this song never fails to make me cry, rip tom gaskarth<3
alex is so strong but it does get on my nerves when fans try and find out every little detail he wants to keep it personal it is a private thing, respect that
Can't y'all just listen to the freakin song? That's why you clicked on the video right? So stop getting into others people's business especially if it's something as painful as this! I love the song :)
My good friend shot and killed my brother then killed himself last night. Ryan, I love you so much. I'll see you in my dreams, waiting to say, I miss you, I'm so sorry. 3 watch over me...
In my opinion. I think it's wrong that people are getting involved in Alex's personal business. It's turning into a 'He said but she said' game now. None of his business is any of yours. Just leave the past alone. What's done is done and the song was created. Just leave it.
PEOPLE SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT HIS BROTHER. IT'S NONE OF YOUR GODDAMNED BUSINESS. LISTEN TO THE FUCKING SONG AND DON'T DO ANYTHING ELSE. Don't you care how much all of you talking about it probably hurts Alex? Just shut the fuck up. Holy fucking shit.
You people that say he dies in his sleep are really freaking stupid. Alex said he committed suicide. Think of how much pain Alex goes through every day just knowing he's gone.
you can hear in alex's voice how hard it was to record this, i have lost my cousin to suicide i know how you feel. I wish alex knew that i was here for him as well, if music is the way that he can express himself then let him do that.
I can't even imagine losing my brother. He's 16 and does 3 sports. He may not always be the nicest to me but he really helps my with things like basketball and homework and stuff. I'm nervous about ever losing him because he's drank before. A lot..
I hate how all of the 'fans' stoop that low to make up names and pump for information from the band. It's Alex's own buisness, not yours. Isn't it enough to know that he had a brother that commit suicide, so he made a song about him? Havent you ever thought about how much hurt Alex could be getting by all of you asking and asking about it. Constently putting the memory of Tom back into his head? Some people are so ignorant.
i hate being th enew third wheel.... this song is somthing i can mope to. I know the real meaning, and it's amazing that Alex would do this. It's also helping the millions of people out there who are broken and need healing... like me... I love All Time Low more than I love anything else.,..... literally. <3
This song is amazing. I feeel Alex so much, and it's just so beautiful. Alex is an amazing kid, no matter what someone says. This song helps heal pain... whenever I"m mad at my dad for anything or im mad at my mom i jus tgo and listen to this song and it's just amazing... Alex Gaskarth is the reason why I live... this song is why I live <3 All Time Low.
My cousin took her own life two years ago. she was my best friend and i thought i could help her but i couldnt "i miss you, I'm so sorry" this song really means a lot to me :( <3 R.I.P Kristen <3
I have no idea what it would be like to lose my brother even though i i dont live with him ,told my mom that she could go fuck herself /hates her because my dad turned him agenst her just to hurt her and doesnt belive that my dad abused us I still love him to death and dont know what i would do without him because he is i the one that would wrestle with me when i was 5 tried to teach me to play guitar and played with me when i was super little and lots of other things .
when i was listening to this my brother walked in and just gave me a hug. i started crying on his shoulder. i love him so much, and i cant even imagine what this must feel like... i know what its like to lose someone you love, but this way, it probably doesnt come close
This song means more to me than most of you could imagine. When I was five my older brother shot himself. I understand all of this. The feelings, the anger, regret, all of it. It's an extremely hard thing to go through. Losing your brother isn't the same as losing a grandparent or an aunt or uncle. It's like losing your best friend. It changes your life forever. Alex had so much bravery for writing this, and I'm glad he did. Songs are the best way to express your pain.
@braceface11414 im not trying to be mean, but your basically saying that other peoples grief cant relate to this song or is as strong as yours is. grief is grief, it doesnt matter what or who died but it still tears you apart. just try to remember that other people are in pain and can relate to this song.
@Helskarth ....oh, I thought that's what really happend, I whent on the Internet and checked, people were saying that he did commit suicide.... I don't know the truth though.... Do you know what this songs about then.?
He was my little brother. I'm fully aware of all the facts. You're just repeating an internet rumour, based on an inaccurate interpretation of some song lyrics written by an angry and upset kid. Suicide is a horrible thing to say about someone when it isn't true. Just like everyone got his name wrong, they got this wrong too. Why can't people just let him rest in peace?
@Helskarth so now your saying your alex gaskarth?wow and you have a total of one subscriber and was made august 23rd, 2011 so not even a week, and your profile also says you are 42. nice try though.
@pepsiqueendoll Eh? Where have I said that? Don't try to drag me into your juvenile game playing. Leave Alex out of this... this is about you accusing my little brother of committing suicide.. which is so untrue. It is a hurtful lie. Please stop spreading it.
@Helskarth your first comment was he did not commit suicide. I assumed you were talking about alex gaskarths brother because thats what all the comments and the song is about. you did not specify that you were talking about anyone else. Then when i asked you for proof you said that he was your little brother. its not my fault u didnt clarify.
@pepsiqueendoll Alex is my brother too.. does that make it any clearer? Please stop perpetuating the myth about my other bro suiciding.. it's not true, and it's not nice.
@pepsiqueendoll But is there one where he talks about him committing suicide? No.. because it's a dirty great lie, made up by vultures like you. ..But thanks for playing along, now my comments can sit here on this page, and hopefully some of the more intelligent ATL fans will take note x
@Helskarth a dirty great lie? wow that's something coming from someone who is claiming to be alex and tom's sibling. and you think i enjoy bringing up someone's death. why would i want to make up rumours that hurt people. but substance abuse often leads to suicide. i am not the one who made up that his brother commited suicide. im done talking to you.
He did it because he was an alcoholic Alex said so in Rock Sound magazine. He talks about the whole thing. Now that he talked about it shut the fuck up with all the bullshit stories and leave the man alone.
There are only 3 songs that really get to me, This song, Why - Rascal Flatts and Tears In Heaven - Eric Clapton.
