a woman's movement. America, France, and even countries like Turkey had theirs at the turn of the 20th century, but hey, old habits die hard.

  • Albanian women in Kosovo are baby machines plain and simple, they are kept pregnant from the time they have their first period right up until the time they hit menopause.

    Even Mother Teresa was a sworn virgin, she was Albanian but she chose instead to flee to Asia instead of trying to deal with the backward and chauvinistic race that are the Albanians.

    There is NO such thing as women's rights among Albanians and Kosovo has the highest birth rate in all of Europe.

    WAKE UP!

  • is this what your serbian miloshevich told you,what do you know about albania and kosova, are you deaf what she said here, she said in albania, bosnia the bosnian serbs and in serbia, but you piss of shit slavic idiots all what you know is that serbs are high class all others all low class, btw slavic serbo/russian papagal how much school do you have

  • Amazing but a tru lifes, we should have respect to people and give more oportunities and equal rights.

  • Wow, that's very sad. Women should have the same rights as men everywhere.. :(

  • albanias messed

  • Wow, tough decision to make. Glad she did it for her family =]

  • I think Sir Issac Newton from England who made the famous equations most scientists use was a sworn virgin, but he was a guy.

  • now that's the negative side of being

    "over traditional"

    poor guy

  • hhhmmm.....that's interesting. interesting to see what other cultures are like

  • still not too late....

  • I can only one thing about this video, and that is that i have respect for her and the desisions she has made.

  • i highly doubt they masturbate. in alot of the old religions and belief systems, masturbation is wrong. and if they are not open with sex and they are so closed off to not think sex is a big deal at all, then they wont find masturbation necessary or even ok. its more than likely taboo.

  • i bet that shit's tight.. lol

  • naw she must masterbait alot.

  • i think its just the media in our countries that hypes up sex so its not that big of a deal in undeveloped countries

  • they do mate, i am albanian

  • Well then they can still resist it >_>

  • i think thats true

  • I'd be a gay man.

  • you gay ass hole

  • whats ur issue?

  • i dont think he understands your *joke

  • lol...seems like it.

  • lol

  • Eshte ne regull lokja jone,e detyroj jeta te behesh ,vet zot per veteheten,flm vloraheroike.

  • wow that's crazy...I don't think i'd be able to do that...I love being a woman. I think she's great for sticking with her promise though.

  • the only problem of you guys, is you're the one who gets pregnant.. ouch!!! for the firt time... lol.. I remembered when I was young I thought male and female could get pregnant, I was sooo nervous... hahaha.. that was the dummest thing I've ever thoughts... good luck being a female.

  • I don't think her decision is to be mocked or made light of; naturally, we who live in societies where women are allowed to work and be independent can't possibly understand. In that society, many years ago, a woman was worth as much as an animal; in order to support their families, they HAD to pass as men. It was about survival, nothing else.

  • @thatamericangirl

    albanians are scummy bastards, this shit doesn't shoke me. Their women act more like men than the albo men do!

    LMFAO@ turkish dogs (albos)

  • @AmericanFenian All for human rights you are!!!

  • @muv1912

    Wow I have yet another YT troll that stalks me online. I feel honored LMFAO @ muv1912

  • @AmericanFenian Sorry, i had to follow your trail on here to see if you were as sad and ignorant as you first appeared, sadly you are! one thing you've definatly inherited from your irish connections- THICK PADDY SYNDROME!

  • @muv1912

    There's no excuse for trollin. Thick Paddy syndrome? The Irish are known for being warrior poets and Ireland is the land of Saints and scholars. Sorry, but the only one here who appears to be think is muv1912 and a bunch of albo douche bags. Seems ya haven't a clue about Irish or Slavic history or culture so fuck off and stop trollin. Trolls are just pathetic!

  • @AmericanFenian The irish are also shit hot at laying tar on roads!

  • @muv1912

    True we took hard and dirty jobs nobody wanted, but then along with the Italians took over the unions. See that's what decent people do when they have families to support. So fuck off and stop trolling.

  • @AmericanFenian Took over the union, organised crime, the mafia etc..Yes, we all know your pedegree!

