hey one question: did u ever watched tyler durden´s blueprint? because your theories about charming women are right from that! guess u have a natural talent with women :P
It always makes me feel good when I see people making videos like this VOLUNTARILY to help people, whenever somebody says that the youtube generation are narcissistic, always stealing movies with free downloading and self-centered I use people like you who give up their time to help strangers as an example :)
your hair should grow 5 inces a year you hair is growing to slow i cut of all my hair close to bald and my hair has now grow back to neck lenght with in 7 months
This one hispanic girl i like said she wouldn't date me because of the way she was "raised" and I was yea its cool its whatever and walked off.After that I felt like crap but then I thought to myself. Thats a load of bull shit I kno dam well she is attracted to me and I started to laugh at myself and her. Because first off My dark skin is unique and exotic.I look around and all i see is straight hair pale ass people with no color at all. And I look at myself and im like dam Im Fucking Hot.
Okay I can understand what you're saying here. But I don't understand this philosophy for anyone who wants any kind of job...Or any kind of advancement in the world.
i love listening to you talk i thank you are a very smart and intelligent young man and i look up to you alot i love the way how you speek the truth about things and thats what i like about you im so glad i found your videos!!! keep them coming!
You are truly an angel in disguise.For yrs I let other people's opinion of me bring me down.This is the most powerful speech I have ever heard in my life,EVERYTHING you said was the fuckin truth my nigga!I can't thank you enough!
Great dude i'm white and your black and you know what i don't give a fuck about that i liked your video about skinny vs muscular too thanks alot keep up
Yo you know when you said that people will talk about you no matter what is true. Especially people who are insecure about themselves will always try to find something wrong with other people.Alot of what you said is true but it's easier said than done. Self acceptance takes along time because the one thing that bothers you can effect alot of different parts of your life. I have to commend you though on such a great video, you spoke very well and gave the truth.
a true man thats what i alwayz say u really hav fi appricate what u got but the thing is u can talk an talk but u can only say so much these ppl just hav to realize it for dem self.
lmao cuz of this video, every time someone tells me something about me, I take it upon myself to give them my opinion about them, and they get offended and walk off like "how dare you!" lmao you lay it down Jay, don't stop
Lil bra you keep it so real, you hold you own and you got chrisma and natural flare so keep it going just the way you doin it cuz you can go further than NEW YORK. Stay original
I agree with you 100%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is awesome, and funny {because it's real}, and so true. Thanks so much for this, more people gotta know this
4:00 part u were 100% right jay . as years went by i learned to stop thinkin of what people thought about me . i dress for my own comfort not to impress anyone. make more vids. and i have still yet to see a women that wants me im 6'3 and women still dotn want me idk were you ppl are getting this women want tall people thing from .
Jay this was a great video!! It reminded me that there are people in this world that have it way worse then me. Today I was complaining because I got my hair cut and she did not cut enough of it, when in reality thats a very minor problem. I think we can be our worse enemy at times there is already enough people that will bash us soo we need to love and uplift ourselves=)
@mskrissygurl I do my own hair better than the shop... i just dont do them often because they take over 3-4 hours for me do too, and i dont need to get anything twisted! People need to mind their own business and worry about themselves instead of focusing on my hair!
NAAH your hair looks good now, its always good to change once in a while its not like you will stay like that forever people like to change from time to time...I was also going throught this as i didnt want to seem like a show off but as long as what i do keeps me happy and as long as i know that i am not a show off thats what counts...There is always going to be someone that disagrees with you anyway...We only live once so lets try to live a life worth remembering
Lol I don't care what nobody says that style is all you, real people don't follow trends they set them. Some people just dip the tips you didn't but it looks cute on you whoever doesn't like it oh well they don't have to where it in there head and if they don't want to see it simply shut there eyes. I'm Glad you don't allow the masses to effect your life my brotha!
I love you..lol OMG. Fava Flav. I have a new job to start tomorrow. You just gave me a boost of confidence cuz all dem people gone be looking at me tomorrow.
Man, we might not like the color, But Jarnell does and thats ALL that matters. I was clappin when you said you dont give a fuck about what we thought about the dye color.