I really feel for Alex and to some extent understand how much it hurts to lose someone like that. My Granddad starved himself to death, He died Friday November 13th 2009
@missepicpanda nobody but there family and maybe the rest of the band truelly knows
people say they kknow and make up stuff or repeat what they saw/believe but nobody realluy knows sooo i would like to know to but then again i dont only cuz no one really needs to know they didnt know hiom
but nobody knows why [fan wise] he killed himself except the family
@WhatCanISay5 most of the info you have is right, but ATL did form in 2004 and came out with the EP "The Three Words to Remember in Dealing with the End". I assume that Alex's brother died after the band came out with this otherwise it might have been difficult for Alex to perform in the studio. Also (even though So Wrong, It's Right was the bands 1st nation album) The Party Scene was their first album, and also noted, PUOSU came out in between the 2
I can't believe I was so selfish as to try and kill myself. Henry, big brother. I'm sorry. I understand why you were furious at the hospital. I'll never do that to you ever again. I love you far too much.
I'm so sorry alex, i don't know how you must of felt and i'm not going to pretend like i do, your brave and i love you for it, i dont have a brother but i do have two younger sisters and if i was to lose any of them i know it would break me and i wouldn't be able to recover, but you did. You're inspiraing. And i know this was years ago, but you must still hurt and think about him everyday, all my love goes out to youu and your family, much love <3<3<3
I'm so sorry alex, i don't know how you must of felt and i'm not going to pretend like i do, your brave and i love you for it, i dont have a brother but i do have two younger sisters and if i was to lose any of them i know it would break me and i wouldn't be able to recover, but you did. You're inspiraing. And i know this was years ago, but you must still hurt and think about him everyday, all my love goes out to youu and your family <3<3<3
i did'nt know alex had a brother when i listened to this then i started reading comments and saw his brother had died. I was in tears i felt so lucky i have a brother and a sister. We fight all time and im the youngest so i get picked on but we all know we all love each other. Alex i am so sorry!
I havent dealed with losing at someone by commiting suicide,
When I just cut myself I think of how my love ones would feel if i lost my life,I am Trying not to think of cutting and suicide,just think of how much pain I would put them in ,is hardfor me to deal.
I'm so sorry. I wish I could've been stronger, better, nicer, kinder, everything I wasn't... I realize now that you meant more to me than I was willing to admit. It hurts to breathe anytime I think of you. I feel dead inside. You were always the person I went to when I needed help with anything. You promised you'd always be there... Why aren't you here now? As much as I miss you, I hate you. How could you do this? Why did you? Why did you go witho
I read all about the death of Alex's brother coz I had NO IDEA WHATSOEVER, but after I read it I listened to this again and I just broke down and cried for Alex
Sometimes I'm holding the knife and I wonder whether anyone would miss me if... but then I think. Alex wrote a song about his brother that contains so much pain and sadness and love, and I know - somehow, I just KNOW - that someone loves me as much as Alex loves Daniel. RIP Daniel <3
this song makes me realise how lucky i am that i still have my brother with me. even though like most brothers and sisters we fight all the time when you listen to this song you realise how painful life would be without them.
alex is an amazing song writer, and by reading the comments on here this song has brought majority of us to tears.
RIP Hannah, I'm sorry i'm not strong like Alex and able to do something like this in memory of you, but I promise I will never forget you, I hope your not in pain no more sis and you can rest peacefully, I miss you </3 xxxxxxxxxxxx
rip to alexs brother. rip to my cousin. rip to everyones brothers and sisters and boyfriends and girlfriends that im reading about. this song says it all.
The first time I heard this I didn't cry. I just thought it was a nice song, I didn't really listen to the lyrics. The second time I felt a bit sad, I just thought his brother had left home or something. Then I read an article saying Daniel hung himself and Alex wrote this song for him and I cried for days. I couldn't believe it. I felt like shit. But now whenever I feel like nobody cares about me, I listen to the pain in his voice and convince myself not to do it. Thank you Alex.
this song honestly brought out the tears i've been holding in since the day i knew my half older brother never wanted to see his family including me, i dearly miss him&&it feels lyk he's deadu.u
WOW i cried over this song and i really never cry over a song. I may say i hate my bros but if i ever lost one i would probably ball out tears it makes me feel so lucky now. And i am truly sorry for his lost> :(
@cristall789 i also have kind of the same problem..i lost my brother to drugs..my best friend was 15 and died of luchimia when i was 14 my mother broke every bone in her body from her neck down and was in a coma for six months. i havent had a relationship with my real father since i was 4 years old. people make fun of me cuz im depressed and cause i listen to music like this and screamo. I know what its like to lose somebody...
@ZombieKid964 yeah i know. i had my time when the only thing i wanted was to run away. i did everything to hide it. I had a smile on my face 24/7, and never cried. I still keep that facade up. And stuff like this, people like Alex help me and gives me hope. I know how it is for you. My mother had cancer and since that everything went bad. If you want to talk, send me a message, yeah? (:
First time i heard this song, i cried (seriously), second time it made me think about life, and it made me think about all the people who have these thoughts aind actually do it, it makes me feel like crying cause its horrible, i just might be one person but i care about everyone, not the bad though. if there was a way to tell them i cared, i would.
alex im very sorry bout your brother my sister commited suicide to i think i know what your going throw i no how hard it is i know it sux but it always does get better its been two years sience i lost my sister who was 13 when she died i was only 8 (i know i sound gay cuz im only 10 lol) but i was sooo young and ive mad it just fine good lu
This makes me think of my now dead boyfriend my boyfriends parents were fighting alot and he was being teased,at this time i had moved out of the state and couldnt be there to help him and his dad also beat him every day...so one day his little sister moved in with his aunt and at school that day somebody picked on him really badly then his dad beat him and he couldnt take it anymore he killed himself and nobody found him till the next day and the person that found him was his best friend
A week ago today my brother drank himself to death at the age of 27. Three days later my 25 year old brother killed himself. This has become the soundtrack of my miserable life.