  • @AmericanFenian

    lol well the pedigree of the Irish must not be to bad. Considering that for centuries a nobility all over Europe wanted Irish scholars and poets among their court. The only thing ya have is stereotypes that are tired. The only people who believe them are poorly educated WASPs (white trash).

    B.T.W please learn to spell it's not pedegree its pedigree. :D

  • @AmericanFenian I don't suppose it will "shoke" you but your spelling isn't too hot either! You are right though,some of the best jesters at court were irish. I see you've started replying to yourself, are you that lonely?

  • @muv1912

    Hmmm one typo and that somehow makes me an idiot? I would hardly call Irish poets and authors jesters. That just shows ignorance of the people and of literature. Stacking ones posts hardly makes a person lonely.

    B.T.W why are ya still posting things to me? Oh yeah I forgot about ya being a troll. Now get back underneath that rock of yours.

  • That's pretty messed up when people have to dress up as men to live a somewhat decent life.

  • Once u make a decision,. u should stick to it.

    Thats what i did when i broke off with me x.

    and i never had any regrets^^!~

  • shes great.

  • Now this is what I call "Iron Woman".Really respect her as she said that as one made a choice, they should stick to it....But,have she no desire to be with a man?

  • they might do have the desire, but having rights mean more to them. i swore off sex and would never dare touch a man's penis bcuz i respect myself too much to give myself away to pathetic men.

  • i dont think u have hit puberty yet

  • Corrupted by American culture? So you would prefer women have no rights and never got jobs if they wanted to? From what I've seen homeschooled people who are sheltered have difficulty getting friends outside of their own bubble.

  • Well, the vast majority of American women are nearly as masculine as this person. That is why I am engaged to a lady from Asia. And you can be sure that we will homeschool our children to keep them from being corrupted by American culture. We will raise our sons to be men and our daughters to be women.

  • So bascically........it's a woman taking traditional male roles???

  • Pretty much, that's how I see it.

  • who wants it to continue?

  • sort of like the fafa finny of Samoan (sorry my spelling sucks)

  • hmm thats a prety good way of putting it

  • similer to the samoans with there guys who act like women

  • I've seen this. It was a really good show.

  • there not tranies there just woman who act like men

  • fuckkkk

  • sad she never got the enjoyment of sex :P

  • ill never die as a virgin!!!!!

  • That's dedication to traidition and chasity.

    I think that it's something both men and women in America can learn from.

    Of course, the prevalence of sex as an idol in such areas isn't quite as overbearing.

  • iam albanian and have never heard of dis shit before. Its wierd the way they make women look like slaves or sumtin they just overiactin man

  • Of course people outside can't understand why women do this. But I admire them. They have made a great sacrifice to take responsibility for their family and have dismissed their own selves. I think they're heroic. And I wonder, in our society in which sex is everything, if they don't have something richer than we do.

  • Hey malsorja i swear you would make the perfect sworn virgin !!! and you kinda look like that girl, and you act like a dude !!!

  • This is nothing to do with sexulaity. This stems from ancient LEK DUKAGJIN--- DERIVED FROM Roman Law determining inheritances.

  • WOW I am Albanian but I have never heard of such thing...lol I have never even heard this from my grandparents either...interesting

  • she looks cute...like president Bush.

    i find that it is a silly tradition. that needs to die off. yes that is rude, but it is my opinion

  • It is rude, but this tradition appeared in the middle ages, or maybe, in the antics times. However, I think it's better to be a sworn virgin than a normal woman 'cause the later had no rights at all

  • good point.

    but why not give full rights as a woman?

  • I am a woman and a feminist, and I wish women had the same rights as the men. Unfortunately, north Albania is a very patriarchal society, and it's so hard to make they change

  • your comments are really stupid: the sworn virgins were girls who had no brother. Women in north Albania couldn't inherit from their father, so when a couple didn't have a boy child, they made one of their girls "a boy". The girl had to swear that she would live as a man during all her life. So she had the same rights as any other man. What's wrong with that?