You a strong ass brotha, I appreciate your spread of positivity. DO YOU, thats all there is to it.
@NoLaTvShow Man NOLA, you definitely got some self esteem issues. Cause you always talkin about someboyd looks and uplifting yours. Thats a sign of a insecure person who is hiding their shit. Yo ass got some issues man, Then you had the damn nerve to come on here lying on jay'z subscribers(me and many others) on that look competition. You do got self esteem problems so just cut the bullshit, Fraud ass hoe nigga
dam jay you went straight the fuck in in this video and you made good points bro everybody thats bitching about being short, ugly, or dark needs to understand that at least its not bad as having aids or looking deformed good vid tho bruh
I think you should be a preacher :) you'd make a great one.. you know when to raise your voice... or even when u take those long pauses to let it all sink in lmao PERFECT for a preacher !!!
17:21-17:39 i couldnt help but laugh the way u described this. I know its cruel for me to cheeze tho. All that stuff is exact. I mean...it was never society that judged me. most of tha time it was my own fam homie. How would u react if ur mother was pressuring u to change urself? gimme some insight.
Jay love i'm a new subscriber and I really love all your videos you crack me up lol and you touch on some good subjects. I'm a black woman and i have natural hair and I do it for me not for anybody else that's why I love this video and your other ones b/c it reminds me of exactly why i do the things i want and why i don't just do thingd to please somebody else.
People will always have something to say. It's just part of life. What may be pretty and sexy to one person may be ugly and disgusting to another, but we should not care about what people think of us. Otherwise, we would all probably be following after white people since they are the ones who told us we were ugly in the 1st place.
The focus should be what lies within BUT also Be the best you can be spiritually, physically, mentally, etc for YOURSELF ONLY not for some man, woman, priest, etc
Dawg, I have had locks since 2001 but I never keep em more than 2 years so I constantly start over-(which is why I rock wigs too) Right now i am starting new locs, I have very tightly coiled hairs-aka-my shit is nappy, baby. Oh yes-u said some real stuff when u said if u get to a woman emotionally you got ger...so tru. Bless
i think the only appear short because the roots need to be twisted, they are nice btw. i love locks im growing some. they would look extra cool with blue color at the tips. :)
@JAYLOVE47 yeah its like when you work out because you care about being healthy and stuff...THEY ALWAYS COMPLAIN about why are you built? Why dont you drink alcohol? Why dont you smoke? Why dont you go to clubs very often? etc,etc,etc....When you have an advantage over them they also start haiting you for it and think you think you are better than them
people judging on others do that to hide their insecurity's sometimes. i think.
TheTauro85 3 days ago
I like this guy, he has a few points and he's funny - I know you aint trying to impress me- however you have !!!
Eventsandthings 4 weeks ago
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tankeest 1 month ago
hey one question: did u ever watched tyler durden´s blueprint? because your theories about charming women are right from that! guess u have a natural talent with women :P
Sleepyabess 3 months ago
I really loved this video. You are speaking the truth. I really loved this video.
Icec0Id0 4 months ago
Thanks Bro for the reality check:)
youtv7299 4 months ago
nice, positive words
TheSpecial1Luv 5 months ago
If anyone pisses you off, just smoke some weed :D
xXwoody2k11Xx 5 months ago
you need a little I dont give a fuck in your system -gospel
356diane 5 months ago
your videos are truely an inspiration to me and your a great speaker. you always know what to say and it helps me get through the day. thanks man
futballa24 8 months ago
You just boosted my self confidence jay!
BlindFocus1 8 months ago
amen brother im white but your words are gospell !!!
joshuadiesel 8 months ago
It always makes me feel good when I see people making videos like this VOLUNTARILY to help people, whenever somebody says that the youtube generation are narcissistic, always stealing movies with free downloading and self-centered I use people like you who give up their time to help strangers as an example :)
Ihatemyusernamemore 9 months ago
15:32 wtf hAPPEND TO YOUR VOICE!
PatrickA455 9 months ago
that shit was deep thanks man
gcousley 10 months ago
I love you. You have really influenced my life.