This song makes me miss my brother. He lives in a different country to me so I rarely get to see him or even speak to him. We always had a good relationship.. Though yeah, we argued about silly things so often :') I miss him </3 But at least I can still talk to him, however rarely that is. To anyone who has lost their brother, sister, or anyone close to them, RIP.
RIP Ryan Theel. You were the best big brother anyone could ever ask for. I wish you knew how many people loved you. Maybe you wouldnt have done this..
This Song Always Makes Me Push Through Hard Times. He Shows A Little Peice Of His Soal With Every Word. Its Truely Amazing That He Pushed Through All That, But Even More Amazing That He Can Put What A Lot Of Us Have Gone Through In A Song For All To Hear. This Song Means The World To Me, And I Sure That It A Lot More To Alex. Alexander Gaskarth, Thank You For This Song, And More Than That Thank You For Letting Us Listen. Im Sorry About Your Brother, Everything Gets Worse Before It Gets Better.
this song makes me cry everytime i listen 2 it..it reminds me of how my best friend that was basically my bro who killed himself a while ago../= RIP Daniel!!! so so sorry Alex. )=
i love how all time low sing completely different songs.. to this, beautiful, meaning song, to i feel like dancing tonight.. shows that they are brillaint<33
My brother tried killing myself last summer, right in front of my eyes. I saw him break down, and there was absolutely nothing I could do to stop him. It was the saddest thing I had ever seen in my life and it breaks my heart just thinking about it. If I would have lost him, I honestly don't know where I'd be right now.
Rest in peace Daniel and a big sorry to Alex, because I know what it feels like.
i can relate very greatly to what happened to him. it was early morning of march 2nd, 2008. i got a call from my dad and he tells me that my brother has passed. it killed me for a long time, and later on i found out he was a victim to road rage. his car was smashed into a bank column multiple times. to anyone reading this, i hope this helps you gain some kind of closure for a loved one you may have lost. R.I.P Andrew Martin Santos. i love you and miss you.
This song means so much. No one deserves to lose someone who is close to them. Alex Gaskarth, I am so sorry of what happened to your brother, Daniel Gaskarth. He will be missed forever. Alex Gaskarth does not deserve of his brother passing. I feel the same way. My grandfather passed when I was only 4 years old. Stay strong. <333
there's something on the internet saying that daniel and alex got in a fight, and daniel ran away. it said that when they found daniel he was dead and alex never got to apoligize and tell him how much he loves him.. i hope that not true D: but alex is such a good guy. r.i.p. daniel <3
every time i'm feeling depressed and that like just want to end my life just listen to this song. reminds me that there are people out there that do care and that if i did there is other people would be hurting. all time low has literally has save my life about 10 times now. and do know haw t feel to lose someone close to you due to suicide i LOVE all time low and no one can change that <3
I've Been listening to this song for a long time....But it still makes me tear up. I Feel so bad for Alex. No one should go through that Stuff. I Know he's okay Now, And Im pretty sure he's thankful he Has Rian,Zack,Jack, And The crew there for him..
those 6 people who disliked the song don't know what the songs REALLY about. 'cause once you learn that it's all about his suicidal brother, its completely different. them 6 people don't know what it's like to loose someone, especially when they purposefully kill themselves. im so sorry,
"This goes out to anybody that feels alone , anybody that has ever felt betrayed , anybody who doesn't feel comfortable in their own skin because of the people around them. Be who you are no matter what! I swear to God you are the most fucking beautiful people, don't let anybody change your mind."
I have an acoustic solo project called Big City Breakdown and I am heavily influenced by All Time Low, so if you like them then you should check out my channel :)
Also, if you like my stuff, pleeeease like this comment so more people will read it, it's very hard to get people to listen so it would mean a lot :)
@HaleyNicoleSumner I am so sorry to hear tht.......... i rly am..... but like my mom always sed to me ' dnt cry becuz its ovr. smile cuz it happened' idk if tht helped at all...... all i kno is tht it always helped me wen i was missing sum1....... stay strong.....
Takes a brave man to write a song about a something so life changing and painful to happen and have the guts to sing it , Sorry about your brother Alex, I know I would never be able to do that if my brother died, this song makes me aprcate my older brother more and I should spend time with him because others arent as lucky, I am sorry about your brother Alex I truly am and thankyou for writing the song xx
This song made me Cry myself to sleep.I'm so sorry Gavin,I shouldn't have said those things to you.Now you're gone and I can never apoligize.I Miss you,So much.You were my Safe place,My Rock,Now your gone.I guess it's just me against the world now.
I feel soo sorry for Alex :::'(:( did his brother really kill himself bcoz Atl got famous n he felt unapreciated? I Dnt blame anyone the least Alex but that's what I heard I want this song to be played at my funeral
@LittleScarlett1998 No he didn't commit suicide because All Time Low got famous. He killed himself in 2004. Which was 1 year after the band "formed and 3 years before So Wrong It's Right came out. All Time Low was not even close to "famous" before then. And no matter what anyone says nobody will really know why he did it. In respect to Alex I don't think it is honestly any of our business anyway.
This songgg<3
Managemeimmamessx3 5 hours ago
this still is my favourite song about all time low
Rkicksass 3 days ago
my all time favourite song of atl.
Rkicksass 3 days ago
I <3 THIS SONG!!!!
Brooke thinks it's sad
I agree, but still luv it
sammyandbrooke1 1 week ago
My friends get so annoyed when I'm listening to this song and ask what song I'm listening to and they hear it and go on about how sad it is
Or when I play it in the car......
I love this song the lyrics are so clever
Sparklygirl329 1 week ago
this song never fails to make me cry :/ <33
jaz59338 2 weeks ago in playlist All time Low PLaylist
Dedicated to le bestfriend <3 R.I.P Ruby :'(
JulietsShadow 2 weeks ago 3
Dedicated to my brother... I miss you terribly.