  • Poor lady/man thinks sex is a small part of life =( whoa is her

  • 1. They allow gays and lesbians, it's just an unknown concept (And what's wrong with them anyway?). 2. Sex is an enjoyable practice. Lies happen even outside of sex, ask any child, and nymphomania/rape still happens anyway. The only difference is, they're not reported as it's socially unacceptable

  • it seems so sad and lonely for her :(

  • holy shit, i never knew my friend steve was albanian! no wonder he's always actin glike a bitch and getting to action

  • hahah u dick head

  • A woman sworn to live her life like a man...In America we call them dykes...

  • in england we call them transvestites

  • to right

  • in America you have them as presidents...

  • Im Albanian born and raised . Ive never heard of this . This is really stupid , cant you all see these ppl arent cizilized and they all live in the tip on the mountain .

  • I'm Albanian, too...and this is like culture shock for me, I had never heard about these things, too...and not even my parents. Apparently there are a whole lotta things that happen in rural areas that we are not exposed to. I can't call them stupid, but different...I feel bad for these people.

  • Also crystalclear, wanted to mention that I spent 5 years in Saudi Arabia, where homosexuality is against the law. Saudi society denies it exists. However, I know from very reliable sources and those who have been through it that it goes on...both the innate variety and the 'incidental' type--when heterosexual people who are separated from the opposite sex engage in same-sex erotic behavior, as in prisons.

  • I understand woman in general or larger number have an easier time living without sex expression. At least from what I've heard.

  • Dale: I apologize for overreacting (although I think women are every bit as sexual as men, just different in their overt expressions of it). I have been harassed by a very misogynistic YT channel owner recently so am overly sensitive right now. I agree with you that there are many problems-MANY-with the way YT is run.

  • By sexual I meant genitalia movement. In this video you see a woman choosing to set that aside for a larger good. I guess what I define as sexual is the degree of go get it-ness (aggression#*&%?) Are you sure women in general are equal to men in that regard? I come with no preconceived idea since I'm 30 plus years out the loop. I've not been attacked by women in a figurative sense ever. That said, it seems this choice wouldn't be hard for the plus specie if there's truth to my thought.

  • I think this is a quite desperate and unique situation, which is why it's so fascinating. What I meant was that I believe women have libidos that are just as strong, but they are clearly not as aggressive-certainly not in criminal ways such as rape. Women in developing countries that oppress them engage in a lot of 'incidental homsexuality', for example. Sex is about more than physical release...

  • I think there are some RARE asexual people, but that most have a need and desire for physical intimacy with other humans. That intimacy obviously includes expressed sexuality. I don't think there's any way to quantify male vs. female libido levels. I believe they are comparable. And keep in mind that rape is about power, not sex...

  • I think maybe I've been indoctrinated. The closest I came to chumming with females was ballet. And what sporadic copulation I've managed was never representative. Thanks for the balanced viewpoint. Though I wasn't referring to rape when using the term aggression that will not discount in anyway your perceptiveness on this important matter.

  • Fascinating, but if one believes (as I do) that homosexuality is usually innate, I don't buy that 'lesbianism is unheard of' anywhere, including remote Albania. It's a natural phenomenon that occurs EVERYWHERE. Human sexual impulses cannot be ignored once they appear. They don't have to be acted on, but the feelings cannot be completely repressed (unless one is hormonaly manipulated or genitally mutilated.)

  • It's not unheard of, but it very very very rarely happens...and those cases are usually of people who have immigrated to other countries and have lost their Albanian identity (I believe it is innate, too).

    I would also say that people should be careful when watching videos like this, because then they'll think that Albania is like that (hence, your word usage:remote). This is about rural Albania...and places like these, rural areas, there are everywhere, not only in Albania.

  • I never suggested Albania was uniformly 'remote.' EVERY country has 'remote' areas. 'Remote' is simply a somewhat more extreme degree of 'rural'. I have traveled all over the world, and I know that for many years, Albania was one of the only countries (like modern-day N. Korea) which did not allow tourists in. Because of that, many still think of it as 'backward'.Untrue now, of course. The documentarian makes it clear that this is RARE because it IS in a remote area, part of a dying tradition.