IcetricX 10 months ago
your hair should grow 5 inces a year you hair is growing to slow i cut of all my hair close to bald and my hair has now grow back to neck lenght with in 7 months
Samuel115s 11 months ago
This one hispanic girl i like said she wouldn't date me because of the way she was "raised" and I was yea its cool its whatever and walked off.After that I felt like crap but then I thought to myself. Thats a load of bull shit I kno dam well she is attracted to me and I started to laugh at myself and her. Because first off My dark skin is unique and exotic.I look around and all i see is straight hair pale ass people with no color at all. And I look at myself and im like dam Im Fucking Hot.
YoungBlackStud95 1 year ago
great video man not only does it explain a lot of great stuff but ur funny as hell man
nazca32 1 year ago
Okay I can understand what you're saying here. But I don't understand this philosophy for anyone who wants any kind of job...Or any kind of advancement in the world.
BeastNation2009 1 year ago
you are an inspiration. Thank you so much for such a wonderful and moving speech. God bless.
b45100 1 year ago
i love listening to you talk i thank you are a very smart and intelligent young man and i look up to you alot i love the way how you speek the truth about things and thats what i like about you im so glad i found your videos!!! keep them coming!
2008jamster 1 year ago
I love listening to you talk ... It puts me at ease ...
ICETSUCKS 1 year ago
hey why do you keep restarting your locks???????????
FlowerRFabulous 1 year ago
You are truly an angel in disguise.For yrs I let other people's opinion of me bring me down.This is the most powerful speech I have ever heard in my life,EVERYTHING you said was the fuckin truth my nigga!I can't thank you enough!
Joker16707 1 year ago 5
This inspired me a lot dude thanks a lot !
csplayerforever 1 year ago
Great dude i'm white and your black and you know what i don't give a fuck about that i liked your video about skinny vs muscular too thanks alot keep up
csplayerforever 1 year ago
Great man !
csplayerforever 1 year ago
Yo you know when you said that people will talk about you no matter what is true. Especially people who are insecure about themselves will always try to find something wrong with other people.Alot of what you said is true but it's easier said than done. Self acceptance takes along time because the one thing that bothers you can effect alot of different parts of your life. I have to commend you though on such a great video, you spoke very well and gave the truth.
alreadycrowning 1 year ago
a true man thats what i alwayz say u really hav fi appricate what u got but the thing is u can talk an talk but u can only say so much these ppl just hav to realize it for dem self.
misshottness11 1 year ago
Best video from you Jay. Hands down.
teranwinborne33 1 year ago
lmao cuz of this video, every time someone tells me something about me, I take it upon myself to give them my opinion about them, and they get offended and walk off like "how dare you!" lmao you lay it down Jay, don't stop
FindTheBody 1 year ago
GOD bless you!
loltankbo 1 year ago
preach it
MsJbarbie 1 year ago
shave that shit off the side of your cheeks jay
tariqziyad 1 year ago
truth
MsCutess 1 year ago
Lil bra you keep it so real, you hold you own and you got chrisma and natural flare so keep it going just the way you doin it cuz you can go further than NEW YORK. Stay original
Andrededmond96 1 year ago
GOOD JAY LOVE
sp1241 1 year ago
Damn bro , you just boosted my confidence . I am glad i found your videos.
manufran02 1 year ago 15
dang man...you attract some retards man. my hair is only a little past my shoulders and it's been 3.5 years....whuteva. do you!
sublimityeternal 1 year ago
you looked so funny on here jarnell..lol..lol..lol.. i mean you look so..so.. young...
barbaravann1967 1 year ago
you are so right!!!!! jarnelll you never lie... about that i was listening and i was like wow!!!! this brother is putting his thing down.. on here
barbaravann1967 1 year ago 2
@barbaravann1967 hahahahaha lmbao! Young? I have a baby face like you... so when i get 42 ima like 35 lmbao
JAYLOVE47 1 year ago
@barbaravann1967
sp1241 1 year ago
Ur tha first person i done ever seen on youtube who spit this much truth!! Amen to this video! Great inspirational video j & nice locks
mzlangston20 1 year ago 11
My...my....
So even "camel bone" Charlie Wilson should reflect on your wisdom in this particular video?
You are one contradictory little so and so,Sybil.
gammerstang2009 1 year ago
this is an awesome vid, thumbs up!