BloodlustEnchantress 2 weeks ago 5
Waiting to say i miss you i'm so sorry. :(
czalwayshurt013 2 weeks ago
alex, you're so strong <3
lillythepoptartninja 3 weeks ago 3
this song never fails to make me cry, rip tom gaskarth<3
alex is so strong but it does get on my nerves when fans try and find out every little detail he wants to keep it personal it is a private thing, respect that
ATLemilyreece 3 weeks ago 5
I MISS YOU, DADDY! <3
I haven't seen my daddy for 6 months..
He lives in another country, and now he has his own family.
I can't tell what's worse, loosing someone you know, who loved you, or getting thinking that my daddy doesn't want me.
It makes me feel worthless and I'm feeling numb after now 6 months.
I miss being daddy's little girl, but know he has a new 'daddy's boy'...
A7xBjorkJ 1 month ago 8
This song makes me cry, EVERY TIME i hear it, and i NEVER cry! RIP tom, and stay strong Alex <3
attackofthecookeh 1 month ago 5
i love this song! :)
TheValarieShow 1 month ago
Can't y'all just listen to the freakin song? That's why you clicked on the video right? So stop getting into others people's business especially if it's something as painful as this! I love the song :)
zoeygirrl15 1 month ago 2
My good friend shot and killed my brother then killed himself last night. Ryan, I love you so much. I'll see you in my dreams, waiting to say, I miss you, I'm so sorry. 3 watch over me...
CuppyCakeBaby08 1 month ago 5
Brb bawling my eyes out.
ChicagoAnimeGirl96 2 months ago 6
In my opinion. I think it's wrong that people are getting involved in Alex's personal business. It's turning into a 'He said but she said' game now. None of his business is any of yours. Just leave the past alone. What's done is done and the song was created. Just leave it.
TeeJTiger 2 months ago 5
PEOPLE SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT HIS BROTHER. IT'S NONE OF YOUR GODDAMNED BUSINESS. LISTEN TO THE FUCKING SONG AND DON'T DO ANYTHING ELSE. Don't you care how much all of you talking about it probably hurts Alex? Just shut the fuck up. Holy fucking shit.
nananaomira 2 months ago 24
Stop talking about Alex's business like it's yours. Just shut up please.
aik96203 2 months ago
You people that say he dies in his sleep are really freaking stupid. Alex said he committed suicide. Think of how much pain Alex goes through every day just knowing he's gone.
dolphinsrule00 2 months ago 3
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definitely28 2 months ago
@definitely28 he did commit suicide, Alex told everyone on twitter
MCRxa7xfan 2 months ago
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definitely28 2 months ago
you can hear in alex's voice how hard it was to record this, i have lost my cousin to suicide i know how you feel. I wish alex knew that i was here for him as well, if music is the way that he can express himself then let him do that.
BecGaskarth 2 months ago 2
Alex's and his brother had an argument the night he passed away... Alex never got to say goodbye.
ILikeTheRaain 2 months ago 2
noone knows exactly how his brother passed away. so just listen to the song. its really amazing :3
ILYrawrxX 3 months ago
R.I.P Kyle
Miss you Loads xxxx
TheFraminghanleyfan1 3 months ago
I can't even imagine losing my brother. He's 16 and does 3 sports. He may not always be the nicest to me but he really helps my with things like basketball and homework and stuff. I'm nervous about ever losing him because he's drank before. A lot..
misslauren4255 3 months ago 6
R.I.P Tom
<3 :'(
IXJet2001XI 3 months ago 2
R.I.P Tom
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RedundantOfficial 3 months ago
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The song isn't about Lisa and Lisa is alive :/ It's about Alex's brother Tom
SpiritTheMustang13 3 months ago
I wish my good friend Eric, who died when a car run over him, could listen to this! I miss him so much =(
TheNitahndz 3 months ago
R.I.P. Lisa <3 :'(
MelancholyRainbowROX 3 months ago
this song makes me cry
theheellosunshine 3 months ago
I hate how all of the 'fans' stoop that low to make up names and pump for information from the band. It's Alex's own buisness, not yours. Isn't it enough to know that he had a brother that commit suicide, so he made a song about him? Havent you ever thought about how much hurt Alex could be getting by all of you asking and asking about it. Constently putting the memory of Tom back into his head? Some people are so ignorant.
xGottaSmilex 3 months ago 78
R.I.P Tom <3 :( xx
BeccaBabeyy2010 3 months ago
R.I.P. Rai <3 I miss you. this song is beautiful :3
FreakShowMassacre101 3 months ago
i hate being th enew third wheel.... this song is somthing i can mope to. I know the real meaning, and it's amazing that Alex would do this. It's also helping the millions of people out there who are broken and need healing... like me... I love All Time Low more than I love anything else.,..... literally. <3
xxsingmetosleepatlxx 3 months ago
This song is amazing. I feeel Alex so much, and it's just so beautiful. Alex is an amazing kid, no matter what someone says. This song helps heal pain... whenever I"m mad at my dad for anything or im mad at my mom i jus tgo and listen to this song and it's just amazing... Alex Gaskarth is the reason why I live... this song is why I live <3 All Time Low.
xxsingmetosleepatlxx 3 months ago
this song is genuine and touching and its gd to see a soft side to alex...i can imagine how hard it was for him to write this song x
MrChossie 4 months ago
This song is just amazing he put so much feeling into it. :)
Taylorjade54 4 months ago
My cousin took her own life two years ago. she was my best friend and i thought i could help her but i couldnt "i miss you, I'm so sorry" this song really means a lot to me :( <3 R.I.P Kristen <3
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tokiohotellover221 4 months ago
i cry every time i hear this song but it's like Alex is mad at his brother
ExstaticEmily 4 months ago
@ExstaticEmily i agree
blessthefalllover1 3 months ago
I have no idea what it would be like to lose my brother even though i i dont live with him ,told my mom that she could go fuck herself /hates her because my dad turned him agenst her just to hurt her and doesnt belive that my dad abused us I still love him to death and dont know what i would do without him because he is i the one that would wrestle with me when i was 5 tried to teach me to play guitar and played with me when i was super little and lots of other things .