  • Albania and Albanian-dominated Kosovo are the most primitive parts of the world. This, in addition to being European centers for organizaed crime (drugs, prostitution, peopel smuggling).

    For more info see:

    w w w . xavier-raufer . com/english_5.php

  • Brother,why do you have to propagandize all the time,we,the Monkeydonians are no better than our Albananian Brothers.Our country FYROM is one of the poorest in Europe and we do nothing to improve it???

    Long live FYRO Monkeydonia!

  • NationalGeographic is a truely amazing channel. I thinks all these sexist people leaving thier stupid comments here are affraid of thier own ability to think.

  • 21woman, I agree. They obviously aren't here for anthropological interest. They probably ended up here because they were looking for 'hot young virgins' or something...Dummkoepfer!

  • Maybe your mother would like it anal piece of shit.

  • what about anal?

  • I think its very sad, but it also shows the respect and honer instilled in our community. If todays generation had half the morals that they had when these women were growing up, we wouldn't have the problems were facing today.

    And also, if its "lame" why the FUK would you post you shtash t'zotit.

  • they don't do this in kosovo, only in albania,

  • albanians are albanians in albania kosovo macedonia everywhere, you should read ur own history more, the bukuroshe mos u ben injorante se vetem traditat tona na kan dhan titullin si njerez te ndershem e besnik, se ju kosovaret e tashme ma shum pelqeni ti praktikoni traditat amerikane ajo esht pun qeter , keni humbur identitetin kombtar krejt, nuk them te behen si kjo ne video por femrat duhet pak me i shfletu librat e traditave e te kanunit ton

  • I think you mean raped.

    They look like dudes...if someone tried to rape them, the attacker would most definitely be gay. So he'd rip of the clothes and then be disappointed. :D

  • lame

  • albania*

  • oh gosh this makes albanian look like such an unsocial community, its terrible because these women are such a minority and theyre such a disgrace. its a shame to the image of the country, because in reality its not that bad over there!

  • I don't recall anyone not being able to marry if they wanted to be a virgin. Just don't have sex.

  • Traditionally, marriage is seen as the first step toward children. So marriage and celibacy just do not go hand in hand.

  • Interesting anthropology documentary. In retrospect, of course sworn virgins will become extinct, b/c they aren't contributing to population growth! It's sad that women have to give up the right to marry & bear children just to have equal rights... but as outsiders, is it fair to judge other cultures?

  • Agreed on all ends; in this country we could never imagine half the choices people abroad have to make - watch the video find it fascinating or move on to the next youtuber clip :o) End of story.

  • You wanted to see some soft porn posted by a director account named NationalGeographic...??

    HELLO???????

  • haloman all you probley do is sit and play halo while your mom makes you pizza pops

  • Screw women rights. Later, you'll see women be a dog.

  • Everyone should have rights, you fucking idiot.

  • men and women should have the same rights, the only reason i am saying this is because i love my mom(i am a guy)

  • That type of life is impossible in the U.S., rofl.

  • can they masterbate?

  • even if there was a rule against it, i doubt they would've succeed.

  • Not pleased. A badly designed website. Period.

  • A critique with NOTHING to back up your opinion, dalethomasdewitt. Very intelligent, indeed.

  • What an interesting woman.

  • Actually the proof is all around YouTube. People right and left are asking whom the current reply is directed towards when they could go to the "view all xxx comments" and decipher from the margin made tree. Unfortunately when there are 6000 comments the download time is unnerving. My frustration was early on before I knew of the long list. That is what my comment was about. Dale

  • And, last to tidy up the confusion a bit more. I was frustrated at the people whom construct YouTube. I admit thinking out loud like I did was not anything other than self centered expression. I'm sorry if I confused you for that time which beget your moment in comment generation on a different tack.

  • they should put her on that show "what not to wear". that would be the most radical transformation ever. I could see her wearing a nice pant suit with some heels.

  • Sounds like I got some work to do in Albania... MUWAHAHAHAHA!

    Now where'd I put my mickies....

    Lol