IMthere4you1 1 year ago
I agree with you 100%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is awesome, and funny {because it's real}, and so true. Thanks so much for this, more people gotta know this
FindTheBody 1 year ago
PREACH BROTHER!
M6Heathen 1 year ago
Great video!
oanunkor 1 year ago
4:00 part u were 100% right jay . as years went by i learned to stop thinkin of what people thought about me . i dress for my own comfort not to impress anyone. make more vids. and i have still yet to see a women that wants me im 6'3 and women still dotn want me idk were you ppl are getting this women want tall people thing from .
extreme1is1me 1 year ago
Jay this was a great video!! It reminded me that there are people in this world that have it way worse then me. Today I was complaining because I got my hair cut and she did not cut enough of it, when in reality thats a very minor problem. I think we can be our worse enemy at times there is already enough people that will bash us soo we need to love and uplift ourselves=)
givein2mee82958 1 year ago
U know I love it when u keeping it 100% as u always do!.......... Yes, Fuck the dumb shit!
chyna2038 1 year ago
I like your video. it's great. Word up.
sakinwale 1 year ago
good video =)
sacredgoddess 1 year ago
"Ma hair be hangin'" LMAO!!!!!!!!!!
anniiramea 1 year ago
You need to get them twisted up!
mskrissygurl 1 year ago
@mskrissygurl I do my own hair better than the shop... i just dont do them often because they take over 3-4 hours for me do too, and i dont need to get anything twisted! People need to mind their own business and worry about themselves instead of focusing on my hair!
JAYLOVE47 1 year ago
@JAYLOVE47 she was just giving u a suggestion, god.
sairaj1 6 months ago
they look long to me as a black man your hair is kinky so you you carnt see the lenth if you strightend it it would look longer
sailorxxc 1 year ago
What kind of tattoo is on your arm ?
LaMer5694 1 year ago
NAAH your hair looks good now, its always good to change once in a while its not like you will stay like that forever people like to change from time to time...I was also going throught this as i didnt want to seem like a show off but as long as what i do keeps me happy and as long as i know that i am not a show off thats what counts...There is always going to be someone that disagrees with you anyway...We only live once so lets try to live a life worth remembering
firethrower1000 1 year ago
nice video bro...and congrats..orlando smashed bobcats lol
DUNKOFDEATH34 1 year ago
@DUNKOFDEATH34 Hahahahahaha lmbao! Yep! 3 more whoopings to go til the 2nd round
JAYLOVE47 1 year ago
@JAYLOVE47 lol yeah man bobcats played so crap lol..superman was killing them on D
DUNKOFDEATH34 1 year ago
@JAYLOVE47 thanks jaylove this video has helped me see what really counts is what makes you happy not others happy
firethrower1000 1 year ago
Tell it JayLove47....I'm taking your advice. I needed to hear it.
Essencejournal 1 year ago
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teeveedee5 1 year ago
Lol I don't care what nobody says that style is all you, real people don't follow trends they set them. Some people just dip the tips you didn't but it looks cute on you whoever doesn't like it oh well they don't have to where it in there head and if they don't want to see it simply shut there eyes. I'm Glad you don't allow the masses to effect your life my brotha!
egomaniaxxl 1 year ago
I love your hair especially wen you put a headband on :)
qutie2day 1 year ago
I love you..lol OMG. Fava Flav. I have a new job to start tomorrow. You just gave me a boost of confidence cuz all dem people gone be looking at me tomorrow.
MsParadiseWaters 1 year ago
I think ur hair is cool!
SivvySiv 1 year ago
Good vid fam..
firedreadz 1 year ago
Being unique is the ish. Good video!
bronzeddiamond 1 year ago
i be laughing when you look at the Cam like your never been on a Video Before lol.
20:18-20:25
Montag1992 1 year ago 2
★★★★★
Blacksnyder 1 year ago
yea i totally agree with everything you said and your hair looks awesome
VeroNevermind1990 1 year ago
Oyyyyyyyyyye someone has been talking about your hair dye. I can tell.
111Treasury 1 year ago
Man, we might not like the color, But Jarnell does and thats ALL that matters. I was clappin when you said you dont give a fuck about what we thought about the dye color.