meowmix865 4 months ago
when i was listening to this my brother walked in and just gave me a hug. i started crying on his shoulder. i love him so much, and i cant even imagine what this must feel like... i know what its like to lose someone you love, but this way, it probably doesnt come close
kantelope100 4 months ago
Tom didnt suicide, he died cause he drank too much. So now we all know this we can shut up and listen to the music :)
ImNotEatable 4 months ago
@awezummee his name is Tom.
iloveloudmusicXD 4 months ago
i miss you,i'm so sorry <3
czalwayshurt013 4 months ago
0:47 Screeeeam !
best part <3
ReemAbdullah8 4 months ago
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ReemAbdullah8 4 months ago
Seriously guys this is someones family you're talking about not a tv show stop trying to get 'proof' its horrible, have a little bit of respect.
MeganxD15 5 months ago
i lost my aunty four years ago to cancer it was so sad but my mum always told me that she is looking down on us always and forever<3
love you alex<3
katyPaynexx 5 months ago
This song means more to me than most of you could imagine. When I was five my older brother shot himself. I understand all of this. The feelings, the anger, regret, all of it. It's an extremely hard thing to go through. Losing your brother isn't the same as losing a grandparent or an aunt or uncle. It's like losing your best friend. It changes your life forever. Alex had so much bravery for writing this, and I'm glad he did. Songs are the best way to express your pain.
braceface11414 5 months ago
@braceface11414 im not trying to be mean, but your basically saying that other peoples grief cant relate to this song or is as strong as yours is. grief is grief, it doesnt matter what or who died but it still tears you apart. just try to remember that other people are in pain and can relate to this song.
pepsiqueendoll 5 months ago
7 people are heartless snm alex you honestly rock <3
crazygalno1 5 months ago 3
im so sorry you had to write a song like this...you inspire me <3
cwizzzle94 5 months ago
alex your amazing
eydemeister 5 months ago
@Helskarth ....oh, I thought that's what really happend, I whent on the Internet and checked, people were saying that he did commit suicide.... I don't know the truth though.... Do you know what this songs about then.?
SMeXIeCUPCAKe 5 months ago
He did NOT commit suicide. What a dreadful thing to make up about somebody.
Helskarth 5 months ago
@Helskarth incorrect. he did commit suicide.
pepsiqueendoll 5 months ago
@pepsiqueendoll no really, he didn't. Please stop spreading lies.
Helskarth 5 months ago
@Helskarth and where is your proof that he didnt? this song almost clearly says that he did. it is known that he did.
pepsiqueendoll 5 months ago
He was my little brother. I'm fully aware of all the facts. You're just repeating an internet rumour, based on an inaccurate interpretation of some song lyrics written by an angry and upset kid. Suicide is a horrible thing to say about someone when it isn't true. Just like everyone got his name wrong, they got this wrong too. Why can't people just let him rest in peace?
Helskarth 5 months ago
@Helskarth so now your saying your alex gaskarth?wow and you have a total of one subscriber and was made august 23rd, 2011 so not even a week, and your profile also says you are 42. nice try though.
pepsiqueendoll 5 months ago
@pepsiqueendoll Eh? Where have I said that? Don't try to drag me into your juvenile game playing. Leave Alex out of this... this is about you accusing my little brother of committing suicide.. which is so untrue. It is a hurtful lie. Please stop spreading it.
Helskarth 5 months ago
@Helskarth your first comment was he did not commit suicide. I assumed you were talking about alex gaskarths brother because thats what all the comments and the song is about. you did not specify that you were talking about anyone else. Then when i asked you for proof you said that he was your little brother. its not my fault u didnt clarify.
pepsiqueendoll 5 months ago
@pepsiqueendoll Alex is my brother too.. does that make it any clearer? Please stop perpetuating the myth about my other bro suiciding.. it's not true, and it's not nice.
Helskarth 5 months ago
@Helskarth oh so now your his other sibling. boy, girl i dont know. where is your proof? its the internet. anyone can say they are anyone.
pepsiqueendoll 5 months ago
@pepsiqueendoll Can't they just... some fucker made up a lie about my little brother committing suicide.
Helskarth 5 months ago
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meowmix865 5 months ago
@Helskarth there is an interview where we talks about his brother having trouble with alcohol.
pepsiqueendoll 5 months ago
@pepsiqueendoll But is there one where he talks about him committing suicide? No.. because it's a dirty great lie, made up by vultures like you. ..But thanks for playing along, now my comments can sit here on this page, and hopefully some of the more intelligent ATL fans will take note x
Helskarth 5 months ago
@Helskarth a dirty great lie? wow that's something coming from someone who is claiming to be alex and tom's sibling. and you think i enjoy bringing up someone's death. why would i want to make up rumours that hurt people. but substance abuse often leads to suicide. i am not the one who made up that his brother commited suicide. im done talking to you.
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meowmix865 5 months ago
For anyone that believes Alex's brother's name is Daniel, a 'fan' made that up and Alex told everyone on twitter that his name was really Tom.
xXMegan920Xx 5 months ago 66
Sing mee to sleep......
MeganGoldthorpexx 5 months ago
He did it because he was an alcoholic Alex said so in Rock Sound magazine. He talks about the whole thing. Now that he talked about it shut the fuck up with all the bullshit stories and leave the man alone.
moonpigseatmoonfigs 5 months ago
wow.. much Respect for this!
linido12 5 months ago
There are only 3 songs that really get to me, This song, Why - Rascal Flatts and Tears In Heaven - Eric Clapton.
I really feel for Alex and to some extent understand how much it hurts to lose someone like that. My Granddad starved himself to death, He died Friday November 13th 2009
FearlessRLC96 5 months ago
This was for alex bro who commited suicide
missepicpanda 5 months ago
@missepicpanda nobody but there family and maybe the rest of the band truelly knows
people say they kknow and make up stuff or repeat what they saw/believe but nobody realluy knows sooo i would like to know to but then again i dont only cuz no one really needs to know they didnt know hiom
but nobody knows why [fan wise] he killed himself except the family
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@missepicpanda He did not commit suicide! Please stop spreading lies.
Helskarth 5 months ago
@WhatCanISay5 most of the info you have is right, but ATL did form in 2004 and came out with the EP "The Three Words to Remember in Dealing with the End". I assume that Alex's brother died after the band came out with this otherwise it might have been difficult for Alex to perform in the studio. Also (even though So Wrong, It's Right was the bands 1st nation album) The Party Scene was their first album, and also noted, PUOSU came out in between the 2
sloppy53 5 months ago
I can't believe I was so selfish as to try and kill myself. Henry, big brother. I'm sorry. I understand why you were furious at the hospital. I'll never do that to you ever again. I love you far too much.
UtterlyCrazyX 5 months ago
I'm so sorry alex, i don't know how you must of felt and i'm not going to pretend like i do, your brave and i love you for it, i dont have a brother but i do have two younger sisters and if i was to lose any of them i know it would break me and i wouldn't be able to recover, but you did. You're inspiraing. And i know this was years ago, but you must still hurt and think about him everyday, all my love goes out to youu and your family, much love <3<3<3
MeganGoldthorpexx 5 months ago 2
I'm so sorry alex, i don't know how you must of felt and i'm not going to pretend like i do, your brave and i love you for it, i dont have a brother but i do have two younger sisters and if i was to lose any of them i know it would break me and i wouldn't be able to recover, but you did. You're inspiraing. And i know this was years ago, but you must still hurt and think about him everyday, all my love goes out to youu and your family <3<3<3
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MeganGoldthorpexx 5 months ago
does anyone know if this is from the deluxe version or the regular version of put up or shut up?
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TheSuperalexxm 5 months ago
i did'nt know alex had a brother when i listened to this then i started reading comments and saw his brother had died. I was in tears i felt so lucky i have a brother and a sister. We fight all time and im the youngest so i get picked on but we all know we all love each other. Alex i am so sorry!
xxgigirocksxx 5 months ago
I would hang out with my brother more, if he would take them time to spend it with me </3
doglover2004able 5 months ago
I havent dealed with losing at someone by commiting suicide,
When I just cut myself I think of how my love ones would feel if i lost my life,I am Trying not to think of cutting and suicide,just think of how much pain I would put them in ,is hardfor me to deal.
Am sorry for your lost Alex your so strong ♥
sunshine26ist 6 months ago 19
@sunshine26ist alex's bother didn't commit suicide he passed away in his sleep.
xTheGhostOfSarahx 3 months ago
Suicide. The most painful way to lose someone.
I'm so sorry. I wish I could've been stronger, better, nicer, kinder, everything I wasn't... I realize now that you meant more to me than I was willing to admit. It hurts to breathe anytime I think of you. I feel dead inside. You were always the person I went to when I needed help with anything. You promised you'd always be there... Why aren't you here now? As much as I miss you, I hate you. How could you do this? Why did you? Why did you go witho
lostinthesummerheat 6 months ago 4
I read all about the death of Alex's brother coz I had NO IDEA WHATSOEVER, but after I read it I listened to this again and I just broke down and cried for Alex
maleenascool 6 months ago 2
Sometimes I'm holding the knife and I wonder whether anyone would miss me if... but then I think. Alex wrote a song about his brother that contains so much pain and sadness and love, and I know - somehow, I just KNOW - that someone loves me as much as Alex loves Daniel. RIP Daniel <3
0sexiest0nerd0 6 months ago 4
this song makes me realise how lucky i am that i still have my brother with me. even though like most brothers and sisters we fight all the time when you listen to this song you realise how painful life would be without them.
alex is an amazing song writer, and by reading the comments on here this song has brought majority of us to tears.
sweetestsinsteph 6 months ago
Im in tears.
imyodancingbabee 6 months ago
RIP Hannah, I'm sorry i'm not strong like Alex and able to do something like this in memory of you, but I promise I will never forget you, I hope your not in pain no more sis and you can rest peacefully, I miss you </3 xxxxxxxxxxxx
ImWhoIWantToBe 6 months ago 3
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ImWhoIWantToBe 6 months ago
you can hear alex trying to hold back the tears :'(
laurenabbie257 6 months ago
rip to alexs brother. rip to my cousin. rip to everyones brothers and sisters and boyfriends and girlfriends that im reading about. this song says it all.
kaj22996 6 months ago 3
The first time I heard this I didn't cry. I just thought it was a nice song, I didn't really listen to the lyrics. The second time I felt a bit sad, I just thought his brother had left home or something. Then I read an article saying Daniel hung himself and Alex wrote this song for him and I cried for days. I couldn't believe it. I felt like shit. But now whenever I feel like nobody cares about me, I listen to the pain in his voice and convince myself not to do it. Thank you Alex.
xETFATLTWOCxMRx 6 months ago 3
i cried over this,im a guy :') i <3 alltime low nohomo
tingler15 6 months ago 2
this song honestly brought out the tears i've been holding in since the day i knew my half older brother never wanted to see his family including me, i dearly miss him&&it feels lyk he's deadu.u
punkyypwincess788 6 months ago
WOW i cried over this song and i really never cry over a song. I may say i hate my bros but if i ever lost one i would probably ball out tears it makes me feel so lucky now. And i am truly sorry for his lost> :(
AliKattMeow 6 months ago 3
seriously. some pèople are like "i dont give a fuck bout him" or "i want to feel, and will pretend I feel bad for him cause his famous.."
but the thing is, a lot of these people dont know what its like to lose someone.
I lost my brother to drugs, and he walked out of our family when I was around 7, and im 15 now. I found out not so long ago tho.