You a strong ass brotha, I appreciate your spread of positivity. DO YOU, thats all there is to it.
biracial910 1 year ago
I like the videos you do now, I relate to it alot.
biracial910 1 year ago
@NoLaTvShow Man NOLA, you definitely got some self esteem issues. Cause you always talkin about someboyd looks and uplifting yours. Thats a sign of a insecure person who is hiding their shit. Yo ass got some issues man, Then you had the damn nerve to come on here lying on jay'z subscribers(me and many others) on that look competition. You do got self esteem problems so just cut the bullshit, Fraud ass hoe nigga
biracial910 1 year ago
dam jay you went straight the fuck in in this video and you made good points bro everybody thats bitching about being short, ugly, or dark needs to understand that at least its not bad as having aids or looking deformed good vid tho bruh
Younginfamous4 1 year ago
I think you should be a preacher :) you'd make a great one.. you know when to raise your voice... or even when u take those long pauses to let it all sink in lmao PERFECT for a preacher !!!
beautifulplaya 1 year ago
I love listening to you ....................... i am quite sure a lot of what you have said has touched everyone in one way or another .....
ankae76 1 year ago 2
I love your hair! I would love to wear locs! You look fabulous! I think you are sooo fine :)
Apriluv7779 1 year ago
i know...you gotta hate that shrinkage!!!
joyariffic 1 year ago
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teeveedee5 1 year ago
17:21-17:39 i couldnt help but laugh the way u described this. I know its cruel for me to cheeze tho. All that stuff is exact. I mean...it was never society that judged me. most of tha time it was my own fam homie. How would u react if ur mother was pressuring u to change urself? gimme some insight.
jerseydee703 1 year ago
omg lmfao 15;14 & 15;26-15;33 idk da way he says it idk man lmfao dis dude
miaseymour 1 year ago
I love you videos!!!
christina8431 1 year ago
i know right ! i be like . . why are u so worried about whats on MY body?????
MizzWestPhilly215 1 year ago
Jay love i'm a new subscriber and I really love all your videos you crack me up lol and you touch on some good subjects. I'm a black woman and i have natural hair and I do it for me not for anybody else that's why I love this video and your other ones b/c it reminds me of exactly why i do the things i want and why i don't just do thingd to please somebody else.
MsDangeroust 1 year ago
People will always have something to say. It's just part of life. What may be pretty and sexy to one person may be ugly and disgusting to another, but we should not care about what people think of us. Otherwise, we would all probably be following after white people since they are the ones who told us we were ugly in the 1st place.
The focus should be what lies within BUT also Be the best you can be spiritually, physically, mentally, etc for YOURSELF ONLY not for some man, woman, priest, etc
keshawn888 1 year ago
Dawg, I have had locks since 2001 but I never keep em more than 2 years so I constantly start over-(which is why I rock wigs too) Right now i am starting new locs, I have very tightly coiled hairs-aka-my shit is nappy, baby. Oh yes-u said some real stuff when u said if u get to a woman emotionally you got ger...so tru. Bless
ccleroy1234 1 year ago
i think the only appear short because the roots need to be twisted, they are nice btw. i love locks im growing some. they would look extra cool with blue color at the tips. :)
nikenerd718 1 year ago
Why do you keep starting over?
mcnuggetssmcnuggetss 1 year ago
@mcnuggetssmcnuggetss I didn't start over.... these locs are from July 09
JAYLOVE47 1 year ago
@JAYLOVE47 stop dying your hair it will fuck it up and give your hair cancer lol but really stop it will fuck up your.
Sader2202 1 year ago
@JAYLOVE47 yeah its like when you work out because you care about being healthy and stuff...THEY ALWAYS COMPLAIN about why are you built? Why dont you drink alcohol? Why dont you smoke? Why dont you go to clubs very often? etc,etc,etc....When you have an advantage over them they also start haiting you for it and think you think you are better than them
firethrower1000 1 year ago
@mcnuggetssmcnuggetss He started over before because he didn't feel like keeping them anymore,, but now he's keeping them and growing them longer
beautifulplaya 1 year ago