So I have to say I absolutely love Alex, but this song is the only thing that calms me down when I need it. Thanks Alex. <3
cristall789 6 months ago 62
@cristall789 i also have kind of the same problem..i lost my brother to drugs..my best friend was 15 and died of luchimia when i was 14 my mother broke every bone in her body from her neck down and was in a coma for six months. i havent had a relationship with my real father since i was 4 years old. people make fun of me cuz im depressed and cause i listen to music like this and screamo. I know what its like to lose somebody...
ZombieKid964 4 months ago in playlist All Time Low Playlist
@ZombieKid964 yeah i know. i had my time when the only thing i wanted was to run away. i did everything to hide it. I had a smile on my face 24/7, and never cried. I still keep that facade up. And stuff like this, people like Alex help me and gives me hope. I know how it is for you. My mother had cancer and since that everything went bad. If you want to talk, send me a message, yeah? (:
cristall789 4 months ago
First time i heard this song, i cried (seriously), second time it made me think about life, and it made me think about all the people who have these thoughts aind actually do it, it makes me feel like crying cause its horrible, i just might be one person but i care about everyone, not the bad though. if there was a way to tell them i cared, i would.
AhoyItsCapnChris 6 months ago 3
Daniel Gaskarth. R.I.P <3
awezummee 6 months ago 6
alex im very sorry bout your brother my sister commited suicide to i think i know what your going throw i no how hard it is i know it sux but it always does get better its been two years sience i lost my sister who was 13 when she died i was only 8 (i know i sound gay cuz im only 10 lol) but i was sooo young and ive mad it just fine good lu
ck ;)
Jinn10Marie123 6 months ago
This makes me think of my now dead boyfriend my boyfriends parents were fighting alot and he was being teased,at this time i had moved out of the state and couldnt be there to help him and his dad also beat him every day...so one day his little sister moved in with his aunt and at school that day somebody picked on him really badly then his dad beat him and he couldnt take it anymore he killed himself and nobody found him till the next day and the person that found him was his best friend
peaceloveandhopeful 6 months ago
this song gives me chills
DearMaria1988 6 months ago
A week ago today my brother drank himself to death at the age of 27. Three days later my 25 year old brother killed himself. This has become the soundtrack of my miserable life.
MyAmbitionsToBeHappy 6 months ago 6
This song makes me miss my brother. He lives in a different country to me so I rarely get to see him or even speak to him. We always had a good relationship.. Though yeah, we argued about silly things so often :') I miss him </3 But at least I can still talk to him, however rarely that is. To anyone who has lost their brother, sister, or anyone close to them, RIP.
DaniDamagee 6 months ago
This song is amazing. <3
hayalyssaxaddiction 6 months ago
This song always makes me cry when i listen to it. Such beautiful words even with such a sad meaning behind them.
kellieKAPOW01 7 months ago
6 people dont have a heart when alex pours his heart out in this song
sFPyrox 7 months ago 3
How the fuck can u dislike a song like this where he truly pours his heart out?
0oWHOTHAMANo0 7 months ago 4
6 people don't have a freaking heart.
R.I.P Daniel, we'll always keep you in our hearts. <3
Cammydgaf 7 months ago 6
RIP Ryan Theel. You were the best big brother anyone could ever ask for. I wish you knew how many people loved you. Maybe you wouldnt have done this..
lovethethingsunseen 7 months ago 3
I cried.
xdropdeadveghead 7 months ago 2
Most Of The Time People Dont Dislike The Song, Just The Video
atapia95 7 months ago 4
@atapia95 I agree. I've disliked vids of songs like this i LOVE but i can barely read the lyrics
Stargirlz051 7 months ago
Sorry I'm not a big fan but when did Alexs brother die??
xXCharlieeMXx 7 months ago
@xXCharlieeMXx 2004
4861302 7 months ago
@4861302 Oh ok thanks!! :)
xXCharlieeMXx 7 months ago
ahh...240p we meet again.
CiscosPlaythroughs 7 months ago
This Song Always Makes Me Push Through Hard Times. He Shows A Little Peice Of His Soal With Every Word. Its Truely Amazing That He Pushed Through All That, But Even More Amazing That He Can Put What A Lot Of Us Have Gone Through In A Song For All To Hear. This Song Means The World To Me, And I Sure That It A Lot More To Alex. Alexander Gaskarth, Thank You For This Song, And More Than That Thank You For Letting Us Listen. Im Sorry About Your Brother, Everything Gets Worse Before It Gets Better.
chaceingsunshine 7 months ago 25
RIP Daniel, at least you're in a better place ♥♥
Jenz767 7 months ago 9
I hope Alex's brother,Daniel is never dead.
RIP Daniel
abcloveryan 7 months ago 11
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beasianLIKEABOSS 7 months ago
this song makes me cry everytime i listen 2 it..it reminds me of how my best friend that was basically my bro who killed himself a while ago../= RIP Daniel!!! so so sorry Alex. )=
seductivesabrina666 7 months ago 3
This is such a beautiful song. You can hear the emotion in his voice. Its beautiful.
HbombutifL 7 months ago 3
i love how all time low sing completely different songs.. to this, beautiful, meaning song, to i feel like dancing tonight.. shows that they are brillaint<33
MissBethh1 7 months ago 3
I've never really lost anybody close to me to a death, but this song always makes me cry. We Love You Daniel <3
mobilefreak123 7 months ago
RIP Daniel.
I love Alex for being strong to write song like that. The best man ever.
LittleryBee 8 months ago
RIP daniel
flyleaf4lifey 8 months ago
My brother tried killing myself last summer, right in front of my eyes. I saw him break down, and there was absolutely nothing I could do to stop him. It was the saddest thing I had ever seen in my life and it breaks my heart just thinking about it. If I would have lost him, I honestly don't know where I'd be right now.
Rest in peace Daniel and a big sorry to Alex, because I know what it feels like.
tiamans0n 8 months ago
Hey every body!! thumbs up for Daniel!!!
MrJellyjam24 8 months ago 6
I never lost someone i love by death. And it scares me so much, i cant even think it without crying like a little baby.
GetRellx 8 months ago 9
Poor Alex.
Everytime I Hear This Song I Want To Cry. ):
ILoveOliSykes5 8 months ago
i can relate very greatly to what happened to him. it was early morning of march 2nd, 2008. i got a call from my dad and he tells me that my brother has passed. it killed me for a long time, and later on i found out he was a victim to road rage. his car was smashed into a bank column multiple times. to anyone reading this, i hope this helps you gain some kind of closure for a loved one you may have lost. R.I.P Andrew Martin Santos. i love you and miss you.
DRUG54R3HUG5 8 months ago
This song means so much. No one deserves to lose someone who is close to them. Alex Gaskarth, I am so sorry of what happened to your brother, Daniel Gaskarth. He will be missed forever. Alex Gaskarth does not deserve of his brother passing. I feel the same way. My grandfather passed when I was only 4 years old. Stay strong. <333
AllTimeLowLover2003 8 months ago 21
omg i feel so bad for alex……….):
R.I.P daniel….. we'll miss u
pandaluvr2599 8 months ago
there's something on the internet saying that daniel and alex got in a fight, and daniel ran away. it said that when they found daniel he was dead and alex never got to apoligize and tell him how much he loves him.. i hope that not true D: but alex is such a good guy. r.i.p. daniel <3
DXnortherndownpourXD 8 months ago
There's 6 heartless pricks out there that don't know what love feels like..... r.i.p. daniel.
DXnortherndownpourXD 8 months ago
so i thought the whole song would be slow, and then when it got all loud and stuff i was like WOAAAH
dogzrock142 8 months ago
I know exactly how Alex feel's,, right to the core,
I love this song so much, It has helped me though a lot of time's, And I'm sure it will, in year's to come, <3
RawrGoesTheCat 8 months ago
every time i'm feeling depressed and that like just want to end my life just listen to this song. reminds me that there are people out there that do care and that if i did there is other people would be hurting. all time low has literally has save my life about 10 times now. and do know haw t feel to lose someone close to you due to suicide i LOVE all time low and no one can change that <3
alicia28ifly 8 months ago
I've Been listening to this song for a long time....But it still makes me tear up. I Feel so bad for Alex. No one should go through that Stuff. I Know he's okay Now, And Im pretty sure he's thankful he Has Rian,Zack,Jack, And The crew there for him..
FallenDemise98 8 months ago 2
alex does not deserve to blam himself for his brothers pass away. alex we feel ur pain. :( r.i.p daniel :(
sarahandlauren111 8 months ago
those 6 people who disliked the song don't know what the songs REALLY about. 'cause once you learn that it's all about his suicidal brother, its completely different. them 6 people don't know what it's like to loose someone, especially when they purposefully kill themselves. im so sorry,
XxemersinxX 9 months ago
When you realize what this song is about it hits you in a whole different way
TheBrookio 9 months ago 4
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TheBrookio 9 months ago
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"This goes out to anybody that feels alone , anybody that has ever felt betrayed , anybody who doesn't feel comfortable in their own skin because of the people around them. Be who you are no matter what! I swear to God you are the most fucking beautiful people, don't let anybody change your mind."
- Alex Gaskarth
So much god damn respect for this guy.
nadiajeffrie 9 months ago 4
Allllll timeeeee lowww
kionn100 9 months ago
dead, like a candle you burnt out. spill the wax over the spaces left in place of angry words...
AlltimelowFTW131 9 months ago
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BigCityBreakdown 9 months ago
@HaleyNicoleSumner I am so sorry to hear tht.......... i rly am..... but like my mom always sed to me ' dnt cry becuz its ovr. smile cuz it happened' idk if tht helped at all...... all i kno is tht it always helped me wen i was missing sum1....... stay strong.....
Roblover12 9 months ago
Takes a brave man to write a song about a something so life changing and painful to happen and have the guts to sing it , Sorry about your brother Alex, I know I would never be able to do that if my brother died, this song makes me aprcate my older brother more and I should spend time with him because others arent as lucky, I am sorry about your brother Alex I truly am and thankyou for writing the song xx
MiSsMoZzEr123 9 months ago 244
This song made me Cry myself to sleep.I'm so sorry Gavin,I shouldn't have said those things to you.Now you're gone and I can never apoligize.I Miss you,So much.You were my Safe place,My Rock,Now your gone.I guess it's just me against the world now.
HaleyNicoleSumner 9 months ago 6
:( I love this song makes me cry Rip Daniel <3
43sunlight 9 months ago 3
I feel soo sorry for Alex :::'(:( did his brother really kill himself bcoz Atl got famous n he felt unapreciated? I Dnt blame anyone the least Alex but that's what I heard I want this song to be played at my funeral
LittleScarlett1998 9 months ago
@LittleScarlett1998 I think Daniel wanted attention too...(i read that somewhere)
gothicgurl57 9 months ago
@LittleScarlett1998 No he didn't commit suicide because All Time Low got famous. He killed himself in 2004. Which was 1 year after the band "formed and 3 years before So Wrong It's Right came out. All Time Low was not even close to "famous" before then. And no matter what anyone says nobody will really know why he did it. In respect to Alex I don't think it is honestly any of our business anyway.
WhatCanISay5 9 months ago 140
@WhatCanISay5 Alex's brother commited suicide bcuz they got in an arguement over Alex getting all the attention.
lovekillsmeslow 7 months ago
@lovekillsmeslow I think you should check the interviews before you say that.
thtgurl100 6 months ago
I'm getting lyrics from here tattooed on my back in honor of my dad who passed away. Looooove this song. <3
TheReganLeigh 9 months ago
i cry everytime i hear this because it reminds me of my grndfather who passed when i was only 4 years old. :'(
AllTimeLowLover2003 9 months ago